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| 7 | Greeting a group of girls with "Hey guys" | GeorgeWashingmachine | /r/seduction | 19/12/13 06:29 PM |
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| 5 | Best ways to dance?Yeup, be yourself and have fun. Those who dance thinking "wow I must look so awkward right now" tend to look awkward. People want to be around people that have fun with life. My friend and I collaborate fun dance moves together. They're usually on the spot at parties. Our recent "go-to" has been to "move like bernie" together when we hear the chorus of "Talk Dirty To Me" by Jason Derulo. It's hysterical and everyone in the party gets hyped up by our dance. It builds the environment and gets peop… | /r/seduction | 18/04/14 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Holy hell it works!Nice work! Don't wait too long to text her, she might forget who you are/no longer be interested in finding out who you really are. | /r/seduction | 11/04/14 05:21 AM |
| 5 | Girl way out of my league is into me, what do I do?MLS Major League Seduction | /r/seduction | 29/03/14 02:21 PM |
| 3 | What are some good first date ideas?I'd never bring a girl to a party as a first, second, third, fourth or any date for that matter. There are so many drunk horndogs at college parties it's stupid. Last semester some kid nearly came after me with a few of his friends after I told him the girl I was leaving with didn't want his number because she already had mine. Stick to something simple. Go for a walk or grab a non-alcoholic drink together somewhere (tea, smoothie, coffee, etc.) | /r/seduction | 27/03/14 05:31 AM |
| 1 | I got her number... What now?Winter time: go sledding and have some playful snowball fights. I'm 20 years old and still love the sensation of nailing someone in the face with a well formed snowball (don't do this with your date for obvious reasons). Not winter time: go for a walk and catch the sunset somewhere. | /r/seduction | 23/03/14 06:56 PM |
| 1 | K-close, awesome mojo, gave her my number...Girls don't like to initiate the first contact. It puts a lot of the pressure on them. Keep that in mind for the future. Instead of talking about things you should have done, I'm just going to give you some suggestions: If you aren't going to see this girl again unless if you meet up, may as well add her on Facebook with the risk of being labeled as clingy. Whatever, that's the worst that can happen, and it's a lot better than sitting here and wondering "what if". If you wait too long, she'll fo… | /r/seduction | 23/03/14 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Newbie in need of some adviceThe only thing that will help you is experience. You can read hundreds of threads on here, and attend dozens of boot camps, but without personal experience it's all a waste. If you believe you're attractive, then you can be attractive. Groom yourself (shave or trim facial hair, clip nails, etc.), practice proper hygiene dress properly, and you'll notice results. Regarding your "oneitis", trust me when I say I'm in a similar position and slowly pulling myself out of it. It's a deep hole, and she'… | /r/seduction | 23/03/14 05:20 AM |
| 3 | What does the blueprint for fuckin look like?Where there's a horny guy, there's a way. Why don't you clean your parent's car and stop bitching about the problems in your life and change them yourself? | /r/seduction | 23/03/14 05:07 AM |
| 1 | How to approach at airports and more specifically, on the flight (with the girl right beside you)?I actually went on a vacation to Florida for winter break! I've got some stories that might help out. I went to see friends so I traveled by myself. I had a connecting flight to NY and sat behind a really cute girl who brought her tiny dog on the plane. We talked about her dog for a bit and she put her headphones in and wanted to catch some sleep. I left her alone until the flight arrived to NY. Then once we both walked off I sped up my walk speed a bit to talk to her some more. I introduced mys… | /r/seduction | 23/03/14 04:56 AM |
| 3 | An AFC's Guide to TextingIn a way OP, you're correct. However, tread carefully as text game ruins the chances of many guys out there. I learned perhaps the hard way these past couple of weeks that texting IS a little necessary, given the situation. If you text her on Wednesday to make plans for Saturday, you should try and text her at least on Friday and chat it up a little bit. That way when you go to see her, you won't seem like strangers for the initial interaction. You'll at least have some sort of bond, as well as … | /r/seduction | 21/03/14 09:55 PM |
| 8 | An AFC's Guide to TextingWith that said, that doesn't mean just be an asshole and don't respond when she sends you a message such as "So how was your day??:)" You cut off the interaction when you feel it's necessary. Not every text requires a response. For example, last night I was texting to see if a girl wanted to join me and play some soccer together. I said: "Hey, hope your week has been less hectic than mine so far! I'm heading to the soccer fields to destress tomorrow night at 9, you should join me" She said "I'd … | /r/seduction | 21/03/14 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Question on how you close living with parents?Change the number "19" with "20" and you have my life. Lol, seriously. Except our house is divided in half. Freshman year I moved into the bottom half, which has its own entrance into my room through the backyard. Girls come and go at all times of the night. Some girls do find it weird though. I don't think there's any sure-fire way of getting around it, aside from having sex at her place, or in your car somewhere, or maybe some weird ass location. | /r/seduction | 19/03/14 04:10 AM |
| 3 | When to go for the first kiss?Question for you then: Are we talking just a few kisses by the end of the second date? Or an escalation to a full on make-out sesh? I'm curious becaaauuuse that's my issue at the moment lol I shared a few kisses with the girl after the end of our second date last night and wonder to myself whether or not I should have escalated sooner so that we could kiss more. | /r/seduction | 17/03/14 03:05 AM |
| 6 | [Discussion] How long after a #-close do you call or text her.Text her 30-45 minutes after you get the number with "Hey, it's __. I'll text you later this week and we can set something up for the weekend." Have a location and time ready, text her, receive confirmation and you're onto your first date. Easy as that. | /r/seduction | 16/03/14 06:35 AM |
| 2 | A girl said one sentence to me tonight which changed my perspective:Not to the extent that I was hoping for. I was visiting some friends down South, which is where I met her. Unfortunately, I met her a couple of days before my flight was set to depart. We had an awesome date though! I'm sure if time wasn't a factor I likely could have escalated further. | /r/seduction | 15/03/14 03:06 PM |
| 28 | A girl said one sentence to me tonight which changed my perspective:Totally. I was at a bar and saw this extremely attractive older girl (late 20s, I'm 20) sitting by herself. I approached, made conversation, found out that we both have a die-hard love for something in particular, got her number and went on a legitimate date with her a couple of days later. Over and over again she told me about how "brave" it was of me. All I did was approach her because she was giving me googly eyes. It's not hard, guys. You all have it in you, the only thing that stops you is … | /r/seduction | 15/03/14 06:16 AM |
| 12 | Eye contact from a distance creepy or 'seductive'?It absolutely is. | /r/seduction | 13/03/14 02:29 AM |
| 23 | Eye contact from a distance creepy or 'seductive'?Everyone does that. Girls that know you notice you from afar just as often as you notice them. I play it off like this: I see them, keep looking at them and the moment they look at me (usually still far away) I wait a second so they know that I was looking, then quickly turn my head and pretend to hide my face with my hand, playfully. Remove hand when they get close enough, flash a big smile, and kill it with a solid opener (maybe even a hug to let her know you were kidding). It has yet not to m… | /r/seduction | 13/03/14 12:13 AM |
| 1 | A simple idea when setting up dates and establishing frame.Asking "come with me?" seems a little desperate to me. I'd probably say "I'm going to club X Saturday night at 9 with some friends. Come tag along and we can grab a few drinks". This way of rewording it makes it seem like you're extending her an invite, rather than asking her if she wants to join you. | /r/seduction | 10/03/14 03:33 AM |
| 2 | How do I stop seeking validation from women to reach my full potential? Nothing has worked so far.Depression comes from living in the past. Anxiety comes from living in the future. Find the present intermediate, and stick with it. You don't need her to validate your self worth. At the end of the day, she was lucky enough to have YOU! Don't think about her anymore, move on, approach a few girls and in due time, she'll be an after thought. You'll probably find yourself a girl that's more worth your time anyway! On another note, I'm curious about how you can properly respond when an ex tells yo… | /r/seduction | 10/03/14 03:27 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys handle getting cancelled on right before the date?Funny, the same thing happened to me a few days ago. Wouldn't be our first "date", and the last time we hung out things got exciting but I had to hold back (...you know...that time). It's no big deal, I can go on with my life without sex for the night. Fast forward to the other day, I text her to see how her Spring break is coming along, turns out all she's doing is watching some tv show. I tell her to come over the following evening around 7, she agrees. Judgement day arrives, it's 5:30PM, I te… | /r/seduction | 09/03/14 04:46 AM |
| 0 | Please remember - what we do is INSANEIt's not insanely easy when everyone is over thinking it. Just because the steps necessary to escalate with a girl seem easy on paper, doesn't make it easy for most to execute. Just gotta stop giving fucks, really. | /r/seduction | 04/02/14 02:56 AM |
| 4 | Lets talk about text game, again [with examples]I agree with what you've said. But, regarding enthusiasm over text, do you ever use emoticons/exclamations? | /r/seduction | 21/01/14 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Fighting AnxietyBy opening your body and getting into a relaxed confident position for 5 or 10 minutes I remember seeing a Ted Talks video in which the speaker recommends to throw your arms to the side and keep them there, because it seems that's what humans tend to do after a great victory (scoring a goal, finishing a foot race in first, etc.) and feel as if they're on top of the world. Supposedly, replicating that position for a mere 2 minutes can yield some pretty surprising results on the basis of boosting … | /r/seduction | 14/01/14 05:33 AM |
| 1 | How to date rich womenQuestion for you and anyone else that may have an experienced answer.. How does her paying end up happening? I'm used to $25 or cheaper dates. But if you're dining by the water, and at a fine restaurant, that can run you up to $60-$70+ or even more. What I want to know is, how do you establish who pays? As a 20 year old, I haven't been on any fine dating experiences like you have. I'm assuming that since she asked you to go, she intends on paying, yes? | /r/seduction | 14/01/14 05:25 AM |
| 2 | Picking up girls at parties(part FR, part request for advice)I wouldn't go so far as to call it dancing. It's a hell of a lot of grinding and face sucking with extremely minimal lighting and very loud house music/dubstep remixes by sub-par "DJs". | /r/seduction | 13/01/14 04:41 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Playing It Cool & Why You Should Go For It.You're my hero. For me, the trouble tends to come with the post-night game. How do I know when to text her? Call her? I feel like anything too soon or too late is awful. I'm bad with the right timing and need to get a solid jist of how to time the following conversations better...any advice? | /r/seduction | 20/12/13 08:26 AM |
| 2 | Funny pickup storyI'd say that either her parents know of you (have you been on national news lately?) or they don't want her dating anyone. Or as stated, it might not even be her father. People can sound really different over the phone. | /r/seduction | 19/12/13 12:56 AM |
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