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GentleDrift/r/seduction17/09/15 12:47 AM
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I'll read it if you add in a TLDR
/r/seduction13/10/17 04:02 PM
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You just need to decide what you want from women (one night stand, girlfriend, date, etc). The idea of going out and approaching women can seem terrifying, especially when you don't know what you want. Sure, you can walk up and say hi, but then what? You're asking for tips to make food without picking a specific recipe you want, so of course the thought of cooking sounds crazy to you Know what you want. It's all logistics
/r/seduction04/10/17 05:56 PM
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Wine and a bottle of Bacardi 151. For most girls, this will be the strongest drink they're ever had. We're almost taking it on a dare, it's more for thrills than enjoyable drinking. Plus, 1-2 shots is all it takes
/r/seduction03/10/17 05:55 PM
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If you genuinely agree, try adding on to what she says, or at least repeat what she says in your own words. It's called active listening
/r/seduction02/10/17 09:58 AM
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Just sway your body to the beat (less is more, so keep your arms and legs close unless you're actually good). If a girl grinds on you, don't be a pole, put your hands on her hips and try your best to move your hips in sync with her
/r/seduction02/10/17 09:55 AM
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When the only thing on your mind is to take her back to your clean apartment and fuck her, and you realistically have that goal in mind, words will come naturally, and even making out with her won't feel like that big of a deal If my one goal was to sell you a Harry Potter book, I might first ask you if you like reading and maybe if you like/have read any JK Rowling pieces. I don't bring up JK Rowling because it's some good tip I learned to sell Harry Potter books. I thought of it naturally beca…
/r/seduction02/10/17 09:35 AM
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It just seems kinda hard to believe that the earliest you could possibly arrange a quick meet up isn't until 5 days later. Are you both taking over 18 credits or something?
/r/seduction02/10/17 09:29 AM
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I believe your problem is logistics. You don't know what you want to do with these women ; all you know is that you like them and that, in many cases, they like you as well. You need to decide what you want (one night stand, a date, girlfriend, etc). Once you determine that, the rest is easy. If you just want to get laid that night, for example, start thinking from the point where you're already fucking her at your place, then work backwards from there to where you are now
/r/seduction02/10/17 09:25 AM
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Bump the date up to sooner. Why are you waiting so long to grab coffee
/r/seduction02/10/17 08:53 AM
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With tinder, being good looking won't even help you if you have shitty pictures. My sister is addicted to tinder because guys almost never approach her in bars, yet she has countless tinder matches. Just giving you an idea of the difference in competition
/r/seduction01/10/17 01:39 AM
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Confidence is attractive
/r/seduction22/09/17 06:24 AM
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I reread your post. Seems like your problem isn't so much that you're saying hi to girls, but rather why you're say hi to them. If you're saying hi to them, just for the sake of getting them to say hi back, that is kind of weird. If you plan to have a conversation, that's different. It's hard to talk to someone and strike up a conversation if you have no reason to talk to them. If you want more than an awkward hi back, decide what you want from a person before talking to them, whether it's a dat…
/r/seduction21/09/17 04:25 PM
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Dude, talk to girls like they're regular people. Lighten up lmao
/r/seduction21/09/17 07:27 AM
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Here's the harsh truth. Unattractive is creepy. Picture a male supermodel saying "Hey cutie, lemme eat that ass," VS an out of shape middle-aged guy with poor hygiene. You can appear more attractive by speaking with confidence and having good hygiene.
/r/seduction21/09/17 07:20 AM
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But actually what is your opinion on anal?
/r/seduction21/09/17 07:12 AM
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My favorite tip, is to just make her feel something. It's hard to describe without butchering its meaning
/r/seduction21/09/17 07:10 AM
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You have to make your intentions known early in the conversation and don't make a big deal out of it
/r/seduction21/09/17 06:58 AM
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A quality Fleshlight will make you think twice about putting women on a pedestal
/r/seduction16/09/17 11:37 AM
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By not keeping this to yourself, you'd probably find a metal head or at least someone open minded even faster
/r/seduction16/09/17 11:33 AM
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Pretty good video. You're right in that trying hard to get a girl to like you won't get you anywhere. However, actual logistics isn't about that at all. Ironically, understanding what you want as an end result and then screening girls who will give you just that IS logistics
/r/seduction16/09/17 11:31 AM
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Was in Mexico City last spring break. Could barely speak Spanish but the very little that I did know really flattered the locals
/r/seduction16/09/17 11:22 AM
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Tell your friend to shave his mustache
/r/seduction16/09/17 11:19 AM
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It's a really interesting concept. You just need some emotional response from women, whether positive or negative
/r/seduction14/09/17 08:22 PM
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You'll find a surprising amount of success in asking the girl when she plans to get YOU flowers
/r/seduction14/09/17 07:17 PM
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That's your problem. You shouldn't be subtle. There's no shame in talking to a girl because you find her attractive. Edit: People who feel they have to try to come off as genuine nice guys who aren't just after sex, are seen through immediately and come off as creepy or awkward. If you're really good at it, you'll be seen as friendly at best
/r/seduction10/09/17 09:59 AM
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When you talk to a girl you have to be able to envision her as your girlfriend. Start from the point where you're already dating and work backwards from there. See what you have to do. You'd probably have to go on some dates. Your mindset when you pick up ladies should be that you're gonna get them to join you for coffee or lunch, or watch that movie that they kinda wanna see etc
/r/seduction06/09/17 04:25 PM
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Sounds like your priorities are fucked up. If things were going super well, girls wouldn't ignore you. Before I help you, answer this: When you date a woman, what do you specifically want from them as an end goal?
/r/seduction06/09/17 09:02 AM
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This is so smart lol
/r/seduction06/09/17 08:57 AM
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First decide what you want. Do you want a girlfriend? Do you want to make out with her and/or fuck her? (There's no shame in wanting to). Deciding exactly what you want from her, that's the hardest and most important part. If you want sex, consider where you will fuck her, for example. If it would probably be in your dorm, invite her to watch a movie in your room while the roommates are out. You'll be surprised at what "just happens." Have a plan with a specific goal in mind
/r/seduction06/09/17 08:54 AM
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Ask her to keep you company for lunch or coffee
/r/seduction06/09/17 08:31 AM
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You're learning a bunch of cooking tips and then complaining that you can't cook anything. You need an actual recipe, a clear goal with a specific end result. Getting laid is all about logistics. If you want to get laid, then when you approach someone attractive, your mindset should be that you plan to take this person back to your place and fuck them in your already clean, parent-free place in the end, or something along those lines
/r/seduction06/09/17 08:14 AM
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Do you have trouble maintaining meaningful relationships in general? Do you have an excessive sex drive? False belief in superiority? Impulsivity? Racing thoughts? Maybe you have bipolar disorder. EDIT: I'm not a doctor and also I don't really know you, but maybe you should speak to one
/r/seduction29/08/17 08:58 AM
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That's the thing. Getting laid is all about logistics. It's hard to talk to someone if you don't want anything from them, and it's okay to talk to someone only wanting sex. It doesn't make you a sick perv. Try to imagine yourself already fucking the person, then work backwards from there
/r/seduction29/08/17 08:40 AM
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It's all about logistics. It's hard to talk to a stranger if you don't want anything from them. Have a reason to talk to people : lonely, need someone to watch movies with, want a girlfriend, want to get laid, etc.
/r/seduction29/08/17 07:24 AM
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Stand near the bar or near the bathrooms to meet girls. Being on the dance floor can get awkward fast if you haven't found someone to move with you yet.
/r/seduction04/12/15 02:24 PM
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Netflix at your place, lunch at your place, hookah/games/insert generic activity at your place
/r/seduction16/05/15 05:33 PM
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You could give off a non needy vibe. "Its alright we can just hang out another time". I don't know the full story, but I would just go on to the next one
/r/seduction09/05/15 07:00 AM
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You made out with her cheeks? I'm glad you made progress. I'd still say that you escalated a bit slowly.
/r/seduction09/05/15 06:33 AM
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You'll never know until you ask. And if you don't, the missed opportunity could eat away at you
/r/seduction10/04/15 02:16 AM
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If he's really your friend, you'll talk to him and settle this like gentlemen. However, keep in mind that bros prevail before hoes.
/r/seduction08/04/15 03:58 AM
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Treat them how you would any other girl. They still poop like everyone else. It's doesn't really matter what you say, as long as you're projecting it with confidence. You want to be a desirable person
/r/seduction02/04/15 03:42 AM
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Wherever you stand, make sure you're standing close to her. When guiding her through the line, try placing your hand on the small of her back. Works every time.
/r/seduction01/04/15 06:18 PM
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