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DiscussionGenerally_Confused1/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 08:40 PM
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No, I'm saying you have a single experience and I know men who aren't romantic but are very good and loyal partners and more than one, so there i proved you wrong. That's the logic you're arguing with, I'm just saying
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 10:26 PM
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That's a weird generalization, not every woman likes to go to the club but go to other social spaces. Also, plenty have crocheting as a hobby and you're not mentioning that. Lots of guys go outdoors or to community events, idk what to tell you other than maybe get to know a man IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 09:58 PM
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Do you know many men? I could say the same thing about women doom scrolling tiktok or consuming other media instead of going out. Also, you can go out but do you think everyone likes clubs or goes drinking or some shit? Like what's wrong if a dude has a hobby if working on his car instead of going to a party? That's kinda what happens when you grow up and get tired of it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 09:48 PM
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Yeah, hence some dudes don't do it. I also enjoy it and write poetry but most are not actually "worth" it because it's a shallow or connection and they don't actually try to know me any deeper to inspire passion. I'm not shitting you when I say that women need to stop saying they want to read my poetry and know me more when they just want to fuck or something, it's getting old lol. The one woman I loved, I saw the most "romantic" thing I could do for her as be available as a blood donor in case …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 09:39 PM
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Define "romantic" because plenty of guys are romantic but don't see buying things and arranging stuff and doing a lot of chores as that, you do because it's stuff done for you with no reciprocation lol. And also, those romantic guys also still need a reason to put in that effort, most guys I know who do have wives/gfs that genuinely appreciate them and treat them well so they want to do things for them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 09:28 PM
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You don't seem to know what an annecdote is and you make assumptions using singular examples for all people like that, which is bias and prejudice. I'm just surprised how many of you are like that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 09:22 PM
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No, I read both of your comments. You threw in a red herring annecdite but it doesn't make a point, you knew a guy who wasn't affectionate and cheated. You trying to connect that to the concept of romance in general is weird
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 09:15 PM
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Well, how often will a woman do all of that for a man vs a man doing it for a woman? Men in the situation are doing most of the work and pursuing and don't want to imagine doing more work lol. There are plenty of romance stories for dudes and like, I think they all come down to someone trying to understand and love him for him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 09:11 PM
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This is a weird irrelevant tangent that seems to be nothing but taking about a guy who cheated lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 09:08 PM
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Oh boy, I'm sure the responses will be rational and civil and not butt hurt and projecting at all!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 09:06 PM
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That's fair but I think it depends on the guy, if it's a guy who has experience and the ability to find new people then he probably follows that but there are likely inexperienced and desperate guys who would date as well
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 12:54 PM
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Well obviously but I don't know why people use these singular anecdotes but at least you seem to know that they are particular to this case
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:17 PM
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Really depends, there are various types of "desired" wether physical attraction or mental stimulation or emotional security but doesn't guarantee it's genuine
/r/seduction10/08/26 04:07 PM
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So again, why should we believe you? Also, since you don't understand I'll use my own example "I dated an older woman that likely had NPD and was abusive" is me taking about my life "When I get 23 I dated the small Instagram influencer 'Jess the prequel' who had a page about being a 'cougar' but had engaged in a lot of mental abuse and encouragement of substance abuse to exploit younger men and predatory behavior" that's an accusation You can look her up if you want, lats I heard she's mid 40s n…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 05:45 PM
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I gave you a yes or no question that was none of that, answer it. Edit: you also specifically used the phrase "witch hunt" and that's the problem most have, hence you answered your own question
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 05:36 PM
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Nope, I summarized what you said once again in the comment you replied to and funny how you can't delfect. Is it wrong for men to not want to be harassed based on lies and "guilty unti until proven innocent". Yes or no? That's your answer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 05:29 PM
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I paraphrd all the ways you basically justified "guilty until proven innocent". You dimsiss every case of abysing this and justify the use by saying there are no "legal wrongs". Are you upset that men don't like unilateral power dynamics being abused where it's just gossip? Kinda weird
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 05:17 PM
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You literally admitted people lie followed by why that doesn't matter and we should believe them anyways. There's no point arguing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 05:14 PM
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You answered your own question pretty much because you refuse to believe any woman was bad faith or weaponized it. It had good points, but that's how they justify shit like the "tea app" where women were doxxing minors and sharing revenge porn. The problem is people believe words alone by only one party and completely dismissing the other, case and point would also be Johny depp. Really allowed for a lot of abuse to be conducted and shielded in a disgusting way If you're being honest, I don't th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 04:51 PM
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Unless they promised otherwise, it doesn't mean they lied but just didn't pursue more after which is most often the case and happens with men a lot so I don't see how it's different lol. You're just supposed to deal with it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 10:29 AM
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Oh no they're coming for you now. Good way to piss this sub off
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 03:28 PM
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What "bad" bi men and so were talking about justified prejudice and stigma then? I don't know if I even know of a negative connotation outside of the guys still exploring and being unsure at times
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 04:08 PM
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Nope you're so interested in dismissing me I figured you wanted to know so you could say I deserved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:48 PM
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"I've only seen it used on this subreddit as a gotcha, not discussed in a serious way that indicates caring about any victims. Might be the reason." You were wrong, the fact that you think I did that shows your lack of reading comprehension and refusal to take new information in. It's pointless, yours too prejudice to argue with
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:46 PM
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I didn't leave anything out You're saying I brought it up as a counter to women, that's false. I brought it up as ethos.to being attacked, you just don't like when men have that experience and you can't bash them. Disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:43 PM
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Still was shut down and called a liar, which is what you denied YOU WERE WRONG
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:42 PM
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I literally told you the context because you can't read and fabricated your own idea
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:41 PM
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You don't even read in good faith. You're accusing me of something that is false lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:40 PM
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I specifically said "sometimes it's brought up to shut men down prematurely to shut men down" I was attacked I shared my experiences Stop lying
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:40 PM
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I share the screenshots and youre once again lying, i brought it up separately as its own conversation. You're trying to shut it down
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:39 PM
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The fact that you denied u was called a liar, delfteced when I share proof by straw men and creating a scenario, I showed you the context and proved you wrong, you said you were sent something that was a completely different conversation. You were wrong. Accept it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:37 PM
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"I saw gossip so.youre invalid" Stop, this is gross
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:36 PM
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You literally talked about a separate post being sent to you which I'm.sure you took out of context because you accused me of things I never did After I proved you wrong , I was shut down and called a liar and you bring that up to deflect. Disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:36 PM
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Do you want to know what I was wearing?!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:34 PM
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The fact that you don't even know it and are clearly deflecting is insane. Stop
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:33 PM
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Nah you're trying so hard to shut down people that are denied and victims, again, want to know what I was wearing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:32 PM
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You're talking abitj irrelevant random shit not related to what I shared. Just stop it's weird
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:32 PM
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You respodn with a straw man/ red herring and ad hominem. Thanks for admitting I was right, this is sad
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:30 PM
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Oh my God you're impossible and share it because I never did it, I shared it against generalizations. But if you're gonna stalk me to invalidate when I prove you wrong because you can't check your ego, that's gross. Hope no men trust you, bye
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:29 PM
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It also follows "the narcissist prayer" The amount of gas lighting and indicators of abusive behavior is concerning lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 02:02 PM
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Here was convo where I talked about SA being mentioned in the sub in a disingenuous way to win arguments and it's always frame from women and like men have no idea what it's like. I pointed that out, said I try to avoid doing that with my own experiences I learned form and was called a liar and minimized because they didn't understand my comment. I look forward to how you will deny and twists and goal post shift but we were talking about rhetoric used disgnegously and I mentioned women doing it …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 11:55 AM
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What do I need to include? I littshowed you the exchange and told you my comment that lead to this dismissal Again, thanks for fighting so hard to not believe and dimiss men! Sorry you think I'm lying
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 11:38 AM
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Nope I told you the context in the comment, but nice that you deny and call me a liar and minimize my SA as well. Thanks for proving the poitn!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 11:36 AM
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Here was convo where I talked about SA being mentioned in the sub in a disingenuous way to win arguments and it's always frame from women and like men have no idea what it's like. I pointed that out, said I try to avoid doing that with my own experiences I learned form and was called a liar and minimized because they didn't understand my comment. And no, thanks for dimsissing me again when tell you ANY time I bring it up I get met with gas lighting and personal attacks. Like I said, wanna know w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 11:25 AM
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Happens any time men speak about it actually, not just when taking about others. Idk why but the women here especially have FOUGHT tooth and nail to shut me down any time the topic is discussed and also accused me of lying lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 11:14 AM
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Well when you start to include taking someone too drunk to consent to bed when you're more cognizant and the definitions of consent violation, that's where there's a lot more no?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 11:12 AM
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Oh yeah yesterday I called out a top user for claiming I lied about experiences because she was offended by my opinion about other rhetoric surrounding the topic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 11:11 AM
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If you never had the mask up in the first place then no one would expect it. How are you going to get upset with someone for falling for the person that you pretended to be. That's on the pretender. You said masking is pretending to be something else pretty much. Also, making comes down to things like speech speed and cadence, the fact that you're saying it's so simply to change that is very ignorant. Idk what else to tell you but hope you learn sometime
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:06 PM
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No, you're actually minimizing important differences in presentation of neurodivergant profiles to ctitize people and dismiss issues. It's gross
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:56 PM
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"I'm ND too" to counter and minimize my experience Go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:43 PM
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Oh god no.youre an aquatic women sayen present the same way 🤣😭. Thanks yeah no you can't speak for others but damn you're obnoxious
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:35 PM
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And you minimize and dismiss the types ofwsk and how some people do it unintentionally and you think it's like a light switch Again,.ignorant and obnoxious. Go away ableist
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:35 PM
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K creep
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:57 PM
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Don't you have to stalk me more then play victim?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:54 PM
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Ans you don't seem to understand the degree of masking of different profiles and use the ableist low support, "I can so you can too" No.youre still being an ableist asshole. Go away
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:54 PM
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Yes only shitty men have mental illness and consider killing themselves/s No, if those men you know are in a bridge you better tell them to jump or you're a hypocrite
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:31 PM
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And yet you criticize others and misunderstood the degrees of masking which shows how ignorant you are. Wish I was that privelaged
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:31 PM
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You don't know about masking so I'm guessing low support ADHD Thanks for proving my point
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:24 PM
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ND* neurodivergant. I' suggest you stop before you start saying ableist stuff and I ask if you'd like to call me the R word
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:11 PM
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Damn I pitty them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:04 PM
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As non human? Yeah sounds great
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:00 PM
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Says the profile creeper. Also, km nice to women for what a shit person you are, I'm more rude to men. Sorry to treat you like an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:00 PM
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You don't even know what a "mask" is to MD and other people which is what I say about outgoing energy vs not wanting to talk to people, not lying about who you are Imagine what you want though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:59 PM
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Damn, crazy ableist and prejudice. Poor men in your life aren't seen as people or human huh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:58 PM
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Nope, because I doubt you take much interest in him and he's probably trying to keep you entertained and laughing and have a mask up. Some men want to just be people and have peace, let them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:57 PM
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Damn dude you need to touch grass. Jumped straight over being left on read and the normal shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:56 PM
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Oh definitely I'm done chasing and playing games if you don't seem to also have effort and interest and I'll straight up tell them I'll stop wasting my time and focus elsewhere. Nothing wrong with that and very heath respect and boundaries, you dont need to "beg" anyone to be wanted. Anyone who disagrees is weird af because why are you upset at men choosing to focus on themselves and not nonreciprecal connections?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:54 PM
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Idk who claims that other than specific Internet types but I heat complaints about "pretty privelage/ bias" and there are unfair things towards both men and women with that so if you treat someone with less respect then it's questioned. Also, it's fine go for who you like just don't lie and confuse people about it. Some might consider some things shallow and that's ok just like some men are considered shallow. I'm pretty sure most guys just want honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:51 PM
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Had one of the ladies deny and blame me for child abuse I suffered essentially because she believed women didn't do that at all. It's impossible with them, they often recite "the narcissist prayer"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:39 PM
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To say the talking points you're using are mainly online just like the ones you find in incel culture? That's not an insult
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:15 PM
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Nope you're the enotianal one. I told you you can think that way and men don't have to deal with it. That's it, idk why you're mad
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:37 PM
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To rape culture bigots? Yeah. Sorry I'm not ways to manipulate
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:05 PM
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Nope.you denied it for me and doubled down but nice gas lighting. Go convince a guy who drank too much it was his fault, I'm not interested
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:02 PM
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Oh I'm aware, hence I enter like this. I know there won't be any reasonable or cohesive response and constant deraient so I basically find a central point that is reasonable such as, "that's ok for you, men you don't want to deal with that will go elsewhere" which is completely fair to see how long she keeps fighting and being offended by men having individuality. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:52 PM
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Ok cool because that's what I've said from the start. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:43 PM
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Well I literally said in my original comment don't be an asshole and insult people who don't match and that includes what you said so yeah, neither men nor women should do it. And that's ok like I said people might just call the preferences shallow but it shouldn't bother you then. It's just a fact about the responsibility of being honest Edit typos
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:42 PM
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Not saying attack, just they some things are considered shallow and people have the right to talk so you'll just hear that over specific things just like men do. Otherwise I generally agree
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:35 PM
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It's ok to have preferences but be open and accept some might have nothing of consequence to say and some will acknowledge it as shallow, just as men are seen. So I suppose it is better to make it known, I like it so I don't waste my time with someone incompatible. Thought it would be nice if they also didn't use those same things to belittle and mock men who don't meet it, like hot fat women often catch random strays from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:29 PM
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Nope, "You think I don't know about SA when i was subject to it?" You: "yes" Literally doubled down. But again good luck lying, I know you don't believe men Edit typos and literally called me a lair but hey, whatever you wanna do to motte and bailey
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:13 PM
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The mods are biased and one of them lied and falsely accused me of sexual harassment when I asked if the women dismissing in me wanted to know what I was wearing then played victim when I DMd to ask where she got that from and they also muted me for asking them about accountability. The mods are useless and liars
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:12 PM
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I know you will deny this further and try to gas light your way out of it and maybe use DARVO To be clear, I didn't owe you proof, I remember you well. You directly minimized and dismissed me because you took what I said out of context and weaponized it against me, disgusting. But go ahead and lie about meaning something else <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:08 PM
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I literally told you you're free to move on and apologized for offending you, you're the only emotional one here. They're not really facts but like I said, if you think that way it's fine, I and others know to avoid it and you do have a point where I don't get as much out of it by the same metric so I'm considering that. I agree with you mostly
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:42 PM
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Yeah you're parroting old talking points that include what I said, that's how silly it is I'm not defensive, already told you I'd not be interested and men know to avoid you. Feel free to leave me alone, sorry to offend you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:39 PM
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You did it to me on a comment thread when I disagree about rhetoric about SA and you straight up accussed me of lying of having been SAd because men who don't agree with you can't be victims apparently 🥰 Anyways, sorry I expected women to understand consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:36 PM
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Not just my experiences and that of many sexually active people who don't go by stereotypes of "women hate sex" don't think this way. Maybe you'll learn And not really, just me agreeing in that case but you seem to think too highly of yourself. But like I said, doesn't bother me, I wouldn't be interested and other men know to avoid you so it's not an issue. No reason to be mad
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:34 PM
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Nope, you're making weird terminally online talking points. But you're right, I have a negative orgasm gap and I get women off more than vise versa so most of them aren't worth the effort so I've learned to be more choosy. And I appreciate those who also appreciate it so I'm not bothered by you, like I said it's fine but don't expect men to agree or entertain it. That's it, men with give their time and attention elsewhere, nothing crazy. You seem upset by that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:30 PM
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Yup, you especially learn if it's something like bipolar where you occasionally are more depressed and withdrawn and do nothing wrong but still get berated for not providing those emotions or whatever you're valued for. It's easier to have a casual rotation and some friends who have your back I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:28 PM
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Says the women who denies and blames male SA victims. How's it going?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:25 PM
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Damn sounds like you have hang ups about sex and not much experience and somehow think your time and energy is more valuable. It's pretty good to know this so men don't waste their time and can date women they find pleasant and also physical compatible with so it's fair I guess, just don't complain when men don't want to stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:25 PM
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Whatever you say absuive gas lighter
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:47 PM
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And completely misreptesting the context and comparing two different things in which you are the primary dick. Again, go away and spend your imagination elsewhere. This entire exchange has been you trying to convince me I did something wrong to delfect, I'm tied of it.. Leave me alone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:44 PM
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Whatever you tell yourself about me calling out your dishonesty. Like.i said, go manipulate someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:42 PM
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I'm holding you accountable sweetie. Again, go away
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:34 PM
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Pointing out the people upvoting you are terrible. So you like that support, says a lot about you. Again, whatever have a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:21 PM
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Cool, the place is overrun by leg beards including women that victim blamed me for sexual assault and child abuse. Have fun being terrible together
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:12 PM
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You think men are seen positively and it's insane and not everyone hates single mothers. You only speak from online rage bait echo chambers. The fact that you think society is so forgiving of men that do this shows how little you listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:11 PM
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Whatever you imagine to convince people of it. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:09 PM
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And completely misconstrued it and compared it to something you did that was completely different to minimize being an ass. Again, go away. I'm tired of abusers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:06 PM
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Trying to convince someone if something they never did. I dated a narcissist 17 years older than me, I'm used to this stuff. Sorry you don't like being called out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:04 PM
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Your take is so delusional you literally just need to listen to men and observe honestly. You won't, it's pointless.. This is like me saying women are no longer expected to do housework. If you can't understand that, then there's no point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:47 PM
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I feel like so many women here never actually know.men or listen to them or see them as people Just an online characature. Gold example why guys are opting out of dating
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:43 PM
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Whatever you say gas lighter
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:42 PM
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Nope, just saying what I know from experience. Same way you'd tell a creepy guy you hope women stay away from them for their own safety Have a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:15 PM
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Trying to convince someone they're guilty of something while dismissing things then being continually demeaning and playing the victim.when it's given back. Again,n you prove my point. Hoel young men learn to stay away from you, I had to learn the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:12 PM
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There was no hypocrisy, you're just gas lighting. It's a common mental abuser thing, so again thanks for proving point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:10 PM
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It's an example of a woman behaving poorly in ways she'd hate a man doing, hence men don't like dating and dealing with it as much anymore. That's it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:08 PM
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Your come btw are getting deleted and you seem very triggered, sorry love. You should go take a nap
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:06 PM
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Whatever your tell yourself privelaged, fragile one
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:03 PM
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Damn, yeah figured you wouldn't. No wonder guys don't like dating now, you don't even know what you do that's harmful
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:02 PM
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I said yes, you are in denial and clearly don't understand the circumstances due to your privelage. Again, go away This is pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:01 PM
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You have but you use indirect language, classic abuser tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:00 PM
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Nor did you me but you still spoke, I proved you wrong, I called out ignorance. Whatever you want to say
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:59 PM
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Same here, and your entire argument is miscontruing what I said and attacking me and denying my point. Whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:58 PM
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Man you just keep digging in. Again, please leave me alone, you're too privelaged to understand others
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:57 PM
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I did, but again, have fun with your imagination
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:56 PM
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I have ADHD, sometimes I remember something else. But you say a lot of crap that's hard to process all at once, it's nonsensical
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:55 PM
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Nope rational deductions. Thanks for proving me right
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:55 PM
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Yeah like you've been doing but you don't have the capacity to self reflect
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:54 PM
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I acknowledged what I said, just not the story you made up. Again, have fun with your imagination!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:53 PM
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You're also replying to.my comments and being snide when I didn't respond to you, so you're looking for me. Sorry, not interested
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:53 PM
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Yup because it's clearly true and you're trying to wiggle out of being called ignorant. I'm sure you'd call put a man being ignorant about women, go away
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:52 PM
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You're not debating, you're making straw men and manipulatibg conversations to dismiss from.being called out. It's childish and pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:52 PM
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And I gave you counter examples of how you're being dishonest. Also, btw I responded to an ignorant generalization and you responded to a personal anecdotes, not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:50 PM
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She'd welcome to speak up, as are you. Ok, so.you don't have any experience with disabilities or illness and are very privelaged and dismiss the struggles of those who do. Lovely
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:49 PM
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Whatever you want to imagine. You seem kinda obsessed with me, this is clearly going no where so you should go play with someone easier to manipulate
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:48 PM
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Types vs being able to understand hypotheticals are different lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:47 PM
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Nope, whatever you say. "No one forced you" when in the context of it being a sacrifice. Tell yourself what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:47 PM
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Having never felt pressured to provide by doing somethignaginats your own best interest. Even you are dismissive of it and also What's your experience with disabilities and illness? You never responded even though you had a lot to say about those circumstances
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:46 PM
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"based on your feelings" not at all reasonable unless you're attacking me. Also, yeah I'm calling out behavior I've taught to identity to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:45 PM
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Ok, grammar Nazi because you can't say anything but are triggered. Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:43 PM
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Also,.I said direct experiences of my own and you dismissed it meanwhile I plitined out they likely didn't have an experience but they made no claim to, I didn't blame them for personal sacrifices. It's disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:43 PM
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And you lied about what I actually.meant and the context to try and shame me. Grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:42 PM
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I called out ignorance and they're welcome to challenge it, so.are you..but you delfect and go ad hominem. You're taking pieces of different comments and miscontruing them in a different context. I'm used to abusers and manipulators, save your energy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:42 PM
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I do, not the thing with say and twist. Again, nice gas lighting!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:40 PM
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"effort"? So again, deflecting because you're called out for being ignorant. Also, yeah I said it to someone. In response to something ignorant. By your.logic, no one is ever forced that do anything unless they're a slave being whipped. Again, you just want to argue
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:40 PM
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So yeah, instead of correcting me because it's a nuanced topic not everyone can fake you change tactics and take it as Ian insult instead ofe calling out ignorance. Sorry love, I tried to treat you like an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:38 PM
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I also gave you a reply, you literally deny anything. It's pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:37 PM
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Not at all but have fun with your imagination 🥀
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:36 PM
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You also clearly are privelaged and don't understand disability and illness. Gonna disagree and lie? Do better
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:36 PM
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Nope, asked and also called out ignorance but have fun with your imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:35 PM
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Why should I care what a woman who minimizes SA if she is against a male who dosgares with her? There's no point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:35 PM
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Yeah, you're refusing to accept your own hypocrisy and accountability. Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:34 PM
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Damn, you're doing it again. You're really a terrible person. Also, nope, you're making things up I never said with bits and pieces of info. Nice try lying and gas lightng, very good abuser tactic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:33 PM
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You don't even understand what I'm saying do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:32 PM
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Not insults, you're the one whom dismisses and calls men liars about their own experiences with sexual assault qif we disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:31 PM
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Cool, no one has ever forcd a woman to be married or have a kid.innthe US either. That's the same logicb
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:31 PM
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Nope, I am open to her responding instead of you making up an argument because you want to argue with a man and cant accept one has made sacrifices for women that went unappreciated. Good luck sweetie
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:30 PM
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Definitely not equally. You can check my other comment, "my money is our.momey and her.momeg is her money" Also, lots of men do housework and chores. Why are you complaining?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:30 PM
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Yeah except my partners life and the medical system so essentially, nothing is forced, you're literally still doing it. Disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:28 PM
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Nope, I printed out ignorance. Good luck gas lighting other guys, feel bad for them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:28 PM
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Number two—nobody forced you. I got it. *
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:23 PM
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I said it and she never responded, you did. And yes you did all those things while taking up an argument you don't even know the context of just to minimize my experience. Again, do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:23 PM
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Cool, nothing anyone else says matter because you know about someone somewhere. Thanks for proving youre too bigoted to talk to. You could listen to others experiences like you'd want them to do for yourself, but I doubt you have that empathy. Carry on with your imagination Also, yeah you should talk to my therapist and how I feel like a "tool" who needs a specific use and performance or I'm discarded and I have been sexually objectified a bit but I'm sure you know my life better than me as well…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:22 PM
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Yes, Bec she was clearly ignorant on "everyone has a job" which is not the same as taking jobs that put strain on you out of need of circumstances. I then mention supporting a partner and you blame me for it, no wonder men don't want to take care of or give to women anymore. Keep creating your own fights in your head
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:17 PM
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You've clearly never felt forcwd into a job because you need to support yourself with disabilities and an ill partner, you made that clear. I never said you didn't work a "hard job" but please tell me what it is, not that it matters because that's a straw man You're just looking for a reason to dismiss and blame shift on men when you don't even know the story. Do better
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:15 PM
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Cool those are your experiences. Are you capable of understanding that those are universal and an exception at many times? I wish it was that easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:13 PM
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You don't even understand hypotheticals, I'm sure you'd be happy with a man finding anything else to say is your choice. You did tell me what I went through and checked yourself real quick when I pinged out your privelage. Sit down
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:10 PM
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No one forces you to have kids and ruin your body. Got it. See how that goes? But I'm sure you'll find any way to make anything mildly fault, I was forced based on the medical system. sorry I didn't want my partner to die and I did the only thing I could? I had the option to hold out for another job. If you don't know anything about chronic illness, please take astep down
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:07 PM
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Literally the objectified, fight to be taken seriously, and ESPECIALLY pain taken seriously, it's the complete opposite and women are acknowledged more. Also, no men don't do les chores they have someone who wants their schedule and you make it into something but they get pressured to conform.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:01 PM
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Taking care of a partner with limited medical needs and it was just kinda what I could get to provide. Also ones where I took crappy ones because no one else hires me due to my quirks/ neurodivergance and the I'm not given the same advantages in my field. Also, you don't even seem to know about men working more hours and paying more of the way even if you both work. There's a reason there's a saying, "my money is our money, and her money is her money"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:57 PM
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Last half of your comment is false, you don't seem to know much about kens dating experience
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:54 PM
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Damn, someone has never worked jobs that ruin their health to provide for others. Wish I was that lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:48 PM
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And you think men haven't had the opposite or ones where they pay all the bills and it's never seen as enough and taken advantage of? Again, what reality do you live in that you think men have it so easy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:39 PM
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Damn, I wanna live in the reality you're in
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:35 PM
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You're claiming the opposite and have nothing either. Welcome to the pointless argument. Have a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:09 PM
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You haven't shared anything either and also like I said, it's not uncommon if you go to any place men freely talk and express things. There's no point, I'm not interested in arguing with your deflection, have a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:03 PM
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Literally asking for things I provided and deflecting the example and obviously don't listen to men because this isn't rare. Again, I'm not interested in taking to a brick walk, you can argue with someone else. Have a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:57 PM
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"it's your fault your didn't read the fine print of the state contract that fucks you over" Yup, everything's a man's fault and nothing can ever be in your favor. Again, have a good day sweetie
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:51 PM
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You are even more vague, I never claimed my friend was an example or prenup but unfair laws, learn to read. Thanks for admiring it's pointless to argue with you. Have a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:46 PM
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Orenyos would have helped other friends and I told you his example of the law not helping and you handwaved it. You don't accept experiences counter to your perspective. This is a useless conversation because your opinion will always be right lol Way to twist the conversation already btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:38 PM
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You're just hand waving the argument and I guess there's no point. Have a good day lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:26 PM
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Well I was trying. To communicate different experts but part of a debate sub means being in "good faith" as and you are not doing it and replying with straw men and ad hominem. Again, you don't like it being done to you yet you keep doing it to others. That's a concerning lack of empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:17 PM
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Literally making shit up to argue against me then throwing a fit when I do the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:14 PM
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For doing what you've been doing? Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:08 PM
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Why is accountability so hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:06 PM
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You were trolling then, because we are saying. The same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:06 PM
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If you see me that way, then it's a mirror of yourself. You've been childish from the start, i matched it. You already admitted there is no way to have a sensible discussion with someone who says stuff like that, why is it so hard to accept that it's what you're doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:05 PM
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Your last sentence is the explanation. I'm speaking the same way you do because you've not had any sensible discussion. When I do it, you see how futile it is to talk to someone like that. You are doing the same thing with all of your comments and claims. Is self reflection really so hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:03 PM
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And I'm not hyper masculine for myself or anything else you claimed. You were just being salty and insulting and I said the same thing back to you. Again, do you not understand that this is how you're interacting and I'm just mimicing it? It makes actual discussion impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:52 PM
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Carry on wearing makeup for mens approval I don't care. See how we can both do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:41 PM
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It wasn't what they think, it's observed behavior. You're again, not being honest
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:40 PM
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And some women claim to wear makeup to be attractive or men. We can do this all day if you're just going to pick random examples that counter what I say, because they exist for you as well
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:37 PM
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Whatever metaphor you want to make to deny that you proved my point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:48 AM
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That was a bunch of words to say that women reinforce it because you say they're not used to others, but that still proves the point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:46 AM
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So you're literally admitting women prefer and enforce these masculine roles and ideals because they see it as the majority and how it's "supposed to be". Thanks for agreeing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:37 AM
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So you completely ignore my personal experiences falling outside that and searching for it but finding more success when I suppress it in specific ways. You're not being honest, should I bother responding?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:31 AM
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You're the one incapable of self reflection
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:28 AM
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Many guys lift for themselves. Do you not see what you're doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:28 AM
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This is usually where I just mirror the rhetoric until they block me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:26 AM
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Fine, wear makeup for other women, just don't be dishonest about it and blame men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:26 AM
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No one said what you claim, it's that the majority of the preference is still towards more traditional masculinity in a one sided way. You could listen to the men affected or not, whatever you want
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:25 AM
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Ok, well I'm not taking about you but speaking as a man who could be described as "outwardly masculine, inward feminine" with tendencies, the latter tends to be a problem when it's not just you listening empathetically and sharing but always being stoic and in control. Another unrelated example was just the other day a woman was being homophobic and comparing any queer guys to "whimps" and toxic masculine in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:20 AM
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You don't realize the irony that you're saying the same stuff about men and it's just as obnoxious?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:16 AM
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talks about masculinity Man shares his experiences You: "I don't believe you" Good talk. This is pointless then
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:15 AM
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No not really, only very specific subsets. I'm invovled with queer communities and you're not really being honest about how men are seen
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:07 AM
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Nope, just saying it's an unfair system to men that you ignore
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:59 AM
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Nope, I'm saying you're terminally online and think men are like what you see and don't actually know many IRL. As I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:52 AM
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So I talked like you. No, just saying you seem to agree in straw men you see online and it's as a weird as incels ranting about "chad". Porn can be an issue but this level of obsession is weird
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:45 AM
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I worry about your reading comprehension
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:43 AM
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I was talking about you but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:35 AM
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You said you think it works out well for people you know, I know people who got fucked over. What's so hard to understand? And cool, so you'll never complain about abortion rights on reddit since you're already taking action like you're trying to get me to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:35 AM
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Cool, you should.lobbu for reporductive rights as well if you don't like the law. See how that works? Also,.yeah I haven't been married and it's been a good thing. And no, you clearly have never known disabled military vets being kicked out of their own home from an abusive wife during a divorce who begged to see his kids. Not an uncommon story but you can believe what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:15 PM
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Yes, because clubs or meeting no one are the only two options and it also means clubs are now good to toan to, the original commenter was right as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:54 PM
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I've always brought it up in relation to abuse, you're attacking a straw.mannto further minimize the experiences of male victims. Vongrats
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:52 PM
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Me when I'm terminally online and have never known a man as a person and only get my knowledge from tik Tok
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:51 PM
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The fact that you think the state divorce laws are fair is delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:47 PM
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Then we're talking about class with power and wealth, bit gender dynamics so this is not even the place for it. Moot point
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:45 PM
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Neither you nor the person you responded to made that claim
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:56 AM
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So you basically proved the point and admitted you want attraction, most men do as well. Why is that so hard to admit or want?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:31 PM
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Your final sentence is fine because you're honest lol. And probably all of the above, idk why do women want to be seen as attractive by others? Maybe talking to some actual men IRL would help
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:27 PM
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"29 years ago" still homophobic, congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:34 PM
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Nope, you conflating a group you don't like with hkmo anything is a problem. And yeah, lots of trans women can be homophobic to cis men, congrats, you're not the biggest victim and sparred for prejudice. Part of the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:31 PM
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claiming someone you dislike is homo anything just because you don't like their arguments is the same thigng lol. Whatever you tell yourself to excuse homophobia
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:19 PM
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So yeah since you're talking about abstract "romantic" you can throw gay guys under the bus and it's not the same. Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:32 PM
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Ditnnneed anything more than accusing guys you don't like of homo romantic or sexual tendencies to talk shit. Do better, you're an embarrassment
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:23 PM
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Whatever you say to delfect bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:23 PM
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You don't even know what is similar and different in that and also you're sharing wrong statics. Whatever you say man, keep up with the delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:02 PM
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I clearly talked about salary negotiations and extra hours worked and projects taken on and how women that do that also out earn other women and many men and you don't know how to read lol. Have you ever actually known professionally women or organizations to help educate them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:55 PM
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Same to you snowflake
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:48 PM
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You made up an argument to attack. Yeah, whatever you say
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:48 PM
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Nope nice straw man. You don't even know how to make an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:47 PM
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That's what you're doing and now doubling down on lying lol. Get real
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:47 PM
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Johnny was never proved of it are you kidding? She was shown to be the primary preparatir, the fact that you don't even know "reactive abuse" means you're part of the problem lol. She had to pay him for defamation
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:41 PM
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Not at all what I said but nice to know you can't read or don't reply in good faith
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:40 PM
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You've never actually looked into hours worked contributing to higher pay and also salary negotiations? My sister does that and gets paid more than most men, shocker. Have you ever actually went to a professional women's organization talk to students? They talk about that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:28 PM
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She lost, but keep excusing abusers man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:27 PM
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Literally saying that if a guy has issues with women, he likes men. That's the common rhetoric. If you're not seeing that, then idk what to tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:22 PM
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More trans women being homophobic to shit on cis men you don't like. Love it!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:11 PM
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insulting and gas lighting You don't know me and you're the one acting like a child, already being so nasty, yeah youve never been accountable for being an ass lol. Have a good one girly Edit: damn didn't even read all your comment, nothing you said even relates to me at all but you're just offended and personally attacking an image you made up. Thanks for proving the type of women I've started avoiding, terrible would hate you deal with you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:25 AM
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contentless rhetoric ok
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:24 AM
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Wow, that's another crazy way to boil down and bastardize the argument, no. This is impossible but thanks for proving my point, have a good evening.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:43 PM
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You're not even being honest. I clearly said you're biased and preaentinng a one sided approach while and you claimed ignorance but that's BD, no way you're on reddit in good faith and don't see it. And yep, know you'd dismiss what I talked about, asking for accountability for false accusations and abuse of power and they became hostile and absurd power more. I cannot make it anymore clear, if you don't want to comprehend then that's your issue
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:17 PM
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The fact that you took that as an attack instead of me pointing out hypocrisy and examples is another thing. You just keep going lol. Better example, been harassed by female mods who played victim when I asked what it was about and have made false accusations and still lie about it, currently trying to contact reddit admins. But the mods here don't have the balls for accountability over false claims and accusations. Let me gues, "that didn't happen.." and the rest of the narcissist prayer will b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:17 PM
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Already told you and gave you examples and you've been the one derailing, now accusing me of what you've been doing. Keep going, you keep proving my point
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:02 PM
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Once again deflecting and redefining my argument because I specifically called out your willful bias. I see this is going nowhere but thanks again for proving my point
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:51 PM
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Once again proving my points to denial now that you're being dishonest and semantics games. Thanks for proving my point further 🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:31 PM
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compared to swarms of subs bitchign about men and yass girl podcasts You're very biased and not accountable for that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:26 PM
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This entire sub seems to exist to "call women out You mean the gender war sub with sexist mods that favor women and allow constant achitzo rants? Once again, you're not even being honest. Women agreeing with you is what you view as accountability? Nope, but this straw man and manipulation tactic in arguments is not accountability and I'm sure you'll find. A way that deny it, but thanks for proving the poitn. You have no argument but defletion, literally avoiding talking about accountability. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:19 PM
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What does that have to do with wanting a relationship or not? Relationships take work
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:29 PM
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Yeah I'm chill, was never sure if I'd be for having kids and have my own stuff going on so date whenever but not focused. It's fairly peaceful and I'm just doing what I need after spending too much time focusing on others and it's nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:29 PM
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How is people thinking you are an ass accountability? I clearly meant calling it out like if you're being ableist or homophobic which I have seen here a lot, and accountability is also not denying that btw. And yeah everyone does it but you seem to underestimate how much more women get away with it and play cards to hide prejudice. Especially those who constantly insult and berate you until you snap at them and then say you're a problem, that's a common reddit thing but that's a form of psycholo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:59 PM
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If you're being a POS and a terrible person don't play victim and default to hiding behind gender or claiming discrimination. I speak to a lot of women here like I do men where I tell them straight up if they're an ass and they react as bad as the worst manosphere guys. I mean, I'd be happy if they stopped trying to constantly gas light any guys who says something they disagree with and also learn that they do the same dismissive stuff they hate men doing but no one wants to acknowledge it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:38 PM
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Well I have that love from a good friend and others but if I'm not really understood, I feel more lonely aroudn them than aline because I have to be performative to be valued. I'd rather be alone or keep a rotation of casual things instead of getting attached then because what's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:29 PM
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Then why say "never stopped, can make it" to totally dismiss the struggle? Like, it's not hard to find a woman that's interested but I actually want to be understood and accepted and your comment makes it seem like that is not a barrier for us. There are still only some I can really unmask with
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:24 PM
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Ok, and I have similar struggles but once my mask slips and I'm.nkt performative, relationships are hard and people become hostile because I "don't understand" so getting laid is not hard or dating but actually being understood is still a significant challenge. Have you not constantly been judged for not following the social script when it deviates from your pattern recognition and you don't behave how they predict or want? It's never a good time for me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:19 PM
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"high functioning" yeah very specific and I learned to mask around it but there are still significant issues beyond that so you're being disingenuous with how little it affects you vs others
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:16 PM
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That's what I mean, the "us vs them" and "othering" different people
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:55 PM
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Bruh you don't know what was said. Grow up, have a good one, learn to swallow that fragile ego
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:05 AM
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And are we pretending that echo chambers don't exist? Would you feel comfortable opening up about stuff on a manosphere site? Or would you be dismissed due to bias? Think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:42 AM
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Gave you examples form the start, including the ones in this comment but you have willfully misinterpreted it. Whatever you want to believe buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:29 AM
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not everyone brags about getting laid because it's not that special you doofus Again you can pretend the dozens of women I've fucked and many others I've known professionally or as friends don't exist but you're either a troll or legitimately retarded and either way, I'm sorry. Have a good one bud
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:20 AM
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Once again straw men and you ignored the previous comment where I painted half a dozen. Again, you need to grow a pair and learn to read and stop making. Shit up. You have to make imaginary statements of what was said that aren't true, it's pathetic. Just whatever dude, learn to read or don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:06 AM
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That's your projecting the whole time while manipulating the argument and trying to gas light me to think your ad hominem is relevant I'm exhausted by you and your cognitive dissonance. You're the one trying to double down when I mentioned I've had far more experience with women because your entire post was acting like you had something special. You've done nothing but be manipulative. Think whatever you want man, this is literally pointless. Again, glad you obviously don't date much because I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:35 PM
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So did I, back at you sweety
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 09:48 PM
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You're the first to say tirggered, you keep saying "no you" I also answered and that's when you called me "triggered" because you think fucking one bored chick in college means you have experience. Yeah, so you use allllll that for example. First chick I lost my virginity to when I was honestly too high to properly consent was a very staunch claimed feminist and used me for sex until she found a relationship she was comfortable with. I have dealt with professional organizations like Society of W…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 09:47 PM
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You're the one that started insults and also are pretending you know more than you do while trying to gas light someone into not knowing their point and being in denial. Even now you're responding with straw men, this image is you the entire time https://preview.redd.it/bfxrid6mra9h1.jpeg?width=1014&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d8e9adfb9af885c171ca2a906148bc70e67a190b
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 09:17 PM
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No I accurately stated the type of relationship I had with a very specific type of woman with a very specific study and beliefs that are directly related to the context of the conversation "I know a guy who reads" lol You're the triggered one man, I'm telling you as someone with more experience and you've also constantly tried to manipulate and redefine the conversation. Thank God you obviously don't get around much, wave the women you "Brian Griffin" persona of a manipulator lol. And yeah I've …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 09:13 PM
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So you "know a guy" and also, all of your examples are moderated spaces and not actual social ones. You don't even know what those spaces look like but think you're included, cute. Nothing triggered me, you claimed sleeping with a feminist meant you knew shit and if that's the case I have a few I could mention but it's stupid. Again, grow a pair
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 09:06 PM
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Well that's ignoring a very real problem of in group bias and prejudice. Happens with lots of stuff including ethnicity, nationality, sexual orientation, etc. People will play blind identity politics and rally to one side or dismiss the other purely based on those characteristics. You can post the same situation with two different genders and have completely different responses just based on how a group tends to lean with bias and it's very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 09:02 PM
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You listed a FWB and personal examples now are pretending you said differently, I literally told you people I knew in real life and you keep bringing up "discord" DISCORD FOR PEOPEL I KNOW IN REAL LIFE. Again, dude, this is pathetic. Go away
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 08:53 PM
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You changed the question multiple times, motte and bailey, I also answered and you purposely misinterpret to pretend I didn't and then find ways to say it doesn't count by making something up about it God wish you had a pair and could be honest. You're honestly one of the worst psychological manipulators I've seen here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 08:46 PM
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Once again, begging the question and goal shifting and I explained it. Go away dude, this is tiresome. Literally everything I mentioned and you double down, more manipulation tactics. Guess you proved my point that women should stay away from you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 08:33 PM
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You don't even know what logical fallacies are do you? The things I've mentioned, equivocation, motte and bailey, pla bit of ad hominem, your entire argument has been straw men, then definitional retreate/ moving goal posts, etc All of these are known as dishonest argumentation tactics to find a way to manipulate it in your favor or at least keep from admiring you're wrong, and so much use goes well with psych manipulation. God I hope you don't treat any women you see this way, it's classic psyc…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:34 PM
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Already told you otherwise and you're again ignoring it and inventing stuff I answered every question and you've deflected with more logical fallacies than I can count on one hand. Learn to read
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:27 PM
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You're once again pretending this is online and not women I've known in real life You're literally just a gas lighter. Grow up bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:23 PM
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That's what you read and ignored all the context and my descriptions that I told you in my second reply. Again, have fun making things up to pretend you're right, you just can't read
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:19 PM
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You asked what spaces, I told you my experiences, you've little tried to gas light me and invent other arguments and refuse to admit it. That's ego. Idk what the dude said, you're again deflecting. You asked for someone to give a counter example and have spent hours denying it and refusing to believe it and willfully misinterpreting things. Again, this isn't a debate, you're trying to manipulate people. Do better
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:14 PM
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I asked if it was that or another deflection, it was the latter. You can't read, again, you're just trying to tear people down to validate your ego. Be a better person, you also completely changed the argument to deflect again. Seriously man, this is terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:08 PM
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So now "that never happened"? Or deflecting again, you just can't check your ego and admit you were wrong. And I also never did that but have kept on discussion with you asking. For examples and now you're pretending otherwise. Again, you're just a manipulator. Do better
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:58 PM
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Yes, feminist aligned social circles don't exist or ones with more influence. Ones again, you're now playing semantics games to once again dismiss the point. Like I said, please take a look at yourself and reflect, you're the type that does the thing where you invalidate someone when theure vulnerable because you can't get past bias and it's lacking a lot of empathy. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:50 PM
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Yes, a social circle of people I hung out with for years IRL and were most definitely progressive and I told you over and over it was IRL and you refused to believe. I gave you examples in which women have leverage and shut men down in similar ways men have done to women in male dominated spaces and have not even started telling you how often I feel "othered" or personal relationships. I could mention subreddits for women's spaces, that's what you asked. Also again, unless you want to stop compl…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:44 PM
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You're doing it again, using someone mentioned trauma as a side effect to derail, you're really a terrible person. I addressed the discuss about more "feminists aligned spaces" and responded to you directly about people you knew with people I knew and you've been trying to change the argument since and now motte and bailey. You're not debating, you're just a manipulator, this is pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:31 PM
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People that have local social groups, and some are close friends within, that are open to new people about a certain interest such as the very "inclusive" Kink and polyamory groups that accept new people but also form closer knit groups, met a partner there, arts groups for local workshops, hell even my local fencing sports gym has a discord we talk on and plan to play Warhammer. I mentioned women I knew from my college classes, ones I studied with as well who were rather terrible when the "mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:23 PM
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Once again, you are straw manning and ignoring that I told you repeatedly I knew these people, do I need to tell you a few were interested in dating me and I kissed them but I got a different partner I was spending more time with and they got more cold? Grabbed ass too. Again, you're making shit up for cognitive dissonance. I'm done with arguing against your straw men because you can't read. Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:08 PM
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This whole Post is about past and privilege. That apart of OPs post. Have you forgotten It's about blaming men for past things, then you claimed you knew more because of the women you knew, I told you about the ones I did, youve been melting down. Have you forgotten? And once again “social circles” STILL comes back around to “online” Only discord now. So more online Yes, because itl social groups never have a discord to keep in touch or maybe organize events together. This is pointless Once agai…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:00 PM
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Yes in some, have you never had open social circles such as ones that have discords? There's even one for the local writers community. And also, even without it the same energy can be elsewhere where people more believe women and dismiss men. I have also had natural "friends" from college and the women were actually terrible people and cliquish. And nope, not crashing out, exhausted at your lack of comprehension, now going to use someone mentioning and example that happened to do with trauma to …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:50 PM
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Not at all what I said, again you're making shit up and now trying gas lighting to redifien arguments, it's pathetic. And once again- you’re still pulling in your subreddits. I didn't? I said nothing of reddit. Once again, you're making shit up. I have no interest if you're going to only argue straw men and refuse to read, I also specifically told you about structures of and energy of the environments or real life open social circles I have been a part of. Also, "not believed" is different from …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:40 PM
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These are people I knew IRL dude. You refuse to read properly and seem to keep pretending different things are said. Did I not mention "friends I had for years"? Also, online spaces are toxic and you'd cititize a males too so you're being disingenuous. Have fun with your imagination and making up conversations
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:27 PM
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Social groups and areas that are more influenced by women and stuff, those exist as well including alternative communities like poly or queer or whatever. I have spent a long time in those circles and it always feels like Russian roulette on who I can trust now after multiple times thinking they were actual "feminists" but find way to shut down male abuse victims if the perpetrator shared their genitals. That's the unfortunate reality outside of those moderated and individual spaces. Your lack o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:18 PM
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I literally told you and included examples on reddit. If you're going to straw man I'll stop responding. Not a single real life example? Second half of my comment was real life. You're doing what they do and deny my experiences including all sorts of things you should probably be against like sexual coercion. You're not even reading in good faith and imagining things I didn't say. Hope you have fun invalidatign people
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:10 PM
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You said nothing that was a "female space" but individuals you know that think in theory and moderated discussions. Have you ever had a personal social group in which it's important? And theyre all about "intersectionality" and such? You're using the definition of academic feminism which is supposed to be equality but do you think that individuals really care of someone has bad beliefs so long as they agree with the ones you find important? Same shit for guys that hang out with a dude that's a P…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:05 PM
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You said nothing but anecdotes and I have opposite examples that coujtner act yours. Will you accept those?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:57 PM
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By making straw men and generalizing "men" as the enemy and also imaginary assumptions, it'd be just as fair that you'd be HAPY being a stay at home mom and dependent by those same metrics, it's ignorant. You're going back to talk about the past and say it's like today, it's not. Or in case you forget all the men who have gone to feminist rallies for decades? Your argument is against culmination of different entities that aren't real people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:48 PM
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You've never seen women online constantly take pleasure in pain and abuse of men out of spite? Furthermore, never seen it in person? You sound sheltered
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:46 PM
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That's fair but saying "suspicious" you don't see how that comes off similar to the lady who grabs her purse when a minority ethnicity walks by? I say you're right in being cautious but suspicious is very insinuating
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:44 PM
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And once again, derailing to make false acucyand build an imaginary enemy while being the victim like so.many men have not advocated against those things and you're acting like "men" are a monolith that voted for trump. Touch grass and talk to actually humans
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:42 PM
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Replace this with any other group and how ist plot phobic does that sound? I could say the same thing about women but avoid generalizing like a dick
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:41 PM
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I did in previous comments. You ignored it. But why are you overlapping toxicity with masculinity if you think that's not true? I never did, you did and that's my point. You call a lot toxic except the parts that could benefit you, that's the hypocrisy. I cannot make it simpler
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:33 PM
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You're not even understanding what I'm saying with the overlap and don't have the cognition for nuance. This is pointless, you seem incapable of reading comprehension
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:30 PM
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Read my comments. It's not hard
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:25 PM
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You're the one begging. For attention and funny how you switched up when I copy and pasted the proper context of the conversation and not your nit picked one. You don't have to respond, have a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:22 PM
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You didn't copy and paste anything other than a specico comment I never even addressed to once again,n straw man. I'm used to manipulators, you're not derailing me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:16 PM
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I never mentioned it but instead the OC Do you have any experience with dating in the last decade? Yes, people and women may talk about toxic masculinity, but you know what they choose and want when dating? Masculinity. And dform the start have said that they are taking it as conflating but the original comment was not, reread. I'm sorry if you can't
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:15 PM
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Because you're making up stuff to argue about and throw a temper tantrum.and redefine the argument because of a fragile ego that can't accept you're wrong? Yes, good luck love
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:37 PM
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I literally copy and pasted the entire thing. That is exactly what was said. Whatever, pretend to docgdr accountability and make up imaginary arguments elsewhere lmao. This is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:35 PM
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You literally don't read my comments when I told you that you complain about masculinity but that's also what attracts women in dating, so it has to be done on your schedule. Simply you don't see men as people but vehicles for care for you. Unless you address this, stop you're not saying anything
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:35 PM
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You copy and pasted nothing of mine, then accused me of shit I didn't say, you're making shit up and obviously didn't read because y'all are the ones whining, I'm calling you out on your shit. Stop being a manipulator and grow a pair to learn accountability of what is actually said. Jesus, learn some accountability https://preview.redd.it/wqoek08t199h1.jpeg?width=1014&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d9542c8bf2373e59a213be6a4cc65dea4c5788ed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:31 PM
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Lmao you can't be serious with the gas lighting and how you created your own sentences. This is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:29 PM
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Not at all what was said, more straw men. Learn to read
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:27 PM
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I did, you responding straw men and accusations of things I never did but have told you that you are doing. And you missed the point in multiple comments about you being the determination and also selective of what is "toxic" or not to be manipulative, like you're doing here Learn to read. Have a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:22 PM
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Nope you're imagining what I'm saying because you can't refute the actual point and can't read, you're projecting what you're doing. Either learn to read or stop trying to argue with people for your ego
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:18 PM
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She never debetaes, she banshee screeches achitzo posts from the basement and antagonizes people to then get mods to ban them if they disagree. I'm actually questioning how much is bad faith and how much is limited cognitive ability. I'm more or less going to repeat telling her that she doesn't have the mental capacity that argue
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:24 PM
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But he did bring up the word, toxic, so you lied. Because you keep lying Reread my comment, he brought up BOTH SEPARATELY Then how can it be hypocrisy to “ picking and choosing what is "toxic masculinity" when also a lot of traditional masculine things are wanted when dating”? That's what hypocrisy is. I cannot spell it out clearer but you refuse to read. Please read or go away
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:14 PM
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Because you keep lying, and there’s no point in putting a lot of effort into debating someone who keeps lying. You even said the guy only talked about masculinity and I had Literally what you're doing, point out my lie or another contentless rhetoric? You have not addressed a single point. had to copy and paste where you talked about toxic masculinity. You also just conflated the two. And you also admitted viewing it as a contradiction. I did no such thing Again, can you read? You're not interpr…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:02 PM
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Nope, that's how you interpret it out of bad faith. You replied to my comment where I tell you the masculine things women want and ignored it. You're redefining the argument, he's saying you're a hypocrite for picking and choosing what is "toxic masculinity" when also a lot of traditional masculine things are wanted when dating. Read. I
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:53 PM
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No he did not, you did. He mentioned toxic masculinity and masculinity in general differently. Again, can you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:49 PM
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Wow contentlyes rhetoric and you think your gender means you can't be called out on bullshit, this is called accountability. I literally told you what he said and I responded to and you came back with a straw man. Can you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:46 PM
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He said masculinity, not toxic. You are the one conflating it from the start with a straw man. Many still want a guy to do the sidewalk rule, open the door and "care for" you, be the big spoon and reassuring, be the enotianal rock, offer to be the one to initiate and take you out etc. You might not like to but a lot of those are parts of masculine expectations and more, and those guys have more success. So yes, they still chose the parts of masculinity that benefit them alone and define that as …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:11 PM
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You guys seem to love conflating masculinity as being toxic. No, that's what you're doing right now. Are you able to read comments and know what you yourself said? Nice guys are just assholes were mad they don’t have pretty privilege. They think doing the bare minimum of decency entitled them to pussy. Who the hell wants a C student always demanding we treat them like valedictorians? Nothing relevant to what I said but a rant about what you think men are like despite not talking to any. I talked…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:01 PM
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Idk probably depends on the guy. I've never been married because I haven't had someone I loved and would attach my life to, only one almost met it but it was a terrible choice and relationship. If I'm not "obsessing" over someone idk if I'd even find being married worth it, sounds silly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:56 AM
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Since when is masculinity the same as bad? You're literally proved the point and demonize any that isn't the "performative" stuff you like. And also ignoring the years of guys calling out those "progressives" about double standard on gender roles, women still expect it whether you want to admit it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:53 AM
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Not sure how many years you’ve spent on dating apps on the woman’s side……. Lol but definitely can’t have been more time than an actual woman More so I'm bi, and have been in social groups where we talk about this for women, you still have a lot of abundance and arbitrary picky points. You can do you, but it sounds just picky and partially more shallow about your life rather than connecting to a person. But still plenty of guys I've personally known on the apps and have see still meet that, again…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:07 PM
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Yeah, literally know and see tons of that. You're probably looking. For something you're not saying lol. And I've seen me in apps, and usually more effort than women considering I've tested both sides. But whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:50 PM
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There are literally tons of those profiles, what?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:43 PM
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Damn lots of lack of self awareness here, where it can be a mutual thing or maybe both people just like company and physical action. Not every woman is repulsed by sex and "entitled" is very specific subsets but you're not saying anything with it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:24 PM
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Wow, how is this tik Tok pop psychology gas lighting even allowed as a post? This is all rheyoricless content tf?;
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:53 PM
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Yeah, age has been more secondary to me, even dated a 40 year old cougar, who was terrible, when I was 23. And I'm 30 now and a previous possible important partner that didn't work out was 40
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:50 PM
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And they ask why some dudes would rather be single, I can just vibe on my own and not have to entertain someone who I can't even talk to about anything important because they lack the bandwidth. Sounds miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:16 PM
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Nope, actually talking about what I've learned from personal experience and telling you the bar is low but for some reason people derail
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:26 PM
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No, youre literally using straw men to create scenarios and I have not insulted you but simply asked what you are actually asking. You seem to be slow walking some arbitrary logic and choices and you talk about "boundaries" after I have continually told you I'm not interested in invented scenarios that feel like a trap and attempt at a "gotcha!" Because you complete misinterpret what I say. Imagine if a guy kept willfully misinterpreting what you said to try and refraim what is said. It's actual…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:00 PM
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You answered your own question and everything I mentioned If she says "I don't like this thing you did" do you see that as ungrateful because she should be happy you pay rant or is that not arguing? You invented this. Of course you can express and communicate things but I've also been berated and verbally abuse by those I supported, I'm literally telling you the bar is on the floor. Throwing a fit if they can't afford things or are stressed about carrying things and aren't doing "enough" for you…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:48 PM
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Well one thing is "I didn't like this/ it made me uncomfortable, I know it wasn't intentional but I wanted to communicate about this" and you running away rather than taking accountability, same for myself and if I feel comfortable doing so. It's hard to find someone that doesn't deflect or invalidate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:38 PM
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I answered your question, and I'm not aggressive, just curt and not entertaining mind games to try and miscontrue my point. Me saying you're using straw men is literally just what it is and it's rather rude. Because I asked what a woman is supposed to do and you answered with things she is not supposed to do. Well you also asked what it's like to distrub peace right? And further things I suppose is just being appreciative and considerate. Since you couldn't answer properly I have to work around …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:23 PM
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You're completely misconstrueing and straw man in the argument, I never said any of that, complain that you're not paying. For more while also paying for everything and especially it being a toll already is entitled or complaining that it's not enough. What if you dont pay her rent and dont buy her stuff or is that just something that you are automatically doing in a relationship? That's better than I've had it but you can still be entitled and not respect mental consent and throw your issues on…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:57 PM
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You mean complaining about you not paying her rent of buying enough stuff or going out of your way to perform enough labor and takes it for granted? Will you read and respond in good faith or just make things up? Like, if someone is paying all your bills, how much are you entitled to complain? Don't tell me you think that's some bare minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:47 PM
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Well for one, don't be overly argumentative and egotistical for no reason and conflate it with some sort of power. An obnoxious but not uncommon example is to be the one paying for everything or doing all of the labour and deal with "give an inch, take a foot" and constantly having to feel like you need to justify doing what's good for you or your partner starting to see these as expectations and becoming entitled, maybe even argue about how you need to provide more or being controlling etc. Not…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:13 PM
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Y'all are the first time profile creep and say some ableist or homophobic shit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:26 PM
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She was constantly insulting anyone who disagreed with her. I don't agree with targeting, but y'all have done plenty of harassing but the insulting was mutual. Also, no, I have never seen a good faith argument on this sub and you included, especially your initial comment. By that same metric, you argue with incels because you lack male companionship and want their attention so from the start it's been weird. Regardless, I'm not really interested but all of you are acting childish
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:45 PM
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Happens all the time lol, to me plenty and that's half the ways you "debate" I have never seen you do anything. But insult and be bitter about things either, never once "debate". I'm not the one that needs growing up love
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:49 PM
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You mean calling them out for being dicks? I've seen women do much worse here regularly, they seem desperate for male validation by those same metrics. This woman in specificno one wants, she's obnoxious I'd hate to deal with her. Keep your delusions to yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:08 AM
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I've been dealing. With disability, prejudice with mental illness etc since a kid and then more severe mental illness disability and chronic severe debilitating physical pain. It's all treated the same way you're describing and then just deflecting to talk about women in general when you should know better if you have had those experiences yourself. My ex was even worse off and more ill and it's not just because she was a woman she was treated like shiby the incompetance of the medical industry,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 10:42 PM
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Those things are true of covid, have you never known immune compromised people? Covid is deadly to them. Also, influenza has class A and B and they're different they literally affect people differently. Regardless, the only thing I'm getting from this conversation is that a man has to be deathly ill to be taken seriously and not dismissed, like you're literally doing with a narrow definition
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:57 PM
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You literally proved my point by denying it because I didn't have pepper work, let me guess "man flu" because I don't have a medical professional to tell easy up? Proved the point Also "flu" has dozens of strains and offshoots and that's technically the origin of covid. You're using a narrow definition to play semantics games, it's weird
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:35 PM
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I have not seen a single good faith "debate" and people not being assholes here. It's strictly a place for drama
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:50 PM
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Funny, because my experiences reflect that and I recall you specifically saying I was lying and I asked "would you like to know why I was wearing?" So women don't seem to acknowledge when that happens to men either, though I acknowledge it for everyone. You think it's a gendered problem and that says enough lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:19 PM
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Why does this sub exist if you don't complain about people being assholes? Isn't that what every complain you have here comes down to?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:17 PM
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You do know that the flu comes in a lot of different forms including covid? I've had a variety and this kind of thinking is part of the problem with it because it's not "real" unless it affects someone the same way. I had the flue over new years and I never run a fever but had such severe body aches and chills it felt terrible trying to sleep and I was downing a lot of z quil and Tylenol and could barely walk or stand as well and it's a different profile, just like with covid I had intense cough…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:31 PM
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Yeah and "man flu" is when he has influenza and stops being a product of use and "lazy" so you decide to say they're faking it and ignore medical issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:26 PM
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I've had a lot of personal life things going on and also ignored my own needs for a previous relationship so I have been doing a lot of work on myself in the past year, sometimes I'll want a fling or company or I'll end up dating someone but often doesn't last long when we both lay our expectations. I almost got into other relationships after my last one ended but finding someone genuine and who has the balls to do what they say and say what they mean is hard. I don't usually like being monogamo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:28 PM
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I worry for your reading comprehension but yes I shouldn't and I'm talking about it being imposed like the guys who keep a calendar with when their wives did or didn't have sex with them to weaponize. Want to misconstrue other comments and be beligerant for it? Or gonna check yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:16 PM
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Not really, I'm just clumsy. And it's ok, I've been waiting in a lab test for two hours and bored at at work
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:13 PM
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Another straw man when I tell you I fuck when I want but it's easier to jerk off to orgasm or so you think women should not complain about men not getting them off? Have fun fighting imaginary versions of my to feel better about yourself. Most women aren't worth the effort, last one I saw I fucked up my bed frame and it's held together by tape now but in hindsight she pushed for a relation that was a busy so I'm kinda just annoyed at that now. I hope you develop a more secure ego soon
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:11 PM
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Sometimes I have a steady fwb, or just date casually. Again, making weird assumptions because you think other women must behave like you do. But I go through phases, sometimes I want sex but sometimes I'm happier with my dog and I. I have a negative orgasm gap so it's not like I do it to get off and I always do most of the work so God forbid I don't feel like putting on a strenuous performance all the time and am not just a starfish
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:04 PM
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Nothing about it is irrational though. You might argue it’s trivial, but you are also here telling us you don’t want to get married or date and would rather visit sex workers whom you pay to pretend they like you. You used a straw man here just now, I literally said I don't go for sex workers, have dated or been FWB with some and almost gotten into it, but saying you're being weird about guys who do and you changed to make a false accusations to put me on the defense when it's irrelevant. Thanks…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:58 PM
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you mean your online gender war brain rot? Also the way you respond to this guy and the amount of judgement and how much you're doing on this thread is not really normal and it's like you need someone to be "lesser" than you to look down on. The cognition of hypocrisy is not there either. But anyways, I guess this is pointless so have a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:52 PM
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I've known people with that so I doubt it, I'm a bit under but could technically qualify for mensa but usually people are more rational and not screaming at randos if they're at that level. also, I'd hate to trade places with your husband so the fact that you think "married" means anything is funny. I actually want to like the person I date, respect them and their capabilities and principles and share insight but also accountability with mutual vulnerability. I could be married many times over i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:44 PM
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I wouldn't say that but if avoiding people like you counts, I've gotten better at winning. I'd like to date, but it's hard to find someone decent with more than two brain cells and a teaspoon of empathy for others. Low bar but oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:33 PM
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You're talking. Out of your ass and projecting, yeah it's false lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:32 PM
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It's supposed to, the closest I get is the ADA and hiding until I can divulge medical things after hired but will absolutely not be appreciated or given a fair hance if you don't have the right disability with a cane or you're a cert ethnicity but you're not brown enough for photos to show off the diversity. Again, this is as a guy who DEI was supposedly designed for, it sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:26 PM
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Same people will shit on a man for not having a job and hold patriarchal beliefs, you're just saying what they claim fo support. Barely anyone does shit for the homeless either and they don't give a shit about "labor conditions" unless they're watched and this "safety checks" and liability are important.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:23 PM
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"loneliness" like a man needs a partner to be validated, or a woman.yeah, you're insecure and just seething, people would rather be single than date constant combatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:17 PM
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So you are bothered by something that's none of yours business but seem to project judgement based on insecurities. Also, ok well I also said the guys who do fuck for free have aslso started keeping it casual because the juices isn't worth the squeeze and you seemed to be very offended by that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:08 PM
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Yup and arbitrary days for it and berate you if you don't follow the dish unloading schedule as they want even though you do literally everything else but it's not on their checklist so it is irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:05 PM
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You're responding like you are tbh, nothing she said was even relative to what most people experience anyways. But keeping space and more casual and enjoying occasional company is generally easier than "dating " so I'd agree on multiple fronts
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:03 PM
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The same achitzo screaming from the same person
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:02 PM
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You gonna tell that to men who talk about their actual experiences being assaulted or find a way to deny it happened or blame them for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:29 PM
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What do you gain from saying these things in this particular conversation? You're talking about the actions of others which is not within your control. If you're scorned by lack of 'basic respect' from women, maybe you need to speak to women in your life and so why this may be the case Well my sexist grandma is dead, my crazy aunt isn't around, my mom takes everything too personally. But please tell me more how you know my life, you literally just proved the point, deny and delftsect and minimiz…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 07:02 PM
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mean just look at the staggering amount of men that leave their wives after they've been diagnosed with terminal illness. That study has been disproven as math errors for a long time, there's not a large difference statistically. Personally though? I see it the other way around much more, myself and others with disabilities included. Can I also just state that it's super weird how in this sub so many men feel the need to relate and compare their experiences of misfortune with women What do you m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:01 PM
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Not at all but nice gas lighting. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:06 AM
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You mean when you attack me personally until I share ethos and then manipulate me sharing I have experience because you hate empathizing with male victims if they disagree with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:18 AM
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Did you read the comment chain or just a few specific words and decide to get upset?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:16 AM
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Nope, not turning it sexual but playing on stereotypes. Anyways have a good night
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:58 PM
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Nope, you e been lying and projecting but whatever you said sweety. Go dismiss someone for being SAd somewhere else, you just did it again. Disgusting. Wanna know what underwear I had on?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:51 PM
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Nothing exists or matters what person says so why should I? And idk, I'm not interested in you but you seem preoccupied with me. You seem very offended by my personal experiences about my own body and sexual experiences so it's just a guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:46 PM
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Completely denial and trying to convince me things are fake, that classifies but you're not being genuine anyways. Regardless, wanna know what I was wearing? You can get off to it later if you want
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:38 PM
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Whatever you say when bling and gas lighting male victims. Hope no guys passes out drunk around you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:25 PM
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Yeah I said you're gross for victim blaming but edited it anyways. It's ok if you're still butt hurt, doesn't change the fact you blame men for SA
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:24 PM
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Also, what personal attack? You're lying
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:53 PM
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Whatever you say to excuse victim blaming based on gender. I just expect people to be better human beings is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:52 PM
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Denying my own SA experience because of my gender to be condescending is that. Again, you're disgusting. Wanna know what I was wearing?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:47 PM
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Literally denying and victim blaming me because I disagree with you. But thanks! You seem lovely, keep away from me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:37 PM
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You proved me right you make fun of male SA victims. Lots of times guys were too drunk and you pushed huh? It's ok, admitting it is the first step
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:34 PM
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Whatever abusers say 💕
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:32 PM
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Ok kiddo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:28 PM
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Nope, because you deny and accuse us of it if we don't bring our own experiences. Learn what ethos is, but you think any time aan brings it up is political, ironic. Hope no men pass out drunk near you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:28 PM
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"that never happens, if it did then it wasn't that bad, if it was then you probably deserved it" Yeah been told that a lot, thanks for letting me know you're one of them sweety
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:20 PM
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Once again pretending I said something I didn't, I'm holding you accountable for being agas lighter and POS. Be a better person
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:19 PM
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Reread the context of what I'm saying
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:50 PM
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Literally not the case, but good luck out there
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:51 PM
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Literally coming out accusatory and insulting and directly denied my experiences with it because I disagreed with her. Apparently men aren't SAd when they disagree with her
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:50 PM
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Sure if you ignore everything I said. Take it easy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:49 PM
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As a way to deflect and accuse and shame someone to change the time of the conversation. She was accusatory and used it as a weapon, which was my point
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:33 PM
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LMAO oh I got news for you. Unless you want to tell me how my life has gone and feel comfortable claiming to be all known
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:29 PM
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Assuming that I don't have experience, you ignored. If you're selective with reading then I'm not interested
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:28 PM
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Not at all what I'm doing but congrats on your fantasy. Literally holding you accountable for doing that and using it I genuinely and I ly bring it upyaelf because you dismiss me and "other" my opinion, and it makes you uncomfortable so you dismiss more. Thanks for proving my point
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:14 PM
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So men never weaponise the sexual violence they’ve experienced, but women always do? Where did I say this? More straw men, please say something coherent, both do depending on context. Or maybe those women are bringing it up because they felt silenced, just as you did. Yes to justify why they expect men to pay on a date because he's an inherently threat etc. You're not engaging in good faith, have a good day. You also literally dismissed me like men do to you because I disagreed with you and my g…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:08 PM
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Whatever you say to avoid accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:00 PM
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Nope, I brought it up because you tried to shut me down like I couldn't speak on it, ive mean it from the start. Nice gas lighting! That's usually what happens if men bring it up even in other context btw, you proved the issue. Again, you dismissed me until I pulled that out and now you're blaming me, that's very shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:00 PM
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Nope, I was talking about people who bring it up I genuinely as a manipulation tactic, you're the only one being dismissive. Do better
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:57 PM
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Nope, the comment you replied to is pretty clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:57 PM
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That kind of insensitivity and disrespect are usually done by those who are ignorant of sexual violence. Olympic oppression doesn’t belong in SA discussion. Did you not read my comment and notice that this is exactly what I'm taking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:56 PM
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nope You first questioned me to dismiss me even though the context was clearly a "yes"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:55 PM
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God you don't even have the comprehension to understand my point and your hypocrisy. This is astounding
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:54 PM
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Nope, literally been my point and you proved it. Also you're never worth taking to so have a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:52 PM
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I was talking about WOMEN ON THIS SUB BEING DISINGENUOUS then you assumed it was only won and I couldn't possibly understand it or have never heard so you immediately discounted . because I have a dick and disagreed with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:51 PM
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It’s not a red herring, it’s a genuine fear a lot of women have because they’ve got personal experience of it. If you can’t recognise that women are traumatised from dating men and be sympathetic about that, then you shouldn’t be approaching women. All about women, not about using the term disingenuously like I said, yeah you discounted me. Do better
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:49 PM
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You don't see how you probably ved my point how OP is wrong and the hypocrisy but thank you anyways lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:34 PM
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For calling you out for using a crime to try and manipulate people and minimize it? Oh boy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:34 PM
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You're proving my point and I only brought it up because you're in denial and blame shifting read what I wrote, I'm against using it as an argument manipulation tactic. Take your straw men and denial of mens experience somewhere else, you literally questioned me so you're as bad as others lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:31 PM
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Literally told you, and you're denying it because I disagree with you. Lovely
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:26 PM
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You have the chance to clarify what you mean but you're doing a motte and bailey and pretending you didn't say something ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:24 PM
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Nope, I did none of that, I said people weaponized it to shame people, which you are and proving my point. Good luck gas lighting someone else Btw wanna know what I was wearing?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:19 PM
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OP just invalidates me for my trauma fyi, that's what kl talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:17 PM
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Most women don't respect cis mens consent fully in my experience and I've learned to scream "no means no!" As an adult, as well as dozens of partners opening up to me Some "ally" you are to deny my own SA because I disagree with you, or do you just think it never happens to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:15 PM
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So is everything OP talked about. But people are ingenuine with it at times, you can't have it both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:14 PM
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You're accusing me of no experience and denial, why are you denying it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:13 PM
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Literally like I said, generalizing men and "othering" them and acting paranoid about it to full assumptions and saying it as a shaming tactic rather than genuine. I'm tired of it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:08 PM
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Lmao you think I'm not used to or aware of those things girlie? You literally just did it, brought it up to deflect and shame someone and ALSO assume I don't have trauma or speak from experience and invalidate me because of my gender. You're not in good faith, you're using it to shame and manipulate people. People don't talk about it like that when they're being legit, but you've probably never had other people be vulnerable around you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:07 PM
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You literally assumed I know nothing of it and probably because of my gender because I said something you disagree with. Pretty sexist
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:04 PM
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Thanks for more assumptions, you know all the women IRL who confide in me and I remember dozens of cases but they don't use it online to shame random people and make them feel akward about it. Also sexist of you to assume I don't have any experience being assaulted/ violated since I'm a male, tsk tsk. You think I didn't speak from experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:56 PM
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Nope, I've been subject to it myself and don't think it's a "woman only" thing like you do, and I also talk about it with people as a serious trauma and not use it to shame random people online into feeling guilty about the genitals they have. Do you not see the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:55 PM
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In reality it is but when you mention it when it's irrelevant just to make other people uncomfortable because you can't make a good argument it is and minimizies it. Is it not wrong to call people out for bastardizing and thus minimizing a term?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:50 PM
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Lmao I literally talk to women about it and they don't use it as a cludgal to shame men into behaving how they want and "shut up or you're terrible" because y'all do the same thing. Thanks for proving my point, you don't actually try to communicate but weaponized it, you minimize the entire thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:49 PM
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Those statistics to justify bringing it up out of nowhere, proved my point. It was a single example, I gave others.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:48 PM
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Literally bringing it up now out of nowhere, and yes usually people inject it when it's not even mentioned to shake others and try to take a moral stance, you don't care about it, you use the statistics as a weapon.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:33 PM
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How they mention it, "we'll respect men when they stop raping us!" And stuff. They're not actually talking about the subject but weaponizing it, that's not the only thing literally happens with every issues but ultimately, two sides of a coin where both are just screaming and red herring each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:32 PM
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Women on this sub do the same thing, swear to God they use rape as a buzzword but don't every talk about the nuance. Should I take that subject less seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:22 PM
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Idk if I've heard that before, sounds like you made it up based on goomba fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:06 PM
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"do all men who hit on you count as rape threats?" Creating a scenario they never said to derail the conversation, yeah. Doo better son
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:27 PM
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You're literally straw manning and red herrings to avoid his point. Unless you want to try and dismiss it and excuse behavior. You're not even debating, you're in bad faith
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:25 PM
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Ok, well he told you, and you ignored it multiple times. Your move to accept it or are you minimizing rape threats? If not, then just move along
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:20 PM
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Reread dude. You're literally denying reality. No, you don't get to speak for someone, you're being ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:19 PM
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Sounds like you enjoy men being harassed so you can feel a vendetta
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:18 PM
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Did you fail to mention the rape threats or do you just consider a man trying to have sex with you automatically “rape”? He literally mentioned it IN THE POST. You're not reading in good faith and speaking for someone else and their comfort of sexuality, that's not accepting or "inclusive"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:16 PM
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Have you ever heard of "set yourself on fire to keep another warm"? You ever know someone so dependent on validation and need for company that they ruin and sacrifice their own well being and lives in order to accommodate others? I did that, I have spent the last year catching up on a fuck ton of mecial issues after neglecting my body and trying to get back to sobriety and steady with my job. Dating is not important as that, I "decentered" it. Is that wrong? It depends on nuance and why they're …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:29 PM
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The word you're looking for is "othering". "Decentering" can mean a lot of things a lot of people who do it do it for online cry baby content, but if you literally just mean prioritizing your own well being, how is that wrong? Is is wrong to "decenter" money so that it's not that you quit your job and live as a beggar but that's not the only thing for you. Wouldn't you rather go to your kids sports game than work? Nuance can be applied here, though I'll agree it's become a buzzword online
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:26 PM
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Is it not better to have a relationship because you want it instead of feeling deoendent or a need for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:17 PM
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I literally told you people I've known in real life for years. Do you ever read comments or just respond randomly? Edit: social media "what were you wearing" if a woman opens up about something, I'm sure you'd be fine with that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 11:21 PM
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And the rest of reddit? Or lots of social media? Or the women I've known IRL who I thought were my friends? And family? Literally canceled a date/ possible hookup the other month because the woman became excessively hostile in a way that sacred me and clearly projecting other issues but I'm used to that evolving into them waiting for moments they can berate you. Will you now tell me my life experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 11:17 PM
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This entire sub is that and half the time I talk about my personal experiences on reddit or places there's some banshee screeching. I've started to ask women if they want to know what I was wearing at this point honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 11:11 PM
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I dated a sexual influencer... You'd be surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 11:06 PM
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No, it's honestly hard to escape and exhausting
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 11:05 PM
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Kinda funny that you don't call out psych manipulation and victim blaming
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 11:02 PM
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Oh God you... Really are a crazy gas lighter and victim blamed, yeah I was wearing a lot of different things at times. Same when women got me when I was too drunk to consent. Anyways, you really don't participate in good faith but are so butt hurt about any possibility of women doing anything wrong you need to try and convince someone they deserve bad things Again, you're honestly just a disgusting incel, there's no point it always ends up the same way. Idk why I waste my time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 10:51 AM
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Your question doesn't even make sense because how can someone abuse me, my relatives and SOs and people who I thought were my friends, be avoiding men or me or just "going about their days"? Abuse isn't going about your days lol. I would rather they avoid me A lot of them had bad experiences with men in the past and then "othered" me for it and used me as an easy target for the resent but they might have avoided other men, but I'm not them so why are you asking me? Like, I know my grandma was di…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 10:42 AM
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No really, I was talking about you but you seem really obsessed with me, I'm not interested. Idk why you're bothering me, don't you need to ask a guy what he was wearing when he was groped or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 10:24 AM
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You seem so self aware. Also hope no men pass out drunk around you, in my experience that'd be bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 10:20 AM
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No, just description or whatever you were saying to me as well. It's more so I don't know how people like you have ever gotten by in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 10:15 AM
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Exactly, sorry no one has held you accountable for being a terrible person before. You really have a lot of privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 10:13 AM
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Matching your tone, sorry you don't know how you treat others
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 10:10 AM
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You asked multiple things and changed what you meant to motte and bailey, trying to convince me my argument was wrong when I addressed what you said, manipulating someone perception is gas lighting Of course you don't recognize it though, bet you don't into every man you see and often blame them for not fighting women off hard enough. "Imaginary person" yes so victim blaming, wow you're a disgusting person. You're as bad as an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 10:08 AM
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I answered your question, you're already deflecting, I remember you but youre the weirdo who tries to gas light non stop. Please tell me how I learned to hide in closets growing up and more of my experiences, would you like to handle me CPTSD diagnosis? You proved my point, you're one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 09:58 AM
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I'm autistic with a history of depression, idk about others but I have been a target frequently and it's not rare and same for other children to go through Edit: just so you know myaelf and other men who have been SAd by women have frequently been dismissed and heard a version of "what were you wearing" from women as well. I'm sure you'd call a man saying that to women mysogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 09:25 AM
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So you take like one sentence out of context and try to loop it back to your initial accusation to frame me as morally incorrect or otherwise lesser and just circle back to the trolling talking points. Bro, I'm high but not high enough for this. I'll hit you up if I relapse on alcohol and have half my brain function
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:02 PM
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I have no issues with men calling out conservative ideas being promoted online. What I do have issues with is them using that as a justification for promoting misogyny. Well I'd agree and I avoid it but at the same time, women often hold resent towards men if they've been hurt by men so that also happens with the men here. But ultimately it doesn't need to be misogniy, it could be viting conservative, it could be being judgmental and cynical in general, not dating, leaving feminist spaces and wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:00 PM
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This is why I reply in memes rather than genuine discussions lol. You already forgot the context of your first comment, basically saying that men should limit their expression while women should maintain the right. That is a fundamentally unequal power balance that has been exploited for a long time and is literally part of the general divide and you're advocating for men to be progresiv in values but still act old school and minimize their personhood. Why the fuck would a man bother associating…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:55 PM
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No, in general for other humans. I'm angry because you lack that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:50 PM
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Yeah, but why should I bother explaining that you have bias out of need for validation and being seen as the "nice guy" for acceptance by the "in group" as you have essentially "othered" different men in order to be more appealing and virtue signal while totally dismissing the experiences of others and resorting to ableist and patriarchal rhetoric that is a literal example of what is being discussed in this post. Believe it or not, some men want women to listen to them because they actually want…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:48 PM
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"I'm uncomfortable being called out for being a simp bigot for pity points"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:41 PM
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Not just online, I repeatedly told you IRL So you admit the post? Or are you deleting more? Because essentially, why should any many involved himself in any modern progressive space if by your own amdissin most are like that? Does that not justify men going against you then?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:41 PM
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Oh, in other words "man up, no one cares how you feel"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:38 PM
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You are kinda "othering" us by outing that category, how would like me to express that I anticipate women being emotional unstable and verbally abusive at random? Or race? I can understand it, but in practice, that's how it happens. What you said is false that it's a "tiny fraction", not saying red pill but those who isolate men from progressive spaces, even ones you claim to advocate for because they're still men. Thats been not just my own experiences and the topic at hand and it comes from th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:23 PM
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Sorry for typos, again are you going to tell me what my life has been like? Because I've faced this in leftists spaces or are you just going to play grammar police to deflect?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:21 PM
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So why don't they vote for trump? And no one calls them out? So you admit all these spaces are real and you're part of a small minority and ignore the reality of modern social dynamics? Because you only keep to very small groups, why are you speaking for all progressive groups if you haven't been around them and no one bothers checking it? That's my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:11 PM
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Well then, why do most vote liberal and you don't mind? Are you going to tell most women to vote Republican to mimic their beliefs now? Of are you still going through include them because they care about what you care about? Because that's the reality
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:09 PM
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So the majority of progressive spaces. Hence women help the red pill type even though it don't identify, you at least drive men like me out. That has happened and you keep denying. It
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:54 PM
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That's literally most modern progressives
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:52 PM
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Semi serious caus literally doing what they'd calm aan "mansplaining" so I called out the hypocrisy. I want her to tell me why she is speaking for me and my experiences, do you know my life better?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:48 PM
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You're saying the people I was hamred by were fake and denying it. Unless you acknowledge what I say about some left leaning spaces, you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:47 PM
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Hey, why didn't you respond to me saying you're femaplaining over my personal experiences? I told you I've been treated otherwise, all I got was downvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:32 PM
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and I'm telling you these were openly progressive groups and many people in the communities and they have not been called out, in years and years of me being active. Once again, are they sleeper agents? Your argument is "no true Scotsman" it's literally deflection to avoid admitting fault
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:19 PM
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So then why are you denying it happens to me and trying to pretend these people are different when you allow this? You're already doing the same thing, "that didn't happen, if it did then it wasn't that bad, if it was then you probably deservesd it" So when I tell you I have suffered these things and you tell me that it was wrong because you don't want to admit it, do you think it's better than women I go to comfort after being coerced and gropped and way "I'm disappointed in you?" Or the ones w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:16 PM
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So you then realize that those people still identity as progressive and no one adesses it and you pretend to doesn't happen because they vote in your interest and another wat you care about. Do you think I'm lying? Yes or no? Just answer that because you've found every reason to move goal post and literally have been trying to gas light me which is the mental abuse I'm used to in these spaces which includes victim blaming for SA, you're literally doing the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:07 PM
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And they literally identify as progressive and then against me. Again, why are you trying to gas light me? Since you know them so well, why don't you tell.me their names, sexualities and how long I've known each of the women I'm thinking of over decades? You're talking over me and basically saying I'm lying. Again, how would you like a man saying that to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:03 PM
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They're not, they are often queer themselves. But you're literally trying to gas light me about people I've known IRL, you realize that right? Why is it so hard to accept what I tell you I've been through? How would you respond to a man dismissing you and prejudice you've faced this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:59 PM
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Yeah and entirely progressive groups i go to because I'm multiel disinfranchised ones "other" me due to my gender. It happens
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:59 PM
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Q lot of them, are you saying they don't exist because you ignore them? Or is what I tell you not valid because I don't have a vagina?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:58 PM
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Staunch feminist* who you would call progressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:57 PM
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I have many "sumtucnh feminist" women do this. What about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:55 PM
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Yet I have never seen someone call them out on it and have been chased out of and victim blamed in these groups regularly. Once again, are my experiences false in your leftist spaces? You can't even admit that you don't hold biggots accountable
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:54 PM
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And I'm teligjnyou that's not reality and you're in a small minority, and you're literally dismissing me being isolated from "progressive" groups. Are you going to tell me what my experiences of mixed ethnicity with Hispanic are next? If the people in leftist communities are doing this, and not actually leftist then are they sleeper agents? Including the ones I went to roe v Wade protests with? Again, you are fefldtcing and red herring to play semantics. There is a lot of this in leftists spaces…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:50 PM
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And literally in leftists spaces and if I say I'm uncomfortable they turn on me because I'm male. So it they aren't, then y'all gave a lot of conservatives you hang with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:46 PM
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Ok, so are you going to kick women out of leftists spaces who talk like that? It's common and no one cares. Or are you going to tell me more things don't happen? Do you enjoy femaplaining over men talking about discrimination due to disabilities or sexuality? Cause that's what you're doing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:45 PM
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You literally said the women I said did something, "n Don't do that" yes you did
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:44 PM
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Yet here you are, defending it because you're invalidatign my personal experiences and telling me they didn't happen because you don't want to see the hypocrisy. I have experienced plenty of it IRL and not just by "dating someone or algorithms", once again, are you going to speak over me on my experiences? Some kind of "ally" if you gas light someone opening up about discrimination. Listen
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:37 PM
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No, you're literally lying and gas lighting. So many "feminist" that also dehumanize me. But please tell me more about my life experiences and people I'd known for years. Since you are omniscient Edit: wish it was just being bi, you ever see how people and women treated depressed men or ones that have difficulties a adapting due to autism? I can't fulfill the standard role they want and it doesn't turn out well. Are you going to tell me those were fake people?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:24 PM
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I told you them and you dismissed the them and said they were wrong. Yes you did
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:22 PM
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Literally what she told me in response because she "knows people" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:19 PM
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And I'm telling you you're wrong based on a person subjected to that. Again, why are you defining my life?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:18 PM
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As a bi man, it is and you're taking over me and my experiences. That's not very socially aware. Are you going to tell me how my mental disorders affect me next? How much of my life experiences are you going today decide for me? It's beyond arrogant because you. "Know someone" because I know women who haven't been hurt my sexism so am I right in saying it never happened to you? Use a bit of thought and empathy like you'd want off yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:17 PM
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Some, does that excuse them abusing and assaultign me? And am I right to resent women for hurting me?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:16 PM
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Which is what you're defending, literally and jayifing "othering" men and why I have been treated as such. Part of the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:14 PM
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I stated sexism against them and sexism against men is misandry by definition, there's not use playing semantics games. And because, you don't think a male has ever been targeted for resent towards males despite being innocent? I'll share, currently being diagnosed with PTSD because o learned to run and hide from female relatives and "that's how they are, he's a boy so he should be able to deal", and being the Audhd, mentally ill kid I made an easy target and scape goat that has continued into a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:43 PM
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Way to change the discussion and totally protray extreme examples instead of just bitter women projecting and not like men have ever had trauma wirh women right? Do I have the right to talk to you that way? You wouldn't like how demeaning it is
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:07 PM
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So you'd deny a fundamental reason they're abused, yeah you don't see them as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:55 PM
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Nice projection and twisting to other arguments, aren't you the one invalidatign other women's experiences of being targeted and assaulted? I'm the feminist here Edit: you're wrong and making shit up, it's jor "rare" like you claim
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:47 PM
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Nope, you denied other people reality and things that can happen. What would you do if someone was actual abusive to your son because of sexism? Deny it's a problem? Yeah, that's an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:47 PM
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Whatever you tell yourself to cover up your own prejudice and biggotry, hope you grow as a person
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:44 PM
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God I feel bad for them, women who don't see males as humans suck. Hope you have more empathy for them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:42 PM
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Cool.... So other men who meet that are telling you they've had issues with it, are you going to speak over them in their experiences? I have preloaded responses to homophobic remarks from women. Does dating one bi man and your preference invalidate my life experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:42 PM
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Personal experience, or do you know our lives better than we do and will tell us it doesn't happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:40 PM
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Right so deny one reason she was targeted and limit how much recognition it gets and the prejudice that cause harm. Very "feminist" of you. Reverse racism can happen, its just almost never violent. Does it happen? Yes. Just not as much as the reverse My god you're sheltered lol, have a good one because you are obviously not open to reality
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:37 PM
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There are more but you pretending your party doesn't do that is false and invalidates mens actually experiences, you're incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:36 PM
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What a privelaged little ignorant life you have, hope you don't have a son, he wouldn't be safe
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:34 PM
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You ever known a whit women that was targeted for violence and sexual violence for her race? I'm sure that doesn't matter according to your logic, so if a woman is white is she no longer a victim if the other person isn't? This is how dumb the argument is because you don't understand localized power
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:32 PM
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You think people can't have beliefs against their own? You never seen internalized mysogyny as well and women kicking each other down? That's what you're doing for race, yeah you're terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:29 AM
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Saying one race is inherently racist is racist. I shouldn't even need to explain this, is this real?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:17 AM
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I use it to describe the women who genuinely resent men and "other" us. Will you tell me my IRL experiences I've unfortunately had too many times are fake?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:15 AM
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Found the misandrist and racist bigot
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:12 AM
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I have a number of comorbidities including ADHD, OCD, gad and bipolar and have meds I take for them and avoid anything else other than weed now fortunately. Also, if you think and are curious about others they will be curious about you. Throughout our lovely chat (I mean that though it started badly) you were focused on you, and your experiences being central, instead of understanding that you and your experiences are simply unique.which is awesome. Well thank you and I appreciate you opening up…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:10 PM
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Haha thank you and good taste! I started with Metamorphosis and it was.... unfortunately relatable lol. And I mostly use audio ones due to split concentration but have always enjoyed lore and stuff and honestly love Kafka and you'd get this, I sacrificed a lot for my ex because she was the first person I, at least at first, didn't feel like Gregor Samsa around. Well if you're interested I write poetry and often put literature references and mythology ones in it if you'd ever like to see lol. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:44 PM
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Been in for years and trust me been to plenty of dungeon and stuff. Just being into the kink is one thing but the person being trustworthy and making me feel safe is another thing, just like I'm sure you wouldn't have an issue finding a man to rough you up in bed, but you might not trust him and feel safe. I've found that but it's usually not been long term so far due to a variety of rhings. But ultimately the same applies and I've had to learn the hard way through years of experience, I've been…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:27 PM
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I lifestyle with ADHD and so do plenty of people both it depends on how much someone needs and it can be unequal, my ex who was my sub and I was her medical care taker took advantage of it but most people aren't really ready for some of my levels and intensity or really bother helping me to trust them to feel comfortable. And like I said, I don't want to be totally shamed and emasculated and dehumanized for being sexually vulnerable with someone and that seems to be common if a guy bottoms so it…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:15 PM
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I'm a switch as well, you're actually in a good position as there are way more sub/ switch guys. However, finding a woman that still respects me after I've engaged in that role is another thing and why I don't do it often, they shame you for not being the masculine role even if they get off not infrequently whenever it's convenient
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:53 PM
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I date other women as well, not a closed triad and I lean to prefer fem so I'd be seeing other women regularly as well. That's usually the part women who think they're into it run into struggles with tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:33 PM
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I'm bisexual, kinky and polyamorous and have literally taken part of that and more. You're delfecting and stirring shit with the wrong person lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:07 PM
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Cool 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:27 PM
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Never saw those but please go and delfect more so you don't have to admit your homophobia sweety. I would have if I saw them, as a bisexual man whose tired of y'all
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:27 PM
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You're not even being serious, again have a nice day and keep teligjnyoruaelf that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:25 PM
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Youre literally doing it right now and being a hypocrite and shutting people down. I've seen it on reddit and IRL too, no he's right and you're already being dismissive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:50 PM
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No, whataboutism is delfection and you're using straw men. Just stop, I'm not interested in dishonest arguments to save face
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:44 PM
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Literally whataboutism to deflect from the initial stamment. Justify delfecting all you want
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:41 PM
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Cool, I'm fairly bi too and also share my experiences that are different, not that queer men are like straight or queer women. No one claimed onto women did it, literally not in the comment. Stop the straw men. No, you only deflect away from critism towards women and are very critical towards men. I'm not playing make believe, that's literally just what I've seen and you're doing it in these comments lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:40 PM
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You literally dismissed it and used whataboutism. I'm sure when women complain aborh experience with men you also "but women too!" Them. You're not being honest here, you're deflecting out of bad faith and that's just what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:35 PM
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"women have in group bias" You: "but red pill guys!", literally deflection and whataboutism to avoid criticism. Have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:25 PM
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Oh yeah, I remember you, you're the gay guy who preeches about dating women, that's why I remember. I've found a number of times you delfect from women being criticized by blame shifting to men and redefine the argument but I'll stop snooping and linking since I guess I remember now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:22 PM
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if you want an example of delfection with whataboutism
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:18 PM
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I looked at your comments and recent aren't bad but you're unnecessarily hostile and dismissive of men, so I'm not going to get it to the "prove" so you can make excuses game people play on here. Where did I talk about a demographic? You're already straw manning. I said I recognize YOU in particular but don't save every comment of someone being obnoxious on reddit like you expect. You can dismiss if you want but it's not related to your argument but is to mine about constant deflection and someh…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:16 PM
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No, I've seen your username take that side but don't remember if you were the one arguing with me. It's not at all related to "all women" and you're already manipulating the conversation to make it about them and dismiss anything, thats my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:09 PM
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Generally any fem queer identitying as an umbrella category but the specific sub category that makes cis men that aren't straight uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:48 PM
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Oh cool, another "queer woman" using homophobia to dunk on and shame men out of pettiness. Water is wet
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:41 PM
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I could possibly confuse you with another person but I never claimed you said that, I meant that you seem to be one of the people that carry the bias where you're more likely to dismiss things other men say for a more favorable view of women. Sometimes it's true, sometimes it's gymnastics to minimize things others bring up they don't like. Might not be you but there are multiple times someone with your tag or "blue cause red don't get laid" or something like that have made crazy fits about me ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:32 PM
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Funny because I've seen you constantly arguing against that any time someone brings up and instance of it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:18 PM
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Finally someone with comprehension
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:17 PM
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You keep using the same delfection, learn how to "debate" you literally just changed the argument. Again, there's no point because you're delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:31 PM
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You're not debating, you're using fallacies to twist the argument because you can't admit.uoure wrong, classic manipulation. So again, do better
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:19 PM
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So complete moving the goals posts and changing the argument, I'm the only one here that's in reality and also not a prejudice person sweety. I'm tired of your deflection, I'm done. Being a father isn't the reason this person attempted to kill me/himself. He happened to be a father who did a bad thing. He was a mechanic, I wouldn't argue it was a reason he did what he did either Literally told you about my abusive family you ignored. Just stop, go try to manipulate someone else into accepting ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:16 PM
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You're already playing it and using it to blame shift, you're just as bad as the "what were you wearing guys". Go away and grow up, I'm over this and you are already trying to manipulate conversation. Also, any time a man has threatened you those are "mean words" but that doesn't count right? Seriously, learn some empathy and grow up. You literally "other" me like them. Also, girl, they act LIKE YOU where they created every excuse to victim blame AND ID KNOWN SOME FO THEM DOR YEARS, YES RHEY CLA…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:36 PM
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Also physical sexual assault and not understanding ability to consent. Also, they're all staunch "feminist" types of known but again, I'll tell my psychiatrist to hold on the CPTSD diagnosis since that form of abuse do snr count to you. Disgusting, already knew I'd see this deflection. I'm not interested in you minimizing others in order to protect your ego, learn some empathy and to be a decent person
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:26 PM
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Threatening and victim blaming for being sexually assaulted of having it done and not respecting any form.of.my consent, constant manipulation or abused or having my substance abuse problems taken advantage of along with my disorders? Regardless "words" include me learning to hide in closets growing up afraid of being screamed at because people think like you. Most incels only use words you say they're violent but that's a small minority. According to you, verbal and emotional absue doesn't coun…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:11 PM
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No, I'm using them right. You're just dishonest, again, not interested in debating with phallacies and justifying hate and bigotry. Good luck! Edit: girl "mean words" again you condescending kid lol, I'm happy if they treat me like a person, a human being and not a target for abuse. But keep telling yourself you've never harmed anyone 🥀
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:56 PM
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So total delfection of violaent and harmful people and also invalidating others, lovely. Valorie was a very troubled women who shot Andy over theft, not on the grounds of feminist rehtroic. Idk I don't know her, I know how I've been treated in those communities though You can dismiss valid critique as deflection, but I directly addressed your point, there is no to date actionable harm in not chasing out the voices of people who are saying vile/stupid shit, and feminism does as much as any other …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:46 PM
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I also posted MRA/ MOGTOW and they don't have a governing body so your deflection is inaccurate, I can talk about BLM too or even Palestine protestors who allow antisemitism. I'm not engaging in good faith with deflection, those are all the same, if you have critism towards any "manosphere" stuff the same apples, I'm not interested in a discussion of deflection. And OP listed plenty you're ignoring, this is not good faith, I won't waste my time. It's just super hypocritical
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:37 PM
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If you want to play semantics then you used it "prescriptively" just the same but you can pretend otherwise if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:46 PM
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It literally is, you just worded it differently
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:34 PM
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Yeah but this isn't "red pill" you guys call anything that's remotely critical and literal equality between genders that lol. No, this is accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:32 PM
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They're not gonna like this one but you're right in general with any movement of "no true scottsman". Maybe they'd understand if you pointed out people hate MAGA because even if some are not Nazis, they let Nazis into their space and tolerated intolerance and are thus associated with the ideology. And they do influence each other and do shit test date keeping. It's legitimately why I see people on reddit now identifying as "eagaltarian" for equality because I've not run into any self defined com…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:31 PM
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So does "desirable" to you mean popular or something? And also that's a weird list of worries like you mostly read bad things online and have never actually interacted with a man and take a weird paranoid approach. If I thought like that, I probably wouldn't date at all? Like why would you bother if you think it's such a bad thing and some sort of sacrifice on your end? As a man I'd hate to have a partner who felt that way and would be turned off. Even now I'm not going to go after a woman that'…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:15 AM
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We provided if you look it up and also I remember you and you find ways to delfect from linked statics, you're literally just a femcel troll. Go away, I don't want you near me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:57 PM
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You literally proved OP right this entire time, you're weird. I don't want your attention, go away. You don't need my validation, you're a weirdo and I hope you never have a son
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:48 PM
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Just another mentally abusive female preaching she's the eternal victim. Go away, you're weird and I don't want you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:41 PM
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Personal experience? No, that’s far to personally bias. And again, statistics still don’t explain how men ended up in that situation in the first place. Completely changing what you're asking, you're deflecting. know 2 guys that committed suicide, one raped 2 kids. Another was being charged with having CP on his computer, but again I know that’s just my personal bias. Cool, I know women that recent men and abuse their sons and male child relatives because they think similar. Way to deflect again…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:26 PM
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Ok so you took a generic question and made it all about you. (Funny how that always happens with guys here, such main character syndrome) So neither statistics nor personal experience about how men are seen differently matter to you? And you of course delfect and insult, you're insufferable. I’m going to ask you one last time for an actual fact that affects men, purely in the basis of because they are male, and nothing to do with their life choices Mentioned a lot of stuff about bias, also menti…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:15 PM
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I shouldn't need to "prove" my experiences becttheyre older but it's been in my comments. And I said "DARVO" and other things about manipulation, you willfully g ignored it and chose the most benign. You're already doing it, "that didn't happen" you can listen to men like you want them to listen to you or you can prove OPs point. I feel like even linking the examples doesn't help because you'll find a way to deflect. This is annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:53 PM
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How is it "racially charged" to compare social/ political movements? Nothing "charged" about them, just philosophy of movements about powers structures
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:37 PM
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They are and why people are complaining about you lacking awareness. If you want more, I d also like for women to learn "consent" and it being more than physical, I'd like for them to not "other" me as an autistic person who deals with mental things, or that using men as emotional punching bags as an outlet for your resent towards males is not ok, and a lot of shit. But you're so dismissive and deflecting from there being gender bias, yeah you're the kind of person who makes men not take women s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:13 PM
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Well sure if you just willfully misinterpret everything I said and entire echo chambers berating and trying to gas light me with "that didn't happen, if it did then it wasn't that bad, and if it was then you probably deserved it" and such and even stalking my profile and harassing me over things or making ableist insults. That's like me saying "a few men made negative comments" when you spoke up on a manosphere forum If you're going to willfully misinterpret what I say, then I'm done taking beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:11 PM
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Its not, it's what would be equal based on the legal rights of obligation to parenthood. You can deny that if you want, you're just against equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 03:29 PM
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That's legal equality, you're deflecting to biological things and if you want to go that route, you don't like the arguments. That's social and legal equality, accept it or be a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 03:14 PM
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Not one of his sources are against men, they are personal bias, this isn’t bad faith, this is fact, AND this is why people struggle to take mens problems seriously. Statistics of social issues affecting men in particular aren't valid? Yeah, you're in bad faith and trying to deflect and go "no you" it's literally what proves his point Each “issue” is an individual problem, more men commit suicide, well we have help centres to help them (guess who the majority of volunteers are) but you can’t forc…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:56 PM
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She can abort and choose, also that leads to adoption and then it's still.power.over her, he should be able to opt out while she's pregnant if she wants to do it and he doesn't. Again, that's equality, it's hypocritical otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:41 PM
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Pretty much any sub that caters to women lol. I avoid that twox one but literally any "feminist", "nothowgirlswork" oh it's all over in any of those judgement subs and highly biased like "AITAH" where they convinced me I deserved to be abused by a woman 17 years older with NPD. Any dating, literally any time I'm on reddit and mention something unless it's in a space that is more moderated to support men, there's usually a crazy lady that jumps in with straight up DARVO gas lighting. It's rather …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:40 PM
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Literally check OPs post and comments and he has sources, you're not debating in good faith. Also, there's greater stigma about mental disorders and also less social programs in general and more "make it or break it" still applied, this is like red pill guys asking you what you need "equality" for because you have the right to vote. It's reductive, if you actually listen to men as people you'd eventually learn some of these things
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:35 PM
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Tbh this is the problem, this is like linking the civil rights movement of MLK to the black Panthers in which one wanted the invovlement of all and those in power, white people, while the other excluded and we know which works, why would any movement today willingly exclude a large influential group? If the progressive group allowed antiwhite sentiment to run through and exclude them, then the entire movement would be associated with that and wouldn't have been as successful. But that requires y…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:28 PM
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Her body, her choice, not his. He should be able to legally separate if she goes through with it without his willingness. Otherwise it's hypocritical
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:14 PM
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Can you say specifically what you think women should be doing? Not gas light men into thinking all of their problems are their own fault and they can never struggle because you "other" them. I don't bother talking about legitimate trauma and struggles I've had with women, like mental illnesses in the family causing abusive behavior, because it's usually dismissed. Half the time I mention something it's a reworded version of "well what were you wearing?'
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:12 PM
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Not if it's against the willfully ignorant arguing in bad faith 💔
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:11 PM
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I shouldn't need to lol. Social media, thrif party spaces, political and social tensions. I don't need to say more, you can deflect but it sounds like you're butt hurt because OP called you out accurately
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:51 PM
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Yeah, so sounds like you actually haven't ssiciallized and compared even pre 2020 to now. It's very different, you're being weirdly disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:47 PM
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By saying that socialisation has changed in the past years? Yeah, that's obvious. And ok? You're the one complaining imo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:39 PM
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Who said that? It's usually your type with the victim complex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:33 PM
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Finally someone says it and yeah, it's so hostile I don't know how a lot of the people here even have any connections with another person
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:32 PM
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Because to me what you are saying sounds like you understand that most of what you are dealing with is biphobia, homophobia, fetishization and other types of bigotry. But that's not what OP is saying, OP is pushing the line that it's about sexual attraction. You misread, "feminine energy" too so no I disagree and agree with OP, please domt speak for me, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 11:27 PM
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Before I transitioned I was a masc presenting bi man with a wider frame and a more masc build. Things have actually been pretty good with me So you're far removed and also didn't even identify the same so it's a bit annoyed to say it's the same as well. And cool, I know trans people who haven't had many struggles, does that speak for you? like sorry some women were homophobic to you, honestly - and I want to try to not come off as dismissive here but i really can’t say much of anything without a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 10:30 PM
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And I mean…. If you’re a ‘less masculine’ man, odds are your average woman isn’t into that and you might be a better fit for a woman who’s ’more masculine’ - like idk what kind of woman you go for, but I do see a pattern of less masc leaning men complaining that women aren’t into them we see them often go for femme women Literally gas lighting like you think that's easy you literally admit most women don't like it right? Also, I look masculine, I'm "inward feminine energy" but have to fulfill th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 10:14 PM
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Youre argument is boiling everything down to pegging to deflect and ignoring the other "less masculine" things, both of which as a man who meets those in some ways, have experienced so you're essentially talking about my experiences for me to others. It's annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 10:07 PM
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You're missing also bisexual or more feminine aspects, I can tell you both do a have an affect and you're speaking for others lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 10:04 PM
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"in my country" you're woman planning and raging. All over these comments and harasif OP with straw men, man this is sad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:49 AM
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Ooh victim Olympics, nice. You seem pleasant lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:47 AM
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Ironic, same to you kiddo, clearly never been accountable for shit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:55 PM
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Whatever you say, hope you're not around young or nuerdivergant boys unattended 💔
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:14 PM
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You have. Kre power than a disabled man, he's subject to oppression by you easily. Hope that helps sweety, get over yourself Edit: or over male children. It's not strange for bitter women to make them a target btw so that's why you're kinda red flags, idk
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:39 AM
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You don't think anyone that isn't part of that "class" is also less privelaged than you by identity or abiliy and still don't like their gender insulted? Yet you "other" them all the same. You're just prejudice, it's gross grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:55 PM
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I don't know what your point is. You're saying you don't need anything from men and how little value they bring but then you get told to just not date or date someone else, because believe it or not men aren't a monolith, then that's a problem too? And it all comes down to this terminally online "orgasm gap" talk like y'all have never known a woman that sometimes just wants to fuck like anyone else. This is the opposite side of the conservative guy with little experience it seems because like. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:16 PM
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"I can be a bigot because I'm the perpetual victim even though I'm also punching down!"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 10:15 PM
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Exactly this, would love to hear the answer because I have plenty to fire back with and her take on these spaces is wrong to begin with, they're just as hostile as manosphere groups when you don't agree with them and will attack and harass you like crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 05:53 PM
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How often have to wanted men to stand up for women to other men when they are being hateful and prejudice? Or maybe calling out your racist family. But you can tell yourself common principles and decency are that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 05:44 PM
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I'm used to women screaming at me and using me as an emotional target, should I be cautious and think most women will do that if given the chance? I sometimes dissociate so it's not fun. Nah, you're using statics to "other" people, that's not cautious, that's prejudice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:24 PM
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No you don't, your comments "othering" us proves that. I used to be friends with women like you but they usually victim blamed me any chance they got if a woman took advantage of me, I'm autistic, and this includes SA and pretty much deny it so I've learned to avoid people like you tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:23 PM
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Lmao literally already "othering" your imaginary son, yeah youre literally the type to prove the statics I mentioned right. The bigotry is astounding, I'd absolutely hate to have anything to do with you because you wouldn't see me as a person and I've started to ask that from people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:51 PM
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Why? Because if see them as a person and not an emotional punching bag? I grew up that way, so I know better 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:41 PM
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Dispute the statics, they're there and haven't been disproven. Those are just the easily accessable ones but I'm at work, again you're willfully ignoring statistics lol Good luck with the prejudice, hope you don't have any male children
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:39 PM
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I replied to your other comment with an example of the "13%" commonly used in those arguments and it's interesting how you act like you didn't see it. Again, you're just deflecting so hard
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:29 PM
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You just keep deflecting, lmao it's kinda funny
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:27 PM
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Still didn’t explain how in “misusing” statistics. Yawn. You literally lied about DV. It's a well known static that even has other articles as well Not sure what infanticide or child abuse has to do with this but I also assure you men lead the statistics as well. Ask anybody - would they trust a 40 year old male teacher with 10 years of teaching experience completely competent in first aid or a teenage girl with no experience to babysit their child? The answer will always be women, because the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:26 PM
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Literally what you're doing and he called you out and you're already deflecting lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:20 PM
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As in, a very large issue (any form of assault and domestic violence)? Domestic violence is actually more even split when you account for all methods of abuse, yes you're misusing statistics. Explain how I’m missing the statistics? If there’s another demographic with such prevalent statistics, do feel free to show me and maybe my views will sway. But there’s not. There’s definitely no statistics that say “women melt down at anyone that shines poorly on them”, lol. Infanticide and child abuse, ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:20 PM
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You're using chosen specifics to justify viewing another group in a light that takes away individuality. You wouldn't be happy if any other demographic was mention like that even if there are statistics and women melt down at any one that shines poorly on them. You're also misusing the statistics, that's a way people justify prejudice. That's just what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:16 PM
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Yes, justify prejudice like that always goes well. I'd leg it away from you if I knew you tbh because being "othered" is pretty fucked regardless of what demographic it's aimed at
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:49 PM
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Sounds about right for someone who can't be accountable for their own words lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:40 PM
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Your initial comment was literally the "goomba fallacy" talking about "manosphere" when the OP didn't mentions it but actually told you something that women also tell men but it is nuanced so I reddit can't comprehend it Are you mature enough to have that discussion? Edit spelling
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:39 PM
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No pointing out you're doing the same thing you're claiming men do in your comment, you're manipulating information and the argument. You didn't even read my comment right 🤦
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:33 PM
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It's no less unpleasant when you're on the receiving end. I wish all "feminists" were as you described and actually cared about equality but as a man, I've had too many instances of opening up to so called "feminist" women or even friend groups about being abused or SA'd by a woman and you get the same, "well what did you do to deserve it? I'm disappointed you didn't resiste enough, etc" They don't police the community and have people just as nasty as they "manosphere" and wish they'd hold them …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:32 PM
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And women attempt a lot because you need male validation 💔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:22 PM
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Lmao women do the exact same thing and it's not exclusive to manosphere and you're literally denying, then rearranging the victim and oppressor in your comment, you have to be kidding 😭😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 10:06 PM
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This has been a more recent development over the past couple years and mainly wtih zoomers and drops off actually closer to 30 so it seems the opposite, same as incels, where they don't have many experiences with the opposite gender but just blame them for being angry. If anyone denies this, I would ask them to think about how interactions were in even 2018 vs today, the hostility and identity politics have overtaken people. Tbh it's online brainrot
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 12:05 AM
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Wya to state man and be pretentious from the start lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 07:47 PM
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Way to refrain the question, but in terms of what you mean by people harassing you over reddit, plenty. Would wanna hear about the woman that waiting for an opportunity to feel justified in being verbally abusive too? Or what? Just stop while you're ahead lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 08:19 PM
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The fact you say that like it's one sided and only men are the perpetrators is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 08:12 PM
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It's definitely becomes a more effective practice when you learn the social cues
/r/seduction02/05/26 07:12 PM
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They're dumb for taking actual advice and not someone deflecting from the subject just to protect their opinions?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:24 PM
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I don't pick sides but have been "bullied" by more blue people here then others, they get very hostile with personal attacks if I don't agree with them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:38 PM
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Yeah this happens but when I'm actually trying to be supportive of those issues genuinely, happens without trying
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:56 PM
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sees poster and skims the unhinged ramble
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 11:53 AM
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I legit cancelled a date this weekend because the hostile tone she took out of nowhere actually scared me, I'm used to the women in my family being verbally/ mentally abusive. I tried to explain I was feeling uncomfortable and "othered" and that's usually what happens before I'm used as an emotional punching bag for the resent they hold towards other people, since I guess the autistic guys are easy targets? I legitimately just want to be treated like a person, aside from a lot of other things. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 05:23 PM
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It's because other men are competition and women are what they're competing for
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 11:53 AM
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I'm not invovled in any of this, but this weekend I literally canceled a date because a woman was so hostile for no reason and I was legitimately confused why it scared the fuck out of me because i am at this point used to being the "resent and trauma punching bag" and especially by women who are bitter against men. It's literally been a thing in my family since childhood and then continually repeated in adulthood when I genuinely just wanted connection and to be accepted... Nah, the groups you …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 01:51 AM
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Well for one, they've always been around. But it's gotten worse, user base is less women and a sizeable portion are bots and such so not "only" but it's a more standard experience than yours letting on. And even the "normal" women will sometimes demand you venmo them for lunch or something lol. Try making a profile as a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:32 PM
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There's a good chunk that will add you in social media or even within a day of talking ask you to send them good for a cashapp lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:12 PM
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So you obviously don't seem to know what you're talking about. Sometimes they're literally prostitutes too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:00 PM
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You don't need to be close to that popular, you can also just have a fwb of something idk. But having a "relationship" just for access to sex is tiring because I can't imagine faking the emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:43 AM
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Yeah that's something I had to learn a lot about. I even wrote a poem before about "seeking your other half, not wholeness" but I also have a very unique situation myself because I can make a connection with someone I've known for a week and feel more "understood" than I have from my family or others who have known me for years. But I have learned to take that with grace and also really learned the hard way what actual understanding and company is. Because like you say, I can feel lonely in a ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:56 PM
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Not really? There's a lot invovled in an actual relationship. Casual is a lot simpler
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:49 PM
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I'll be honest, wish I was referred to as just "dick" years ago because it would have saved a lot of confusion about intimacy and what it means and intentions lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:33 PM
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Not necessarily, it can be a niche store like a figure shop for all we know, there's one that does almost Warhammer alone around me. But even then, what exactly are you looking for and what is commonly available vs in demand of even that very small interest group? I don't get into these too much but I like this analogy because you can play a lot of games with "well this kind of business, of these sales!" To pretty much match every question because there's really no single answer, but I feel like…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 10:22 PM
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Jesus no you're not arguing in good faith because you're just deflecting, maybe listen to people and their existences if you want them to listen to yours. I'm done because these excuses and deflections are ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 10:59 AM
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I've been in kink and non monogamous since I was legal; I can agree that we are rare specimens, yes, but that's not stopping me from finding my fellow freaks. Yet if a cis man shares his experiences you dismiss it, yeah sure. Your first part of the reply literally contradicts all of your other comments and making excuses for cis women. You are not being consistent and are changing your stance to continually defend one group. Why bother responding if you won't even listen to someone's experience …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 12:54 AM
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Again, you're having to reassure your partners because a lot of straight women themselves are still working from the assumption that they need to make their partner orgasm. You have to continue being honest about what your limits are in bed and what you genuinely enjoy so you can continue finding people who are turned on by what you have to offer. Why do you say this like men aren't under constant pressure to perform and feel lesser if they don't achieve something? Some guys don't care or if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 10:36 PM
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Well did you see the first half where I specifically mention my mixed ethnicity and queer sexuality and now that seems to afford more acceptance and support than other things? Also, lower income people have some scholarship opportunities but not a lot elsewhere, they are very over focused on race and they make that and gender stuff seem like the only two things that matter. And possibly but even then, unless it's into law for jobs to give more sick days and other stuff, still gonna be fucked and…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 07:53 PM
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Well that's what we're talking about, someone being "bad$ is someone that's not an eager participant and kinda just uses you and your efforts so id criticize both of them too but the comment I replied to seems to have a problem with that. Is it a problem or is it not? Also, idk I can only speak for myself but I have a negative orgasm gap and nerve damage and am also used to being the one doing all the work and usually the biggest road block is physical exhaustion depending on duration and intens…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 07:43 PM
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So, not addressing the point and deleting, got it. But also I assume you're talking about sex specifically? Like you mean maybe things like grabbing the dick too hard or scraping with a blow job, total lack of interest in attempting to make you cum if it doesn't happen by coincidence? Being selfish and transactional? Using a guy for a quick fuck out of validation or whatever because they're just a dick to you? Dubious consent like engaging when they know you're far too intoxicated? How deep do y…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 07:36 PM
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Yes, and I'm sure you'd criticize a man like that even more harshly, this is obvious based on what I say.and the comment I reply to. I don't even know why you responded with that tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 07:28 PM
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You were saying that women who are called bad are mostly passive and I changed the roles to a man doing that to ask if you'd still say it's just passive or "bad" or whatever? How would you react to a man being that way in sex? That's what a lot of guys are complaining about
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 07:21 PM
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So if a guy just got hard and stuck his dick in you and barely moved you wouldn't consider that "bad"? And then expected you to do everything then complain if he didn't cum?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 07:15 PM
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Bro literally just a goomba fallacy,nowhere did this guy say that? This is why we can't have nice things here
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 07:13 PM
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autism, ADHD or bipolar disorders I have all of these and more and I'll be honest, DEI doesn't do shit for me most times and I hide it until I get the job then confide in HR so they won't fire me if I have issues. Tbh, me being half Hispanic does more, a Hispanic last name on my resume is more important to "inclusion" here than the developmental disorders that are far more fundamentally intertwined in my functionality but you can't put that on a poster to make it look good and inclusive. Same wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 07:07 PM
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Girl stop, I'm an engineer and been at conferences where the specifically say they wanted women or black men etc, you're delusional and biased
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 05:45 PM
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Never even stop to think maybe they're throwing pissy fits about him not vacuuming every day when he thinks once a week is good and works much longer hours. If we're going to project stuff that wasn't said and all
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 12:24 PM
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It's funny you say those concerns like none of it happens to autistic men, I attract users and abusers like crazy and generally it's less to lots of self work because no one gives a fuck if you're a man who doesn't understand social things and gets taken advantage of lol. Like, your main complaint is a big one autistic men have too, why did you not share the higher statistics of us facing abuse and assault as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 04:46 PM
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Yeah that but also don't limit it to something just simple. What if there's a show you wanted to go to and it's not too expensive? Nice to have company. Or company for a night out at the arcade bar or going thrifting together, etc. Coffee, ice cream and whatever is good and I think along these lines where you shouldn't need to impress them by spending money but I also treat it like an adventure where I get to know someone new while doing something interesting at times too. But yeah I rarely spen…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:40 PM
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He didn't say anything like that but nice reach at whataboutism to dismiss the argument
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 05:57 PM
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I started dating at 23 and was with women my own age at first but then dated a cougar nonmonogamously and had a preference for older women 30-40+ since then and often did see them. I of course had personally issues and attracted others like that but felt I connected more due to trauma brain things that kind of bad a slight disconnect between my peers and I. It's also based on preference and chemistry but I most definitely wouldn't make these generalizations
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 02:25 AM
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That's what I do and also respond to, my biggest thing is "feeling wanted". And actually, the biggest compliment I currently give a woman is that I was interested in her but I then evolved to really wanting her, but I'm also someone who is big on personal chemistry and only say that if I feel we click. And likewise, I'm fucking 30 years old, if I have to guess if you like me or other stuff then I'm not going to waste my time. I can play Elden Ring and smoke a blunt at home if I wanna play games …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 04:25 PM
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You too boo
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 01:17 PM
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You're being dishonest by also acting like one is better than the other and they're don't influence each other, you're just as bad. Next!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:00 PM
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In the same way, if you complain about women not dating you, and blame them, (especially if you do things other incels are known to do like call women foids or roasties), you will be called incel by people who call people like that incel. That's usually what people call an incel, I dont have a problem to that. You changed the definition to "socially awkward" and what does that have to do with your above comment and the hate? That's what I have a problem with, reddit is very tiring with semantics…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:32 PM
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Ok, so are you comfortable calling someone a fag as an insult and you don't think that's incorrect at all? Because if you're ok with that then carry on because I suppose you're consistent I guess lol. I'm also bisexual btw and since I mentioned autistic the usual insult is actually "retard" so personally, I would prefer you use that. You do you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:08 PM
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Hold on I'm just seeing this, did you basically just describe "incel" as more or less being a neurodivergant dude? People keep changing the definition to conveniently match their argument, but I will point out this purports harmful, ableist views and would ask you to be more considerate in your choice of diction.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:59 PM
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Why are you using such a selective interpretation of "feminism" and projecting your issues? In actual feminism, the domestic labor is also split and everything is balanced but you're only bringing up the cases in which men aren't holding up their end, are you ok with men bringing up the "feminists" who just straight up hate men that women always "no true Scottsman" about? By this I mean that there are a ton of "feminist" areas that seem to excuse attitudes towards men especially that are commonl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:55 PM
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How comfortable are you with admitting that mens consent seems to be an arbitrary concept to many women based on my experience? You wouldn't get defensive? Even if I just shared the experiences, in group bias will often lead women to condemn me for the same thing they excuse me over women for just like vise versa with men and if I start to tell you just the extent of abusive behavior I've witnessed coming from a group of your shared identity, most people get defensive and do the "not all men" bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 05:53 PM
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I can start to tell you about the shit I've experienced with women and I'd be interested in seeing how long you could keep that attitude lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 12:07 PM
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Ad hominem and straw man, you're not making actual arguments but gas lighting. Why are you even bothering other than to be snarky?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:41 PM
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Bro I'm in the spectrum and some of these guys are, but way more are just awkward assholes, trust me lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:40 PM
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And you start with " men don't take accountability" or whatever when the original was just indifference, we know you're a hypocrite and only think this way when women are the victim so this conversation is pointless. It's nuanced and applies the same for men and women but gender war brain rot won't let many admit it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:31 PM
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The guys complaining about "empathy" here do it daily, and not once has it had to do with death in the family. It's always whining about not getting matches on dating apps, nobody wants to go out with him, or if women go out with him they don't immediately sleep with him. Well I guess but imo when I ask for it I ask for common decency and to be treated like a person and not "othered" which people seem to do a lot and even that bar seems high.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 03:37 PM
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and one that's better handled by a therapist or grief counselor anyway, not by strangers on the internet. You do know group therapy exists? Showing off how little you know tbh. And yeah this sub, but your attitude was to it I general and ignorant. In short, it's narcissistic behavior. Ok, so basically your argument is a straw man of what you've seen guys complain about on here and dismiss all other implications that are normal and nuanced. Good to know. That's the case for the whiney attention s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 03:29 PM
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You should go to one of the difficult life support group and say this, sure it'll be popular and comes from a place of knowledge. Would love to hear that with people talking about losing a spouse or child, recovering from addiction, learning to cope with being assaulted and abused for years, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 03:10 PM
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I'm generally on your side of beliefs but can you stop calling that "rape"! Because it is only by a very loose definition and I know like do it already, but it just comes off as dramatic and hyperbolic here. It's a pretty complex discussion, if someone lied about their job to sleep with you that's weird to call it "rape" because they still consent to the person unless you think they consent to someone job title alone. It's a problem when you don't share health things or other sexually impactful …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 03:05 PM
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You're the only one coming off insecure immediately attacking and going as hominem because you disagree and can't handle a different view lol. Man this place is comedy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 03:00 PM
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You could actually look at their sources that are legitimate and you'd understand you're making an ass of tourslef and don't know how references work and are just play aesthetic games. Not a refutation but a red herring, good try
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:33 AM
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God the condescending gas lighting, I feel bad for you man trying so hard to deflect not even an honest discussion because "well others do it more" like what argument is that? So bad things don't matter if a different group does it more? This is such delusionally biased thinking that it turns people away from you. Aside from the snarky ad hominem to start because you don't actually have a point or any facts so you need to attack the person. Jesus this place sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:11 PM
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Oh yes I agree, they aren't held to the same standards as work and are excused more. I'll be honest, I don't even bother trying to share my experiences and on reddit and especially places like this anymore because there's always going to be some random banshee or weird dude following her going, "that didn't happen, and if it did then it wasn't that bad, and if it was then you probably deserved it" and pseudo therapy language that's just used to blame shift and manipulate the conversation the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:44 PM
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Bruh nothing "set me off" other than you bullshitijng, stop the gas lighting and move along and again, that is not even the only thing that factors into the definition if you read the source. I'm not going to explain the context of the comment chain because your being obtuse with your bias. As I told you, do better and move along. I'm done
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:36 PM
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I wouldn't say more but one thing to take into account is defining "abuse" as well. I was raised by people who strictly defined it as beating someone vulnerable and pretty much nothing else, learning that mental and verbal/ emotional abusive is valid and what it is and how it can also mess you up over this past year has really..... Kinda changed my perspective. This is also the thing though, it's about "power" and men are typically ones to value their physical strength and exert it, thus physica…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:08 PM
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There is no separate definition of sexual assault for men and women. “Made to penetrate” is not applicable in regards to SA. You mean legally defining that women can't rape and thus likely less likely to be thought of for SA doesn't matter? Wow, again. This is pointless.ten years old article about the ongoing paramter updates btw You said, it doesn’t matter, women will just say it doesn’t happen as often compared to it happening to women”. I said , that’s factually correct. And it set you off. D…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 06:56 PM
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You think that there a less than large gap in the likelihood of being falsely accused ve being sexually assaulted? 81% of women will experience SA, 43% of men. 1 in 2 women will experience sexual violence in their lifetime. You think false SA stats are that high? Do YOU have any sources? Never said "false stats" but again, if you actually were honest about the statistics and studies you'd also know that many will disqualify it from women doing the same thing based on legal definition and studies…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 06:43 PM
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"waayyyy less likely" less likely to w degree but likely not what you're saying, you don't have any sources and if you have looked into things you'd realize the gap isn't that extreme. Aside, the person said "yes we get dismissed" and you said "well yeah you should be" more or less to again, deflect. If you can't be honest in this though about your own bias and projection then I'm not interested in continuing a pointless exchange lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 06:27 PM
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Right so deflection and accusations again, good to know you immediately resort to that. Also, if you have that attitude I will share my unpopular "inside throughts" I avoid here that you probably have no idea how little women respect not just the physical, but all other forms of consent with men and violate it. Again, deflection and stuff, do better you're part of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 06:08 PM
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Probably understand it better than you, thats why youre feeling uncomfortable with this conversation. You've been using loaded language and questions from the start with ad hominem by bastardizing terms, I'm not uncomfortable, you're just a doofus and not worth taking seriously. You can't revel in power and ignore that a power dynamic demands someone be on the losing end and subjugated by someone else. Which is an essentially negative aspect of human nature. Again, really weird views and like, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 04:18 PM
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Again, you don't seem to even understand "sexual trauma" so this isn't going to be a productive conversation because you're set in whatever online angry chud view idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 03:55 PM
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My dog was being an asshole and hiding under the deck this morning when I tried to get her back inside so I could go to work
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 03:41 PM
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Do you purposely misinterpret what people say? We're not talking about being rude or something, just arbitrary ideas of "how you should act" and how you can be called an "asshole" for shallow reasons and you're proving that point. You can be nice and genuine and also someone that I'm sure you would call an "asshole" or some of the weirdos here will accuse of being "red pill" just because he treats women like people and knows they could be good or could be shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 03:22 PM
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Well, you don't seem to understand consent and what "violence" really is and how you can be rough but it usually comes from them feeling safe first. I'm also a switch and like it towards myself, and someone's gonna shame either way and it's none of your business lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:56 PM
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And the stance y'all are taking is that it basically just doesn't matter by comparison, it's shitty victim Olympics. Do better
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:04 PM
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Fantasies about being victimized aren't the same thing as fantasies about victimizing others. Very hypocritical double standard, I say this as a seasoned sadomasochist switch. Also, you seem to have the weird internet anti porn view. There has been a lot of issues with the industry but for actual reputable creators and businesses now, that's not at all how it works. Have you ever known anyone that does porn? It's not all trafficked minors hooked on drugs like you see in the movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 10:12 PM
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Lmfao I like you and that attitude and it's refreshing here. I'm the guy you wouldn't think but have gotten into that stuff from lifestyle so those who are actually interested seem to like me. But it helps that I also approach as a normal guy trying to be friendly and joke around and have learned to better tell when to and not to push sexual things
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 10:01 PM
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I'm one of those guys where I don't really care for it with strangers but my an "affectionate sadomasochist" and the more I adore someone the more wild I get and actually have to put limits on women that want the same shit without being as involved with me. Just a random hookup though? We can talk about stuff but it's not the same for me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:03 PM
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Oh definitely and I've made mistakes giving to the wrong person. But also I'd love people in this sub to keep this post in mind because I actually love doing all of that when I can and someone appreciates it, but an expectation is a turn off. So that's why I'll take my first dates to coffee or thrifting or something low key before deciding if it's someone I feel the passion of investing in. I love giving the "princess treatment" stuff but here's the kicker, you have to earn it and it's not given…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 11:52 AM
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No, that's my other playlist with the village people and Chappelle Roan
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 06:02 PM
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<image> Part of my recently playlist on repeat, one at a time ladies, I know emotional availability like this is rare /s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 05:59 PM
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Arbitrary surveys don't indicate future behavior, are you upsetting that those stats aren't somehow steering social interactions? If you don't want it, cool, you don't have to. Just leave the people who do enjoy it alone and stop preaching like td
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 05:35 PM
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By who? And wait, are you saying you know how those women like sex better than they themselves do? How do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 05:32 PM
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Yeah I mean, I joined this sub when I was having bipolar and substance abuse episodes and have kept around and since gaining my sanity back realized I needed to be that fucked to think like y'all. I'm actually telling you to go to therapy and get a social life please. You can deflect if you want but I'm so tired of reddit neck beards/ leg beards complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:39 AM
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Once again your regressive projection. You can have your opinions, but others don't care and posting a rant every day doesn't make it right. Please touch grass for the love of God and get laid or something, idk if you've ever touched someone else genitals but please get it out of your system or to join the convent or something
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:25 AM
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<image> Idk about y'all but I think my mid 20s went like this even as a man so when i see this title I actually consider the rare cases in which I seemed genuinely cared for and not just amusement to scratch an itch. I'm not sure but I think I'm the type of autistic, quirky guy that you either find insufferable or want to play around/ sleep with for fun and I don't even think it's mutually exclusive 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 01:39 PM
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You seem to struggle with reading comprehension. I never made a claim one way or another because I acknowledge both men and women have in your bias, it's a basic fact. You're distorting the argument with selective interpretations of diction
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 02:24 PM
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What are you even arguing other than a strawman? When did anyone make that claim? The guy said your entire post can be summarized as the term "in group bias" which is correct but you're adapting a buzzword to it that doesn't apply. I don't even know what you're arguing or claiming
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 02:21 PM
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He literally is but is defining what you're talking about but you're trying to co-opt a buzzword and flip it around, you're being dishonest from the start here. There's no point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 01:22 PM
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Immediately moves the goal posts to invalidate it and yeah actually it is an issue, it'll blow your mind but "emotional consent" is a thing and often a widespread complaint men have if you take note. There are others too but regardless, are you trying to dismiss based on popularity of how you see yourself as more oppressed? Or do you have an actual argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 06:57 PM
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Yeah I've seen from the sidelines there are a lot of double standards, especially with this poster. Though, reddit in generally usually has maladjusted people with weird takes and especially people here, I mentioned in a previous comment that I don't even know the boundaries of what these "pills" are defined as anymore because it's all just gender war brain rot and nothing important is ever said
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 01:18 PM
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I'm actually wondering why these schotzoposts aren't moderated. They're weird af and just crazy 14 year old Tumblr girl rants, this place can't be serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 12:57 PM
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Why... Do you think that sex on the first date means it's just a hookup? And you can be honest and have sex on the first date and still consistently see each other or build from there. The arbitrary lines you draw to define intimacy based on bias is honestly how teenagers ok tumblr think. Sex and dating don't conform to the rigid blocks of classification like you think. Also, yeah I agree but would also say the same for women because it's not uncommon for them to be after that too but not really…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 03:48 PM
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Well sure and those men can date women that are more in line with their desires too, you probably wouldn't get along with them. All you're talking about is pursuing people whose sexual desires aligne with yours
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 03:42 PM
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So again, all shit you see online and yes there is drive to system and I can see that for young men but did you ignore me telling you that most don't like a lot of those expectations because it's an inherent struggle? And again, I can't claim for others but do you have any actual studies or verifiable sources for your belief or just what guys claim online? And again, you're associating then with it based on nothing but finding ways to justify it, that is literally prejudice. I'm not attacking yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 02:27 AM
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It's not a hissy fit, I'm legitimately telling you that you're being as prejudice and the same towards neurodivergant people as you are complaining about men being towards you. You are doing the motte and bailey now, if you even know what that means, because you said nothing about that at first but had a after statement, "they're ND so I understand" which implies that you expect and see people with that condition as lower/ lesser and associate them with people you disagree with to disparage thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 02:13 AM
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So self proclaimed for one and even then, this discussion is not about anything doing with ND people and this seems a prejudice against ND men in specific. And you said "I understand" condescendingly because you're insulting people by comparing them to autistic guys, don't back track. No, you're legit ableist and really just as bad as the guys you're complaining about and the fact that you don't understand your own prejudice and bigotry is sad. I hope you can learn to do better and grow as a per…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 01:28 AM
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But it’s ok—ND and autism are significantly linked to the RP community so I guess it makes sense. Jesus, you don't even realize the hypocrisy by being an ableist jerk yourself at the end here? You're not much better if you're going to be that way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 12:59 AM
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I don't subscribe to any of this shit but I have regularly noticed on here that anything that is a criticism towards woman that includes basic human behavior like being shallow or whatever always seems to lead to swarms of anyone on that side screeching and claiming you are delusional and your life experiences didnt happen. I had an extended argument with a guy who was just being an ass and constantly insulting me and was calling me "red pill" or whatever because I was simply mentioning toxic be…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 12:34 AM
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Yeah I'm not particularly fond of how people online use the term. For me, I have some mental disorders and trauma that can be taxing and often have partners that have similar issues, idk I click with them better, so I definitely say there is a time where you're being their therapist and being dumped on and I've been on both sides unfortunately. But listening to your partner vent about work is not a big deal lol. But that also takes communication, people also need to learn about "emotional consen…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 09:00 PM
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Everything you're saying on your side also involves doing the same thing and is what this argument is about because get this, your experience isn't other peoples and it used to be seen as bad to project your own issues
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:04 PM
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You don't see the irony and hypocrisy of this comment? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 05:44 PM
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One very direct example of this I have heard is that it is often an issue in the femdom side of kink communities, where the men have to compete and stand out so much they feel like they can't have boundaries, and where genuinely abusive women can get away with a LOT. That's like the extremification of the issue, but I think it exists in more subtle ways in general. So I'm not really interested in debating but just wanted to add as a guy who has been heavily involved in kink and the irl community…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 12:46 PM
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I do the prior, finding the latter is surprisingly difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:06 PM
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No I hear you, definitely not disagreeing because that's not much to ask for. I'm just taken aback personally as a bipolar guy because my functionality can suffer so I'm used to doing a lot and being a provider but then it doesn't go well when I'm struggling for just a few months and even if I'm providing for everything, I get mistreated during those times of disability. You're describing what is actually an equal partnership and I think the bar is very low for those who don't appreciate it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:59 PM
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That sucks because I'd be happy to have an equal partner and then leveled expectations based on realistic things. It's not a high bar to ask for or for the partner who works less/ less intensely to take more of the share of work or based on ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:37 PM
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Yeah thank God, same with those trying to immediately ask you to get them Uber eats when you haven't even met or anything. Make yourself known and leave the people with self respect alone lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:27 PM
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See, I don't understand that because I'd rather be single and sexless than in a committed relationship with someone I don't like the company of. I usually choose my relationships based on that as opposed to being casual or just feeling it out
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:55 AM
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I found a life hack: women let me ramble about metaphysics and comic book cosmology and stuff for turning them on/ getting them off. Lure her in with the pipe and then you can give her an existential crisis
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:15 PM
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I wouldn't say it's a woman problem as many men do it and also just "ghosting" where someone suddenly cuts contact wasn't quite my complaint, it's more about misleading and that can include ghosting when they bail on a date, but that's more annoying because you spent your time to get ready for that and plan it so it's inconsiderate of their time, regardless of talking about. I was just saying the specific excuse you initially responded with is not a rational justification in this case
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 08:22 PM
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That's fair but generally, I actually worded my original paragraph in a way that obviously displays that I give them power to separate and am aware of those fears and take them into account but just want common courtesy of communication and not being lead on, so you bringing that up had nothing to do what I said, it's an excuse by comparing extremes. I'm aware of certain ghosting and stuff like that for safety, I'm talking about you actively talk and say "let's meet up Friday" and they don't bot…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 08:05 PM
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"I don't owe basic respect and communication and treating you like a person because I'm paranoid" I mean, I pretty clearly stated that I also use text or Snapchat so it's easy to block and just don't stand me up and waste time? You're talking about something completely different that is not relevant to this other than as an excuse because it's a completely irrational projection. Edit: also no mention of the emotional consent part? A lot of women really need to learn that tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:30 PM
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It's hard and competitive and there's something I call an "it factor" and it's the difference between being "interesting" to talk to vs someone who gets your attention and you feel some desire for Also, you're kinda taking to the wrong guy because of how I conceptualize relationships so I think it's actually easier to sleep with a new woman than it is to make a new friend I really click with in some cases
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:49 AM
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I mean, just takes a lot of searching and knowing what works where. What dating app is useful for your purpose, if any, and how it functions, going out to events and socializing and I've learned to be more outgoing over the years, saying hi on social media and getting to know each other and even DM slides depending etc The catch is you usually just need to be interesting and have a personality that makes them want to engage. Not that you have to be a clown, but if you're not interesting it doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:02 PM
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I often see something where I'm like, "this person could use some of my antipsychotics and Xanax" and then realize it's the same person or a random inkwell
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:07 PM
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So basically you got called out and have no actual argument but are playing the victim to shut down conversation, love reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:03 PM
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I don't like to date monogamous and have identified as "poly" for years even when single. Right now it's more, I'm doing my own thing and don't want to be monogamous or derail myself for others so just being more casual. I ended up in a dynamic but it'll probably be mainly just us and then I'll have others on occasion and some of the ladies join us on occasion maybe? Idk I'm just going with it but a bit personally preoccupied
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:59 PM
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Huh really? I'm curious what the study was
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 08:54 PM
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It's not hard to find someone to have sex with or even a consistent enough thing to "date". But personally I seem to often be someone they like to date for the short term for fun until the craziness behind the quirky guy actually becomes a problem lol. Others try and I'm incapable of forming deeper bonds rather often it seems. When I'm finctionin well I seem very datable and might be more so now but it's less of a concern now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:45 PM
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It's like this place is the new schitzoposting sub but about dating and gender crap. It's fascinating to try to conceive of some of the things being said unironically, truly a marvel.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 12:01 AM
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You see things differently when you haven't experienced it. There are some key deep and subtoe things that you don't know without practical experience. So you might think that you can deal with it - but when you actually have to deal with it you realise that you actually can't deal with it Oh of course. But it really sucks when I'm seeing someone and they also have a history of depression or other mental things that I often help them through. But then they check out once I'm in need, that's a pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 11:57 AM
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Oh yeah, I'm type 2 bipolar, among other things, but if I have a mood episode I don't expect people to stick around and they usually get pretty upset I can't fulfill the same role. Even if I'm on the ends of euthymia or a bit out and it just cuts into my functionality a bit. With my mix of meds and disorders it's often a "management" thing and I've spent years working on it in therapy but of course that's not a cure but I handle it better than when most with this combination and severity. But ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:12 PM
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And you know that medication doesn't work the same for everyone and there are other various disorders? Quite frankly, if it's only depression or the usually ADHD/ depression it's not that difficult to deal with
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:04 PM
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God so much. Mature communication, if you can't make it or there's an issue or even if you suddenly change your mind, I always emphasize honesty, then let me know so I don't waste my time and energy preparing. Like, ok I'm not gonna be upset you can't make the date but I'll do something else or maybe just enjoy a night in instead of putting in effort to go out and that's welcome but don't play games. My time and energy is valuable too, it's fine to not be interested but being more clear helps. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:04 PM
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Not that I agree with all you said because that description sounds like dating someone you don't really like just for the sake of company and to not be alone, but i do agree it's better to be along than in a draining relationship. I mostly stayed single the past year when I was dealing with my own things and tbh that's not the only time, I don't even consider dating or relationships at times because I have more important shit. Right now? I'm open back up but also maintaining boundaries and how m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 03:33 PM
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Yeah the amount of insecurity funding that superiority complex based on arbitrary qualities and also basically making the same complaints that incels do lol. And also, as long as someone isn't being dishonest or misleading their intentions then it's just being mad they didn't choose them just like a guy getting mad that women fuck guys other than him. So many red flags
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:22 PM
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Addiction is very easy to understand No it's not wtf? It's one of the most difficult things to understand are you kidding me? Like, the amount of self hate and shame and understanding a bit of our shadow and such? That's difficult. This is getting pretty close to saying that we can only “understand” if we’ve experienced the exact same thing, which would pretty much invalidate the entire concept of empathy Reread my first comment. I mentioned ways you can understand without having those same expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 03:02 AM
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It sounds like you "listen" but don't seem to really process and internalize it like you claim because it's not about "conceiving", that is very easy and only the beginning. And also "know from history and the media" which means you don't seem to really know? Like that's a very shallow understanding and you might have heard about things but that doesn't mean you know. Like if i tell you about addiction too, if you haven't dealt with it then I don't expect proper understanding because it's really…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:48 AM
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Understanding and imagination is the basis for considering other people, and it is not difficult, because people aren’t all that different or complex How many people have shared their trauma with you over various issues? Like, do you think it was easy to say, empathize with my ex whose family were criminals and older brothers regularly beat and raped her? Even if you have experience with abuse and SA, that specific denial of safety by a sibling and other factors is very different unique. Idk, me…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:26 AM
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No it's not lol. It takes a lot of understanding but also compassion, thought process and basically the ability to put yourself in their shoes. From your comment you do not seem to be the type to acknowledge someone else has experiences you cannot fully understand and are bad but you do your best but if you only extend it for things you agree or are comfortable with then I wouldn't say that's really empathy. Your immediate comment was completely derisive and talking shit when it was not even rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:56 AM
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No but I have a running history of calling out intellectually dishonesty here lol. I also just summarized what she said in a more straightforward manner? Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:44 AM
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That's a lot of words for "no" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:39 AM
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God why are you here? 😭 You add nothing to this discussion but straight salt, we ain't boiling pasta here
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:32 AM
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This is probably the worst place to ask, it's terminally online people who are so insufferable they need to take out their frustrations and prejudice out on others online while pretending they're better than they are. If you'd like to know in reality, it naturally depends just like any people empathize with a group different from themselves. Some do, some don't and there are a lot of factors
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:11 AM
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I'll be honest, you're included man because of the way you word this. You're so apologetic and hesitant based on your gender. Yeah it's good in these to also acknowledge that women deal with their own challenges but it came off so much as, "I acknowledge how much more important you and your problems are queens, but might I get a crumb of acceptance if I make myself small enough of a person" It comes off as legitimately unhealthy self doubts and need for validation. I say this because I used to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:06 AM
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I actually wonder if people on this sub actually have experience dealing with different genders at varying intimacy levels cause the takes are often so weird. I'm sure this will be a logical, well reasoned and respectful conversation /s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:58 AM
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Unpopular take but it's the opposite in my case. I sleep with someone and try to form a bond where I desire their presence more but it's like maybe one out of a dozen. I'm A typical of course but friendships too, I find actual companionship difficult. It's also easier to find a woman to sleep with than build a friendship I feel I can rely on. Actual connection and understanding is pretty rare imo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 05:33 PM
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Jesus you're playing semantics and straw man because you don't have an actual argument. He clarified, you didn't read, that's on you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:45 PM
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If you have the right characteristics and have learned a bit of the game with experience and ability to execute then yes it is easier than that low bar. But most men will struggle with that and don't have that background
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 09:52 PM
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Everything you said and being so proud of being "brutally honest" and the way it comes off? Most people who talk like that do not use non accusatory language and you literally use it in your statement and to complain about a comment. Maybe it's worth considering that guys might shut down, like a normal human does, when he feels attacked. Like the "I statements" I mentioned, do you use those during the exchanges?; As an autistic person, I use direct communication more often than not but that's wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:30 PM
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Has no one here ever actually had to learn to grow as a person and treat other people as people too? You can be direct and honest but no berate someone or be accusatory. Have you ever learned "I statements" and "non hostile" language? Do you really think women react any better? Much more emotional and explosive imo so there are more egg shells to walk on and hence navigate your syntax and diction carefully. And what a surprise, most men and women in general respond better to this approach. Kinda…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:05 PM
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Don't guys usually claim height is a huge barrier? Also, I'm ok but not particularly good looking. I'm interesting and fun more so
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 09:22 PM
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I'm glad it worked out and yeah I live an alternative life and mostly date in the kink and ENM groups and generally explorative so I don't have experience with a fully monogamous LTR but from what I know it can be hard to keep that spark and "sexual chemistry and polarity". But people don't know, mental connection goes a long way. If you're into meditation and esoteric spiritual feelings, look up tantra and the book "radical ecstacy". I do intense hour long impact scenes and sometimes start with…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 09:07 PM
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I'm not a chad, also autistic and like 5'7" lol. I was able to get flings in the past but not maintain but I made an ass of myself with bipolar episodes. If you didn't notice, recovered. I'm also an engineer who writes poetry including about the suffering of depression and alcoholism and allows me to understand the suffering of others. I also have spent years working in therapy to be what is likely much better adjusted and contributing member of society than you. Idk, you think you'd be able to …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 06:59 PM
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Already told you it's a red herringed and just belaboring the argument and doesn't refute it. You're deflecting lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:47 PM
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Well yeah? Obviously lol. And if they wanna fuck around with someone else in that time then cool, I'm fucking with someone I want more. Most people are not interesting enough for that much effort ime. This is literally just a basic assumption of modern dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:46 PM
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No one said "most", I never did. Address something I said or move on please
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:41 PM
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And you're taking into account all survey types and including personal bias? And you think lies are only conscious and never unintentional or simply omission of info etc? Also, the study you shared is pointless because even if men care about looks more.doewnt mean women don't care about it so it's not even a counter argument but red herring "what about men!" It's silly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:38 PM
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It's not a debate retort, and I did not say "women lie". I said that it's a fundamental factor taken into account about a survey style study and if you are debating honestly, you would acknowledge that. No? Or are you coming with a straw man again?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:35 PM
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Same with women and everyone and there are literally subs r/nothingeverhappens And I have also been told the "sure jan" if I say shit y'all don't like if a personal account, it's already a thing dude. Also known guys that make fake larp account to astroturf. Crazy right? Also, whataboutism is not a response to me pointing out the flaw in your data set btw
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:32 PM
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Does not counter the well known issue with survey based studies that is indeed honestly or even ability to accurately account for things. If you are sharing sources and statistics, you should know the flaws of the sources you share. What this person said is a well known reason to be cynical for any self reported study.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:27 PM
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We need more people on reddit like you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:21 PM
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I hate to tell you man, but you be surprised the bullshit you could get away with if you fuck good and that is what keeps them hooked lmao. It's not hard to get to bed, also, the techniques and stuff is the fun part? Are you just looking for a flashlight or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:18 PM
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Literally your post lol. Remember your own arguments, not proving anything than you having no coherent thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:16 PM
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Most people on this sub don't like me cause I've stopped masking and let myself be obnoxiously autistic but this is the thing that works. I'm an open book too, I take 5 psych meds a day and need therapy every week to manage at a minimum and a recovering alcohol who gets a shot in his ass every month to not relapse etc. But I own it and share my vulnerability and that allows others to be comfortable with theirs as well. I'm used to having women come over the first time then say how they never do …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:08 PM
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I’m actually really fascinated with how desperate you are to have the last word here. Ironic. Night ♥️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 02:58 AM
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WILD take, I’m sure, but if you don’t want your very own self-chosen username used in a tongue in cheek manner on a debate sub maybe….don’t make it your username? Never had a random generator? It's fine, still childish and stupid. That's it. Worked out wonderfully for me. Never “lost” a man I actually liked. Also like it’s fun … getting to know someone and deepening that crush? Call me crazy but that to me just makes the eventual sex more meaningful and intense. Literally this second one is your…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 02:51 AM
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Keep telling yourself that 😭. You think I got this way without women encouraging it? Lmao please. Again, you also are weird af so I wouldn't want to deal with you and dgaf what you think. But like I said, maybe sit conversations about sex out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 02:41 AM
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You have clearly had an attitude but are doing the constant reddit bullshit of wording it just benign enough to feign ignorance. If I'm wrong then I'm wrong and you didn't mean it personal, I didn't say a personal thing about you, you did resort to ad hominem with the username and it was an insult and not playful and you know that and that comes from weird feelings. We agree, you fuck when you want to and she doesn't owe him sex and he doesn't owe her time and attention. We done now? Leave me al…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 02:35 AM
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because STDs are not completely solved, birth control is not 100% yet, and numerous studies show that men and women who are whores have trouble pair bonding Yeah you only had Christian highschool sex Ed. Again, sit this conversation out because it's not relevant to you lmao. As someone who wants to pair bond and does not want STDs or a baby with a degenerate, that's why whoring people give me the ick. You can call me an incel, weirdo, projection, and anything else. I just think I have more disci…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 02:32 AM
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Like it’s just a word. That doesn’t necessarily mean ohhhh you’re attacking me I’m so offended "Me personally" and stuff is not personalizing and you took it a different direction and know the rather demeaning syntax you used, and it wasn't part of the actual concession and then you made assertions and assumptions and literally straw.mem, making it personal, don't be obtuse. Be accountable please. As for the rest of this rant like I’m gonna go live my life now and forget about this in 5 Same to …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 02:25 AM
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am not sexually forward and I am pretty conservative in that sense, so none of your insults land I'm a whore but the women actually want me and sometimes pester as well, so same kiddo. All of this is weird projection and sound like you don't have enough experience for this argument. You want a girl who does not expect any courting or has enough leverage or self worth to have high expectations and a girl who puts out early. And you're gonna get exactly that. Never said that, stop the draw man and…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 02:23 AM
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I think you're kinda missing the point, it's not a shallow game, it's strategic to get rid of sex pests like you by making a guys wait and court. So, you call a man that's sexually forward you don't know a sex pest and women that sleep with others sluts? Oh, we got an incel type over here! Never said any of that bullshit strawman, please make and actual argument. Never said sleeping together right away doesn't lead to a relationship either, you're projecting and being a weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 02:17 AM
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I mean you seemed to want to personalize this so? Just following your lead there. Calling someone else obtuse when not being honest and accountable for your own words is peak comedy. I said my preference and you made it personal further when it didn't need to be, it was a weird attack. Most people who do that are offended, idk what to tell you. The only thing even remotely close to an ad hom I’ve even said was me saying your username - the one you yourself chose for yourself - was apt. And I mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 02:14 AM
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I literally responded to you piece by piece and you've used several fallacies. You can't argue so you resort to ad hominem. I told you I agreed with you. why so salty? You've been combative and seemed to be offended and be making personal statements form the state, again it's weird
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:49 AM
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Personal doesn’t automatically mean “personal attack” it just means personal to you and me. lol. Your very first comment to me seemed like you were talking more personal - especially when you said ~me personally I find that a turn off~. But I never said nor reacted as if you were making a personal attack so that comment to me about taking something you said as a personal attack came out of left field. Already told you that's how you took it and you took it alone and took it personally and seemed…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:45 AM
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You literally lambasted about how bare basic niceness doesn't mean shit. Pick an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:40 AM
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Yeah not like intoxication or unwanted contact against consent and freezing is a thing and like that's different from saying yes because you got annoyed. Such a piss poor argument. Not even remotely compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:38 AM
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Who took anything as a personal attack lol? I just responded in kind. Literally told you it wasn't personal and you made it personal. Reread my first line? can’t speak for you but IME as a woman, men who genuinely are into you aren’t all caught up with x number of dates first date third date whathaveyou. Like they just enjoy spending time getting to know you. It’s natural. And so is the physical intimacy when you’re both comfortable enough. It’s about building a connection. Not whatever you seem…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:32 AM
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Oooh I'm gonna piss people off! Yeah, on dating apps it's a leach just like an "alpha male". Personally? I'm used to dating women that like the specific dynamic of, "treat her like a princess, fuck her like a wh*re" in which they enjoy those intense things because of the care and consideration I place. Snowed in with my new sub today and love cooking steak and chicken up, love sharing deep intimacy and learning about her, give her forehead kisses and do that sidewalk rule stuff and open doors fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:19 AM
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I mean you seemed to want to personalize this so? Just following your lead there. I didn't. I said "you're free to do so... " Hypothetically and you took it as a personal attack for some reason, which is weird. So I responded personally? I'm saying you're entitled to your choices and other people are their's. If it feels like it’s pulling teeth to get to know someone before sex like that’s probably someone who isn’t right for you ya know? Or her for that matter. All the guys I dated actually enj…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:17 AM
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Well we weren’t talking about me (or you personally for that matter) but if we were I can tell you without a doubt I only ever had sex on a timeline I felt comfortable with, after getting to know a guy and developing intense attraction, trust and mutual fondness (which isn’t a game, if that’s what you’re calling it). Still effort I suppose maybe just not the effort guys who are itchy about sex want I guess. That's A ok and your right! He might not have the same rimliej and find someone else who …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:59 AM
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You can do that, just don't expect him to be patient and stick around, also it's shallow games played out of insecurity and kinda turn off to me personally
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:48 AM
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Well, it's not like being autistic is a good thing lmao. Hate it when people try to make it some "superpower", like no bitch, I can't tell people's faces apart
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 08:19 PM
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Many do, many don't. I don't, I'm bisexual. I still talk like that when it's liked, kinda like consent and preferences matter. However, most people do have that queer bias and it has an especially long history with men so if we're going to address that then I'd like to bring up the cases in which many women have displayed the things you're condemning men for as well. I'd love it if less women thought like that, I'm a switch too. They really hold up patriarchy a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:30 PM
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I don't, but how do you view bisexual men who bottom I'd ask? That might be your answer based on individuals and if you have such regressive values
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:25 PM
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Oh yeah, jumped on bumble and lost my virginity in 2 weeks for a chick I thought was intimate but using me as a fuck toy then onset of bipolar disorder and alcoholism and had 24 bodies in the next 2 years and experience in the kink and nonmonogamy scene and plenty of trauma from a cougar with NPD, etc. Been a fun time!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:30 PM
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Well, I had my first highschool gf when I was 15. Didn't realize my long term, severe OCD also had a draw to "relationship OCD" so it was not fun. Actually avoided getting out there again until I was 23
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:52 PM
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Love the weirdos from Tumblr that claim a sadistic female fictional villain is hated because of mysogyny alone and not for being a POS lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:25 PM
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Mom can give the child up, you circle back to "biology" Yeah, no either consent to sex is consent to parenthood like pro life says or not and then you can opt out. If she wants the pregnancy, he can pay the medical things but opt out of the childhood. Yes or no? If you say no, you're a hypocrite. The end
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:58 PM
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So, again moving goal posts and red herring. But again, summarizes it's not consent to parenting. So child support shouldn't be mandatory if a man opts out. That is the only thing that is consistent with your statement about "consent to parent" and otherwise it's literally a pro life argument. This is going in circles because you won't admit you're wrong smh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:53 PM
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Check my edit Also, red herring and ad hominem. You don't know how to debate!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:37 PM
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No you're deflecting, she has an option after. Your entire argument is a deflection or physical responsibility and ignore a woman's financial as well and all others You are literally using all of the straw me OP adressed in the begging. It's ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:34 PM
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Consent, yes or no? You still haven't answered straight for sex-> parent hood and you're using gred hearing and straw men to talk about biological aspects when I already reufted it by talking about adopting and your only argument is risk of pregnancy and also ignores a momhera consent to give away a child so you only care about the pregnancy and not consent You proved OPs point. Congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:30 PM
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More red herring, yeah the fathers consent doesn't matter but mom can opt out is what you're saying right? Hypocrisy, you finally proved OPs point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:28 PM
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It’s consent to pregnancy. They have both at that point consented. Adults understand that only a pregnant person has a say in that pregnancy continuing. Men and women need to make their choices based on that. Doesn't mean it's consent to raising a child. Yes or no? So no it’s not consent to parenthood immediately however if a pregnancy results in childbirth then at that point it becomes consent to parenthood unless the child is surrendered You're finally addressing the question in good faith, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:23 PM
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I’ve addressed it. Consent to sec is consent to pregnancy That doesn't mean consent to parenthood, if she wants to keep it she can, doesn't mean either need to consent to raising the child. So again, yes or no? Can they opt out?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:17 PM
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Adoption doesn’t remove the risk or the fact bodily autonomy was potentially taken away or refused. Until pregnancy and childbirth bears no risk to women my stance won’t change. So you completely ignore the topic of consent and choice and again move the goal posts. Do you know how to debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:14 PM
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No, women can also advocate for adoption more so and also, yeah terminating means they can opt out so regardless of biology or not, they don't consent to have that kid, and aren't obligated. You didn't answer. You said risk, so based on your argument, you're pro life right? Literally what the OP already addressed as a straw man
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:07 PM
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Your entire comment is a red herring and partial straw man that doesn't address the idea of consent and just belabors it. Is consent to sex consent to raising a child? Yes or no, just answer that and then we will ask if you think the same is for men and women and see where it stands. So, yes or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 10:58 PM
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Check my edit. I didn't clarify but many leave, but most don't even make it to that point etc. Most people will not willingly choose someone with chronic disorders and disabilities in the first place is the thing. Hence why I mentioned if you get sick later on, it's different but even then people leave. Again, this is literally just how it is and you're free to ask people with severe medical issues their experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:47 PM
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You based this ascertation on? Statistics? They say you're wrong. Personal experience? Do you have much taking care of chronically/ critically ill partners or have any disabilities yourself? I'm just telling you the reality, it's unfortunate but what it is lol Edit: not necessarily *most" but many and most people in general I mean are not built for taking care of an ill/ disabled partner. Trust me, it's taxing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:43 PM
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Most people do. Or it's more fun if you take care of them through their issues but then they bail once you struggle for a couple months lol. That's just been my personal experience. It's one thing if you were married for a long time, even then relationships often end with this, but if you have any chronic issues or disorders then depending on severity, counseling groups might straight up tell you "you have to be prepared for people to leave your life when they can't handle it" which is also grea…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:32 PM
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There are of course scenarios where people are sick and need care, where they make your life more difficult, but you still love them for who they are. Usually not a happy story though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:20 PM
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Yeah that's the question cause it's of course different if you just share with people during a sesh. I'm a heavy user so packing a few extra bowls or sharing a blunt for even platonic friends is a pretty normal thing.
/r/seduction16/01/26 03:15 AM
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Yes you are and I agreed and doesn't mean I can't call you out for making that judgment based on your own insecurities and personal issues and tell you to go to therapy and mind your business. You're free to judge, I can tell you to shut up. What are you arguing about? We agree
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 02:37 AM
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Oh yeah definitely, my entire comment is more so that you don't need to sacrifice your comfort around intimacy, but put effort in and express that you want them and have that chemistry. I'm used to sleeping together right away but ime I've also been used for casual dick and discarded too so just sex is not all I go by for "desire" even though it's a very common overlap. Imo I more notice if she goes out of her way to spend time with me or lets me know when she's free to plan or has any of that f…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 04:34 PM
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Well yes, but you don't need to sleep together right away in every case. That's what some guys want, but from my perspective that burning desire also includes intimacy and effort, much like how when I have it not only do I desire them physically in an intense way, but I care about their happiness and do the cute shit like get her flowers or love cooking and actual meal for them and stuff, etc. There are many ways to express desire and passion but also try to keep on the same page and not rush im…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 04:25 PM
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And you feel the same and this also translates to relationship effort. Idk about other men, but I love taking the woman I feel that burning passion for out ok dates, buy her flowers, cook dinner for her and she her new recipes and enjoy intimacy. But I must feel "wanted" in order to want others, I'm too neurodivergant to fake that connection
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 04:21 PM
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Assumed something worse when you didn't get actual reasoning Yeah, I'm fine with responding to intellectual dishonesty with the same, people who think like you mentioned don't deserve any better than how they treat others. It's fine, they can have their opinions and someone else can tell them to shut up and call out projections lol. Again, I guess most here debate it but "my body, time, my choice" is the start and end here, a man doesn't owe women a relationship so the entire argument is dumb. J…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 01:08 PM
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Cool, random strangers that don't know me assume weird stuff to project their own insecurities. I guess some guys care and might feel the need to justify it, but me personally, it's all arbitrary opinions and i don't get attached. And again, you don't owe anyone an explanation, it's your body and relationship and time and consent, you don't have to date someone you don't want to lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 01:02 PM
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Could be a preference and also alignment of values. There you go, they don't owe any further explanation
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 12:58 PM
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Since when does someone have to justify an arbitrary preference other than it being shallow? Call them shallow and they can ignore
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 12:57 PM
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No problem, I've gotten good at identifying logical fallacies and distraction tactics so I find it useful to ask them to clarify what they're interpreting then redefine what was said initially
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 01:37 AM
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What makes you think I'm mad? More so exasperated
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 01:34 AM
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Yeah meaning that you aren't a better or worse person for your sexuality so you don't need to lie about it to pretend you're a better person or whatever. You responded with a complete whataboutism
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 01:26 AM
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No? The comment you responded to said "people protect their egos and so do women so they will about being honest about being shallow when asked directly" which is pretty universal Then you started going on about red pill or reward for bodies or whatever and that's why I was confused? It didn't seem relevant at all. Why respond to that comment saying that when it has nothing to do with what this guy said?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 01:22 AM
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No, it's that you're in denial because everyone thinks like this to varying degrees and this very comment is ironically displaying that. The hypocrisy confused me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 01:17 AM
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Yeah, the dude said nothing that seems to be explicitly "red pill" unless you define "red pill" by aconowl social bias and performance in women? Which is a natural human trait so, are you calling treating women like people "red pill"? I just don't understand lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 01:12 AM
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I honestly have no clue what this response has to do with the discussion, is it a whataboutism? I don't think they mention anything "red pill" or whatever but a general human psychology thing more so. Why do people classify sociological trends as these "pills" or whatever?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 01:03 AM
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They would be but I've seen several posts here with unnecessary anger when men who have been successful say something others don't like lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 01:00 AM
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I told you I made my opinions from personal experience, you claiming o experience other things is weird
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 11:30 PM
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The entire criticism and projection. Like I said, you can criticize, I can call you out for being insecure. It's fine
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:32 PM
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Yeah and I said you can't complain for being called out for being insecure and projecting or whatever and hominem in return to hats just as valid or simply being told to shut up. That's literally what I said, what are you arguing about?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:31 PM
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Thank you for telling me about myself and my own life experiences and preferences, are you psychic?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:28 PM
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I said "if you are" I didn't necessarily say that's exactly what you're doing but just saying in general that those unsolicited opinions and judgments follow that pattern and you seem to border it with the judgement. But if not, then I assume you have no comment in relationships or people that you know nothing about, at which point we're arguing about nothing. But maybe, maybe not just like maybe whatever you think about other people's relationship is right and maybe it isn't, idk. I'm just call…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:26 PM
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Thanks for proving my point. That's not even remotely what I was saying lmao. It's not uncommon for people with certain trauma to have to grow and mature past their actual age in order to deal with it and those are most of the younger people that prefer to date older that I've known, myself included.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:23 PM
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Nothing too crazy yet but if you are projecting and having an issue with a relationship of people you know absolutely nothing about based on your own bias and need to feel validated, then that's usually pretty insecure. Idk, all I said is that you can say what you want but that person doesn't have to take shit and you seemed to start arguing. Hardly my "life" story but tl:Dr I don't care what internet people think and freely respond with equal rudeness so I don't know the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:17 PM
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if you're going to make a non-normative life choice, people judging you is the cost of admission. Yup, and I'll call you out for being an insecure ass. Not complaining for example, i decided at age 23 to start experimenting with substances. i expected people to judge me for it, i accepted it, and moved on. that is how life works. Good for you? I don't care, you're talking to the guy who has regularly openly talked about going to the substance abuse clinic for a vivitrol shot in my ass every mont…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:10 PM
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trauma brain enters the chat Not everyone has had an easy life and have had to develop in ways you'd not expect. Idk that's my experience with the age gaps that are relevant other than just casual fucking around
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:02 PM
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Who's "you guys?" Cause I sure as Hell don't and find most of y'all cringe. I'm not asking your permission, some guys are insecure in themselves and choices so they do. But if I share about my own connections, I won't be asking anything and there's still a likelihood I'd get remarks in which, what I mentioned is the case. Don't project your arguments with these other people onto me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:01 PM
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And people don't have to entertain your unsolicited opinions and it doesn't mean you are right or not being a dick. Yeah, freedoms of speech but it goes both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 08:53 PM
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Yes, and that comes from consent and mutual understanding, which is not age dependent. So you're not really saying anything
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 08:50 PM
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I think college loans specically are predatory by nature because of they work but other loans from banks or even that get cosigned etc are fine. And enlisting in the military or joining a dangerous trade and working on an oil rig or whatever has been standard. Personally, I remember being a teenager and when I turned 18 my main thought was, "well I'll have the ramifications of being an adult" and trying to acknowledge the responsibility that if I fuck up then prison time is abound so I had bette…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 08:32 PM
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Do you think 18 year olds should be able to take on hundreds of thousands in student loans? Or go die in a war? That's literally accepted as the norm? What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 08:13 PM
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Bro you don't know about cougars? I preferred dating women older than myself since my early 20s even though I was also with those the same age or younger or whatever. Everyone has their preferences. I'm 30 now and have had equally enjoyable discussions with women older and younger than me, age doesn't define your ability to form a mental bond with someone you get along with
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 08:11 PM
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Yeah, I just don't know why she's even here other than to bitch then so it was hard to understand, I was just confused due to that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:14 PM
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I literally just in this comment said I understand she doesn't want anything to do with men lmao. She has to deal with them in society but if she wants no personal connections then yeah, as I said, I agree. I'm not arguing anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:13 PM
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Oh she didn't say she swore off interacting with them all together, that's why I was confused but you're right
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:11 PM
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Yeah so you need men as part of society but don't care about any romantic connection and just voluntarily celibacy, I get it. I don't get your point, I already agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:43 PM
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Yeah so you don't want any relationship then and don't need sex or a relationship, then that's clear. So if you'll never expect anything from a man then you don't need it but you seemed to maintain you still wanted sex or something which you need someone for but I'm that case then yeah, you don't need anyone. I'm really not arguing that in that case and we can drop it then lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:39 PM
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Then she "needs" men just the same
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 07:58 PM
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I said if she's asexual or doesn't want it at all then sure, but also, I don't "need" I want, this is stupid semantics And yeah, I don't want most things women offer either, don't need them, want them when it works. Again, what are you arguing about?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 07:58 PM
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Dude the first point is accurate when looking. Meaning, you keep trying to make the connections and looking but don't go, "I'll get a partner within the next two months!" Cause life doesn't work that way. It's the same as "finding the lost object only when you stop obsessively looking". And 2&3 are just "third party spaces" in general. It's been difficult since covid but worth finding. Also, no one says you can't "cold approach" because literally every time you talk to a stranger that's what you…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 07:50 PM
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I do on occasion. And she expressed wanting a relationship, so she needs men then just as much as j need women. You're arguing about nothing but butt hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 07:15 PM
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You need men for romance or casual sex then. She's saying she doesn't need men at all, you make no sense, you need them as much as I need women. Sorry you need men for romance? Idk the argument
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 07:14 PM
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Ok? Well not talking about guy then, I was talking about my approach and how they'd be free to be kept at arms length
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 07:13 PM
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We watched a movie about kinky threesomes and I cooked us steak and we shared a joint and she's about to head out so it's not bad tbh. She loves my dog
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 08:25 PM
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<image> So turns out the lady I've been talking to is 5'11" and my 5'7" ass vibes with her but comparing my foot to her Paul Bunion shoes is hysterical. She set on my lap and I picked her up and carried her still so princess treatment is still on the table
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 08:04 PM
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My bad about the wording, I was saying that men with options generally want a woman that is interesting and if a woman is not then she can't expect that much priority so I meant in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 06:16 PM
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Simple, you just have to be "that guy"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 06:29 PM
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Yeah and it makes no sense if you don't know someone and what they're like in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 02:52 PM
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That already happens, what's the argument here?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 01:03 PM
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Yeah and everyone has different standards but i think the main complaint is that the lack of personality makes it feel like pulling teeth at times, that's my complaint anyways. And I sound like an asshole but wanted to be honest with the women that those interactions are incredibly boring and doesn't make someone like you so they might play games and if they want a guy to be genuinely interested and like, want to take them in dates to get to know them and have fun and stuff, idk if I actually li…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 04:29 AM
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What’s an interesting thing about a woman, so what should she share about herself? How do you banter with a guy? How do you find out about a man if you’re just bantering? Something that gives me something to chew on to know your interests and also gets my interest. I will be honest, I'm different from most guys and I do go mostly on vibes so take it with a grain of salt but a woman can tell me about having a hobby of knitting if she knows how to tell a story or cary a conversation and make jokes…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 04:25 AM
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Oh I do, I guide most conversations in general which is also why I have this stance. And if I want to then sure but I'll be bored and at that point either I just want to do it to see if I can and fuck but probably not be actually interested. I'm just saying from their perspective because they're asking lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 04:12 AM
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Right so ad hominem and straw men because I never said anything red pill and argue against them too. You're both losers Edit: also, wait, since when do red pill guys educate you on consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 03:19 AM
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Lmao just saw this but you taking about me? Love it when guys don't have any balls and need to make subtle insults behind backs. I'm not red pill, blue pill, whatever, y'all are stupid and childish. And I'm bitter for the same reason women are or whoever else, I'm tired of some people's shitty behavior and weirdos who enable them. That's it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 03:17 AM
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What are you talking about? I never said they can't have standards. Are you starting with straw men already? Just cuz you’d fucking anything font mean they terrible for not doing the same. Have you read my comments? That's the exact stance I've been telling you boys and girls lol. Some guys have standards and if the woman is boring we lose interest, what's so hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 02:58 AM
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Yes I do. It’s purposefully coercive to say that having any standards that have a numerical value attached to it is transactional and therefore you can’t have any of those standards to be in a non transactional, loving relationship. Never said you can't have standards, why do you only reply in straw men? This is kinda cringe. I'm just saying learn to act like a normal person with tact when you ask, what's so hard about that? Well that’s not what you’re asking for, you’re asking to not be judged …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 02:50 AM
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No, this is not true. Get off the internet. Meet real women. You assumed I didn't know any real women and to get off the Internet and I told you about the women I'm meeting off the Internet this weekend? Again, I don't know why you're interested, but it was context Also, yeah that's literally making a claim about it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 02:47 AM
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No, women do not have to sleeep with all sorts of men they do not like in order to prove to random incel or manosphere men online that they are not transactional. Ok? No one said that and it's a complete straw man. You don't have to sleep with anyone you don't want to? And you don't have anything to prove, it's just that it you act transactionally you're going to be called transactional. It's not complicated Building a regular relationship built on love mutual respect and all that jazz is enough…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 02:28 AM
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You were the one who was weird first and seems interested in my sex life for some reason because you were making a claim about it. Sorry if I misread, have a good one then and maybe don't comment if you don't want to know
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 02:24 AM
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You can ask, but you could use social skills and ask with tact and maybe flirt instead of asking them to fill out a form like a test subject. Like OP said, banter, have a sense of humor, don't just ask someone how big their genitals are plainly, maybe learn to talk to them as a person? Tell them interesting things about yourself, relate to what they say, ask them a question that allows them to talk about something they're interested in, be flirtatious, etc. You don't have to but that's more or l…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 02:08 AM
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No, this is not true. Get off the internet. Meet real women. What are you talking about? I have at least one date this weekend but I'm thinking of having my FWB over, thinking of doing piss play too or something 🤷. I'm actually deciding who I should sleep with next because it'll be number 40 and I might want to make it special but idk. Why are you so interested in my sex life? No, this is not true. Sorry you've met so many creeps but that doesn't make it true that women don't respect cis (why sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 01:44 AM
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I do That's literally all y'all do to complain about men I'm just stating a general pattern, women also don't respect cis mens consent lmao. I've dealt with so many creeps
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 01:16 AM
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I just turned 30 in August and made that mistake haha. But here's the thing, after like 3 dozen different women, some dudes, etc it wasn't like I didn't want a connection but I really can only develop it with some and that girl.... The first person to really show me what love is and I love like a Greek epic I vowed, "you're sick with chronic illnesses and rare debilitating diseases and suffering, but I love you and will be with you to hold your hand on your death bed, but fight that off as long …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 01:15 AM
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Yeah man I get you, I'm in massive debt from paying for my ex's experimental medical treatments then she stole and defrauded from me hardcore so I don't want shit to give to anyone one lmao. I got into HEMA so all my money goes to my dog, weed and swords. Love it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 01:01 AM
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Oh definitely. I mean, it's not to keep a casual connect or FWB to go out and do things with but you don't have the same obligations and can do your own thing otherwise. It's a peaceful life, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 12:40 AM
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Definitely, I've been in both places
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 12:06 AM
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How does that make any sense? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 12:05 AM
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So it's bad for women to ask questions because it's transactional. Can you reply with something other than a straw man? Asking questions isn't transactional, I never said that, it's boiling someone down to number and objectifying them and showing no interest as a person to see if they check your boxes to gain your interest. And while you do that, don't expect him to stick around. That's all I said, it's not bad to ask questions why would I say that? And if you want to ask them in a transactional…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:56 PM
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Yeah because they are responding to you being transactional with being transactional so if you argue against OP, you shouldn't have a problem with this no? Edit: I take that back upon thinking, it's not even being transactional really, it's just that you aren't interesting enough to bother with unless there's a specific reason I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:50 PM
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Your entire comment is irrelevant because that's not the complaint, it's women having the personality of a soggy slice of toast and not putting effort in. Which is fine, you don't need to but just don't be surprised when you get minimal attention and get kept in the wings for when they want a lay
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:29 PM
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Except he's literally talking about a string of questions with which the numbers are answers to be judged by. Women are terrible with objectifying men tbh, that's it, they could learn to do better with tact
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:16 PM
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Lmao imagine paying people to deal with your insufferable ass and you were in a frat but act like this? Bet they had a warm cuck chair for you, is that what your alumni group is for?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 10:54 PM
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That's my point if you want to generalize then we can but you're gonna get upset lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 10:52 PM
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That's still dodging the question and avoiding it because you can't answer so yeah all I have to do is ask that for you to crumble. You answered one question though with "no you don't get tired of being a little bitch". And yeah I'm scientifically analyzing why you enjoy being humiliated so much? Hey, you never answered me question about what works. If you say I'm "RP" then doesn't that mean it works better than whatever you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 08:26 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/zwpge9agudcg1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=317680dc196585041013ba2b9b146bd46d393d20 Yadda yadda projecting liar spamming the same gif. Got a meme for you Again, you never answered if you get tired of being a little bitch and feeling pathetic? And if you wanna jerk off to me with other women since you can't get any? You just gotta say yes or no
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 08:22 PM
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Yadda yadda whatever you say to lie about it buddy. And I’m not projecting any RP tendencies. You’re acting it out in real time for all to see. I'm not, you're projecting because I feel confident and am sick of you being a bitch and called it out so you need an "enemy" But even then, on well I think you mentioned a rant about it not working and how you do "blue" or whatever, I think all this stuff is stupid, because it works and you attract women whatever. Only one of us seems to have any experi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 08:18 PM
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Ah so women are the emotionally abusive borderline right? Since we're throwing out cluster B personality disorder labels and all
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 08:06 PM
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So, straw men about things never said again. Like bruh, really? Again, done with that but nice attempt at diverting like a bitch If I’m projecting then what stories have I posted in this convo? You're projecting your ideas of a meme of "RP" of anyone who disagrees with you, you project that someone is lying because you're embarrassed by being a lesser man, you project lying and every argument you made, you started with insults then fold like a bitch when confronted, you can't make an argument wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:57 PM
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You literally asked for an example of it. And yeah, it's convenient when you can ignore things that don't conform to your opinions. Again, a total joke and I'm done with that, stop wasting your time your liar and coward lol And no, the projection is sad. But it’s also shows the types that RP attracts. So thank you Lmao you're the only one projecting and I told you I don't like that "RP" stuff either so you cannot handle the reality of someone being nuanced. And also, it's actually pattern recogn…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:48 PM
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The fact that you're still ignoring the first link of discussions on this sub that proves you wrong is why you're a joke. Told you I'm done with that though. You failed. And I’m sure the “I’ll try and bully a virgin boy” works on little boys. I mean, you're a little boy and it's obviously work and you're pretty triggered lmao. And I didn't necessarily say you're a virgin, you are what those dudes call a "simp" who clearly has no actual experience based on how you talk, so maybe a virgin but prob…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:40 PM
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I gave you those and you cherry picked and it wasn't "complain about bi men" it was be against them or prejudice and you're motte and bailey since. You can't admit you're wrong so you change the argument completely. And obviously it landed because you're trying to deflect back to an argument I told you I'm done with. The only reason you should interact with me further is if you enjoy being humiliated because I have stopped taking you seriously. Again, no obviously you creep women out and they do…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:27 PM
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I never lied and you never called me out, you've been throwing a bitch fit and attempting to gas light me. That's why you're a creep and no one trusts you and you're just salty about it lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 06:42 PM
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Idk why you think I have those same conversations with those same people, wish i didn't have to filter lol. But maybe you should look into some of the psychology of kinks. I know a woman needs to trust you and be vulnerable with you to do kinky things with you so I understand if you've never had that chance and usually creep them out first, but you can learn a lot about consent and social interactions that way! Isn't that cool?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 06:36 PM
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No, depends on the subject but usually research ones about neuroscience or confirmed psychology and sociology, statistics, science and math on things like the better thermodynamics of nuclear energy, literature and philosophy especially discussing stoics or the existential/ nihilist route, I've advocated for trans people by share the research about the grey matter in their brain aligning more with gender, I shared statistics that whether you like it or not the migrant problem in Europe is a thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 06:29 PM
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You're literally one arguing in bad faith with no point just to argue except you don't say anything tangible but just gas light and lie. You're really throwing stones in a glass house. And it’s clear you “do your research”. lol! I usually link scholarly articles, but it's funny, where are your citations and sources? I asked you to cite where I lied and you deflected. What’s it like when the only thing you got is words but no one believes anything so nothing can ever land? Oh I know you don't bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 06:19 PM
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Why do I need to "cite claims" when I'm literally just saying that I argue against multiple people online, I don't owe you a claim, that's what pseudo intellectual neckbeards do go, "source?!" For someone stating something about themselves. Yes dude, you deserve to be insulted because I honestly do not know how you are so stupid. And it's actually annoying that someone like you has the same voting rights as me. And I'm embarrassed to share a gender
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 06:11 PM
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I have a lot of comments arguing against the manosphere but also ones against the weird femcels and the simps who follow them here. I know nuance usually requires complex thinking and intelligence, but maybe you'll achieve it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:52 PM
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And Tate when you found out you’re bi and like peeing on teenagers? And TRP What are you talking about? Tate is a loser and a lot of the modern "red pill" guys are too. They also hate me because I call them out for their bullshit too lmao. And being a bi man is shunned in those groups, how does that make sense? Also, I did mention the first woman I pissed on was a cougar so it's more so that I'm not very picky about age or age gaps on either side. But please,you're insulting me. Peeing on someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:49 PM
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I was working as a field chemist operating the HAPSITE Gas chromatography mass spectrometry machines on that giant environmental response with the chemical train derailment in East Palestine Ohio. Actually, the experimental treatments helped us find out she had MS and we got it into remission too. For all your talking about lies, you don't know the difference between a lie and a truth huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:43 PM
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I'm currently broke because I went into debt paying for my chronically ill and disabled ex girlfriends experimental medical treatments and worked 77 hour weeks for a year while sacrificing my own medications and health and logical needing severe medical care and pushed my body to break because, "I love her and need to take care of her" came away in more debt, worth it and didn't regret it, but then last December she stopped taking her psych meds and relapsed on drugs and alcohol hardcore and sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:37 PM
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Bro I'm dead ass lmao I'm also broke as shit so I with I had a boat. But I'm fine sending you a video of me pissing on an 18 year old if it helps you be less of a weirdo as strange as that sounds. Why you don't want it? If you prefer older I could call the 35 year old or something. What's wrong with a bro trying to help another out that's going to spend most of his time jerking off alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:19 PM
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Finally we got to the run away phase. This could have ended easily with “ok yeah you got me” but instead we got all this. How do you "got me"? You've said literally nothing but arbitrarily claim you won like a child. Again, this is embarrassing. Try again. Again, done engaging with that because you're lying your ass off. Liars are nothing if not predictable. Yes you are, you're not even a good liar. This is a good lesson for you- you are the first and won’t be the last. So get better at larping.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:12 PM
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Yeah probably whatever you did is Have you thought of therapy and learning what consent is? I have some books for you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:59 PM
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I said people are biased, people have displayed bias and you're cherry picking random stuff to red herring. I'm sorry you don't have reading comprehension? So yeah: you got caught and scrambled and then screwed yourself over. And have been throwing a tantrum. You know, like someone secure in the truth? Ohhhh Literally everything you've been doing and why I told you to get therapy, you project so hard that it's concerning. I'm not throwing a tantrum, I'm honestly telling you that you're acting li…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:43 PM
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Lmao straw man projecting as hominem because you're uncomfortable for being corrected, idk man you seem to be the one who doesn't take SA seriously. What are you hiding?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:36 PM
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Oh I know, I bring up logical fallacies because it's essentially true rage bait and entertaining
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:36 PM
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Well, sorry you're uncomfortable for being called out for making light of SA? It's an opportunity to grow though ♥️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:33 PM
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Again you are literally the only one lying and you made it personal first, I'm sorry but I think you're too stupid for this because you literally can't even remember the discussion. laughed at the attempts at making things personal Lol no, you seem awfully worked up and triggered and get personal back and then double down on your attitude and then deflect by lying about it. Me saying that maybe if you keep making an ass of yourself online then a girl might give you 2 mins of pity sex probably go…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:29 PM
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How can I be defensive if I'm not even being talked about? That's not what that word means. I'm explicitly addressing you making an ignorant statement and would like to hold you accountable for what you say. That's it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:25 PM
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No one is using your "definition" though. I don't think this is productive because you also seem to rely entirely on straw men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:24 PM
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And I expanded based on your original assecertation. So this includes you, or maybe, just.maybe, you should learn what actual SA is and not minimize the experiences of others with it by accusing random people of doing that for normal human dispositions? Just a thought
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:22 PM
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I said "from other people here" I shared my definition which is based on general sociology and mathematical algorithms that they used in the Cold war and is still relevant. The person who initially comments views it the same as me, then you came in with your definition. What do other people on YouTube have to do with it when you are currently talking to someone and you both clearly use different definitions? You should clarify what you each mean first
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:18 PM
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Where did I ever try and play the victim? Oops the copy pasta doesn’t work! You start by insulting someone and then cry like a bitch when you get called out and insulted. Grow a pair, you're an embarrassment. Keep going tho. I like to sand these when people go “why do women avoid the guys who say they are nice guys” What are you even talking about? Because you're the only one acting like a "nice guy" so are you saying that you like to be shown off to women as someone to avoid? Because you're doi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:16 PM
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Maybe I'm some of your reddit forums but I'm reality it's just "game theory" meaning people who show basic good will but also are quick to be assertive and focus on their pursuits and those are generally things that make you more successful. You have a completely different definition than other people here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:13 PM
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And the “I’ll return energy” is loser talk. Does Steph curry return energy to the people that shout “you suck?” Nope. He laughs and sinks threes an collects his check. Classic abuser, you think you can be a piece of shit but are fragile and play the victim when called out lmao. It's actually.laoers who can't handle people calling. Them out on their shit. And you said nothing to counter me other than making general situational statements. Funny, what about the purplepilldebate post where women op…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:11 PM
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Yep, you called someone rapist mentality, I said most people think that way, you agree most women are also rapists and so are you yourself then right? Since we're making blanket generalizations with no nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:04 PM
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I said there's bias and prejudice, that is literally insecurities due to prejudice. And I shared a link to this subreddit where women openly stated they don't want to date but men, why are you informing my first dictation that proves you wrong? . It actually destroys your point I'm sorry, but yeah you do argue like a child. This is kinda annoying LMAO And you know it. But liars can’t admit it. So they try insulting. And it doesn’t work because everyone can see the tantrum You mean how abusers pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:03 PM
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Pretty much the only comment that's needed because my reaction to this is that the study of "game theory" has literally been a thing for decades so these discussions are pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:59 PM
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Yes, still proves my point and you're rail roading, you're not saying anything of consequence so please stop. I already says all you’d do is what yore doing now- so it’s hilarious watching it happen. Keep trying to trigger, it’s the cornered liars only trick left. What part of, "dude, this is everything you are doing from the begging and you have made no solid arguments" do you not understand when you say this? Your entire narrative right now is gas lighting to make claims that never happened be…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:56 PM
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Ok so basically most men and women are rapists or act like one in your kind I guess? Thats a weird cynical take but hey, you do you. Keep in mind that includes yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:48 PM
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Oh God not the arm chair tik tok psychology 😂😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:46 PM
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Can you please respond with something other than straw men? He said bring nice alone does not guarantee sex, so unless you believe the "nice guys" who think they're owed sex for being nice, then you agree with his main point. You brought up something completely different
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:46 PM
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I read it and the other one and also the comments, multiple of which prove my point, you clearly did not read. And yeah, anxiety over a man being bisexual Keep lying your ass off and projecting kiddo, this is only getting funnier. And the more insults you throw the more obvious the projections. Do I need to copy and paste your comments in which you were the first one to do this in the exchange immediately so you literally called Yourself out? Dude, also that last two paragraphs? Those were not i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:41 PM
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Weird that you call how the majority of the world operates "rapist mindset" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:38 PM
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You don't want this discussion, it's a very long running philosophical one and could be an entire debate topic itself
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:37 PM
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You mean a woman in a 6 month relationship might be anxious about things getting serious and feel insecure as things become more LTR? What are you talking about, she specifically mentioned having issues accepting bisexuality. You can cherry pick and misconstrue parts of you'd like but you're the one lying, it's funny you don't see that Oh that’s new, that never happens, ever? This was never a discussion. It was always calling out a liar. And you've been continually proven to be the liar while I …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:32 PM
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"a post about a woman having trouble accepting it and it might end the relationship." Doesn't matter, dude. Again, I have proven myself right and you're deflecting and purposely misconstruing because you can't be intellectually honest. The original premise about bias against it is true, stop trying to weasel out of it like a coward. I have proven you wrong and called you out for acting like an enraged, autistic toddler and you have levied every logical fallacy and personal attack and then compla…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:23 PM
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I gave you a citation dumbass here's another Also "I don't have to.prove my claims against you" yet you're calling someone else a child... I am worrying about the guys here, and it makes me annoyed because a lot of those "red pill" guys are annoying and I call them out but then I realize you might occasionally take the same stance and all you do is throw a bitch fit in the comments and makes everyone look bad. Keep going tho: I called you out for being desperate for a woman's attention and only …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:13 PM
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I'm responding to you how you're responding,nare you seriously so daft you forget that your entire argument from the start has been projection and insults. And I gave you citations and now you're pretending I didn't, again, you're being intellectually dishonest. And also the experience of people that are being talked about, do you also tell black people that their experiences never happened because you disagree? You think you’re the first kid who acted this way when caught lying? This is HOW lia…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:03 PM
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No you got Called out on a lie and then doubled and tripled down. Like a liar. And so when that dying worm you decided to go after me. Like a liar does when they don’t have anything to show What lie?? I literally backed my claim when asked. Please make an actual argument on something said you're like a toddler. And now we are at the “but it’s so hard to date” which was the little boy complaint that this was all about it the 1st place. Typical victim mentality: here’s a tip Another straw man, I n…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 02:52 PM
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You were the one that said it was “more than just here” let’s not play the autistic gaslighting “it’s not the exact words being paraphrased” game. You know what claim you made and couldn’t back up. When i said it's notable IRL and other places? Yeah that's the argument, unless you're creating a straw man with something I never said, what is the point. And you made your claim AFTER you couldn’t back up your citations claims. Again we aren’t playing the bullshit gaslighting games. I gave citations…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 02:43 PM
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Bruh you started this off with “it’s all over” and then when called out you THEN claimed “uhhh well I’m bi” Huh? When? Where did I ever say this? Can you make a non strawman argument? Not “hey I’m bi this is what I experience and here’s where you can see what I go thru” you know like an honest person! I did and you replied with the gif "sure jan" do you have short term memory issues? The manosphere constructed an elaborate fiction of a world that doesn’t exist, and convinced people they must eng…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 02:33 PM
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I have never argued anything, I'm a bisexual man and women can be very homophobic, that is what I'm weighinh in on a discussion about my own sexuality and you're literally just yelling "fake news" I don't care whatever else you argue, learn your place and sit down on these discussions. K?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 02:28 PM
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I shared it because of the comments you doofus. Also have others from pure dating subs just because it doesn't go to your world view and you are desperate for validation doesn't mean shit,n you just keep moving goal posts. God there's no point arguing with someone like you, why are you even here?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 02:21 PM
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one last attempt Also, you're a condescending asshole in general dude, I don't really want to interact with you but here's your link pleases shut up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 02:07 PM
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Ah, I made the comment but I assume the auto mod removed it. One of the was literally a post from this subreddit the other day btw
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:59 PM
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Dud I literally said in my comment "I have seen several posts with women talking poorly about dating bisexual men this past week" You asked for links Here are links. I have you literally what you asked for, what are you even arguing? This is embarrassing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:56 PM
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Hey btw buddy... I'm bisexual. Maybe you should also listen to people about their lives experiences and not be ignorant btw
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:37 AM
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like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:30 AM
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Dude in the past several weeks I've seen several on dating subs where women were talking about losing interest or not being able to get over a man being bisexual. It is not an uncommon thing at all, why the denial?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:05 AM
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Are you insecure that men are known to give better head and being compared or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:55 AM
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Where was that ever said?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:26 AM
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On God, I've been single for a year after a shitty ex and almost got into an intense relationship but man that would have been a mistake. Made so many bad mistakes out of desire and feelings of love and relationships, my peace and self care is better than it's ever been now that it's just my dog and I. Guys need to live for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:25 AM
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I suppose you're correct in a lot of cases when people are typical and part of the rat race. But he did ask initially to your point of "fun" because having fun doesn't require someone else to do everything else though. A guy can convince her thorough effort but that doesn't mean monetary or whatever else, it really depends though. I don't understand though because I think I've only gone out with one or two women I didn't have sex with by the second meeting, most often due to schedule conflicts o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:09 PM
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He specifically asked about women that want to have sex ...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:51 PM
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That is not at all what it is or any sort of belief displayed, why did you reply with a straw man?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 08:43 PM
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No you're being ignorant and making wise claims while not actually addressing the point, everything you said has been useless, it's rather dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:30 PM
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Post: "the things women on reddit say about men and relationships shouldn't be taken as blind advice" You: incomprehensible, special Ed kid, gargling, rage ramble Well yes, this very much does make valid points. I see indeed, fascinating. 🔬 🎩 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:44 AM
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Yeah and women haven't been on here asking advice for that same thing so, kinda a middle ground fallacy with red herring and eventually and that first comment seems like a whataboutism in that case. So I'm confused because you are effectively talking about nothing to deflect and change the topic and it seems rather pointless?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:30 AM
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I saw that, and the guy asked why you needed advice because women don't generally struggle with getting dates as much and the post from the start was talking about dating advice in terms of how to get dates. Talking about maintaining relationships is a form of dating advice, but I did not see anyone but you mention that so I was confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:24 AM
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Wasn't this entire post specifically about the advice on approaching and getting dates? Idk if you're talking about anything relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:20 AM
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Exactly, I agree with the puzzle thing and that's also why I think it's stupid to have a lot of these arguments with blanket generalizations because after a few dozen different people, you learn some are much more complicated puzzles that take more time and effort or might be near impossible, or little just easy as putting two things together. I've been with women who were on SSRIs and a variety of other things too so I also understand them having difficulty, though I still take it as a challeng…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 03:15 AM
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Yeah I'm pretty similar and yeah naturally I tell them and learn my intricacies, for instance if I get physical tired/ exhausted for too long that's most of when I have trouble maintaining but I'm also naturally a regular mouth and finger user and alternate based on whatever works for the time being. I'm autistic as shit and like working the clit because it makes me feel like cracking a safe and then mix with all other types of sensation on other parts of the body in the right order like she's a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 02:57 AM
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Ooh this is gonna be fun, I can't wait to see the discussion lol. For myself, I'm not interesting and just an Atypical case I have nerve damage from a back injury and also long term psych med use so I'm a man with a "negative orgasm gap" since I have much less sensation and can struggle with some ED at times, but that depends on a lot on mood and energy etc, so I know it's hard to get me off. I've never cum from head, it's very difficult to cum from penetration and it's always been from how I mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 01:44 AM
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I appreciate this as a guy with multiple disabilities, mostly mental, where it's pretty common to be left. And I took care of an ex that had similar things and then a dozen rare diseases and chronic illness for several years and worked 70+ hour weeks to pay for experimental medical treatments. It was excessive but worth it in my mind at the time, but I ended up finding out that receiving reciprocated treatment seems like a tall order lol. Idk about others but in my company, I've known numerous f…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:14 PM
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Idk, it's rare but some women do treat men as people believe it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:26 PM
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I agree as a bi man, and even then you'd be surprised how internally homophobic straight women can be as well, I mean one of the most common insults is calling men "gay". So I wouldn't want to deal with that person at all, same as if they were to hold negative views of my neurodivergence, etc. I don't need them around and it's cool they aren't, we wouldn't vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:55 PM
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Because it's ridiculous and petty and based in insecurities and she doesn't want to admit it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:53 PM
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And everything I said leads that I sometimes don't want to deal with women? Are you seriously talking about reading comprehension and can't connect this? God, I'm sorry but this is tiring because I really don't know if you're being this ignorant on purpose but it's kinda sad
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 08:40 AM
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Oh so you NEED a man. Great, glad that's settled
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 08:37 AM
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Ok, complete straw man and semantics game. And lmao, you don't get that if you want a casual relationship you NEED men? Or do you exist in a vacuum? You're literally making no sense and contradicting yourself because you don't have an argument. I'm bored
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 08:34 AM
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Lmao I could say the same thing, you're being purposely obtuse and obnoxious to pretend that you are saying something when it's just babble because you can't handle my criticism. I don't need women sweety, I'll have them around when it's convenient. That simple enough for you? Sounds like you need men for some ego validation though, suggest you work on that. You have a good one too, Isk if I'd be able to dumb that down anymore either
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 08:30 AM
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You NEED a man if you want to fuck or have a casual relationship? I don't need either, I want it when it works for me. Again do you know English?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 08:27 AM
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Sorry, where did I say I "need" women? I said I like to fuck them, I think you need to reread or trying to reevaluate how self important you see yourself lol. And like I said, you're asexual, good for you, already covered that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 08:24 AM
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Reasons why people date at all since not everyone is a hermit, asexual lol. And I was saying same here but towards women, especially the childish, self entitled ones, I'd rather be alone than with that type, instead I can just casually fuck 🤷 I also don't care if you do what you want, just saying I can empathize with your point about avoiding relationships to avoid the woman-children because there's no benefit lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 08:20 AM
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Oh so just casual dating and no commitment right? Yeah I prefer that too cause most women aren't relationship material either
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 08:12 AM
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Anyone who is reasonable and actually has experience interacting with people could say this if they were being honest enough. It's actually kinda dumb how it's a novel concept to some of seems somewhat complicated when it really is just, "well, why would someone like you?" And that's it really, like what qualities you have in the entirety of your person and how it balances
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 07:35 PM
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So, kinda dodging and deflecting the point made? Because it was pretty correct
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 07:33 PM
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He's saying he's too shy to approach or ask one out directly, where are you getting the idea that he can't even have a conversation with someone?? A matchmaking event or warm approaches would be better advice since that's more specific to his issue if you read it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:32 AM
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Nah dude, I would be freaked out if anyone of any gender and any looks said that to me. Doxxing stuff is pretty whacky and a valid fear
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 12:04 AM
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Right so basically you moved the goal posts again because the original comment. And you specifically said, "I assure you bro, you wouldn't like..." Words mean something, "I assure you" is you making a claim of something that is uncertain, there is no fiber context, the nature of the phrasing is that you believe they don't have that experience and then supposing what they would feel followed by a hypothetical "wouldn't" instead of "didn't" and even then, that point is moot and not what I was talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:49 PM
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You're going back and editing your comments so idk if I should continue this if you'll be dishonest to dig yourself out I assure you, bro, you ALSO wouldn’t like someone doing things that make you uncomfortable and refusing to stop. Based on this comment, you were being patronizing and condescending, if you know someone has had that exact experience, then would you say this still? I told you I did and that you assumed I didn't and it's rather offensive and ignorant. It's your presumptions and bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:43 PM
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If someone told you that you were making them uncomfortable, do you argue with them and refuse to stop? Don't move the goal posts, you said off and alwArd and not reading skills. Someone can definitely listen to you say stop clearly but also I feel like you might ignore when it's not clear communication but more so "social cues" which is also ignorant. Again, it's pretty biased and weird. That’s the criteria for unsettling- if you don’t or can’t stop when you realize you’ve made someone uncomfor…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:08 PM
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Just gonna say this is a pretty wild reach and I also am not sure how to feel about this as an autistic man because there seems to be a misunderstanding about being comfortable in social situations vs awkward and now that's extended to being a "creep"? I've known a lot of guys who were good with socializing but total creeps and did not respect boundaries as well. Note that I'm not necessarily weighing in on this conversation but more specifically your biased justification and reach here that cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 04:57 PM
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Well, this includes a lot of things including philosophies, stoicism is a common masculine ideal is it not? A book that's easy and about stoicism using examples such as ancient Greek orators, Teddy Roosevelt, and other great characters that show the ideals of it, id say his examples with Roosevelt, Grant and Lincoln are all interesting and inspiring. Maybe learn from Confucianism because that's more an ideal of social values. You could read on sociology and others like through Kant or whatever. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:55 PM
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Oh nice, I got in with YouTube for helluva boss. I understand hate on the series but I think it suffers from poor writing porayal that doesn't always execute properly. The relationship between Husk and Angel is well developed in the first season and this song is composed well, if only more of it was seen in that way and had that quality of delivery. Edit: I think The interpersonal relationships are the strong part of the writing but it doesn't get enough light do to everything else being overwhe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:45 PM
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Most of the time I'm on here I'm arguing against the extreme feminists because the site does lean biased against males. I am the first to point out women being abusive, coercive, etc because I have a lot of experience with that and believe it is not addressed enough. That being said, he's still acting like a loser that stands out among any gender and not something to look up to. I could understand it being mutualistic, but the part where they say "he can't do anything for them so he ghosts them"…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:43 PM
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It's not just new age. Tell me, what do you think was a defining thing for males across all of human space and history? Something that affirmed their identity and especially that of being a man, often through coming of age rights or practices, etc. Hunting? Cliff jump? Bar mitzvah? Most of those have gone away. It's not necessarily that you have to believe in spiritual stuff, it's more about using the self affirming methods. I meditate regularly for therapy stuff and it has a lot of applications…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:37 PM
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Self actualization and embracing your healthy masculinity. "The way of the superior man" is a good book talking about it, there are fraternal support groups that use spiritualism and exercise bonding called "sacred sons" for being in touch with your masculinity and community. Those are just examples of groups I'd say are good to think like. "Strong" can be argumentatively subjective, however I think at its base, it's will and resilience to weather the challenges and persevere. Tbh been staying s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:18 PM
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I'm a man close to his age. No, he is indeed a loser, and this is coming from someone who regularly listens to and loves that song "loser baby" from the hazbin hotel series. Do not look up to that guy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:10 PM
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Dude, he's literally using his middle level job as a power structure to impress and bribe desperate women and does so through massive risk and and time and monetary investment. It's not necessarily that hard to get a younger woman first of all depending on what you look for but even then, I'd rather forgo that entirely than be this desperate and scummy. It's embarrassing to other men honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:06 PM
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Yeah I'm gonna be real, I just turned 30 and have had a lot of turn around so I have very different perspectives but have just started picking up my career and thinking of needing to use that kind of bait to get a desperate woman to give you a chance or something? That just makes me cringe and think of seppuku if I were to resort to that. And of course it's all fake so he's going to be lonely because he doesn't try to make connections outside of the circle of his control. He has issues with bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:01 PM
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Why are we talking about feeling unattractive? Yeah, of course but naturally some people struggle more and some get it reinforced more. And with those things naturally you want to adapt as best as you can. But I also feel like this will become a disingenuous conversation about how much of the mental issue is also acceptable because that's usually hypocritical as well. But we're also talking about people not meeting arbitrary beauty standards. Like, I can't imagine listening to a heavy set woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:44 AM
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Not that I agree with the other side, but you're honestly being super intellectually dishonest and disingenuous to such a degree that it only makes the discourse worse. You can oppose what others say without outright dismissal and it's already verging on gas lighting which is crazy. You can say people have those connections but someone talking about struggling with being unattractive is "nonsense"? I just don't follow, because it comes off as though there are no traits considered more or less at…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:29 AM
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Oh great, someone who thinks being a grammer Nazi is an argument, cause that's never pedantic. And yeah for certain things but this includes going fo trivia night at the bar or maybe an wine tasting or anything else, not like it has to be a sport. There's literally apps for people to meet others to do the same thing like go to an outdoor concert or cooking class. And yeah because your comment was projection and very personal and finding ways to be the victim lmao. "Don't try to hard" and "be soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:13 PM
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Yeah, you said it's "trying to hard" because you view it as forcing yourself to do things you don't want to. But you seem to fundamentally misunderstand why they say it and attach value that isn't there. Like I said, it's the same general advice for finding any social interactions. Not like someone can give you a cookbook to get you laid but they can tell you where you're more likely to meet people and like, that part is kinda needed if you want to find someone to date 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:05 PM
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I'll be honest, I generally think the "pill" stuff is silly but I agree and disagree with you at the same time because I don't think everyone is actually that honest and it'd be better if they were. People don't want to be harsh and tell someone else there is something fundamentally lesser about them, be it they have to study harder or train harder for a good body or have more issues getting sexual interest. And people will beat around the bush and say it's because of personal failings when in r…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:00 PM
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Those don't contradict at all lmao. Have something you go out and do that gives you social exposure so you're not staying home playing video games every night. Like, it's not that complicated it's the same advice for making any friend and I've been doing that since I moved because I'd like a friend group. It's not that different
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:55 PM
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It's ok that you don't know your fallacies as well as you thought, I understand being discouraged. Idk I think I'm fun, but I'm not the type you're used to arguing with on here that are pretty easy to make look pathetic so of course interest is lost! Well, you have a good one. Just remember, my main point is that you have every right to turn a man down and it feel bad, you don't owe him! Also, if men don't want to pursue a type of engagement because it's more trouble than it's worth, then that's…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 01:17 AM
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You started with a personal attack against op. And again I don't think I attacked you, I called out your behavior, sorry you felt attacked? And it's once again, another straw man because I said nothing of the sort but you literally just made that up, are you serious girl 😭😂. This is embarrassing. Where did I say a woman should feel guilty for not dating someone? I'm saying that if he decides the relationship is more harm than help, then he can leave and he doesn't owe you his time and attention …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 01:12 AM
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You're probably right, I was thinking of your original comment They don’t try not to feel guilty or sad because they have no reason to feel guilty. They didn’t do anything wrong. They found someone who they made friends with and then one day that friend said “If you won’t sleep with me we aren’t friends”. That doesn’t feel great Which was a strawman. Because literally, none of that was said and it was you building and argument out of nothing to attack, the definition. I said red herring because …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 12:58 AM
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You haven't shown any for your claims about men who make space either... Why are you demanding tangible proof when you made ambiguous claims based on presumptions? I'm literally responding to you in the same logic in manner. I'm making assumptions about you not based on reality if knowing you but guessing based on arbitrary info I see, and you are doing the same here. I'm using your same energy back at you. And gawd damn you need to get off reddit if you think I want your attention, because you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 05:15 PM
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Lmao and just like you said I said you're entitled and fragile because you think that way and projecting and I have just as much right to say that. Now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 04:18 PM
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You're making demeaning remarks for someone withdrawing, you don't have the right to do that and control their actions and that comes form your opinion, one you wouldn't have if you weren't somehow offended by someone withdrawing attention. How is expecting something and being upset when someone simply doesn't do it not entitlement? You're talking about "resilience" etc and hiding your words but started by making blanket insults to anyone that does this. If you don't have a problem with it, dele…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:43 PM
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Lmao I'm saying this because I've turned women down and they've ended up being creeps and I would have preferred they make space and respected it more. I've usually been chill if they turned me down, idk why but women get weird with it sometimes. I also say this because I have had quite a number of friendships end and have been in that position with women, if I was as self victimizing as you, I'd be very bitter towards women and by your own views, I'd be justified. And no you're not, you're prov…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:28 PM
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You're making snarky demeaning remarks because you have an entitled attitude, you didn't have to say it. You act like dudes that are entitled that gross you out, so I'm calling you out for being similar. You're welcome
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 02:11 PM
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Lmao why do you think I say this? Because I've learned and accepted women don't owe me stuff and I'm telling you the same thing and you won't even engage in that topic. Men don't owe you either, youre not much better than dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 02:09 PM
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Reread your first comment, I can respect what you said here and agree but your first comment is literally worded as a generalization and assumption, it could be syntax and diction differences. Ah, my mistake then I misread it as a claim that OP or those who respond that way likely have RSD because it's seen as "extreme". No in that case what you said makes sense and I of course agree that men are different and handle things differently but like I said, one big variable to not overlook is the deg…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:48 AM
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I did. I said friendships are relationships, you have no argument so you're playing semantics games. Ok, men don't owe you friendship their time and energy, mental or physical. That's their consent and informed decisions to make with their own life. Understand? Everything I said still applies btw Are you so desperate for a mans friendship and validation that you can't handle him losing interest in giving you that attention still even if you're not dating? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:32 AM
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You're being very dismissive by completely saying, "it doesn't bother the couple me I know so I don't think it should bother others" and made claims of how they feel. Again, are you a man? That's what I have an issue with, tbh made a claim as to how men feel. Just stop, unless you're ok with incels and redpillers telling you how women think and feel on the inside. And if that's the case then you don't need to talk about some dysmorphia or arm chair diagnose gas light someone, you don't need RSD …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:30 AM
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So basically, you heard things from a couple men you know then make a claim for the entire gender? And you don't see how you would be offended by a man saying the same thing and then saying, "I have a couple women friends!" Like, haha sure you do. And again, you're gas lighting. You don't need dysmorphia to simply check out. Again, these claims are actually obnoxious, ignorant and offensive and in your original comment you literally worded it as if men don't process feelings the same? Like it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:16 AM
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Friendships are relationships, so are connections with family lol. None of which you are owed. Doesn't matter if it's dating or friendship, their time, energy, body and mind, their consent. Or do you need their validation and attention that bad that simply having someone withdraw destroys you as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:03 AM
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Well my claim is that what op claimed is fine, it's not always healthy but if they feel that way then they feel that way. I mean, I said essentially it's ok to make space for whatever reason so that's a bolder claim than op even
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:01 AM
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So... You're trans? But also think your experiences are representative of others and then suddenly you felt more when you became a women? Or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:00 AM
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Believe it or not, men don't owe you any form of relationship either. Cis women and understanding mens consent, most specifically mental and emotional, is always and entertaining topic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 02:30 AM
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I was about to say the same to you because even now you have no argument so used a red herring with semantics games but it's even worse because it literally is you projecting and shit that no one here ever said and you're offended by being called out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 02:22 AM
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It doesn't need to "mentally destroy you" just make you uncomfortable and for you to withdraw your consent of where you put your energy. And you immediately follow with criticism and gas lighting insults in the same way, "yeah she wasn't into me but a whore anyways" type energy lmao. You should have left it after your first part. A man doesn't owe you his mental or physical or emotional energy when it doesn't benefit him, just like women don't owe it to men. This sounds self centered and entitle…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 02:07 AM
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Does he have to say the exact words or does "having feelings that aren't reciprocated", the definition, not work well enough? Do you only define things when someone claims that specific word and never any other time? Again, I don't follow the logic. Good for you, you're probably lucky with ex's and other people in your life and thus being ignorant to others lol. Because trust me, people that have had to deal with shit with connections that hurt them are usually a bit wiser with understanding lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 01:40 AM
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Does... Does the idea of unrequited love no longer exist? It's a topic about pursuing something more with a friend however being invested and thus rejection and having to maintain a connection through that, unrequited love, is usually unpleasant for most people, not just men. And thus, they are not obligated to still invest time and energy into something that does more harm than good to them. Why is that hard to understand? Like, do you think everyone owes an ex friendship after the break up too…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 01:15 AM
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OP is emotionally hurting and isn't obligated to adapted a liking for emotional masochism in order to keep providing you validation. That's it lol. Again, you're making a bunch of shit up, if not straw men the mix of red herring/ ad hominem but straw man still works better because you're making false accusations based on absolutely nothing that have nothing to do with anything that was said. Again, it's just weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 01:04 AM
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You were literally just making claims that they said something that you completely fabricated to justify your stance and make the person you were arguing with look bad....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:55 AM
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Yeah because even tour second sentence is mentioning stuff that no one else has? Like, where are they saying "women are xyz"? Was it a comment or something? It's about what you so with your own time, body and autonomy. Believe it or not, mens consent still matters and not all are desperate to have any woman in their lives to sacrifice their well being for it. And he clearly said it wasn't about fucking? Like, do people here even read the posts or only comment in straw men? It's about emotional t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:46 AM
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That completely depends on the guy and it sounds like you're projecting. Some men are friends just to fuck and if they leave after rejection when it was a casual goal, then they're not good friends. If someone actually develops feelings for someone else then, you don't get to demand their time and attention if something with it causes them pain. People are not obligated to entertain relationships that hurt them more than they help them, or if one of your male friends had a different energy and y…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:42 AM
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I cannot wrap my head around you saying this but then also not realizing it has no bearing on what OP said because people are free to leave or maintain relationships of all levels as they feel comfortable with and that's literally the healthy way to look at the philosophy you said. Like, if something bothers you more than it helps you why are you going to force yourself through that? Do you think he owes it to her and she's entitled to his time, effort and attention or something? Like, the takes…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:16 AM
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Again, I cannot even fathom your mindset, are you saying that dating someone and being platonic friends is exactly the same? The same dynamic and energy and communication? All that? Like, it's honestly just so asanine that I'm having trouble addressing it properly because anyone with actual relationship experience knows that sounds ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:11 AM
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You.... You can't be serious can you? And also I don't even want to respond to you tbh because you only seem to speak in ad hominem, red herring and straw men but I'm just genuinely complex how someone can ask this and still think they know things about relationships better than others on reddit? It's just really detached from reality honestly, no other comment really
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:05 AM
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Ok? What does that have to do with maintaining a relationship that is no longer beneficial and emotionally draining? Like, do you think they're obligated to still give you their time and attention and energy and that men can't decide where to put theirs on their own? You don't owe them a relationship but they don't owe you friendship and can walk away if they want and that's pretty universal lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:02 AM
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And you confidently speak in behalf of men for this because?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 11:58 PM
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Lmao that last two lines kinda shows where you come from with incredibly extreme bias that you believe false social media stuff out of confirmation bias. It is possible to have an honest discussion about this and I would agree that it would be helpful, but you are not in a place to start it because there will be absolutely no reasoning or point in arguing with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 07:18 PM
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Oh hey, you called? Yeah, I have spent years as the "short term ride" guys lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 05:17 PM
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Where are you even getting this info? Yeah, people aren't always consistent in their standards but it's not like the "average guy" is doomed or has no opportunities at all like you're saying. Maybe you need to have something else that's particularly interesting or attractive and learn to play the game but this take is overall very reddit echo chamber like.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 02:22 PM
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Based on what? Because if you're "toxic" you might have fewer morals and qualms about things so naturally you're more likely to get results like a heartless CEO ladder climber. So you try more and hesitate less which is good for short term gain. And even then, there are other factors that make someone interesting like passion or if they're enjoyable to talk to or whatever. It's not like only that caricature of "Chad" is successful, it's usually something more nuanced and an "it factor" that gets…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 01:21 AM
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Both men and women are guilty of this but it's not like they usually seek it out and have to learn from failure. But also, idk most dating today is casual and you sleep together before commitment in most cases no? That's just how it is in more recent casual culture so I don't think it's this crazy divide. And you can think of things however but "provides" might not be the case but stable chemistry is. Being at peace with someone mentally and emotionally and who you share those values with is oft…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 01:00 AM
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If you read it, "date" is very loosely used though and seems casual in most cases or not dating and just sleeping with as well. And yeah they will for a bit but there's usually a breaking point, and it doesn't lead to anything good long term and they're still used for short term fulfillment rather than their value as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:19 AM
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Well of a dude is toxic then the sex has to be good for you to put up with it so it's kinda survivorship bias lol. idk if any of my college FWB saw me sober but they were happy to come back just because I had fun and tried to give them a good time too I guess. Just work on those things lol. But keep in mind this isn't much different from the "crazy girls fuck well but I wouldn't date them" type deal so it goes around 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:16 AM
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How... Is my ego hurt? Again, everything you say seems to be a straw man or projection or ad hominem and strictly talking out of your ass and contributing to people misunderstanding the conditions that not everyone has been as privileged to have taken as lightly as you. Again, check yourself child. I didn't say you were a bad person but you kinda are, well an ignorant dickhead at least. Just stop contributing to misconceptions and bastardizing disorders as a weaponized shaming tactic and I would…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 11:13 PM
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Lmao are you sure? Because, then you should know better than to go arm chair diagnosing people based on one comment and just blanketly correlating social issues with autism in men which has no founding. And you're literally using it as an attack/ subtle insult which is so damn ablest and now making sexist marks? Like girl, I'm Audhd and other things and have worked through a lot more than you I would bet but I'm not gonna sit here and project onto others like a doofus and weaponize it for petty …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 09:32 PM
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