GeneralSeduction Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	If a guy cold approaches you, do you want to get to know him a bit before he asks for your number or once you go on a date?	Question For Women	GeneralSeduction	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/25 04:39 PM

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1	Dating is prostitution. You do know a lot of prostitutes actually sell girl friend experience too which is basically the same thing as sugar babying right? Also, just imagine the whole thing exaggerated and it should be clearer for you. Imagine a guy has 1 billion dollars and he hires a prostitute for girl friend experience full time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 05:37 PM
0	Dating is prostitution. This post is facts. Everything is a transaction. Most women want you to be and behave a certain way and that’s typically what you have to exchange in order to get what you want from them. So say you don’t want to behave any particular way they want you to behave, how do you get into a relationship or just simply a physical relationship with her? You have to provide her with something else. If it’s not whatever personality she wants you to come with, it has to be looks, money, status or something…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 05:15 PM
–	If a guy cold approaches you, do you want to get to know him a bit before he asks for your number or once you go on a date? I already made it make sense if you don’t understand it then oh well. But i’ll try one more time… Women care about various other factors and care about them far more than men do. That is not to say they don’t care about looks at all, most women just care less. So you either have to have a strong social approach or be very physically attractive to them for them to even take your looks into consideration for their choice. If you go through the comments of many of the women on this post, main thing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 02:57 PM
–	If a guy cold approaches you, do you want to get to know him a bit before he asks for your number or once you go on a date? K	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 02:42 PM
1	If a guy cold approaches you, do you want to get to know him a bit before he asks for your number or once you go on a date? Not really, read them again and let me explain. Women don’t care about looks as much as men care about looks. Men are not physically attractive enough to women to have a high pulling rate with cold approach. Since women don’t care about looks as much we have to be exceptionally physical attractive and also interesting otherwise in the way we look through how we dress, groom etc in order to get a win.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/25 10:24 PM
7	If you have to cold approach, that’s a sign it’s time to throw in the towel What if the guy doesn’t work at a job that women work at? What if the guy is already done with school??? What if the guy just doesn’t exactly have a social circle or want to be friends with whoever just for the sake of having a social circle? The dating app comment is also completely irrelevant and unnecessary. How is there any logic in this post?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/25 10:10 PM
2	If a guy cold approaches you, do you want to get to know him a bit before he asks for your number or once you go on a date? Thank you for pointing this out that’s essentially what i’ve been trying to say to most of the women on here. But I guess I was a fool to even ask here, not taking into consideration the first factor you mentioned, that reddit has socially anxious women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/25 03:26 PM
1	If a guy cold approaches you, do you want to get to know him a bit before he asks for your number or once you go on a date? Every video on youtube isn’t staged. & ok you seem to think all women don’t want to be complimented on how they look	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/25 11:30 AM
0	If a guy cold approaches you, do you want to get to know him a bit before he asks for your number or once you go on a date? Well, if the woman is single, what does she have to lose, don’t you have to chat to see if someone could work for you? It’s not impossible to come across someone you really like while running errands or something casual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 08:49 PM
1	If a guy cold approaches you, do you want to get to know him a bit before he asks for your number or once you go on a date? A lot of that to me would just be making small talk just to make small talk though. I have deeper things i’d ask a woman about and i’m just not really a talkative person like that. I get what you’re saying though if we have time to chat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 08:19 PM
0	If a guy cold approaches you, do you want to get to know him a bit before he asks for your number or once you go on a date? At a bar sure maybe. At bars you have plenty of time to socialize, but i’m not going to try to talk to a girl for 10 minutes in a store, walking out of a store, on the side of the street in the city somewhere, probably not at a mall, etc… Yea I guess complimenting looks will upset some of you, but it doesn’t make sense to me that it does because its just an honest opener. And, all the pretty girls have probably heard it s gazillion times but what if that’s actually the first thing I notice and l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 08:07 PM
1	If a guy cold approaches you, do you want to get to know him a bit before he asks for your number or once you go on a date? My generation could learn a thing or two from your generation. And I think the reason a lot of guys don’t cold approach though is because they think they have to say a lot first before going for the close. Having full blown conversations/quick dates his it’s place, but personally if i’m out and about I prefer to get straight to the point to see if she’s attracted a lot physically and she’s open enough to give me her number. I’m not really a talkative dude, if she needs me to yap away before I ev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 07:47 PM
1	If a guy cold approaches you, do you want to get to know him a bit before he asks for your number or once you go on a date? I have seen videos of guys doing it on YouTube and they manage to get quite a few numbers, and it’s not even necessarily the 5-15% success rate guys that cold approach claim they have. It depends on the guy and his approach… 5-15% really isn’t even that bad either unless you’re trying to have long conversations with the women. Straight to the point seems to be more optimal from what i’ve seen. She either finds you attractive and is open to giving you a chance or she’s not open and it could be va…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 07:31 PM
1	If a guy cold approaches you, do you want to get to know him a bit before he asks for your number or once you go on a date? Bars and certain parties are cold approach	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 07:19 PM
1	If a guy cold approaches you, do you want to get to know him a bit before he asks for your number or once you go on a date? I was a believer that having a similar love for interests was relevant in who you have relationships with but now i’m starting to think those things don’t necessarily matter as long as the people you take seriously are tolerable of your interests. It’s the same as being tolerable of your morals basically. So for me, to start out with, if I find a woman attractive and she finds me attractive nothing else really matters yet until we trial and error it and see if we are tolerable of each other’s in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 06:20 PM
1	If a guy cold approaches you, do you want to get to know him a bit before he asks for your number or once you go on a date? Yea true that seems to be the dilemma with this. It’s based on the setting for sure but I also think it’s based on each individual woman and if she even cares to participate in a bunch of small talk, especially before getting in an actual 1 on 1 setting with a guy they find physically attractive. I don’t think all women actually care about getting to know each other and actually connecting, it’s not always what they’re currently looking for. So talking a lot can backfire in some cases. As you sa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 06:03 PM
1	If a guy cold approaches you, do you want to get to know him a bit before he asks for your number or once you go on a date? But why? If you match a guy on tinder thats similar to him having your number. Then if you want to vet him you either text face time or setup a date and chat in person. You even already know what he actually looks like because you saw him in person. So what is so wrong with giving out the number? You could even just give out instagram or twitter first.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 05:41 PM
1	If a guy cold approaches you, do you want to get to know him a bit before he asks for your number or once you go on a date? In that case should we just open with a greeting then ask if we can get their number? I do see how complimenting their looks is a little redundant good point. It is implied since we are approaching… The reason I think the chatting is unnecessary to an extent is that in a lot of everyday settings, people are trying to go about their business or they may even be working. We simply see an attractive woman and want to see if she finds us attractive enough to try and get to know each other more or in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 05:38 PM