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Gelnn/r/seduction22/08/13 03:01 PM
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sidebar----> NEW HERE? Read THIS then THIS. Stop reading. Approach. See where you're lacking. Search additional info.
/r/seduction22/08/13 04:11 PM
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sidebar---->
/r/seduction22/08/13 03:33 PM
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Yum!
/r/seduction21/08/13 06:52 PM
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What's "bubble tea"?
/r/seduction21/08/13 06:13 PM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/IAmA/comments/1kt1cz/iama_the_nerdy_guy_who_has_tons_of_girlfriends/
/r/seduction21/08/13 03:23 PM
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Jesus.
/r/seduction21/08/13 02:59 PM
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----->
/r/seduction21/08/13 02:41 PM
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Double Dog Dare!
/r/seduction21/08/13 02:40 PM
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The reactions on that forum are hilarious. (sp)
/r/seduction21/08/13 02:38 PM
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Killer, Kid, Kid-Rock, Dawg, .. I also love to say "What's up Frog". Cajun: Cher (short for mon cheri), Couyon (silly, crazy, dumbass)
/r/seduction20/08/13 03:51 PM
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Look over at her with an "eew" face. Then smile and give her a hug or a playful tap. Look at the person who said it, "We are a cute couple".
/r/seduction19/08/13 08:56 PM
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That seems right. It's difficult to say for sure but I still feel like most of the guys who are subscribing to this subreddit probably need to come out of their shell a bit more vs. the other way around.
/r/seduction19/08/13 05:00 PM
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Personally, I've never been a talkative person and talking during sex was always difficult for me. In my experience, all of my partners have enjoyed sex more when I could be more verbally expressive. Do you mean that girls aren't comfortable with their partners dirty talk or with talking dirty themselves?
/r/seduction19/08/13 04:32 PM
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I think your last paragraph answered your question.
/r/seduction19/08/13 03:58 PM
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It's likely that most guys need to talk way dirtier than they are, not the other way around. Depends on the girl, obviously. My last girlfriend wanted me to slap and choke her all the time. I wasn't that into it.
/r/seduction19/08/13 03:56 PM
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How the hell is anything in that post misogynist? Point it out. Explain it to me. Fucking Jeez.
/r/seduction19/08/13 03:42 PM
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Cook. Sit around the table eating, drinking & talking with friends.
/r/seduction15/08/13 09:05 PM
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I don't tolerate racism in a woman whatsoever. I stopped my car and let a chick out on the corner one time. It's tough because I'm in the deep south. I come up on that shit daily.
/r/seduction15/08/13 06:53 PM
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This one.
/r/seduction15/08/13 06:53 PM
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I'm loving the shit out of Asian girls right now. Of course, around here they seem really myopic and I haven't had an ounce of success with a single one.
/r/seduction15/08/13 05:44 PM
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Yes. It's a factor. It polarizes people more quickly. If you present a personality that is counter to the stereotype, that can be a huge advantage.
/r/seduction15/08/13 04:39 PM
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I think this is a powerful post. I have some of the same issues I think everyone here does but I had my father growing up. It's just that my father is a seriously old school cat, a war veteran and not the most open or encouraging type of dude. This type of man doesn't really have a place in today's society but there is one thing about my Dad everyone can still take to the bank. My old man sacrificed EVERYTHING for his family on a daily basis. Unfortunately, I'm not sure it always worked the way …
/r/seduction15/08/13 04:34 PM
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If someone is genuinely asking for help this is your opportunity to take things to the next level for yourself. No method to mastery like teaching. How would you do it differently the second time around?
/r/seduction15/08/13 03:37 PM
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At some point, you may have to make a scene and call some people out. Be ready to take it all the way when you do this. All the way jack. Be ready to escalate to the floor and the street. Be ready to get your ass kicked and feel good about it. Sometimes catharsis is required. You know that point where the guy being ridiculed cracks and freaks out on everybody? Well.. maybe it's time. Don't be afraid of it. Let it come. It's not the end of the world.
/r/seduction15/08/13 02:29 PM
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It's interesting that many of the comments here are similar to the ones on the linked site, if a bit more condensed. I can't listen to the video right now but reading this discussion, I agree with the observation that perhaps the problem is not entirely the fault of men but the solution to the problem most certainly will be entirely up to us.
/r/seduction15/08/13 01:57 PM
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Seriously though, the best way to be carefree while doing something that requires skill is to be extremely good at it. Take your bartending skills to the next level. Become the baddest motherfucking bartende that ever existed. Focus on fundamentals and make those tasks second nature. Then move on to more complex skills and knowledge. Then add in some next level fancy bullshit. Also, I good server knows how to shut down an obnoxious customer.
/r/seduction13/08/13 06:01 PM
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Drugs.
/r/seduction13/08/13 05:57 PM
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Do you want to fucking touch a girl or not. Yes? Good. That means you're not a total tool.
/r/seduction13/08/13 05:55 PM
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Only because you've never done it.
/r/seduction13/08/13 05:43 PM
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Read the sidebar. Small steps.
/r/seduction13/08/13 05:42 PM
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Don't text here again until you're going out then text: "Hey going to (location).. come hang." Be done with it & move on with your life. If she shows, great, you'll be talking to some other girls there too.
/r/seduction12/08/13 06:43 PM
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Jesus christ man that's a lot of work. Fuck it. Next time you're in there, if you REALLY want to fuck this chick just chat with her a bit and point blank "When do you get off?" & if she doesn't respond positively, get on with your life and try another one.
/r/seduction12/08/13 04:16 PM
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Doll yourself up in a style that reflects your personality. Be in a good mood. Behave in a nurturing, receptive and affectionate manner with perhaps a bit of challenging flirtation thrown in... generally speaking.
/r/seduction12/08/13 03:41 PM
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You guys can bitch and wine about douchebaginess and respect and misogyny all you want but the underlying facts of male to female psychology are adhered to in this post, for the most part.
/r/seduction10/08/13 09:22 PM
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/r/seduction08/08/13 08:45 PM
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You can be PUA #1 but after a certain amount of time in a relationship with one person, the claws are in hard. Fond memories are fond memories. Sounds like you still need to stay away.
/r/seduction08/08/13 08:37 PM
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I wanted him to go to like 90 and she dies and decomposes on the train & still he says nothing.
/r/seduction08/08/13 06:39 PM
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I like this one.
/r/seduction08/08/13 04:47 PM
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This and take the eye contact practice to the next level: pick one eye and stick with it.
/r/seduction08/08/13 04:07 PM
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I can dig some of the basic framing concepts but my primary thought, after reading this, is that if I find out a chick fucks a dude that doesn't know how to use your and you're properly, I'm gonna next her.
/r/seduction08/08/13 04:04 PM
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Side bar.
/r/seduction06/08/13 05:20 PM
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What's "Yad"?
/r/seduction05/08/13 05:00 PM
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100% success is 100% success. That being said. Once you've got one thing down you can try something new.
/r/seduction05/08/13 01:12 AM
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http://markmanson.net/vulnerability
/r/seduction02/08/13 08:51 PM
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It's not a big deal but maybe try to find a girl you are actually attracted to to try and kiss.
/r/seduction02/08/13 03:45 PM
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Focus on your career, finances and a plan to move out.
/r/seduction02/08/13 03:28 PM
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Hell yea.. plus, having a pet cougar and hanging out with two supermodels everywhere you go would be awesome... but yea, I fell ya. I dig those commercials and I was all over that thread. I watched the video for the charity thread too. He takes his image to another level entirely, with that.
/r/seduction02/08/13 12:53 PM
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Well, Jonathan Goldsmith is an accomplished actor and a pretty interesting guy. Of course, he's playing up the character thing in the AMA but the dude is actually a well traveled, distinguished gentleman.
/r/seduction02/08/13 03:23 AM
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How are you with Diminished scales?
/r/seduction01/08/13 02:52 PM
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This.
/r/seduction31/07/13 08:56 PM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1iz5l9/female_perspective_signs_that_a_girl_will_be/ There was a good article on this recently but I can't find it.
/r/seduction31/07/13 08:29 PM
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You in BR? Where do you normally like to go out?
/r/seduction31/07/13 08:20 PM
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This is funny you buncha downvoting stiffs. (:
/r/seduction31/07/13 05:08 PM
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See "apocalypse opener".
/r/seduction31/07/13 01:43 PM
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Ummm,, maybe read both simultaneously whilst riding a unicycle backwards on a tightrope. Yea, I think that's what you should do!... but be sure to eat a good breakfast first!
/r/seduction31/07/13 01:30 PM
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I haven't read the new addition. I wonder if the change refers more to a long term relationship type of situation as opposed to an initial attraction building scenario. I need to peruse the revision.
/r/seduction31/07/13 01:29 PM
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If you are saying that there are no women who are open to a mostly physical relationship in your area, you are probably wrong but that's not really what I was commenting on with my initial reply. I was simply stating that your post made it sound like you were ashamed of wanting to have sex with women. That might be something to look into.
/r/seduction30/07/13 07:30 PM
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http://www.amazon.com/Making-Men-Five-Steps-Growing/dp/0615544398
/r/seduction30/07/13 07:27 PM
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You could always just practice giving genuine compliments without regard to any outcome.
/r/seduction30/07/13 06:32 PM
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I hear what you're saying; that you're having a problem with your lifestyle not aligning with what you would like it to be and struggling with financial issues. I think most people start out here.
/r/seduction30/07/13 06:30 PM
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There are tattoo artists and bartenders that make bank. Problem is with your limiting beliefs not the material.
/r/seduction30/07/13 05:36 PM
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Well, Mark lays it out that basically, what attracts a woman to a man is essentially his lack of neediness or more specifically that his level of emotional investment in the relationship is slightly less than hers. Models professes that women judge a man's behavioral indication of lack of neediness first and foremost, as an indicator of attractiveness. The book explains it much better than I can.
/r/seduction30/07/13 05:31 PM
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I agree with this and I live in the south too but I enjoy busting that Southern Belle bullshit. Part of my personality. Thus, I don't bang a lot of Southern Belles. (:
/r/seduction30/07/13 04:54 PM
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The first stuff I got into back in the day was David Deangelo's. I still think he got good material. I think he strikes a great balance with inner frame and solid, easily usable technique.
/r/seduction30/07/13 04:49 PM
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First of all, is there a shame issue here? What's the deal with "just wanting to get into a girl's pants"? Girl's like to FUCK. They need someone to FUCK THEM. ..but.. yea.. what you're referring to is largely referred to as "outcome independence" or "self amusement".
/r/seduction30/07/13 04:29 PM
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Focuses on lifestyle foundation, real inner change and doesn't use any canned material.
/r/seduction30/07/13 04:23 PM
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IMHO Models explains the realities of Female to Male attraction in the most comprehensive way ever done. That alone makes it pretty incredible.
/r/seduction30/07/13 04:18 PM
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Everyone on the planet should read Models. It's a game changer.
/r/seduction30/07/13 04:08 PM
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Excellent observations. Move to the city. Work social circle game in your hometown & party in the city on the weekend. Find some wings in the city & crash at their pad. etc.
/r/seduction30/07/13 03:24 PM
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Models is a great book. Period. Even better that you're discovering it at such a young age. Mystery Method is the classic "fake alpha" PUA material. Magic Bullets is pretty good, though I haven't read all of it yet. Reading a variety of material is good. Don't get stuck on reading though. Get out there & make shit happen. Forge your own path.
/r/seduction30/07/13 03:21 PM
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Good articles. I like the Make More Money one.
/r/seduction30/07/13 03:17 PM
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Well, sounds like you're just starting to address these issues. It can be a long hard road. Find out what you don't like about yourself, accept it and then figure out what you can improve.
/r/seduction30/07/13 02:38 PM
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Just keep trying. Build convo skills, in general.
/r/seduction30/07/13 02:34 PM
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Yep, especially if you're a bit older & kinda done chasing college chicks in bars.
/r/seduction30/07/13 02:12 PM
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A lot of typical PUA advice is made for nightclubs where a lot of girls will expect to get plenty of free drinks. If you give something to a woman, what matters is your intention. Are you buying her a drink so she will stay and talk or are you just being a generous person hanging out with someone whose company you know you value?
/r/seduction30/07/13 01:20 PM
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Yea.. spells it all out in Models.
/r/seduction30/07/13 12:59 PM
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Did you use the Shakespeare Insult Kit for that?
/r/seduction29/07/13 08:16 PM
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Check with your boy. Maybe he's cool with it.
/r/seduction29/07/13 08:13 PM
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If he's really your boy, check with him first... or just wait till he blows it with her and text her out of the blue.
/r/seduction29/07/13 07:07 PM
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I'm a shorter guy and have dated numerous taller girls. The fact is, some of them will make it an issue... but hey, chicks have issues.
/r/seduction29/07/13 06:59 PM
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"We should be friends.".. or something like that.
/r/seduction29/07/13 06:10 PM
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Teasing is fun but nobody ever said it helped you connect with another human being. Ultimately, if you want to analyze things to death, as far as we know, OP's target could be a genius supermodel yet her relationship with OP and how she sees his value is the key to how the genuine compliments or negs will affect her. If you haven't read the material, then you really can't comment on it. All of the big books are out there for everyone to read and everyone should go read them right now, if just fo…
/r/seduction29/07/13 06:04 PM
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I'm in BR. Get down there a bit. Where do you like to go out?
/r/seduction29/07/13 05:51 PM
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It was perfectly legitimate to be asked for more specifics about the interaction you are asking for help with.
/r/seduction29/07/13 05:47 PM
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I felt all three of the women were fairly useless in that discussion, not that the questions were all that fascinating.
/r/seduction29/07/13 05:39 PM
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The Investment Paradox, as Mr. Manson refers to it.
/r/seduction29/07/13 03:09 AM
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Also.. move.
/r/seduction26/07/13 03:21 PM
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Look into social circle game. Alternatively, in my experience, small town girls are itching for a new experience and there's not much to do but screw. You'll run into some ASD with regards to everybody knowing everybody's business but it shouldn't be insurmountable.
/r/seduction26/07/13 03:20 PM
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Loss aversion is getting you down. Don't beat yourself up. It's always tough. Gonna take a minute to get back. You'll get there. When you do.. Don't go AFC in your next LTR. (:
/r/seduction25/07/13 03:53 PM
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Guys want to have sex with girls. People will never get over that. (:
/r/seduction25/07/13 03:47 PM
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This person is cool.
/r/seduction23/07/13 08:52 PM
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Yea, I like that one too. Very Tao.
/r/seduction16/07/13 08:57 PM
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It's just sort of clever framing technique Papa uses. Seems to have worked for him in the past.
/r/seduction16/07/13 04:20 PM
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You kind of explained it to yourself.
/r/seduction16/07/13 04:18 PM
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All the little techniques guys talk about here have a similar root. They are basically using female psychology and the basic ideas about what ATTRACTS a woman to a man. Not what she analyzes or prefers but what gets her emotions spiking. The rule of thumb is that women are attracted to men that display behaviours that demonstrate reliability, security, social intuition and the willingness to communicate desire. Men are attracted to visible signs of fertility, nurturing behaviour and wish to be a…
/r/seduction15/07/13 09:22 PM
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Best thing to do is get out of your head and into the moment. Just because you're confident enough to say hello doesn't mean you're some dominatrix trying to run some dude's life. I couldn't possibly be the best person to give you advice on this but every single time a girl comes up to me and says hello, I am supremely delighted, unless she is really unattractive. I suspect that finding a way to be comfortable with who you are would do a lot for you. It could be a tough thing to do. Lord knows I…
/r/seduction15/07/13 09:09 PM
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Techniques are not precisely interchangeable but much of the inner game stuff could be. It seems to me that, as a woman, you have the luxury of being a bit more straight-forward. If you were attracted to a man, there aren't many instances where, if you simply smiled and introduced yourself, where it would not be appreciated, especially if you are visibly attractive.
/r/seduction15/07/13 07:53 PM
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"I have a date with another girl (of course I don't tell her that)" Why not.
/r/seduction15/07/13 06:49 PM
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Awesome. Yea, let me just go out & get independently wealthy and buff right quick. (:
/r/seduction15/07/13 05:51 PM
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Also.. let them sit first. (Pull out chair).. so you can chose to sit beside.
/r/seduction12/07/13 08:51 PM
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When taking pics, always do the us together pic.
/r/seduction12/07/13 08:45 PM
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Sounds like you need to figure out what you want just as much as she does. I can understand those old feeling coming up for someone that it doesn't really work with. Definitely best to leave it alone for a long while.
/r/seduction12/07/13 05:53 PM
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The sentence technique helps a bit. I use a technique of saying a descriptive sentence about the person under my breath. i.e.: "Jenn is a hot blonde in a little black dress." Another general memorization technique I us is to visual what I want to remember in text and associated image floating in front of my face, imagine sucking the image into my mind and stamping it on my brain. They key is remembering to remember, which is what I forget. (:
/r/seduction12/07/13 02:56 PM
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Just practice talking to strangers in public. Start small & work up.
/r/seduction12/07/13 02:51 PM
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Congrats!
/r/seduction12/07/13 02:44 PM
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This one is a gift. Build up that frame to be an impenetrable fortress. Fuck it. Move on & game her again in a couple months.
/r/seduction12/07/13 02:39 PM
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Your demographic might be a bit narrow but perhaps you're not feeling comfortable with women because you're not feeling comfortable with yourself.
/r/seduction11/07/13 09:48 PM
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How about suffering through the work for a few years of hard-core self-improvement. Works wonders.
/r/seduction11/07/13 09:04 PM
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No, but when it rains on my parade I decide to not text god back. (:
/r/seduction11/07/13 09:01 PM
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Yea, when I say "Get's to me" I don't mean it necessarily pisses me off or something. I understand that women are illogical but when someone straight up lies or flip-flops like that, it's a turn off. I look down upon it. I don't think I'll ever get over that.
/r/seduction11/07/13 04:23 PM
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Shit like that still gets to me. Guess I need more experience. (:
/r/seduction11/07/13 03:18 PM
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Good sign? Who knows. Who cares. What's important is that YOU are doing YOUR thing. Never mind. You'll get it one day.
/r/seduction11/07/13 02:37 PM
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Ummm.. something changed. She started her job... but this is fairly irrelevant, actually. It doesn't matter what changed or what she is doing. We are talking about YOU, your mental and emotional frame and your reaction, of which there should be none. If this were someone you knew well enough to really care for your reaction would be: "Hey, let me know if I can help." but it's not so it's.. move on.
/r/seduction11/07/13 02:07 PM
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I don't know you from Adam but evidence from your posts about this suggest neediness, such as, being concerned that she hasn't responded to a text. How can someone not respond to a text? Well, they're busy at their intense new job. Just back off and see what happens bro. That is the only advice you're going to get from anyone here about this type of situation, period. Chick is not responding positively? Move on with your life. Don't be pissed. Just roll on.
/r/seduction10/07/13 09:02 PM
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Your frame is needy.
/r/seduction10/07/13 08:47 PM
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I think part of the reason the rating system (as I shall refer to it here) is repellent to some is simply because the fact that men remain largely visually attracted to signs of fertility is repellent to some. Unfortunately, that shit aint gonna change. In fact, in does not change until a man is used to having to choose between several attractive women and must delve deeper into their qualities in order to make that choice. Sure, there are other things besides appearance that make women attracti…
/r/seduction09/07/13 08:16 PM
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Make sure you have an escape plan for your date. You don't want to get this nice lady wrapped up in whatever the government might be watching you for.
/r/seduction09/07/13 07:46 PM
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"Laid not liked" is a bit of an old school PUA phrase. It refers to being a man women want to fuck as opposed to a guy who women like. What I mean by being polarizing would is better explained by the writings of Mark Manson.
/r/seduction09/07/13 02:49 AM
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Yea, time to throw on the "laid not liked" mentality a little bit. Be more polarizing.
/r/seduction08/07/13 08:26 PM
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You can't assume attraction if you think you're "really ugly".
/r/seduction08/07/13 08:24 PM
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I send out a simple "How are you?" the next day, regardless of if I'd do it again.
/r/seduction08/07/13 07:35 PM
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More James Dean less Chris Marquette.
/r/seduction08/07/13 07:25 PM
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:D
/r/seduction08/07/13 07:17 PM
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Tl;DR Being hot makes you a whiny bitch. (:
/r/seduction08/07/13 07:08 PM
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You know she likes you. Have fun. Tease her a bit. Touch her gently. Talk about what interests YOU. Ask her about her hopes and dreams. Touch her gently. Eventually end up somewhere comfortable with little distraction and a nice view. Accept a moment of silence. Look into her eyes and smile. Touch her gently. Don't say anything. Go for the kiss. Just lean in slowly and kiss her once lightly. Pull back and notice her reaction. Go back in for another.
/r/seduction08/07/13 06:35 PM
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Meet more girls.
/r/seduction05/07/13 06:15 PM
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The level of social anxiety you are describing is somewhat beyond the scope of this forum IMHO. I've known people with this kind of problem and most of the time they had to get it treated by a professional. Perhaps you're not that bad, just that inexperienced. I mean, if someone barely comes out of their house they are missing out on a lot of issues that someone with maybe just a normal case of AFC inexperience isn't dealing with. Like just having a normal social circle or just dealing with the …
/r/seduction05/07/13 05:17 PM
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I think a great way to take this data would be to try to meet women the way the least people are doing it.
/r/seduction01/07/13 08:13 PM
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There's a couple of things, I think. I'm having a similar issue. Healthy Lifestyle, Regular sleep schedule. Of course.. this is tough to do if you're wanting to go out. Plus, I've got stuff going on at night AND a day job.. but still, gotta watch the health factor. I have a rest day each week where I focus on sleep and get like 10 hours. Push through. I was complaining to my roommate last night about this. Man, I was out and it was cool but I was fucking exhausted. he's like. Well bro, just fuck…
/r/seduction29/06/13 04:30 PM
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Further.. this has been one of my main sticking points lately: lack of conversational skill.
/r/seduction29/06/13 04:23 PM
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Lots of excellent info. Entertaining speaker. Good vid.
/r/seduction29/06/13 04:21 PM
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hmm. extremely interesting.
/r/seduction29/06/13 03:12 PM
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Never heard of this one.
/r/seduction28/06/13 08:21 PM
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I think it's fine to blow it off once but if someone genuinely insults you multiple times, at some point you really just have to stand up for yourself... not violently, obviously, but calling someone out for poor behavior with complete calm conviction is pretty powerful.
/r/seduction28/06/13 08:20 PM
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Get some real modeling shots in your portfolio. Actually become a photographer who shoots models. Be good at it. Then you will meet a shitload of models. (:
/r/seduction28/06/13 08:03 PM
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I think the missing factor there is the understanding of female psychology that comes from study but yes, a few routines would help someone like this. I think these types of fellows also just haven't spent any time thinking much about it.
/r/seduction28/06/13 08:00 PM
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RSD has plenty of outer game stuff imho. I dig your etiquette analogy tho.
/r/seduction28/06/13 07:56 PM
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I dig Models too. Magic Bullets & Book of Pook are cool. Models is really on another level though. This cat is onto something. However, I see where Models is like the ultimate inner game bible and some of the other stuff like Mystery Method is more about getting results without totally addressing your core "issues". IMHO the later is not necessarily completely without merit but, at some point it really is time to look at the big picture and address those ultimate questions.
/r/seduction28/06/13 06:01 PM
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Great job pushing through fear. Next time: "Give me your number and I'll give you mine."
/r/seduction27/06/13 09:06 PM
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Federal Mattress Inspector is a classic.
/r/seduction27/06/13 08:37 PM
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aint skeered.
/r/seduction27/06/13 08:24 PM
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In my experience, the ladies indeed have fantasies but do not really tell you what they are. They want those fantasies fulfilled WITHOUT needing to verbalise them in detail. They like it when things "just happen". (: Obviously some are more expressive than others.
/r/seduction27/06/13 07:52 PM
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Yes. Therapy helps.
/r/seduction27/06/13 07:50 PM
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Not being happy with yourself is the definition of inner turmoil, is it not? The fact is, this is what got most of us here, in the first place, that and a lack of a positively defined outline for masculinity in modern society. I've had some some therapy and currently seeking a better therapist. edit - grammar
/r/seduction26/06/13 08:51 PM
3

Having an "extremely negative view on" those that you "love" sounds like a problem that is too deep for this subreddit.
/r/seduction26/06/13 07:12 PM
1

Tampons are not weird to keep. Girlfriends leave them in the bathroom closets of every frickin house ever.
/r/seduction26/06/13 07:02 PM
1

Chick is baddass. Girls are not always good wings.
/r/seduction26/06/13 06:32 PM
1

Start smaller like just talking to people you run across in everyday life, store clerks & what not but keep up your persistence and progress. Push the comfort zone just a little more each time.
/r/seduction26/06/13 06:23 PM
2

Models has a good take on this.
/r/seduction26/06/13 05:45 PM
2

You may have some unresolved inner turmoil.
/r/seduction26/06/13 04:34 PM
1

I find it rare that women will spell out what their fantasies entail.
/r/seduction26/06/13 04:21 PM
1

Rejection is good. Work on that self image thing. Arnold Schwarzenegger isn't "cute". The Rock isn't "cute". Hell, Johnny Depp isn't really "cute" any more.
/r/seduction25/06/13 09:06 PM
1

Isn't eye contact like a sidebar thing? Like a first chapter of the sidebar thing?
/r/seduction25/06/13 08:22 PM
2

There seems to be more of a "consensus" as to what men desire. (:
/r/seduction25/06/13 08:12 PM
2

Exactly... but practice more than verbals & body language, if you get a chance. You know, work on what yr working on.
/r/seduction17/06/13 06:52 PM
2

Indeed. I also enjoy when the lady offers to pay. I generally accept and become more interested in her.
/r/seduction17/06/13 06:32 PM
2

Certainly. I only read "but it is nice when the guy makes the move to pay".
/r/seduction17/06/13 06:23 PM
2

This is a cultural thing, so it depends upon what YOU are looking for in a woman. All these things are already worked out in a man's mind. Do you want a southern belle or a modern woman. Are you pushing the envelope of gender bias or a staunch, classic gentleman? I live in the South, so if I want to get laid by a certain type of chick (most born here), then I will be paying for shit and opening doors. However, I do not approve of this cultural bias. I DO, in fact believe that it is tantamount to…
/r/seduction17/06/13 06:08 PM
2

Sure, it's nice, you're getting your dinner for free.
/r/seduction17/06/13 05:48 PM
1

By getting her to want to fuck you.
/r/seduction17/06/13 05:46 PM
0

Yes.. situational. Only works in context of the hero narrative.
/r/seduction17/06/13 05:45 PM
1

Doesn't matter. Decision is part of qualifying action... or, hell just skip qualifying, assume attraction and go direct.
/r/seduction17/06/13 05:44 PM
0

If you're concerned about this you're missing the point. The interaction is an opportunity that has little to do with the item and everything to do with qualifying your target.
/r/seduction17/06/13 04:42 PM
2

It seems to me like perhaps Mark Manson's- Models addresses some of these issues well.
/r/seduction13/06/13 04:12 PM
4

Don't beat yourself up about this any more. You got drunk. Acted an ass. Big fucking deal. Lesson learned. You're not a drinker. Also, that chick left you at the party to go somewhere else. Not a huge deal but she's on the backburner right there. Next.
/r/seduction13/06/13 04:01 PM
-3

Thank God.
/r/seduction12/06/13 11:17 PM
2

This.
/r/seduction11/06/13 04:56 PM
1

Not familiar with that book.
/r/seduction11/06/13 04:14 PM
2

I don't think your boy alienated anyone here, did he? WTF?
/r/seduction10/06/13 05:48 PM
2

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/r/seduction10/06/13 05:35 PM
1

Start talking to every girl you see.
/r/seduction10/06/13 05:33 PM
1

What is this?
/r/seduction10/06/13 05:25 PM
3

What?
/r/seduction10/06/13 05:25 PM
1

Hug is friendly. Grab hangs & kiss on the cheek. Hugs are cool if you know them. Classic Deangelo.
/r/seduction10/06/13 05:09 PM
1

Why give them money when you can fuck them and have them buying you shit, as well? They make money in the club, on the floor and in the balcony. If she needs money, send her back out on the floor.
/r/seduction10/06/13 05:07 PM
1

People watching. Works well.
/r/seduction05/06/13 07:16 PM
0

FTMB (:
/r/seduction24/05/13 07:33 PM
1

Right about the time you mention mystery method I'm thinking: Yep, chick likes you. Ask her out. Be done with it.
/r/seduction24/05/13 07:32 PM
3

Fucking c'mon guys. That's just his FR phrasing. He didn't say that to her. You don't listen to no HB sob story in a swank ass club. Jesus.
/r/seduction21/05/13 08:55 PM
1

Damn right it's easier said than done. Judging by some of the stuff youre saying, its gonna be hard as fuck. You basically dont like yourself. Take a break from seduction. r/selfhelp
/r/seduction04/05/13 05:31 PM
14

Make a date. Have fun with it. When youre alone, kiss her again.
/r/seduction04/05/13 04:33 PM
2

Stop looking for gimmicks and force yourself to do it. Identify mistakes. Do it again. Rinse. Repeat.
/r/seduction04/05/13 04:29 PM
1

Way to imrovise. Excellent.
/r/seduction04/05/13 04:23 PM
1

Less gimicky openers. Assume attraction. Start attemting kino. Qualifying questions. Be genuinely interested or just self ammused. Keep rollin.
/r/seduction04/05/13 04:17 PM
1

Set some goals beyond approaching. Get rejected. Identify sticking points. Post field reports. Expand social circle. Focus on self-improvement beyond seduction.
/r/seduction04/05/13 04:10 PM
2

Focusing on repairing criplng self esteem issues could help.
/r/seduction03/05/13 09:08 PM
1

Stop sharing info with them and move on.
/r/seduction03/05/13 08:40 PM
0

Congrats but I stopped reading when it got to the pitty party stuff.
/r/seduction03/05/13 08:39 PM
1

Forget about this and concentrate on becoming the seduction machine you know you want to be.
/r/seduction20/04/13 05:03 PM
1

Yep
/r/seduction16/04/13 02:27 PM
0

Yes, because unless live in Pakistan or Ethiopia you, in fact, do have an abundant life.
/r/seduction17/03/13 09:15 PM
3

Well, they're humans, so...
/r/seduction17/03/13 08:59 PM
1

Must make a deeper impact. Try going for sameday closes and/or forget about outcome. Text "Lame" next time and immediately and aggressively next.
/r/seduction17/03/13 11:53 AM
1

Fitness can help.
/r/seduction16/03/13 08:30 AM
1

Elequently put. I was gonna say oneitis.
/r/seduction15/03/13 05:41 AM
1

You probably could use some reading on techniques in this area of expertise There's tons of stuff out there. Acquire lots of possible scenarios and match them up to your personal style and situation.
/r/seduction13/03/13 04:05 AM
8

If you weren't checking your phone you could've opened her.
/r/seduction12/03/13 01:06 AM
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