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Seriously, fuck anyone who was making excuses for that incestuous piece of garbage or told the poor girl to endanger herself further by communicating with him. When I was 11 years old I told my drunk "dad" that his ~jokes~ about being able to rape me and get away with it (like his friend, who'd been abusing his own daughter for years before finally getting caught) made me uncomfortable. At the time he shamed me for not being able to take a joke/thinking such a Good Father would ever do something…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 05:22 PM
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YESSS! There's a lot of great FDS Anthem-worthy music on Demidevil (Little Boy, Deal With It, and Clitoris! The Musical in particular really stood out to me) but, as a reformed baby pickme who grew up thinking Avril Lavigne's Sk8r Boi was relationship goals, I think L8r Boi will always have a special place in my heart. 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 12:52 AM
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Even if it was an "accident" why the hell wouldn't he apologise or see a reason to for burning and completely changing the life of a woman he (I assume) once claimed to love? Surely anyone capable of empathy would apologise for accidents they cause even though they're completely unintentional - especially if someone else was hurt as a result!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 10:23 AM
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Friendly reminder that kids usually start attending secondary school from the age of 11. So, not only is this guy creepy as fuck, he's also a straight-up pedophile! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 11:37 PM
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When I was younger I thought bestiality was a super vile but super niche thing... then I got into OLD, and had a steady supply of creeps asking about my dog (she was a chunky boyish looking GSD) and what I'd do if "he" ever got ~over excited~ while I was playing with "him". 🤮 It's awful but there are still a number of countries and, if I'm remembering correctly, even a few states in the US where raping and sexually abusing animals is legal. Beastiality is so common in some of these places that a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 04:32 PM
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The amount of grownass men I've seen on social media whining that they don't have a FWB/girlfriend/wife to buy them a PS5, or that the women they do have in their lives have straight up refused to buy one, is beyond embarrassing. If I or any other woman made posts like that instead of buying our own stuff you can bet your arse we'd be dragged for being gOlD dIgGiNg BiTcHeS!!! but when men do it I guess it's supposed to be funny or something? Can't say I get it, but then I do find adult men whini…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 07:03 PM
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To each their own! I mean, it sounds like a nice enough date to go on with someone I'm comfortable with but I'm super leery of letting strange men know when and where I like to walk my dogs, so it'd never work as a first date for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 03:47 PM
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100%! When I was still using OLD I literally had one guy ~offer~ to go on a walk with me and my dogs to one of our usual spots, then come back to mine after to "watch TV" (AKA try to fuck me), as a first date. Even back then, when I was still kind of a pickme, I nexted his cheap low-effort arse. 💩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 01:49 AM
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If someone expects to do it on the regular it's a MAJOR red flag for a controlling personality to me, so I agree completely. But if it's a one off thing? I honestly couldn't care less. I've got nothing to hide, and I'd expect the same reaction from anyone I'm seeing if I asked to check theirs. tbh I'm way more judgemental of people who get cagey about "snooping", especially if it's just asking to borrow or use their phone/laptop for a sec. In my experience, at least, it usually means they're hid…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:35 PM
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There were a lot of other comments from bitter scrotes along the lines of "she's only popular because she takes her clothes off on the internet" (as if they aren't furiously wanking over her, if that's the case 🙄), complete with "I was only joking!" gaslighting whenever any women called them out on their bullshit, but this one really pissed me off. I don't know the woman or follow her on social media to know what she or her content are like but, considering the article was to raise awareness of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 01:20 AM
5

I'm pretty sure it's just what 'spoons title their bartenders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 04:20 PM
40

Oh wow, he was super triggered by your response! 😂 The way he keeps saying he's glad you'd swipe left on him and that he wants nOtHiNg To Do WiTh WoMeN lIkE yOu!!!! but is still considering bullshitting about his career the future, knowing full well that that's something women he claims to hate take into consideration when looking for a match is just... so far beyond stupid. The bar is so low that there are plenty of women in the world who'll date a guy with a job (ANY job) so maybe he should st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:16 PM
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I always felt the same but I naively thought I had real guy friends for a while there -- trying FWB situations with a couple of them proved me dead wrong! Literally any friendship we had before the FWB situation started completely disappeared once we were involved, and I turned into just another woman for them to masturbate into and dump all of their emotional baggage onto. NEVER AGAIN! 🙅‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 02:19 PM
7

Seriously! I can count on a vibe for consistent orgasms and lack of douchebaggery more than than I ever could from any of the so-called FWBs I used to have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 02:16 PM
7

I think it depends on the woman. My mother was abused throughout her life, but she was genuinely the most lovely and caring women I've ever known and had a lot of close friends who never had a bad word to say about her because she was never the type to lash out. I'm far more of an introverted cynic than my mum, but even I tend to internalise any frustrations I have/had relating to past abuses rather than taking them out on other people. That said, I've had a few friends through the years who wou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 08:50 AM
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As someone who isn't really dead set on getting married or even living with any future partners I could get behind the whole FWB thing if I was actually guaranteed to get any benefits out of the situation whatsoever. Sadly, in my experience, most people who propose them are selfish pricks who expect a "girlfriend experience" complete with exclusivity on my part, despite only being able to offer sub-par sex and a complete lack of friendship in return. Why even bother, when I can get the same emot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 08:27 AM
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I'm 100% certain my last dog was a canine pickme... even though I loved her to bits and took care of her for 13 years she always preferred men. Any men. It didn't even matter if they just walked by us on the street - she'd still be trying to follow them home! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 10:06 AM
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Oh, you have ~a shot~ with him but I'm like 99% sure he's just hanging around (stalking you, as your friends said) because he's wants a hookup and is likely hung up on the virgin thing. He's not going to give you a relationship - he told you he's not capable - but he'll definitely sleep with you if he gets the chance, and it's probably going to be for bragging rights. Block him and don't engage with him when you see him in the future. Also, dump the guys you're dating if they're not adding anyth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 11:38 AM
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I've seen so many men commenting on female celebrities' posts about donating to or supporting organisations that help women experiencing/fleeing DV during the pandemic like this. Weirdly, you never see any of them in the comments of their favourite male celebs' posts "raising awareness" and encouraging them to do the same thing for male DV survivors like they do on women's!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 01:25 AM
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Wow, that stickied comment sure is a choice. I guess if I wasted my time developing a crippling porn addiction and beat myself over the head for a few hours until my braincells were down to single digits I could maybe see why bitter, low-effort dudes think we're all Karens for not wanting to have sex with them, but acting like that somehow makes us worse than incels (and defending them) when they've been party to very real violence against women? Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 01:07 AM
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But telling (not even asking!) you to bring him food that you're making for yourself is somehow totally acceptable?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 11:57 PM
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"Your eyes are HUGE! You look like E.T./a murderer/etc." I have prominent eyes with visible white below my iris... apparently there's a theory or something that links that kind of appearance to psychopaths? idk, but I got so much shit for it growing up from LVM and (I assume) insecure women that I'm still pretty self-conscious about them even now. :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 08:54 PM
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Oh wow, a non-friendship with no benefits for you... how chivalrous of him to offer! 💩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 07:04 PM
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Oh, for sure! I used to have the same "poor men :(" mindset until I realised that I was giving my ex, whose parents got an amicable divorce when he was 10, a free pass to treat me like shit. My dad was straight up abusive (emotionally, verbally, physically, and later sexually) until the day I cut him off in my twenties and I have NEVER felt the need to treat anyone badly because of the fact, but I guarantee if I ever did start acting out like these NVM do no man would be willing to give me the b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 03:59 PM
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100%! We're the "emotional" (or, if we're not doing what they want, "crazy") ones that are expected to take all of their abuse because they're incapable of managing their own emotions like grown-ass adults instead of constantly lashing out and playing games. It's infuriating!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 03:49 PM
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Thank god she's getting rid of him! I've known far too many women who've endured this kind of abuse then, when the reason (read: excuse) for their NVMs behaviour comes out, stay with them because "he had a hard childhood". 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 01:14 PM
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You're right to be. I mean, being nice enough to let someone you don't know too well be your roomie is one thing (that I personally would never do, because even people you do know well can be awful roommates) but not kicking this POS to the kerb the instant he confessed to being straight all along? ...why not just tattoo "take advantage of me with ZERO consequences" on your forehead, and have done with it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 11:55 AM
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Seriously! It's obvious this scrote thought by telling her he was "falling in love" with her, all of his lying would be instantly forgiven and he'd be rewarded with sex/a relationship. Never mind that he manipulated her into letting him move in the first place, and continued to knowingly violate her privacy and trust from then on... 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 11:41 AM
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Right? He's so gross and transparent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 11:36 AM
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NTA, and I really hope commenters are falling into that camp because this shouldn't be up for debate at all. I bet this creep thought that by telling her he's falling in love with her she'd forgive him and jump straight into a relationship/bed with him! You know, like he didn't con his way into living with her in the first place, violate her trust, and perv over her whenever she got changed around him. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 11:35 AM
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Yup. Terry told her before she let him move in that he was gay, because she had no interest in living with a man who wasn't a SO/family member. He would check out guys with her and stuff so OP was convinced that he was really gay and so didn't feel self-conscious changing shirts in front of him (when she was wearing a bra) then, one day, he walked into her room when she didn't have a bra on to "ask for something". When she gave him the thing and they got to chatting she noticed he had a boner, a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 11:28 AM
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I could maybe see "looking back and laughing about it" if he'd simply had his dumb hissy-fit and kept it private between the two of them, but the fact that he told all of their friends and family that she'd cheated on him because of said idiocy? Nah, that manchild's only good for the trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 11:36 PM
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It's because most of these women will never have to face the possibility of doing it themselves. They have a ~friend~ who maybe cams or sells nudes on the side for some extra money, sure, but because of that they assume anyone doing sex work has a choice in the matter and it's a just a fun side-hustle or whatever. Speaking as someone who did it at one point in order to keep my head above water financially (I'm disabled, was living in the middle of nowhere with no access to transport or support, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 11:37 AM
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I can guarantee that the braindead banter bro's feelings would be irreparably wounded if he ever encountered a woman who gave as good as she got, instead of taking his childish abuse because "bants". They're fragile af! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 02:32 PM
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If you've got a dual SIM phone then you could always pick up a pay-as-you-go SIM (they're usually free, though you might have to put some credit on it from time to time to keep it active) exclusively for dating. It's what I usually do and it hasn't failed me yet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:22 PM
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What, you mean no-effort losers fine, upstanding men like this won't invest in a relationship* unless we give them free emotional/physical/sexual labour? How ever will we cope?! 🙃 \ - Allow you to call them your boyfriend. That's it. That's the only "benefit" you'll get from wasting your time and energy on them.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 10:41 AM
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I'd say like 99.9999% of men on Reddit are incapable of making friends with women. I tried posting on one of these subs a while back when I was in a positive place (so no breakup sadness to manipulate me over!) looking exclusively for new female friends and I still got a slew of messages from men trying to talk me into sending nudes/sexting/whatever from the first message. Even the less overt ones who claimed to be just looking for friends were still shitty because they were always looking for "…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 10:06 AM
3

Same! They're so deluded it's pathetic. As if anyone cares about crusty old NVM like them enough to waste their time and energy turning people against them... 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:07 AM
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I cut my NVM alcoholic narc dad off completely 5 years ago after he claimed my (then recently deceased) mother had "brainwashed" me against him because I'd finally worked up the nerve to confront him about abusing me as a kid. No big loss! 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 12:34 AM
5

Ugh, I'm so sorry that your sister (and other girls her age) have to grow up dealing with this nonsense. It's beyond messed up that pornsick gremlins like this can start flagrantly sexually harrassing girls so young, and that it's so common now that their victims just brush it off because no one is doing anything to stop it! 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 12:10 AM
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tbh I don't EVER see porn changing for the better because I feel like, now that people have easy (often free) access to it and are able to watch it obsessively, it's only going to continue to get more and more depraved and violent because they're getting more and more desensitized to it all. Personally, I hope there comes a point where society at large begins to realise how fucked up and unhealthy it is and starts to view anyone who watch it as deviant and gross again, but who even knows if that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 11:47 PM
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Same. The thought of my little niece growing up and dating guys who are even more openly depraved than this (because you know it's only going to keep getting worse, unless something major changes wrt pornography) because that's "normal" now makes me sick to my stomach... :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 11:59 AM
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Right? But, as far as they're concerned, it's a complete mystery why no self-respecting woman ever sticks around through their bullshit for long enough to sleep with them... morons. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 11:18 PM
8

I've never been through it myself but, having seen it from the outside a few times now, I'd say you DEFINITELY need to talk to a lawyer. You might think your (soon to be) ex will be reasonable if you tell him in no uncertain terms that you want a divorce but, based on friends' past experiences, that's precisely when he'll get malicious so you want to make sure you've got all your bases covered legally. Besides that, do you have any friends or family who'd be willing to help you out while you get…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 10:55 PM
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One of the guys I was dating before lockdown was super sweet and attentive one-on-one, but right before he introduced me to his friends for the first time he said he wouldn't be doing "anymore simping" while we were with them. How had he been simping? By showing attraction to and complimenting me, apparently. For context: I'm a little chubby (mostly in the boob/butt/hip region with a lil bit of tummy) which he was apparently into when we were alone together, but the instant we were around his fr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 09:39 PM
8

It mentions not choking in the FREEDOM part, so you know all of the pornsick scrotes would throw a shitfit over being kinkshamed, at the very least... 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 09:25 PM
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Ew, gross. 🤮 I quit OLD a while back so mine's not nearly as vile, but still 100% NVM material! I also got a ton of "why do I feel like there's something submissive about you?" and "would you like to dom me?" first messages because I guess I gave off polar opposite vibes depending on which pornsick loser was looking at my profile? lol. I would LOVE to know what makes guys confident enough to send any/all of the above, and what they think is gonna happen when a woman reads it! Like, is the goal r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 06:25 PM
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I really, really hope this is just some pornsick scrote making up stories because otherwise... damn. If it's real I hope she gets over her initial shock reaction of making excuses for him; if he wanted nothing to do with it or felt any amount of regret over drugging and raping her with his buddies then he wouldn't have kept the video OR stayed in contact with the friends he allowed to violate his (now) wife. Hopefully she divorces the POS rapist and starts legal proceedings against him and anyon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 03:10 PM
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I'd love to say I'm surprised by the comments, but it's Reddit so cOmMuNiCaTiOn is always the answer! Still, even if they can somehow overlook the most basic common sense and empathy it takes for a person to know they shouldn't dislocate their partner's jaw (even if it's this scrote's "kink" 🤮) this woman's clearly tried to communicate with him, and he showed absolutely no interest in not treating her like an object he can abuse to help him get off. I guess these redditors think she just needs t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 08:04 AM
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"I tried talking about it, but he says talking about it takes the magic away..." What the fuck kind of ~magic~ is there to seriously injuring your partner during sex, and why would you want to do it again!? (Spoilers: it's because he's a monster who doesn't give a shit if his partner suffers as long as he can get off.) She needs to get out before this escalates further, because it WILL and next time she might not survive the "magic".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 06:16 AM
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YUP. My oldest brother has a habit of commenting on outfits that are imo totally normal ("that dress is pretty short" when it's knee-length, or "ugh, gross, are you posting thirst traps now?" when I was wearing a band's tank top to a show once that I guess showed a little clevage, etc.) and it made me feel so uncomfortable that I stopped wearing said outfits for a while and deleted any photos of me in them from social media to be "safe". 🙄 In his case, I think it's less that he's being an outrig…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 06:02 AM
2

Sadly, yes. 😔 It totally put me off OLD because, by the second time, I was as careful as I could be about it all pre-meetup without asking for full names to check out social media profiles of any women I was chatting to for any obvious boyfriends/fiances/husbands, haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 01:43 PM
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Scrotes like this make a conscious decision to take their condom off during sex without their partner's consent - nothing passive about it, imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 08:09 AM
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I'm so sorry this creep and her rotted fiance tried to manipulate you into a threesome. I've been in a similar situation a couple of times over the years. :/ The first time I super was naive and new to online dating - I didn't realise this was even a thing that happened in real life, so I didn't pick up on any of the red flags! Thankfully, I always meet in public places so, when the woman I was meeting's husband appeared halfway through our date, I felt totally confident in walking out on them. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 10:36 AM
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"Male humor" is definitely just an excuse to be shitty to people. In my experience of being ~one of the guys~ when I was younger they don't really like when women tolerate and use it, either. Literally none of the guys I used to hang out with could take being on the receiving end of banter when it was coming from a girl, and they'd get super awkward whenever the objectifying bullshit was turned around on them (talking about their small/limp dicks and non-existent asses)... Weird, huh? 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 09:55 PM
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Right? UK size 10 isn't big at all! Back when I used to fit in an 8-10 I was struggling with anorexia so I thought I was huge but, when I look at old photos now, it's blatantly obvious I was starving myself. If these guys are into skinny girls, bully for them, but acting like size 10 is overweight by any stretch of the imagination is ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 06:16 PM
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As a bi woman, couples like these do my head in! Back when I was still wasting my time with OLD I set all my preferences to exclude or filter them out where possible, put an all caps disclaimer at the top of my profiles stating that I had NO interest in being in a poly relationship or being anyone's unicorn, and yet they still had the gall to clog up my DMs. When they get no interest on their joint profile they usually create a "solo" one (usually for the woman) in an attempt to manipulate queer…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 05:39 PM
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