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| 76 | Dear Reddit, help me teach my boyfriend how to stay dry in the rain. | NAH, SIS | Georgerobertfrancis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 02:51 PM |
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| 51 | Man withholds a 12.5K bonus from his SAHM wife because she didnt share the 200$ she made on Etsy (the first time in 7 years she earned anything). Be careful not to marry miserly men who loathe you.Seriously he could just get a hobby and make 200 dollars if he wanted to. He probably has a lot more free time than she does if she covers the childcare. But no, can’t let your house slave have any joy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 07:35 PM |
| 16 | Man withholds a 12.5K bonus from his SAHM wife because she didnt share the 200$ she made on Etsy (the first time in 7 years she earned anything). Be careful not to marry miserly men who loathe you.It’s highly likely his ONLY job is making money for the household. It’s literally his job. She’s out here doing all her jobs and making extra money on a hobby. She never said he couldn’t get a hobby and do the same. So essentially she’s still doing her whole job and now he’s withholding his (one easy) job because he wants to be a big selfish baby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 07:32 PM |
| 286 | Don't cry, beg or show emotion or over communicate. State what you want then leave when it's not met. Men enjoy the begging, crying and emotional outbursts because they know this means you're wrapped around their finger and will stay. It is a massive ego boost for them to have that power over youThis is such an essential point. Whenever I’ve even gotten mildly upset at work, women have gathered around me to express concern and support. But in my most intimate relationship with men, emotion has always triggered a defensive stance. The more emotion I expressed, the angrier or meaner they’d become. In abusive situations, eventually I’d be driven to full-on panic attacks, and instead of inspiring an empathetic response, I’d be attacked or accused of manipulation. I once saw a text exchange … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 08:54 PM |
| 46 | Tell me you've never actually been in a relationship, without telling me:This comment right here. The reality of relationships for women is grim. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 03:57 PM |
| 160 | He was fine with 50/50 until she told him the cost of having a childHahahahaha oh dear. This is the natural conclusion of libfem 50/50 transactional relationships. Enjoy living your dream lives, scrotes. This is what you wanted and asked for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 07:17 PM |
| 369 | That time I walked out on a date after his first sentenceImagine thinking we’re attracted to the degradation of other women. That was his wife at one point, for heaven’s sake. If he can be that petty, demeaning, and cruel to her… imagine what he’d do to you in a relationship. It’s like instantly telling on yourself that you’re a shallow, hateful asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 05:52 PM |
| 16 | Lil Miss Cheetah catches a Cheater red-handed 🥴😂The wife is such a queen here. Too often the wife confronts her husband and he says oh no, she was crazy, she’s stalking me, I’m so scared, yadda yadda blah blah blah. And the wife puts on her pickme pants and attacks this girl for her husband and does damage control. It’s awesome to see women working cooperatively to hold men accountable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 12:35 AM |
| 7 | The male version of “ABCDEFU” is literally domestic violence and people are celebrating it.I’ve had the same experience, though I try to remind myself that pickme behavior is a survival mechanism that men deliberately cultivate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 10:55 PM |
| 49 | Ladies, stop coddling your sons.Remember that men emulate and value other men. Without HVM role models, a mother cannot effectively shape her son for adulthood. They’ll look to fathers, family, peers, the internet… anywhere to get male influence. Until society changes as a whole, don’t expect to see major changes in male behavior. EDIT: I’m seeing the patriarchal attitude “women are responsible/to blame for men” seeping in, and it’s important to be aware of when that programmed bias creeps up on us. The mothers who raise these… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 10:11 PM |
| 4 | is it just me or does this comment scream Stockholm syndrome? I’m sorry; but why all the excuses for a pos because it’s his kink? it wasn’t about shaming OP, we are trying to protect you when we say his behavior is not okay. Update to one of my most recent post.Right, but my point is that a HVM will make you feel comfortable and the information will be so open that you don’t have to scour every corner of his devices and discern his passwords to feel satisfied. I mean, LVM masquerade and completely blindside women all the time. So if your partner makes you feel so nervous that you have to start asking questions and playing detective, and he can’t even fool you, please run. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 12:07 PM |
| 34 | is it just me or does this comment scream Stockholm syndrome? I’m sorry; but why all the excuses for a pos because it’s his kink? it wasn’t about shaming OP, we are trying to protect you when we say his behavior is not okay. Update to one of my most recent post.“I know his passwords to apps he didn’t tell me he has.” Oh my. She’s proud that she’s had to find and break into the apps he was hiding from her. Send me to Jesus now, please. EDIT: Obviously the primary issue here is the obscenely invasive and unapologetic sexual abuse. But on a secondary level, I want every woman to know that the minute you have to search your partner’s phone and check everything to monitor them, your relationship is over. And this is a cautionary tale of just how harmful a m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 03:22 PM |
| 98 | Reminder: never chase men, this is what they actually think when you initiateExcept men overwhelmingly date and marry far above their status and have an inflated sense of self-worth. Women get trashed on so frequently that most pickmes are happy to date any man who is remotely nice to her, even if he’s leagues behind her. This is delusional bullshit. Ten bucks all of these men are only getting approached by women who are actually far more valuable than they are. I guarantee they’re not movie star astrophysicists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 08:45 PM |
| 34 | Ask Amy: I think my wife is lazy for not having a career while raising our kidsLet me try my hand at editing: Dear Amy, Tell me my wife is lazy and abusive so I can justify doing bad things to her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 01:29 PM |
| 27 | Ask Amy: I think my wife is lazy for not having a career while raising our kidsThe women with big money wouldn’t have married him. He had to find a Barbara the Builder to make him successful with her support. Now he’s mad because he has all this success, and he wants to be a 22 year old hoarding money and chasing all the women he could never have. His wife should be grateful he stepped on her neck and apologize for holding him back because he did the bare minimum, like allowing his children to live in a house and attend school. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 12:35 PM |
| 73 | It takes men a lifetime to view women as complete human beings.No they don’t. They stay entitled, sorry. They do have to up their game, however. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 08:40 PM |
| 216 | It takes men a lifetime to view women as complete human beings.They DO NOT respect women. My age range is 40-somethings and no, no, they don’t change. If anything, they get better at manipulation and have to work harder to scam women. Don’t fall for this one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 06:16 PM |
| 179 | Right as we are about to get a place, I found out my boyfriend lied about his income.First, absolutely don’t rely on a man financially, even partially. Do not move in with a boyfriend under any circumstances. But excuse me if I’m too old to understand this. Isn’t it typical to describe one’s salary as the gross number? Everyone I know does this. It’s expected that the take home pay is significantly lower, with taxes at about 25% in my area. It’s universally understood and calculated when considering any financial movement. I have never in my life heard anyone identify their sala… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 11:49 PM |
| 16 | I thought having same taste in music indicated compatibility and was always so flattered and proud when guys were impressed by the genres/bands I like... facepalmThis is it. They don’t care what we like because they don’t see us as people. We’re useful objects. So it’s really annoying when a potential object invades a “male social space” with her personhood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 02:53 PM |
| 39 | LV partners who ask to see us in VERY specific lingerieI’m going to take this one step further: it’s a massive LV red flag when a man asks us to wear or style anything. There should be zero requests for wearing hair a certain way, wearing specific clothes, lingerie, makeup, etc. Any man who really likes you is going to be far too busy liking you to worry about whether your wardrobe is meeting his expectations. Think about how you feel in relationships. I know in my pick me days I would play “build a man” and try to style or change or buy clothes for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 07:17 PM |
| 39 | “Not ready to be serious … but I want to keep seeing you!!” does NOT warrant any responseBecause it’s a scam and half the pleasure is hunting down a conquering a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 03:52 PM |
| 6 | “Not ready to be serious … but I want to keep seeing you!!” does NOT warrant any responseYes! Sex scam! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 03:50 PM |
| 185 | “Not ready to be serious … but I want to keep seeing you!!” does NOT warrant any responseYes, and this is a classic sex scam. It goes exactly like this. Love bomb and express significant interest. Continue just long enough to gain a woman’s trust and attachment. Pull the rug back and send a sympathy-grab story about why some kind of commitment is off the table. Woman is blindsided and anxious about losing emotional attachment. She reluctantly agrees, because she doesn’t want to be labeled unreasonable, clingy, or unfeeling. Man gets the advantage of a committed FWB relationship that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 03:49 PM |
| 95 | Prime example that having money does not automatically make you a HVM! Beware of ‘godly men’ queens.Every single time. They wear it as a badge of honor, but really it’s because they have to find someone incredibly naive to buy their bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 05:36 PM |
| 74 | Arranged marriages fosters and breeds the most lowest value males humanly possibleMen crave the admiration of other men more than anything else, even money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 06:56 PM |
| 19 | No post has ever made my blood boil this much. This man treats his disabled GF like a servant and wont even keep a CHAIR FOR HER TO SIT IN. Women need to be taught from birth that its better to be alone your whole life than put up with a man who doesn't give a fuck about you!!32 dating 26 year old student. All you need to know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 04:17 PM |
| 4 | How do I meet and make female friends?Right! You can’t just magic up a strong network of close friends; and I’d be suspicious of any friend group that started that way as it’s certainly not organic. The change is actively seeking out a network of women, in any capacity, and nurturing said network. It may start out as only friendly acquaintances, but keep at it. Court women! Ask for numbers. Ask them to get a drink with you. Text and ask about them. Attend social events/clubs that allow you to meet others. Be open to people who are o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 05:19 PM |
| 18 | Yes ladies. It's OUR fault.I’d contribute to this fund. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 06:15 PM |
| 13 | I'll just leave this here.It’s worth noting that Disney took a character that was a straight-up witch in the books and turned her into a sweet, maternal woman in this case. She was a mother by proxy in the film as well, while the real mother was cast in a neglectful light for being a “feminist.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 04:39 PM |
| 16 | I'll just leave this here.It’s why Disney did the whole Descendants thing. Except as usual, little girls were still finding the “bad guy” villains more relatable and likable than the pickme “good guy” villains, and so they just integrate them into the good guys afterwards in response without having an ounce of self awareness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 04:25 PM |
| 45 | Do women have bad taste in men, or are men just terrible people?No, they probably are. They’re just mad that those assholes are better at it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 03:38 AM |
| 24 | I just felt like this belonged hereBecause abusers get mad over entitlement instead of injustice, and people with anger problems lash out to punish, control, and selfishly “vent” their anger at the expense of other people. So we tell ourselves that anger is the problem and toxically suppress it. But really the problem is considering why we’re angry and how we choose to deal with our anger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 04:14 AM |
| 2 | Happy valentine's day my queens! I can't give you flowers in person so I painted some flowers♡♡♡♡ This is for you!!Thank you! I love you queens; you are saving lives here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 01:58 PM |
| 35 | How I've been feeling.I feel this on a deep level | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 06:11 PM |
| 28 | Sexism in MedicineI had to award this. This should be amplified and brought into every healthcare discussion. The healthcare system in the US is so obscenely hyper-capitalist that it actively filters for narcissistic, sociopathic, and disordered individuals—literally the last people you’d want caring for others, but also the best people for upholding the abusive status quo. It’s similar to law enforcement in this country. Of course, it will be less prevalent in women healthcare professionals, because women in gen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 05:16 PM |
| 62 | I wish more men would admit this to themselves.Greatest truth. They’re all looking for a woman to impress another man. Who you are is irrelevant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 02:19 AM |
| 7 | "Men don't care about your career, all we want is a woman who is young, reasonably attractive, and with a tolerable personality"It’s not just career. After having trouble with men in my own hobby spheres, I was also told men don’t care about your hobbies, clothes, makeup, or success in female-oriented sectors or spaces. “So... they don’t care about who we are as people?” I responded. For the vast majority of men, we are little more than accessories. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 09:12 PM |
| 28 | Proud of myselfIt’s the same nonsense rebranded over and over. As violence against women and consent become more of a public issue, the men don’t change, they just find ways to subvert the issues and skirt around them. They are just manipulating women into wanting the abuse so they can claim consent and innocence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 08:49 PM |
| 23 | Proud of myselfIt’s a culture designed by men and designed for men being maliciously sold to women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 08:45 PM |
| 22 | Proud of myselfRight, the ones who pretend a relationship to prey on you are the worst ones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 08:43 PM |
| 26 | Proud of myselfIf this isn’t a whole philosophy I don’t know what is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 08:42 PM |
| 24 | Proud of myselfThis should be an official mantra. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Proud of myselfYou just leveled up! As said somewhere else, Future You will be reaping the spoils of self respect after the horniness fades. You are amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 08:40 PM |
| 8 | If I’m happy and I know it, start dating? No thanks!That last line, though! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 01:54 AM |
| 65 | If I’m happy and I know it, start dating? No thanks!“You have BPD” is the new “you’re hysterical” for the modern age. I see men using it at an alarming rate recently. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 12:27 AM |
| 5 | I just got flashbacks of a bearded man on a "date", talking about his beard for 45 minutes, while stroking his beard... also why do they make that facial expression?I was laughing throughout and then walking stick in Target sent me over the edge. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 12:52 AM |
| 46 | BoundariesExcept if you tell him you want a relationship he’ll totally lie and agree to get what he wants and then just not do it. Sad trombone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 02:35 AM |
| 3 | No more falling in love blindly, follow your intuition blindly. To an awesome and healthy 2021 🥂Yup. It’s hardly ever “paranoia.” The key is differentiating between emotional thinking and logical thinking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 06:00 PM |
| 11 | No more falling in love blindly, follow your intuition blindly. To an awesome and healthy 2021 🥂Let’s remember intuition is using logical thinking to interpret physical signals instead of emotion. Letting your emotions misinterpret your intuitive signals is how we get turned around, hooked, and entrenched in abuse and manipulation. Your emotions are selfish and ego-driven, and will gladly “spin” the evidence to gratify and protect you. “Oh, these feelings are intense; it must be true love!” “Oh, it just means you have to work harder!” “Oh, he’s just wounded and in need of LOVE.” I’m eight … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 05:58 PM |
| 19 | Anyone else at a point where you just can't trust what they saySame. I’ll give benefit of the doubt when it’s earned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 03:04 PM |
| 52 | Pay attention to men with abusive patterns of behaviour, they may just be intentionality trying to to induce a Stockholm Syndrome response in their target.Abusive men will often do this not only as a tactic to keep you, but sometimes as a tactic to “shut you up” or diffuse the situation for their own comfort and gain. They may not even be looking to create a bond, but the pattern of abuse and then “appeasing” you, over and over, can and will lead to a strong trauma bond and addiction for the abused party. It’s selfish behavior designed to protect the comfort of the abuser at all times, and a glaring red flag for lack of empathy, even if the abuser… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 05:49 PM |
| 62 | My wish for 2021 and beyond is that more women realise that they don’t have to put up with callous, selfish behaviour in their relationships.I’d love an older woman FDS chat. I feel so alien in pickme marriage land right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 03:16 PM |
| 6 | Self care isn't always bubble baths.This is beautiful and inspiring. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 02:28 PM |
| 12 | If This Ain’t A MOOD!!This is BRILLIANT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 10:28 PM |
| 113 | If This Ain’t A MOOD!!Fucking THIS. I’m going on eight months right now, and I don’t care how long I wait, because I sure as hell won’t give it up again until I focus on myself and the man proves his value. Like you, I’m a radical feminist, and surprise surprise, I feel MORE empowered and positive about my body when I’m not letting toxic vampires have access to it. Color this ex-libfem shocked. Mainstream feminism is just the patriarchy rebranded with pretty colors like a fucking pink tool set and we’re falling for i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 10:27 PM |
| 64 | If This Ain’t A MOOD!!I can assure you I have never looked back and said, “Well, I was left debased, psychologically scarred, and traumatized, but hey, I had sex.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 08:30 PM |
| 147 | If This Ain’t A MOOD!!Let me speak from a place of experience: in hindsight? It was never worth it. At the time I gambled and said “Worth it!” And no, it wasn’t. At the end, 0/10 would never choose sex over respect again. LEARN FROM ME, queens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 08:18 PM |
| 13 | After seeing a guy I was dating on a date with another woman, this Tiffany ring symbolizes me dating myself, choosing myself, coming back to myself, and loving myself.I love your mom! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 05:53 PM |
| 92 | After seeing a guy I was dating on a date with another woman, this Tiffany ring symbolizes me dating myself, choosing myself, coming back to myself, and loving myself.And here is the lesson I need to stress every time here, because I can’t proselytize enough: MONEY DOES NOT MAKE A MAN HIGH VALUE. It is not an indicator of value whatsoever. In fact, many wealthy, successful men are from incredible privilege, and therefore feel selfish entitlement to anything and everything. See Elon Musk or Donald Trump. You cannot judge a man by his resume, Queens. The only indicator of HV is how he treats other people, including you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 05:07 PM |
| 3 | It was my birthday yesterday. Treated myself by making a romantic red velvet cake from scratch😊 it was a quarantine birthday but being self-partnered was the best thing that could have happened.Happy birthday Queen! Keep sharing your cakes with us! You deserve the best. ❤️🎂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 12:16 PM |
| 24 | I ignored all the red flags and let a POS dull my intuition to cheat, use and abuse me for 2 years. Never again.I’m in the same situation. Please reach out if you ever want to chat or vent or cry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 08:31 PM |
| 29 | All men do is take, take and take! Ladies keep your peace safe.Worst lesson I ever had to learn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 10:18 PM |
| 17 | The tyrannical minority benefit the majorityOh I LOVE that album. I can’t decide between that track or You’re Different and Special, My Ex is Crazy, You Look Better Without Makeup, I Would Never Lie to You, I Love that You’re Low Maintenance, and Why Don’t You Give Me the Benefit of the Doubt? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 03:29 AM |
| 90 | Leave him in the dust...Funny how this is not immediately obvious when you love someone and they’re gaslighting you into believing it’s all your fault. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 04:04 PM |
| 32 | Saying a man will act right for the “right woman” is deeply misogynist and a huge lie.Ugh. And this goes both ways. You have the wives and girlfriends who are happy their men cheated on them but treated the other woman like trash. Like it’s some honor to be the “special” one this cheater returns to after choking some other woman out in bed, lying to her, abusing her, and throwing her out when bored. What a catch. Edit: “He’s such a good man when he’s with a GOOD woman like me! He always comes back and even buys me flowers!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 09:50 PM |
| 33 | Lies are like cockroaches. For every one you discover, there are many more that are hidden.They don’t care about us. They’re scared of us. Because men know if they ever actually received consequences, they’d be fucked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 09:42 PM |
| 40 | A whole wordOh yeah, I received the fabulous trauma of being lied to for years because he knew I would react poorly to the TERRIBLE things he was doing. ... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 05:31 PM |
| 39 | All men know the difference between boyfriend and husbandEspecially in medicine. It’s a honeypot for the worst types of men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Jewels fit for a queen! I purchased some real and fake diamonds for myself this week to commemorate how far I have come in the past 6 months in dealing with my career, food habits, exercise, and finally getting my ADHD and depression under control.You are a QUEEN! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 03:27 PM |
| 6 | Every woman - friend / roommate / acquaintance I’ve ever known who‘s looked through a man’s phone(s) or device has always had their suspicions confirmed. Trust your gut and don’t let anyone shame you for doing so.I’m in therapy right now for this kind of thing and oh my god is it traumatic. So many hugs to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 03:19 PM |
| 18 | FDS fun fact: The posts that get reported the most on Female Dating Strategy are the ones that go something like "why are men so ugly?" Most of these reports are for "targeted harassment against me"Yes. Learning about the extent of male lying has been a traumatizing experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 01:27 PM |
| 2 | Confessions of a former pick meI’m in this picture and I don’t like it. Cluster B mom and absent dad. A desperate need to prove I’m lovable and worthy. So the more distant and cold they are, the more attracted I am. :-( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 11:01 PM |
| 4 | How men subtly deflect.Oh my god I nearly choked. Bravo to how funny this is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 09:23 PM |
| 7 | Feeling the need to dump your trauma is a form of codependency. Don’t tell romantic interests your traumas until you’ve vetted them with time and patience. Best case scenario is to never tell them at all.I’ve been there with a narcissist. I can talk about this experience with you anytime. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 04:47 PM |
| 126 | Men are extremely emotional. Sometimes I would hold in my beliefs and contradicting ideas, because they would react in unstable ways. It's one of the reasons I love being single. Not dealing with the lack of emotional intelligence.How many women are miserable because they have to walk on eggshells around men? The number is too fucking high. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 02:50 AM |
| 7 | I feel this haha. Being poor and being broke are not the same thing.I’m in agreement, but, question on that. I have a son with special needs and a mom with failing mental health. I’m fully preparing to potentially house both of them to help care for them in the future. I consider it a duty of love. Would that make me look like a lesser partner? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 12:21 PM |
| 17 | This sub ruined my marriage!!! 🤣Congratulations! 🎈🎉🍾 It’s trash day! Only his sub will celebrate your leveling up properly. Do NOT believe pickmes who think you have to feel ashamed of valuing yourself as a human being. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 11:25 PM |
| 5 | I ain’t not gardenerIf I’m going to be honest, I noticed it immediately when it started happening. However, this was pre-FDS, so I still believed in cOMunIcAtIOn and blaming myself. Therefore I bought in to the old “you’re just crazy” gaslighting line they all use and thought it would be wrong of me to not trust my partner. FDS saved me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 09:13 PM |
| 15 | I ain’t not gardenerExcept it was the last year and a half of the relationship and it broke my soul a little to know it was all a lie. Live and learn, though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 09:55 AM |
| 11 | I don't argue with men. Not over anything, for any reason.This is Queen energy and I learned these lessons far too late in life. Can I get in line for best friend status too? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 12:53 AM |
| 40 | You're the prizeThe phrase every woman needs in her mind, always: PROVE IT. Someone who’s serious will have no problem proving their intentions. Immediate kryptonite for every narcissist, fuckboy, and LVScrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 04:36 PM |
| 11 | TruthUgh. Hard truths. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 03:22 AM |
| 83 | Pre-FDS me would have been chasing this loser LOL “ur really weird”Having any opinions at all = too strong, probably mentally ill | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 07:59 PM |
| 7 | DON'T chase a manI want to know too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 12:31 AM |
| 20 | This is lovelyI wish I learned this ten years ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 04:50 PM |
| 14 | Dear Reddit, help me teach my boyfriend how to stay dry in the rain.Men are so self-sufficient they need mommy girlfriends to take care of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 05:53 PM |
| 12 | Dear Reddit, help me teach my boyfriend how to stay dry in the rain.It’s almost as if men enjoy being victims of imaginary threats. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 05:52 PM |
| 12 | Dear Reddit, help me teach my boyfriend how to stay dry in the rain.Unreal. Maybe they LIKE painful sunburns and skin cancer. Cancer is so manly and attractive to women! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 04:34 PM |
| 7 | Dear Reddit, help me teach my boyfriend how to stay dry in the rain.This is true. I am an extreme recovering pickmeisha and I feel like FDS is the only thing that will help me from falling into another fake trap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Both will break your heart and be toxic in the end of the dayHard truths. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 03:53 PM |
| 18 | Dear Reddit, help me teach my boyfriend how to stay dry in the rain.But maybe I could stay dry if it had flames on it... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 03:31 PM |
| 32 | Dear Reddit, help me teach my boyfriend how to stay dry in the rain.This is proof that women do SO MUCH in relationships and men will still complain that she’s useless for missing sex with him one night. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 03:28 PM |
| 31 | Dear Reddit, help me teach my boyfriend how to stay dry in the rain.Can you imagine being sexually attracted to someone you have to mommy with as if he is a preschooler? Here, sweetie, let me teach you life skills, and buy you things, and I’ll pick the one with the fun shark on it because I know you love scary-wary sharks! You’re such a good boy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 03:25 PM |
| 19 | Dear Reddit, help me teach my boyfriend how to stay dry in the rain.You mean, don’t be his mommy?! Shocking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 03:22 PM |
| 108 | Dear Reddit, help me teach my boyfriend how to stay dry in the rain.LADIES. Someone suggested she buy him an umbrella with flames on it. We are literally dating five year olds here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 03:10 PM |
| 69 | Dear Reddit, help me teach my boyfriend how to stay dry in the rain.So many comments hinting at or outright saying “dump him.” We’re getting there, FDS! Also, the guy is 30... 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 02:52 PM |
| 37 | This Is Why I Keep My Relationships From Social Media Private.I’d just hold my partner responsible for not cheating. The end. I’m not policing every other woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Not related to men, but what the heck is wrong with most women being non- supportive of other women but will build up these scrotes?UGH I am so sorry. Pickme culture is real and it’s a serious problem. My generation is so steeped in it and I feel like I will end up only having younger friends due to this shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 05:33 PM |
| 3 | What's up with girls watching their boyfriends play video games?!?!I was the worst with this. I wasted SO much time just watching my exh play, like a clown. When I started leveling up and realized I used to game all by myself, I went and got a Steam account. I started gaming on my own when he played. All of a sudden he was so salty and offended. Why wasn’t I playing with him! We were spending time together! LOL. He’d never sit there and just dumbly watch me play anything. It’s clearly not about spending time together. The audacity and fragility truly knows no b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 06:02 PM |
| 10 | Husband demands sexual favors in exchange for cleaning up after himself and raising his own childIt is rape, and it’s traumatizing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 04:53 PM |
| 45 | Don’t stay with a guy like this even if he apologises. This is really sad, and this girl is deluding herself.“Pig of convenience” is going right into my lexicon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 10:35 PM |
| 17 | Why do they always think our world revolves around pleasing them? Dang it Bobby, back at it again with complaints about not getting some 🤣No... it can’t be. My special dick! It must be just black women... and wait, even they want my dick, too! I swear! Mommy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 06:59 PM |
| 35 | Why do they always think our world revolves around pleasing them? Dang it Bobby, back at it again with complaints about not getting some 🤣They can’t dare to face the truth: that NO woman wants a scrote. Spooky. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 06:37 PM |
| 43 | Why do they always think our world revolves around pleasing them? Dang it Bobby, back at it again with complaints about not getting some 🤣Checks skin color Oh no! They’re stealing the white wimmins! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 04:36 PM |
| 6 | Shun them.There are definitely significant numbers of people who don’t really “care” about abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 10:08 PM |
| 9 | The comments were like “he did what she asked, what’s the problem?” 🙄🙄🙄Completely intentional. Throw the whole man out, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 06:15 PM |
| 5 | Why do some men cheat by living a double life?Narcissism. Narcissism. Narcissism. Narcissists cannot see past themselves. They cannot build meaningful emotional connections. They cannot comprehend personal responsibility or consequences. Extreme entitlement. People are reduced to commodities for them. So... collect people for whatever you want them for. Collect and discard as necessary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 10:26 PM |
| 12 | A tragedy and a warningUnreal and thank you for sharing this. Sadly many women end up with abusers due to a very elaborate series of lies and manipulations. Great advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 08:00 PM |
| 17 | Stick with Logic aka Intuition ✨✨✨ she will never steer you wrong!This is perfect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 03:39 PM |
| 20 | The lack of shame and inability to recognize they are low lives.You are a queen. Older men think they can get away with ANYTHING. I would love nothing more to see all the abusive shit exposed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 04:15 PM |
| 6 | A hilarious conversationFishing for pickmes. In theory, a pickme would see a guy surrounded by women and see that as proof of value. Unfortunately, once you get to FDS level you realize that it means 100% chance of fuck boy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 03:46 PM |
| 123 | Attacking and abusing women who share their stories of rape and abuse here on this sub is unacceptable and you will be bannedI worry about this, too. I am seeing a lot of comments teetering on “money=high value,” and that is both insulting to women who have been used or abused by wealthy men, as well as misleading the newbies into thinking a man who can pay your bills is automatically a good person/partner. That’s some dangerous red pill thinking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 06:23 PM |
| 3 | Doctors and LawyersAnd they’re already like that anyway. The more prestige in the job, the worse the narcissism gets. You’re just getting the shit-tier narcs on OLD. The really successful ones can keep a harem going from in-person interactions. For every 100 wealthy surgeons, 99 of them have a rotating harem of pickmeisha nurses, residents, students and their wives’ “good friends” ready to provide endless ego supply and fellatio. The ones on OLD are in training. Lost cause. Tread carefully. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 05:39 PM |
| 1 | I love men who put their red flags in their dating profile biosThis is even better when you’re also a parent and you can shut that down immediately. But trust me, they still try it. Audacity as far as the eyes can see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 03:05 PM |
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