GenderEnlightenment Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
38	The 5 Most Dangerous Online Dating Mistakes Women (and Men) Make - and What to Do Instead	Online Game	GenderEnlightenment	/r/seduction	09/01/20 04:53 AM

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1	Should I give up Forget all about PUA stuff and terminology, and just talk to girls. Flirt. Make them laugh, compliment them. If you’re not sure what to say, say whatever you are thinking. I bet there are women all around you who’d love to go out with you (based on your pic). You just gotta get out of your own way and take action. It only takes ONE girl to say yes, even just making out, and YEARS of fear and frustration can vanish in a heartbeat. Then it’s game on.	/r/seduction	31/01/20 04:45 AM
–	Should I give up Upload a pic of yourself!	/r/seduction	31/01/20 04:32 AM
–	I stopped being so active in trying to get a get a girlfriend — and girls, paradoxically, notice me more A LOT of women (smart, attractive women in 30s and 40s) won’t ever ask a guy out. If he doesn’t ask, there’s usually no date or first meeting. Girls be like, “Don’t chase me!” Next minute, “Be a man and step up!” Big difference between “throwing yourself at someone” or “chasing” and being a mature adult and suggesting a coffee date, too.	/r/seduction	10/01/20 12:12 AM
1	The 5 Most Dangerous Online Dating Mistakes Women (and Men) Make - and What to Do Instead Hinge is great! Bumble too. (I get far more dates from online apps than any other method.)	/r/seduction	09/01/20 09:18 PM
1	The 5 Most Dangerous Online Dating Mistakes Women (and Men) Make - and What to Do Instead Thanks for saying it’s “cringe.” Used that example in a book I’m publishing soon. Guess I gotta change that! 🤦🏼‍♂️	/r/seduction	09/01/20 09:17 PM
1	The 5 Most Dangerous Online Dating Mistakes Women (and Men) Make - and What to Do Instead This is also a teaching article, not meant to be copied exactly. The examples are examples, not “use this exact profile description.” Merely teaching a few marketing principles.	/r/seduction	09/01/20 08:53 PM
1	The 5 Most Dangerous Online Dating Mistakes Women (and Men) Make - and What to Do Instead I wrote this in 2017. It’s not perfect. I’m new to Reddit and this was my first post, learning how Karma works, wanted to add some value to the community, so I copied and pasted this here, originally written for women. Thanks for your feedback. And tips.	/r/seduction	09/01/20 08:50 PM
1	The 5 Most Dangerous Online Dating Mistakes Women (and Men) Make - and What to Do Instead Awesome feedback. Thanks!	/r/seduction	09/01/20 04:48 PM
2	The 5 Most Dangerous Online Dating Mistakes Women (and Men) Make - and What to Do Instead I get your explanation. Thanks. How would you rewrite it? Or do you have an example of an example profile you could share here? Always cool to see what other people think.	/r/seduction	09/01/20 03:45 PM
2	The 5 Most Dangerous Online Dating Mistakes Women (and Men) Make - and What to Do Instead Lol. How would you rewrite it?	/r/seduction	09/01/20 01:41 PM
7	The 5 Most Dangerous Online Dating Mistakes Women (and Men) Make - and What to Do Instead I forgot that was in there, lol. (Misspelling was intentional.) I love sarcasm and saying things that get my point across in creative ways. Probably because I write creative advertising for a living. I appreciate your input and the fact that it made you chuckle!	/r/seduction	09/01/20 09:06 AM
4	The 5 Most Dangerous Online Dating Mistakes Women (and Men) Make - and What to Do Instead If you have any questions, let me know.	/r/seduction	09/01/20 05:56 AM
3	Okay I get it now Keep trying UNTIL you succeed.	/r/seduction	29/12/19 06:54 AM
1	How can I learn to be funny and quick witted? I thought I was.	/r/seduction	27/12/19 02:23 AM
1	What are the best songs to have sex to? Bump n Grind by R. Kelly Usher / Latin Music Something exotic. Ask her what turns her on and/or makes her want to dance. Use that.	/r/seduction	26/12/19 06:40 AM
1	Unable to connect with anyone Get good at flirting in writing. Online dating will be your starter. Flirt online, messaging, sharing thoughts, asking girls questions, escalate in writing. (Talk about dogs/music and ask her what kind she likes.) THEN when you first meet in person, you already know each other and can pick up where you last left off. Also, if you flirted heavy online, you can be a total gentleman on your date and she still knows you like her in a sexual way. If she's out with you, she probably likes you too. So …	/r/seduction	26/12/19 06:37 AM
1	How do I show my interest without getting into the friendzone? Talk to other girls. Make sure she sees you doing so. (Social proof) When you're around the girl you like, you can tease her, joke about sexual matters, or simply share a "What if..." sexual/romantic scenario — anything to get off of the "we're just friends" vibe. It's totally counterintuitive, but telling a woman that you think about other girls (or have done XYZ with another girl) can be a HUGE turn-on for the girl you're talking to. Also, use your hands to show interest. Around her waist and …	/r/seduction	26/12/19 06:32 AM
–	How can I learn to be funny and quick witted? Practice twisting people's words to give them a different meaning. For example, a girl says she has to go to the doctor tomorrow to get a physical. You realize "physical" can be sexualized, and you respond, "I wouldn't mind giving you a physical." She laughs. You just communicated "I want to get naughty with you" but in a way that's funny and indirect. Twist your guy friend's words (in non sexual ways, duh). Practice. Then just speak your mind when a girl says something that you can twist or sim…	/r/seduction	26/12/19 06:25 AM
10	how to flirt with a shy guy/know if he’s interested?? Be direct. Most guys have no idea a girl likes them unless she flirts hard, touches him on the arm or leg, laughs at his jokes, wear short skirts or tight tees and show some cleavage, perhaps, or simply say, "Shut up and kiss me" or "I want you." You'll know he likes you — before you do this, perhaps — if he DOESN'T flirt with you, BUT he can't stop looking at you. 1) Prolonged, repeated eye contact 2) He acts shy or nervous around you 3) He hangs out with you (even if it feels like he's "just a…	/r/seduction	26/12/19 06:20 AM
1	College Decision Time #2	/r/seduction	26/12/19 06:14 AM
1	How to behave solo in clubs/bars Go with a friend, guys or gals, or both, but if you have to go alone... 1) Buy drinks 2) Dance to the music and embrace looking silly. Silly, fun, a bit wild ... girls go out looking to get wild. Don't be the boring guy standing in the corner watching everyone else have fun. Do this and girls will come talk to you and/or dance with you. Talk to and dance with them. Repeat step 1. Then step 2 again. Verbal interest is good, but you can say a lot more with your hands, for starters, and just dancin…	/r/seduction	26/12/19 06:12 AM
1	Any other dudes in college and feel like every other guy is getting it except them? Look for the shy girls. They usually smile some, laugh, make eye contact with you... these girls can have wild sides too. They know they're not as flashy hot as the party girls and they likely don't want to be like those sluts. But they DO want to have fun with a great guy, too. Having an awesome girlfriend is WAY better than sleeping around anyway. Relax, have fun, crack jokes and laugh at yourself (girls like this sometimes), basically be anything BUT boring. Boring gets you nowhere. Leave you…	/r/seduction	26/12/19 06:04 AM
0	Tips on having a less platonic vibe? Express sexual desire — directly, indirectly, with your facial expressions ... Treat a girl like she's "just a friend" and she probably will be — unless she secretly likes you, in which case treating her like "just a friend" will drive her crazy (in a good way).	/r/seduction	26/12/19 05:59 AM
1	[FR] She didn't text me, but I did it - I approached! No matter what happens, you faced a fear and took action. Props.	/r/seduction	26/12/19 05:56 AM