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Ofc you should choose better. lmao Humans have evolved and we are apex predators on this planet, not because we are physically the strongest, or the fastest species, it's because we are the most intelligent. If feelings were enough to understand the world around us we would've never developed the ability to reason. And now you have a lot of people completely ignoring the thing that puts them on top of the food chain aka their brain, just because some person has big tits or gives them some 'gina …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 10:58 PM
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Who hurt you? Asking, because you made quite a lot of assumptions about what I wrote. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:57 PM
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lol no, I'm not 15 yo anymore. At this point, I think that looks are basically a trap. If someone has something else of deeper value to offer, they wouldn't put so much effort onto something surface level as looks. They probably want to keep my "gaze" on the surface as not to see the shitshow that's below.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:31 PM
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Well just look at this historically. When men were the ones experiencing oppression they started revolutions(ie French Revolution) and that's when heads start rolling(literally). If women experienced oppression, it sure took them a long time to do something about it. ~ "women are always right" Women need social approval more than men(especially in the past) which is why women are allergic to admitting faults, so even when she's at fault, it'll be very hard for her to admit it. So a lot of men ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:09 AM
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Ah okay, thanks for clarifying. But I'll just say, if a man is going to the gym and is having a active lifestyle, I can definitely understand why such a man wouldn't want to be with someone who's overweight, or if someone is a virgin, it's totally fine to want to date a virgin too, and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 01:54 AM
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So a man who has standards is an asshole ? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 01:41 AM
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So you would rather date a man with absolutely no standards that doesn't mind sleeping with anyone as long as they have a vagina ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:39 PM
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Thank you for the entertainment. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:11 AM
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..... You just keep digging that hole further and further. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:35 AM
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Well, you've just proven my point. But I can see why you have no friends. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:07 AM
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Skill issue. lel A woman doesn't need to prove that she's "safe", or not a rapist, criminal, creepy or whatever else people assume about random men walking down the street, especially at night, meaning that it's easier for women to make friends too. Also if you are "wasting your time away gaming", why don't you try playing online and meet people that way ? Or if you want to meet people IRL, go to some events IRL ? Something like a DnD event might be a place where you'll meet people similar to yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 11:30 PM
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Not the person that you were responding too, but the only actual ideology of equality/equity is egalitarianism. Feminism, intersectional or not, still has it's main focus on gender. Not to mention that both feminists and MRAs are looking to grant privileges to women/men and if that helps the other gender it's fine, if it does not then that's fine too, meaning that sooner or later "their" gender will become the privileged one, perpetuating the same or similar system that exists already(MRAs), but…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:53 AM
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IME I would say that since men find more women attractive overall then vice versa, women, when they do actually fall for a guy, they fall hard. Men are more used to this feeling considering that they experience it more often, thus over time they become less and less affected by it. This is one of the reasons why women sometimes feel that men only want sex. So basically, when a person feels attraction to someone else, but not to 99% of the other people, they'll simp for that one person like crazy…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:47 AM
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They are women, and obviously that's evil. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:42 AM
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I think that's rubbish. There was a study(one single study to my knowledge) that I read a while back. Basically they concluded that wealthier people prefer thinner partners, while poorer people prefer more thicc/muscular body types. It applied for both men and women. It does make sense why when you think about it, but then again I just googled it and couldn't find anything, so take it with a grain of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:14 PM
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It's just a sure-fire way to attract actual narcissists. (trophy wife etc) Don't go over the top basically
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 09:39 AM
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He’d take his dream girl to fine dining and a wine tasting if he could, not a coffee shop date like the other women he kinda keeps on the back burner/as an option. So women think that if he doesn’t put in the effort like he would for someone he really likes, he’s not very interested. But the problem here is that men would think that their perfect woman wouldn't ask them for a first date in a lavish restaurant or would straight up refuse it if he offered, because that doesn't really paint a posit…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:17 AM
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Well ofc. Women gave birth to every single criminal, rapist, murderer.... ever. Ofc women are at fault for everything. /s because reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 07:50 PM
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It doesn't matter how someone got into a position of power. By that logic, if men are truly privileged as you say, you should have same empathy for them too since men didn't choose to be physically stronger than women, nor did they choose to be in a position of privilege and so on. Nobody chose to be born a man, nor a woman for that matter. And well, you should read Queen Victoria and Prince Alberts love letters to each other if you really think that their marriage was a forced one. But in any c…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:28 AM
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I'm curious, what you think about absolute monarchies then where one person(King or Queen) has all the power. And secondly, what about queen Victoria, most powerful and privileged person at the time, considering her position as a ruler of a global empire.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:36 AM
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Well if you are talking about this in general, then you should list a persons good deeds on one side, bad deeds on the other, "add/subtract" them and make your moral judgement that way, and for the sake of the argument we'll assume that you are being perfectly objective here because otherwise it won't really be a 100% correct judgement of someone else's character. And just to mention, some of those bad deeds put you into bad category right away. Even so, not doing bad deeds doesn't automatically…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:01 AM
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And not just any criminal, but: "Sorry most of us don't buy the idea that you can good deed youself out of shit like murder, rape and larceny." Also worth mentioning that the question wasn't even about men, but about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:47 AM
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Some men just weren't shown this while growing up. They do learn it eventually. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pInk1rV2VEg
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:11 PM
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I'm more in the camp, if she gave you a good reason to doubt, but for one reason or another you want to make it work, it's perfectly fine to ask for a paternity test. But your comparison is not a good one. See, a woman knows that the kid is hers while a man doesn't. A woman doesn't know that he won't attack her, but neither does a man. Notice the difference ? The trust giving you are speaking of is one-sided and obviously that doesn't help if you want to actually build trust since that has to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:02 AM
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While I do agree with you that not everything can be forgiven just like that I don't see how that's relevant to the topic at hand. If you are saying that because men do bad things, them doing good things doesn't fix the bad, that's ridiculous, because even looking at those statistics that the commenter above has linked, including every single offense listed there(and not just the absolute worst that you've mentioned) and including BOTH male and female perpetrators, it's still less than 4% of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:48 PM
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Are you catholic by chance? I'm not religious. Sorry most of us don't buy the idea that you can good deed youself out of shit like murder, rape and larceny. What ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:23 PM
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Women get a lot of credit for being “good” people for no valid reason This is literally the name of the thread. Your statistic doesn't answer why are women considered as good people. Being "less threatening" doesn't mean that someone is a good person either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:13 PM
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That doesn't say what you think it does, nor does it disapprove what OP has said. That just shows that men are treated more negatively because there is more men who commit crimes. It doesn't say anything why women are considered as good people, just that they are not committing crimes as much as men, and not being a criminal doesn't automatically make someone a good person. Doing good deeds does. Also what about those bad people who get away without criminal charges then ? Statistic should show …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:35 PM
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Nah, you know nothing Jon Snow. There was this one woman that let out a fart so massive that it came to be known as "Big Bang". Luckily for us, but most unfortunate for her, a little bit came out and that's actually how our universe came into existence. No man ever did anything as extraordinary as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:53 PM
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If she gave him a reason to doubt then it's perfectly fine. If she then objects, then that means that she has something to hide so obviously you just ghost and replace her with someone better and more worthy of your trust. Easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:58 AM
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*grabs popcorn* This is where the fun begins.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:55 AM
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Well ofc. Women don't feel attraction as often as men do, so they are more susceptible to it since they are not used to it. Meaning that when women do feel strong enough attraction towards a certain man, everything else about him is not important. It doesn't matter if he is literally Hitler or whatever. Hybristophilia is almost exclusively a female condition and why basically every woman has a story about a shitty ex. Everything is about how she is feeling about you, and making her feel stuff fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:48 PM
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Just world hypothesis Also, hybristophilia exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:37 AM
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It's neither, it's about how you make her/him feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:12 AM
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0.0000% ? Apparently, I don't exist according to Female Delusion Calculator. lol But in any case, I don't think that a website named "(fe)male delusion calculator" will be a trustworthy source.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 11:20 PM
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Only people who have absolutely no options, or think that they have no options whatsoever(because of low self esteem) will end up in a relationship like this. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OvIfsb9w2ME For men : ~1:30 For women : ~2:58 So as you can see, in normal circumstances, nobody wants to be in a relationship like that. But I must say, some local necromancer must be operating in your area if 40yo people look like how you've described them. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:17 PM
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This sounds like it’s a man pretending to be a woman Why do you think this ? I mean, it's obviously sexism, but let's not judge, I'm really just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:55 PM
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Well even in that case, what you've described is not true. Just look at this list: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_cognitive_biases 99% of people don't even know that these things exist, much less how to deal with any of them to try to get to the "truth". So assuming for the sake of the argument, that objectively speaking a person "A" possesses certain traits that are considered admirable(and also has no traits that make them "less admirable"), people will still base their opinion on them …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:35 PM
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This is nonsense. If we have 1 person who's "insert something you mentioned here", but they were born on say Pitcairn Islands or somewhere like that, and then they ended up being a Lighthouse keeper because that's what they wanted to do, and spent their life doing that, they obviously won't have many, if any people thinking any of these things about them, but that doesn't mean that they wouldn't be better or worse for that matter, than someone else who was just born in L.A. and was surrounded wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 12:59 PM
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You shouldn't which is why you should do the polite thing and not step into an elevator with a lone woman or walk up behind a woman alone at night or even approach a woman at a bar if you lack the social awareness to know if the approach would be well-received Those women need therapy and it's them who are not "well-adjusted" as you say, not some random man minding his business. The memes are writing themselves. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 12:11 AM
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And it's better if those people abuse an inanimate object than an actual person. But in any case, we'll have to wait and see.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:01 PM
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That's just called internalized misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:45 AM
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What ? Dunno what you mean with your comment since I've never said anything about killing anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:14 AM
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I meant that if someone wants to abuse someone else, they'll find a way to do it. Synth would be made for dating as OP said, not specifically to be abused dunno why you're moving the goalposts. But with that said what people do with them is their own business, you can't really monitor people without some heavy surveillance(which then adds another unethical thing to the mix) And things are never so one sided in the real world. You only see the one(negative) side and keep clinging to that for some…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:55 AM
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Abusers will be abusive, one way or another. Something being alive and looking as a human can induce empathy too, not just sadistic tendencies. But it would basically come to the fact that we would need to somehow "calculate" how many people would be saved from abuse because abusers would be busy with the synths +/- how many more people would end up as victims of abuse because of the abuse of synths. Obviously not easy, but that's the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 05:27 PM
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Well, OPs question was about synths entering the dating world, so in his hypothetical scenario we are already past the point of should we or shouldn't we. So in that case if it happens, as I've said, it's lesser of two evils. That synth would feel nothing and think nothing so if some abuser ends up abusing their synth rather than their potential human partner, I'm all for it. "Abusing" a synth is not that much different from the situation when some raging teenager punches their monitor because s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:37 AM
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It's better if abusers abuse a piece of plastic than an actual person. That would only become problematic if those synths gain free will, but if they do it would be immoral to sell them in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:15 AM
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Maybe those women have $$$. Considering that women below 30 earn more than men below 30, it's not that hard to imagine that we will see the growing number of good looking men using their looks to become gold diggers. lel
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:39 PM
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Hey, I consider myself more of a entrepreneur. lel
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:37 PM
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Women are weaker than men are more easily scared of men then vice versa. That's why women are FAR easier to creep out, and also why women are basically allergic to neurodiversity. Any deviation from "normal" behavior will send a lot of women into defense mode instantly, while men won't really care one way or another which makes men more accepting of those who are considered as "weird". Fear doesn't make people more accepting of others, quite the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:30 PM
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lol fuck dating at that point. Move to a country where prostitution is legal so that I don't get screwed(pun intended) and become an independent escort(not tied to a pimp/agency whatnot). I would be fucking and I would be earning massive amounts of money from it. Let's be real, it's like a dream job for men, but women are the ones that can actually do it. lol With male virginity on the rise, and women's standards rising higher and higher, I wouldn't mind becoming sort of a "sex instructor" for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:49 PM
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What I wrote is common knowledge so you'll have to find sources which support what you're saying. But damn, I wish I lived in that fairy tale world that you've described, but that's not been a reality for neither me nor vast majority of other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:41 PM
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Downvoting is literally against the rules (look at rule #12), but people do it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:49 PM
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When it comes to dealing with stuff men/women are pretty much the same, it's just that for women it's more accepted to deal with it in healthy ways, rather then just to "man up" and also women have more support/are not dealing with that stuff alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:23 AM
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Those are just supplementary tables, not the full report. Also one can easily google stats from the BJS for 2021 and 2022 for more up to date info. But because of the way how you've wrote this, you'll piss off both sides, so I won't say anything more because comments will probably be very amusing. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:08 AM
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It’s popularity says nothing about women, western or otherwise. Even if every single woman today was sexually assaulted, it doesn't say a single thing about men, because if we want a statistic to say something about men we need to look at men, not women. It has to show how many and what kind of men are actually doing what. Yet we all hear that argument thrown around how men are "insert derogatory term here" all the time because of something that happens to women. Which is obviously just sophistr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:44 AM
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That really matters from person to person. I for example, never even thought about it like that, much less felt happy because someone else's misery. I really doubt that I'm the only one with such opinions. But usually if someone want's to just bang her then they don't care one way or another. They shoot their shot, if it fails then they shoot their shot again, but with someone else. Rinse, repeat until it doesn't work. And welp, if you end up in a LTR with someone that's basically expected behav…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 01:36 AM
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But as you've said, if for women all that's needed is just : New lipstick, sudden desire to attend a quilting convention interstate on the next long weekend. Tada! Then it never goes away and she can blackmail him like that any time that she wants. Which is why her not being vindictive or feeling self-important matters. A lot. And I think that you might've answered a wrong person with that 2nd paragraph. It's not related to anything we discussed at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:20 AM
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By that logic, basically just being in a long-term relationship with a woman is a form of a dread game for men. So it makes sense why men wont commit and are just sleeping around. Nobody wants to be held at a gunpoint. But also following that logic, one could then even conclude that redpillers are basically only trying to "level the playing field" and are not actually doing anything wrong. In any case. Considering that's the current state of affairs in the dating world, if a man senses that a wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:54 PM
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That's redpill behaviour manipulation tactic btw, it's called "dread game". So why women get angry and complain when men play those games on them, if women do it themselves ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:58 PM
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Yeah. Imagine living in a society where everyone around you has a gun, and now people are telling you to give them yours, while everybody else still has theirs. It's giving up your only defense, only thing that's keeping you somewhat safe. If you do it, you are as good as dead. It's basically something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:35 PM
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Because when you have minimal rights and at a minimum 50% of the population is stronger than you, your only way to defend yourself is with your "image". You need people to believe that you are this sublime angelic presence that can do no wrong (blue pill thinking, white knighting/simping for women etc.). But that can also backfire (people thinking that you are incapable, a parasite, less important and so on) and if it actually backfires, it won't end up well for you. So women care about their "i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:21 PM
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I'm talking more in a general sense than that specific example since you've said that because someone was burned in the past while dating, now it's justified for them to put their future partners who had nothing to do with it through the hoops and make them walk on eggshells.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:30 AM
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I disagree because like in that op she had been previously burned and for lots of history men did that to women Gender is irrelevant here since this works both ways, basically the thing is why would person A have to jump through hoops and walk on eggshells to date a person B because person B dated shitheads before ? If that's the case, person B is not ready for dating and should resolve those issues from the past before dating again rather than throw that baggage at person A, who's not even qual…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:04 AM
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Why is he held responsible for her bad choices ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:43 AM
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Dunno about the norms, but I guess if people use dating apps to meet each other, it's safe to assume that they are seeing other people too. OTOH if you meet IRL, and you know that the other person is not using dating apps, then it's more likely that you'll be the only person they are seeing right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:44 PM
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The type of a person who would do something like that would certainly react even worse if they found out that you are lying to them. So I really doubt that's a smart thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:27 PM
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Ah that reminds me, I prefer smaller boobs on women which is not the norm so I also got called a pedophile for that. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:45 PM
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Even if you find a perfect man, marriages in general don't last so what's the point of marrying anyway (for anyone) ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:34 PM
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Eh ? Being autistic is a negative for a man, but a positive for a woman. Autistic women are just better. No games, no guesswork and everything is said directly with no filter which means that you can actually communicate and work on finding a solution with her without anyone getting butthurt about it and so on. What a bliss that is. You don't know what you are missing until you don't actually date an autistic woman, then you kinda don't wanna date neurotypical women anymore. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:16 PM
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Because remembering stuff and doing chores etc is just doing stuff, it's basic labor. Calling it emotional labor is silly. I'm glad that you actually realized it mid paragraph too. lol Although that example that you gave is basically an abusive relationship. clearly you lead a very fascinating life Oh ? I see that my reputation precedes me. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:49 PM
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But that kind of labor you described has nothing to do with emotions and it's basically menial labor. But I guess the term menial labor has "men" in there so obviously it was triggering to some and it posits that men are the ones doing it so they came up with a random term, ie emotional labor. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:22 AM
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This is a social issue and considering that feminism is the most influential social movement today, it's higher then what we are led to believe. A feminist can't earn money if women are not portrayed as victims so be sure that statistics painting men as the victims will be discredited left and right, while statistics that paint women as victims will have inflated numbers. There is a clear conflict of interest here while conducting that type of research so be vary where you are getting your infor…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:53 AM
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Well, by announcing your preferences you are making them insecure(do they live up to them or not) which is why they are lashing out on you. This hits women harder than men since obviously men are much more used to rejection compared to women because of how often they get rejected. Btw this is not an excuse to lash out at someone, nobody should do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:06 AM
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You are not invading anyone's privacy if they posted it online for literally everyone to see. Invading privacy... lmao What a load of bollocks. People usually feel uncomfortable when they know that you are doing some sort of a background check on them. It doesn't matter why you are doing it and it doesn't matter if they did no wrong. They still feel uneasy. Telling someone directly that you did an background check on them is a very autistic thing to do, to say it like that, but other than that y…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:35 PM
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Because if you are with a dude who cares about it and if he ever finds out the relationship will be over and it'll be far messier ? And at that point it wont even be because of the body count, but because of deception and lies. Just date men who either also have a high body count or men who don't care about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:41 PM
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It's just a defensive mechanism to avoid getting hurt. Raise your standards so high so that nobody meets them and that way you'll stay alone and safe. No risk. But in any case it's bs. If you can't even define what causes the "spark" in the first place, then you can't claim anything about someone else not meeting the standards needed for creating the said "spark". Also it should hold true for all the men who display such characteristics. If it doesn't then you still don't know what creates the "…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 01:58 PM
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It's a debate sub. If everyone agreed on stuff being said there would be no point of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:24 AM
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Listen to dating advice from reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:48 PM
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A lot of animals use feelings and instincts to gather and process information about the world around them, but there is this one animal that is considered as apex predator on Earth not because of it's ability to feel emotions as many other animals do, nor because it's physically the strongest because it's not; but because of it's ability to think intelligently and reason. But I obviously agree that people should not be shamed for being more emotional than others, neither men nor women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 03:44 PM
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Well obviously, if someone is only looking for something casual, they won't want to get too friendly. They already have friends, so they are looking for lovers. If the other person wants something else, those 2 people have incompatible wants and it's best to go separate ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:19 PM
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Women are pretty brutal about their preferences and standards and what they find attractive. If I already had to pass 23756543133456 ↑ ↑ ↑ ↑ ↑ 9478151 shit tests and requirements to date her (and so that she can find me attractive), she better be the best version of herself inside and outside, and yes that includes her looks too.If she can't keep up, I'm bailing and looking for something better. OTOH if I manage to find a woman that actually looks at me as a human being rather than a checklist t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:18 PM
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Humans are greedy cunts though, their gender is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:55 PM
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So basically, what you are saying is that women are nazis ? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:07 PM
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So just give those men AI sexbots. Also, escorts exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:01 PM
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Thats how people would think until the first heartbreak. Then when it happens, and there is an easy solution to stop the pain of a heartbreak, not many would be willing to go through it the "old fashioned way". Yeah, and use of anti depressants is not immoral. You, changing who you are (not) attracted to is not immoral by itself either, but the process of developing such a technology would almost certainly be.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 06:40 AM
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It would be beneficial for victims of abuse to break free from their abusers, would basically eliminate inceldom, and all those hot takes about male/female nature and how men/women are the worst thing that walks the earth. Also there would be much less negative experiences in dating overall. But we can only speculate. If there are no significant risks then it's a no brainer, although morality of such a procedure would still be questionable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:40 PM
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No, only you would have a right to make that choice to undergo that procedure for yourself. Nobody else would be allowed to make that choice for you. And neither would you be allowed to make that choice for them. Your/their body, your/their choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:20 PM
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Well, it gives you an absolute freedom of choice like nothing else does. In that scenario, you decide with absolute certainty who you fall for or not. It is definitely a solution to the problem, albeit an unorthodox one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:11 PM
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When it comes to dating? Use of genetic and bioengineering to make a person (not) attracted to someone else. Someone is behaving like an asshole? Just visit a doctor and 2 hours later, all feelings toward that person are gone. Someone is a perfect match for you but there's no spark? Boom, just like that, you can't keep your hands off them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:04 PM
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I hate gravity. No matter where I go, it always brings me down. It's such a bummer. There, I said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:17 PM
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In absolute monarchy nobody had rights, and nobody could vote. All I can feel for someone who says something how women had no rights while men apparently had them, is pity. Pity, because they are so deep into that rabbit hole of self victimization and utter lack of self esteem, that they are twisting reality and degrading others to feel somewhat okay with themselves. They can't feel good if they are not the biggest victim, and they can't actually improve and become a better person because that m…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:41 PM
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So just name your cat Chad. Win/Win.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 07:02 AM
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Welp, that sure escalated quickly. I'm sorry you went through that. Next time someone in my neighbourhood wants some sugar/coffee/whatever, I'm throwing it over the fence and staying behind locked doors. Kindness but a little more protected? Throw it over the fence, but politely. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:56 PM
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Sure, I was once like that too, trusting others too much, then reality hit me. lol Yeah, be more careful who you trust, for your own good.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:57 PM
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Yeah. Its FAAAAAAR more important how she treats others, especially those to whom she is not attracted to and has nothing to gain from. That tells you who she actually is and not who she's pretending to be to gain something from you/others.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:10 AM
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She doesn't need to be my emotional rock, but she should be self-sufficient and not rely on me to be hers, or in another words, nobody should be so reliant on someone else, but be a complete person themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:16 AM
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So why would I settle for someone who's ~25 yo who can't overcome something that I overcame when I was 14 yo ? I'm years ahead of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 06:29 PM
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B... But I'm still to young to be eaten. I've thought that this only happens to praying mantises.... How many other lies have I been told by the council ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:25 PM
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Only person having something against a stoic is a malignant narcissist or similar, because if you are a stoic you are by default grey rocking a shit out of that fucker and ofc they don't like it. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:01 PM
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This is just nature vs nurture. But it's basically the same thing over a long enough time frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:58 PM
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I think that this is based on fear (or in the case of women, lack of fear). See, people don't respect men, they are more afraid of men than women. And that subconsciously affects how someone interacts with a man or a woman. So in general: People are not being respectful of men just because they are men, they are being wary of them because they are afraid of men. People will in general be colder towards you which to an outsider will seem like they are treating you in a more professional way. Ofc,…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:55 PM
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Even a broken clock is right twice a day. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 09:45 PM
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As I've already answered to someone else, I was talking more in broader terms of taking care of your looks and being attractive. Going to the gym makes you look better, no matter if you are a man or a woman. Same logic as using make-up, being well-groomed, taking care of your hygiene and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:55 PM
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I was talking more in broader terms of taking care of your looks and being attractive. Going to the gym makes you look better, no matter if you are a man or a woman. Same logic as using make-up, being well-groomed, taking care of your hygiene and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:53 PM
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So what happens if a man does these things too, goes to the gym, is dressed better than she is and so on ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:12 AM
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Tell that to your future AI overlords. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 05:16 PM
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Gimli would disagree tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:16 PM
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3rd rule of the FDS subreddit : All comments and posts, should be focused on how the woman can derive maximum benefit for herself, and herself only. Mutual benefit should be a byproduct, not a goal. So basically, nobody wants to date someone like that, HVM or not, man or a woman if genders were reversed. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:10 PM
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You are saying this like makeup/nails/etc is always a choice. Although it is most of the time, you can't deny that there's a lot of social pressure to do these things. I've heard a lot of women complain about having to take so much time to get ready for events because they're expected to put in an insane amount of effort to look "presentable" You know how we say that if men weren't simping so hard women wouldn't have their head "up in the clouds" ? Yeah same logic here. Women just collectively n…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:34 PM
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She can’t will herself to be aroused whenever she notices he is aroused that’s not how arousal works You are still making this all about women and female arousal. It's not about her being aroused after he is, it's about her being aroused and initiating before he does. So for the sake of the argument, forget women and let's assume that her needs are met. Now, how are you going to fulfill your partners needs if you have responsive desire and if you take this into consideration : "So to summarize, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:21 PM
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I didn't assign a gender to any of the things I've said btw. So basically, what you described is a one-sided relationship where women get their meets met, but because women get pregnant, a man's needs should be ignored. Men are just slaves that listen to a woman's every whim. Why would any man want that ? Why would anyone really ? And what happens if he has a vasectomy or she gets her tubes tied or both ? That nullifies that risk so what's the excuse for women to be shitty partners then? I still…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:36 AM
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Is this something that you've been actually told by guys or is this just your insecurity keeping you in your safe zone ? People will invent a million reasons why they shouldn't do something rather than face their insecurities. You have one life so just go for it when you see a man that you want. Not to mention, standing up for yourself and going after what you want will translate to your career one day too. Even if you get rejected, you'll end up as a better person than before. And if someone tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:42 AM
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How do you know tactics worked ? Maybe she just found him hot and wanted to bang him as an ONS and that's all there is to it. Also women share notes about men all the time. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:33 AM
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misandry is caused by the existence of misogyny Bait post. lol Hate begets hate, and it goes both ways, so you either stop both simultaneously or you won't accomplish anything at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:36 PM
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guys on here will often confuse not getting the sex they want with the woman they want as abuse or neglect. The fact that this is your first response just shows how fucked up the situation actually is and how much work actually needs to be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:31 PM
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I mean, I wont comment on why men/women like or don't like someone who's "too nice", but claim that if someone is being aggressive it means that they are confident couldn't be further from the truth. Insecurity is exactly the reason why someone lashes out or is trying to "prove" themselves to others by being more aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:35 PM
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I do agree that both desires are genuine. They are valid emotional responses. But it's also clear that a partner who has responsive desire is more needy and requires more emotional labor to get going compared to a partner with spontaneous desire and obviously, over time, a partner with spontaneous desire will feel that they are doing more... because they do actually do more for their partner in this area. This is actually one of the major causes of dead bedrooms (and failed marriages). For examp…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:54 PM
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Did you respond to a wrong person ? Because I never mentioned pleasure anywhere. And the situation that original commenter above mentioned clearly shows asymmetrical amount of effort and emotional labor from 2 different parties so it's not a fair exchange either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:34 PM
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I couldn't care less about how much other men want/don't want her. If I want her, that's all that matters to me and I don't give a fuck if literally nobody else wants to date her because I do. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:32 PM
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What the dude above is saying, and you are not getting, is that if someone can't desire you for you, but requires you to do something for them in order to do so, it feels "icky" since it's basically just a transaction at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 11:25 AM
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Insecurity is by far the main reason. Also, women are not used to being so easily replaceable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:52 PM
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If we are strictly talking about physical attraction... Not really my type. My type is basically average with a bit thicker thighs, but not too much. I also prefer small boobs, those in pics are too big for my taste. So basically, if a woman has an average body in an absolute sense (not fat, nor skinny), all she needs to do from that point is to do ~100 squats every day for 3 months (~3 min exercise per day). Some don't even have to do this, they have thicker thighs naturally. And that's it. Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 12:07 PM
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I don't care one way or another, I just want to see the world burn. Imagine the drama if everyone did a paternity test today. Ohhhh boy.... Fun times.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:42 PM
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Insecurity that someone is dating you just for your looks. Well obviously if someone is highly sought after, it's more likely that they'll be a better person. It's not a perfect metric, but correlation exists. Incels for example are not sought after and I don't think that this needs any further explanation why. lol You can guess a lot of things about a person by the way they look, what clothes they wear, how they present themselves and so on. All these things are superficial, yet you can get som…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:06 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/128uvw4/comment/jenu7q1/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web2x&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:41 PM
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And you are just projecting you own insecurities here. If a man is highly sought after, he has every right to only date highly sought after women. He has the same right even if he wasn't that highly sought after, although obviously it wouldn't work for him. I don't see why is this so controversial to you ? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:40 PM
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I mean... you just assumed that the less physically attractive person will have a better personality in your own comment above... Wanting to be attracted to your partners in not shallow. It's normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:36 PM
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It's called pretty privilege and it's not a fantasy. lol You can just google the term and you'll find plenty of info about it. And also, everyone wants partners that are attractive to them, both men and women, so obviously if someone is better looking they can try getting more attractive partners themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:20 PM
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Read the whole sentence. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:12 PM
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lol no. What I've meant is that a woman can use her looks to her advantage. That has nothing to do with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:55 PM
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If everything else is the same, but one person looks better than the other, why would someone choose the less attractive one ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:50 PM
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She is more attractive at that age so it's obviously better to capitalize on it and land a better man, no ? She can chase a career while being in a relationship, doesn't have to have kids right away. There's no "manospherian conspiracy" here. lol If I was a woman, I would've done that and frankly dunno why someone wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:18 AM
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Welp, maybe he wants a 10/10 rather than a 7/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:22 AM
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can they suffer the same level of loneliness as men do Never. Even if we ignore the dating arena, when it comes to just making friends it's also easier for women. Women don't need to prove to anyone that they are not dangerous, rapists or whatnot so people will in general be more friendly to them. People are more afraid of men, because men are stronger physically so you need to overcome that obstacle first before you even do anything else. This would hold true even if no crimes were ever committ…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:13 PM
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You know how women prefer men who are experienced in bed ? See... Brutal truth is that there are some men who sleep around with women to whom they are not necessarily attracted just to get that experience. Their justification is : "If women don't want me when I'm inexperienced, it's like I'm just a dildo to them, so they have no right to complain when I use them to get more experienced, it's something that they want anyway." I was literally told this by one dude who was doing exactly that. So ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:02 PM
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Welp, either you have a "type" and those kind of men while attractive to you are not really great people personality wise, or you interpret completely normal behaviors in a negative way as a defense mechanism because of some past hurt or it's your location, or you are just unlucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:01 PM
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Eh ? I know a lot of men who fit that description and if we remove this part : "hit up the gym or some sort of sport on a regular" Basically ~95% of men I know would fit that description. Where do even you go to meet men who can't meet those standards ? Frankly to me it seems that it's harder to find someone who doesn't meet those standards then someone who does.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:20 PM
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It's a self fulfilling prophecy. So basically, if women were more friendly in general towards men, men wouldn't think that women are hitting on them. And if men didn't think that women are hitting on them while being friendly, women would actually end up being more friendly towards men. And in circles it goes and it's just getting worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:53 AM
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That depends from relationship to relationship. I mean, look at yourself now and look at yourself 10 or 15 years ago and imagine dating yourself. Usually younger partner is getting someone more experienced in life and in bed, more emotionally stable and mature, wealthier and with more connections, someone who has their own place, with better social skills, someone who is wiser and can teach them a lot about life in general. Older person usually doesn't get much of these things from the other per…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:17 AM
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Physical strength is irrelevant here because using physical strength against others is punishable by law, so it's not an advantage in any shape or form, it's actually detrimental because the fact that you are physically stronger will be used against you and you'll be blamed if there's any confrontation, no matter who's the aggressor. Also, one thing that's literally always ignored in these situations... Younger partner, regardless of their gender, is usually benefiting more from that relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 11:03 PM
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1 man can cheat on more than 1 woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 11:59 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-serving_bias "belief that individuals tend to ascribe success to their own abilities and efforts, but ascribe failure to external factors" The thread. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:22 PM
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According to her insecurity yes. Read this paragraph again : Even though my husband chose me, even though he committed to me, I still felt inferior to her because she was considered higher on the female sexual hierarchy. Literally, her husband did marry her. lol Fantasy is always better than reality so it's kinda silly to compare yourself to photoshopped pictures of others... : r/Instagramreality She can do that too, nobody is stopping her from posting photoshopped pictures of herself online as …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:35 PM
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What I gathered from the above comment is that basically if we had 2 women, say twins, who look more or less the same, but one is a pornstar and another one is more of a housewife, somehow pornstar will be more physically attractive to men. Which is obviously not the case. Those 2 women are equally physically attractive. The difference is that a "pornstar" will get sex, but usually not a relationship with majority of men, but "housewife" will get sex and relationship/commitment from men. She wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:09 PM
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If I see a woman naked, and she's attractive to me, it doesn't matter if she's a pornstar or a housewife... physical attraction is the same. It's just that it's obviously far more likely to see a naked pornstar than a housewife... Other then that there's no difference, so idk where this idea that a pornstar is somehow more physically attractive just for the fact that she is a pornstar comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:30 PM
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RMV ≠ Someone's value as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 07:48 AM
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Contrary to popular belief I think that hypergamy is unnatural and a consequence of past social order where men were above women. Now that men and women are considered as equals, women still expect men to be above them because of how it was in the past. So it'll take a few generations of women until women are again attracted to men who are actually their equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:37 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Illusory_truth_effect I suppose this is also one of the influences that led to this. When you are constantly accused of being "x" then you start believing it yourself. This is why saying "men did this/that" instead of blaming individual men is bad. (TwoXChromosomes is a best example of this here on reddit)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:12 AM
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Well, relationships are based on feelings and as such are best possible playing field for manipulative people. If you choose your partners based on feelings only, you'll sooner or later end up in an abusive relationship, man or a woman, it doesn't matter. If feelings/emotions were enough to understand the world around us, humans would've never developed their ability to reason. But basically, in vast majority of such cases, people ignore the red flags that are so obvious before even getting into…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:53 AM
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These calculators don't measure the delusion of men/women, they measure how disappointing men/women are today.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:10 AM
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Frankly, I would much rather be pleasantly surprised when I realize that someone looks better IRL then be catfished, especially if they edited their photos so they look better on their photos than IRL, but that's just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:51 PM
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I'm not sure if that's what you are saying, but something similar holds true when people find someone else attractive. For example, a man might think that a woman is hot, but in general men won't think that she is funny or has amazing personality because of that. A woman otoh, if she feels attracted to you, then she'll go into fantasy land and if you show her a little finger on your hand she'll giggle and think that you are hilarious. Men would just think that you are doing something random, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 08:25 AM
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Not every attractive person will be a narcissist, but almost all narcissists will be attractive since they are quite concerned about their appearance, regardless of their gender. Now majority of people by default have positive bias toward attractive people (halo effect), but one of the major reasons why people develop negative bias towards attractive people is because of narcissistic individuals who are also attractive. So, while probably a lot of men in your specific example have self serving m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:01 AM
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It's obvious that women do, but he probably thinks so because it's easier for women to move on if it happens or just go and find someone else. Hell even if she just wants rebound sex, she can find a willing partner by tomorrow. But that's my guess, I'm not the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 10:26 PM
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I love this answer. Women will think that you are talking about men, and men will think that you are talking about women. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 11:28 AM
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Welp, if she can't pull her own weight, and not just financially, she'll just end up being a burden for me so I just go and find someone else who can. I don't need her for anything and she should be the same. Simple as that. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:25 PM
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Never heard of women giving gifts to men for Valentine's day, it's always the other way around except when women give men chocolate for Valentine's day and men respond a month later on white day (in Japan). Maybe it's a UK thing or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:51 PM
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Which is why you shouldn't use dating apps or go to bars etc to meet women. You should meet women through friends or somewhere else because that way you won't be treated as a walking checkbox, but as a human.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:11 AM
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Men never had to rely on women for income, but women had to rely on men. Which is why men tend to not look at women in such a way, while women oftentimes look for a man's ability to provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:35 PM
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Well, if we really wanna look at it like that, manipulative people regardless of their gender, benefit from all this the most. Relationships are based on emotions, and manipulative people manipulate others using their own emotions against them. (because vast majority of people choose their partners solely on the basis of their emotions/feelings towards that partner, and even if they know full well that dating someone is a bad idea... a lot of people still do it)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 09:59 PM
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I don't necessarily agree nor disagree with the dude you were replying to, but his argument is basically, that since women get so much attention they get into their heads and start overestimating themselves(and thus their standards go up too). So then you have a woman who is pretty average objectively, thinking that she deserves a dude that's above her objectively (hypergamy) because she was led to believe that she is on his level even if she is objectively a "worse" person then he is (not just …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:52 AM
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They either act fine when they aren't or act sad and mopey and won't tell you the reason why because you're supposed to know exactly why she's down, and if you don't then she gets angry with you. This is one of the reasons why I'll never date a non-autistic woman again. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 11:07 PM
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Makes sense, that's a smart thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:57 AM
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Trauma response is real, it has things that trigger it, but it's also not all pervasive 24/7/365. In those moments when it's not triggered a person is definitely thinking rationally, but might not ACT on those thoughts. And you'll have to find sources to your claims that every single abuse victim reacts like that, since that's just ludicrous. I had an abusive partner, I know people who had very abusive partners, and NOBODY reacted in a way that you say that we "should" have reacted. I guess by y…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:07 AM
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See, a lot of people will say that they prefer a dominant man/submissive woman, but what they actually mean is "I want to be a parasite"/"I want to be a slave owner". Which is also why a lot of people will be very reserved about this or showing this side of them even if they are actually more dominant or submissive. They were exploited before because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 08:50 AM
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Every single one of them and to this degree ? Anyone who is saying that a victim can't make decisions is the one basically calling them a vegetable, not me since I am doing the exact opposite of that. This is what you think that I'm saying, but I'm not. Abusers abuse because they are abusive, not because someone else made them do it. But I think that it's pretty obvious to say, considering that this is a debate sub, the number of victims who would think that cheating is a better idea then leavin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 08:13 AM
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How am I shitting on abuse victims ? I'm actually defending them, because I think that they are capable of thought, and not some mindless vegetables that exist just to be abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:34 AM
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Why do you even have to ask this ? It's fear. Even if we remove all social biases, even in a perfect, crimeless, egalitarian utopia, a "strange" man will still be stronger than a woman, and if she ends up being scared of him because of this (and some definitely will)... welp there you go, listen to that quote again. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:56 AM
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Sorry, but you are too far gone into the rabbit hole and just grasping at straws here right now. So according to you, a person like that can't think straight and is basically a vegetable 24/7 all year round ??? Because it literally takes 1 second of sane thinking to realize that cheating on your abuser will backfire very badly. I'm pretty sure that there are far, FAR more victims of abuse who realize this, then those who don't. It's questionable do those who don't even exist at all. That is unle…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:41 AM
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Totally a big brain move to cheat on an violent abuser... How stupid someone has to be to do that ? You either leave now, or you plan your escape and leave later. If you cheat, you are most likely beaten to near death or straight up killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:13 AM
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That's no better really, that just means she will be unhappy if she doesn't end up with someone like that so she would either bail when she gets the chance, or end up unhappy if she doesn't. And aren't women actually unhappier in relationships then men ? Obviously, if you always want more and can't be satisfied otherwise, ofc you'll be unhappy and feel like you settled, even if the other person if objectively equal to you when you add/subtract your/theirs pros and cons.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 03:44 PM
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Yet, literally poster above said that women try to find the best partner they can... Those 2 statements are in direct opposition to each other, it's either one or the other, but both can't be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:20 PM
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Women prefer men who have high intelligence; men prefer women with high intelligence- but not higher than them. Women want the best in terms of psychological/emotional quality, men want the best of what's below him. Hypergamy isn't one-sided. But that does sound one-sided, what that means is basically, men don't want their women to be better then them because if she is, she'll just monkey branch to someone else so he's basically forced to date only women who are worse then him (in whatever metri…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 12:13 PM
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Participants are actually : Men = 26 Women = 70 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:26 AM
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Well, I don't know if this will work for every man, but I doubt that it would be related to any of this. It would be mostly just about being heard and not dismissed and invalidated outright. Let men vent freely their frustrations and instead of shaming them when they do, and wanting to prove them wrong, show them understanding and be being empathetic to their struggles, thus validating them. That after all is/was their experience and people's experiences are valid to them. So say that a man had …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:27 PM
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Same as everyone who feels heard. Well, for starters a lot of bad behaviors would cease. There would be much less incels around, men would be more accepting of others and their struggles, and would be willing to take care and validate others too. They would be more empathetic and emotional (in a healthy way), more willing to open up and not just to dump baggage on others, more supportive of others in their life and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:02 PM
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Sex has nothing to do with this. They have to be listened to by the people, and that includes both men and women. If it's genuine then a change for better would happen, but you can't force it with hostility and shaming. It'll just create more division. And someone who feels validated is willing to put in the work for others too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:12 AM
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I think that the dude was talking about respect as a human being, rather than respect that you earn when you accomplish something, and that men get no respect as human beings at all unless they accomplish a lot of the things in life since a man who had no accomplishments is usually shamed. While women can also experience the negative parts of this, they do get positive messages from society too (or their social network from both men and women), but for men, they only get negatives. That's why pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:01 AM
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While certainly, people who try to chase younger partners exist (usually only people who failed at life so can't date in their own age group or those who are just looking for sex), you are definitely forgetting something here. There are younger people who chase older partners too. See, the younger person(regardless of their sex) is actually the more manipulative one in these kinds of relationships because they get more benefits than the older, more experienced one. We are not living in a world w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:38 AM
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She's an idiot. The real happiness is... mooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:18 AM
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But... I don't like sand. It's coarse and rough and irritating and it gets everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:57 AM
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I don't think that men age better that women biologically, but women do lose more social benefits when they get older compared to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 10:46 PM
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Yes I know that story, he was basically tortured by his mother which fucked him up mentally and can even partially explain his attitude towards women. But support for him came mostly from Islamic religious fundamentalists, and was certainly not widespread. Besides, those similar fundamentalists also stoned a man to death in Pakistan last year so I don't see how is this a gendered issue ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 10:08 PM
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You've got that the other way around... class inequality cannot be reduced to an issue of gender because it creates bigger gaps in privilege than gender ever did. But even someone's class doesn't paint the whole picture nor is something I was talking about. Only taking gender when deciding who is privileged and who is not is such a small-minded and sexist approach that reduces people to their genitals. By doing so, nothing else matters about a person, just what's between their legs, and dependin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 09:08 PM
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That's not what I was talking about at all and is a totally different topic, but do you think that men weren't ? Do you think that a peasant (a man) had more power than a queen in the past ? Queen Victoria was the most powerful person on the planet when she was a ruler, more powerful and privileged than any man in the existence(either king or a peasant) at that point in time. But if we are gonna use your logic and be reductionist like that, men were used to work outside the house, and conquer te…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:46 AM
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But when men talk about their difficulties, 99% of the time I (personally) only hear them used go dismiss inequalties women face. E.g. Women don't experience inequality when men are the ones who have the most dangerous jobs, or... Insert some other random statistic for one facet of life men experience inequality. Well I mean, if they are gender inequalities then you can't have it any other way really, one gender is obviously the one that is privileged at something more than the other, and by tal…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 09:02 AM
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If you want to be truly confident with women, and your ability to seduce women, you'll need to do the above. It has nothing to do with hypergamy, but with how confidence works. (not to mention that going below your league is a total opposite of being hypergamous) Confidence needs experience, and without it, you'll just be pretending and faking it and women will smell it sooner or later. And without that experience, you can become(in time) confident with a woman you know, but not really with wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:59 PM
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I don't think that oxytocin plays such a big role, dating market is just broken. Because of how dating market works, women have far more choices than men do, so women will obviously be able pick someone more in line with what they actually want in their partner then men, meaning that they'll be happier with their choice of a partner. And obviously, if a man feels that he settled because of his lack of options, he might start resenting that woman he is dating in time, which then might be one of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 09:36 AM
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Obviously. But the reasoning is different. I mean assuming that women had it so bad in history as everyone claims, it surely did take them a looooong loooong maaaa *ahem* time to do something about it, while men OTOH toppled governments regularly. Those in power are not afraid of women, they are afraid of men, which is why shitting on men to put them down is celebrated. Using women to do so is wonderful for this, because women are easier to control, and also men won't really fight back. Men will…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 09:19 AM
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Confidence comes from experience. So in the case of dating; why do you think women fall for players ? Because they are confident with women. They approach them anywhere and everywhere, date around a lot and that's how they get that experience and their confidence increases in the process. Ofc they go "below" their league at first to get started and after they learn what works and what doesn't, try shooting higher and higher. Then they leave when they find someone better or more interesting to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 08:34 AM
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stuff like dread game to game preselection, not overvalidating them so they feel as they have to work for your attention since you are the prize, playing hot and cold to create an air of mystery and intrigue, trying to emotionally effect them in negative ways to keep the relationship always exciting and dramatic because women crave drama etc That's basically how online dating already looks like for men... lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:18 PM
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And I still am. Your personal experience is irrelevant and statistically insignificant. I guess I'm happy for you if its true. But even if we are gonna go by personal anecdotes, even then, I've heard more stories of the scenario I've described happening than what you've described happening, so there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:15 PM
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So why didn't she leave me? I thought that based on this comment trail, I'd be left for dead? Assuming that's true on "trust me bro" basis, that's impossible for strangers on the internet to answer since I don't know neither you nor her enough, nor the value you provide (or in which way) for each other. Don't you think you are limiting yourself with this belief system? Nah, and I think that if someone takes great care of themselves, both for their and their partners sake, also deserves a partner…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:00 PM
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So what you're saying is despite raising a child with this woman as well as being with her for 5 years+, if she gets fat, then that justifies walking away? Let's not pretend that this is gendered thing, because many women leave their long term partners when they let themselves go in one way or another. This is how humans are, if you don't like it buy a sexbot or something. lol Only way how I see what you are saying fly is if a person ends up with someone who's not of above average attractiveness…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:45 PM
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I mean, if she expects 6 6 6 rule from men and walks if someone doesn't meet that standard anymore, but she can't even do this one thing herself (just don't be fat, not even fit)... Do you even need to ask this ? lol Especially if the dude she is dating does meet that 6 6 6 standard and she let's herself go, there's no way that he won't start looking for someone on his level because she expects him to stay at the top of his "game" too and would've done the same if he let himself go.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:32 PM
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Nah, most women suck... But I do love women who suck ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) But on a more serious note; if I'll like someone or not depends more on a individual level.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:22 PM
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Yeah, I've heard about this. It's not that Y chromosome is the cause by itself, it's just that when cells divide, simpler generally is better, so having 2 same chromosomes (2X as is the case for women), is better and less prone to "errors" than if you have 2 different chromosomes (X and Y) because then those "errors" won't be "corrected" during the cell division. So men don't have a "backup" chromosome; but even so women can also get haemophilia etc. if both chromosomes are affected (very rare),…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:41 PM
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So basically about what they call "sperm quality"... If it's lower it just reduces the chance of pregnancy, and if it's higher it increases it, correct ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:54 AM
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So from the website : Men’s sperm quality seems to deteriorate after the age of 35. The proportion of sperm carrying an X chromosome also seems to increase, meaning older dads are more likely to have daughters. Does this mean that women have more genetic defects then men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:43 AM
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How are you not getting it ? Okay, so let's remove the bias and give an neutral example. Why would someone, regardless of their gender, do something that has no benefit for them ? Now that you see what I mean... Why would a woman marry someone if marriage is bad for her ? This basically means that she is not getting married to stay married(since it's bad and has no benefits for her as you've said yourself), she is getting married to get divorced and get stuff, because staying married is worse fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:38 PM
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Men do value looks, but it's not that big of a deal. Just look at the porn categories to see what I mean: There's big/small boobs, skinny/BBW(fat and obese women), big/small ass, blonde/brunette etc, black/asian/arab, and so on... As you can see, men's tastes vary wildly and no matter how you look you'll always find a man somewhere who'll find you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:15 AM
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So by that logic, don't you think that men would already be suspicious that something stinks there, and that she has ulterior motives, if she wants to marry him, if supposedly it's worse for women to get married ? Especially if the dude is loaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 07:54 AM
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Thanks. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:00 AM
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The commenter above said that those women can't admit that they have anything good in life, and that's precisely what someone who externalizes the blame can't do, because if they did that, that would mean that they are the problem, so they can't do it (because it would mean that if others and life of others is good and something in the lives of those women sucks, they themselves are the problem why it sucks so they can't admit it). OTOH someone who internalizes the blame can admit such stuff wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 03:36 PM
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Just date a man with Parkinson's disease for that vibrating dick experience. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 08:26 AM
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Very low self esteem. Such people use victimhood as an excuse why they failed at something. It's easier to say that something is so hard and that's why they failed(externalize blame), rather than say "well damn, maybe I am the problem", and do something about it so that these things don't happen again.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 08:22 AM
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This is a bit of a generalization, but basically, women have more social privilege(related to social/interpersonal relationships), men have more professional privileges (related to jobs and menial labor)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 08:18 AM
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Ignoring the people who are poly... Men obviously. lol Women usually don't need to do this, because the dating market is skewed in their favor, so they usually get who they think that they deserve. Men otoh usually don't get to end up with someone they think that they deserve as women do, so some men settle for women they don't truly want as a placeholder for sex and then push for an open relationship to try to find someone who they actually want (and think that they deserve). Probably also one …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:32 PM
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It's literally the same thing, just that women are trying to not look shallow, while men don't care. Funniest thing ever to me is when I hear a woman say in denial "it's not about his looks, we just clicked", and the dude is a total gym rat, like every other dude she dated before. lol Personality of those men varies, but their looks don't. Whenever a woman found me physically attractive before, I could just show her a little finger of my left hand and she would laugh and think that I'm being hil…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:59 PM
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Personality by far: High self esteem, more on the introverted side (although not a total shut in), intelligent, diligent, empathetic, kind, trustworthy, reliable, wants to work as a team to solve issues rather than play the blame game and actually follows through with the solutions (as I do), always striving to be better and so on... Looks: Just don't be obese or basically skin and bones, I do have a type and while majority do, I don't like large boobs (not even into large asses, but thick thigh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:56 AM
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By that logic, that would only apply to the act of having sex, but not on anything outside of the bedroom. Even so, in the bedroom, men are more active, and already need to do more both physically and emotionally for their partner so that both will get the same level of satisfaction from the encounter, so it evens out. But if a person really thinks that their time is more valuable, that's really nothing but narcissistic hubris which manifested from some need for control as a consequence of aband…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:46 PM
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This is so narcissistic. lol See, time of other people is also valuable(and in this case of other men) and if a woman thinks so lowly of men she is dating and also thinks that dating is a full time job that she should be paid for, then why is she even dating men ? I doubt that it needs to be said, but I would just walk away and find a woman that doesn't behave like that. I don't get how could anyone, regardless of their gender, be happy to be in a relationship with someone like that except if th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 12:12 PM
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Sexual attraction doesn't give a flying fuck if someone is good for you or abusive towards you, it only cares about survival of the species and selecting a mate that "should" be the best for ensuring that survival which rationally in 99% of the cases won't even be true, especially in modern times. This is why you can't logic into relationships or sex, and why a person will want to fuck people that are obviously a bad option in every way. Then after that comes trauma bonding, and what happens is …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:38 AM
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And water is wet lol Literally all humans are like this and it's not even related to dating only. All humans try to get the best possible outcome for themselves without thinking of the bigger picture, even if it hurts them in the end. So to describe what I mean and how it's related to your post : Women realized that being attractive gets them benefits so they tried to be more attractive, but the problem is that when too many people do something, that something loses it's value so you need more o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:01 AM
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Obligatory is she into you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:26 PM
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Someone from FDS really can't claim that they never saw men bashing memes. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:11 PM
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I mean, Twox is like this the whole year, but without the memes(go to trollx for men bashing memes if you want to bash men) and with the sexes reversed... Oh and also with 13+ million more people there. Surely, you are not being so blind and biased to not see the commonalities no ? So what should people think of the women posting there ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:27 PM
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A 7 ? Really ? Are you from United Landwhales of America maybe ? Because I can't see how would she be a 7 except if everyone around you is obese. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:48 PM
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Wait, I don't get it. How can someone who's not even there be responsible for anything ? Or is that just sarcasm and a wooooosh moment for me. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:22 PM
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A man who is willing to go deep with me ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:11 PM
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r/GirlsMirin
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:02 PM
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Men realized that women are so disappointing in every way that they just don't expect much from women. That way; if you don't expect much, you can't be disappointed. *shrugs* ​ ​ ​ ​ ʰᵉʰ ᴵ ˡᵒᵛᵉ ᵖᵘʳᵍᵉ ʷᵉᵉᵏ ˡᵒˡ
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:55 PM
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Give it 20-ish years and that'll be possible. Only thing why it probably won't happen is because of ethical considerations.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:46 PM
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Because to teach someone something in bed you have to be confident about things you do in bed and how can a girl who starfished her whole life be confident when she needs to actually do something this time ? lol I couldn’t imagine in a thousand years dumping an LTR prospect over her “lack of experience” And I agree. I can't imagine dumping someone over that. If I heard that she dumped a dude because of this, we are done. As is always the case, there will be exceptions, but anyone doing that usua…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:20 AM
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As always there will be exceptions, but in general : What OP didn't mention is that this in-group bias is not just limited to sex, but to other things too. Meaning, women will be more loyal to their group (or a person they consider a part of their group), more likely to follow the norm, but also for example, can result in women being more racist, especially if that's the social "rule" (remember how many women were even against feminism before it's mainstream acceptance). OTOH, men can be less lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:30 PM
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Surely you have more to offer to your partner than your looks no ? If that's the case, then why even ask this question, it's pointless. Either a man sees that or he doesn't, but someone else (not) being able to see "you" doesn't change who you actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:16 PM
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Sugar babies are parasitic, prostitutes are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:08 PM
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I'm pretty sure they wouldn't be paying them if they weren't thinking that they are their ideal...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:59 PM
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AFAIK, women while younger cheat more, but as people grow older men are the ones who cheat more, it changes around 25-30 yo. And since there's more people who are over ~28 having sex and being in relationships, compared to those who are below ~28 yo, men end up cheating more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:52 PM
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Why are you being reasonable on this subreddit ? You are ruining the fun. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:12 PM
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Just date autistic women. Problem solved. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:32 PM
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Biologically : Women are weaker physically than men so they socialize more to make more "friends". (strength in numbers) Socially : Nobody thinks that a strange woman on a street is a rapist or a mugger, nor are they afraid of her; but opposite is true for men, especially from the perspective of women. It's obviously much harder to make friends when you have to prove first that you are not a danger to someone who is already frightened of you from the get go, before you even start talking to them…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 05:25 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Just-world_hypothesis The thread. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:31 PM
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If an attractive person does the approaching themselves then it most likely will, if not, that person should expect that majority of the people who approach them will be narcissistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 10:10 PM
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AI Sexbots.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 09:02 PM
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You've got it all wrong. lol If we are being truly realistic here, women were mostly useless before. They had no job, no money(nor property), not much skills except when it comes to cooking or cleaning the house, weren't as knowledgeable as men/were less educated or couldn't even get an education, had no social skills(especially in those places where they didn't even leave the house much) and this list can go on and on... Men OTOH had much, much more going for them, it's not even comparable. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:08 PM
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Why work against it ? Instead go along with it. Taller women have longer legs meaning that you should focus on that. Do squats and lunges, tone those legs, get a bigger ass and watch men lose their minds. lel
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 08:06 AM
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TLDR: No. Confidence comes from experience, and the more experience you have doing something, the more confident you'll be in your ability to do that something; in your case approaching women. Only scenario where I see that these two things could be linked to one another is if we have a virgin man whose only experience with sex is from porn so he thinks that bigger is always better, meaning that big dick virgin(lol) will still most likely be insecure about things related to sex, but this might s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:14 PM
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I'm saying that nobody should end up in a position where they are forced to do something, like how men are currently low-key in that position because of the current situation on the dating market. Meaning that there is no "official rule" that says that men must approach, but they need to in vast majority of the cases. Saying "men don't have to approach" and "woman don't have to approach" is not saying the same thing. This is a problem imo. In a perfect scenario, it would be more equal. ​ women t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:15 PM
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Nobody should do the pursuing, but I only date those who do pursue/approach (I do it too). Not having confidence to go after what you want, or not doing something just because you don't have to because you are waiting for someone else to do it for you, are both VERY unattractive traits, and I'm not even talking about just dating here, but also in general. (this obviously applies for both men and women).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:53 PM
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Might sound silly, but men's choices when it comes to clothes are VERY limited compared to what women have, so I would prefer to be a woman for a month just so that I can fucking wear something else than a suit, t-shirt or a sweater. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 10:25 PM
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It's not that women are more attractive, it's that men are hornier. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:55 PM
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What are you even arguing at this point, you are all over the place and contradicting yourself. This also just isn't true. Open that link that I posted above, just look at the top comments, look at the number of likes, and look at the replies... And you still claim that you don't say all these things you do in bad faith... Or rather, you are not even debating, you are just forcing others to accept your worldview, and everything else is : That's just not true. Even if just one quick glance at the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:08 PM
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I know that your comment is made in bad faith, because the reason why this happens should be obvious and you didn't mention it at all, but still... Just read this and similar threads here and you'll probably be able to understand why men don't have wider social networks : https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/yit9yu/what_should_men_be_allowed_to_do_without_being/ People are just way too judgemental of male strangers. It's kinda hard to make friends when others assume you are a rapist, pedo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 08:21 AM
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Yes, when people are attracted to someone, especially to someone above their league, and it seems to them that they'll be able to "get them", they'll start simping regardless of their gender. I mean, that's basically the business model women on OF are using. It's not just about the pics, you can find a lot of pics of naked women online, it's about selling "the connection" to their simps and profiting off their loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:01 AM
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Just to give a different perspective that's not calling someone else names; it's harder to trust someone who dates and is attracted to men, because men have lower standards and men do the majority of the approaching, meaning that if someone who dates men wants to sleep around, cheat and so on, it's trivial for them to do so. Also, in those cases where people don't go outside with the intention of cheating, someone else might still end up hitting on them(usually it's men doing it) meaning that th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:40 AM
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United Whales of America.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:57 PM
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Women need more, in order to get the same things as a guy Speaking of orgasms, just replace your faulty sex organ with a clearly superior one that requires less maintenance/skill to handle to get the same result. I can have an orgasm while slapping my dick to a wall, while you need so much more emotional labor and effort... git good and get on my level first noob. lel
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 06:26 AM
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Men can’t complain that women find them ugly when women spend so much time and money trying to appeal to men I mean, you don't wanna go into that rabbit hole, because by that logic, women can't complain when men use them for sex, because women want experienced men who are confident in bed and men have to get that experience and confidence from somewhere so that women will start liking them. But other than that, I personally think that women are spending too much time on their looks, because at t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:02 AM
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In general, this happens mostly because more women than men require an emotional component to their attraction(aside from only looks). Men don't really need this that much. Confidence is sexy to the majority of people, but if your already attracted to her because you find her physically attractive, then it's not really needed anymore since you are already "attracted enough" to consider getting involved with her; in one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:26 PM
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I thought more men cared about, and valued, interpersonal connection, exploration, pleasing their partner, experimentation and intimacy, on top of physical attraction... but I was wrong ofc they do, or at least majority would want to, but I guess it's a defensive mechanism. When your own looksmatch can replace you (with an objectively more attractive partner than you are/she is) in like 5 minutes, you don't really want to be emotionally vulnerable and too connected to a woman, so a lot of men ke…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:49 PM
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TIL, men have standards. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:40 PM
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I couldn't care less because I'm obviously a sex god meaning that I have enough knowledge about sex for the 2 of us. 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:48 PM
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And lots of women who have made false rape allegations have done so because they regreted consensual sexual encounters or they tried sleeping their way up the corporate ladder but didn't get the results they wanted. There have been stories of women who have cheated and lied they were raped to save their relationships. At this point, it doesn't even have to be a woman who wants something. If I was for example someone rich or influential(a corrupt politician for example), and had someone I didn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:56 PM
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Assuming that's true that just supports what I've said above, because when you are physically stronger or find yourself in a position of power, you don't need to rely on support from others. Women OTOH, needed to develop those things more than men did. If a woman is not able to determine a man's emotional state, being weaker, she could find herself in grave danger. And it is also shown that BOTH men and women who are born rich and privileged are less empathetic towards others then those who are …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:06 AM
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I doubt having different genitals makes anyone more cruel, but having power does. The only reason why men would be more cruel compared to women is because they are physically stronger and currently hold more positions of power (CEOs, politicians etc.), but if women were those who had more power, and were physically stronger than men, then I'm pretty sure women would be those who would be more cruel compared to men, since power corrupts people. Humans are like that, regardless of their sex. Sligh…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:45 AM
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