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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Is she over me totally or hiding feelings , I'm not beta or in love . It's just kind of research based curiosity, OG's help decoding this. She has moved on, she sucked other guys, she is past, she is dead. You can't get over as long as you have "what ifs" or live in a fatasy. It was good, but it is over. Something better is waiting for you if you move forward.	/r/askTRP	26/08/17 09:43 AM
6	Coworker oneitis - need help please I've been there bro. It's frickin' tough, you're in a serious shit. It's because you're so Blue Pill that it hurts. Oneitis is a disease that's hard to cure. The only way is to ghost her, go monk mode, improve yourself, and most importantly: fuck other pussies. I am aware it is hard to ghost her since she is your coworker. If you'll be call out on it, it just means she doesn't respect you and is using you for attention and you're a pathetic beta orbiter. Anyway, your answer should be "I'm busy" …	/r/askTRP	26/08/17 09:33 AM
1	Having to see ex, annoyed Embrace the pain. Use it to fuel your anger and rip the gym apart. TRP tastes bitter. Ghost her and plate other chicks until you forget about her. If you meet her, say hi, then leave. Focus on having fun with your friends. Find new hobbies, join clubs to distract you. Doesn't matter what she thinks or does, she belongs to the past. She is just one out of hundreds. I used a technique when I had a similar situation, it's a bit of Cognitive Behaviour Therapy: When you see her, think it's not her. S…	/r/askTRP	26/08/17 09:05 AM
2	Should you show her jealousy? She is yours only temporarily. Jelousy is just a feeling, you feed it. Abundance mentality. Work on your insecurites. Don't get attached, let things go.	/r/askTRP	26/08/17 08:37 AM
1	Holding a frame when she says gut wrenching things "But when you have some sort of respect for the girl" This is where you went wrong. AWALT.	/r/askTRP	26/08/17 08:32 AM
27	Okay, how the hell do people pull off kinky shit like pissing on girls? Everyone is curious and would like to try some kinky stuff - even women. You lead in a relationship and in the bedroom too. I did it with two girls, both LTR. Women are like puppies: you have to set the boundaries, rules and authority by holding a strong frame at the start of a relationship. Then train them to behave accordingly - reward good/ punish bad. When it comes to sex; be playful, use dirty language, try role plays etc. If you only go for the vanilla stuff, you'll only get vanilla stuff.…	/r/askTRP	26/08/17 08:09 AM

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