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Honestly atm it sounds like you have a lot of personal issues that should be dealt with before you pursue romance. Chasing women in that state (and basing your happiness around that), will only cause oneitis and won't get you much success. Try to work on yourself. There are a lot of subs that are great for this. The basics you know: work on your body, build confidence, self esteem and last but not least independence.
/r/seduction03/09/16 11:54 AM
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It turns him on. Why do most of us love ass n' titties? We just do simple as that
/r/seduction18/02/16 04:54 PM
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Watch James Marshalls "What women want"
/r/seduction08/01/16 08:28 AM
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Umeå
/r/seduction03/11/14 06:34 PM
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This is not an uncommon concern. Even guys that are hung well above average have thoughts regarding their male weapon not being big enough. This fear/insecurity is however completely irrational (unless your something below 2-3 inches in which case she may feel awkward). Learn how to use your hands is key in overcoming this problem. If u can make her cum 1 or more times using only your hands and/or your tongue she is not going to give a single fuck about you not looking like a pornstar. The big t…
/r/seduction15/08/14 11:58 AM
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My best advice here is start raising the standards of the girls you date. I don't mean just physical appearance. For example, can she hold a long (interesting) conversation? Does she have her own (respectable) opinions. Is she passionate about the same stuff as you? (or at least somewhat close). At a younger age this will place a a lot of women under the bar, however there are girls that will figuratively blow your mind at any age. Once you date a person that you like, rather than just their bod…
/r/seduction15/05/14 08:23 AM
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Have nothing to add and as I feel my upvote didn't quite cut it, Great answer!
/r/seduction10/05/14 05:00 PM
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So first of feel free to accept my upvote, not because you deserve it but because the guys here seem to be giving you way more hate than you deserve. I would not say you are stupid, just acting and thinking through your emotions with is common for someone with less experience in the seduction field. And now to the tough love: Let's set aside the fact the there is an 8 year difference between the two of you and the fact that she is a stripper. Are you really ready to quit your job and move home t…
/r/seduction13/04/14 06:33 PM
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Love this idea! I don't know if that's what the song is called, but my hardcore metal friend ones showed me a song that went "She's gonna bleed from every fucking hole" Thoughts?
/r/seduction29/03/14 10:21 AM
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Best solution for this is probably to blur their faces out, or you could of course be a baws about it and just ask them
/r/seduction27/03/14 05:28 PM
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If there is two of you, challenge each other! Last one to approach has to [x], where x can be anything you feel like. Also if you see a 2-set, whoever goes in first, chooses first!
/r/seduction24/03/14 04:11 PM
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Push for the address!
/r/seduction12/03/14 06:16 PM
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So how about, approach another girl?
/r/seduction07/03/14 02:53 PM
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Best advice I can give you: Work on yourself so your self image is not dependent on what others (girls especially) think off you. Learn self amusement and to lead. From what I can tell you are making good progress, keep it up!
/r/seduction06/03/14 02:46 PM
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To add on this metaphor, to remove your swimming anxiety you need to realize that you can actually float. You don't need to kick and swim and exhaust yourself at all times to keep yourself from drowning. Pickup is the same way. One must understand that you don't need to bombard the girl with "golden lines" and witty sayings. Once you have opened on here, it's okey float on the metaphorical waves and let the interaction progress by itself, hence the expression: "Go with the flow"
/r/seduction06/03/14 01:35 PM
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This thread seems to have a lot of answers to how much eye contact there should be, so the only thing I'd like to add is how to break the eye contact. Seems stupid right? I mean only look away. The thing is, where you look away actually makes a big difference. If you look down, then that's a puss-out move. But if you look upwards or slightly to the side, then it's like you are thinking about something and you didn't look away because lack of confidence (or because it felt awkward). When you are …
/r/seduction05/03/14 12:32 PM
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As with so many other recent questions, James Marshall covers this in "What woman want", seriously just watch it.
/r/seduction04/03/14 11:56 PM
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As with all things in pickup, there is no golden line. Calibrate the situation. Personally I've done everything from "Your loss:)" to "Oh, I wasn't actually asking you out, this was my practice for when I meet Jennifer Lawrence". If they rejected you with a cold attitude (rarely but it can happen), you can be equally cold with your answer. I think a light jokes takes some off the pressure off and makes you seem less needy. It might not always be the best idea though
/r/seduction04/03/14 05:53 PM
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Step 3) .... Step 4) Profit! FTFY
/r/seduction27/02/14 04:04 PM
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I think everyone should see his What woman want speech, The 21 convention.
/r/seduction25/02/14 09:11 PM
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Open up your knowledgebasket because here it comes: Outcome independence Its value can't be overlooked. First off it will hinder you from becoming that needy creep that is no challenge and very unattractive. But the big one is that it almost removes approach anxiety. The reason is that once you realize that you have everything to gain from opening on a cute girl and literally nothing to lose there is no longer any justification for (I'm choosing not to sugarcoat it) being a pussy. Pickup being a…
/r/seduction23/02/14 12:24 AM
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This is completely not your fault whatsoever The harsh fact here is that it is in fact your fault. I'm not saying this to bash or stomp on you but quite simply you did not build enough attraction (chemistry). Scan through seddit and the sidebar, it should give you some advice on how to be more successful next time.
/r/seduction18/02/14 07:57 PM
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You are NOT a failure! By being here, by using this awesome community to better yourself, you are taking action. Sure it's baby steps, you cannot step from the first to the last step of a ladder without taking the steps in between (unless it's some kind of kidladder that's only like 2 feet long..(for this metafor to make sense at all imagine a tall ladder)). If you put in the work and maybe with a little bit of luck some steps can be skiped. But it's important to note that learning seduction and…
/r/seduction17/02/14 03:14 PM
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No, because it's situational. Every girl is different and appreciates different things. Honestly I think you should tailor it around you and your interests, if it's stuff you are familiar with it's easier to keep the conversation flowing. In my experience the most important thing is how well you and that girl connect and doing this is way easier if you step up and lead her.
/r/seduction16/02/14 07:00 PM
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If you are looking for some magical answer like: Go to the library! All the amazing intelligent bitches hide out in there. That's not gonna happen. Women who will dazzle your mind can be found everywhere (yes even in clubs and bars at times). In my experience being picky about a girls qualities actually works in your favor since she will a lot of the time get stuck in a mindset where she has to qualify herself to you (which is a good thing). I think what you are doing right now is making up excu…
/r/seduction16/02/14 03:25 PM
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Prof. Oak would like to tell you: "There's a time and place for everything! But not now."
/r/seduction14/02/14 09:30 PM
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Girls are not stupid, they know what's up. Every time you show interest (in what ever way you choose to do it) she will either accept (in which case you can gently escalate) or reject (in which case you take a step back and try to build more attraction before trying again). Pay attention to her at all times. If she is clearly not interested, NEXT! But to give so examples in case you were only looking for concrete answers: Strong eye contact (can't stress this enough), keno and show interest in w…
/r/seduction05/02/14 07:55 PM
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I like it, an easy way to escalate the relationship but also but also a first class ticket to the friendzone if you misuse it. Since you can show pictures of yourself and what you do it can give of the feeling that you are spending more time with your target, which I think builds comfort. You can also flirt here way better than over a text which I think is good. But you should match her response times and also do, for the love of [insert you religions overhead here] not spam. You have a personal…
/r/seduction01/02/14 02:21 PM
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So a little slow with this response. This may sound a little weird but try to move the smile from your mouth into your eyes. The eyesmile while the rest of your face is not looking as amused for some reason gives a very a peeling look. If you look at males models this is what they do a lot of the time. Some refer to is as the "smirk", and it is imo mighty powerfull.
/r/seduction30/01/14 10:20 PM
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Mate, I'm gonna give you this upvote because I see myself in how you handled this. But this was not a shit test as it was a flirty way of telling you: Kiss me!
/r/seduction22/01/14 03:55 PM
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Not a PUA, so take my advice with a grain of salt. Me and my friend wing each other a lot with a very varying degree of results. The way we work is basically; It's the wingsmans job to help with the isolation. If your friend can't create a spark with said girl, there is really nothing you can do. But if a spark of chemistry is there, help it turn into a flame. For example if your friends target is with someone or even if she is in a group, You as the wingman take on the task of occupying the oth…
/r/seduction28/12/13 11:54 PM
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