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GemJack/r/Divorce_Men16/02/18 09:57 PM
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And you don't have kids? You have no idea how easy this will be as a result of that, she may get a lot of stuff, but you aren't screwed for life. Move on and find yourself, you're essentially a servant there. Getting divorced can be hard, but being divorced is easy and wonderful.
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/19 01:20 PM
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And they don't even have kids. I'd have ended my marriage years before had that been my case.
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/19 01:17 PM
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I used paperwork from one of those $300 online divorce kits, I just needed to exchange some of that paperwork for theirs, no big deal except that I had to go get her signature again.
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/19 12:32 PM
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Mine was this way, the only minor hiccup was when went before the judge and some of the paperwork I was using wasn't the county's preference, but all ended well.
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/19 12:15 PM
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I've never heard of him either. And in a few minutes he'll fade from my memory forever.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/19 06:19 PM
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I (48M) was with my wife for 21 years, been separated almost 2 years, divorce finalized early this year. Yep, hard not to think of someone that was your best friend for so long, no matter how it ended. To you I would say this - you need to break this ongoing contact you're having, you will never move on until you do. She may be trying to keep you in a 'backup' position in case everything else doesn't work out for her. Move on my friend. There's something else out there for you that you're going …
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/19 01:28 PM
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Awesome. Freedom is worth any price.
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/19 09:00 PM
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Didn't your lawyer suggest they use the fair market value?
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/19 06:38 PM
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Hi there, about a year and a half ago I was literally in exact same boat. My alcoholic wife who had not drank in 10 years had resumed in full force, and now with a mid-life crises in the mix. These other posts are right about the cost YOU will end up being somewhat responsible for should you succeed in getting her caught DUI. I promise you this - your best bet is to GET OUT ASAP. Document everything, including her expenses on alcohol. Don't try to stop or change her at this point. Let her feel s…
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/19 03:00 PM
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Ah, after my wife and I divorced the same thing happened. We tend to only remember the good times for some reason in times of loneliness. I missed my son so much that I forgave things I shouldn't have. We remarried and had another kid. All the old problems remained and were added on to significantly, and we divorced yet again 12 years later. Save yourself a decade or two and MOVE ON! Don't let the familiarity and ease of that old relationship lure you back. You'll go through many phases, some qu…
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/19 04:12 AM
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I honestly wouldn't ASK him much, unless there was some concern over an incident or an apparent lifestyle that worries you. He may be just the first of many, you can't worry about everything and everyone that comes in her door.
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/19 02:39 PM
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I agree, it confused me and made me think the placement had something to do with the point of it all.
/r/MensRights14/04/18 02:41 PM
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He added: ‘The problem was just alcohol, she was admitted to hospital twice in the past year and could have died. As a man that took a lot of blows and clawing over the years from an alcoholic wife, I hate to hear him say this. My wife eventually quit drinking, lasted for over 9 years. But during that time the anger never waned, it only manifested in other ways. As someone famous once said about alcohol, 'it don't make you do a thing, it just lets you'.
/r/MensRights06/03/18 04:01 AM
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I did it too. Divorced in 2002, remarried in 2006. Things are better, but I wouldn't recommend it, especially if there's a lot of bad history, it's nearly impossible to get over all that. "Getting back with your ex is like putting spoiled milk back in the fridge hoping it's better later".
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/17 11:34 AM
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No sex in a year. No option for kids. There's really nothing to stay for. Once the items are separated and you've moved on you won't be able to figure out why you were there for so long in the first place I bet.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/17 09:05 PM
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You definitely need to go over this with an attorney. Document everything and be on your best behavior. Don't feel sorry for her, she's not thinking of you when she has sex with him.
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/17 04:39 PM
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