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| 0 | What are the signs you're more attractive than you think you are?No, I want something concrete. No more vague abstract advice. Make up a story of this in action. | /r/seduction | 23/05/23 12:55 PM |
| 3 | What are the signs you're more attractive than you think you are?What exactly do you mean by godlike confidence? Give an example. | /r/seduction | 23/05/23 12:30 PM |
| 1 | I think I’ve made a realization about the “female gaze” and why it seems like women tend to underestimate the importance of looksNow here’s the thing about looks that gives it the advantage: looks are generally static and thus will give a woman that feeling you’re speaking of without even trying. With charisma and other abstract things, you need to always be “on” which can get tiring and cause you to slip up. | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Went on a date, kissed, ghosted. Wtf?I know this. Trust me, I’m a hard believer that physical attraction is the most important part of seduction. Sometimes you’re just attractive enough to get only one chance. If you blow it, she’s on to the next guy. | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 11:06 PM |
| 8 | Went on a date, kissed, ghosted. Wtf?My theory is that it causes women to overthink and basically cut their losses before they make too much investment into what they convince themselves is the wrong guy. If you don’t kiss at all, she has no reason to overthink. If you take it past kissing and try to fuck, she convinced herself that she wants you. Another theory that I have is that only kissing signals to her that you’re not sexually experienced. | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 06:39 PM |
| 19 | Went on a date, kissed, ghosted. Wtf?I’ll tell you what happened. You took too damn long to meet her, so she built you up in her head. Now when you finally meet her after all that tension, all she gets from you is a kiss… Women actually tend to drop men for NOT going for the lay even if it’s the first date. It doesn’t help that you also made sexual comments and got a good response. My numbers have increased by attempting to go all the way. Even if it’s no, they won’t ghost me and I’ll get another chance. | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 03:42 PM |
| 5 | Does ignoring girls work?It only works if she already wants you. Basically, it’s more of an amplifier than an actual cause of attraction. Most normal women don’t care for the attention of guys they don’t want. | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 04:36 PM |
| 0 | Are women overly picky from all the options they have with modern dating?I’d also add that you can’t rely on game for online since you can only really display it AFTER you match with your target. | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 11:26 PM |
| 4 | Correlation does not = causation. Case study: The GymCome to NYC and you’ll meet confident dudes who get shot down constantly. You can’t just have confidence by itself. It’s great for making friends but not enough for a woman to want to have sex with you. | /r/seduction | 12/10/22 11:29 AM |
| 42 | I texted my roommate come here and snuggle with meNo don’t call yourself a moron. OP, it honestly doesn’t matter what you do in this situation. As long you don’t come across as angry, you’ll keep her as a friend. But understand that nothing you do will make her want to fuck you | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 01:40 PM |
| 1 | It’s not to do with looks, it’s how you feel about yourselfYou’re a straight male assuming those women don’t find those guys attractive. | /r/seduction | 30/09/22 11:19 PM |
| 1 | It’s not to do with looks, it’s how you feel about yourselfThis is nonsense. There are many super confident guys who still struggle due to their looks. Women are no different than men—they care about physical attraction. This sort of advice is what created the incel movement in the first place. A bunch of guys constantly being told that HOT women will like them no matter what they look like and then lashing out when it turns out to be false. Lying to men will never help. In fact when I accepted that women value looks, my confidence increased immensely. … | /r/seduction | 30/09/22 06:22 PM |
| 4 | Some inspiration for you to go talk to that cute girl you sawYou got the right answer. If she’s not attracted to you, nothing you say will get her to sleep with you. Literally just don’t be too needy or creepy and you’ll always get the women that want you back. | /r/seduction | 29/09/22 11:32 AM |
| 2 | I’ve (27M) got 5 dates booked this week, but I suck balls at escalation. Any tips or advice?I see Models recommended everyday on here | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 10:51 PM |
| 0 | Is it ok to call a girl out on her bs?Tell her what time and where to meet you in one text and then just stop until she texts back I’m on my way | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 10:58 PM |
| 9 | What's the difference between the guys who get the girls and the guys who don't?Because you’re judging them through the eyes of a MALE. Chances are those women think otherwise. | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 10:26 AM |
| 3 | Depressed because lack of sexOh I saw it. But it’s still a vague bullshit cliché answer. Address which underlying issues exactly? How should he address them? How then will that lead to sex? Will pussy magically fall on his lap afterwards? What will he be able to do with an expanded social circle that he couldn’t do with his current circle? Will some new person offer him pussy? | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 09:27 AM |
| 5 | Depressed because lack of sexHe said nothing wrong and you said nothing on how to change anything. | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 09:19 AM |
| 6 | Do women like a myseterious guy?You first have to understand what a woman means by “mysterious”. They don’t mean walking around in all black and a cloak. Mystery to a woman means not knowing where she stands with you in terms of commitment. She thinks that you like her but she also thinks you might drop her at any point. The thing is she has to have some amount of investment in you for her to care. Just existing is not gonna make her care about your mysteriousness. | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 11:32 AM |
| 4 | To the ladies who are in and or read this sub: Do you enjoy when a guy approaches you in public? at the store? coffee shop? out in town?I like how honest you are about this, but the reason he keeps stating it is because most people in this sub are not like you. Most people here keep claiming that you can look like anything and still get the hottest women while being broke as long as you have “confidence”. | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 10:11 AM |
| 5 | I’m into taller women, how should I go about seducing them?The same way you seduce any woman | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 01:24 PM |
| 3 | I want to seduce a girl and bring her to my hotelThe fact that he/she told you that image doesn’t matter when trying to have sex with a stranger and you believed him is proof that you’re not ready for this. Women are proven to be pickier than men when it comes to looks ESPECIALLY for casual sec with strangers. The truth is that its going to be a numbers game where you’ll have to simply check for the women that are most attracted to you. | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Toxic advice in the book "models"So, no doesn’t mean no? | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 11:44 PM |
| 3 | Toxic advice in the book "models"If she doesn’t find you attractive in the first place, this can have some disastrous outcomes… | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 11:43 PM |
| 124 | Why do girls always ask why am I `quiet’?Listen, when a woman wants to talk to you she’ll use any excuse to do so. | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 02:16 AM |
| 1 | What’s the point in working on yourself if you have women dating guys that don’t?Because you’re not that guy. Chances are he has something you don’t have like better looks or sex. | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 04:04 AM |
| 2 | Bit worried someone I'm seeing casually is catching feelings?She already caught feelings the second she laid eyes on you. Most women won’t fuck you without having strong feelings for you. Just keep doing what you’re doing. | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 01:57 PM |
| 4 | Vacation game pointersThis is easy. You’re in a foreign country. Ask them if they know any good spots. If they’re attracted to you, they may offer to show you around. If they don’t offer, just say something like “you’re cool. I think we should hang out before I go back”. As for showing interest and “flanter”, the key is to do it from the beginning. Compliment their hair or clothes or whatever. They’ll eat it up because of the accent. | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 01:52 PM |
| 5 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.Dude, the only thing you did that I think had any effect at all was escalating. I give you props for that since most guys on here seem to always forget to escalate. | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 01:20 PM |
| 7 | Girl not ordering any food, drinks etc on dates?This is the correct answer. | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 09:47 AM |
| 2 | I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...I like your last point. A lot of advice on here leaves out the part where women have to find you physically attractive to want to casually fuck you outside of a committed relationship. Can you give a concrete example of the part where you said “bringing that subtext to the surface” in your first point? | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 09:39 AM |
| 1 | 12 Signs She’s Into YouThese are all legit except for 2, 6, 8, and 9. Those only matter when they’re in combination with several other signs. | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 02:32 PM |
| 14 | 13 Ways To Make Her Want YouCan we stop with this lie that women don’t care about a guy’s looks? They absolutely do. Maybe not all, but many women care about physical attraction as much as men do. That doesn’t mean they don’t care about personality and status also, but there’s a reason why you hear women talk about men they find good looking. They have eyes too. They can choose any reason for why they want a man and physical attraction is often one of them. Edit: and by “looks” I mean face. Sure working out and a nice hair… | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 11:43 AM |
| 7 | I don’t want to have relationships, I just want to hook up with a girl.Muscles are not the only thing that makes someone “hot”. Your face, skin, teeth, and hair are also important. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 01:16 PM |
| 5 | Cold Approach is BrutalTurn those cold approaches into warm approaches. Put yourself in lots of different situations and locations and go for the women who show you interest first. You should be weeding out the women who aren’t interested before you even close so you save yourself the heartache. I had worse stats than you until I switched to warm approaches and filtering. Now I get about 1 lay for every 10 approaches. | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 02:29 PM |
| 2 | I stopped giving her validation by muting her social media posts/stories, and she came backThe thing is she doesn’t know his motivation for ignoring her. | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 07:44 PM |
| 13 | I stopped giving her validation by muting her social media posts/stories, and she came backOnly if she’s attracted to you. | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 07:42 PM |
| 3 | How do some guys make girls obsessed with them?YOU don’t find him attractive because you are presumably a straight male. | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls come back to my place but leave instantly?Are you gonna tell us what these “checks” are? | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 09:58 AM |
| 133 | How do you defuse people who call you a creep for dating younger women? Why is there so much hate on some subreddits for men in their 30s who date/seduce ADULT women in their early to mid 20s?The hate is usually from young guys who don’t want competition from you or older women who don’t want competition from the 20 year olds. | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 11:48 AM |
| 0 | Is it easy to get laid if I’m skinny and short ?You’re making a huge reach | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Is it easy to get laid if I’m skinny and short ?Can you give an example of this stuff in action? Like the last time you used it | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Do girls talk to each other about a guy they think is hot?All the time. This subreddit really has you guys thinking that women hate good looking men or something… | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Question to all the guys who actively get lucky with girlsActually I don’t. I only go for women who show high interest from the start. | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 06:49 PM |
| 18 | I think I finally understand relationships with women.I’ve found that when a woman is highly attracted to you all of this seduction stuff works itself out somehow. | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 09:30 AM |
| 1 | Is there actually dark psychology stuff to make a girl fall in love ?What exactly is it? | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Do you think women give men bad dating advice on purpose?I don’t care who is giving the advice as long as it is measurable. | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 02:09 PM |
| 3 | The gym is not the end all be all solution to get you laidExactly. Advice on here is always vague and unmeasurable. | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 09:27 AM |
| 1 | What can we learn from Pete Davidson?He’s average looking to you. A lot of women actually find him attractive. Also, he’s not some random guy off the street. He’s famous and had access to these women. | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Looks are everything. Especially if you are a guy.OP, this sub is very old school PUA. To them, women apparently cannot feel or not feel physical attraction for a man nor can they make decisions based on that attraction. Only men can do that. | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 10:21 PM |
| 2 | So a girl at my local Wendy’s played me when I asked for her number. Then after not paying her no mind for a few weeks, she give me her number in a receipt. WHAT?!?How did she “play” you the first time? | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 10:51 AM |
| 1 | I’ve been having a lot of sex lately.I know many guys that have tried that yet still fail to pull anything in DMs. You must be doing something different. That’s why I asked for an example. | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 03:15 PM |
| 1 | I’ve been having a lot of sex lately.Give some examples of your “mouthpiece” in action. You still have some of the DMs right? | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 02:14 PM |
| 15 | I’ve been having a lot of sex lately.Most guys aren’t having luck with dating apps… | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 02:11 PM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]The problem is that most of the advice here is vague abstract shit like “be confident” or “frame” or “energy”. Things that are impossible to measure. So I can tell you that you need to be confident to get the girl of your dreams, but if you fail I can just say you weren’t confident enough despite having know real way of knowing. | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 06:42 PM |
| 5 | How to get with a materialistic woman?Dude, just take her home the next time you meet. Did you even try to have sex with her? Women say all sorts of things. | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 11:05 PM |
| 1 | As a woman you can’t seduce me by flirting if I’m not attracted to you :I know a guy who fits all of that and women still don’t want him. When I ask them why, they all say that he isn’t their type physically. | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 12:01 PM |
| 1 | As a woman you can’t seduce me by flirting if I’m not attracted to you :This is true at least for casual sex. | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 11:59 AM |
| 1 | As a woman you can’t seduce me by flirting if I’m not attracted to you :I think she means for casual sex. | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 11:57 AM |
| 1 | I screw it with girls i find interesting and rock with girls i don't care about. Is there some trick to reverse this?It’s a correlation and it’s in your head. You’re not doing anything to screw it up. The girls you find more attractive just happen to be harder to please because they have more options. They know guys that are funnier than you, better looking than you, more charismatic than you etc. My biggest issue with this sub is the idea that getting a particular woman is 100% in your control. Most single women are being courted by multiple men contrary to popular belief. You could’ve done everything “right”… | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 10:43 AM |
| 11 | Where the fuck do most guys learn this stuff?I love your second point. A lot of the guys in this sub and this community in general have a hard time accepting that some women just won’t be into you. I had a far easier time getting women when I stopped trying to get them. Instead I would let them sort themselves out. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 09:14 AM |
| 2 | Where the fuck do most guys learn this stuff?Most guys don’t "learn” it. If you ask around, you’ll find that most guys are simply being led through the process by women. The woman won’t outright make a move but she’ll give you cues for what to do. Most guys pick up on it and “follow her lead” in a sense. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 09:06 AM |
| 26 | Should I give her a hearing she deserves?Trust me don’t respond or if you do, just acknowledge the text and that’s it. Some women just hate being on bad terms and will reach out to you just to make sure you’re still cool with them before they finally ghost you completely. Don’t fall for it. | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 01:00 PM |
| 0 | Today I made conversation with a random stunning girl I approached on the streetI know. My reply to OP was explaining the second part of what I just replied to you. | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 10:02 AM |
| 10 | Today I made conversation with a random stunning girl I approached on the streetWell, yeah, especially if she’s not interested in you. When she is interested though, she won’t even think about rejecting you. See the comment I made to OP above. | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 09:43 AM |
| 17 | Today I made conversation with a random stunning girl I approached on the streetYou’re not missing anything. I want you to think about this. You said that this woman was a 10 right? Then chances are she is already in contact with better suitors. Attractive women already know guys who are funnier than you, wealthier than you, better looking etc. This sub wants to believe that any guy can get the hottest women with just a friendly conversation. The truth is that women like what they like and will often not compromise on that. If it turns out that she wasn’t interested, it was… | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 09:12 AM |
| 44 | Today I made conversation with a random stunning girl I approached on the streetBasically, she was in a situation where it was far easier to just give him the number and ignore him later rather than outright reject him on the spot. | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Got rejected last time I approaches but she’s still staringWhat do you mean by this? Can you give an example? | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 02:07 PM |
| 13 | Got rejected last time I approaches but she’s still staringI hate the term “shit test” now. These guys think everything is a shit test. Sometimes women mean what they say. | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 02:05 PM |
| 1 | If you’re on an ‘unofficial’ date and another girl comes up to you asking for your number, what would/should you do?While it’s true that women want guys that are wanted by other women, they also want THAT guy to choose them over the other women. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 02:24 PM |
| 7 | If you’re on an ‘unofficial’ date and another girl comes up to you asking for your number, what would/should you do?Right. If anything, it would be even more attractive if you turned her down. It would show that you get enough women approaching you that you don’t need to give out your number during a date. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 02:21 PM |
| 2 | What’s the best US City for a single man?I never said I had a problem getting casual sex. Idk where you got that from. Also, just because there are more women than men doesn’t mean those women are settling for whatever man they can get. They will absolutely share the best men. And I was specifically talking about attractive women. | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 02:18 AM |
| 44 | What’s the best US City for a single man?I hope no one says NYC. It’s great when it comes to the selection and variety of women. But the male competition is FIERCE. The 80/20 rule absolutely applies here. You can get a committed relationship with no problem, but regular casual sex with above average women is difficult if you’re not good looking or making good money or have status. All that “game” bullshit doesn’t matter here because the women have heard it all. No matter how funny, charming, or confident you are, she knows ten guys who… | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 02:14 PM |
| 49 | Is it easier to pull off a threesome if I’m the only guy drinking with 10 hot girls?No one is going have sex with their friend’s little cousin let alone a threesome. If you haven’t considered that then you don’t have as much game as you think you do. Just confidence. Being realistic and looking at things from others’ point of view is the part of seduction that they neglect to teach you. | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 11:10 AM |
| 2 | Looks matter..Sometimes it is. Sometimes it isn’t. As someone with a great attitude (I’ve been complimented on this by a lot of people), I can still be honest and admit that looks play a huge factor in initial attraction. Personality, attitude, and confidence only come into play afterwards. Women are human and just as shallow as men are. | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Why did this smoking hot girl turn cold?So from the comments it seems like OP found her IG without asking for it…. | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 12:02 PM |
| -1 | Girl says “I’ll text you”While that’s true, sometimes you have to go for the Hail Mary. At that point, you have nothing to lose so might as well go all out. | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 12:07 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Why did you assume those men were “way uglier than you”? You, as a straight male, can’t see what she might see. | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 02:32 AM |
| 1 | What’s the best way to make girls chase you?You can’t make a woman chase you if she doesn’t want you in the first place. If it turns out she actually wants you, all you have to do is be around her or accessible in some way and she’ll begin making moves. Contrary to popular belief, you can’t just act like you don’t care. She needs to think that she’ll eventually get you if she does chase. | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 09:35 PM |
| 2 | If you want to date 9's and 10's, daygame is the way.I’ve also daygamed in 20+ cities and have made hundreds of approaches in some of them. Have you ever considered that maybe you’re just an exceptional person? It’s possible that you have a certain look that they wanted. | /r/seduction | 19/09/21 01:57 AM |
| 1 | If you want to date 9's and 10's, daygame is the way.Well, I’m not necessarily talking about casual sex but more about relationships. Women will, however, have casual sex with people who juuuuust outside of their circle. Like mutual friends. Other than that it’s mostly coworkers and classmates. Cold approach makes up a very very small percentage of a woman’s sex life. Most women are out here sleeping with their exes or the cute guy from school or work or the guy their friend introduced them to. Edit: NY is actually one of the worst cities for dayg… | /r/seduction | 18/09/21 10:50 PM |
| 8 | If you want to date 9's and 10's, daygame is the way.Trust me. I will personally show you around the city and you’ll see guys constantly trying to stop hot women in the street. Maybe it’s a NY specific thing. | /r/seduction | 18/09/21 10:07 AM |
| 6 | If you want to date 9's and 10's, daygame is the way.Idk where you’re from, but in NY, attractive women get approached all the time. Whenever I ask a woman how many guys approach them in public, it’s always “a lot”. Also, a guy from her social circle will always have edge since trust is hard to gain from cold approaching. | /r/seduction | 18/09/21 03:59 AM |
| 16 | Apparently I'm popular in Korea, not sure how to handle the attentionActually being Indian in the Caribbean and Africa is a plus. | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 08:45 AM |
| 5 | The Real Reason You're Not Getting LaidI’m not against using Tinder. I just don’t get matches. In person is the way to go for me. Use whatever works for you. | /r/seduction | 26/11/19 03:43 PM |
| 12 | Chasing Women Vs. Attracting WomenYeah see this is one of the biggest problems with this sort of advice. If they actually do it but don’t see results, you can just say “well you didn’t do it long enough” . There are no hard facts given as to how it works and how to actually apply it. Just “trust me bro lol” | /r/seduction | 09/11/19 02:49 PM |
| 33 | Chasing Women Vs. Attracting WomenThe part that this kind of advice always leaves out is that women still need to be sexually attracted to you. Attraction cannot be created. I know plenty of guys who are exactly how you described and they’re only banging the women who were already into them before they opened their mouth. This magical aura stuff is why so many guys are so scared to talk to women. They begin overthinking their actions. Women are human. They’re not psychics who use their third eye to read your energy or something.… | /r/seduction | 09/11/19 02:44 PM |
| 3 | It isn't even about being top 20% for Tinder. It is more like being top 3-5%.Look at it like this. As a guy, I can swipe on 100 women and maybe get five matches. A woman can swipe on only twenty guys and possibly match with all twenty. I’m just going by what I hear from women and other guys besides myself who use tinder. | /r/seduction | 08/11/19 05:53 AM |
| 12 | It isn't even about being top 20% for Tinder. It is more like being top 3-5%.True, but also their standards for physical attraction isn’t as high as Tinder. Women are extra picky online and they have to be due to the amount of matches they get. | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 10:15 PM |
| 12 | Instagram Model Reveals How She Feels About “Nice Guys” and “White Knights” on LAHWF.Neediness is the number 1 killer of attraction. When a woman likes you you can get away with a lot. You’ve seen women put up with cheaters and abusers. But they will absolutely not put up with needy men. | /r/seduction | 01/11/19 02:39 PM |
| 1 | From theory to practice.Watch Alpha Male Strategies on YouTube. He’s on the more realistic side of this. No tricks, hypnosis, or calculations. Just the simple principle of women want a man who is wanted. | /r/seduction | 30/10/19 07:10 PM |
| 1 | I need to Bitch about RSD. They are Completely Done.There used to be a site called puahate that was meant to expose PUAs. I think I remember Tyler and several other RSD people being exposed on there. The site ended up becoming weird and got shut down though. | /r/seduction | 30/10/19 07:05 PM |
| 5 | Quick and dirty reminderWhen someone tells you something you must always think about WHY they're telling you. I just had a girl tell me she was studying for her midterms..... On a Friday night. Now, it may or may not be true, but if you read between the lines, it's clear she doesn't want to talk. It's also about what she DIDN'T say. She didn't ask me what I was doing in order to continue the conversation. She was effectively trying to kill it. I've been down this road many times. When women WANT you, they make it very … | /r/seduction | 05/10/19 05:18 PM |
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