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| 1 | How do you keep the relationship going past the initial excitement?Try not to worry too much. If the relationship is good for the both of you it’ll come natural. If you have to work too hard then it’s not the relationship for you | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 02:03 PM |
| 0 | You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sexWow, good for you! Guess you’re not the only one then | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 01:29 PM |
| 1 | You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sexDarling, you are the one who brought gender and sexuality into this, I just built on your own hate comment :) | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 01:27 PM |
| -1 | You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sexWhy thank you. At least genderfluid pidgeons are better than straight assholes :) | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 01:24 PM |
| -2 | You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sexI don’t have to, have a beautiful partner to do that for me | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 01:14 PM |
| -2 | You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sexYeah and how is that going for you dude. Fuck off. Ask consent if you wanna do things sexually and then see if she wants to or not. Don’t push yourself onto her. She can also ask for consent if she wants to have sex, it’s not all up to the man. And sex is definitely not as important as you make it sound here dude, you clearly have no idea how women actually think. Smh | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 12:42 PM |
| 1 | How do I get over the fact that I won't have sex until I'm a adult in my 20s and missed out on sex and dating as a teenager?Ask yourself why it’s so important to you to have has these ‘milestones’. Most people don’t, and a lot of people brag about doing things while not actually doing things. Half the people you hear talking about it (especially teenagers!) are lying to try and fit in. Maybe talk to a therapist to find the root of the problem. | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Do people who engage in casual sex usually only do so with strangers (bars, nightclubs, pubs etc…) or is it just as commonly done between friends and people who know each other?That’s what friends with benefits are for. I’d never have random sex with a stranger, I need a form of trust before. I do have 2 friends with benefits, though I also have a partner now so I rarely see them anymore (my partner knows and is 100% okay with it btw, I’m not cheating lol) | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 06:06 AM |
| 2 | Who should text first after a first date?Jesus christ, what is up with the straights. On a first date, either both pay alone or the person who asked out pays. Gender has nothing to do with it… smh As for the texting, if you wanna say something then just do it. There is no right or wrong person to text first. If you liked the date and wanna do it again, just tell them. Why make it a bigger deal than it is. Either you two wanna go on another date or you don’t, but why make that miserable by waiting for whoever can text first when you can… | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 03:47 PM |
| 1 | She takes a long time to reply to my messages but is active and not dry at all when she does.Work or school? Friends? I personally like it when I’m spending time with someone and they’re not constantly on their phone, and I can’t use my phone at work or school either, so some days I respond immediately and sometimes it takes a frw hours. Why not just ask her about it? | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Did she agree to go to a date or just out as friendsJust a meet up. If you want it to be more, ask her | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Do people cuddle after the first time they have sex?Some do some don’t, it all depends on the specific people involved and the specific feelings involved. When I trust someone I LOVE cuddling them, but sometimes I get all in my head on whether I did something wrong and I get all distant. Or I don’t trust someone enough to be vulnerable with them. Etc etc etc (and sensory wise I often overheat or can’t handle too much feeling so then I also stop — but I’m autistic so there’s that) | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 01:54 PM |
| 0 | How do I get attractive female friends?I never once said ‘attractive women friends’ there, so I don’t really see the need for this comment but I will explain for you the actual meaning of what I said. ‘Female’ is an adjective, ‘woman’ is a noun. It is ‘female friends’ that is correct, but it’s not ‘females’. Language makes a huge difference here in meaning. You don’t say ‘males’ when talking about men either, so why would you call women ‘females’? That is in fact objectifying women, which is what I commented on. I gave them advice to… | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 06:22 AM |
| 3 | How do I get attractive female friends?The first and most important change would be to change your attitude towards women and attractiveness. Saying ‘females’ instead of ‘women’ is objectifying, and disrespectful to women. Stop viewing women as a prize to win or a posession to show off, and start seeing them as human beings with feelings and emotions, and start treating them as such. (* female is an adjective, woman is a noun. Talk about women as being ‘attractive females’ or ‘women’, not as ‘females’). Ask yourself why you want to h… | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 03:14 AM |
| 1 | How do I get attractive female friends?Change your attitude | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 03:07 AM |
| 1 | So she can ask about my height but I can’t ask about her weight?Straight people… I honestly don’t get the point in why height or weight matters. Just ask her what her height is because ‘you don’t date short girls’ and see if she gets offended? | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 02:25 PM |
| 8 | Fun night but girl got mad I wouldn’t fuck her without a condom first nightMaybe she wanted to get pregnant snd was looking for a babydaddy. Either way you lucked out dude | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 08:08 PM |
| 1 | "what are your intentions with me"She might have just wanted a fuckbuddy or wanted someone to casually date. It’s not a trick question, she just didn’t like the answer | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Do you find high-pitch or deep husky voice sexier in women?Both but I like deep the most | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls come back to my place but leave instantly?What does your place look like? Is it dirty? Are there things on the floor everywhere? Does it smell gross? (Definitely ask people as you can become ‘blind’ to the scents in your daily living space!!!). How do you ‘escalate’ things? Do you ask for consent? How do you smell? Maybe your mouth stinks or your pits? Ask that too, maybe ask the girls you’re taking home. ‘Hey, can I just ask, did I do something wrong? Do I smell bad? Do you not like the vibes of my place?’ They are probably too shy to … | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 09:07 AM |
| 4 | How to recover from sleeping with a known whoreOkay well don’t call her a whore. If she likes sleeping with people that is perfectly fine, and not just okay for guys to do. If she is a prostitute, have some respect and use the proper terms for it. As for how to move past it, just tell people that whatever she did has nothing to do with you, and they shouldn’t judge you on her actions. For example, my family is very racist and quite homophobic/transphobic and ableist, etc. Doesn’t mean I have anything to do with that. Why should I let people … | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 03:25 PM |
| -2 | I think I know why *some* women ghost randomly even if it seems like you’re both enjoying yourselves.Disclaimer, I know this might sound like an attack, but I don’t mean it that way. I am genuinely trying to give you advice here on what you’re doing wrong, but it’s the middle of the night and I don’t really have the mental energy to phrase it all nicely, so sorry if it comes out bitchy, but the point stays the same There are a few reasons why women ‘suddenly ghost’; - You’re not what they are looking for, either in time, affection, love language, hobbies, etc etc - You offended them with someth… | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 02:44 AM |
| 1 | I can't take this anymore.Seeing women as cancer will kinda do that to you. But seriously though, on what kind of dating apps are you? This is not normal behavior and girls wouldn’f normally do this. Either these are men looking for a hookup and catfishing you, ir these girls are pressured by their gay best friend. This is not a thing girls do. Girls who are looking for boyfriends aren’t looking for two guys to fuck each other. Clearly state in your profile you are looking for a serious relationship and not a hookup, and… | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 07:40 AM |
| 2 | How do you go in for the kiss at the end? What’s your techniqueExactly! Especially if you play it right, it can be hella sexy! | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 07:20 AM |
| 2 | How do you go in for the kiss at the end? What’s your techniqueYes! Especially as you never know what anyone might have been through. I was raped multiple times and I was very traumatized because of it. I got treatment for it and no longer have ptsd, but that will always stay with me, and if anything even starts to look like rape, it can set me back all the way. No way am I gonna let that happen! | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 07:12 AM |
| 1 | How do you go in for the kiss at the end? What’s your techniqueExactly this! I would definitely be too scared to say no and feel forced to kiss. Luckily I don’t date guys though, but if I did I would be even more terrified, especially with guys like above saying they will just go for it. Then what? What if I push away and say no then? Are they gonna apologize for it? Or are they gonna push me even more and fully rape me? No thank you. Always ask consent before doing anything, even if you’re already in bed with each other, ask if it’s kay to take off the top… | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 07:08 AM |
| -1 | How do you go in for the kiss at the end? What’s your techniqueAny physical touching that is unwanted is sexual assault. If you don’t ask her for consent, whether it’s kissing her or even just touching her shoulders, it is sexual assault. She might be into it and not think about it like that and enjoy it, but trust me, if you touch me without asking if I’m okay with you, you are in my bad book and I will never speak to you again. You always ask permission to touch other people. Even with my partner I ask her every time if I may kiss her or if she wants to h… | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 07:03 AM |
| 2 | How do you go in for the kiss at the end? What’s your techniqueAsk for consent. ‘I’d love to kiss you before we go. May I?’ | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 06:59 AM |
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