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| 10 | How to deal with aggressive female cockblockersYes but wave it side to side like a flare and chuck it just like that one dude did in Jurassic Park. | /r/seduction | 10/07/26 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Going to her place.Taste the rainbow | /r/seduction | 07/07/26 11:37 PM |
| 2 | What's the fastest you've hooked up with someone ?For a complete stranger, about 30ish minutes. | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 01:03 PM |
| 4 | Is dating younger college girls worth it ?Bro, jackin' off to the idea of the hot girl you blew it with from your date doesn't count as sex. I'm sorry man, don't mean to be the bearer of bad news. | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 07:02 PM |
| 3 | How many women are you currently seeing at once? And is she aware that you're dating multiple people?Men and women do it. Nothing wrong or disgusting about it unless you’re exclusive with a person or persons. | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 04:10 PM |
| 2 | What would you do? I’m a lifeguard at a waterpark.Hey man. Don’t be an ahole, I’m trying to work with the info I got or as I get it lol But whatever aside I’m hoping you get laid and get paid. That’s what it is all about | /r/seduction | 14/08/25 08:46 PM |
| 4 | What would you do? I’m a lifeguard at a waterpark.Bro idk your life story lol. You telling me there isn’t some cute slide operator or custodial chick or something? Cmon man. I know we all want that shiny golden apple hanging from the top of the tree but sometimes we got to settle for the fallen, slightly rotten ones. | /r/seduction | 14/08/25 08:40 PM |
| 5 | What would you do? I’m a lifeguard at a waterpark.I hear you dude but I’m happy you got your water. That sht it’s important. Idk man. Hit up other guards. That’s what I use to do. | /r/seduction | 14/08/25 08:26 PM |
| 35 | What would you do? I’m a lifeguard at a waterpark.Guard your water lol | /r/seduction | 14/08/25 08:20 PM |
| 5 | HAVE YOU EVER BEEN DIRECT AND TOLD A WOMAN?: “LET’S FUCK.”I’ve had some weirdly successful moments. Not a lot, but enough to remember. Years ago, pre-pandemic, I mass messaged girls on Tinder with “it’s the end of the world, let’s do a little anal” because this big hurricane was suppose to hit where I lived. One girl replied, “not down for anal, but down to fuck.” I honestly thought she was trolling me. A few hours later, we met up and fucked in my car. Another time, back when I was a CP at Disney, this girl I wasn’t even into (she was a bit husky) ins… | /r/seduction | 12/08/25 07:53 PM |
| 0 | Going to Japan but there is one little thing I’m concerned about……It’s not, but I take that as a compliment. | /r/seduction | 11/08/25 02:30 AM |
| 11 | Going to Japan but there is one little thing I’m concerned about……It's not though. Japan is a very male dominated society. To say misogyny doesn't exist there denies the reality that is. Likewise, Freud was somewhat right about how men, especially in male dominated cultures, view their Madonnas versus how they view their mistresses ("whores"). | /r/seduction | 09/08/25 10:24 PM |
| 9 | Going to Japan but there is one little thing I’m concerned about……Freud described what’s now called the “Madonna–whore complex,” where some men split women into two extremes: those like the Virgin Mary (“Madonna”) as the pure, untouchable ideal, and the “whore” as the sexual object. The “Madonna” is respected but often seen as off limits sexually, while the “whore” is desired precisely because she’s devalued. Let's be honest, he wasn't necessarily wrong here. There’s a real subset of men fixated on purity, we see it all the time in culture and online. On the f… | /r/seduction | 09/08/25 10:21 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys feel about opening the car door for the girl?I don’t. Flowers on a date are nice. I don’t know if I’d do it on a first date. | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 02:33 PM |
| 4 | Is there a good guide for nudes/dick pics for men - with photos?Yeah the dirty bedroom/bathroom is any photo, guy or girl, nude or not, is well gross. Like I get being your real self but with dating, especially with strangers, try to put your best self forward. | /r/seduction | 27/07/25 05:37 PM |
| 9 | I invited a woman back to my apartment but she passed outIt’s like that one scene in Animal House and guess what man, you did the right thing. Good on you. And no shopping carts were needed. | /r/seduction | 20/07/25 04:28 PM |
| 1 | How much sex happens in party hostels?Wasn’t there a movie about this? | /r/seduction | 14/07/25 01:13 PM |
| 24 | Yall ever use reddit as a dating app?Not for dating, but I've met and fucked people from Reddit. Actually one of the best fwb was a girl I connected with on Reddit. Phenomenal in bed. | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Is there any point in approaching women until I've lost weight?If you can approach women as a chub, then by the time you lose weight, you’ll be able to approach them as not a chub. | /r/seduction | 01/06/25 02:23 PM |
| 1 | How come some guys become less cool as soon as they get a gfI think a lot of it is complacency. If you’re single you’re actively looking for dates and to get laid. As soon as you have that consistency, you suddenly find yourself not needing to try as hard. | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 04:30 PM |
| 31 | If girls keep asking if you're gay, it might just mean you're attractive.Just pretend that you are, become their best friend and cue terrible romcom plots from the 90s and early 2000s. | /r/seduction | 06/05/25 12:37 AM |
| 3 | How does one ask out a serverCame here looking for a response like this. | /r/seduction | 05/05/25 07:16 PM |
| 1 | How different is dating and pulling girls in Islamic countries?I didn’t say it was or wasn’t made up of “believing Muslims.” All I said was that it was historically secular due to the immense influence of Kemalism. France has historically been predominantly full of “believing Catholics” it also has a 100+ year tradition of laicite. | /r/seduction | 03/05/25 09:57 AM |
| 24 | How different is dating and pulling girls in Islamic countries?But it’s more cultural. Turkey has a long history of secularism dating back to Kemal. But ever since Erdogan it’s taken an unfortunate conservative, religious shift. | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys approach looking rough or you try to look your best?Perhaps in a relationship but right off the bat of meeting someone? Nah fuck that. | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys approach looking rough or you try to look your best?Depends how much I’ve had to drink. | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 02:50 PM |
| 122 | She's a "10" but she doesn't suck D and hard to satisfy in bed. | She's a "6" easy to please, but prefers pleasing you. Which one you keeping?Best sex I ever has was with a girl who was a 4/5. She wasn’t fat (not that there’s anything wrong with that btw, just not my thing), just skinny, taller and lanky but man did she fuck like a champ lol | /r/seduction | 25/04/25 04:41 AM |
| 1 | I find majority of girls boring, what can I do?Become more interesting. | /r/seduction | 24/04/25 06:06 AM |
| 47 | Went to a Café Alone Today and Just Watched People Interact...“Then I posted about it on Reddit on my smartphone.” | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 11:24 PM |
| 3 | HSV (herpes)Isn’t there a notable difference between the one everybody (oral) has versus the one that’s an STD? | /r/seduction | 16/04/25 07:39 PM |
| 13 | should you fuck mids for experience ?The best sex I ever had was with a 5, the worst was with a 10. | /r/seduction | 18/03/25 02:52 PM |
| 2 | What does it mean "I like you a lot but I can't sleep with you"It means it’s time to move on. Don’t burn bridges, you never know, but don’t waste the energy and effort in trying to tap that ass. | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 03:27 AM |
| 21 | Most promiscuous city you've been to?Well the idea of an American husband and/or money. | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Muslim girl Rejected me ( I'm an atheist)Just be like “yo girl, you make me want to fatwa all over ya.” Wins ‘em over 0% of the time. | /r/seduction | 22/01/25 03:29 PM |
| 1 | How do you escalate during a quick coffee date?means multiple biscuits Yah it does | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 02:13 PM |
| 4 | How do you escalate during a quick coffee date?Here’s what you do. You buy a biscotti. And you dip it into your coffee. First you just gently tap the surface of it. Maybe slap it with your biscotti a little bit. Then you push that biscotti into the coffee, moving it around, feelings the dimensions of the cup as you do, then you pull it out a little and push back in. Then pull it out again and push back in again but angling it against the left side of the coffee cup, letting it drag against that side as you pull it out again and push it back … | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 05:47 AM |
| 3 | Can you actually find FWB hookups on reddit?Yep. Met quite a few. Full disclosure it’s an uphill battle though. Honestly better to meet somebody in person unless you’re looking for a niche or something. | /r/seduction | 18/12/24 09:11 PM |
| 10 | Wtf is up with bumble in Latin AmericaIt’s like a cabby driver in Panama once told my friend and me, “$5 for 5 minutes.” | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 06:42 AM |
| 14 | Wtf is up with bumble in Latin AmericaYes | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 05:25 AM |
| 0 | What job profession have you seduced the most and why?Medical and retail. | /r/seduction | 09/12/24 06:46 PM |
| 1 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?A 3.5. She was chubby, maybe cute if she lost the weight but I really don’t like bigger girls. | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 02:09 AM |
| 3 | Is it different if a woman has had 100+ partners compared to a man with an equal amount?Yeah, I’m honestly tired of all this “evolutionary speaking” pseudoscience people throw around to explain what kind of men women want or why women behave a certain way. Like, the existence of the pill alone proves humans aren’t just driven by some biological urge to reproduce. It’s oversimplified nonsense—kind of like social Darwinism, but even dumber. | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 04:53 PM |
| 6 | Is it different if a woman has had 100+ partners compared to a man with an equal amount?Ngl I prefer women with a higher “body count,” they usually know what they are doing. As long as they are clean, smash on. | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 04:47 PM |
| 3 | How Porn is Secretly Killing Your Dating Life“And don’t forget that Eminem and his raps and playing the gta is making american kids little violent punk criminals.” /s | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 03:38 PM |
| 6 | My gf had a threesome in the past now I want to have one tooThis can’t be real. Of course it can be. Doesn’t make it good or even acceptable. But I can easily believe it’s real. | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 03:09 AM |
| 2 | I’m just going to cut my shit off and be a Unic…of a plan. | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 02:42 PM |
| 28 | I'm 29, and pulled a 9/10 18yo while in Aspen, feeling guilty and a bit depressedI doubt OP was looking to talk with them too much. | /r/seduction | 06/08/24 11:13 PM |
| 3 | Men who are in long term relationships - did you ever feel that you will ‘miss out’?Honestly, yes. Been dating my SO for a couple years now and I do miss the chase sometimes lol | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 04:25 PM |
| 2 | 33 yrs old man, bored ladies of all ages are welcome to dmI’m usually all for shooting your shot but cmon this is lazy. | /r/seduction | 04/06/24 05:43 AM |
| 15 | How do you text multiple girls at once to see who's free tonight?Just do a group chat and be like “hey who is free?” What could go wrong, I know /s | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 03:49 PM |
| 13 | Not interested in relationships, do true FWB's exist?The thing is somebody or everybody will eventually develop some feelings, the amount varies but it’s inevitable, especially the more you see that person. Now if it’s a ONS and you never see them again, that’s something very different. | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 12:32 PM |
| 2 | How do people manage to have sex with someone they don't know well?It being exciting and new. | /r/seduction | 03/03/24 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls only call me `cute’ and `handsome’ and rarely `sexy’.Nothing wrong with that. | /r/seduction | 12/08/23 12:00 PM |
| 3 | Match with a girl and later found out she's anorexic help^ This guy spends most of his “dating time” fcking his hand (and now we know why). | /r/seduction | 16/07/23 05:01 PM |
| 23 | Do you guys rack up bodies with girls you aren’t extremely interested in?You know I’ve been around the block quite a few times. Can say some of the best sex I’ve ever had (talking the pele of anal here) was with a girl who was a 5 at best. She may have been tall and lanky. But man oh man did she fuck like a champ. | /r/seduction | 13/07/23 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Would you fuck a girl who likes guys barebacking her, but is on prEp?I would but I like to live dangerously. Jokes aside. It’s up to you. As others have said STDs and pregnancy are both real risks. | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Looking For Wingmen in NJ + Good Places to Find Wingmen?Home Depot | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 06:07 AM |
| 0 | Does this sound like sex addiction?Not gonna lie, I’ve been around the block a few times and I can say I’ve jerked off after sex. It’s kinda hot to think about the person you’ve just fucked, etc. | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Does this sound like sex addiction?Those are rookie numbers. | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 12:33 AM |
| 7 | Unpopular hot take: Most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex, but we're under pressure to make moves or else we'll be friendzoned.I play it by ear tbh. There’s no specific set time. If she’s not feeling it, that’s perfectly ok. I respectfully make my intentions/interests clear from the start and move on. | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 09:39 PM |
| 9 | Unpopular hot take: Most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex, but we're under pressure to make moves or else we'll be friendzoned.I definitely mind waiting. With that said I want her to want it too and if she doesn’t that’s ok, I’m gonna move on. Plenty of fish in the sea. | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 06:18 PM |
| 1 | how do I stop fucking girls I'm not into?It’s easier that’s why. | /r/seduction | 15/10/22 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Cold approached a girl now i'm embarrassed of her what should I do?Just because you dress your hand up and give handys behind your local Dennys does not make a gf you have. Jks aside what the hell has happened to this sub. It use to be alright. | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Had a great first date, now I think I'm being ghostedSounds like it’s time to move on. | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Should I Join A Church Group Just For The Purpose Of Meeting Women?You know I lost my virginity on a mission trip. Did a ton of stuff at church with both guys and girls (I’m heteroflexible). Hell first girl I crushed hard on as an adult was while attending a friends in house Bible study led by his dad while I was in college. So go for it. Worse case scenario you put yourself through some horseshit for an hour or two. Best case, you get more ass than a Walmart toilet seat (not from church alone but you get my point hopefully). | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 11:51 PM |
| 1 | I hate being a virgin as a 21F but I don’t believe in hookup culture. What now?When did this sub become a relationship one? It’s about seducing somebody or somebodys. Not a “how do I get a SO?” | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 03:41 PM |
| 8 | Had a night out with a girl and things were perfect but..Well you should have. It’s Reddit lol a place where eventually all jokes are made | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 02:33 PM |
| 1 | How do I get over the fact that I won't have sex until I'm a adult in my 20s and missed out on sex and dating as a teenager?You just do. I mean short of having a time machine, there isn’t much you can do. So accept the situation, work on getting paid and getting laid | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Advice on age gapYou’d be surprised. My mindset is as long as everybody is consenting, go for it. | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 04:40 PM |
| 9 | does anyone know where to find hookups?Behind Dennys | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 03:39 AM |
| 3 | I had a few one night stands this year and realized I am a relationship guyEh, my guess is you’re probably not as great in the sheets as you think are. Having a big cock ain’t all that it’s cracked up to be. | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 01:30 PM |
| 10 | Her friend is way more my typeSuggest a ménage a trois. It sorta worked out for Seinfeld. | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 04:27 PM |
| 1 | I don’t think relationships are for meYah at 23 you totally have an idea of what you want. | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 06:32 PM |
| 3 | How to stop caring what she’s doing?I’d still give a damn if somebody stole my car tbh I mean that’s my car! (It’s not a great last point tbh but what you’re trying to say is absolutely right- if all your attention is on one person you’re more likely to be affected by that person). | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 12:29 PM |
| 1 | How can I (M22) ask her (F21) to shave down there?I mean why not lol | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 12:56 PM |
| 4 | How can I (M22) ask her (F21) to shave down there?As your about to go down on her, blare ‘welcome to the jungle’ | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 11:45 AM |
| 1 | 30 year old delivering pizzas on side. 40s sexy cougar seems to like meDick in a [pizza] box. One, cut a hole in a box. Two put your junk in that box. Three make her open that box and that’s the way you do it. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 01:13 PM |
| 4 | I need help or advice into what I can do to stay hard during sexI’m just gonna say it: stop smoking. Weed can do this to you. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Should I refrain from mentioning I go to therapy to a girl.Not something to bring up on the first date necessarily. Maybe after some time or if it’s somebody you’re seeking a relationship with, then of course. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 04:59 PM |
| 0 | is your goal one woman or multiple?Bro you’re missing my point. You have this opinion for a reason. Either you’re an incel, you had a shitty experience with a chick, or both. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 12:34 AM |
| 2 | is your goal one woman or multiple?She probably has that OF account because your insecurities result in over the top attempts to control and jealousy. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 02:16 PM |
| 1 | is your goal one woman or multiple?Great comment | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 02:15 PM |
| 27 | Tinder is a MASSIVE waste of timeIt actually was less cringey. Values change, cultures and ideas change. Not saying this makes anything ok. But back then being a self proclaimed PUA garnered eye rolls. Not as much cringe as it does today. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 12:27 AM |
| 3 | Using the word "simp" to put men down is honestly a major sign of douchebagMaybe. But douchebags get laid more than simps. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Help me heal guys!!You should go back to that Publix, smear honey and mustard on your bare chest, and start yelling obscenities in German to protest the Russian invasion of the Ukraine. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 02:02 PM |
| 1 | 'Dating 10/10 model girl' - Girl night outs - what is acceptable and what is not.Some jealousy is normal. If it’s controlling you and how you act it’s gone too far. If somebody wants to cheat, they’re going to and you can’t stop that. If it happens, you move on. Accept that. If you can’t help but think it’s always happening regardless of the person you date, then you need to stop dating and see a therapist. Because it means you’re very insecure. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 08:46 PM |
| 15 | Cut off creepy friendsTo be fair, he’s not your friend. He decided you weren’t worth hanging out back in the day. A friend is worth sticking around for. A bad friend isn’t your friend. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 03:57 PM |
| 2 | She said “guys don’t understand that if a woman wears a matching bra & thong set as he’s getting her naked, it wasn’t him that decided to have sex”I mean it is a woman’s choice. It’s also your choice too. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 03:55 PM |
| 11 | How did you meet your current or last fuck buddy?In a line at a coffee shop | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 06:44 PM |
| 50 | How did I fumble all girls last nightHold your liquor better my man. You think and act more clearly. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 04:15 PM |
| 2 | You're talking to a girl you approached and her boyfriend appears. What do you do?Make her watch. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 01:49 PM |
| 1 | After first approach in ages I was told to kill myself. Should I continue with seduction?Gotta start reading up on those Winston Churchill quips. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Guy at work i likeEat fresh! | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 12:48 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on guys, men, who lose theri virginity to an escort, prostitute/hooker, or sex worker? or go to one on a very long dryspell?Friend did this and he was happy. Hell I took him there. It is what it is. Personally I found out I enjoy the challenge. | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 09:34 PM |
| 1 | I'm asian (23F) I need an advice, I really into caucasian/white guysOk, that makes more sense lol | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 01:49 PM |
| 1 | I'm asian (23F) I need an advice, I really into caucasian/white guysYou’re not continuing any logic, your supplanting your feelings in place of my objective logic. I have to chuckle at this a little. Unless you're talking numbers, there is no objective truth here. It's a matter of opinion, an interpretation of events, shaped by our own life experiences and biases. I’m not racist; you can speak for yourself. Oh, sweet, simple summer child. We're all racist, whether we realize it or not. Want to know the sad truth? You’re mad you’re not white. Which is sad. You sh… | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 01:40 PM |
| 0 | I'm asian (23F) I need an advice, I really into caucasian/white guysOf course I’m racist. We all are. But I’m willing to admit that bias exists. And that goes a long way into saying it’s not even there. With that said, I’m continuing your logic or lack thereof. Putting words in your mouth- not so much. Showing how absurd the narrative of race is just a preference. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 01:12 PM |
| -1 | I'm asian (23F) I need an advice, I really into caucasian/white guysThere’s a degree of depth here that I admit is probably lost on you and that’s alright. Ignorance and bliss usually go hand in hand. tl;dr historically/presently race isn’t your typical “preference,” unless I missed the part of history class where they went over short men being enslaved or bald men being segregated. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 01:09 PM |
| -2 | I'm asian (23F) I need an advice, I really into caucasian/white guysApples and oranges, friend. An obese person doesn’t have to remain obese. And you’re right anybody who writes off somebody based on their height or the amount of hair they have (or don’t) is shallow. But again apples and oranges. Because race is in a whole different ballpark. Because in modern history, race is a unique factor and it has played and continues to play a huge role. And based on that race, societal and cultural treatments and norms have varied greatly. Based on your race alone, could… | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 12:59 PM |
| 7 | Went on a date with a coworker, and it went alright. She throws out mixed signals, and I talked to a few coworkers to get their opinion. What are the odds they told her?Coworkers talk. Some more than others. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 12:43 PM |
| -3 | I'm asian (23F) I need an advice, I really into caucasian/white guysYou’re right a preference is a preference and there isn’t anything wrong with that. Writing off an entire ethnic group isn’t a preference. It’s what we call a racism. Let me guess - You’re as white as the snow is before somebody takes a piss in it? | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 12:40 PM |
| 4 | I'm asian (23F) I need an advice, I really into caucasian/white guysThere isn’t some “force.” It’s called you crave and make exotic something you don’t have. Cultural shifts and values also play into this. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 12:26 PM |
| 1 | I'm asian (23F) I need an advice, I really into caucasian/white guysThere’s a difference between preference versus writing off an entire ethnicity. Sadly the OP is the latter. My preference is Latina and my least is AA and Asian. Funny enough, two of my longest lasting relationships was with an Asian chick and a girl who was half black. The point is while neither were my preference, I fell for the person. Not their race. I certainly never asked “how do I avoid black girls?” With that said, this sub is a shell of its former self. Full of right-wing gits and incel… | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Do people cuddle after the first time they have sex?Yah exactly. This is why OxyContin is bad! /s | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Do people cuddle after the first time they have sex?Emotions are always involved, just to varying degrees. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 05:42 PM |
| 1 | This shit is tiringDepends tbh | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 02:24 PM |
| -8 | This shit is tiringThat’s not true at all. Those things improve your odds sure but women have to do more than just “spread… [their] legs.” | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Things I can't tell my fwbDude, truth is either your experience is limited or you’ve been boinking mostly women you didn’t like/find attractive/were lame in the sack. Now you found one that is whatever - super great by your standards- don’t cock it up by getting all “omg her puss is gold, let me place on a pedestal” and go from fuckbuddy to cringey cringe master and fuck up the dynamic. Go for the ride, if things develop sweet. If not there are other sweet strange out there. Considering the number of people in the world … | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 09:43 PM |
| 0 | Things I can't tell my fwbLust and love are not the same thing. Also this sounds super cringe. Like c’mon. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 09:32 PM |
| 6 | She was doing this to me at the beach, does she like me?Power!!! | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 07:35 AM |
| 2 | If you masturbate in three to five minutes for a dopamine fix you may be setting yourself up for premature ejaculation later in life.I did but emphasis being past tense. Bare in mind this was when I was a teen. I’m currently 30. Not gonna lie and say not having premature is the worst thing in the world. But lasting too long or not being able to come can be… frustrating for me and them. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 01:16 PM |
| 84 | If you masturbate in three to five minutes for a dopamine fix you may be setting yourself up for premature ejaculation later in life.I can tell you this is not the case. I use to masturbate quite a bit as a kid. Quite a bit. And my problem as an adult isn’t coming to quickly, it’s taking to long or just not being able to. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Not getting laid? Go travelling !Panama is pretty great. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 02:36 PM |
| 3 | First cold approach at 36Attraction is relative if we are being honest here. Some people find older people more attractive and some people find younger people attractive. The simplistic black and white mindset is just that: simplistic. | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 06:23 PM |
| 7 | First cold approach at 36I’ve seen kids who are chubby and knew people at college who were balding and wrinkly, people who were overweight also happen to have sagging/droopy skin. | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 04:38 PM |
| 1 | why are girls so self entiled and bitchyWhy are you? | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 11:45 PM |
| 0 | Girl I'm seeing told me shes been with tons of dudes with huge cocks.This. This. THIS. Like fuck what the hell is wrong with you all? So fucking what if she’s a vestal virgin (ok depending on age maybe some concern) or has had a thousand guys before you (provided she doesn’t have an STD, not to say more partners means STDs, it takes only one, just a greater chance for exposure). Do you like her? Do you find her attractive? Does she like you? Find you attractive? Yah? Ok. Stfu and go along with it. Stop bitching and moaning about how “uh she’s practically a whore.… | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 10:17 PM |
| 2 | She didn’t mentioned she’s marriedThere are plenty of married women (and their husbands) that are open to that sort of thing. | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 02:43 PM |
| 24 | Here you're sitting thinking about Push Pull Theory, Escalation Ladders, Inner Game and Eckhart Tolle. Meanwhile girls will literally fuck guys because they are bored, want weed, are lonely, have nothing better to do.It’s like listening to a Christian bale internal dialogue in American psycho minus the charisma but with being slightly autistic and an average looking beta male who doesn’t do 600 sit ups a day. | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Movies that show seduction properlyGGW | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 12:51 PM |
| 3 | Would you approach two women at a coffee shop talking to each other loudly, laughing..Smiling and looking at you. They're both cute and how would chose?Oh fuck. I don’t know why that made me laugh so hard. Take my up vote you son of a gun. | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 07:04 AM |
| 2 | The girl I’m seeing will tell me stuff about her life that bothers me low key.So I don’t chime in here often. Although I use to under a different account. But if this person’s habits and sense of humor bother you this much this early on… then I’m not sure why you think it will get better later on in an actual relationship. Look there are always going to be things that bother us about other people, especially people we’re fucking/dating/seeing/whatever. You have to gauge to what degree they bother you and go from there. | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 06:47 PM |
| 58 | Just got an in a heated argument with my exNot to sound like an ass but what’s this have to do with seduction? | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 05:01 AM |
| 17 | How to prevent weirdo vibesDude. No means NO. Move the fuck on. You’re not gonna convince her or change her mind. You’re just creeping her out more and more. Every additional text, call, message, dm, etc. is just making it worse and worse. So stop. | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 06:41 AM |
| 2 | I feel like this abundance of sex is not what I wantedI also think some people have bad experiences as well. But yes the resentment is definitely a factor. Have a friend who thought casual sex was not for him then he got laid and lo and behold, it suddenly was ok lol | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 04:17 PM |
| 4 | I dated a girl everything was perfect until her ex is in the picture..You move on. It sucks but it happens. If she was into you or wanted more, she’d let you know. But she doesn’t. So move on. Edit: also when the fuck did this become a dating sub. | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 02:39 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Random King of the Hill quotes. Works every time. And by every time, I mean just some but really just a few of the time. | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 02:35 PM |
| 15 | I feel like this abundance of sex is not what I wantedIt’s a constant back and forth. You crave what you don’t have and hate (well maybe not hate) what you have an abundance of. I literally bounce between periods of seeking just casual sex and wanting something more. Usually after an extended period of either. I wish I had a better answer, but I don’t. | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 08:07 AM |
| 32 | How to deal with close female friends who you find out are warning women against youThey’re not your friends, simple as that. | /r/seduction | 06/02/22 06:08 PM |
| 13 | One word. Indifference.I think people forget one thing about getting laid: it's not that hard. (That's what she said, oh wait...) Jokes aside. The best advice I got well over a decade ago and the best advice I can give is to put yourself out there and live. Join a gym, dine in once and a while (instead of taking food to go), go to a bar on the weekend, join a social activities group, etc. Over time you'll become more and more comfortable being who you are. Instead of being who you think you should be. You won't be obs… | /r/seduction | 06/02/22 12:49 AM |
| 0 | How should you ask her if she has a boyfriend?Not your problem, tbh | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Is it normal to feel guilty for wanting women?Gotcha. The inability to catch the tone behind text can be hard to get a good read out of it. | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal to feel guilty for wanting women?Wait was that a swipe at me? | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 04:57 PM |
| 31 | Is it normal to feel guilty for wanting women?Holy shit, this sub has changed since I use to frequent it way back when…. (Like A LOT more incels). No it’s not wrong to want women. I’m a dude and I want women and occasionally men. And sometimes I’m just doing my own thing. Neither is right or wrong, it just is. As long as everybody is consenting, have fun. | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 03:56 PM |
| 1 | In online dating, is it wrong to go for a woman even if she only wants a relationship?I always tell women I’m just keeping it casual. Not opposed to something more meaningful down the road. Some like that, some don’t. Some hear what you’re saying and some think after a night or two of dicking around, they’ll change you. Just be honest, man. They don’t like it, find somebody else. If they say ok, hopefully they truly understand what that means. | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 12:47 AM |
| 1 | How can I escalate on girls at a college party?God that title. | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 01:32 PM |
| 17 | Do girls like to get picked on by guys?It stands for “shake my vagina.” I know doesn’t make sense in the context it was used. Strange times we live in. | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 01:34 AM |
| 2 | How to handle situation where girl isn't over her ex?Depends what you’re looking for. If you’re looking for a relationship, then you are most likely out of luck. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Should I stop sleeping with my hookup buddy if I’m starting to like him?Wait you guys have boned 3x and he asked if you loved him the second time? Uuuhhhhhh….. | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 02:51 PM |
| 3 | Still using the same pickup lines 12 years later. And they still workXD haha | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Gym girlsDamn bro, who hurt you? | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Gym girlsIf you truly think that’s the sole reason, the reason at all instances or the reason for all women… you’re a fool. Physical attraction matters of course. But it’s not the only thing that matters. So yes, you’re being an incel. | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Gym girlsFound the incel | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 11:04 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Eiffel Tower. This solves all problems. | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 12:31 AM |
| 2 | What kind of apartment is best for picking up women55+ | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 01:45 PM |
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