| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 14 | teaching men self-improvement won't solve the incel problem. | GenerallyToxicPerson | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:53 AM |
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| 1 | Sex is not that important.name one human experience which is better than passionate sex with a girl you're heavily attracted to...literally there is none. female hypergamy is why male sexlessness exists | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 11:15 AM |
| 3 | Q for sexually unsuccessful men: would you be ok with a woman who is not attracted to you dating you simply to shirk hypergamyI dont think an average heterosexual woman is naturally unattracted to an average man. hypergamy stems from female narcissism and feeling entitled to the very best. the same average man could go to southeast asia and women would find him attractive, but in the west he gets nothing. this shows that women aren't necessarily unattracted to looksmatch/average men on a biological level, which means it is possible for women to 'shirk' their hypergamy and still be attracted to their partner. any decent… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 10:52 AM |
| 3 | What standards are TOO high?just dont set standards on others which are significantly higher than what you live up to yourself. common sense really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Even if women thought 80% of men are unattractive, it doesn’t stop men from getting dates and having sex.what makes your link more reliable? ive seen the same study on vice posted in other places, too. you can even google "how many couples meet online" and see similar results. also, I never claimed that most couples meet online. my claim was that meeting online was the no.1 way couples meet..and that was before covid. the point im making is that online dating stats are a very significant indicator of women's standards that shouldn't be discarded as evidence for hypergamy. a very large chunk of our … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Even if women thought 80% of men are unattractive, it doesn’t stop men from getting dates and having sex.the stat you used was for men under 30, no? also, online dating is the no.1 way people get into relationships nowadays. https://www.vice.com/en/article/gy473x/our-deepest-fears-realized-most-couples-meet-online-now you simply cannot ignore the significance of this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Even if women thought 80% of men are unattractive, it doesn’t stop men from getting dates and having sex.yeah, that shows that things are getting worse as the years go by. dating apps and increased gyocentrism in recent years has made women's standards skyrocket. 20 years ago maybe it was the 70/30 rule but now in 2021 it's the 80/20 rule. soon it'll be the 90/10 rule | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 02:46 PM |
| 2 | Even if women thought 80% of men are unattractive, it doesn’t stop men from getting dates and having sex.49% isn't exactly big, lmao. if 80% of women go for the top 20% of men, and the bottom 20% of women have the bottom 80% of men, means only ~ 40% of men can get relationships, 49 isnt much bigger than 40. you also have to take into account the amount of effort required; most guys in relationships had to try very hard to get that relationship, and even harder to maintain it. most relationships are ended by women. also many of these are likely betabuxx (prostitution but implicit) situations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 02:40 PM |
| 0 | Question to all men out here who work out.most guys, myself included, went to the gym to try and make women attracted to us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 02:34 PM |
| 1 | It’s femcels fault that low value men can’t get laidtrue. hypergamy and female nature must be taught to boys in school at a young age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 08:04 AM |
| 0 | Some old classic memes I found. Enjoy.women virtue signal it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Some old classic memes I found. Enjoy.so true. average guys are invisible to them so they dont even realise they're doing this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 08:00 AM |
| 1 | What do women truly want? And please gentlemen refrain from the disrespect. I’m literally trying to save us lolthey want chad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 07:36 AM |
| 3 | Why are men here so obsessed with the 80/20 rule and the okcupid study?and a very valid one at that. the 80/20 rule is brutal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 05:58 AM |
| 2 | Why are men here so obsessed with the 80/20 rule and the okcupid study?there have been tinder experiments with ugly women and they get tons of matches too. also it's a myth that men are just all unkempt and thats what makes them unattractive. the problem is hypergamy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 05:55 AM |
| 2 | Why are men here so obsessed with the 80/20 rule and the okcupid study?because it shows that women have an unrealistic view of male attraction/are hypergamous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 05:53 AM |
| 1 | It’s femcels fault that low value men can’t get laid'femcels' just want chad, that's the issue here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 05:49 AM |
| 2 | Lets be real, what are the men who get sex doing that is so special?rofl these women are making fun of you. they say you look normal because they dont want to tell you they think you're ugly. it's your genes. being 5/10 isn't good enough anymore anyways. hypergamy does that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 05:47 AM |
| 2 | How do most people just not have to self improve to not get a date?subpar genes probably | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 05:44 AM |
| 1 | teaching men self-improvement won't solve the incel problem.well said! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 11:48 PM |
| 2 | teaching men self-improvement won't solve the incel problem.no, I am concerned with equality of opportunity. the average male has much less opportunity than the average female to form sexual/romantic relationships with the opposite sex. just because you can "apply" doesn't mean there is equality of opportunity. if society was very racist against asians and discriminated against them when they apply for a job, then asians wouldn't have equality of opportunity to white people in the job market. many women do end up alone. they will go for the top 20% of me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 11:13 PM |
| 1 | teaching men self-improvement won't solve the incel problem.the sentence "men have lower standards" is the same as saying "women have higher standards", since it's relative. this is the issue I am trying to bring up. the issue is that women set standards on men which is a lot higher than what they live up to themselves, i.e. average women going for top 20% men. this is just hypocritical I think there needs to be cultural change, which takes time. but the first step in solving a problem is acknowledging there is a problem. spreading the word and getting p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 10:09 PM |
| 1 | teaching men self-improvement won't solve the incel problem.i am not just talking about self-identifying incels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 09:03 PM |
| 1 | teaching men self-improvement won't solve the incel problem.do you really think that the average man has the same opportunity in the dating market as the average woman? seriously? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 08:58 PM |
| 2 | teaching men self-improvement won't solve the incel problem.Our entire society rests on strong familial bonds. the world doesn't revolve around women, but it does revolve around families. if men and women didn't form relationships, the birth rate would plummet and people wouldn't be happy. do you really think that 80% of the male population accepting being alone is conducive to a healthy society? historically, societies where a small minority of men take the majority of women has lead to increased civil unrest and conflict. you can't just expect a huge p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 08:57 PM |
| 1 | teaching men self-improvement won't solve the incel problem.sexual communism would imply there being no difference in sexual/romantic success between Henry Cavill and an obese neckbeard. This is not what I am saying I want. ofcourse, the attractive men are going to be more successful than unattractive men (just like with women). what I am suggesting is that we have equality of opportunity between the sexes. just because you're born a man shouldnt make you any less worthy of love/sex than your female counterpart. even in capitalist society we recognise th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 08:34 PM |
| 0 | "yeah women like attractive guys who knew?!"it's your personality that's the problem! why can't you just have a good personality like Jeremy Meeks? I hear the girls love him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Women are the biggest enforcers of "toxic masculinity".Do I look like a chad? you look good for an indian, but no you arent chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Women are the biggest enforcers of "toxic masculinity".except that male feminist-types are the real 'toxic masculinity', if you can even call it masculinity lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Women are the biggest enforcers of "toxic masculinity".good post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 03:01 AM |
| 1 | should we embrace hypergamy as an advantage to everyone?no...unless you really think an average woman going for an average man is 'settling' | /r/ExRedPill | 03/01/22 02:22 AM |
| 1 | instagram / tinder experiment resultsthe point, is, they have unrealistic standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:20 AM |
| 1 | instagram / tinder experiment resultsmale virginity rate increased 3x in 10 years. if 50% of men are in relationships, that means 50% aren't. the number of men getting casual sex is exceedingly small (women swipe on less than 5% of men). this means like 45% of men in their 20s are incel. most of the guys who are in relationships probably had to put an exceeding amount of effort into doing so, and many probably had to settle for bottom-of-the-barrel women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:18 AM |
| 1 | instagram / tinder experiment resultsmen are forced to lower their standards due to female hypergamy. most men start out going for their equal, but when girls at their own level reject them, it kills our self esteem. if you really want men to have higher standards, try having a word with your fellow women to do something about their hypergamy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on the Gender Spend Gap?i like how it's considered bad manners for a man to refuse to pay 100%, but if a woman refuses to pay it's just expected. double standards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:12 AM |
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