GemstoneLucia Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
120	If you want commitment, marriage, children, to be taken out, treated like you’re special, then you must insist upon it, and make it clear right away. Never play down your needs to seem chill.	STRATEGY	GemstoneLucia	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/10/19 06:45 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	What is the female equivalent of height on a guy? Very much forgetting childbirth and the things that can’t be changed after that without surgery	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 01:55 PM
508	When he thinks he's worth 3 minutes of orgasmless sex 🥴 : Lmao buy himself a plate of spaghetti Sometimes I think about how the right vibrator can make you come really fast and it’s reliable and it won’t knock you up (edit: and you don’t have emotions about it after) and I realize that’s what actual sex is almost always like for men. This isn’t a comment about saying vibrators are better than sex (they are better than bad dangerous sex but the right sex is way better IMO) but about how men experience that level of low risk reliable sure thing orgasm ju…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/12/20 12:29 AM
88	😂😂 That’s what’s crazy right. If this were a woman trying to get a husband you’d be more likely to see her blaming herself. Thinking men don’t like me, what’s wrong with me. When much of the time she is fine and just has to be taught to have standards. Meanwhile this guy never even considers maybe the problem is him, and he assumes all women just don’t like sex. It’s hard to imagine having that kind of unfounded confidence.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/12/20 11:21 PM
15	I'm not surprised This is actually messed up if true. It’s gaslighting. If she notices it every day but isn’t sure then she’s going to start questioning her own sanity. This is why stealing from a loved one is always heinous. I don’t care if what you took has zero value of any sort. You’re making someone feel destabilized and that objects just go missing for no reason. They’ll think they’re going nuts and can’t trust their own memory. That’s an evil thing to do. Once they figure it out they’ll have trust issues w…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/12/20 07:07 PM
55	Be THAT KIND of direct, lol! You can’t have friends?!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/12/20 05:38 AM
6	Porn acting is notoriously bad, except for when it portrays extreme degradation of women, then suddenly it's "not real, they're just acting" This is an outrage! We won’t take this lying down!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/12/20 05:23 AM
15	Porn acting is notoriously bad, except for when it portrays extreme degradation of women, then suddenly it's "not real, they're just acting" Hahahaha one of the coomers is on an insane rant about how “has it not occurred to them that some people have favorite videos?!!! That are lost now?!?” Ahahaha imagine being such a stupid pathetic coomer that you have your favorite sad jerkoff watching another man fucking a woman video oh my gosh I’m loling	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/12/20 05:18 AM
18	Porn acting is notoriously bad, except for when it portrays extreme degradation of women, then suddenly it's "not real, they're just acting" The top comment in response to the current hot post mocking people who are anti-porn: Yup. Nobody who isn't brainwashed cares. I've watched porn since I was a kid, and at least half of the women I've dated have consumed pornographic media in some capacity. The shaming me over it ship sailed a loooooong time ago. If I had negative fucks to give, I would. Nobody who isn’t brainwashed cares I’ve watched porn since I was a kid 🤦‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/12/20 05:13 AM
3	Porn acting is notoriously bad, except for when it portrays extreme degradation of women, then suddenly it's "not real, they're just acting" Yah totally. The big worldwide porn standards and ethics commission would totally get that illegal porn under control. /s	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/12/20 05:11 AM
7	Porn acting is notoriously bad, except for when it portrays extreme degradation of women, then suddenly it's "not real, they're just acting" I just looked too. The entire front page is psychotic meltdowns and vileness. The coomers are monstrous.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/12/20 05:10 AM
7	Porn acting is notoriously bad, except for when it portrays extreme degradation of women, then suddenly it's "not real, they're just acting" ItS sO hArD tO gEt GoOd AmAtEuR StUfF nOw	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/12/20 05:03 AM
9	A guy who I briefly talked to a few years ago shared this. Funny thing is, he kissed me at a party and then went downstairs and started making out with another girl and I caught him. Now all he does is complain on social media...mostly about women. If he asks why say “ you’re smart, you can figure it out” then ghost lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/12/19 03:45 AM
1	Why you should let him pay for dates: the power of cognitive dissonance Feel free to post, I am glad to help anyone	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/11/19 03:58 AM
11	Pet Peeve: "Men are visual creatures" I think it is interesting what men easily says bout themselves as “we are just programmed that way,” like to look at boobs or whatever. I find it interesting how there are a lot of things I always understood women were programmed to do and be, but it’s always been simply second nature, it goes without saying, that if some thing I am programmed to do is hurtful or uncivilized, that I should try to overcome that programming with good manners and self control. Hell women are even told their program…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/11/19 03:27 AM
35	Why you should let him pay for dates: the power of cognitive dissonance I’ll tell you what my dad told me. He’s an alpha and a generous one so don’t listen to the bitter whiners who say there’s no such thing. His advice -The man shouldn’t let you pay for anything, I mean not even one penny (his exact words. Not one penny.) -He chases you, calls, plans. It’s fine to send out clear IOIs to give him a nudge, but he does all the big steps to push it forwards. -You should never go to him. He shouldn’t meet you halfway. He comes to you. Even if you don’t want him coming a…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/11/19 09:06 PM
3	If you want commitment, marriage, children, to be taken out, treated like you’re special, then you must insist upon it, and make it clear right away. Never play down your needs to seem chill. Reported	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/10/19 01:19 AM
18	If you want commitment, marriage, children, to be taken out, treated like you’re special, then you must insist upon it, and make it clear right away. Never play down your needs to seem chill. I realized this in college when I was called “chill” when in fact I was deeply upset inside but did not know I could express my needs. I was just hiding them and most people are not going to say “please open up and say wha you really need” they ar usually happy to assume you have no needs.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/10/19 10:06 PM
6	If you want commitment, marriage, children, to be taken out, treated like you’re special, then you must insist upon it, and make it clear right away. Never play down your needs to seem chill. The yoga part was a meme joke because it is a common modern thing among that type of woman but yeah the rest is serious.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/10/19 10:05 PM
5	Moids who are perpetually cheating on their GFs / Wives A person who says they “could never” cheat because “I would feel guilty” isn’t necessarily the best bet. It could be a sign that he believes there are cheaters and non cheaters in this world and that as a non cheater he is never at risk of cheating, which means he would be careless about getting into situations that have that potential. A better sign is if he isn’t hyper social and genuinely doesn’t get how men have time or energy to cheat, Like, isn’t one woman enough energy? A guy who is not h…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/10/19 07:08 PM
13	The MYTH of The Older Man: Older men have no interest in being your “mentor” or teaching you anything. Mine is a bit older than me, but this is key: he is not old enough he could be my dad. For me personally, there is a giant difference between “old enough to be an older brother” and “old enough to have been your dad.” The other green flags with him specially were: He absolutely did not seek out younger women in any way, he did not want to be a mentor, and he actually expressed early on he was cautious as I was a little younger than usual and he didn’t want to be that guy. Also, he said he cared …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/10/19 06:58 PM
8	Don’t Settle For Mediocre Sex Just Because You’re Afraid of Adding to Your N-Count. Dump Him and Tell Him He’s Not Up To Par Any man worth ever letting into your bed is not going to be butt hurt if you did not orgasm, he will see it as a challenge to improve and give you what you need until he gets it. Never ever fake an orgasm not even once. If he is a good guy for you and has a moment of doubt it is not hard to explain that it might take more effort for you but he still makes you feel amazing regardless. If he cannot handle the truth he is super immature and shouldn’t be allowed in your bed.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/10/19 06:54 PM
4	The Law of Dating Married Men Yeah this is a big one I think and they fail to understand that those men aren’t doing anything for them, if he’s risking the relationship he is risking it because he’s an idiot and a dick, not because of her in any way. These are people who are impulsive and not good anyway, and the women they are seeing are almost irrelevant, it’s just whoever makes herself available or seems like an easy target to manipulate. I wish more women who are doing this would wake up and realize that is what it is, i…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/19 04:19 AM
5	The Law of Dating Married Men They believe that if a taken man wants them they must be irresistible, not realizing they are just selecting douchebags with low FTO and high foolish risk behaviors who see them as easy targets and opportunities. It’s really dumb.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/19 04:17 AM
6	The Law of Dating Married Men I assume a lot of them are people who have a lot of issues around commitment they have not addressed in themselves. They think they want it but they set up their life in a way they can’t get it or it’s extra hard. However a lot of them I think are also just really bad people who think that getting someone who’s taken to notice them means they are so super sexy oh look he cheated on his wife for me. Except all it means is he’s a douche and she’s throwing herself at an opportunist, she’s just a ta…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/19 04:16 AM
3	Some Women Have Literally NO Self Esteem: Husband cheats with MtF Transgender Prostitute Unprotected and transmits herpes to Wife; wife is wondering if she should continue to have sex with him??? 🤨 I am glad you mentioned this, although I agree with OP that it was just shocking and I get why she posted this. I used to always wonder why people say stuff like “why does she stay with that abusive guy?” I always felt like it was patently obvious that she stays usually because she figures there is no support network or people who will be there for her if she leaves, they will all just be like “but why did YOU stay?” And basically self esteem shame. This is something I rarely see talked about, p…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/19 04:12 AM
2	To men: this space is not for you. Preach! You just copy paste the url but change Reddit.com to Removeddit.com and you can see.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/10/19 04:54 AM
12	To men: this space is not for you. I just for kicks looked up the removeddits for some of the sidebar posts and I must say, it is delightful to see this sub developing and quite vindicating to see male replies losing their minds. Those are the same types of guys who felt it was their right to use and abuse and start online communities for using women. Talking about us as less than animals. How it’s ok because it’s not about morality and we deserve it. When women got annoyed at them the men tried to call them valueless or ugly or …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/10/19 04:45 AM
8	Mythology Break Down #1: Men Telling You You'll Max Out At Thirty is Their BIGGEST Cope Do you have a link or more info about the okcupid study about 20 year olds being disproven? Definitely interested. I already dismissed that study as a phenomenon of desperate shallow men online deluding themselves, and it did turn out they were preferring women nearer their own age for actually messaging, but I would love to see more debunking that study, which low value males used to say “but muh biological urge!”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/10/19 04:13 AM
7	Is He Married!? In 2019 Are Background Checks a Must? I do not get why men post photos with arms aren’t girls who obviously aren’t their sisters, I know they read some dumb advice that it makes him look “valuable” or just he’s an idiot, but I would always do a hard no on those guys.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/10/19 02:53 AM
3	Golden information. Top comment is about a guy she saw 5 days a week and he never called her his gf and he was seeing other girls the whole time. She says it was “cheating” but it sounds like he never gave her the title so.. Anyway the point is, this is why days matter, if you aren’t seeing him every weekend that’s a red flag. Saturday does matter.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/10/19 12:59 AM
9	Peer pressure & Mr Friendzoned- You have a right to say NO! You already said it but just to make it explicitly clear, just because a guy is not hot or is short or is balding or is awkward Does Not Mean he won’t cheat, just pick a guy you’re actually attracted to because if you think you can marry some guy who doesn’t arouse you because you think he’s “safe” well you have another think coming. Being faithful or cheating is not correlated with being hot or not. The last men you would expect can cheat; they maybe settled for someone and then use their being…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/10/19 02:33 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (07 July 2019) Why do you have a southern accent?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/19 05:40 AM