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| 7 | The uncomfortable truth in the dating realm: women have to be, men have to become.Your average Joe is starting his career as a plumber and ending his career as a plumber with male pattern balding. Your average girl is starts off as an self-centered, overweight, flabby 7 with makeup on and devolves into an even more overweight, cellulite ridden, perpetually single mess on antidepressants. She would be lucky to date a plumber who makes some good money, but she probably won't realize this until after she's hit the wall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/21 11:39 PM |
| 4 | I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable?Being a decent guy, being polite, all of that goes out the window if you do not look good or are not rich/high status. Conversely all those "baseline" features no longer become a requirement if your attractive, then you can be generally unpleasant and still have women lining up to fuck you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/21 12:59 PM |
| 1 | I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable?It's like if a girl for whatever reason instead of writing 'good hygiene' started listing off separately: 'brushes teeth, changes socks, changes underwear, no dripping earwax' and suddenly everyone goes 'woah, what a list, that's top 5% you don't deserve'. Why bother listing every specific thing to embody "good hygiene" and not just spare yourself the time and trouble by writing good hygiene? Why waste time listing 20 points when the exact same thing could be just as clearly communicated with 1.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/21 12:36 PM |
| -11 | I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable?NarniaFox is married though (or in an LTR) so she has successfully met someone she's compatible with and has the positive traits she's looking for. Ohh yeah NarniaFox totally wed this charming, ultra compatible Cassanova who objectively ticks off all the 15+ traits mentioned and more, she clearly has no reason to be biased for the sake of argument. It's not like she could've settled, no way not NarniaFox, she's like a celebrity and all the 10-20% of men who fit that laundry list of requirement s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/21 12:06 PM |
| -1 | I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable?Expecting a few standard job certifications in one potential job candidate is reasonable, expecting 15+ for a chance at a job is delusional. It is even more delusional if the position being offered doesn't offer any more pay or benefits as any other company, at that point the position will either never get filled or the business will come to their senses and settle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/21 11:54 AM |
| -1 | I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable?The only people who are annoyed at others having reasonable standards are those who know they don't meet any sort of standards and have no inclination to try. Or maybe those who had previously matched all the standards and noticed that said standards mean fuck all, no women will fuck you because you're "such a good guy". You think it's that hard to find a decent guy, whose not a literal criminal? No the issue is women do not give a fuck how "good, nice or polite" you are if you cannot turn them … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/21 11:50 AM |
| 28 | I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable?Boiled down its That's the issue though... It's very deliberately not boiled down, it's a very detailed list of well over a dozen features and traits that an individual must personify to simply qualify for dating another person. If they only wanted those 4 details then they would have simply stated those 4 points and the exchange you see above would have never occurred. Really sit down and review all of the expectations that OP desires for a partner and then ask yourself how many people really e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/21 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Women file the majority of divorces regardless of country/culture, why do you think that is?But here is an updated source Sweden saying 70% of divorces are filed by women. It’s in Swedish so you’ll need to translate: There's no direct source for this study either, it's just from a random Swedish website and it appears to be referencing a British study, furthermore the link was published 20 years ago. No offence but I don't think that a vaguely mentioned statistic from one online Swedish news article published 2 decades ago accurately solidifies the fact that "Scandinavia and the Nether… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/21 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Women file the majority of divorces regardless of country/culture, why do you think that is?his source I found from Norway says 75% of divorces are filed by women: 75 % of divorces initiated by women. Reported main reason: Experienced lack of equality. This study was taken almost half a century ago in the 1980's I can't believe you're trying to apply it in 2021. I doubt many of the egalitarian court systems they have now were in place back then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/21 05:48 AM |
| 0 | Women file the majority of divorces regardless of country/culture, why do you think that is?Scandinavia and the Netherlands women still file the majority of divorces. Source? PS I also expect Women in Scandinavian nations to file more than but I expect that they'll initiate significantly less divorces than American women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 10:40 PM |
| 1 | What it’s like dating at 27- how accurate is this tik tok/ the comments that follow it?I mean paying for dates does. But i think college girls are hotter than 30s girls. Like I said if you take care of yourself, your hair and body then you'll still be able to pull younger chicks in your 30's. Worst come to worst just go to Thailand or Columbia and lay hotter chicks for less work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 10:36 PM |
| 32 | Women file the majority of divorces regardless of country/culture, why do you think that is?Divorce is absolutely terrible for men. 100% which is why at this point if your a man with any value and you get married you deserve whats coming to you. This isn't the 1970's anymore, almost all men know about the massive risks and liabilities involved in mairrage, done feeling sorry for these dummies. If you're stupid enough to place half of your wealth/assets/resources on the line because you "fell in loveeeee" with some chick, you have no one to blame but yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 10:09 PM |
| 21 | Women file the majority of divorces regardless of country/culture, why do you think that is?Exactly, anyone with a brain knows that women are incentivized to initiate divorce due to paid alimony, the splitting of wealth/assets, child support and biased child custody courts. 9/10 times women are not the gender that will get the shit end of the stick, men are so of course they'll be more willing to divorce when in almost all cases it benefits them significantly to do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 10:06 PM |
| 3 | What it’s like dating at 27- how accurate is this tik tok/ the comments that follow it?But in college everyone is broke! I dated broke girls as a broke guy. That's exactly an issue being broke makes anything harder, taking a bus or ubering to meet up, having to bring chicks to your parents place or cramped dorm, not prioritizing paying for drinks, dates, club fare due to money and school. Once your in your 30's there's so much more freedom and you have so much experience that it becomes a cake walk if you take care of yourself or have a decent career. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 12:36 PM |
| 5 | Women tend to make bad decisions in regards to their safety. They are too lenient with dangerous men and too cautious with safe men. They have standards which actually rewards pushy guys and pushes away respectful ones.People in general are bad at assessing risk. Not really. If my guy friend is walking through a sketchy neighborhood I'll let him know to put his watch/jewelry in his pocket. I can't tell my female friends to cover up more in the same situation because they'll get offended at not being able to wear whatever they want, as if a potential rapist will care. I will admit most men are an utter embarrassment when it comes to assessing even the basic risks involved in marriage. Here you'll see otherwise … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 07:21 AM |
| 7 | What it’s like dating at 27- how accurate is this tik tok/ the comments that follow it?I doubt it gets better for either gender as they get older. Naw most men will attest that dating in their 30's went smoother than their early 20's. More confident from life experiences and being established, can afford a place, car, dates, older chicks less likely to play games and given you still keep your hair and stay fit younger chicks aren't hard to find either. Most guys who take care of themselves will have a much easier time dating as a more mature, working 30 year old than they would as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 06:55 AM |
| 0 | what do you think is the main reason for men giving commitment to one girl, but not the other?That's the thing. No one is asking; so who cares. I don't care to ask if a girl I'm about to smash has herpes or chlamydia but you can't bet your ass I would care if she did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 08:27 AM |
| 5 | what do you think is the main reason for men giving commitment to one girl, but not the other?Most men don't care about n-counts. Most men don't care to ask but I guarantee most would care if they were to find out that their SO had a relatively high n-count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 07:16 AM |
| 19 | The victim is never responsible for being abused, raped, etcPlaying both sides. On one hand they want to assure you that women are all badasses, who are strong, hyper-intelligent, independent and can do anything a man can do but on the other hand they want to convince you that women are vulnerable, weak and easily manipulated by men. Where is the accountability? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Do you think socioeconomic background/class matters for men or only for women in today's dating scene?Don’t let this sub trick you into believing men don’t care about socioeconomic status. Nobodies saying that men do not care about socioeconomic status, what they are reminding you is that socioeconomic status is not a make or break factor when it comes to men and dating. Men are not hypergamous and seek different traits in women like physical beauty, submissiveness and kindness. A man is not going to date a women who is lacking in said features simply because of her salary or socioeconomic statu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Men are responsible for women’s alleged “inflated egos” and overvaluing themselves.yea well i can't relate to that at all. honestly that attitude sounds so gross. Yeah, a lot of people will say having an n-count of 70 is sounds gross, a lot will say it's awesome, just don't let your personal, illogical biases or feelings towards an issue alone determine it's legality. sex to me is about emotional bond... Dinner dates to me is about emotional bond and feeling connection to another person. Just using another person's money to get my own rocks off for "convenience" is so disgusti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Men are responsible for women’s alleged “inflated egos” and overvaluing themselves.find it hard to believe that men that can't get sex normally would be satisfied with using sex workers long term Even men who have an abundance of regular women lining up to fuck them whether it be Wealthy CEO's, Star Athletes, A- List Actors, Music Artists, Oil Sheikhs, Princes, Kings, or respected Politicians will all frequently and readily engage in prostitution, all while illegal mind you. These men and many others are not paying for sex so much as they are paying for convenience. The conven… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Men are responsible for women’s alleged “inflated egos” and overvaluing themselves.then again i have never got along with the average heterosexual man. Then you probably have a different perspective after all you are a "skinny, bisexual pretty boy", your experiences likely differ significantly from that of the average man. i have never felt that i am in some way paying for sex. Maybe because you have been called beautiful more times than you can remember and most men cannot remember the last time they've been called beautiful. When you look good women will not "justify" sleepi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Men are responsible for women’s alleged “inflated egos” and overvaluing themselves.if we had that "low SMV" men would still be bitter that they have to pay for something other men get for free. Nothing in life is free. Unless you're a top 10-20% male most women will not just hand you sex on a silver platter and you will have to work to sleep with them through a draining barrage of mind games, shit tests, dates, paid dinners and 1-sided conversations both in person and through text etc. with 0 guarantee of sex. Such efforts men could spend working on themselves or pursuing actu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 05:20 AM |
| 2 | Men are responsible for women’s alleged “inflated egos” and overvaluing themselves.Just as it's ridiculous to claim farmers monopolise farmed produce because "I can only get my vegetables if a farmer is willing to farm them for me" Use your head, this is not a difficult concept to grasp no need to be struggling. Either you are intentionally feigning ignorance or you're just an easily confused person. Individual farmers produce tomatoes on behalf of an organization that they are collectively under, collectively they form the company. Obviously when I say women in this example I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 01:06 AM |
| 4 | Men are responsible for women’s alleged “inflated egos” and overvaluing themselves.Most men dont need hookers to get laid, so none of them give a shit about the “Should prostitution be legal” question. 1/3 of young men are sexually inactive and this is at an age when sexual activity is most common, trust me it will only get worse. Most men will absolutely 100% rather just pay an escort than have to go through the shitshow that is dating today, why do you think groups like MGTOW or TRP catch so much steam? Either way as a women why do you care if men are legally allowed to pay … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Men are responsible for women’s alleged “inflated egos” and overvaluing themselves.No woman has a monopoly on sex...No one woman can slut hard enough to devalue sex on her own No *woman. I'm speaking on *women as a whole and yes especially when referencing the earlier analogy women do have a monopoly on sex. If you live in the U.S. the only way to obtain sex is by courting, attracting or seducing women. If you cannot do this, you will never have sex, atleast not in the US. It's literally a textbook perfect free market Not at all, competition is welcome and encouraged in free m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 10:37 PM |
| 0 | Men are responsible for women’s alleged “inflated egos” and overvaluing themselves.It's a free market. If tomatoes cost €70 per kg at the grocery store is that the farmer's fault for not producing enough or the consumers' fault for deciding that tomato salad is the most 🔥 side dish right now? Who cares, they cost €70 so either you figure out how to make that kind of money or decide to eat something less delicious. Not when the tomato manufacturer has a monopoly on all tomato production, intentionally restricts and limits the amount of tomatoes that can be distributed to primar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 08:24 PM |
| 3 | The bad-boy appealYeah I don't get it either. To paraphrase an earlier commenter..." Evolutionarily, women are naturally insecure of their physical weakness so what they seek in a man is provision and security. The only way you come to seek security is if you’re insecure. Men naturally provide this provision and security; however, at varying degrees. The best way to explain this is using toughness. Toughness appeals to women - in no uncertain terms - because toughness= “I can kill other guys” = security...at leas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 02:36 AM |
| 5 | What do women on this sub think of the "where are all the good men gone" types of women?At birthdays, recitals, school plays, little league games, grocery stores etc. Y'know the majority of men who are fathers raising and taking care of the next generation kids like they have for centuries... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 06:20 AM |
| 11 | What do women on this sub think of the "where are all the good men gone" types of women?What abundance of decent men? * Abundance of men who won't abandon their pregnant girlfriends/kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 01:45 AM |
| 13 | What do women on this sub think of the "where are all the good men gone" types of women?Y'all think way more poorly of men than women do. It's the opposite. To put it this way, despite the abundance of relatively decent men out there this woman managed to not only sleep with but get impregnated by some bum who can't even manage to take care of the children he brings into the world. Now she wants all those men she previously ignored for said human garbage to come back and play daddy for her kids? Get outta here, it's like a spit in the face to any self respecting man honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Women should generally be the first person in a committed relationship to initiate sexthen yes Just needed confirmation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 09:49 AM |
| 3 | Women should generally be the first person in a committed relationship to initiate sexYes, i believe mismatched libidos should not mate, if that's what you mean. So if you're logically consistent, you believe most men and women should not mate as their libidos are inherently mismatched | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 09:20 AM |
| -1 | Women should generally be the first person in a committed relationship to initiate sexIf your reply is going to be "women are LL more on average" then i will agree and say most people shouldn't marry, only people with matching libidos. So using your logic the overwhelming majority of men and women should not marry or engage in LTR's as their libidos are biologically mismatched and dissimilar, you personally agreed earlier stating that women have significantly lower libidos then men. If so then your solution to deadbedrooms is to have the vast majority of humans go without engagin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 08:35 AM |
| 6 | Women should generally be the first person in a committed relationship to initiate sexIs it not common to initiate when you're horny and then if the other person's not you give them a rain check? Lmao This works until one person almost never wants to actually have sex with their partner and then you have a dead bedroom which often leads to separation or divorce. How about not having someone pledge their full fidelity you just for you to never even have sex. If your not ready to atleast make an effort to please your partner sexually you should not be in a long term committed relat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 07:48 AM |
| 2 | If a man reaches his mid 20s and beyond and is still a virgin (and not by choice), should he pay an escort/sex worker to lose it?Well, I want the job so I can gain experience lol Exactly, honestly most of the guys I know who have paid for sex are actually pretty good at banging normal chicks. Knowing that your ability to get quality sex is not dependent on the women your talking to at a club or bar gives off a confident "idgaf" ambulance mentality which helps with your game as women will sense that you wouldn't mind if she walked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 07:48 PM |
| 0 | If a man reaches his mid 20s and beyond and is still a virgin (and not by choice), should he pay an escort/sex worker to lose it?Are any of these men married or in long term marriage-like LTRs? Not married but they've been in multiple relationships. Either way who cares? Men aren't really chasing marriage as it holds massive financial/emotional risks, what men really want is plentiful sex with attractive women and these guys were able to get it from escorts and regular girls. I said it will blow up in your face if you eventually pursue a serious, long term relationship. Yeah so will marriage once you split and have to pay… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 07:37 PM |
| -1 | Q4M: Can you post examples of photos of an average guy?very fat seth rogen is average looking, yes. Women on average are fatter than man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 07:27 PM |
| 5 | If a man reaches his mid 20s and beyond and is still a virgin (and not by choice), should he pay an escort/sex worker to lose it?Paying for sex is a major turn off to most women and if your future girl ever finds out she will look at you differently. I've known guys who have paid for sex and run through normal chicks regularly and easily. Honestly I think when you pay you stop seeing sex or girls as a big deal and give off more of a confident abundance mindset when interacting with women, cause sex is there regardless. At the end of the day no guy who has paid sex is ever going to tell a woman he's romantically involved i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 07:21 PM |
| 1 | NY MAG - Women Are Now Cheating As Much As Men, But With Fewer ConsequencesI don't have anything in common with foreign women. They're foreign. And depending on the race, I won't be attracted to them physically. (yes) I don't have anything in common with these over egotistical, conceited Western women. Also Western women are pretty diverse and foreign isn't race specific... She can be indian, white, asian, black, hispanic etc. and still be foreign so long as she comes from a country which teaches women the value of contributing to the household. 'Marry foreign women' i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 04:10 AM |
| 13 | NY MAG - Women Are Now Cheating As Much As Men, But With Fewer Consequencesthis knowledge men should be even more careful when choosing to marry. If you want to marry go to another country where female gender roles are still somewhat in place. Foreign women are taught how to treat a man, American women are taught that men are meant to treat them. They want men to maintain all the gender roles that benefit them (approach first, pay for dates, buy a ring & propose, pay alimony) but get insulted at the thought of making a fucking sandwhich. Serious question, what do men e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/21 11:03 PM |
| 8 | Radical RP men are vehemently ill-mannered toward women over 25.No, hypergamy is logical and necessary. LOL Modern hypergamy is the furthest thing to logical in any sense. It's so irrational in fact that men with quantifiably higher IQ's are literally less likely to find partners, reproduce with women and spread their genes. On the flip side it also ravages more intelligent/educated women, as they are more likely to die alone since their options for dateable men diminish the further they advance in their careers due to their unrealistic, hypergamous standard… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/21 12:27 AM |
| 8 | Do women get bored of relationships faster than men?Sure, but women also have way more opportunities to cheat. Doesn't matter, women statistically on average have no where near the sex drive of men, who literally evolved to sleep with as many women as possible. Which makes it even worse because it shows that when they cheat (unlike men) it's not just a physical desire but sincere feeling may have been involved for someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/21 11:21 PM |
| 1 | What do people mean when they say women don’t want to settle down until they are 30 or ‘old’?Except studies show most people aren’t having a lot causal sex off of dating apps. Online dating is literally accounts for almost 40% of how heterosexual couples meet making it the most popular method of contact in modern times. If almost half of all straight couples are meeting there you bet your ass they're smashing there too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Women do not know a "Good Man" when she meets himWomen do know a "Good Man", they just won't care because they value money, looks and status miles above morality. You'll never see a rich drug dealer have trouble getting women. It is also very common for female correctional officers to sleep with and get impregnated by serious felons and convicts theirs meant to police. Serial Killers often have hordes of primarily female fans and oh yeah who can forget Jeremy Meeks. Women who have almost unlimited access to a plethora of men on the dating mark… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 07:55 AM |
| 5 | The Orgasm GapSo then that’s the same thing the guy is getting? No. Women don't have to worry about being witty or charming, they just have fun. Women don't have worry about financing nice dinners, they just eat. Women don't have to worry about planning or scheduling dates, they just show up. Of course you enjoy some element of it but the experience as a whole is dampened when your the one doing all the work, chasing and approaching, after a while you feel just as "used" as a women who gets played for sex. Mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 07:39 AM |
| 8 | The Orgasm GapHow do I benefit from the work it takes you to have a fake personality? You get to enjoy the pleasure of having a humorous, fun or entertaining conversation. You get to enjoy the convenience of a nice free dinner. You get to take pleasure excitement of going to events or locations that have been prescheduled with your thoughts in mind, at our literal expense. If women didn't benefit from neither the relationship or sex aspect then they wouldn't date men. It's simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 07:15 AM |
| 3 | What do people mean when they say women don’t want to settle down until they are 30 or ‘old’?Men are on that clock For what? To enter a union to lose half of our assets/earnings (+ kids) to a post-wall woman? Men are not the maternal gender. Marriage benefits women primarily, everything from the proposal, to the wedding and even the divorce is for a woman's gain not men. The male equivalent to marriage is plentiful sex with beautiful women. There is no clock for that so long as you earn good money and take care of yourself. Being childless and single means 2 completely things for men an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 07:08 AM |
| 3 | What do people mean when they say women don’t want to settle down until they are 30 or ‘old’?A few of them listened and it worked out for them. But yeah, as a guy as long as you’re taking care of your shit. Career, lifting, friends and fam. You can totally just enjoy all the casual sex and fun you can get until one day you kinda yearn for more. Bullshit. If your 5'4 or resemble Steve Buscemi your not going to get a lot of girls period. On the other hand you can be a complete loser but if you look like Ryan Reynolds women will find their way into your bed. Half of this "focus on yourself… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 06:58 AM |
| 3 | Divorce rape and other horror stories are men who decide to marry party sluts ' own fault.I'll open my eye's when you notice that not every guy is a thirsty dude who wants to treat women like fleshlights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 06:51 AM |
| 3 | Divorce rape and other horror stories are men who decide to marry party sluts ' own fault.Men are acting like having sex with thirsty dude who treat you like a flashlight is a peak of women's dream. Women act like signing an agreement where you have a 50% chance of losing half your shit + custody of your kids to marry a women who gets insulted at the thought of making her partner a meal every now and then is the peak of a man's dream. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 03:39 AM |
| 28 | The Orgasm GapMen can’t really do shit about it except try lmao. To be honest I don't blame them. When women leverage sex as something men have to "earn" through an series of dates, mind games, and shit tests you can't be surprised when men are focused on enjoying themselves when they finally do get the girl. It's a trade off. As long as men have to put more effort into approaches, date arrangements, compliments, gifts, proposals and the courting process as a whole women should expect less effort in the bedro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 01:48 AM |
| 2 | How does a city's crime rate affect its dating market?Dangerous places always have crazy shit going down and women love that stuff. Also explains why there's a lot more single mothers in said areas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 01:28 AM |
| 6 | The argument isn't about "Nice Guys", the argument is about whether or not decent men are getting laid.i always interpreted the Chad stereotype as being the complete package of looks and personality Well then you thought wrong. Being a Chad is entirely based on physical looks, when people say Chad they are typically referring to men 6'0 and up, muscular build, strong jawline with an attractive face Ex Channing Tatum, Luke Rockhold, Chris Hemsworth. If anything most Chad's are known for having pretty shitty personalities and social skills as they never needed to develop them to sleep with multiple… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/21 05:57 PM |
| 21 | Is the number of single older men going to increase?what are the implications?Also I forgot where I read it but I was shocked to find out that 50 percent or so of women above 50 or 60 or something are single. Which honestly is mind blowing. Well that's what happens when 90% of women expect to land a top 20% Bachelor and are determined to never settle. Best case scenario you'll have 70% going empty handed, dying alone or lowering their standards. On top of that no man wants to risk 50% of their earnings, assets, and property in order to marry spoiled, conceited women who e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/21 06:40 AM |
| 3 | Question for Women: What do you want a guy to bring to the table for a long term relationship and possibly a life commitment? What is negotiable and what isn't? And, a bit of a weird question here: What do you wish him to ask you to bring?Single moms or divorcees are a minority. *Single moms and divorcees are a not Note that many of the responses to you aren’t even from women but other men and all of them say you’re the one who seems to be unreasonable This is just a flat out lie. Idk if your going off user names but only one male opposed what I said and another commented supporting my statement. And the single male user who did oppose it actually agreed with my premise about women in general but just not for the particular comme… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 12:33 PM |
| 6 | Question for Women: What do you want a guy to bring to the table for a long term relationship and possibly a life commitment? What is negotiable and what isn't? And, a bit of a weird question here: What do you wish him to ask you to bring?If a person can’t muster that up then they have no business being in a relationship. Oh nice the whole "I don't need no man who can't meet my standards" schtick. Crazy how women have all these lists yet a majority of you still end up as raggedy single moms or old divorcees. Again who are you women? You broads will whip up a 16 point checklist of what you deserve in a man in a couple minutes, but where are all the points for what you can offer a man?? Half of you are offended at the thought of ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 10:19 AM |
| 4 | Question for Women: What do you want a guy to bring to the table for a long term relationship and possibly a life commitment? What is negotiable and what isn't? And, a bit of a weird question here: What do you wish him to ask you to bring?If humanity ever goes extinct it will be because of the new conceited, ego inflated, generation of women whom outside of sex offer literally 0 value but expect the world. Since you broads got your way everything from marriage to birth rates have plummeted, only thing that's gone up is STD's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 09:37 AM |
| 2 | Question for Women: What do you want a guy to bring to the table for a long term relationship and possibly a life commitment? What is negotiable and what isn't? And, a bit of a weird question here: What do you wish him to ask you to bring?Right, so you can't list a single point on that list that's actually unreasonable. Let me put in in simple English for you, with a very straightforward analogy. Expecting a few standard job certifications in one potential job candidate is reasonable, expecting 15+ is delusional. It is even more delusional if the position being offered doesn't offer any more pay or benefits as any other company, at that point the position will either never get filled or the business will come to their senses and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 07:29 AM |
| 4 | Question for Women: What do you want a guy to bring to the table for a long term relationship and possibly a life commitment? What is negotiable and what isn't? And, a bit of a weird question here: What do you wish him to ask you to bring?Oh yeah a 15+ bulleted list of social, financial and emotional attributes catered specifically to the preferences and interests of one woman and merged perfectly into an individual man. The fact that you believe these traits are boring, attainable and the "bare minimum" just proves my point. Seriously, who are you to expect this? If you want to observe delusion compare this thread to the previous thread asking women what they themselves bring to the table...not a bullet point in sight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 07:08 AM |
| 4 | Question for Women: What do you want a guy to bring to the table for a long term relationship and possibly a life commitment? What is negotiable and what isn't? And, a bit of a weird question here: What do you wish him to ask you to bring?And I'm sure your husband, is just a dating Casanova, the upper echelon of humans and possesses all of the details listed above. No way you settled or eased your standards, never, you just so happened to find and marry said man. No bias at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 06:50 AM |
| 6 | Question for Women: What do you want a guy to bring to the table for a long term relationship and possibly a life commitment? What is negotiable and what isn't? And, a bit of a weird question here: What do you wish him to ask you to bring?And this...this right here gentlemen is why close to a majority of women in this generation will die alone. Assuming she even finds a man encompassing all these qualities, think of the options available to said hypothetical man. Why settle for her? Is she more attractive, submissive or feminine than the women open to dating him? What does she bring to his table? And such a man can only settle with one woman. Ultimately unless the commenter above is in the top 20% of women (In physical attractive… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 06:39 AM |
| 2 | What do you bring to the table?And a mam who would expect me to be submissive would be a shitty man. On that same token many men believe a women that views being submissive to her husband as a "bad deal", would ultimately be be a shitty wife. My point is that I never focused on being a perfect wife You don't say? I mean if you've never focused on being a perfect wife for a man you plan on spending your life with can't be surprised if few men want view you as a wife. If I said "my whole life I never focused on being the perfec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 06:24 AM |
| 11 | Is 'Toxic Masculinity' even real?Harassment and bullying are not attractive. Women will say this and then sleep with men who are more likely to harass and bully. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 04:28 AM |
| 0 | What do you bring to the table?I have a really good and interesting job, I spend a lot of time cultivating my passion. So probably I don't bring anything to the table according to red pill dudes. Men give as much concern to a woman's job, as women give to a man's niceness, it's a little bonus, not a determining factor. As for your passion, it is just that your passion, unless the man you seek has similar passions it will likely be another non-factor. For you it all comes down to whether or not you're hot. Men can tolerate non… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 10:23 PM |
| 22 | The real reason some women are against porn, prostitution and pick mes has nothing to do with protecting their fellow women. It has to do with monopolising sexual pleasureWorks both ways. The difference is men do not lie or try and deny it. Men have and will straight up tell you the "real reason" they're against what they're against, whereas (as you can see from the multiple comment in this thread) women will gasp, deny, feign outrage and pretend that they are only seeking to make the world a better place by somehow limiting prostitution or porn (Minus Sugar Daddies and Cam-Girls of course). Men are not the one's who will virtue signal, protest or climb a 10 stor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 08:04 PM |
| 28 | The real reason some women are against porn, prostitution and pick mes has nothing to do with protecting their fellow women. It has to do with monopolising sexual pleasureI don't know about prostitution and porn No women hate both of these mediums and will go out of their way to scrutinize or ban them when given the chance. Now they're trying to cancel free pornsites because they pose a risk to their skyrocketing cam-show and e-girl businesses. I mean it's not uncommon for women to get jealous and upset from their own partners simply watching porn, they even try to monopolize and limit their spouses sexuality. It's crazy because of how much talk that goes on abou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Women are afraid of men being weird/agressive/rapists, but how about men being afraid of other men getting triggered/mad? Can men here relate to that?how about men being afraid of other men getting triggered/mad? I wouldn't say that men are constantly in fear about another man acting aggressively towards them but all men know on a general level that if they engage or communicate with another man in the wrong way there could be a threat of physical escalation. Due to this men generally have unspoken "lines" they don't cross and this kind of baseline respect is a given in most male interactions. Women usually don't have this same understanding … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 04:07 PM |
| 1 | [Q4ALL] Whats your thoughts on the idea/phrase of “We all pay for sex/It’s cheaper to pay straight up”?Sure plenty of women still have this outdated insistence but it doesn't even seem to be the majority any more. Lol Then don't date. Don't willingly date delusional ego inflated women then complain about it. No shit Sherlock, you do realize that I'm actively arguing in support of prostitution over engaging with said women? No man should have to waste their time, finances, attention, resources, emotional output or energy dating these uncooperative, conceited and non-reciprocal moochers, especially… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 01:32 PM |
| 1 | [Q4ALL] Whats your thoughts on the idea/phrase of “We all pay for sex/It’s cheaper to pay straight up”?I do pay half. Always. Congratulations on being an anomaly. Crazy on reddit you'd think every women split half but in the real world they're nowhere to be seen. Why would you date a delusional ego inflated woman? Only thing left to date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 12:37 PM |
| 1 | [Q4ALL] Whats your thoughts on the idea/phrase of “We all pay for sex/It’s cheaper to pay straight up”?Doesn't apply to me. Congrats, this isn't about you. Only 1 out of these things is something I would do (the dinner). Even at that your dinner is still covering for 2 people. Also women themselves will frequently state that paying for a girls dinner in no way guarantee sex, you may pay for 2-3 dinners with no sex and considering the fact that 1/3 of women admit to using men for food when it comes to dates, it would be wise for men to skip all the BS and just get guaranteed sex somewhere else. Ef… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 11:31 AM |
| 2 | [Q4ALL] Whats your thoughts on the idea/phrase of “We all pay for sex/It’s cheaper to pay straight up”?Stop paying $100 per date then, that's fucking ridiculous. How about YOU "equality now!" women put your money where your mouth is pay half. Btw I'd never personally pay this much but I'm using this to show it's the statistical average. Also if you think all these delusional, ego-inflated women will take well to actually splitting on dates, yet alone a freaking taxi you're crazy and you don't understand dating at all. Women will literally expect your money, emotional investment and time while off… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 11:28 AM |
| 14 | [Q4ALL] Whats your thoughts on the idea/phrase of “We all pay for sex/It’s cheaper to pay straight up”?1.)Those “costs” are less than the 500 an hour you’re paying for legit escorts. And again it’s one time, compared to the girl who likes me let’s me smash anytime I want for free. The average cost of a date worldwide in 2019 is $113, a bill men are expected to cover entirely. The average escort cost in a Western City (Take Amsterdam) is between €50 - €100 or $60 - $120, with a mean of $90. Once you factor in time, scheduling, investment etc. if a man is just looking for sex (which they are in mos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/21 11:02 PM |
| 7 | [Q4ALL] Whats your thoughts on the idea/phrase of “We all pay for sex/It’s cheaper to pay straight up”?Sry but I didn't read it all since to me it's clear that prostitution would only harm my dignity and self respect. So would getting strung along, ghosted, flaked on and rejected, all of which you can expect to happen while dating in the modern era but many men still go along with it. Western men will say prostitution will harm their dignity just to go home by themselves and furiously beat off by to videos of other men sleeping with prostitues. Escort dates might be fun too but the money you spen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/21 09:02 PM |
| 4 | The real problem: The internet took a sledgehammer to the dating hierarchy.You can't control your beauty either. Ugly woman will stay ugly no matter what. Uhhh no. Maybe 100's of years ago but women now can utilize makeup, waist trainers, plastic surgeries etc all of which significantly improve their attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 03:28 PM |
| 15 | The distinction between the Nice Guy^TMs and genuinely nice guys is irrelevant if women don't value either of themIf you're getting nowhere with women it's probably because you're unattractive, unpleasant, or have few aspirations. Facts, just look at Jeremy Meeks, he's known to exhibit ALL of these qualities, I mean how else could he possibly be so successful with women, it's not like millions of women would be willing to overlook someone with a felonious past and horrible character just because they were goodlooking? Oh wait.. Labelling men who have difficulties getting women as being unpleasant or shitty … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 03:45 AM |
| 260 | If being poor/low income is what makes a man a loser in women's eyes, is there a singular (near) universal thing that makes women a loser and undatable in men's eye's?Being fat and unkempt. Despite people saying "Single Mothers", plenty of Single Moms can still attract and date men or have an active social circle. Obese women who don't take care of their appearance are lonely socially and even in dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/21 07:41 AM |
| 24 | When will dating ever get better for men in the United States?What a crock of utter BS. Listen guy how do you think a women is gonna act if your average guy comes up approaching her if she already has 100's of guys blowing up her phone on dating apps or Instagram? She's going to treat any guy that's not a Chad like another nuissance that's beneath her attention. Women do not like being approached by men they don't know any more, they will see you as creepy or weird especially in this #MeToo era, and you'd be lucky to get her number, yet alone a date or mee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 09:12 PM |
| 24 | When will dating ever get better for men in the United States?Men complain about their options while simultaneously giving tons of attention to chicks that are answering “you up?” texts at 2AM from dudes that don’t know their last name. This won't happen until men have alternative options of getting sex. The only way to reduce male thirst is to legalize prostitution. American men are only this thirsty because the women have completely locked and monopolized any other forms in which a man can gain physical or sexual intimacy. Online dating has vastly expand… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 07:58 PM |
| 1 | I want to dispel a myth I have been hearing from lesbian women lately about impressing women.OP should read up Norah Vincent. She is essentially a butch lesbian who went undercover as a man for several months and basically confirmed everything you're saying, specifically that when women are dating men they really do not want an emotional, "in their feelings" type of guy (despite what they may say) but more of a traditional macho man. And this was written back in the mid 2000's when dating was a lot easier now, she'd probably be an incel today's dating market. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 12:08 PM |
| 5 | Why do people care about hypergamy so much?It takes basic human needs like love, intimacy and a desire for family and cheaply commodifies them to something deserving to only those who are the highest on the foodchain. It essentially excludes access to one of the most prominent social bonds a person can develop to a minority of those in the upper echelon of a gender. In addition to this it tells the average men than they are entitled for daring to believe they may be worthy of love from even their mirror image, the average women. All the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 11:41 PM |
| 7 | There are some older men that really look good with dad bodsYou need to ask yourself why millions upon millions of women are spreading their legs and allowing "pieces of shit" to impregnate them. Also no child gets born in this country that a women doesn't want born, take some accountability for once. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 10:46 PM |
| 5 | As women outpace men in college degrees, will blue collar men still stand a chance in the dating market?In America-world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 09:48 PM |
| 10 | What if we created a r/PurplePillDebate hookup subreddit how quickly do yall think it'll turn into a sausage fest?Right, if I wanted to hook up with overweight, bitter, post-wall women I'd download POF | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 09:46 PM |
| 3 | There are some older men that really look good with dad bodsI've seen women ignore smart, hardworking genuinely good men to go and date college drug dealers, spoiled trust fund babies and literal criminals. If women actually cared about motivation, intelligence and ambition 40% of moms wouldn't be single mothers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 09:43 PM |
| 16 | There are some older men that really look good with dad bodsSo essentially it's his money Always was. All this talk about liking motivation, intelligence, ambition etc. are just code words for money and status. Remember women are covert communicators, unlike men who will just plainly proclaim "We love ass and titties!", women will always hide their intentions, they'll never just say "We love money and popularity!". Women love concealing things to look better socially, that's why they love makeup and filters lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 07:07 AM |
| 7 | Testing how many couples are looksmatched based on random video of guy walking through cityRather than just admit that make-up significantly improves a woman's looks (literally what it's made to do), you'd rather use mental gymnastics to pretend that make-up frequently makes the woman who buy it less attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 12:43 AM |
| 2 | Testing how many couples are looksmatched based on random video of guy walking through cityThe amount of hamstering going on right now lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 12:02 AM |
| 5 | AskMen post discussionAnd the pussy is contingent on the status and money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 12:02 AM |
| 7 | AskMen post discussionYou guys don’t love a woman for who she is. False. Plenty of men are willing to overlook a woman's faults and flaws to provide and protect for her. How many women would take a bullet fot their man?? Way more men than women will marry and wife, ugly, overweight women single moms, or even women with significant disablities. Women would not look at any of these men twice. A rich man can happily marry a poor women and change her life, a rich women wouldn't even look in a poor mans direction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/21 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Do stats show that women more difficult to have as Long term partners than men?With Job Loss being the most common cause of divorce but yeah hypergamy is definitely just another RP myth, women obviously love men for who they are lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/21 08:30 PM |
| 39 | AskMen post discussionEven worse is this trend being called "romantic entitlement". It is the view that an "entitled" guy is unrealistically expecting to be loved for who he is. Truest point here. At that stage men realize that there is no true "love" in moderrn relationships it's just a cost/benefit analysis of features that are negotiable. Women are very practical and analytical when it comes to dating, let's be honest there is little love involved. That's why I don't blame guys for not dating fat chicks or using c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/21 08:11 PM |
| 43 | AskMen post discussionI find women are much more considerate and emotionally connected than men in relationships. Well let's be honest, women are way more considerate when they're dating another women. If you we're a man they would set a completely different standard on you. For example those same women would probably expect their men to be 6'0 feet up, make great money and be high status. I bet one party doesn't have to do all the work like initiate first, organize the dates or romantic events, pay for dinners, buy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/21 07:59 PM |
| 24 | What advantages is your sex believed to have that you feel is of no benefit to you?Supposedly, because I was born with a Y chromosome and a dick, I rule the world and oppress everyone else. Exactly, most women see all the CEO's, billionaire's, players and assume that this is life for the everyday man. They don't realize that for every one of these guys there's hundreds of thousands of men nobody gives a damn about or even notices. They're too focused on the Investment bankers, Tech Giants and Star Athletes to look around and witness the Sewage cleaners, Garbage men and homeles… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/21 08:31 PM |
| 4 | SMV peaks at 26 for womenIf dudes are thirsty for her at 25 that’s not just gonna stop just because she turns 40. Yes dudes are thirsty but not HIGH VALUE MEN. "Dudes" will probably be thirsty for her in her 50's, women don't give a shit about average or low value men wanting to bang them, what women desire is to settle down with and marry a High-Value man. Most women have a tough enough time getting commitment from a high-value man in their early 20's, by the time they hit 30+ most would have squandered any real chance… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/21 02:31 AM |
| 2 | CMV: The 80/20 rule only exists because men weren’t as pressured as women to uphold their own beauty standards.This study, published last week in the journal Genome Research, can't directly account for why the dip occurred. Instead, the team members tried to think through other explanations. The stat you referenced never even confirmed whether or not this difference was caused by sexual selection, they are still actively collaborating with other specialists to reach a conclusion. Moreover this was only taken from 450 volunteers, where more extensive genetic work indicates that most people have two female… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 11:50 PM |
| 8 | CMV: The 80/20 rule only exists because men weren’t as pressured as women to uphold their own beauty standards.Hypergamy has always existed amongst humans yes, but it was never as imbalanced as the 80/20 rule we're witnessing in specifically Western countries at the moment. Literally a third of U.S. young men are completely sexually inactive, this has never before been seen in recorded human history. It is an anomaly when a third of young men in their peak physical years have no relationship prospects. Mind you it's a lot easier to obtain sex than it is to find the right women and settle down. If 30+% of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 03:35 PM |
| 7 | The patriarchy exists and that's perfectly okayMen are perceived less favorably, but their bad behavior tends to be more accepted. Yeah until it comes to ocucrt sentnecnings, false rape accusations, custody hearings etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 12:21 AM |
| 0 | Any guys/girls here who are grossed out my hookup culture?Nope, perfectly normal if 2 people who are attracted to each other want to have sex for the sake of enjoying sex without pretending that they're in love, they're "a perfect match" or have some sort of extreme desire for settling down. "Emotional attachment" is overrated, I bet a significant part of the reason you dated the men you did was was just as much a part of physical attraction. You might have not been thinking "let me sleep with him cause he's hot" but may have though "Let me show intere… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 09:55 PM |
| 4 | Why do most women hate Sex Workers?Exactly, same reason why women hate porn and sluts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Hitting the wall refers to when man begin to have an advantage over women in the sexual/ relationship marketplaceEarly 30s is peak ripeness for beautiful women. Most look about the same, many better, than they did in their 20s if they looked especially young. Hahahahahaha, enough said. Delusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 09:43 PM |
| 16 | If the redpill is meant to be an unbiased look at the sexual strategies of men and women, why is there so much moralizing and pathologizing of female sexuality?Cus at the end of the day it is an ideology promoted by men with bias and baggage. Literally every ideology is promoted by people with either bias or baggage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 03:52 PM |
| 6 | Hitting the wall refers to when man begin to have an advantage over women in the sexual/ relationship marketplaceWhat if she gets promoted, finds her ideal husband, and just generally has as great a time in her 30s as she did in her 20s? Still hit. Men don't care if Sarah gets promoted to CEO, finds a super beta hubby, or has the time of her life in her 30's, do you, but so long as Sarah is in her 30's and less attractive, fit and fresh faced as she was in her 20's then she has hit the wall. The HVM with options, who can pick and choose, will be giving the young, hot, feminine women entering or in their 20… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 11:55 AM |
| 3 | Why isn’t self-improvement for women encouraged more often?Women figure shit out and mature quicker while men become Peter Pan. Yeah then why do men on average outlearn and outperform women in every field. I agree that men have to be ontop of their shit more but I don't buy the whole "women outperform men" schtick, they just get more credit for doing the same thing. When a man graduates with a STEM degree or from law school no one blinks an eye whereas when a women does it people treat her like she's some iconic "you go girl" role model. Lot's of women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 06:56 AM |
| 17 | The reason women appear to be hypergamous is because the average (young) woman is more attractive than the average (young) manThey expect their men to be 6 foot +, jacked, make 6 figures and have perfect charisma but will happily date a 5 foot 4, chubby dyke who dresses and acts like an edgy middleschooler | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/21 11:54 PM |
| 8 | Should HVM be allowed to Cheat since they have "options"Yeah, let's take marriage advice from a random YouTube-dude that can't make his own marriage(s) work 🙄 You women never had no issues taking and buying advice by the millions from, the twice divorced Steve Harvey or Derrick "I cheat on my wife in the same house I raise our kids in" Jaxn. And don't even get me started on decades of dating advice from forever unmarried Oprah or those broads on the View or The Real or whatever trash is on nowadays lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/21 08:13 PM |
| 5 | Whats the equivalent of Daddy Issues for guys?bout how tough they are), he usually did not have a strong father figure in his life Goes back to being a mommas boy. Overly feminized influence leads men to act over-emotional, become simps and hang on to juvenile thoughts of what it means to be masculine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/21 07:54 PM |
| 10 | Question about red pill philosophy in light of recent allegations against Florida politiciansWealthy men pay whores to go away Exactly. Men at that level are used to thinking efficiently, they're not paying for sex, they're paying for convenience. They could smash any girl for free but they understand prostitutes less chance of sexual assault allegations, unwanted children, child support, media/photo leaks, gossiping, blackmail and time (and money) consuming courting/headaches, etc. They get what they actually want (amazing sex), with less risk and for dirt cheap considering their wealt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/21 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Dating women who have advanced degreesMen who don't care about their woman's careers shouldn't complain when they get divorce raped and have to pay heavy alimony. LMAO all women are subject to divorce rape you, doesn't matter if she's a doctor or dancer, look at Jeff Bezos. Men with options don't tend to settle with the Starbucks barista, they usually go for people in the same class No, men with little options are limited to women in the same class. A man whose options are limitless is not restricted by class and will go with whatev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/21 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Which race of men has the easiest time dating? (intra-racially to be specific)According to most studies white men have the easiest time dating. Women across all races tend to prefer white men over all races, eve men of their own race. From there it's usually Hispanic or Middle Eastern, Black, then Indian or Asian. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 06:06 AM |
| 7 | Question for the menThe answer to OP's question: It's the same reason why overweight, post-wall, annoying, promiscuous 6's and 7's believe they're worthy of commitment from tall, handsome, wealthy and charismatic Chads. The same reason why women who bring nothing to the table but starfish sex and 2 kids believe they need a guy who can provide for them. Same reason why the bottom 80% of the female population believes that they can only settle down with the top 20% of men. Same reason why women who will swiftly rejec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 10:32 AM |
| 24 | What is a superficially unattractive man from your point of view?And then people will still try and deny the blackpill lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Only promiscuous women can give men actual good dating adviceAre y’all asking sluts that you actually know, or walking up to a random slut and asking? Either or, might actually be better to ask the stranger as your friend will have more of an incentive to save face You either need total anonymity or a friendship to get honest answers about taboo topics. Asking how to date women is not a taboo topic like abortion, politics or sex lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 04:58 PM |
| 9 | Only promiscuous women can give men actual good dating adviceOnly promiscuous women can give men good hookup advice. Only happily married women can give men good dating advice. Very few woman can give any men decent dating advice because most women don't know why they date who they date. You could go up to a chick who's been ran through by a football team full of Chads and Tyrones and she'll tell you that about how much she "Hates assholes and to just be confident and polite" around girls like her. Even if she did know she won't tell you that she is only … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 04:46 PM |
| 10 | How do you want the opposite sex to interact with you?No but most men who frequently get approached by women are. Women are not sexually overt, they're not going to do those things to you unless you are significantly more attractive than the average man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 04:04 PM |
| 6 | How do you want the opposite sex to interact with you?Women going out of their way to talk to me, doing cute or awkward things to get my attention, and highly more interested in discovering things about me. Ahhh the Chad treatment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 03:41 PM |
| 30 | Are women intimidated by men with high SMV?Only when they feel like he may use it against them. If they associate a guy who has high SMV as being manipulative to women they'll say insecure, cop outs like "I prefer a guy with a Dad Bod", "I don't get what other girls see in him" or "I don't want a guy who takes more time to get ready than me" etc. If a women doesn't feel this then she'll smash him just as quick as she can utter any of these statements. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 06:43 PM |
| 1 | What do YOU bring to the table? What are your standards, and do you yourself satisfy those standards?Also, it’s more than socially acceptable for me to use each and every one of those things. Make up for men is already very common and hair extensions. Many attractive men and celebrities use them regularly to keep up their look. It’s also advertised and marketed to men by top brands. Delusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 06:52 PM |
| 0 | The reason for high male celibacy is mostly due to video games and porn rather than dating appsWe live in an era of peak high quality, instant gratification. Exactly. 20-30 years ago women were much more open to men approaching them, striking conversation or expressing interest in public as she likely received some sort of desired validation. Average girl back then only had a handful of guys showing her interest and couldn't afford to be needlessly picky over things like height. They also had a decent gage of how attractive they were or the type of men she could seriously date. Now your a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 01:01 PM |
| 1 | The reason for high male celibacy is mostly due to video games and porn rather than dating appsMen have had porn and videogames for decades. We've only had massive dating apps during the 2010's. Tinder didn't really take off until 2014/2015 around this same exact time you see an increase in male sexlessness: https://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-apps/imrs.php?src=https://arc-anglerfish-washpost-prod-washpost.s3.amazonaws.com/public/4C7SSBIXSNFCLOJIGCWUOKDYTY.png&w=691 Furthermore women have just as much access to the same exact mediums of entertainment as men however they are not experienci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 12:36 PM |
| 0 | What do YOU bring to the table? What are your standards, and do you yourself satisfy those standards?Well of course, he has to be attractive Yes but it is an extremely relevant standard that people expect of their partners, I feel like if it's so important it should be listed in the bare minimum of standards. I see women who have those qualities who are also overlooked but they're ugly too. Sucks to be ugly. These women are only overlooked if they go for men significantly out of their league, most ugly women can easily get into relationships with ugly or average looking men, the same isn't true… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 10:54 AM |
| 0 | What do YOU bring to the table? What are your standards, and do you yourself satisfy those standards?2: Top Notch personal hygiene 3: Clean up after themselves, because cleanliness is next to godliness. 4: Courteous, polite to those around them, especially service workers. 5: Mental and emotional maturity, I won't accept holes in any of my drywall. Meh all of these feature more or less can be looked over for appearance. I've known drug using (or dealing), dirty, sketchy, dishonest and rude (but top 20% looking) guys do well with all types of women and I've seen men with all the qualities you've… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 10:06 AM |
| 5 | Do you think the whole act of marriage is weak and submissive for a man and makes a woman respect you less?you do that for kids, not adults Same can be said for being expected to cover for a majority of the household expenses, vacations or alimony payments in the case of a divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 02:59 AM |
| 17 | What are your standards?Men are discouraged from being picky with women. A man can't publicly state that he doesn't like fat girls, slutty women, or hairy chicks without being labeled a bodyshaming chauvinist these days. It's not uncommon for women to accuse men with standards half as strict as their own of being sexist. Also men have less options, and understand that being choosy limits their chances of finding love whereas women take on the exact opposite approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Bisexuals of PPD: Which gender do you find more attractive?Umm this thread? Yeah that's what I thought haha. Imagine using some biased, poorly written, one off comments in a thread of a small fringe subreddit as holding any statistical backing, this is enough to realize I'm not going to continue talking to anyone who does not grasp value actual statistics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Bisexuals of PPD: Which gender do you find more attractive?Why are you as a heterosexual man do butt hurt that bisexuals find women more attractive then men? Well can you provide evidence to show such since you've been claiming it left and right? Also I don't care who bisexuals sleep with I'm just presenting alternative facts to the "Women are so much more better looking/attractive/beautiful than men" BS trope that gets shoved down ones throat in this gynocentric society. If you look at it objectively the amount of actually beautiful women (no cosmetics… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 02:03 PM |
| 4 | What exactly does an average guy, and girl for that matter, look like?Wtf are you talking about you just picked 2 random photos of different people. No where in either of the links you referenced does it indicate that these people represent either gender. Furthermore in the picture you did use the guy is clearly fatter however your own Source Inspiration, the second one, show's that women have a higher BMI than men (Male BMI is 29.1, female BMI is 29.5), so if anything the woman should be the bigger of the two, which just highlights how out of wack the pictures yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Bisexuals of PPD: Which gender do you find more attractive?Nah, studies actually show more human beings are attracted to men than women lol. So much for all that talk about how women are so much better looking. And these are in countries where female cosmetics industries are booming, imagine if there was no makeup lol. https://journals.sagepub.com/na101/home/literatum/publisher/sage/journals/content/psia/2016/psia_17_2/1529100616637616/20160930/images/medium/10.1177_1529100616637616-fig1.gif "Surveys in Western cultures find, on average, that about 93% … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 01:40 PM |
| 3 | Bisexuals of PPD: Which gender do you find more attractive?where most men are just gross because of their inflated sense of self. That should be irrelevant when discussing pure physical attractiveness though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 01:34 PM |
| 4 | Bisexuals of PPD: Which gender do you find more attractive?they take care of their skin/hair/body, "The age-adjusted prevalence of severe obesity in adults was 9.2% and was higher in women than in men." https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/images/databriefs/351-400/db360-fig3.gif American women aged 20 years and above weigh an average of 170.6 pounds (lbs), according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). Height-wise, the average adult female is 5 feet 3.7 inches. The average American man 20 years old and up weighs 197.9 pounds and the average hei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Bisexuals of PPD: Which gender do you find more attractive?Well let me update you, that same study (from the same year) says and I quote: "The age-adjusted prevalence of severe obesity in adults was 9.2% and was higher in women than in men." https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/images/databriefs/351-400/db360-fig3.gif Also let me find some more CDC stats while we're at it: American women aged 20 years and above weigh an average of 170.6 pounds (lbs), according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). Height-wise, the average adult female is 5 feet 3… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Bisexuals of PPD: Which gender do you find more attractive?You made a lot of assuption on what I find attractive. I don't relally like fake lashes, fake boobs and their likes. Never said you did, but anyone saying female cosmetics don't enhance their attractiveness does not understand the purpose of the cosmetic industry. It's easy to sit and call men ugly when one gender is allowed to cheat their way into looking better. Women are not better looking, they're equal, all of these products make it seem like they are though. As for stretch marks and fat- t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 12:56 PM |
| 0 | Bisexuals of PPD: Which gender do you find more attractive?Tbf that’s very much a minority, dudes with love handles by far outnumber dudes with six packs. Yeah Tbf chicks with love handles far outnumber dudes with them: https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/2/23/ObesitySexRace2016.png | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 12:53 PM |
| -1 | Bisexuals of PPD: Which gender do you find more attractive?There is a far greater number of attractive women. They take more care of their skin, hair, clothing etc. Have women go a month without caking their faces with paint and we'll see how many "far greater attractive women" there really are. Have women go outside and show us what actually look like. That means no push up bras, fake lashes, fake nails, fake hair, fake lips, fake breasts, fake butts etc. Have women actually walk the streets showing the REAL THEM, you know like men do everyday and lets… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 12:35 PM |
| 5 | Why hasn't "freezing eggs" gone mainstream?And for those that don't know what Dink means it's double income no kids. "Dinkleberg..." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Women who don’t have sex unless they are in a relationship are hurting themselves more than anythingAnd everyone will end up with the best person who'll have them Exactly . The issue is most average to low tier women think that the market equilibrium grants them a HVM when in actuality it's an average or low value one. In time they will eventually go with what's best suited for them lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Women who don’t have sex unless they are in a relationship are hurting themselves more than anythingWhy would any woman with options choose the man who won't invest? Cause if he's a HVM (which every girl desires) he will have his own options and will not wait for a couple months for Basic Brittany to give him vanilla sex when hotter and more personable girls are a text away. Women may be able to play this BS with LVM but any guy high in status will replace her, only a low value, desperate man would fall for this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 07:49 AM |
| 3 | If people where actually honest what 3 traits do woman and men find most desirable in the opposite sex?Women: Status (Wealth, Popularity, Role etc) Looks Personality Men Looks Personality Femininity (Nurturing, classy etc) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 05:39 AM |
| 3 | How is casual sex degrading to you (if you do feel this way)?Because men openly talk awful things about women who they casually slept with. I'm not interested in giving pleasure to someone who would call me a slut or a cumdumpster. Maybe try hitting it off with respectful or kind men. I mean women will literally line up to smash douchebags and then act surprised when they do douchey things. Chances are if he's an asshole while with you he will be an even bigger one when you leave. Most guys can attest that when they came across more nice or respectful the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 01:06 PM |
| 2 | [Q4ALL] Whats your thoughts on Catfishing in dating?A majority (70%) of American women are overweight, almost half are obese, yet they have higher egos than slim, beautiful models in the 90's. Make it make sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 12:31 PM |
| 3 | [Q4ALL] Whats your thoughts on Catfishing in dating?Women are more suspectible to it because there is no need for women to do it in 90+% of the casees. Lol women are already allowed and actively encouraged to essentially catfish their entire appearance and I don't even mean online with Snapchat filters, photoshop, or camera angles. Most women have to resort to painting their faces in order to feel attractive. None of what makes her "physically attractive" is even naturally hers, whether it's the fake nails, fake eyelashes, fake contact lenses, fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 02:25 PM |
| 13 | People who use [Insert Pill Colour] subreddits, are the last people to understand datingIdk about the other pills, but for The Red Pill at least it's appear to not just an opinion based echo chamber where people just whine about their frustrations on a soap box. For the most part they go out of their way to regularly present, research and discuss multiple studies and statistics in relation to modern dating. I feel like your post as a sort of half assed "your-all-equally-wrong" centrist like dismissal. In reality it's very unlikely that people and communities who constantly engage i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think about the men who wife up murderous and outright criminal women?Attractive women can do whatever they want and still end up on top. Hot sluts get married all the time. Women can't talk, they're just as superficial, I mean even men as aroused as we are never took it to Jeremy Meeks level lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 05:20 PM |
| 3 | "Unconventionally attractive" is still conventionally attractiveWhy would you care? People have a right to have any high standards and a right to not work on themselves. Where is this energy for men? Whenever we say we don't like fat chicks, flat chicks, single moms, heck even chicks with hairy armpits we get called judgmental, misogynistic jerks. Which gender was it that spearheaded the fat acceptance and No Body Shaming movements just to turn around and list "No guys under 6ft" on their dating profiles or are known to publically embarrass or laugh at guys … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 12:59 PM |
| 0 | If the problem with no sex (or not enough sex) isn't solely about sex, people need to make that very clear.You are all literally addicted to whores. You cannot go one week, much less a day without porn. Yeah no shit, it's almost like after millions of years men have evolved to be driven to perform the single most important biological act to ensure the reproduction of our species. You might as well get mad at women for having periods, if you were a male you'd be doing the exact same thing and you know it. If men weren't "addicted to whores" you wouldn't have even been conceived to type out your useles… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 08:14 AM |
| 4 | Q4All: What are the warning signs that you are pedestalizing someone you are dating?You begin to subconsciously envision a future with them. While your at work or running through errands you catch yourself day dreaming and visualizing them in weddings, family pictures, mentally playing out your life with them as pathetic as it sounds. These seemingly positive and emotionally powerful images will, unintentionally motivate you to put in work to make the dreams of this "relationship" into a reality, your unrelenting desire to live out this life with her, will inevitably (unless re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 02:08 PM |
| 13 | Attractive women play "hard to get" at first to quickly filter out weak-willed men“Attractive women play ‘hard to get’ at first to quickly filter out Average to Low Value Men who aren’t really interested in more than a quick fuck” There ya go. If you are a very good looking or wealthy man attractive women will see no issue being straightforwad or sleeping with you. Heck they may even approach you.Women will hold out and play games on men she views as significantly lower value than herself to make them work their way to sex (dates, attention, effort etc.) so that she can justi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 09:03 PM |
| 36 | If the problem with no sex (or not enough sex) isn't solely about sex, people need to make that very clear.Then why don't male virgins (and a certain I word) say "I wish someone would love me and make me feel special" instead of "I wish someone would have sex with me"? No offence but if you expect masses of grown men to state this openly and publicly then you know next to nothing about men. Saying "I wish someone would love me" as a man will not garner you any sympathy from women, who will at best see it as kind of feeble, pathetic whining and at worst see it as just another deceptive way to say "I j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 03:10 PM |
| 7 | What makes a positive male figure for children?A man who exhibits positive features for adult men, such as intelligence, decency, respect and hardwork. It could be anyone from movie stars (The Rock) to your middle school teacher. What is about a fathers support that a mother can’t provide? Typically men instill independence, strength and discipline into their children, specifically sons. Men who are raised by single mothers tend to act out on their emotions, are more care-free and are not as I guess composed or structured. Women have a tende… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 10:59 AM |
| 17 | The widespread opinion that men do not carry their weight in marriage is a good reason for men not to marry.The fact that woman use "I'm a girl" to negate massive financial responsibilities in relationships is even more telling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 02:38 AM |
| 15 | The widespread opinion that men do not carry their weight in marriage is a good reason for men not to marry.They don't "Feel" it. It's factual. Woman do more then men in marriages. That's all. *Facepalm*...Oh yeah woman are totally expected to cover a majority of the household expenses, start college funds for the kids, become a step-mother for an older man and pay for/raise kids that aren't their own, get down on one knee and propose to men, buy diamond rings, arrange weddings & anniversaries, ask for their fiance's parents hand in marriage, pay for dinners, vacations and the spirit of the holidays s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 01:38 AM |
| 2 | Why is lesbian prostitution almost non-existent, yet gay prostitution is thriving?Also it's relatively easier for lesbian women to have sex than men. I mean even the most butch dykes resemble autistic, short, overweight, betas yet women are more than happy to throw sex their way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 01:24 AM |
| 13 | CMV: People nowadays are unhappy in their marriages because they have unrealistic expectations.I wouldn't say those boomer marriages were "successful" I wouldn't say modern marriages with their high divorce rates, ludicrous alimony settlements and sexist child custody courts are successful either. Contrary to popular belief marriage was never a function to acknowledge romantic love, but rather a financial and familial union used solidify family structures and raise children, which is why there's so much legality in it. People have falsely been led to believe that it's the next step in lov… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/21 05:43 PM |
| 10 | Part of the reason for male sexlessness, is men burn bridges with good womenMost men are too preoccupied trying to build a bridge with a women, to focus on burning ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/21 06:47 AM |
| 11 | In a bluepill world, are socially awkward men expected to suffer in loneliness?Lower ranking men are supposed to just know their place and be happy they get to exist in a society of superior people. Pretty much. Women are disgusted by any unattractive or low value men who dares to harmlessly be in their presence for too long. If they're not offering them some service like changing a tire or opening a jar, the women's "creep (AKA uncomfortably ugly ) radar" will go off and she'll excuse herself from his presence. Even below average looking women detest having their male equ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/21 04:51 AM |
| 9 | In a bluepill world, are socially awkward men expected to suffer in loneliness?are socially awkward men expected to suffer in loneliness? Only if they're not attractive, rich or high in status or value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/21 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Women should not take dating advice from women whose value and/or beauty is higher than theirswhy shouldn't a 5 woman seek a 5 and expect to be treated well by one? Because a female 5 does not seek a male 5. Women are hypergamous, the worst she'll settle for is a 5 maybe, she wants a 8-10. Y'all act like unless a 5 woman is willing to settle for a 1-2 she must be some shallow slut or deserves any bad treatment she gets, it's wild No we ask women to be pragmatic when dating. Chads are limited, 8-10 are limited and they don't settle with 5's. Having the average women (50% of the female pop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/21 03:48 AM |
| 0 | Women should not take dating advice from women whose value and/or beauty is higher than theirsWomen being told "you should have higher standards" aren't usually talking about how hot he is, they're usually telling a girl not to let a man mistreat her Not really.. if women wanted to say this they simply state it (which they do) not bring up some "vague" quote about how standards really relates to mistreatment and not superficial ideas about success, income or states. When they tell each other "you should have higher standards" or "don't settle" they literally mean don't ease your standard… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/21 03:02 AM |
| -1 | It’s OK to go off of body language when trying to gauge consentYou'll have to share your bitterness with someone who gives a fuck. Lol I don't think you're in a position to talk about sharing bitterness lady | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/21 09:55 PM |
| 6 | It’s OK to go off of body language when trying to gauge consentTHAT'S more 13-year-old behavior that asking her if she's enjoying what you're doing. So is expecting men to pay meals in 2021, being 5'4 and only dating guys 6 feet and taller or complaining about the lack of men and without approaching any. Welcome to the world of modern dating, it's very irrational. If dating was logical 30% of young men wouldn't be sexless, being mature does not correspond with dating success. Why do you think stupid men do better with women and smart men are more likely to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/21 09:08 PM |
| 10 | It’s OK to go off of body language when trying to gauge consentI've never understood the argument that it ruins the mood. Do y'all not know how to ask a woman if she likes what you're doing? Or even better... "Tell me what you want." Ofcourse you haven't understood because you've never gone though the frustration of pursuing women. They will reject you if you are too nice, polite or needy any man who's dated women will attest to this. I remember when a hardcore feminist lesbian paraded as a man and went out dating women and even she admitted women still ver… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/21 08:46 PM |
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