GeekCreek Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
51	[Field Report] My Red Pill Paradigm Shift - Who Knew I Would Be Happier?	[FIELD REPORT]	GeekCreek	/r/RedPillWomen	22/12/14 07:20 PM

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2	Another virgin question (cute vs sexy) Be the classiest version of yourself that you can be. You shouldn't have to worry about tweaking your personality as long as you don't have some serious character flaws - what makes us interesting as people are our unique styles, interests, and ways of interacting with the world. You say people call you sexy and hot, but also calm, collected and sweet, and that sounds like a good balance to me. Since they don't call your personality sexy, that sounds like you aren't being trashy, and since they …	/r/RedPillWomen	27/12/14 05:53 PM
1	[Field Report] My Red Pill Paradigm Shift - Who Knew I Would Be Happier? Imagine that, right?? ;)	/r/RedPillWomen	27/12/14 05:34 PM
8	How has your weight affected your relationship with your SO? I've never had a dramatic amount of weight loss, but about a year after my now-husband and I had started dating, we gained the "comfort weight". He was about 30 pounds heavier, and I was about 15. When we got engaged, we decided we were going to work our butts off to look great for the wedding, and we started a fitness program together, as well as changing how we ate. We got all the weight off and then some, and we've maintained and increased our fitness since then. The biggest change I noticed …	/r/RedPillWomen	23/12/14 03:32 PM
1	[Field Report] My Red Pill Paradigm Shift - Who Knew I Would Be Happier? You're quite right. If you saw me on the street, you'd probably go "Oh my gosh, look at that crazy feminist-looking B. I wonder if she's a lesbian..." :p Edit: that's a bit overdramatic - I'm not all pierced up or mannish, but I'm not a paragon of femininity. Husband loves the way I look, and I hope that if he ever grew tired of my hair/wardrobe that he'd say so. I like changing up my look and hair every few years, and I think we're both enjoying the novelty of this phase.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/12/14 03:23 PM
2	[Field Report] My Red Pill Paradigm Shift - Who Knew I Would Be Happier? I feel a little ashamed now of the times I really wigged out and started some unnecessary argument with Mr. GeekCreek now that I've woken up to it a bit. Thankfully I don't think we ever got to the point where he'd feel relief if I went out of town, but I'm extremely glad that I've caught it at this stage and can work on stopping any further incidences of unnecessary freak-outs.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/12/14 03:21 PM
10	[Field Report] My Red Pill Paradigm Shift - Who Knew I Would Be Happier? This! The first thing I took away from RP was to stop being so freaking selfish. It wasn't my husband's responsibility to make me happy by dancing around my whims and demands. It was my job to nurture a peaceful environment for the both of us, and that involved first just getting off his back about as many things as I could: his driving, his chore-doing, his schedule, so on.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/12/14 03:15 PM
2	[Field Report] My Red Pill Paradigm Shift - Who Knew I Would Be Happier? "Not being a planner" has been a really slow process. I'm much better than I was a month ago, and MUCH better than I was a year ago. What I'm trying to avoid entirely is operating under the illusion of "not being a planner" and letting my husband "define" the plan while still being manic about the details. To my understanding, that's not RP - (giving the "illusion of control" but still retaining it as a wife). My husband is generally uninterested in planning things like vacations or trips where …	/r/RedPillWomen	23/12/14 03:07 PM
2	[Field Report] My Red Pill Paradigm Shift - Who Knew I Would Be Happier? You're both absolutely right: I've always tried to keep in mind the General/Lieutenant analogy - actually the Picard/Riker reference has always struck a chord with me :D. I know my husband doesn't want a doormat, nor does he want to make all the decisions himself (or have to tell me all the time what to do, that would be just as annoying.) If I feel strongly about something, I know he would want to take that into consideration as well as any important information I might have.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/12/14 02:48 PM
10	This made me so disgusted... Seriously. My husband leaves his shoes in the walkway ALL the time, and I trip over them about as often. What do I do? Laugh at myself, pick them up and move them out of the way, or put them back in the closet for him. If that's the kind of stuff that irritates her, she should be looking at how she's dealing with things rather than the fact that he's not making her life 100% convenient and perfect and orderly.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/12/14 05:05 PM
2	Apps for monitoring her period I'm a bit late to the show, but I use FMC - Female Menstrual Calendar. Got a nice, color-coded layout that's easy to read. (shows days of fertility and day of ovulation.)	/r/MarriedRedPill	18/12/14 09:58 PM