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DiscussionGermanEgo/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 02:53 AM
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If they were alpha earners than their husband wouldn’t need to work at all
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 12:56 AM
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It’s not time wasting if the woman never talked about her goals or deal breakers before the relationship started. Too many people just assume that others are thinking the same as them because they would rather try and force you into something you don’t want than to initially miss out on someone for being picky. If you don’t speak up than it’s unfair to have expectations Personally I’m very suspect of women who care so much about marriage, I always feel like they will immediately change and expec…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 12:29 AM
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I agree with you, but it is clearly a problem based on how women use these words and illnesses. My gf was diagnosed at 12 and she’s a timebomb. But she never brings it up, it’s just what a doctor said to her. If a woman talks about being mentally ill is a bigger red flag than having a doctor say it IMO. Because when it comes from the women’s mouth you just need to ask yourself why is she telling me and why does she think this information is important? It’s like being a guy in anger management wi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/18 04:42 PM
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I have been feeling similar lately, I think that the problem is that if I’m not satiated sexually than I dislike romance because it’s like I’m hurting myself. I pull back on the romance trigger(I try to only be responsive to her and ignore my own needs, which can look like I’m ignoring her) so I can let the woman lead during her low libido periods, which can quickly make me question the entire relationship if she fails to do so
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 01:12 PM
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Because that’s how Hollywood is, you don’t get fired for having liberal views
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 05:37 PM
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Prostitution has nothing to do with rape, so I don’t see why you would expect it to diminish it. Punishment doesn’t stop men from raping women, it only teaches them to kill them afterwards. Obviously societal factors can dictate how frequent rape is committed, so I don’t see how you can not believe in that(only 1 thing I said was about appealing to male fantasy)Otherwise it would have been a steady % across land and time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 01:59 AM
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A deterrent isn’t anywhere near as valuable as real prevention, people favor punishment only because of emotion and because prevention requires everyone in our society to take responsibility. Why don’t you think anything I said has any merit? To me it sounds like you don’t truly care about rape, it sounds like you just want power and to create a world where you can try to make men feel how women feel. That won’t end well for women, which is why it’s good it will never happen
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 04:24 PM
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Obviously that’s a problem, but there is a difference between men who are only attracted to rape and men who commit “rape” since the feminist versions of rape can be indistinguishable from regular sex. So there’s no point trying to say this group thinks like this since they are all different even though they are getting charged for the same crime. To reduce rape the truth is women need to stop focusing on their own personal vengeance or ability to enslave men without proof. They should make chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 03:24 PM
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Rape was my main and only sexual interest as a teenager, most people who are attracted to rape or necrophilia just watch the porn where the men fuck the women who are sleeping. If a rapist thought they had consent it wouldn’t be appealing to them anymore. Duh. You think there’s a “logic of a rapist” but there isn’t, it’s just people with desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 02:49 PM
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You think Cosby thinks those women wanted to fuck him and consented? That’s a pretty warped view to have, dont you think that a rapist would lie in court? Your mentality would leave all men at the mercy of women based on absolutely nothing, it would lead to societal collapse
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 02:14 PM
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Why does the guy have to prove consent before the woman has to prove it was withdrawn? I believe women tend to tell the truth in these situations, but I also assume all sexual encounters are consensual unless proven otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 12:06 PM
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In their mind they believe they deserve more, this leads to statements or thoughts about fairness
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 10:17 AM
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Settling is when it’s someone who feels like they deserve more, but place blame on something. A compromise is an attempt at a fair deal when you know it’s important to try to make all parties happy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 07:05 PM
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Look for a guy with low test
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 08:59 PM
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When men use their imagination they ALWAYS think of a girl they know, 99% of the time it will be a classmate, coworker, waitress, ex or neighbor. We never create a fake woman, in fact I don’t think that is even post
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 08:09 PM
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They make pov videos for you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 08:06 PM
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Men love women who they are attracted to who are wearing zero makeup, beyond that it is just something we tolerate. Personally the thing I dislike about makeup is recognizing it, I don’t like when my gf asks me about her makeup because I couldn’t careless and I don’t like to lie so I always just say “it looks nice/fine.” Sometimes I feel like she thinks she’s doing it for me, I don’t like that. Makeup is fine if it’s just included with the package, I don’t want to hear about it and I most defini…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 08:02 PM
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80/20 is about sex(and it’s prob more like 95/5), not settling down
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 05:30 PM
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Women come off like they want servants because when they distribute the work load, dependability etc it is based on their view of the future, so when they see equal work I see myself doing a bunch of shit that only she cares about. IMO if it was legit than we would distribute our combined view equally and than we each work on personal desires on our own. I think a lot of women assume their husband or bf pictures their future the same way they do. So she sees something far different from what the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 05:00 PM
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There is no “idea” in this situation in the way you describe it, it’s just men protecting themselves and has nothing to do with any of the original acts. Those men aren’t concerned with that because they are concerned with themselves and aren’t the men who are committing the bad behavior in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 12:30 PM
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It’s something women call the men at work who act like their best friend. It’s like the freedom to compliment her on her tits openly and talk shit about her real husband, she strokes your ego and you agree with her about every dispute she has with her real SO and play around talking about eloping It’s just a work best friend but most of them are close to this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 01:16 AM
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Because the social changes are based around the specific reaction to behavior that will always exist, the only thing that changes is how often that behavior occurs and the reaction
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 01:11 AM
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You can do something without feeling like people should be allowed to do it, if you are accepting any future punishment than you are a risk taker, not entitled. Entitlement is a justification for behavior, not the definition of the behavior itself You explain why you think people do things but that’s not true for many, you don’t understand many people you meet
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 11:42 AM
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It’s because the man is a threat in terms of defending himself and the woman isn’t . A thief is only entitled if he believes that it would be unfair for him to be punished if caught, but doesn’t feel the same for others. You can do things and risk punishment without being entitled
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 03:20 PM
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The good thing is that in these situations you wont have an opinion since you dont know, you cant know if you are a fan other than hypothetically
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 12:10 AM
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I assume people do
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 09:43 AM
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I think its best to be cautious, but more in a passive way rather than in a paranoid way, assume the possibility but not the liklihood. It just sounds crazy when people throw out accusations, even though the general behavior is fine
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 09:58 PM
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I’m glad I don’t have any innate drive that would force me to care about having a positive impact or benefit on others(besides my SO). As long as I’m not a hindrance I don’t care, if anything I think that’s better than most pull off, most people just “support” or “spread awareness” which is just a selfish desire for relief and monk-sadism
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 02:31 PM
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As you wish
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 12:35 PM
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One time I drugged her and her only complaint was that it was a Wednesday night, she bragged to her coworkers about it the next day. I don’t remember if we were even dating yet
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 10:29 AM
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My girlfriend is like the complete opposite of you and meeting her has made my interactions make so much more sense, but I guess thats a chemistry thing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 04:52 PM
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Why the personal attack? If I were an asshole I wouldn't be here trying to understand you. People are intolerant of those who dont quickly agree with them if they are the type who dont want to have to explain themselves Its sad really, I have people attack me sometimes when im agreeing with them solely because I want them to explain in detail before I would be fully onboard Most likely the issue is that by asking that person to help you be more empathetic by going into the details they started t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 04:02 PM
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You're right. These victims, rather than wanting to be given more (because they know damn well they aren't lacking anything accept female attention), respond by wanting more taken away from women (so they can regain the power over women men once had). how many times a week are we subjected to rants about why women shouldn't be in college, shouldn't have jobs, shouldn't vote, shouldn't fuck who they want, shouldn't be allowed to decide for themselves at what age they marry, how many sexual partne…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 05:24 AM
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Depends on who it is, I dont think any of them actually expect to be rewarded, being rewarded for that shit is what feminists always talk about giving men but its not really true The left is trying very hard to make slave morality into an actual useful tool(and they have succeeded in some areas but its mostly through blackmail) but I think most red pillers realize that they dont have access to that tool Seems simple to me, if you want people to agree with you than they need access to the same be…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 04:47 AM
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The desire to be reimbursed, rewarded or given other special treatment for being inferior in as many areas as possible and referring to it as justice, equality, or fairness to the point that people actively want to be the victim
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 04:30 AM
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Thats what happens when people try to weaponize victimhood
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 11:42 PM
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I think that as men we would prefer to have some sort of updated gender roles, some type of way to communicate our desires without any backlash or disrespect on either side I dont think men would even care to dictate the specifics as long as they were functional and standard
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 09:43 PM
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Seeing your buddies die painfully(or become handicapped) is FAR worse than having a long distance loved one die in a highly respected way. You cant prepare for death when its right infront of your face and has factors like fault, its not even a comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 09:17 PM
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I dont think our generation is gonna be like that, we know how to use the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 11:51 PM
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What do you mean? The older you get the more that you shift towards only interacting with family members, especially after you retire So it wouldnt make sense to paint yourself as a very social person as proof that you wont regret not having children, it makes much more sense to paint yourself as an asocial person
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 11:14 PM
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The reason is because those women always use dumb reasons for not wanting kids. They say things like how they travel, do charity shit, wanna be a cool aunt and all this other social stuff If you dont want kids and never want kids and you want to prove that you wont regret it than you should show me how asocial(or antisocial) you are, how much you dislike children, how you have designed your life to avoid meaningful social interactions. So they always seem like they are gonna be incredibly lonely…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 10:28 PM
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I havent seen any hardproof either, I dont think it exists since its hard to determine how many people cheat and we cant define attraction/fullfillment in any useful statistic that would reflect the wall
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 09:53 PM
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the same type of guy who would have been waiting for her at 30 or 40, just older himself I dont think this is true at all, if a guy is family oriented hes not gonna be there waiting average young women are not marrying attractive guys with money in masse Why would they get that? Pre wall means equal, post wall is a woman who will have trouble avoiding marrying down
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 09:33 PM
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When I say everything they want obviously I mean within reason, they get a partner who is equal to them and they dont have to choose between financial stability OR attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 09:25 PM
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You would have to ask them :P RP says that women are the gatekeepers of sex, meaning having an exclusive relationship that involves sex typically requires a tradeoff(monogamy, recources, etc), the wall is a rough average of the age in which women lose the ability to get everything the way she wants without having to settle, because of the dwindling pool of quality partners the later in life combined with the fact that many young girls will date/marry men who are older than them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 09:20 PM
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I cant tell if you are talking about the wall or not, because the wall has nothing to do with casual stuff, its the exact opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 09:13 PM
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I didnt decide anything lol, im just going based on how many actually indulge or seem interested in that sort of thing. If you compare women who prefer men much younger to women who prefer men in the same age group or older its a much smaller pool
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 09:04 PM
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the wall isnt about fucking, its about settling down in a way that meets all your expectations without any real compromise My gf is 9 years older than me, but the vast majority of women are not interested in that at all
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 08:54 PM
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I’m happy to roll with it bc i personally think it unlocks character traits in women that make them more lively and INTERESTING than normal folk. I dont think so from my pov, all those people tend to be the same. The people who are seriously into that shit as a lifestyle always seem really delusional and histrionic, they talk about poly shit like its some mythological creature that only they can see. I can tell if im gonna hate them based on if they use a bunch of stupid wording or have some pol…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 08:20 PM
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I feel like you must not have understood me because I have no idea what you are trying to say. I’ll check back at my other post when I have time to see if I worded it poorly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 04:48 AM
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Information is amoral, the reality of an individuals actions are immoral The reason is because understanding/empathy require the same prerequisites that are needed for manipulation, so you cannot claim the information is anything but amoral, even if the majority of people use that information for immoral means
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 08:44 PM
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I think many women need some aspects of being a mom or they will be afraid of being cheated on. Thats how it feels for me whenever women try really hard to be my mom, even some of my female friends do it to me, in fact all women who like me have done it to me. I think its partly because im so resistant to it in general, but will let you do shit if you are persistent(and if you arent than in all honesty we wouldnt really have a strong connection anyway) I think its the tactic for women who are at…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 07:29 PM
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Empathy is not something that you choose to feel, it is involuntary and reserved for people who are within the same group you can identify with Im not sure why you(and many others nowadays) talk about it like its some type of currency or reward that people should strive towards. Its like trying to make the concept of empathy more like respect to be used in situations that do not garner respect, solely for manipulative purposes. I dont mean consciously ofc, most people do not know or understand t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 11:05 PM
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I think thats because a lot of the far right is just shock value, they are far right to counter the far left, but not because they feel strongly about killing all the jews or anything like that, they are just moderates who would rather offend you than take a knee to the pc movement. If those views didnt offend and enrage people on the left than they would get far less support, if you also take away the memes how many would be left?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 06:04 PM
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Women have it worse since birth, in an egalitarian society women will still have it worse because of their hormones, physical size and personality profiles But thats why you arent supposed to compare yourself to others in that type of way, its not something you can change and its not something that warrants change or compensation because it would make things less equal, not more. The goal of a society(one of them) is to make things equal enough that people dont think about equality(or atleast th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 12:02 AM
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Well Jammerly made some type of girl game dread game post, so equating it as dread game is like implying that you would consider deadbedrooms as a effective tool or has the potential to be one You gotta think about why you make a connection to it in the first place, if thats not the reason than it would be like to draw a conclusion to try and create a disagreement in a guys head, like if he doesnt like DBR than you equate the 2 as the same in order to create contradiction The 2nd one obv makes s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 05:27 AM
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Of course they are. You don't think that causes anxiety in a man? I cant imagine why Deadbedrooms arent really getting what you want, they are kinda like giving up, maybe maintaining what you still want at the very most. Maybe some exceptionally damaged women aim for that from the start
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 05:19 AM
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Hes giving you the strategy to get what you want, ultimately if your desire is to change another human being into what you would prefer them to be you cannot also complain about doing it in the first place, its what you wanted If its really that important, find a guy who is OCD, problem solved The reason why it feels like men get to be like kids is because men are willing(and happy) to live like kids. You wouldnt want to live like a kid, otherwise you wouldnt be making this thread, so you just n…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 03:17 AM
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It is dread if it is used as a threat of divorce, not a threat of a deadbedroom. Dread is based on anxiety, no dude is anxious about a deadbedroom, they are just struggling with their own morals when they contemplate cheating on their wife if she is just trying to have complete control over his life and not offering any real options
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 03:06 AM
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Everyone easily adapts and carries out a schedule regardless of how lazy they are IMO if you dont want a man to be lazy than it requires you both as a couple to meet a certain level of organization so that the work is monotonous. For me personally I daydream so much that I could walk right past dogshit on the floor and not even notice it, I dont pay attention at all. But if something is normal and part of my daily routine than I prefer to do it. I think in many relationships there is a silent fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 03:02 AM
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The blue pill sub reddit is near worthless(unless you want to observe behavior that you could see pretty much anywhere else, almost all female dominated forums of information about women when it comes to social interactions will probably be pretty flawed unless it has some back and forth from men), the blues on this sub have taught me an incredible amount of information over the years, most isnt by listening to what they have to say, but why they say it in the first place. I dont directly agree …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:46 PM
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I would either respond with the face that makes my girlfriend and mom say things like "what did you do?" "i know that face, tell me what you did" "oh no" Or I would just say no and go back to what I was doing depending on my mood and how non PC you look, if you were a total stranger it would be a straight no. I imagine it coulkd work quite well on coworkers who you sdee from different departments or something
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:08 PM
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Yeah I could imagine that, she only really needs to pry me away from hobbies that we dont overlap on, so that isnt super common
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 07:09 PM
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I think what they mean to say is that he is reactive to you in a way that you really like, but totally into whatever hes into all the rest of the time so the girl has to like pry him away from his life My girlfriend likes my obsessive tendencies because she can always get me to go be social with her in small bursts when she wants but im not naturally like that so I can always flex to whatever she needs me to be at the time. Some women are looking for someone to worship because he will be like an…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 06:31 PM
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This isnt true if you add alcohol or personality
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 06:23 PM
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It depends how you define 'pussy' and 'trying to be the best version of themselves' Like I would say it is obvious that the best version of yourself will have easy access to pussy, so when people say that what they are saying is that they are doing it for the ability or the opportunity, not the action itself I would agree with the 'best version' more so than the 'pussy' version, if its just pussy than you would think thewy would go the prostitution route, rather than the route that has the most …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 06:07 PM
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Women are very sore losers in comparison to men(in this sense), its funny how theres this big cultural overlap between feminists with goth/satanism which is all oddly the biggest supporters of social darwinism but at the same time the ones who are the most butthurt about it. Maybe im the only one who is into it for the philosophy People just need to accept it, you know the old saying, fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. I notice a lot of women who keep getting fooled and someho…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 07:40 PM
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That depends who you are comparing him with, what is a 'real' length of time? I feel like you are speaking based on some type of idea you have in your head based on who you value and comparing it to jordan peterson and the people who are interested in him in order to feel a certain way about yourself I mean what you are saying doesnt even really relate to what I said or your previous post, you claim why something matter5s and ignore why I claim that it doesnt really matter I get it, type out a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 05:51 PM
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That doesnt really make sense to me, but ill take your word for it. As long as I get what I want im willing to become anything or anyone I need to be, if taking some other dudes scent or style gets me what I want than the answer is a easy personal choice for me to make Im not trying to prove something specific about me, I see life more like a time sink in which we try to acquire as much dopamine and serotonin as possible. I dont expect people to be as devoted to those things as I am, empathy and…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 03:46 PM
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im in favor of anything that gives me power over people
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 03:01 PM
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Feminists dont like him because he has insinuated that some women would be happier to live a more traditional life and uses the big 5 to define which women are more likely to be happy in differing life styles Feminists hate him because the enemy likes him, and the ones who hate him tend to do it without seeing more than a 3 minute clip of him and just call him a nazi
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 01:05 PM
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I doubt he is spending his money in a way that would allow him to even come close to using it all by the time he dies, if anything he might start making more money in the future if the right social events occur
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 01:01 PM
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I have never been able to imagine a woman enjoying fucking another woman with a strap on(ive though if you post that on twox or trollx im sure you will find get bombarded with women who claim to love it), but I feel like there must be a population of women who enjoy doing that with women and not with men Which doesnt really make sense if its solely about how you see yourself, im not doubting you but I think its more complicated than that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 07:03 AM
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Depends on the person, some people have such a high level of OCD In my parents (failed)marriage I can remember that my dad would run the house so everything worked, but it wasnt pretty if you know what I mean, my mom wasnt too happy with him because they moved into a fixer upper and he didnt know that she wanted it to look like a rich person lived there and he couldnt care less about the artistic aspect of it. He was a pretty decent handy man and wanted to ghetto rig it I know you most likely ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 06:19 AM
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My gf bought me her favorite cologne like a week before we were even dating, Idk why all girls dont do this Its actually a body spray thing too, so it cant be overpowering and I can always wear it which is really nice because I rarely wear appropriate clothing for cologne
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 06:05 AM
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My mom divorced my dad because he was boring, didnt want to go clubbing with her, and procrastinated housework(he was the only one with a job and made about 90k a year, he was only interested in events that also involved children like vacations), tried to turn me into her new husband or a mini me of her or something I dont really know so I ditched her for 4-5 years to live with my grandma before going back once I was at an age that she couldnt control Eventually she remarried, but I think her ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 05:55 AM
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And you think that this is what they do when they are dissatisfied? Because I think it is natural to eventually become more like roommates after many years of cohabitation, I think men look forward to that part of their lives, or at least they think they will I would agree with you if it is actually none, but I dont think thats too common
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 03:10 AM
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I dont think husbands suddenly abandon the children just because they are upset with their wife, at least not commonly Are they five year olds who don’t know how to express themselves? We both know that you would either get a lie, change topic, something really sugar coated or have your ethics/morality attacked if you come off too transactional. If "checking out" finally gets a woman to acknowledge the situation than it is the right choice, dont you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 02:27 AM
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What do you mean when you say checking out and tune out?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 02:22 AM
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Was your life private? Or did you have a "slut image" in the sense that you were the girl loosing her panties in the club, getting fucked in the bathroom, spitroated by some guys random friend on xtc, etc etc You had casual sex with some dudes on the side with other things as your main focus, I think the people who say it was a mistake are the girls who define their life through a promiscious image and really delve into territory specifically because other girls wont. Think of the modern strippe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 07:34 AM
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I had a previous relationship that I would ask about this girls past, and sometimes she would get really defensive and say things like "that MUST change your view of me" but I kept telling her it didnt, she had been telling me slutty stories from day 1 so that stuff just turns me on Anyways I would try to assure her that stuff wont bother me and I enjoy hearing about it. She would say things like she wished I didnt know any of that stuff, that she wished she lied to me, etc etc. This makes no se…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 07:26 AM
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What does 'party" mean in this context? By party do you mean a group of kids playing beer pong or a group of friends going to buy salvia or bath salts at a smokeshop or gas station(at the time) and doin hoodrat shit? I think that overall aspects of those peoples culture/style is more accepted, but their group morality is not. For example, there used to be a nice divide between religious people and heathens like myself, nowadays you got a bunch of people trying to drag religious morality into oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 07:11 AM
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I wrote exactly what I was getting at, dont worry about it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 01:51 AM
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This makes absolutely zero sense to me. I mean TRP has some conformist aspects but in the sense of making posts on a forum about being PC it doesnt make sense. I mean all blue pillers who post on purple instead of on blue would automatically be conforming less, right? Like blues always say, they dont have a real definition or anything, it doesnt compare very well The real world and the internet have different standards when it comes to the conformity, so it doesnt make sense to compare the two b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 12:09 AM
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Im the exact opposite, im more likely to fantasize about a story someone told me, a book or a scene from a movie My memoy isnt good enough I think, or I just cant picture my own experiences in a way that would be sexual. I can only use experiences from the past that involved a fantasy that I was thinking about at the time but was unrelated to the moment(so thinking of one will make me think of the other), so its really just an experience that is associated with a fantasy that I read somewhere or…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 09:24 PM
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I consider foreplay to be part of sex, well I guess it depends what you mean when you say foreplay. I cant even remember the last time I had sex that didnt involve some level of touching/teasing/kissing/cuddling/strange porn browsing to lead up to it Now if you mean that kind of foreplay that people sometimes talk about it that starts at breakfast and sloooooooooooooooooooowly rises until you go to bed than no I dont do that, atleast not on purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 09:14 PM
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I think its just expected to be aroused the first time you fuck a new person that you are attracted to, have you not been thinking/fantasizing about it? To be fair though, my gf talks much much more about fantasies of me since rather than before we got together, I havent heard her say anything about a fantasy she had when we were friends. Is it not normal to have sexual fantasies about men you havent fucked yet? I feel like men and women may be the opposite in terms of the incline or decline of …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 08:18 PM
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I think it has enhanced that view with womens agency, in the sense that women are more willing and more likely to view themselves as objects for personal gain But yeah, bottom tier men lose either way
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 08:02 PM
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I dont think this is really the issue, that is a factor sure, but obesity is more about general diet, eating when bored or eating when stressed or other learned behaviors. Its not like those peoples stomachs are growling after eating, they are just thinking about eating When I was a kid I got into a bad habit of always wanting to eat something during new episodes of my favorite tv shows, regardless of how much or how recently I had already eaten. Once I became aware of that it was easy to fix
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 06:50 AM
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I think that the category of people that does the real objectifying is unreachable and unchangeable because they arent even listening and that actual discussions that involve a back and forth is with people who do like pseudo-objectification in which the reaction and idea of the objectification is a necessity or contributing factor So if its a complaint than I cannot tell if it is about the objectification OR the message of objectification that people have a problem with
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 03:14 PM
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Are you sure? Because I think theres an aspect of degredation and humiliation involved with prositution that reflects the womans humanity, just not in the way she may want it too. (well I guess you would have to go for a case by case basis) True objectification has no message of objectification In fact I think most sadistic acts that involve "objectification" are ultimately about sending the message that she is nothing more than an object and enjoying the reaction, so does that contradict? I wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 01:26 PM
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Are people shaming you? OR are you just reading posts between men and they mentioned "chads" and also women and you automatically made it about you How can men be trying to shame women if those posts are never actually directed at women in the first place? No one is blaming women for anything because those posts typically arent directed or meant to be read by women anyway. Not that you cant read it, but dont perceive it as if it was directed towards you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 02:52 PM
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She has that freedom if she wants it, if she wants to put her freedom on hold so her parents will pay for her she also has that option Many people would kill for that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 03:45 AM
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??? Plenty of people arent being offered money from their parents at all, beggars cant be choosers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 02:48 AM
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I dont think I have ever seen a red pill post who was disgusted by a blue pill method or idea, could you give an example of something that blue pillers condone that red pillers consider too extreme to even entertain the idea or attempt?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 01:36 AM
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but I think it is retarded and inhumane to have a class of people who are dedicated to it and get paid for it Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 01:30 AM
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Many people who had no options would kill for a "weird and fucked up" option(which isnt really weird or fucked up at all if its their culture) You seem spoiled if you think that people should offer their money in a way that you would prefer
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 01:24 AM
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I assume you read this as an attack but I didnt mean it that way, think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 01:06 AM
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Because the bluer you are the stronger the desire to base your arguments around disgust/being offended meaning you wont entertain the discussion in the first place The bluest of the blue will use emotion/empathy to trump any argument, they arent even willing to be in the same room or listen to RP ideas
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 08:24 AM
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I dont mean to speak for that person, but imo men are far more willing to be the bad guy to get things over with quick and painless, they are willing to make themselves come off worse than they actually are, ruin their image a little Women have a greater tendency to do that weird thing where you guys pretend you wanna keep in touch and be friends or whatever, and wanna root for their ex from the sideline and keep in touch with their family or whatever even though they dont actually want to do an…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 08:34 PM
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if you agree with that than why do you care what was the original source, it doesnt matter
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 08:21 PM
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How can you be prepared to marry someone without having sex with them? I couldnt even seriously commit to someone without having sex with them I would never trust anyone who says something like that because their priorities are gonna be far different than mine are and I would consider them not trustworthy longterm in the sense of intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 08:09 PM
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How much they think about themselves or think about themselvces in relation to others
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 08:29 AM
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If he’s cheating on a girl that often, then how am I being taken advantage of? People dont treat everyone the same, different people have different purposes in our lives Not that you need to put up with something you dont like, but the jump you would bge making is just paranoia
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:43 AM
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My gf is 9 years older than me and last time I checked im a man Most women just dont want to date men who are much younger because their life wont be put together as much At the end of the day people want what they want and its pointless to argue desire, I feel like you are reading posts and taking it as if someone said it directly to you, this is the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:03 AM
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But first she got publically humiliated. You can’t really put a price tag on that... This is your post Humiliation is solely about what people think of you, so how is that not the point? Acting silly is not humiliation If they dont know you are serious than how is it different? You arent actually feeling the feeling, but thats the point, you trained yourself to not care in a situation in which others would. As a child my mom hated it, because she would feel humiliated for being my mother. I dont…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 01:27 AM
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I regularly "humiliate" myself for fun, in fact my day to day "outside" personality is just me being silly and playing dumb. Atleast if I have the energy that day, so maybe once or twice a week Would you be totally fine with being cucked by your wife with 120 men? I mean I might murder her, but it wouldnt be because of the way the world views me lol, it would be personal and based around loyalty/trust/etc I only care what people think of me in order to get what I want like a job, but if im not b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 01:10 AM
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I just added to it I just cannot comprehend caring that much what others think of me. I also cannot comprehend not seeing that as a problem that you should fix, in which case taking the money would be 2 birds with 1 stone, therapy in a sense. I dont need to ask the world permission for anything and dont understand why someone would want anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 12:56 AM
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who fucking caRES LOL do you honestly think that matters? it could be 250k and still an easy decision but its 250 MIL, caring about public opinion within itself is silly, its just for people who are incredibly boring or have a job based around it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 12:46 AM
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I know a girl who argues with her brother because she wants him to have kids just so she can be an aunt lol Its different when you dont have siblings or your siblings are also not trying to have kids, I think most of those people will regret it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 07:51 AM
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I dont really care about blowjobs at all, especially if I cant see the girls face very well, its really boring and ill zone out looking at the back of your head But my girlfriend loves doing it to get my body to do things, going from soft to hard, a little jolt in my leg, maybe the way she hears me breathing or a noise I make, the way I rest my hand on her or rub up and down her back while she does it. She also really enjoys the way it looks when its glistening covered in spit or when theres so …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 05:47 AM
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I dont really care about blowjobs at all, especially if I cant see the girls face very well, its really boring and ill zone out looking at the back of your head But my girlfriend loves doing it to get my body to do things, going from soft to hard, a little jolt in my leg, maybe the way she hears me breathing or a noise I make, the way I rest my hand on her or rub up and down her back while she does it. She also really enjoys the way it looks when its glistening covered in spit or when theres so …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 05:46 AM
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Why don’t men that trust women allow those women to lead them in relationships? Men want this as far as I can tell, but its when women often say things like they dont want to be his mom. Im sure if you asked this question in a poll or something MANY men would say they desire it I also dont think men gain as much out of it since they dont have the same stress hormones or levels of anxiety, so the incentive isnt as strong and its not as socially accepted or valued by women so even attempting it wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 05:23 AM
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Is the pride and feeling of accomplishment you get greater than any relief that you could gain from allowing him a greater load? Or maybe you wouldnt feel comfortable in a situation that made you feel like you rely on someone else? Maybe a feeling of guilt if you dont feel useful? There is a reason you feel the way you feel, but you arent telling me I wasnt talking about all women, just trends that I personally see, If you are gonna disagree I would prefer you point out the difference Just becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 03:11 AM
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I think AWALT is a very important thing for some guys, in my mind its kinda like the opposite of the manic pixie dream girl. Like you stop looking for something that is special, perfect for you or chasing an idea that probably doesnt exist. I also think that it prevents you from having one of those negative shifts of view from learning something that changes who you see them as and may actually lead to your partner surprising you in a good way that makes you view them in a better light I think i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 02:59 AM
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I have always been curious what BPers mean when they say "low quality women" Like kanye/kim would obviously be an example you would use, but jayz is also RP, would you describe beyonce as low quality? I know this is a kinda dumb way to get my point across because we dont really know how they act alone, but I think its a pretty useful example when thinking of how to define a low quality woman Are you sure that it only works on low quality women? Or do you think its possible that it just works bes…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 02:45 AM
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Who cares lol, no need to rain on his parade. From his POV if the afterlife doesnt exist he will be dead and not capable of the awareness of being wrong I dont mean to speak for him, just pointing out that the realization of the afterlife not existing cannot happen so what you say doesnt matter
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 02:35 AM
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This is a strange view, I would call that tyrannical, narcissistic and extreme. Its silly to define all male led relationships as if your boyfriend is joffrey I think a better way to view it is like this, if you met someone who you felt great confidence in(greater than you have in yourself) would you be willing to take a step back and have faith in them making the majority of the decisions and having more control over your path. Male led relationships are based around emotion, you put your life …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 02:04 AM
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My girlfriend is like this, she often gets mad at me if she doesnt think im enjoying myself as much as she is, regardless of what I tell her If there is a situation where I dont want anything at all or dont care she demands that I demand something This one time she ordered me food that I didnt like at all(without actually asking me lol) and was stressin out to the point that she needed to blame me nonstop for not giving her the opportunity to please me. I wasnt actually hungry to begin with and …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 01:46 AM
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Im thinking more of situations in which there is no real reason beyond something like "I got bored" "I wanted to reinvent myself" or "I dont know, I just felt like it" There is no lesson to be learned and these answers typically wont be accepted
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 05:43 PM
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Scientology is popular with celebs because they have private resorts, spas and shit that will keep paparazzi away Someone sold me drugs in a scientology pamphlet before, I assume its a good way for dealers to come into contact with those types of clients if its in the right area. If I was a drug dealer I would be desperate to work at one of their locations, prob a great way to start getting invited into those hollywood cliques
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 06:19 AM
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Why does lying matter? This seems the opposite to me lol, the act itself may be immoral, if anything the lie could make it easier to swallow/rationalize for the other person I think its worse if you say nothing at all than if you lie, because than that person wont have closure and you obsess over why it happened IMO the most moral thing you can do is create the most evil story, allow the other person to see you as far more evil than reality in order to help them commit to moving on. Sometimes wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 02:53 AM
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Im saying this as a general life things rather than a pill thing, but I would say the best advice is "stay in your lane" and dont see yourself as a victim Too many people nowadays try to get the benefits of multiple paths without any of the negatives. Its funny because I have developed a level of respect for religious women that I never had when I was younger, not that I want anything to do with them, but I like that they practice what they preach and have fair expectations with what they offer
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 06:41 PM
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If you think you’re too important to use a condom When on earth did I say this? Also, no matter how badly I love sex, I’ve never lied to someone then told the truth right after just so I could get some I never said you would, or anything about you for that matter Also, using a condom prevents std’s. Why the fuck wouldn’t you want to use a condom? Honestly? It turns me on. Now when I say that I dont mean I go slinging my dick around, but total safety would defeat the purpose of having sex in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 02:29 AM
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It happens in situations that involve it being a requirement, it mostly occurs to the men who are in the category of ~will choose no sex over condom sex~ Its happened to me before, she needed to get back on the pill and I didnt want to pay tolls to have condom sex, so I told her to hit me up when shes back on the pill. She didnt really lie about being on the pill to fuck, she lied about being on the pill because it was the only way she could get me to drive to her place
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 01:51 AM
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This is true, but in many situations there is no real long term reward, there is only avoidance of long term punishment
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 01:44 AM
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Everyone thought it was cartman but it was actually kyles dad the entire time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 01:11 AM
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Your demands are fine if you are very young, however if you are young and the man is young than I dont see how he would have a good job already I assume when you say "no sex before marriage" you also mean that he hasnt had sex with any other women, right? When people say lower your standards they arent talking about people like you, they are talking about people who are heavily focused on traits that also make the man very likely to not commit Honestly I feel like you are trolling, just because …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 01:04 AM
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it sounds wonderful if you ask me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 07:43 AM
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Dont focus too much on the messaging aspect Think about the song from Aladdin Dealing with women on the internet often feels like taking them out of their monotonous life and trying to "impress" them in a way that establishes a unique identity and life that you are bringing her into. Its why all my best interactions have been IRL, not online, because they were chill, we could just hangout. I cant imagine finding the proper personality type online after the short time I spent on it, random real l…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 06:43 AM
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This is a very good point, I can see my girlfriend doing this, if they do a good job the mental instagram filter is on If her fries dont have the right amount of salt than just wait until you show her a bad angle shes waiting to see a single flaw and BOOM BITCH LOOOK AT THOSE ANKLES YOU UGLY WHORE NO ONE WILL EVER LOVE YOU
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 06:15 AM
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I don't suffer from extreme black and white thinking -BiggerDthanYou im just playin, had to be done :P
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 06:08 AM
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Humiliation requires caring what others think of you Its just a bit twisted in terms of a desire, I think it is also based on trying to create a more attractive personality in your SO, they are more attracted to the girl by making her more immoral and allowing themselves to have more control in the future without feeling guilt or shame because they have altered their view of the girl and see her as less of a thing they need to protect or care about. I think there is a modern day madonna whore in…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 06:31 PM
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Mass shootings and male suicide rates increase, dont you think there is a link between those 2? Hopelessness or contempt + violence + media hype + purpose, differing focal points based on the males personality type There is no difference between a male suicide victim and a mass shooter besides genetics and a little nurture. We should see them the same if we really want to improve the situation People dont know how to fix this because of the increasing trend of the victim complex, people want to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 06:19 PM
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The word misogyny is way overused and stupid imo. For example, I dont think seeing women as objects AND being a misogynist can overlap, in order to hate women you need to commit thought and emotion beyond just desire. So that could be sexism(if its scripted and basic rather than based on the individual), but not misogyny right? I mean do you hate your toaster? Ofc not, but if the toaster doesnt like being used it may convince itself that you hate it in order to validate its own desire for vengea…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:47 PM
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The word misogyny is way overused and stupid imo. For example, I dont think seeing women as objects AND being a misogynist can overlap, in order to hate women you need to commit thought and emotion beyond just desire. So that could be sexism(if its scripted and basic rather than based on the individual), but not misogyny right? I mean do you hate your toaster? Ofc not, but if the toaster doesnt like being used it may convince itself that you hate it in order to validate its own desire for vengea…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:21 PM
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We are not arguing about whether or not change should happen You are a lot like my brother and many other SJWs ive seen, you give yourself credit for having ideas to the extent that other people who dont need to think that way for justification/validation become a source for you to "blame" for the worlds problems. You probably assume that my opinion of the world is different, that I must want a different outcome than you, but simply put I do not experience any shame, blame, or guilt so I dont ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 01:01 AM
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If she says she has BPD than she doesnt have bpd she is most likely just a special snowflake looking for people to accept her flaws and using a diagnosis and being upfront about it so you just accept her "quirks" When people lead with their problems like that its not because they are working on them, its so you cant blame them for it later I would give it a shot, if shes really bpd ill know by the end of the day
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 01:19 PM
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You know who else was thinking your way? Hitler, castro, every terrorist, etc. Rose tinted glasses, I dont know how you managed to not see that...? Change isnt always good, dunno how you could forget that. No need to present something neutral as good, thats just disingenuous and some kind of randomly selected jury of sorts democratically vote on who gets roles in films This is backtracking, you were previously talking in general, not just about movie roles, every single job needs a jury to hire …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 01:12 PM
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So you are saying that cooperatives should be the only option? You keep third parties objective via democracy. How would you do this? No one is objective, so how would a extra person accomplish that? Whats stopping me from giving them some money to side with me? Or picking a buddy who will always agree with me? You appear to think it's perfectly okay for bosses to sleep with their employees, or maybe have some weird fantasy about it yourself, as you're not even bothering to put any effort into f…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 05:28 AM
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There are many good threads about this already, mainly the idea is that you need to "earn" the right to show weakness or to only reveal insecurities once you have already made some individual progress towards fixing them. In todays world many people reveal things about themselves more as a warning, not as an indication that they are going to change or that they understand their problem. So if there are things about you that other people may not like that you either dont mind or cant change than …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 07:15 PM
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You described how you view terpers, but how do you know what terpers think of when they imagine a "stoic" individual? How do you know they arent thinking of the same thing you are? If they had to point it out as something to delve into than it wouldnt make sense to use a current description of them in order to define how they view stoicism, if that were the case than they would never need to bring it up in the first place I also dont see why you think fashion can signal stoicism, fashion signals…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 06:57 PM
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I deleted my previous comment by accident What are the "stoic" dudes that TRP thinks of? I also dont understand why you are describing physical style, style has nothing to do with emotion or insecurity
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 06:31 PM
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I partly agree with you, I dont like submissive women, however I do like the confrontational women who(from my experience) are still attracted to stoic dudes I notice many women nowadays phrase what you describe as "I dont wanna be his mom" I wouldnt want to give you advice because your blue pill so being a human is prob far more natural for you and I pretty much only fuck with fringe sociopaths who arent exactly the norm, however I would bet that just because you like more masculine women it do…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 06:15 PM
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He also used to be a man, which was more of the point I was making
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 09:46 PM
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I saw cindy crawford on a commercial recently and thought she looked a lot like caitlynn jenner
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 09:41 PM
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My mom wanted me to talk like a poet from the victorian era or some shit, as long as it went a long well with her while she pretended to be princess diana combined with cruella deville I did enjoy pointing out everytime she fake laughed to people
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 10:43 PM
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My mother made me her partner. Meaning I had to listen to all her problems, our house problems, money problems etc from an early age. She always told me we have to be a team. I know how you feel, I feel like my personality, interests and even language was chosen for me since birth. Its essentially like not having parents at all in the sense of communication or knowing each other because after a while I just gave up, my mom has an idea of me in her head that has never gone away and its someone I …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 08:03 PM
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I know, we have such a special relationship based on trust <3
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 04:38 PM
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Shes the type of girl who was getting jail mail when she was still in high school I even call it rape after she wakes up the next day, its the cherry on top Shes great, its important that I remind myself of that, so ty for doubting that she could even exist
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 04:17 PM
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Are you sure? I always have seen this "negative feedback loop" start in the opposite way Typically I am the one who has wanted to avoid being touched first because I dont like being teased. This is when blue pillers refer to men "withdrawing affection" because if affection gets me hard than I expect the girl to do something with that(not everytime, but a certain % of the time depending on factors like children, work, etc), otherwise leave me alone and dont make me hard just to let me sit here ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 08:03 AM
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My brother is diagnosed bipolar among other shit, he has 3 or 4 handlers in some outpatient thing It mainly just means he is supposed to avoid alchohol, stims and needs to maintain a strict sleep schedule because his highs and lows are more extreme Which is odd, because my drug tolerance and ability to remain lucid is insane and I sleep like a baby(my brother has some thyroid thing that fucks with his sleep). My girlfriend told me that I somehow I manage to always roll on anything I take, meanwh…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 12:48 AM
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Because they want you to be seen as "worth" something, they want your sexuality to get you ahead in life, they want your pussy to be worth more Thats desire, power, control Theres nothing stopping you from giving up social appeal and just start fucking like an animal, but like I said, you have to really want it. Meaning you have to want your sexuality enough to not care what people think of you and want it bad enough that it isnt to be used as some bargaining chip. Plenty of girls embrace their …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 05:11 AM
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I understand the cartoon, but I dont think many people want to unlearn it, they just think they do I dont see how its protective though, seems more territorial/competitive to me. I guess you could say it protects your appeal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 05:06 AM
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I genuinely dont know what your point is You cant have a "sexuality" with your boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 04:14 AM
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That doesn't change my response. You think men are only pigs behind closed doors? I think you are having a conversation in your head and replying to my post as if I have any clue what you are talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 04:00 AM
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I didnt say that, I said feeling desired while dissociating or "acting" is often choosen over just fucking When I say control, I dont mean during sex, I mean in life
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 03:41 AM
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Women often choose power over sexuality, but theres no reason you cant have both, it just depends on how much you desire that power and control, at a certain point you become an actor The women who have the "greatest sexuality" are the ones who are the most willing to initiate, some women refuse to initiate for this simple reason. Their desire to be desired for that feeling of control is greater than any physical longing or euphoria they could hope for, funny enough this same style of thinking i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 03:31 AM
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You think that isnt a fantasy world? If you started a business how would you hire your first employee? How would you keep a 3rd party objective? How would you eliminate the concept of a bribe within a world full of overcivilized apes? WHat you just said is one of the biggest fantasy worlds I can imagine
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 12:41 AM
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The point I was making is that most of those women wouldnt have had a big break at all I see what you are saying, but you cant stop competition and sex is something we highly value, its not worth saying something if its just based in a fantasy world and your point could only be realistic if the benefits of being in hollywood(money, fame) were greatly diminished so people would have far less of a desire to be a part of it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 06:16 AM
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Everytime I see this statement it confuses me, because I dont think those men actually want to be babysat either, but women often say it like the man demands it of them or something Like you often hear that quote thats like "men always see me as a concept, somehting to be fixed, something to make them feel alive, whatever yada yada yada" And I think a lot of times when women try to change and fix men they change the wording to imply that the man is like demanding it of them or some shit, but its…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 05:22 AM
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I would say its buyers remorse if the woman wasnt qualified from the start but workers rights issue if she was A few years before I met my girlfriend she gave her boss nudes, a blowjob and let him fuck her on his desk at work so that he would get her a new job that paid twice as much as she was previously making. She didnt really have any job experience that was relevant for her new job and it was a management position on top of that You are making the assumption that those women would still be …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 04:47 AM
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This is such a strange conversation you guys are all having, I guess the emotional persistence is impressive, if not pathetic Its just an argument about the way society views you, mgtow want to be seen as leaving the system and some women want mgtow to understand that they were rejected from the system and that they need to agree with that statement I mean I understand why, mgtow want to be missed and they want the option to return as better than they were before which requires them to leave on …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 06:25 PM
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Can you explain post modernism to me, because based on my uneducated view of it I dont see how its useful on a societal level I agree with it in terms of myself, but not everyone else Its not that I dont think absolute truth exists(its just worthless to me), but I think that we may all have different "truths" and that truth itself is not necessarily important if it is not functional. I also care nothing for truth and have no desire to seek it except when I gain an advantage from having informati…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 03:00 AM
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The internet would need some restrictions too, hollywood would need changes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 02:38 AM
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I was thinking more hvac
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 09:37 PM
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Prostitution is where those points meet and backpage too, but lets forget about that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 08:41 PM
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Waiting to be picked up at an intersection by a working class white guy Bonus points if hes in a pickup truck or a white van
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 08:22 PM
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Its more of a clothing style where I live, but in my area theres lots of heroin addicts in the late teens so they are prob above average prostitutes Like heels and shorts with the bottom of your ass hanging out at 5am in 40 degree weather
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 07:39 PM
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The way you post seems very narcissistic to me, its sad, really You're pretty fickle if a random one paragraph internet forum post can change your mind. When it comes to opposition im like water
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 11:29 AM
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Do you think its odd that when you read his message your first impulse was just to claim how much you dont personally desire it and only post from your POV riddled with emotion Only to follow it up with "thats sad" if someone were to have any opinion other than your own. Who cares if someone lives differently than you? Why does it need to be sad? Do people living different lives make you question your own that badly? I didnt even disagree with you to begin with, but the way you post makes me cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 05:14 AM
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Youre right its a stupid question for me to ask But I prefer to define it on willingness to adapt/self sacrifice and compromise. So when you say you are good at love and bad at relationships it is a much different view than the one I hold
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 11:34 PM
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Define love
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 04:41 AM
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That is the most rp statement you could make lol, like idk how that person even thinks they are blue Some people are so confused
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 05:28 AM
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Yep, its like art for my dick Why wouldnt I like seeing visually pleasing stimuli? Does your mouth not water if you see someone eating something super fucking delicious?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 04:40 AM
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Not all men watch this dennis reynolds balls and ass porn you speak of, idk why you even bring it up. It would most likely mean you are gay or bi anyway, not a cuckold. Idk if this is abnormal but im pretty sure most guys are watching porn as if it's them fucking the girl, like hes part of it but its like you only see him in your peripheral vision or whatever. Think of it like pornstars are avatars for your dick. Its the reason why pov porn is so popular Other things like dp porn or random/weird…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 03:58 AM
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People defend things that they know benefit them, it makes sense, therefore the solution is also simple Its like the saying "hit em where it hurts, their wallet" except instead of wallet its dicks. I dont mean kick them in the dick, but if I have to explain it any further than it wouldnt help anyway. You cna kick dicks too, but thats just a hobby The true definition of masculinity is whatever you need to do to get what you want directly, the true definition of feminity is doing what you need to …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 07:05 PM
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I would eat with my mouth open
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 05:58 PM
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BGRO DID U SEE HOW BADLY THEY TREATED SAMMI? snooki tried to drown this fucking bitc h, she deserved to lose her wedding ring for not respecting sammi. Deena is classy as fuck standing up for dolls rights, classy meatball shes the sweetest doll youll ever meet
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 10:07 PM
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I think that when people experience things like shame, lack of acceptance, fear of rejection etc etc you cant give them another dose of that as a reaction because thats just a feedback loop of the same emotion with no clear escape or answer It just leads to radicalization and people taking up any view or ideology that the majority is against, everything becomes based around spite and nonconformity
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 10:03 AM
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Adding the word 'sincerity' to your previous method technically does make it different, but it didnt actually come off sincere, thats not how people talk in those moments, you would be more willing to ask questions and display empathy rather than being dismissive in your delivery But ill give you credit for the attempt
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 01:53 AM
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You just did it again lol That doesnt work, you gotta try something new when your methods dont work. Do you know the definition of insanity? Every question and every person in life has a correct answer, something to say or do that gets you what you want, why keep filling in the same blank on a multiple choice test just to keep failing? I already know why you do, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 01:46 AM
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So they die, why else would they shoot at them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 01:41 AM
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I feel like these types of reactions are the ones that devolve society into a breeding ground for serial rape and school shooters Shame doesnt work on men, well it does but not in the way those people want, idk why people dont realize that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 01:34 AM
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What if running made you uglier, would you still do it? Would you settle for a brisk jog every once and a while instead? I dont know why im asking this lol. I just know bath salts and cocaine age me on a cellular level and I dont give a fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 02:32 AM
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Ill try to make an attempt, but I know that people wont argue that specific parts that are important if I add to much things that will distract them away from the point Ill give it some thinking because I know its easily gonna turn into a "men do that too" type of response if I dont word it very specifically. Or even worse "thats not a bad thing" or "blame SHOULD lead to punishment" which is the source of all the victim blaming stuff and offended being empowering stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 01:22 AM
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Idk maybe, I wanted to rewrite it but I fear it will come out looking for a journal entry and I dont know how to make it more pill oriented without ruining what I wanted to say Its more of a general psychology post that is I feel is very relevant in the current social climate, but not related to pills at all But if you have an idea of what I should do to make it suitable I may do it if I feel like it, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 01:18 AM
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Hi mod
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 01:12 AM
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So you think that if being a player was easy than it would 1) become shameful 2) men would choose not to be players Because otherwise I dont see the point of your post, it just becomes a random comment meant for your own personal justification and approval Seems silly to me, you are just repeating a conscious justification that isnt important to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 06:16 PM
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but doesn't know how to be an interesting partner. This doesnt make sense to me, I also hate the way you phrased it but thats not important If anything people who sleep around are far more interesting, my gf is a giant whore and has great fucking stories. The problem that they really have is just that they cant sit still, they cant have things boring or 'normal' They are chasing that chemical high their entire life, its not that they cant get people to settle down, its that they dont actually wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 05:54 AM
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It’s unfair to shame sluts and celebrate studs. On paper, it’s injust. Its not about morality, its just about whether or not it has worked in the past. Slut shaming becomes closer to nonexistant every year, because people dont care as much. The reason player shaming isnt a thing is because if you do it than no one gives a fuck, there is no reward so people dont do it. Shame is a tool to control the behavior of others. Men and women have different goals, desires and reactions to shame itself All …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 01:18 AM
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How can I make it more on topic? Would adding things like "bp usage vs rp usage" make it more on topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 03:08 AM
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Maybe hes a russian immigrant, im sure you could find one you like I know some good looking russians who have fucked prostitues, you just gotta be able to tlak him down from all his tax fraud scams and bail him outta jail when he gets arrested for hunting geese with a crossbow in a national park
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 04:56 PM
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My girlfriend has thos kegal egg things that she uses everytime she takes a shower and trsut me they fucking work, I used to work at amazon and they sell a product called "vagifirm" for $50 that has like 5 stars and is most definitely bullshit(im guessing) Anyway, the reason is because its an insecurity, so when they feel insecure they try to shame you and make you insecure. Its a genuine worry. Even if their comeback to what the man said is correct and hes an idiot its still not the reason for …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 04:36 PM
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They defend information as amoral because people want to throw the baby out with the bathwater, obviously morality always applies to individuals. Defending information and freedom of speech is not the same as defending an individual I cant tell if this is you being manipulative or just not understanding, seems simple to me but I dont have an us vs them mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 04:26 PM
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check ur priv the surgery is coming
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 04:15 PM
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What about human individuality/uniqueness? What about respect for a unique human individual? wHAT ON EARTH DOES THIS EVEN MEAN lol, are you saying something like "pretend to be blind...but in your head, your thoughts of others should be blind" I dont see what you are saying, this stuff is private
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 05:03 AM
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I think we have a much different view of what emotional empathy is and what its purpose is for, I also wasnt really asking if you actually have thoughts like what I wrote. More like if an alien observed you from outer space and tried to turn you into a mathematical equation just to understand you and how your mind rationalizes your behaviior into a perception of choice, individuality, accountability, etc. But I guess it wouldnt make sense to hear what youre looking for directly from the horses m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 08:22 PM
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I didnt really mean it like that, I think people do certain things to like "pay their dues" so that they can be selfish or less generous in the future Its like how some people give out change to homeless people every once and a while or wear a pink shirt on breastcancer day, people are selectively generous so that they dont have to be generous in the future. I notice the people who are very helpful to strangers(like helping you push your dead car into the shoulder so it doesnt hold up the road) …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 03:48 PM
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If you didnt donate anything would it have no impact on you? Does donating money have an impact on how you view yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 04:03 AM
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Sure, especially if they are white and know they wont suffer repercussions and still choose to speak on behalf of others in a way that isnt gonna end well
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 03:02 PM
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I think that if they didn't feel bad for others they wouldn't do it, they do it to alleviate that feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 02:03 PM
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I would agree that it is incorrect, but not that the penalty is noteworthy By comparison you could take something like black lives matter, if a bunch of people use #BLM for their own politics and doesn't show up to the riots than are they not using black people as a scapegoat who will suffer at the hands of actual physical violence? Will those people just blend into the crowd or stand with the black people during the riots or take responsibility and be with them? I would say this is a much more …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 01:17 PM
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If 100% were we wouldn't have humanitarian organizations or charities. If you feel bad or guilty about something than it is within your own self interest to make yourself feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 01:10 PM
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That's because BP never claimed to want to help men get laid at all. Why would we owe you an alternative? I see this type of mindset a lot nowadays, especially with language like "owe" instead of ask. People who demand that everything is not only in their image, but also on their terms without saying anything in the first place. Mind reading essentially IMO this is the type of wording that creates resentment, hate, bitterness, etc Are you sure that you aren't encouraging the very thing that you …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 05:27 AM
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Do you ever think that maybe people aren't actually honest with themselves? Or maybe they aren't even capable of being honest with themselves? Personally I think that deep deep down people want to see themselves and nothing more, if you learned to value what they naturally valued than it means that the people with the learned behavior wont have the same cause for that set of behaviors so they will be hard to control with anything other than what they originally wanted to develop those traits. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 05:13 AM
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What are they scapegoats for? What behavior or act was added or increased within the world? I cant think of anything other than what they might see reading the subreddit itself
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 05:01 AM
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many men and women are just self-interested You mean absolutely everyone on the planet I personally don't have any expectation for the world to be fair, however I will use the concept in order to push my own goals. You could have used the same argument against slavery, at the end of the day you use whatever you have at your disposal. What you are saying makes sense, but many people on both sides choose hate That's a human problem
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 04:52 AM
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I have no data to back this up, but I would bet casual sex involves less eye contact and more dissociation. Typically one of the main desires of casual sex is to make sex in general less impactful, to give your sexual partners less control over your emotions. A lot of people are trying to go in both directions at once, which is why they find themselves ins ome odd poly moral relationships that has like 10 words they need to define their "relationship" So I would agree with those people who say t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 09:44 PM
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It is part of it though, plenty of people will try to use sex dolls in their relationships to make things more even(or less depending on your pov) Its like that bill burr joke with the victory wank, the more upgrades the victory wank get the more effective it becomes We only care about sex dolls because they are about control, men want more outlets that are close to what women provide and women want to get the most for what they have to offer without giving you any moral alternatives. If you tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 09:38 PM
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Sup. I have actually been thinking about making a post about spree shooters and their style of thinking but I cant imagine it going over well so I haven't been reading this as much It would require me to get people to acknowledge some big cultural/psychological misconceptions so I know most wouldn't be willing to listen beyond like 2 sentences. When I was like 15 I know that sometimes I wasn't even allowed to finish a sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 04:33 AM
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I think it would be easier to just say "give you what you want or give you what works based on subjective observation" If you make it specific than you imply that its like a religious belief that doesnt change or adapt, the reason why people would want to present information that way is so that they dont have to take any personal responsibility or acknowledge that an idea or set of behaviors are reactionary. People want to target behavior rather than try to change the cause to get a different ef…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 10:20 PM
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R u sure that this is an actual thing? I don't think you can keep "wooing" a girl, I mean I guess it depends on your definition but I feel like that is a lust based thing that is new and exciting I have always felt like that behavior doesn't really keep working, or at least the girl doesn't react in the way that she did in the begging. Maybe the guy tried a couple times and you didn't even register it, so he stopped doing it. Just a thought I think it can be done, but not in a romantic sense. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 04:47 AM
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I agree with you, but theres also part of me that disagrees with you just because I know so many people who expect their companion to entertain them and shit If someones not doing shit is different from we arent doing shit because he wont tell me what were gonna go do so we both just do nothing. Personally I think the way to tell if its a problem is if they always turn down your plans and you end up doing everything yourself But im not part of a family or anything like that so maybe its a lot mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 04:31 AM
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People believe what they need to believe and it changes throughout their life based on what their internal self needs to value about themselves or blame in the material world to push their own personal narrative(rereard this sentence after the end of my post, personal narrative can make leaps and bounds if you need) My view is rigid and absolute because it is suited for the current version of me, I deliver it in the way that my subconscious(or conscious at this point lol) thinks will be the corr…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 06:47 PM
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Its not horror or anything like that, its one of those movies like requiem for a dream that makes people uncomfortable but shows how people rationalize trauma and how it can define their personality in different ways You probably wont want to watch it ever again if you do, its not mindless fun or anything but its good if you like psychological shit. Now that I think about it there's a sadistic feeling I get whenever I try to get people to watch it, so take my word with a grain of salt ;p
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 01:59 PM
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Oh ya, i do like her, and u too! Dont u daRE think i forgot about the tortureporn You should watch funny games if you havent seen it yet, its not tortureporn at all but I liked it a lot. Pet if you wanna see a kidnapping movie with a sexy bitch dripping blood from her mouth Mysterious skin too, its got those duality dahmer vibes. Some people are easier to understand when torn in two, I assume that was the intention but who knows, I be makin shit up
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 01:22 PM
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Its how we attempt to control each other within a group dynamic. The easier it is for our external needs to be met the less individualism we have within our society because we have greater needs out of our internal self, we push things like empathy, placing blame, free will and conciousness in order to make groups within groups to further our own specific needs but without any of the individuality. True individuality dies with communication Were observers who tell ourselves we are in the drivers…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 12:17 AM
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Have you seen the deuce?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 02:45 PM
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I totally forgot about happilysinglewoman, jammerly1 posts in a somewhat similar way that is less tolerable, that would be my only guess if she's still here
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 02:41 PM
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The only people who don't like things to be transactional are the ones expecting to get free shit. I always talk transactional with my ball and chain and everything works out fine That sentence does NOT mean i come off cheap, but I am transactional I dont mind being used because I demand that I am useful and vice versa, I know this sounds like something that women would not take well but I never aim for those types of people who care more about looking perfect than actually making shit work. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 09:55 AM
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We would all just become drug addicts and start killing each other, you know how bored we would all be? And why the duck would we care about advancement without feelings? Feelings are the only thing that creates civilization. We would all just be monotonous potatoes. Conciousness and free will are bullshit anyway, it's just a way to place blame in a group structure. Consciousness doesn't exist beyond the idea of consciousness itself
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 09:46 AM
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collective unconscious stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 06:20 PM
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Why do you see it as Team Man instead of Team Me? The latter is the reality for anyone worth anything in the modern west
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 09:20 AM
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Eh, interesting requires confidence and good delivery. So if you throw the halo effect on top of that sexy ass dude the same topic can suddenly become interesting Imagine 2 guys on opposite ends of the spectrum talking about tentacle porn, I mean I have gotten people to like me with some strange ass fucking stories When I was a young teenager I would always have these dreams(for years if I recall) in which I would fuck this alien girl and her pussy would eat me(vagina dentata myths are all based…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 08:09 AM
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I have 2 friends who got a 2nd degree just because they didnt want to go out into the work world yet and they came from families that were very well off, if I had the option to do that I would do the same thing. It doesnt seem shocking to me at all, its just uncommon because most people cant do it I think you most likely have a fairly biased view of that friend of friend just based on the way you worded your post. I mena if the guys got a phd or is close than im not sure that I would say he has …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 05:21 PM
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Your opinion of what "sexy" looks like is not based on you, its based on your desire to be accepted and valued by others dictated by what you have seen specific people seek out your entire life True individuality doesn't care what it looks like, obviously thats not good at getting what you want within a group but all of your opinions of your physical form are based on others reaction to you, nothing more
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 07:00 AM
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When determining what something is, you look at intent, not the physical real world existence or reaction. So if the goal is to hurt peoples feelings than it is bullying, if the goal is to be playful and continue the dialogue than it is flirting. So I want you to define negging with actual words. IMO the word negging itself is meant to be vague so you can use it however you want, even if it doesnt make sense or so that it still holds weight during a misunderstanding(like when a woman is offended…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 03:26 AM
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What is negging? Is it the same as playfully showing that you arent submissive and enjoy challenge? How is negging pathetic? Is it pathetic if it works in the hopes that your view of those people would dissuade them from negging? Does your opinion of negging imply that it would work on you or at the least impact your mood? Honestly I dont think negging really exists, theres bullying and flirting. Negging is just a word women use whenever they feel like it when they dont like something regardless…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 02:09 AM
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If the male genuinely doesn't give a fuck than the woman wont want to see through any "bullshit" tactic and if she wants to see bullshit than she will regardless of the existence of said bullshit It has nothing to do with being young or abused, thats a factor sure, but its really just about attraction, desperation and lust If you walk into a situation looking for bullshit than you are gonna find it regardless. Humans are 99% bullshit anyway, its just people who think their shit dont stank
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 05:56 PM
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Its just a translation for "stop doing that" Its not that those women are against manipulation, its that they are for social darwinism, meaning they dont want men to teach other men anything Its best not to directly argue these things, just ask them what male movie characters they are the most attracted to and ask yourself what kind of personality those characters have. Your problem is that you are seeking permission to learn how to manipulate people(I dont think you are actually doing but many …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 10:32 AM
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None of them have mental health problems, not the ones I have read about anyway Almost all of the shooters fit the same profile as anders breivak, they are martyrs pushing a view that benefits the world, they are trying to balance the good and evil of the world in order to find harmony. The others are malignant narcissists who want to compete numbers wise, fame and detachment You know you always hear lefties tlaking about gun control, how bout they go buy a bunch of guns and force them to ban th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 01:31 PM
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None of them do, well not many Almost all of the shooters fit the same profile as anders breivak, they are martyrs pushing a view that benefits the world, they are trying to balance the good and evil of the world in order to find harmony. The others are malignant narcissists who want to compete numbers wise, fame and detachment You know you always hear lefties tlaking about gun control, how bout they go buy a bunch of guns and force them to ban the guns? Do something positive for the world rathe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 01:07 PM
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We fall in love with our fears, its normal. Fight, flight, freeze or friend. Its important to note that there is a huge difference between sexuality based around conflict and sexuality based around submission. There's no shame if you had no choice, which is why total submission to the point of not even having the ability to fight or change the outcome is the actual preference women tend to have. If there is hope than there can be shame, thought, choice. The latter looks way more fun imo, but tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 07:06 AM
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Cant forget about the brain damage tho, no way to know what those dudes were capable of if they put their time and energy elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 07:00 AM
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You gotta do some thinking for yourself, but if you want a hint than compare the relationship of trump and putin and hitler with the aryans Trump/putin only exists because of the lefts reaction to the middle east
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 08:22 PM
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Good vs Evil Conviction vs Strength Honesty vs Deceit yada yada yada, you cant play both sides and expect good things to happen, look what happened to the jews
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 07:10 PM
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who cares about the bottom of the barrel anything
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 06:10 AM
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Depends what side of the coin youre on, theres always a balance, just do what benefits you. There's no reason to tell you really, we all do that regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 11:42 PM
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Sure, not exactly the point but I like your initiative
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 10:31 PM
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The problem is that its hard to control narcissism and image/identity when you take away slut shaming or STD risk, because when there is less slut shaming for women than they have much more authority over what convictions and values are found desirable in men while still maintaining a dominance hierarchy so that men will actually be willing to do anything socially. Successful men nowadays skip other men, we interact directly with women rather than competing with each other as much, there is much…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 09:33 AM
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That's fine as long as those convictions are self sustaining, functional in an interpersonal way(meaning others benefit, not just you) and not based on what you want others to act like, but what you will reward in others and pursue yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 04:48 AM
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Religion is the beginning and the end my friend, its just a long path to get back, most people get stuck in the autistic nihilism or desperately fool around with existentialism hoping they can deal with their shit self esteem People fail to see that they seek out "truth" and forget their convictions, the truth doesnt matter without conviction, if something is useful to you as a tool than its true
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 01:31 AM
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It says demand, not ask. Im not against any of those things, but if she is a cunt about it than I will do the exact opposite If im not appreciated for those things, why would I do them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 05:32 PM
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She demands you live with her and be exclusive to her You're expected to do half or more of the cooking and cleaning. You have sex on her schedule, not yours. I just cant imagine her being like that based on the description, I don't see how she could be those things at the same time. You could argue that a girl could have all those things, but not in this example. If B is annoying than I would assume it is by accident, and based on the description she would stop being annoying if she knew, if it…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 05:27 PM
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keep on backpedalling. sometimes i forget how incredible i am
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 05:23 PM
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If you check back, I have not actually committed to any opinion of my own, im just pointing out dumb shit Any concrete idea you assume that I have is just you being emotional and jumping to conclusions
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 09:27 AM
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The problem is that A is gonna act like a super cunt, grade a annoying, the type of woman who tries to tell you that you cant walk around the house with 2 different socks on Thats the one that you are gonna have to start avoiding I mean b might be boring but im not so we cool. I mean I think I would have to see in person, nice looking but not pretty translates to like cute with a snaggle tooth right? As long as she has that back and forth personality rather than the zero self esteem submissive t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 07:14 AM
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transgender is just a form of psychoticism with zero individuality
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 06:52 AM
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Hes a competitive guy, a born winner. You think he was gonna let these kardashian bitches win? Nah thats his tv show now, HES THE WOMAN OF THE YEAR NOW, move out the way khloe you fat cow the bigger one is here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 05:45 AM
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If that reminded you of TRP why would they join TRP? "Any club that would let me be a member, I wouldn't want to join?" like how do u not see that part, you are trying to see everything you hate in everything you can insult and its pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 12:15 AM
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Backpedaling would require you to actually say something, you quoted something that you didn't understand, I did you a favor and made a clarification
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 09:29 PM
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dat pretzel brain
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 10:17 AM
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That's called mocking, its fun
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 10:09 AM
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So there is no fault, so there is no blame So that means that the "victim" which is being "blamed" is having an attraction and a desire to be a victim and being blamed Which means we need to not give a fuck about victims, see how this goes? lefties/feminists r dum dums ;p
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 08:10 AM
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Ideas and actions are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 04:06 AM
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This is just as bad as the op, ok not just as bad, not anywhere near as annoying anyway We are irrational creatures attempting to rationalize, the idea that because you can obtain all that data and stats is one thing, but the assumption that you can also apply it? Well that's delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 03:28 AM
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Everyone who has ideas that aren't like mine are mentally ill!!! this behavior is NOT ok and VERY problematic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 03:07 AM
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Do you think that the opposite of a social justice warrior is some racist person who hates equality and women? OR do you think that the opposite is just people who will accept being called a "racist" or a "nazi" just to spite you without actually having any of those beliefs Now I know, the natural defensive thought is like "but they are validating real racists and sexists, so it doesnt matter" but before that you need to ask yourself if there is really a place for those people in the left that a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 07:31 AM
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you are my favorite troll, i mean i genuinely cant tell but I enjoy it either way, you have this dyslexic russian mystique about you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 07:22 AM
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Its important to motivate yourself, cultivate feelings and ideas to obtain what you desire, but it works best if the post is in TRP sub. No fap would work too if that sub is still a thing, haven't had one of those guys knock on my door in a while so idk
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 07:19 AM
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Before I ran away in 5th grade I had run away a bunch of times(at my old house we didn't live near anyone so I had nowhere to go) and I would wait for hours for her to leave the house, she never would and eventually I would get hungry and go home She would never acknowledge how she wanted me or anything, I think she knew that I was just trying to be the one with the power, like I would have no problem staying if I just had the control I wanted. In her mind she cant give me the freedom to choose …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 03:58 AM
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I got you beat! :p I cannot remember a single time my mom has ever hugged me, as for whether or not my mom wanted me as a child I would say its complicated. She wanted a girl, and im a guy. BUT she still wanted me in the sense that she tried to raise me to be the romanticized version of a man that she never managed to find. I could go into a lot of specific details that are fucked up, but they don't matter. So she tried to create me in her image, but as her male desire rather than a carbon copy …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 03:40 AM
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I agree, but that post makes it sound like those people weren't fucking with opiates before they lost their job. When they lose their job they have so much free time and pressure that they can easily make it worse. But I cant imagine many regular people who don't fuck with drugs losing their jobs and jumping straight into banging heroin, certainly not enough to talk about it in a cause and effect way like that I havent fucked with opiates in a while, im more of a stim guy but ill speedball every…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 02:41 AM
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Why do you think that what you think you want is actually good for you, why do you think you are the best judge of yourself? Why do you think that you even understand yourself to begin with? Don't know how that is remarkable. Men are looking for an out/release to their lack of job. As they don't have any other place to turn to and its their escape from reality and how they cope. This is very important, this conclusion that you came up with should be read and than applied to everything else that …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 11:40 PM
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You gotta be ahead of the game, you know how it be ;p
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 11:30 PM
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east coast
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 06:17 AM
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Develop a rape fetish before they get the chance
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 06:12 AM
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If you really like the guy than I dont see why not, cant rape the willing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 06:08 AM
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I appreciate the response
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 04:27 AM
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I appreciate it man, I know I dont talk like this often lol. People tend to totally withdrawal when I do, which jsut doesnt make sense to me since this is the internet I cant even talk normal to my parents, my mom cant help but be terrified even when im describing what game of thrones characters could have done a better job
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 04:26 AM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 01:25 AM
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You guys are so shy, I promise im a good boy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 12:39 AM
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I exclusively had rape fantasies when I was a teen, I also had these conflicting rape fantasies involving disgust and hate towards my mom Its more about acceptance, its about power in the sense that you aren't giving the freedom for someone to say no, your freedom starts when someone else's ends. In my mind its kind of a nice thing, like merciful in some way, like when you feel ownership over something you become protective. At least that's what I would say it is. If you know the emotion related…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 10:47 PM
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The pro sexbot mgtow opinions have started
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 05:22 PM
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Why do they want the submissive wife? Why do they advocate for men to have control over women? Why does the creator of a subreddit define the motivation and perception of someone who sees it? How does this tie in with being a republican? Tie it all into a nice package
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 03:00 PM
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go on... explain the details
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 01:26 PM
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His philosophy makes some jumps and assumptions, he puts too much weight on the idea that we cannot create convictions in a way that isn't based around Christianity and he puts too much faith in jung. He just makes up for it with everything else that you(and I) like about him But I don't think hes wrong, especially not based on the positions hes arguing against. But I would say it would not be wise to see peterson the way he sees jung
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 11:08 AM
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MGTOW has nothing to do with enjoying the decline, they have a rebellious view of opting out of the game and want to be valued and begged to come back and play again TRP doesn't really push anything, they allow you to take part in an echo chamber to mirror your thoughts back at yourself. But it has no societal purpose or goal, if you see someone pushing traditionalism than they are pushing it within their own life and like minded people are nodding their heads But it is not some type of movement…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 11:01 AM
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I was gonna say you were wrong, but instead ill go with this TRP doesnt think you can stop the decline, its not possible, so you might as well enjoy it. Which is why they say "enjoy the decline"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 10:30 AM
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I like Jordan Peterson a lot but he has some pretty flawed premises imo, I still often agree with him but only because he typically argues with people who have absolutely zero premise to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 10:24 AM
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They want that but that doesnt mean that the world couldnt change to the point that they wanted something else So if they are saying that they want something that is different than the norm than the desire they have could easily change Nowhere on any of the pill websites or subreddits will you find them suggesting that men marry, or suggesting it as a valid goal. Even MRP discourages marriages and instead acts as a resource for men who have made the mistake (in their view) of marrying before fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 08:02 AM
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I dont think men want anything specific, they just want to be one of the winners, they want it to be simple and they want it to be consistent. (which means men prefer a world that is low expectations but with good rewards for ambition and success, it keeps competition/dominance fun and valuable without any stress or need and keeps good male convictions alive) So they promote whatever world best suits what they bring to the table. Thats why TRP is mainly just "enjoy the decline" because it just d…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 07:43 AM
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I don't know why we still talk about this Lets ask ourselves a question, if you got rid of slut shaming do you imagine the world exactly the same but without the slut shaming? Because that's not what it would be like. When you take away the slut shame, it just turns into prude shaming So the question is do you want prude shaming? Do women want prude shaming? No, right? Well that is why slut shaming hasn't gone away, because men AND women have to commit to getting rid of slut shaming. I don't thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 06:44 AM
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I think one of the important factors is that if multiple people "initiate" passively towards the same target than it shouldn't count, because it could be missed or ignored and its a zero sum game(well, you know what I mean). Proactive initiation discourages other initiation if it is received well(most often anyway) and cant be missed If 20 bitches all wink or some shit at the same dude than the research isn't really useful and only gives a false impression Perhaps the problem is the percentage o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 06:32 AM
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I thought u meant like women who protested would be blacklisted, I was saying they wont be blacklisted if the act of blacklisting them would lose money If someone is valuable enough people dont care about the past, if you need an example look at mike vick
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 05:39 AM
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Who cares tho honestly, I mean you shouldnt expect random people to be trustworthy Im not saying you should put up with it, but I wouldnt let it ruin an opportunity, if anything I would just agree with her
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/18 04:46 AM
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I have no moral or judgemental opinion of steroid use, I have blast and criused for a few years myself, dont assume that im trying to shame him or anything like that. If I had to bet money I would heavily go with AAS use, its just an observation He has unlimited time to get fit Thats just not true lol, movies ya know
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 04:41 AM
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They can still earn the role, at the end of the day somebodies gotta do it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 04:34 AM
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Its important to note that it doesnt need to scream roids to likely be roids When I was taking legal prohormones no one thought I was juicing, but I was. They just thought I was working hard, which I was
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 04:31 AM
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Im not sure, if you google hemsworth with anyhting related to muscle it links a bunch of workout guides I found some in between pictures of him, but whenever you see someone whose "noob gains" jsut arent stopping its a pretty good sign of steroids, especially when they are tall
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 04:28 AM
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before after The before picture is not before lifting, its before an offer to play a superhero role in a movie
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 04:22 AM
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How tall are you and link a picture that is similiar to what you mean You also didnt reply to the timeframe part that I mentioned, which is the most important part If you are desperate to beleive something than I just assume that this isnt really about hemsworth, this is about you, your goals, your idea of capacity or fairness and who you desire to respect Im not saying its an absolute, but its not worth arguing if your identity is wrapped up in it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 04:12 AM
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Hes too tall for those proportions in the timeframe that he obtained them, theres also a specific shape that is more common in steroid users based on androgen receptors, they are more delt/trap/neck heavy(obv everyones different genetics yad yada) And everyone in hollywood uses gh already for aging, might as well bump the dose up for growth too
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 03:41 AM
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"The most common reply from women is "me too!"I seriously doubt that hahahaha, but ok. I mean, the women you're talking to could well be manipulative liars, but I doubt enough would admit it that it would be the "most common reply." Most people, men or women, hide such a truth from themselves, and certainly don't admit it to other people. I have to like the person before I say that and we all naturally like seeing ourselves in others so when I say it I almost already know the answer. That's why …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 10:58 PM
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This has nothing to do with TRP really, I have been doing it since I was like 8 I think, its really just to avoid conflict and make everything as easy as possible I must admit, that's part of why I dated that red pill guy! I wanted to know what was going on in there! So it "worked" for a time, but I'll warn you it doesn't work forever, or at least it didn't on me. Eventually, I'd walk away from a "deep talk" with him and go, wow, I told him everything about myself but didn't learn anything new a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 09:36 PM
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what if it turns me on
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 09:26 AM
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All I know is that everyone had the same idea of those kids, we didnt need to ever say it out loud They were socially inept without being rebellious or proud of themselves and werent capable of finding anything they had in common with people(other than also not having friends) so they all defaulted to each other. There were plenty of kids who didnt fit in who werent part of that friendless group, but those other ones had some variation of crazy or marketed themselves in a way that was desirable …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 09:17 AM
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Just don't treat people like they are a 'solution' to that and don't act like you are thankful for them just for being in your vicinity, at least not in a way that seems degrading or insecure. I know why you think its difficult, because you have to lead but are in a situation where it will be in an asocial way. It can work, you just cant care too much about the outcome and it has to be more about showing someone something that interests you rather than trying to entertain them in a way you think…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 09:06 AM
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There's nothing wrong with them for making friends, but they often have strong stench or some other identifier that would let people know where they are in the social hierarchy. Obviously they should fix that if they are unhappy wiht their social life
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 09:03 AM
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There are definitely some people who come off as having no friends, but whats worse is the people who become friends with a bunch of others who also dont have friends There is a lunch table of those people at every high school, its next to the retard table
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 08:49 AM
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If she has a bunch of money most definitely, shame only works on people who have jobs based on reputations and shit like that, I openly say terrible shit about myself so if you say it too it either wont matter, be seen as an inside joke about how you agree with me or it will be like "yeah no shit ur dumb" people tend to be loyal to me too so im sure there would be a group of people you would be pissing off rather than the other way around I openly tell people how much I like rape, its a great wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 06:57 AM
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A lot of manipulation is not about actual physical transactions in any sense, they are power based and more about influence, feeling, etc. Nothing more than ideas. I feel like these are situations in which it would be social influence but referred to as manipulation even if it doesnt really hit your second component. The idea of manipulation is deemed threatening I think people use the word manipulation in a situation in which they themselves had thought they were in that position or only justif…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 06:07 AM
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You know I have been thinking about it and I may agree with you, but that comes from the idea that women most likely refer to examples of social influence as manipulation in many cases, and I was defining it mostly based on the way people use it. It would make sense for people to refer to many social influence situations as manipulation if it can help them, funny enough, that would be manipulation lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 03:58 AM
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I am not saying anything specific about you, only that it was never an issue until men started doing it too, so I would say when men do it there is a feeling invoked and the acceptance that women do it too is just a rationalization people make so that their opinion doesn't come off hypocritical I say its on the mans shoulders just because it wont come up as a topic of discussion otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 02:00 AM
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This thinking would also aid the niceguy lol, because we have a "dating culture" so you could use it against women who allow orbiting
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 11:26 PM
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If you strip the moral use from it, than it implies social intelligence and awareness. It is high risk, high reward in a sense because you have already established the fact that the other person has an advantage over you in this situation and you only attack something thaqt is hard to define and your credibility is at stake If I do something manipulative against you and you call it out, all I need to do is remove the intent that you called out, not the awareness of what im doing, that is easy be…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 09:31 PM
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If you use the word manipulation against me than you are not using it as an objective description, it displays intent, morality, threat, etc. If the word is not committed to that use than there is zero point because it does not define itself that way. Which means any manipulative person could wiggle out of it and actually use it on their behalf Whether or not you use it as a weapon doesn't matter, like you said its based on the "majority of people" so that is what the world wants it to be used a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 09:10 PM
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The reason why you dont want to categorize that as manipulation is because it would make the word less useful to you, you want the world to be capable of use as a weapon I would be fine with that, if they didnt put the word "often" in the definition. People need to commit to meaning on whether or not they are to be based on morality or not and this is one of those words that goes both ways. It implies morality but refuses to define itself with morality and has a loophole, its just a useless word…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 08:57 PM
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Deception of detail is just neutral deception, you arent deceiving about what you want, need, desire etc. It is deception more about why or how It tends to just mean turning something negative into positive but still being the same idea. I could promote the idea that I like being with someone, but the reality is that I don't like being alone, its not a lie but it is more positive and the focus and attention is on the less motivational force. Its about prioritization often times, tell people what…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 08:41 PM
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I agree with you, but deception of intention is much different from deception of detail, I would say an even better use for what you are saying is deception of outcome Both of which would fall under manipulation
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 08:37 PM
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By advancing the interests of the manipulator, often at another's expense That definition shouldn't have this word based on the rest of the description. It is the most accurate word in the description but the rest of the description is there for moral reasons. Why don't they go into the description that would be in the "often" category? Because there's no moral reason to use the word in those situations, but its still manipulation They add social influence just so you can have power over others …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 08:17 PM
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Manipulation and lies are not the same thing at all Manipulation is when you interact with someone in order to get them to feel a certain way, its more about timing, nuance, and delivery. Which doesn't require a single lie and we all attempt it in every interaction we make. Succeeding at manipulation is what every couple desires, as long as they have the same desires, goals, convictions etc You are thinking of lying in situations where 2 people want different things. The word manipulative is pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 08:11 PM
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I think its more that they are willing to agree with equality of outcome when women talk about it, than become angry when they realize that those women were being very selective with and only using it when it benefits them. If you promote equality of outcome financially than people will lump that into social issues if you don't specifically say that you are against that I think those men know that those women are bullshitting when they say that, but they know that its kind of a win-win situation…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 08:00 PM
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Its about exposure and perception, you are looking for statistical evidence of something that doesnt require statistical evidence Its just another #notallmen But I dont agree with OP thta it is about complaining, its just about success and competition
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 07:47 PM
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That may be true, but if that realization is only made when its on the mans shoulders than that's a clear bias on your part, if you only run to the truth when it suits you than why would you expect people to value it at all? You need to remember how TRP is reactionary and based on observed behavior, this type of thinking only reinforces it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 07:35 PM
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This is true, but your view cant be too far from reality, so this advice can be good or life ruining
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 05:29 PM
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Dread game is just related to how much your partner values you If a man dread games a woman it doesnt mean he doesnt like her, in fact it would be more likely that she doesnt like him, so your advice shouldnt go to the person who is doing the dread game. And the reason the woman wouldnt like that answer either is more likely to be because she likes the life she has created with him which was her main goal
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 05:26 PM
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I only like attention-whoring hypergamous sluts, just as long as they are apathetic about it, like they do something for attention and complain about all the attention they get and they are hypergamous but also delusional about it and see you as perfect until you fuck it up. But yeah you cant be low self esteem makeup at the gym girl I know bitch, those fucking peasants wont leave us alone, were generous so they can look but how fucking dare theyeven think of speaking to us
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 05:16 PM
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I think that as a guy you just have to accept it as a possibility and that it should come off normal. I dont like it because ive been making a lot of my dad and brothers decisions since I was like 14 so I just have a lack of respect for people like that But with women its within my own self interest so its not a question
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 03:43 PM
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Thats what im saying, she wont even do that, she wont even drive anywhere, she wont order for herself if we eat somewhere, wouldnt pick any specific place to rent, etc At a certain point I just pick at random because its better to pick at random than to be indecisive No need to act like a child, but I guess it makes sense in this case The fact that a woman sometimes doesn't have a strong preference one way or the other doesn't mean she is crying out for leadership. Ya, she doesnt start crying sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 03:16 PM
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Because those men are happy with one or two, they don't have a compulsive need to adopt more and there aren't a bunch of wild dogs outside like cats Will graham from hannibal had a crazy dog person image(i know its a tv show lol), most of those people just have a couple acres at least so we arent as exposed to the stereotype
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 04:45 AM
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The men who dont love dogs are the ones who are terrified by them or just so lazy that they arent willing to take care of one
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 04:37 AM
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Narcissism as a disorder is when its not a choice whether or not she puts herself first, because everything else isnt given a thought its like being a 2 year old In terms of the regular spectrum it is just poor regulation of emotion based around low self esteem and the need for people to view you the way you choose to view yourself in order to repair your self esteem, the opposite of self acceptance
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 02:58 AM
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Do you really want to be your boyfriends mom, because you are describing a situation that would give him the ability to behave like that There are actually tons of guys who want that, so if thats what you want its not hard to find
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 02:42 AM
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You arent meeting the required steps, which is prioritizing a family structure over yourself as an individual. From other peoples POV your relationship wouldnt be a serious relationship, even if you wanted it to be perceived as one. You are making your decisions for you, not "us" So you shouldnt think that this applies to you It applies to couples in which one person is making most of the decisions in the present and the other is managing the future in terms of timing and what needs to be addres…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 02:30 AM
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I cant give you a source or anything, but women often say they don't want to be their boyfriends mom which is basically the same thing My gf isnt even willing to pick what we watch on netflix most of the time. She only wants to pick things about me, like my clothes, haircut, etc. Everything else is on me, obviously she objects shit sometimes because I can be pretty reckless. But thats how she likes it, i speed her life up and she slows mine down. I live in the moment and she lives in the future.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 02:18 AM
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Women don't want equal power, trust me I tell my girlfriend all the time "i dont care" and she just starts huffing and puffing till I make the decision At a certain point men just start demanding things that they dont actually care about
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 02:10 AM
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those other 2 wives are gonna mysteriously fall ill
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 09:55 AM
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I want a sexbot, I want to have deep meaningful conversations with it right after I fuck my girlfriend. I wanna talk to the sexbot about my goals, plans, insecurities. I want my sexbot and I to tlak about what were gonna name our kids and how our future is gonna be. I wanna plan trips to new places with my sexbot. I wanna make #sexbotgoals posts on insta with my sexbot. I wanna make a joint facebook with my sexbot and share a bunch of soulmate memes. Im gonna buy matching outfits for my sexbot a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 08:45 AM
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I think youre the minority lol I havent met girls who liked that beyond yaoi or a few specific weird things that I try to avoid(like supernatural) but spock/kirk sounds really far out there lol. Maybe its an age thing, or its just the added tentacles keeping those girls from expanding When I was a kid my cousin would get me to read chatlogs from her chatrooms that involved werewolf x vampire shit or SONIC THE HEDGEHOG smut, and it was fucking original at the time. My 12 year old self couldnt loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 08:29 AM
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You dont need to take it seriously, I wasnt trying to diagnose anyone with anything, I just have a tendency to look for patterns in anything I care about or anything that can benefit me. Yeah, youre right, not a big deal. I do it for my own personal use
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 08:17 AM
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Its not about the jokes, its whether or not you purposefully seek out hatred in your daily life Its just like men who binge on divorce rape and feminist articles. Some people purely seek out negativity and it just shows what they think of themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 07:38 AM
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It could be a rape fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 07:32 AM
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I dont know what planet you people live on If I was ever in this situation I would just tell her I was gonna kill her entire family or something, or guilt her like how could you let me do that to you??? i love you. Afterwards I would fuck her again and have proof of consent for that fuck so the other one cant realistically be held against me, the "shes a crazy bitch look how all over the place she is" defense Ask her to lay in the middle of the street for an artistic picture, put it on her insta…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 07:26 AM
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High stress, high anxiety, maybe high depression but thats prob more sporadic Not based on circumstance or event, but a general mood. Im not saying many red pillers arent like this, but they are more likely to be circumstance(actual real world failure) based rather than tied to identity(acceptance of self based 100% on future)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 07:14 AM
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Was your speech delayed at all? I had a 1 on 1 class for speech when I was very young, I dont remember the letter that I wasnt pronouncing right but it was more of a empathy class to force me to make eye contact and talk to someone 1 on 1 because I had no interest in the other children
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 07:11 AM
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When I say mentally ill I do it in the way that millenials do, which is just high neuroticism Im not saying they are abnormal or atypical
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 06:39 AM
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I think its more about how strong of a desire they have to read TRP itself, how much they go out of their way to express hate, how badly they need to create a specific world view in their head to paint themselves as a victim. Actually posting kicks it up a notch because they are looking for an echo chamber of their own but isnt the part that matters imo. Some people just stumble into trp, never go back and maybe occasionally post on tbp, but those people arent the type to care for a label like B…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 04:04 AM
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Whether or not empathy is "truly important, especially in relationships" doesn't really relate to benchmarks for mental illness I'm not disagreeing with you, it is just unrelated, especially since the concept of empathy that we use in the west is really inaccurate. A deficit in empathy can be related to mental illness in an individual, but not to be used as a meaningful indictator because it doesnt really specify anything
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 03:35 AM
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Its like you read my post, saw the word empathy and everything else went blank rather than thinking of psychoticism or neuroticism first This is the important part
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 01:30 AM
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My grandma taught me this when I was like 5 and im not even a girl She was telling my cousin, dont you want a house, a nice ring? You dont need to trade away what you got to get more rights, power, etc, why not have it all? I mean I guess it makes sense only some women could ever have it all, and it makes sense that the women who think that way wouldnt want the other women to also know that But I feel theres enough grandmas in the world that it should be more well known, maybe mine was just spec…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 01:22 AM
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well you gotta make up your mind, our goals dont really need to be the same I mean our goals as individuals arent even the same
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 01:20 AM
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What do you think it says about you when you think of mental illness and you jump to lacking empathy, rather than thinking of psychoticism or neuroticism first. Not to mention your username
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 12:33 AM
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Xemnas will never be forgotten, hes ppd hall of fame
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 12:27 AM
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This is all presumptive bullshit that doesn't even address the issue that Rpers by nature are more socially inept and just don't know what they are or aren't getting wrong. Rpers by nature are socially inept in development, sure. But that can give you an advantage long term if it wasnt based on a physical deficit. If you are forced to overdevelop cognitive empathy to makeup for lacking emotional empathy and become more socialized than your view of the world will be far more methodical You all ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 11:50 PM
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Red pillers are in a position in which they have nothing to lose, so they have social freedom to say whatever they want, it doesnt matter. Its fun to have nothing to lose while in an echo chamber in a way that paints you as the bad guy AND torments the fuck outta a large group of observers Blue pill operates from a fearful stance, they see a potential threat, something that doesnt resemble them so they have a natural desire to promote themselves or demonize the thing that isnt like them(its like…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 11:04 PM
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If its on a serious physical level its sadism, most schadenfreude is stuff like im glad my friends football team lost Its not used for real suffering like haha your mom died lulz
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 10:53 PM
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schadenfreude is used more friendly, its softcore sadism at most
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 10:51 PM
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Well he was using an example that had winners and losers and thats how people also view sex Which is why I imagined your cooking example being some exotic shit or something, like when people flex on others with their chefs making some quiche bulllshit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 10:44 PM
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im better looking than both of them, I look like im dying all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 10:50 AM
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Your standards going up means you expect more in relation to other people in your group of peers Ill give you example, if you are 15 and you date a 15 year old you dont expect them to have a high school diploma because they are 15. When you are 19 you can expect a high school diploma but your standards are still the same, because thats normal progression for the age range
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 10:27 AM
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Is cooking really that glorius though? I wouldnt know, im not the type to watch the food network
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 10:22 AM
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when people say date they mean a romantic relationship, not a individual date
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 10:18 AM
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Just make something up about a feitsh like she wanted to be fucked on a cross so she can identify as jesus christ and feel the rock hard cock of the jews, a jewish gangbang is gonna cost you a pretty penny
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 10:15 AM
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I would if everything else was right, but if everything else was right than that girl would have no reason to fuck a prostitute So it would probably be for some weird fetish thing, in which case it would depend on the fetish Either way I dont care, BUT I would expect to benefit from the situation, its not like I dont care she fucked with prostitues so you cant just pile that on top of someone who is equal to me I need to be wooo'd, wined and dined, if anything I would want her to treat me like I…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 10:08 AM
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fuckin prude, theres tons of videos like that how bout u LIVE A LITTLE I mean how bout a mini horse or a donkey instead, training wheels ya kno
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 10:04 AM
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what about those japanese dudes who get paid to take girls on dates, im sure they slide some dick into the arrangement from time to time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 10:03 AM
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Not really, their priorities shift but I wouldnt say that there standards generally go up. They just become more willing to accept things like kids from a previous relationship and care less about physical looks in order to get the other shit that they want for a LTR. I mean their standards technically go up in direct corelation to your age group but I dont consider that as your standards going up People who just blindly raise their standards tend to be women more often than men from my view, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 10:00 AM
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Its actually more likely to be the opposite, depending on the individual obviously I think you are taking those tools a little bit too seriously buddy, if you still need to convince yourself of those things than you should just read rp subs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 09:53 AM
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I think that this is one of those things that has truth to it, but the motivation behind the message is not in your best interest if it comes from a womens mouth Imo vulnerability should be selective and it should be earned, not given. I also think that it shouldnt be revealed until after you have put some work into it first Vulnerability is best revealed when its something you have in common or when it is based around something the woman values. It should never be displayed in a way that allows…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 07:28 PM
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Because their job isnt as simple as just sex work, their job is to give men an outlet in order to avoid life, its like a relationship that involves visual sexual acts, a simulated version of a 1 on 1 interaction, compliments given from the male and emotional outbursts down the line towards the woman(all relationships have ups and downs and yes this is a key part of the cam girls job) I think that the relationship itself is unhealthy and the womens denial of it is also unhealthy, if a guy is payi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 07:18 PM
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or he has some tranny shit fetish that you just dont know about yet
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 04:43 PM
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Why do you think that you get to choose your value to the opposite gender? Im sure incels have used this type of argument before
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 04:14 PM
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Its more about the name on the title, not those 10 miles, like if you drove it around at the dealer it isnt suddenly worth less. I know theres no reason for me to point this out, but whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 04:11 PM
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In my life people don't talk about N count, but the women I know most definitely downplay the life they have lived OR they paint it as like a mistake or something like that. Do you think that women tend to imply that they have a low N count or invalidate their sexual history in some manner?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 04:06 PM
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His response was an uninformed opinion to a thread about PEOPLES OPINIONS OF HOW TO SPOT A FEMINIST ARTICLE OR VIEWPOINT. Now all im asking is that you be a goood example for us and link to the informed source of feminist information, I mean how can you critique that but arent willing to do it yourself? I would rather you commit to an uninformed opinion than commit to nothing at all Im not defending him in the sense that I think hes right, im defending him so that you have the opportunity to pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 11:17 AM
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He made a very general response, that feminism isnt grounded in science and is based on feelings, you said he didnt have a understanding of what feminism actually is(doesnt address what he said at all) So if I go to wikipedia and search 'feminism' will I find something that directly contradicts that? I dont even know, maybe there is, but I dont see the point of doing that because you havent committed to anything to counter All of your posts are just dismissive and wont commit to any idea, you ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 11:05 AM
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Im not defending anything other than the freedom to ask questions, I dont care how you answer, as long as you actually commit to an answer
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 10:55 AM
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Schools begin to teach Kids how to properly research, learn and report about it in 3rd and 4th grade. What level of education would you like me to assume is common among the terp and MRA communities? You're making an awful lot of excuses for not knowing how to do something that's taught in elementary school. Do I need to reteach them the fourth grade curriculum so that they can be independent and know how to properly research a topic? Your argument is based around them having already done the re…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 10:51 AM
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That is different from saying/claiming its ok, thats why hes asking I don't know any feminists that claim it's ok to lie in order to get sex. What a weird question Your response was just an indirect way to get him to shup up, you arent even committing to a 'feminists dont do that' And I thought I heard it all when it comes to misinformed terps and MRAs and their lack of knowledge about feminism. same thing again
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 10:41 AM
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Not very well, our propaganda just results in conspiracy theories and memes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 10:20 AM
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MRA is only really part of TRP because other people wont accept them and TRP doesnt care(same thing happened with incels). Its like feminism and TERFS TRP itself isnt meant to be societal at all, it is personal, nihilistic and selfish but nothing beyond that MRA is just menslibs that isnt nice enough to be accepted as "allys"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 06:41 AM
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I think wearing yoga pants is pretty sexual, also certain posing is sexual, showing cleavage is sexual Its not as simple as you make it out to be. Im not saying that those things give a man a right to do anything he wants, but lets not pretend that there isnt sexuality and competition involved in day to day shit. If you aim for attention than attention you shall receive I understand that as a woman you compete for attention that you may not actually want just to get the opportunity to succeed in…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 06:15 AM
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He wants you to say it or to link a specific source, because otherwise you can just say "well that was a bad source you read" and no one has time for that runaround bullshit If you arent willing to commit to an idea than you cna just backout last minute and act like the other person is uninformed, behaving in a way to promote this opportunity only shows a lack of confidence on your part Im not saying you are wrong, in fact I hope you are right because that means that I learned something and impr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 06:03 AM
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Feminism has no interest in specificly defining itself for the same reason that it has no interest in official speakers, that reason is so that you can say the thing you just said. You cant challenge something that wont commit to anything beyond morality and equality(from any vague POV that benefits them). Its no wonder why feminists often promote ideas in which they arent responsible for the present or the desired future Its disappointing honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 06:00 AM
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They dont want the opportunity to be wrong and they dont want to take part in any interaction that isnt placing high value on morality. Well the individuals anyway, the publication just wnats to make money so they tell you what you want to hear
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 05:45 AM
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He didnt claim that they say its ok, he asked at what point does the lie invalidate the consent and turn the situation into rape
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 05:00 AM
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It can become rape, but a spur of the moment act like that can always just be played off as an accident
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 04:53 AM
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How could you confirm that they actually knew what they told you was true? You can be incorrect without lying, lying has intent
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 04:47 AM
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I think this would be hard to enforce, the woman would have to prove that she asked those questions, that they were understood and that a lie was directly given The std and condom part is the only thing that is realistic imo, which are already laws right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 04:44 AM
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Get rid of social media(cam girls too), create a maximum wage and laws based around the need for manufacturing jobs, tax companies who outsource, legalize prostitution, legalize weed, create more financial incentives for marriage, I dont feel like thinking about everything that needs to be changed in the school system, create a bunch of propaganda so we can hate some ofther nation instead of focusing on our neighbors
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 04:30 AM
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Yeah, TRP itself has a nihilistic side to it that im sure he is very against. I think its easy to like him because even if he disagrees with aspects of TRP he wont do it with a basis of morality, he does it with your own personal happiness, success and the good of society in mind. So even if you disagreed with him it wouldnt feel like an attempt at control, not to mention hes brutally honest even when hes tlaking with someone who is clearly just playing a game
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 11:25 PM
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Why would red pill types not embrace him? I mean the only difference I see that isnt very rp is that he is the complete opposite of "enjoy the decline" But thats because "enjoy the decline" is only meant for young people and allows you to behave without excess self reflection
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 10:12 PM
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I wanna buy the top half of a sexbot and put it somewhere in the room. Im gonna talk to it when my girlfriend is around like its a real girl just to fuck with her "Someday we will buy you a bottom half Amberlee" Amberlee is my gfs friend who she hates just because I always tlak about fucking her, Ive never even met her but its tons of fun. Im gonna ask my gf if I can borrow her makeup so amberlee can practice contouring, shes still learning! I want the sexbot to ask unrelated questions, totally …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 07:46 AM
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Everyone wants to have their cake and eat it too, but most people accept it when you call them out, they admit to it. Some people rationalize why they should be able to have their cake and eat it too and will frame the idea in some other type of way based on other people controlling them or fall into some other type of victim mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 07:32 AM
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I mean I could change the word snake to immoral if you want. I just prefer to think of it in the biblical/biological sense
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 03:40 AM
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And all womens problems are gonna be heavily related to men, I mean that doesnt seem like a problem to me, it makes perfect sense. Do we live in a vacuum? Why would it be any other way? Women have a greater impact nowadays than any time in history, so it makes sense that new problems would most likely be related to that. Obviously there are other factors, like the internet, but people need to recognize that freedom, power and choice dont come without responsibility. I'm not against feminism or w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 03:37 AM
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Superficial displays do not match up with the conviction that men had in the past, but its not just based on having a father figure, its based on "boys will be boys" in cases that only involve boys My grandpa used to have a rule called "No rough housing" which meant that when me and my brother were physically fighting or playing we had to go outside, it wasn't tolerated inside the house but it in itself isn't seen as immoral or bad. Toxic masculinity comes from a black and white view of masculin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 03:33 AM
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If you reward a snake, than you are to blame for the existence of the snakes in your community. There's a reason everyone has the same gut feeling towards a male feminist Well women think that they can be part of both sides of morality, but that's not how it works, that only promotes snake behavior in men because at the end of the day many of us care more about competition than conviction I should know, im a snake. I have always thought it was funny that feminists were willing to fuck with me, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 03:19 AM
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Because if the average man gets softer than anti social behavior becomes more and more attractive, if toxic masculinity disappears from the average male than the few select males who display toxic qualities will become way more valuable to women. Thats why it will never go away
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 03:15 AM
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This post makes it sound like ugly or average women dont exist to pair up with the ugly or average men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 12:05 PM
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i typed it with my new hands
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 12:22 AM
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speak for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 11:54 PM
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Morality is for behavior, not fantasy. Do you jump to this type of thinking naturally, or is it forced? 5 is more than 1, bad is punished and therefore harder and less accepted to get away with than good, thats the point
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 08:00 PM
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I dont understand how your brain works at all. They want hot women, sure. But the rest is gonna be a case to case basis, and I dont see how you connect that to them wanting a 5 over a 10? I dont see how that relates to my comment either
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 03:51 AM
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This isnt true at all, clubs and bars have a "watch me be better than you" type of vibe because it is based on strangers. My friends openly talk about how the club we go to basically waits for us to get there, thats the point of those places. I dont really like bars or clubs for anything other than holidays, but I know some slutty girls and I like to get priority on that slutiness which is basically just being close by when they are drunk Parties are people who know each other or know each other…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 02:05 AM
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Im not even sure what you are saying, why not 2 models, why not 3, why not a rich model, why not a weak insecure model There is no argument you can make that will satiate the insatiable
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 02:01 AM
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So some parts are legit(the parts you do) but the rest is toxic garbage that weak men do to act cool(the parts that you dont do but are afraid of actually working) Essentially any man that doesnt behave as you do is "weak" and anything that is perceived as "cool" by others is automatically "acting" so you can define their real behavior any way you want, which would be pretty convenient in order to see them all as weak You should make some more male friends, I think it would be good for you. Pref…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 12:06 AM
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So if you agree with it, than I think that you just dont want men to teach other men right? Because its threatening to you in the long run, maybe you are comfortable and dont have any desire to improve in anyway, so its best for other people to be lazy so you can be lazy and successful I mean if thats true I dont see anything wrong with it, but no one gives a shit about that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 11:58 PM
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If you are a successful guy than why do you care I just assume that your view comes from the fear of competition, so when you see trp its conflicting because you dont want to take bad advice but if its good advice thna you dont want anyone to have it and I imagine that you are only 'successful' based on an agreement, not having actual power of others I think you are just gonna read trp, critique it a bunch and than someday bust out some dread game randomly. The funny thing is that anyone who rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 11:44 PM
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Getting a hot girlfriend isnt the most ambitious benchmark for success, even the dudes who just found trp are aiming at like 5 at a time I mean atleast say something related to how poorly he can treat her and get away with it or something
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 11:39 PM
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Its just the way we perceive them, mans man is an independant idea Woman tend to get more defined in relation to men, mother, aunt, mom, etc. So even if their relation to men is that they dont have one than we have an idea of why they dont want one or why they cant get one At the end of the day the womans woman is just the social narcissist who is good at hating whatever you feel like hating at the time and manages to elevate herself in a way that you dont mind because you are enjoying the share…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 11:36 PM
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me too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 11:29 PM
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I thought you were a tranny
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 11:16 PM
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True, but this is a accepted norm of society If red pill is considered 'evil' and they accept that than there must be a 'good' if you want to control, influence or judge I agree that they can be too specific sometimes, but to deny the existence of a blue side and its set of norms would only help the red side. I understand the desire to control any behavior that is negative and think nothing more(because selfishness is expected from individuals), but thats not how morality works, it requires inst…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 11:13 PM
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Im not saying this as an absolute, but most times when they do that it is in a way that reinforces all their views So whenever I see it it appears like they are referring to men as objects that are just to stupid to realize that they are trying to help If the motivation behind helping men is just to get them to agreee with feminism than I just assume that their method or perception is gonna be pretty flawed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 08:51 PM
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It depends on the time period, college is different because you don't need to go out of your way to make time for your friends Afterwards I would say most men have female acquaintances, female friends that they gained through their SO or female friends that are their friends SO. Not that these dont count, but they are convenient The whole adult 1 on 1 male female besties is a red flag unless the guy is hideous, especially if the friend and boyfriend never meet. I fucked my friend on NYE and she …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 06:58 PM
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Im not arguing for the nice guy, im just saying that they are both disliked. The nice guy is creepy and uncomfortable. The fuckboy is hated, but the fuckboy will get paragraphs of specific details devoted to why he is hated The difference is that women dislike fuckboys rationally, they see the lack of ambition and ability to meet their goals long term coupled with other issues that would make long term success questionable. So its not that they dislike these guys, they need to dislike these guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 08:41 AM
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Sometimes people tell themselves that they don't actually want something, the truth is that "fuckboys" are the biggest disappointment for women because those guys are actually desirable, what they don't like is that typically a "fuckboy" is underdeveloped in the rest of his life I wouldn't say that comment you read is very accurate, the women are not a disappointment to the fuckboy therefore he is getting more out of the interaction Fuckboys play a game that men aren't supposed to play
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 08:31 AM
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I do this If you need to think of violent imagery or something like that to cum than its hard to not be like that afterwards. It could be other shit obviously, but this is what its like for me. Or other times im like "how could you let me do that to you" in situations where the girl thought that it meant something, how fucking daRE you allow me to let you think that something meant something, it meant nothing! Also when girls do shit that is over the top fake makes my bloodboil, I mean ill let l…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 03:29 AM
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Or they will just overwhelm the police and the amount that they ignore rape will go up tenfold. Well, its already almost totally ignored so i will probably just bump up to 100% Either way, this weird threat that you are making is silly, you have zero power, if anything you are just gonna encourage people to show you how little power you actually have. I had a lot of fantasies like that in high school I cant imagine this is serious, but im attracted to this type of desperation so im gonna choose …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 02:24 AM
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Its not healthy(nor important) to care how others view themselves, regardless of how healthy you percieve them to be
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 01:21 AM
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You gotta take the next step and join the spooky drag tranny taxidermy fashion club Im not sure if this exists everywhere, and where I live they are just regular insane dudes pretending to be trannies
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 01:17 AM
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This is the problem with the left. They actually believe that being a victim has power to the point that there is an actual emotional response to someone elses self view I mean I understand why, the media makes it look like that through things like hollywood and college campus internet drama. But its not actual power so its self defeating
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 12:38 AM
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If a man had something that you dont value than you dont care to think of it So if you value women, than you dont need to see other men trying to take her, you know they value her because you value her. She doesnt need to be taken by a man in order for you to lose her, she could leave, die, become a lesbian. Therefore her existence is dread, not saying all men will experience that dread, but its there either way Its incel tlak because your view makes it appear like you are valuing the woman in s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 09:19 PM
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I didnt watch the video but I have seen it a long time ago, so my view of what she said might not be accurate. She believed that the things about women that we value which would encourage us to vote for one wouldnot actually push a woman into power, so if you elect a woman you are electing the woman with the least amount of womanly traits for which we valued her for. So why would you do it? Its basically like, if you have to vote for a male or female psychopath than why would you ever vote for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 07:53 PM
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The manosphere doesn't use morality in a societal way, im asking what the motivation is behind asking whether or not men do the things they accuse women of I would say yes they do, but I don't think that is an argument against it. So I just wanted to know the motivation behind why thats important, because my assumption would be that no one actually cares about that, they only care about having enough information to apply morality without the target backtracking Personally I don't see why that's …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 05:03 AM
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Its not really about the view or the belief to me, its just about the shame, power or control that can result from it that I care about. Which is easy to predict if you know their motivation Its like I support all the stuff against wienstein and shit, but if you give people that type of power than you start getting shit like the aziz stuff(i dont know the aziz stuff, but I know people say its an overeaction so im using it as an example) Theres a big leap between ideas and actions, the place that…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 02:06 AM
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It goes both ways, its not good to chase any idea of perfection, but this guy referenced his ex as being somehting that his current girl doesnt have, so whatever he wnats actually exists(which isnt true for some people) On one hand im sure the other girl had plenty of negatives that drove him away from her. At the end of the day if you date someone because they are lacking the flaws that your ex had than you arent gonna feel very attached, its just gonna be easy. The way you determine whats wort…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 01:47 AM
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Are you indifferent to the resolution to that? Like if men were like "OK we agree, we do it too, now we are both gonna do it" or "ok we both do it so we wont do that shit anymore" These are both equal, would you have zero preference to the result? I think the only reason people use this type of argument is because if men acknowledge it, than the next step is to try and use morality and shame to control their response. I dont think this is really about whether its hypocritical, its about controll…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 01:39 AM
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They think women are inferior because they need to have that view. It could be a variety of different things based on their personal lives. Maybe they were raised to value themselves and have high self esteem based on a few certain traits, all their views and opinions formed based on that, the desire to like yourself, the desire to agree with your caregiver, etc. Maybe after reaching a point of maturity that placed their personality in stone they started to fail, maybe they experienced a lot of …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 01:23 AM
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There are different types of men, I have never really been interested in the male on male dominance hierarchy I tend to just interact directly with women and bypass all that other shit, its what you do to be chased rather than chase others, low effort and a large narc supply
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 05:44 PM
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The ends do not justify the means. The means in this situation is just an idea that women may behave negatively, an idea that could be easily challenged or result in actual failure, I don't think its too threatening. You cant control ideas. Obviously its possible that those ideas could lead to something that would change that, but thats not gonna challenge the idea, just the intensity or boundaries I disagree that I'm doing the exact same thing because I'm not posting a bunch of garbage about me…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 05:41 PM
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Control over your own life and control over others tend to go hand in hand, people want to be controlled and they know exactly who to pick
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 07:20 AM
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sounds pretty insecure to me, do you need to crush these fake alpha bros to feel like yourself? Im glad I just wander through life without much thought, having my identity and emotions tied to other people like that sounds exhausting
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 07:14 AM
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Winning to me means zero anxiety, zero stress and comfortable relationships that are meaningful and intimate without giving me a desire to control or be controlled My girlfriend tells me I have a "psychotic zen" so I think im doing pretty well, obviously its just something to aim and maintain for
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 06:33 AM
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Thats a fair critique, but it doesnt really matter, what matters is what works, you just gotta keep mixxing it up
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 06:24 AM
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Theres no winning, thats the point Theres a reason people have so much anxiety nowadays, they are all just selfish and afraid
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 06:15 AM
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Why did he go to red pill if he was married to you In your mind TRP was the thing that fucked your relationship(I assume), but what is the original cause? Men dont just change like that for no reason. Im not blaming you, just asking for reflection, if you arent reflecting now than I would assume that you also werent doing that in your marriage What was the problem he was trying to fix? Was there an alternative? Because if there wasnt than you guys were fucked regardless of TRP, TRP just sped up …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 02:21 AM
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The part where you 'failed' to treat women equally was not in your behavior but your post hoc analysis. Instead of empathizing with her on a human level and thinking something like "Ah well sometimes when I don't get what I want I unfairly blame the other person too" you went to "women like to be treated inferior" He didnt say that he immediately made that conclusion, but after a couple failed attempts he tried new things or looked for answers Your post makes it sound like empathy requires insan…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 02:06 AM
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Its just the awareness of an insecure attachment style Deep down women want to believe they will change, that if they practice self love enough than they will not have a desire to be used, feel shame for their desires, cling to men for identity, worhsip men to take emphasis off themselves. So they verbalize what they wish was attractive and desirable, the behavior that they will long for once the self healing is complete, they just need to reblog a few more body acceptance memes. But thats not h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 01:44 AM
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This isnt really true, fat girls have plenty of smv, especially if theres a lot of black dudes in your area My old black coworkers couldnt understand that I didnt like cellulite, honestly in america people are gonna have their attraction set in stone before they ever see that shit so I understand why they think that way. I have never been one of those "sexual everyday" type of dudes, so I think that they are the norm, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 01:22 AM
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Why do you think women have a defensive, controlling reaction towards that, followed up by assigning guilt, humiliation, and low value to anyone who would even dare to see it as a possibility Why is it "funny" to you really? Seems very reminiscent to #notallmen if you ask me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 12:57 AM
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Look at the first sentence "My collection so far. Every time I am about to do something stupid for a woman, and I can sense it, I check this document first and it brings me back to my center. May help you too" This implies that those are not hard wired beliefs, otherwise that post wouldnt be needed, these are adapted beliefs that those people are using to try and change their previous unsuccessful behavior Its a tactic, you dont need to like it, but when you call it a belief you imply that there…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 12:44 AM
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Its another benchmark of success that women can use against each other I know you will say "but I dont care" but if everyone else cares than it doesnt matter if you care or not, you do what you do to get what you want I think the real motivation behind your opinion is just that it can be used against you, im not saying the ideas you have are wrong, but that the emotion driving those thoughts is based on trying to argue the merits of something when its purely just about social hierarchy. I agree …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 12:05 AM
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The problem with that study is that when you look at it a lot of people seem to assume that women are attracted to people who openly display DT traits, high DT individuals are deceptive, so obviously DT traits are successful by being adept at manipulation and control. The actual attractive traits are the traits that DT individuals pretend that they have Dt traits are only attractive in moderation because they are still much more desirable than submissive or weak men, in excess they still work, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 01:12 AM
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It can still be morally good, you are just aware of a benefit that you receive which further incentivizes you. As long as you continue the behavior regardless of receiving a reward or not its still morally good Morally good has way more wiggle room than altruism, machiavellianism has winners and losers
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 01:06 AM
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I think its hard to not do it to people whose job revolves around having a fake identity to convey a character that someone else created, these people are essentially flesh puppets. Real dolls are to sex what actresses are to movies If they want to counteract the view that their job description creates for them than they should try to convey their values, ideas and opinions in everything else If you are a object as a profession, than you shouldn't be upset that you are treated like one if you do…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 12:51 AM
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Take it out on the martinis or some shit, the pizza is innocent
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 12:41 AM
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This is a good point no one else is mentioning and its also important to define the setting and the womens current emotional state when it occurs I always frame it like only you get to know me when I talk about my feelings, so theres some comfort and security involved and I always find a way to make it(mostly implied) potentially violent, torment based or self destructive which tends to lead the girl to the idea that she needs to control my emotions for me. So I "need her" to manage me to the po…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 12:36 AM
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I disagree with this, I think displaying weakness is the best way to get rid of it. But you have to do it on purpose with proper timing, rather than accidental
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 12:24 AM
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Red pill is reactive, not proactive, its not a mens rights movement and its not promoting anything related to health or well being. It promotes desire and influence Red Pill is supposed to be something to help men be the best version of themselves The best version of themselves based on what society dictates is valuable. If feminism succeeds than TRP will naturally transform into a BP subreddit, so it makes more sense to support feminism, change the world, and therefore change TRP rather than ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 12:21 AM
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Are you sure about this, because if that was true im pretty sure personality disorders would be treatable, which they arent(just manageable) Overall, if you want to get rid of toxic masculinity you need to get over your gut level reactions to weak men, which isn't ever going to happen, unless we modify genes I also think the guy you were replying who said this meant women need to get over their get reaction of sexual disinterest towards weak emotions if they want to get rid of toxic masculinity.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 12:07 AM
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The suicide thing is legit, but you cant say food preferences are toxic masculinity lol PEOPLE JUST LIKE PIZZA, JESUS CHRIST PLEASE DONT DRAG THE PIZZA INTO THIS SHIT. If thats true than eating chocolate on your period or when youre sad is toxic femininity
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 12:00 AM
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I don't think this is true man, I feel like my feelings are what make me really desirable to women. I'm not saying its not my looks that initially draw them in, but I think its the feelings that seal the deal But its probably because my initial impression is completely devoid of emotion
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 11:48 PM
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Thats the point, I wanna get married but the damn government wont let me!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 07:13 AM
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IMO a career person is just primary focused on advancing, their ambition doesnt wane and isnt a front to get a relationship, regular working people care less about success and more about it being easy and stress free I think those career people just like the idea of a relationship, its like a sidechick to them, their own goals and career are more important
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 02:23 AM
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It would have an impact, if marriage was illegal than guys wouldnt be to blame on a personal level If I dont want to get married, I would prefer that decision to not change my relationships in anyway, which would require the decision to be made by someone other than me OR for my SO to not care at all I dont actually care, but it would have an impact in some peoples lives
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 01:28 AM
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You can say hes just trying to use young girls, but realistically they are just trying to use him for money and fame also Imo they stand much, much more to gain than he does from these situations and as a male the more money, fame, status and power you have the worse women you have to deal with. As a normal guy its hard to imagine how mnay people are trying to use him
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 01:21 AM
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Yeah, this analogy makes it sound like its better to be a really hideous girl You just gotta be fearful and sexy long enough that it becomes a fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 01:15 AM
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If everyone has to go through it than there wont be any sympathy involved, its just normal Ugly poor incels are the really losers, they dont even have anything worth taking
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 01:13 AM
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I dont blame those dudes for thinking that way, from my pov those women seem like too much work if they expect me to match them in terms of income I would rather have the same level of struggle with someone than have someone expect more than im planning on putting in Men are supposed to care about so many facets of life nowadays and still have that carefree anti anxiety mindset, idk how some dudes do that, id rather slack a little and be anxiety free with low expectations out of life than be one…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 01:05 AM
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Yeah ive never really gotten those guys, I prefer for it to be like turns, its a good way to guilt people because they owe you and if you act confident that everything went great than people tend to agree(but I dont meet up with total random strangers a lot, so my opinion is based on acquaintances) I think those guys just think they arent gonna succeed from the start, so they minimize losses but its still really, really stupid If anything getting the girl to buy ur shit for you is a better idea …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 01:00 AM
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Why would a woman take money in a illegal way if they can convince you to give it to them legally, thats just silly, people play to their strengths Im not placing blame or trying to moralize, but it is a thing that men need to be aware of
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 12:53 AM
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Women are meant to identify as rey and feel attraction to kylo, hes that isolated, hot and cold, dangerous, mysterious, powerful anti social neo nazi male. Rey is just meant to be independant, conflicted and has abandonment issues so she can empathize with kylo but not detailed or complex enough that female viewers wont project themselves onto her, this movie is more based on their relationship, the prequels are more about anakin Men are meant to identify with kylo(narc and borderline especially…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 06:00 PM
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They are cloned slaves, the nazis didnt just kill the jews, they made them work, they wanted to humiliate them before they killed them, they wanted to treat others as subhuman. In the previous movies the clones were white. I know there arent any space jews or anything, but they modelled some of the first order scenes based on nazi germany Im not saying the movie is pro neo nazi, because the neo nazis are the antagonists, but the love story is about a neo nazi with abandonment issues who is tryin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 05:46 PM
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It doesnt matter if it provides you with the emotion and motivation to carry out the task to completition, the search for the truth is only important because we believe it gives us a competitive edge, theres no objective truth anyway Its not a math problem
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 06:15 AM
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My mom is super controlling, but I wouldnt say im not sexually confident because of it, I just have trouble reaching orgasm unless I got some alcohol, stims or if I just try to focus really really hard If you had a really controlling mother than you needed to adapt as a child to be what she wanted you to be, this is good for conflict resolution and manipulation as an adult but it kills your focus and makes it harder to prioritize your needs. Ive never been able to have duty sex, im much better i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 05:46 AM
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They made the clone troopers black and made a bunch of scenes look like nazi germany, from the march to the war music, exterminate the jedi, the opening scene of the first movie is when they invade that sand planet to look for rebels who are hiding among them Its just meant to appeal more to modern politics, rather than buddhism vs narcissism from the previous movies
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 05:36 AM
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He couldnt kill his mother, empathy, weaker with the dark side. Killing his father didnt fuel his rage, he felt regret, weaker with the dark side If he hates rey for not accepting his love it would make up for that, but hes chasing after her instead
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 05:26 AM
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I like kylo a lot too, but they didnt build up his mental break very well They actually use anakin from the prequels as an example of borderline personality disorder(intense love and hate, narcissism, poor control over emotions, impulsive, emptiness, mommy issues etc). Its the best movie example of a male borderline Kylo is supposed to be like that too, but he just comes off as having abandonment issues and desperation. Hes trying to find himself in someone else but its not done as well because …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 05:25 AM
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http://www.swiftfilm.com/jj-abrams-says-kylo-ren-and-the-first-order-are-like-neo-nazis/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EAHA1P1XFso They wnated it to appeal to modern issues like neo nazis and immoral, violent males. Thats from before the first movie came out, im sure you can find more if you google around The only black person in the movie is a clone trooper slave
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 05:14 AM
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He killed off his source of hate, thats bad for a dark side user, he lost the resentment that was fueling him and he didnt have much of a desire for power. He killed snoke to save rey, not to take his place
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 05:11 AM
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I think he was just trying to be what snoke wanted him to be Abandoned by han Tries to be jedi, betrayed by luke Runs off to snoke to be the next vader Kills han for snoke, to be the best vader he can be Meets rey, also has issues with parents Kills snoke to save rey Tells rey her parents abandoned her and they are the same Force connection stalker shit Abandonment issues 101
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 05:05 AM
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He's a sith and that's suppose to make him stronger dude. Stop. The skill level between Rey and Kylo even IF he's weakend by killing his father shouldn't be enough for Rey to win. Not if he regrets it, and he got blasted in the leg and honestly he wasnt actually trying to kill rey If anything the way he killed snoke was way worse, im hoping snoke is still alive and just trying to get one of them to kill the other to create the next vader
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 05:02 AM
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Rey is bland enough that women can project themselves onto her, its a love story, they care about the relationship, not the character In the prequels the conflict is about anakin, in these kylo isnt written as well but the conflict lies between rey and kylo which is more appealing to many viewers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 04:46 AM
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I dont agree with the guy you are arguing with, but im gonna critique you anyway So let's start with the basic storyline that has forever been star wars. Good vs. evil, a hero who is tested, and a conflicted antagonist. All set in the environment of essentially, a civil war where the "good" is the rebels and the "evil" is the dark empire or whatever it's called. Its more about emotion + dictatorship/communism vs stoicism/buddhism + democracy. The movies just never show the perspective of the dar…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 04:41 AM
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Kylo got shot and had just killed his father resulting in guilt, making him weaker with the dark side rather than stronger Its still a stretch, but I think its acceptable since he wasnt really trying to kill her when they fought
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 04:27 AM
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Its because you are pushing self reflection, so random people will hate you even if they dont care about obesity at all, by protecting that other person they protect themselves while also giving themself that pat on the back for being "empathetic af"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 10:57 PM
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just talk about how you are part cherokee
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 10:55 PM
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Its hard to please people, rupi kaur is just contradiction after contradiction and lots of women eat that shit up “you tell me i am not like most girls and learn to kiss me with your eyes closed something about the phrase - something about how i have to be unlike the women i call sisters in order to be wanted makes me want to spit your tongue out like i am supposed to be proud you picked me as if i should be relieved you think i am better than them” Women love this poem, but most women much pref…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 10:50 PM
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Uhh.... what? There is nothing RP about Models, as it doesn't focus on RP-exclusive ideas like 80/20, AF/BB, AWALT or any such thing. It is surely RP, it doesnt need to be isolated in trp sub to be rp, self beliefs havfe nothing to do with science, they are for motivation, they are certainty for those who need certainty. If you question something that self identifies as absolute AND it is beneficial for you than you have deeper problems that are pushing you away from your goals. No idea how we w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 07:34 PM
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There's also better ways to approach becoming attractive to women than listening to internet bozos. A more modern publication like "Models" by Mark Manson would be a pretty good start. Thats a rp book, I never said you shouldnt expand your horizons or just focus on one thing either. Its not like they contradict That might be you indulging in confirmation bias, quite ironic given how outspoken you were against "ego reinforcement" just a mere moment ago. Supplying your ego and narcissism to boost …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 05:35 PM
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I dont think that would matter in most cases, that is more true for cold turkey, but not for people who taper to a low tolerance or take other drugs for wd My gf takes subs, but she regularly takes a week off just so she can get high from them again(she takes like 1/8ish). Relapse is more about the desire to get high and a moment of weakness from what I see, im not sure if that desire is higher for women or not. I think its more about hopelessness/depression in general But maybe thats just the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 04:37 PM
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Its not that I dont have high standards, its that social interactions are complex with no absolutes and theres unlimited room for experimentation. So theres no need to throw it out the window just because its not someone who reinforces your ego Theres no need to have high standards in this specific situation, but typically I agree with people who present information that I had already seen proof of in my own experiences or who clearly knew much more than me on the topic, that doesnt mean im so c…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 07:50 AM
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The reaction is their fault, but its too complex to pinpoint a single thing like saying that he is entitled and thinks a girl has to fuck him I honestly think that people want to believe that, the idea that a guy yelled at a girl based on another girl would make it even more infuriating from her POV. Bad reaction AND hes not actually thinking of you specifically or much at all? Men base their decisions far less on specific women than people want to realize, it tends to be more about society, gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 06:49 AM
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They lash out because of the built up frustration, but its not specific to the idea that any specific girl owes them anything. Its just an emotional outburst, its not based on ego unless it is towards a specific girl. Theres a lot of self reflection, self esteem issues, parental attachment issues and perceived lies being told by women or society that all just becomes a shitstorm of emotion Its more along the lines of ~lifes not fucking fair, fuck this, fuck you~
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 06:41 AM
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If I believed that and used that information to make a decision and it didnt pan out well than I wouldnt rely on that information in the future Stop looking for objective truth and certainty, just act. You even say that TRP makes good points, but you still dont do anything with it, you are looking for additional information so you dont have to fear failure, but that fear will always be there its just an excuse you use to procrastinate Theres a reason your posts are so emotional, im sure its base…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 05:56 AM
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If you need something to be definitive to take action than you are never gonna make a move Theres no downsides really, if the risk is too great to actually interact with women without guaranteed certainty of success than I would imagine the motivation is based around oneitis and the desire for 1 specific girl Not only is that not possible, but the idea of it would destroy any delivery you could muster, this mindset is not a confident one If something doesnt work for you, than it doesnt work for …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 04:56 AM
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Thats not the same as saying men have to do it, its saying that they urge people in their personal lives to conform to their own personal ideas that is based on what society demands or displays within the most elite But its not like an all encompassing view that men should be, its just tending to your own flock within a competitive society If you break the rules than new rules settle into place, so who cares. This will always exist as long as we care about sex, money, reputation, attention, etc.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 04:50 AM
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but too full of wild claims with no proof Why do you need this? The fact that you need that is in itself an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 04:46 AM
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Sure it does Do I play with dolls? What does society think of boys who play with dolls? Therefore my boy doesnt play with dolls because he must be bettter than the other boys It only works because the people who do play with dolls are seen as lesser. Those guys dont wanna snap their fingers so all boys represent them, they need people to be inferior, but obviously they dont want their son to be among the inferior beings. Our children are extensions of us, my mom used to tell me that all the time…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 04:41 AM
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Because they want their kids to represent them and out perform the other children, they want their kids to be successful to supply their ego. Theres a lot more too it than that, like the fear of the child abandoning them which leads to sabotage or destroying the childs self esteem, but its not some general view of all men, those exist but only to benefit you(like "men dont hit women")
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 04:34 AM
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Had to get a new monitor, I dont like reddit on mobile
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 04:32 AM
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Not many people think men have to act a certain way, they think successful men have a few paths in life Its exactly like all this stuff you see on instagram like #fuckdietculture2018 or fitspo, for some reason people think if they dont feel like competing than everyone else is in the wrong for doing so. This is like the most entitled shit I have ever seen All the shit these people say makes no sense if you compile it all together. First they say every body type is beautiful, but if you have a go…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 03:24 AM
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I think when men lash out, it isnt towards the girl who rejected him, its towards women in general for constant rejections Same with women, if they give you a nasty response its because its a repeating theme that they are fed up with Frustration and entitlement arent the same thing, you can lash out without thinking that someone actually owes you anything
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 03:07 AM
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Male slut shaming is more commonly just placeholder shaming, it doesnt have a real menaing behind it other than getting you emotional/getting people to group up against you/hurt you/pass time when youre bored Slut shaming from women tends to be more strategic and its more likely to be proactive, its social darwinism
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 09:47 PM
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Because we dont want our future SO to fuck low quality people, its an insult to us, the lower your standards the less value you can provide to a narcissistic supply. Also implies low self esteem, poor impulse control, finding yourself in the sight of others/fear of intimacy/rebound relationships. You just put yourself in a box, a fun box maybe, but still a box that is gonna get put out for recycling If youre gonna rock my brand you cant have sketchers on your feet and we can add stds to the list…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 09:41 PM
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Guys like this too, but only if it leads to them getting what they wanted, we dont mind waiting if its worth the wait, in fact it makes it better Which is gonna be based on previous experience, plenty of guys have felt used which leads to paranoia in these situations, im sure this is gonna be heavily based around how attractive the guy is I love playing hard to get with girls who have boyfriends, teasing them until they break up with him, they will start telling you things like how they have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/18 06:22 PM
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I wouldn't say i'm misleading them, I would say that they are just hearing what they want to hear. I'm not being super blunt in a way that would just hurt their feelings, but that's not my job and its not how I naturally think anyway I have even told a couple girls I would never date them and that I prefer to be alone, they somehow interpret that as some sort of exclusive deal. They don't understand that sometimes you meet a girl who makes you feel like you are alone while you are with her, thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/18 06:08 PM
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In my experience, even if you tell the women they will still have sex with you and than try to become your best friend. Eventually they will hate you when they realize that ONS, to friend, to couple isnt a transition that works well if the guy wasnt into it from the start Fuckbuddy is seen as a relationship nowadays, dunno why girls think its gonna work like that. In my life I feel a lot of times I give off the impression that im not ready for a relationship but what I really mean is im not look…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 11:32 PM
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it shouldnt surprise you, look at all the kylo lovers Its the same girls who used to say they dont like muscles and only like lanky, tall guys, not saying he has a bad bod or anything but dont trust anything women say if its based on dudes from movies or tv shows thicc dudes with pedo stashes and high waisted leggings arent universally as attractive as those women would lead you to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 03:18 AM
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tons of women are into casual sex just for the attention, why do you t6hink they latch onto your face infront of the other girls and drag you into the bathroom? They are seeing themselves from the eyes of others is that better than "pretending to like the girl" or worse? its not like those guys are pretending anyway, they are being totally honest about being physically attracted
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 05:41 PM
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They realize that spinning plates isnt actually what they want, it doesnt matter, but you need to experience it to realize that you dont want it You cant skip that phase because it is important for developing empathy and self actualization, i know blue pillers dont like the idea that by behaving based around competition, insecurity, maybe pushing suffering onto others, and being selfish will lead to the capability of happiness, but thats how it worked for me And its just interesting imo, anyone …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/17 08:57 PM
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There are plenty of hipsters who are just in it for the aesthetic, I know a fuck load of narcissistic hipster dudes, they got that pretentious, snobby, "you wouldnt understand" type of personality Picture a trust fund kid who is really snobby when it comes to art or music
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/17 03:02 AM
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Damn I got some highground on my side huh, I thought it was more like being red pill but lazy because we arent short and better marketing. Its like you go to the gym all the time and youre jacked, but you arent short and dont drive a giant pickup truck. Instead of talking shit to feminists and trying to change their minds or make them look dumb you just let them assume whatever they want about you and just tell them what they want to hear, "this is what a feminist looks like " type shit while be…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 10:40 PM
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Why do you think hes nerdy? Hes a genius, he needs someone who is not only interested in helping the world, but also smart enough to listen to him talk everyday. And she has to be comfortable being the side chick, the world is his main. Most women wont put up with that shit, even if they think they would. Im sure that he is pretty anal and demanding in a way thta isnt really attractive, just functional, you gotta be cool with being a loaded secretary who wont fuck other dudes and will do what he…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 10:23 PM
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distant and busy works fine, you just gotta be distant and busy with other girls bold and eager -> distant and busy over and over, froma womans pov its just bold and eager with other girls ask the girl to bring you around some of her sexy friends, she will either hook you up or cockblock the fuck outta you, either way you win, its best when the girl actually says shit like "youre not allowed to fuck my friends, youre mine, dont tlak to her shes a whore" "unavailable" means around other women who…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 08:42 AM
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You havent heard my nazi starbucks startup yet bro, im gonna blow these libtards away with my superior hair dye and gray blue eyes, im gonna dazzle these fags
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 05:49 AM
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By low quality women do you mean high quality under capitalism? This feels like a humble brag im better than the other girls type sof posts Like a girl who shaves her head to prove shes better than the other girls and doesnt care what society wants from her, followed by posting 50 selfies of that bald head. Please pay attention to me but in a way that I feel is different from the others but is actually exactly the same, buys 10 wigs, makes posts about how her wigs cost more than yours
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 05:43 AM
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To be more confident and get laid more often sure. But it ends there. Not really, it's more about the most successful way to think and behave in capitalism. "You guys"? You honestly think I welcome over there anymore? They hate people who uses logic reasoning xD I got banned because I questioned them why "AskReddit" was sexist. I mean in this sub, for some reason everyone thinks self improvement means lifting, its more about thinking and motivation
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 01:56 AM
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My view is that the "truth" the red pill wishes to teach, is just denial and anger. Are you sure that you just have a different definition of the word "truth" Because in TRP the word "truth" isnt meant to be objective, its only meant to be useful to make your life better than others. If the "truth" cannot be used than it is not the "truth", the "truth" is whatever you need it to be There are no Chads. There are no Stacies. If the existence of chad and stacy suits my desires, than they exist, thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 11:31 PM
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I actually know a lot of guys like this lol, but most of them are only this combination of traits because they take an anti psychotic But they wont have "spends free time instead of wasting it" because those motherfuckers make your brain cloudy as fuck, so once you convince them to lay off the anti psychotic so they remember they have a dick the only thing you gotta worry about it "why was he on those drugs in the first place? whatever"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 05:11 AM
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Revenge and spite can be a lot of fun in their own right, especially long term stuff What happens after the rejection isnt really important, do whatever makes you feel better, you have already been rejected so its all just freedom now
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 06:17 PM
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Its the rollercoaster, the contrast You know how people who do bdsm do "aftercare" well that is a good example
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 06:52 AM
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hes gonna feel butterflies slide through his abdomen just like you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 06:44 AM
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Purple is open minded
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 06:41 AM
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You didnt include physical looks into your description at all, dark triads who are ugly are just smart enough to know not to waste time You wont see them trying to woo women with their feminism or anything, no nice guy shit, they are just trying to be efficient The more needs oriented a person is, the less mindfog they need to deal with, no existential dread, no meaning of life, no worry about if other people approve of their behavior or need to be a good person, they have simple desires and res…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 06:30 AM
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And let's face it, if you had the makings of a master social manipulator, you wouldn't be on those boards to begin with. Speak for yourself, this forum + enough years for my brain and car insurance to catch up with the women have done wonders
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 06:25 AM
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Dark triad no longer combines psychopathy with sadism(or it wont for much longer anyways), they are working on adding sadism as a fourth category and making it a dark tetrad You guys need to stop thinking that it means to go shoot up a school. RPers are just saying embrace selfishness, be capable of violence when it has a positive impact or prevents a negative impact and be smarter than as many people as possible, lead them in conversation with charm
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 06:20 AM
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I think we must have different definitions of feminine and masculine, I think of feminine + masculine as a witty passive aggresiveness without sign of emotion Think loki vs thor from the movie, but imagine if they had the same physiques Feminine + masculine is the type of guy who doesnt want to beat you up, he wants to ruin your life, its not about dominance, he wants you to remember him in a way that scars you for life, its not about winning and losing and it wont be fair. If masculine guys tal…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 06:15 PM
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I saw it all the time when I played from like 2007-2011, but only when the girl had a mic or was the type to use forums and add people to myspace and shit. But honestly I got tons of free shit too, I think having a mic and vent in general led people to generosity, the girls just tended to earn it with the sound of their voice rather than the vile content that I spewed out of mine Using a female character and tricking people into thinking you were an actual woman probably only worked on 10 year o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 04:33 AM
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Yeah, racism and sexism are tried and true, people just throw out whatever they think will work, regardless of how they actually feel What are those 13 year olds supposed to do? Know actual details of soemones life? They dont have many options When a was a wee lad I often called other 13 year old white boys nigger on xbox live, if it aint broke dont fix it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 04:27 AM
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This isnt really true, men who communicate like women in a charming confident way tend to make the masculine men look very fake and insecure by comparison(or at the very least, emotional) I know it sounds weird that the male with both would be less emotional, but they would have an easier time bringing emotion out of the other male Adding feminine communication doesnt mean you need to lose your male body language and dominance, it just typically tends to evolve into wit and leading others into m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 04:00 AM
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Its not fake lol, its just that we dont need to be like that because we have physical dominance on our side Sisterhood has an incentive from a preservation standpoint, if men had an incentive to develop a bond like that than we would start doing that too I had a female friend who wanted to hire me because a job with all women dramatically changes if you hire 1 man, it gives them either a common enemy or something to fight over, they need to behave in a way that others girl cant slight their imag…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 03:53 AM
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The rollercoaster is baed on how clingy the girl is, the harder she tries to hold on to me the faster I slip away. So emotional outbursts are more because I didnt get my alone time or she was using her freedom a little too liberally(im very possesive but not controlling at all, I dont tell people what they cant do, I just ghost if they naturally behave in a way I dont approve), the rollercoaster always ends with us fucking tho, I think that gives those girls security and prevents me from becomin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/17 03:59 PM
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Makes sense, im an infj which is red for you so after reading If we're talking about a dread perspective, I think what would work on me, based on past experience, is a guy who is cooler and less emotional, because that means they have the emotional upper hand. I think some women think the opposite way, less emotional men are less threatening and therefore less exciting. Typically women that have been very attracted to me liked that I range from confident, calm and easy going and occasionally bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/17 04:28 AM
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They are also the ones who are less likely to open up to you and potentially just be the biggest waste of time, I get infj and intj like half and half, my I/J percent is always close to 50% and I dated a INFJ who was 100% identical to me. I have a tendency to abandon people for no real reason, but in a way that they never hate me I know this is all subjective and based on 1 girl, but I feel that they are the types of girls who get this "social media body acceptance vulnerability" thing and go on…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/17 01:27 AM
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I would imagine that it would assume that is an ideal match because the F would make the relationship much more likely to last, but if its an ISFP he would be much more likely to not be as confident, show his insecurities, followed by you either being cold or show a lack of respect. But if it was an extrovert guy he would be more likely to have higher confidence and deal with critisicm/needs better while still being able to communicate in a meaningful way, he would also be mor elikely to know mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/17 01:13 AM
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Its weird because its the same thing that red pillers do, except more convoluted, less hateful and instead of attempting to get gratification in a real world sense its about fleshing out a way to deal with your lacking identity. Its no coincidence that TRP is by design simplified and MBTI is by design overly complex, it shows a lot about the viewer based on how invested and desperate they are, some people need to feel complex, special and have an idea of individuality, others need less empathy t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/17 12:59 AM
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Nah, if you voted Trump your politics are either dumb and insecure or actually misogynist, racist and xenophobic. I didnt vote for anyone But I was hoping trump would ban birth control so I could become a birth control plug, I would make a lot of money, sexy women would hit me up daily and I could sling dick as easily as possible. All while giving off this "this is what a feminist looks like" type of vibe Thats the life right there
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 10:44 PM
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The thing is that some of those people might actually want kids, like they are doing it out of spite and lashing out and enjoying their autonomy/expression of freedom But they dont know if they actually dont want kids until they get to the point in which they just dont care and still dont want kids. Personally I think many will realize that they were just rebelling for the sake of rebellion and actually do want a kid. The arent really promoting the choice whether or not to have kids in a chill w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 10:34 PM
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I think that person means smarter women are less likely to take risks and probably has a better idea of what she wants meaning you may have meet extra standards before you get anything from her. You would be making your life harder and have a higher chance of wasting your time with no real benefit If I had to describe the position RP men take, its that they want a girl who is smart enough, after that IQ is only important if it scales with other things that benefit the man(like income). IQ on its…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 03:53 AM
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Its not really female validation, its male validation/competition, the women are just one of the ways that we measure each other. Theres some validation to it, but the way you describe it is not the way men think. Men never think in a vacuum like that, we always compare ourselves to other men and our behvaior is heavily based on things we recognize
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 03:46 AM
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Its like game of thrones with the ginger and the big woman, if the bitch looks like she might be able to fuck you up than you wanna have some savage ass babies Nowadays people value the girl with the knife in her boot who looks like a psychopath with an eating disorder for the same reason, you can slit my throat and bury me in your backyard anyday sexy. The only downside is how many fucjking girls decide they gotta do photoshoots in graveyards right next to the fucking depressed ass people who b…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 01:20 AM
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They found a couple opiate seeds and got FUCKED UP one day, chasing the dragon everyday since with that little ass bird brain The point is that a lot of this shit is random enough that we cant know because it wasnt actually important, so you can speculate but theres no point
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 01:17 AM
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Larger limbal rings signal youth, which can be more visible with certain eye colors Not all people with blue eyes have larger limbal rings, but those who do will be very sought after. Which could make all blue eyed people more sought after by association
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 01:15 AM
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Think about it like this, men didnt care about fat asses until kinda recently, men didnt eat ass until REALLY RECENTLY. As soon as women started being more open about wanting to be choked every dude read some article about it and was like "dude this article is tlaking about mje, im one of those choke expert guys, i need to inform the women of my natural talents" than he jacks her trachea followed by asking her how mnay times she came Im glad my parents had sexy genetics, I would look like a much…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 01:02 AM
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you made me remember a random event, reading my post is your reward And I want you to beg to see my real pics
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 03:33 AM
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I was told I look like this guy, which feels like an insult and I dont think I look like him at all but whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 03:29 AM
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It feels like so many girls nowadays have the idea of being some bad ass slutty chick who is fearless and hooks up with rich, handsome strangers. But its the idea that they like, some of those girls actually enjoy doing it, but most of them arent fearless adrenaline junkies like they were in their fantasy so its bitter sweet Its more of a way to compete with other girls, its cool to be the "sexperienced" wild poly girl nowadays who reblogs fuckboys memes nonstop. Yeah, shes a cool feminist icon,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 11:15 PM
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They recognize the personality effects that having a casual sex life has on you, its the validation coupled with reputation and halo effect that you gain from it Its about having casual sex in comparison to other men, men rarely think about social dynamics or their sex life in a vacuum. They recognize that as an object they are more desirable if they accomplish certain things, so they seek those things out Its no different than wanting a bunch of instagram followers or people at your workplace w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 11:08 PM
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I have done this before, I didnt want the girl to feel like I was using her and her friends would kinda point out to her how much money she spent on me I dont really like when women spend too much money on me, things dont need to be 50/50 but even if both people are ok with it I think other peoples perception of your relationship can still have a negative influence. I would say I was trying to avoid some potential paranoia that she might have based on shit her friends would say Your boyfriend mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 02:17 AM
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MGTOW are hateful, but I dont think they have pro rape posts do they? Thats a huge fucking leap that the incel sub decided to make
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 03:20 AM
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To me it seems that giving compliments, buying gifts, and stuff that “empower women” are considered beta and weak. TRP never says this lol, it just says that shit is extra, it means nothing, it gets you nothing, you dont do it to get anything It doesnt say you cant do that shit, it says dont do that as a strategy Does withholding these things prevent you from being in a romantic relationship Sounds more like entitlement on your part, not giving someone gifts doesnt mean they are "withholding" an…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 03:32 AM
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But those people who do it because they want to avoid guilt for others feeling bad are more like neutral. They are avoiding their own guilt, thats their real motivation Youre right, its better than some people, but you give them too much credit for that lol, its not charity work
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 12:40 AM
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You shouldnt get so defensive and start comparing people just to justify shit, im just pointing out the truth It wasnt a personal attack
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 12:33 AM
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They dont want to feel bad for hurting someones feelings Dont make it out like its some good deed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 11:27 PM
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Do you think the men on TRP care about the other men on TRP? I swear these things should make sense to you by now I know you think that they must care, why else would the sub exist? But its more a combo of spite towards women and the world + convo that may teach you something you didnt already know + echo chamber
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 09:41 PM
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I dont think so, because the biggest part of it is taking shit from other men, so you appreciate what you got when you got something good Women take the most shit by men Men will understand other men better, yeah, but I can articulate myself well enough that thats not what im aiming for
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 09:39 PM
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It feels like blue pillers tend to take trp literally far more often than red pillers(atleast on this sub, i dont look at the other subs)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 09:36 PM
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Another thing that happens is the driver-by person is actually right sometimes and the original discussion was wrong in some way I tend to view "feminist speech" and "victims processing things" as entirely separate conversations. You do, but the victims dont see it that way and people tend to have "blind suppport" for victims even if they are wrong, which is stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 07:58 PM
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Yeah, its arrogance and ego, thats where the assault comes from. Im sure it started out very cautious and respectful, maybe women soliciting him. But after it becomes normal, and half the women in miramax movies had cock in their mouth to start their career, I bet it can become kind of stale, entitlement forms and he starts being more forward about it. His biggest mistake was even thinking about trying it on a woman who had an established career already He needed to remember, those girls are usi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 07:52 PM
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when they are sealioning and derailing and trying to take over a conversation. What does this mean in the context of the male victims, what are they doing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 02:31 PM
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Why do you hold the views you have? Its because at your current level of power they are what keep you safe. Dont make the mistake of thinking that you remain the same at every different level of authority, because you dont
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 02:26 PM
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Because they are gaining from it in someway, its like the suicidegirls photographers Have you ever wondered, hey how is she a suicide girl when she doesnt have any tattoos or piercings? Even the actual alt girls put out, those instagram tags and showcases arent free but they dont cost money either
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 02:14 PM
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or how about make everyone better so that there are good people who will stop the bad people The bad people will look like good people, if they are openly bad they have just gotten to the point that they can show it without losing their power buddhism tells people to value kindness and peace, so that would go against what you're saying. Confucianism is about establishing a strict hierarchy to keep order so that people wouldn't have to fight dog eat dog over status and power because they all have…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 12:04 AM
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Maybe not everyone, I love to tell my friends about all the black dick they consume, its ok though I respect their lifestyle decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 10:21 PM
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Im sure this will lessen with time, a lot of men still remember when they were critiqued(probably by women or were overlooked for other men) for their interests, they chose to take pride in something that apparently made them lackluster to some women and the media has a lot of tropes based around this The media also shows us another common trope, the fangirl, the girls who ruin and commercialize things by being overly focused on the way something looks. I remember when I was a kid and my cousin …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 09:36 PM
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Do you want men to cater to women and treat them special? Is that really the correct path? Or is it maybe that men treat everyone the same? They just use specialized insults and recognize a rare target when they see one Me and my friends treat each other like dogshit, its great, we all love it, plenty of women have managed to get into it too. What determines who are the people who need to change? Why are you so sure its not you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 09:27 PM
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If neither person is ever willing to follow, than you need to remain in unison, which is possible but very unrealistic. I would imagine that those people are basing their relationships less on good chemistry and more on "this person is just like me externally which reinforces my ego" and results in us both just finding fullfillment in our individual lives while our "companionship" is more of an idea that we keep so if we need to pull the emotional trigger later in life we already have another pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 09:21 PM
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Why? Locker room talk isnt some isolated thing, its just an expression of freedom and comfort in a setting based around the excitement men get from competing with each other with a certain aggressive comradery If you take away locker room talk than you need to take away the things that lead to that behavior, I basically wouldnt be able to have male friends anymore because the last paragraph I wrote is the point of having male friends. In fact without locker room talk I would only have friends to…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 07:13 PM
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everyone does this at work, dont act like you dont do it too Capitalism(the way we do it anyway) actively encourages everyone to be more like a sociopath, which results in actual sociopaths having less power over others. I know this is a hard thing to swallow, "make everyone worse so the actual worst people have less power?" but its the way the world works Maybe if yall would get better at this donald trump wouldnt be president First I want you to think about buddhism, taoism and confucianism. N…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 06:43 PM
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Yeah im liberal as fuck and think we should totally punch all the nazis And it has nothing to do with my plans to dress up as a nazi and go to starbucks so I can have a good time "defending myself" from the most harmless people I can find Its like how everytime I hear a woman say "rapists should get the death penalty!" I just think to myself jesus christ these people have no idea how other people think. These arent rules with punishments, its a game of winners and losers and prison time is just …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 06:41 PM
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Since when does TRP deny that lol? Most men openly dislike that But we dont refer to it as loyalty, we call it yesmen, sycophants or leeches because they are so loyal that they dont even care when their friend is in the wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 02:17 AM
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Its just my personal experience, but I think girls use personalized insults way more than boys, boys tend to generalize more. So for boys its not only more likely to be seen as a joke by the target, but the other kids wont really take it as seriously. But a personalized insult or rumor is actually believable, which also gives it the likelihood to do far more damage if the otherkids choose to repeat it as a fact Even as adults men tend to just throw around sexism and racism because its easy and h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 02:11 AM
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Some of the angriest posters are RP, the most depressing and bitter are black but jesus blue pillers are kicking up the crazy with some of the new posters. For a while the reds and blues were starting to agree on a lot of shit, I mean we used to think xemnas was bad, he was just autistic and persistent. Then the plague of incels came Now the bluest blues are showing up to show us what insanity really looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 01:22 AM
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I think its just you lol I prefer a soft voice, funcational genitals and the type of appreciation that only women can give, thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 01:03 AM
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The way that Ive always seen it was that some of the slutty women were sluts and they knew how to get what they want, but others were slutty in a way that was more that they were easily influenced and taken advantage of, so other girls would tend to easily make them look bad or use them, they arent as good at competing with other women, so any high quality dude would probably be misdirected away from those girls by other girls Idk if you remember our conversation yesterday, but my tortureporn fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 09:41 PM
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Im saying that the "sluts" men often refer to are not the same "sluts" that women refer to One of these groups is way more successful than the other The sluts men refer to are the girls that in a friends circle are the "weak links", not only do men take advantage of them, but women take advantage of those girls too. The sluts that some women hate are the ones who manage to use their sluttiness to their advantage, rather than the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 09:11 PM
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The women that are called "sluts" by other women get LTRd and married by attractive dudes. I mean a lot of that slut shaming was probably jealousy and based out of competition But the "sluts" that are known and talked about mostly by men? They dont do so hot, they can still do fine, but these are not the same types of women as above, these are the women who are easily peer pressured and have an insane need for attention
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 09:03 PM
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My last post was not to be taken literally, I was talking about negative traits, not human interaction and communication lol. And when I say "negative traits" I dont mean sexism, racism or anything involving morality or ethics, I mean insecurity, neediness, submissiveness, overly sensitive, lack of interest, lack of ambition, etc etc Your problem with RP is just a false perception if your last paragraph is accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 12:08 AM
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Ill add those to my list, but I already got one hell of a fucking list lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 09:09 PM
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Yeah, shock stuff isnt my thing really, when a movie just wants to outdue itself I dont enjoy it as much, so many saw movies I just lost interest in that style. Ive been told to watch leatherface by my tortureporn buddy, but havent gotten around to it Some really popular stuff like anti christ tends to just be meh for me, I understand why some things are so popular for being different or extreme or having some deep meaning. But if I gotta wait an hour before the torture porn part starts than im …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 09:04 PM
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Yeah it wasnt actually about living forever, more just curiousity I felt like it was kinda meta, like she implied its worse than you can imagine and KILLS HERSELF TO GO THERE FASTER, like this old bitch loves torture porn too and isnt willing to wait a few years to get there, is it her turn to be the victim tho? I would assume so but I havent really put too much thought into it lol But it still reminds me of the old people immortality thing which is why I bring it up
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 08:56 PM
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I typically dont like the old people who wanna know about immortality or some shit cliche, but martyrs managed to be so fucking great that I didnt even mind that I didnt watch the girl with the dragon tattoo remake and I wont watch a american martyrs, not that there arent good american movies but the french know whats up, they know they gotta live up to de sade
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 08:52 PM
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That depends on whether your prefer emotional, impulsive, psychotic OR cold, clinical, calculated Basically the first half of martyrs or the second half Ah fuck it, who am I kidding, im not that picky, I like both
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 08:43 PM
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I have a friend and we like to "clear out areas" wherever we go, you either love us or hate us Depends how much you like loud conversations about rape, torture porn, threats made out of love and food. Doesnt matter the location, I have zero awareness of my surroundings when im focused on someone, I always have to tell people that if you try to talk to me while im driving WE ARE GONNA DIE lets listen to music we can tlak later
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 07:57 PM
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Going from physical attraction to actual attraction isnt about showing attractive personality traits, often it is just about not turning the girl off, not showing negative traits The physical looks can be actual attraction, as long as you dont ruin it when you open your mouth. Plenty of women will give you the benefit of the doubt because they think you are so sexy, so its just about not fucking it up. He doesnt necessarily need to add, he just cant subtract
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 07:27 PM
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True, and it is more complicated for women because of makeup, but beauty tutorials are way more socially acceptable than a lot of mens improvement stuff. All the women ive known have just had to watch youtube and practice with their drug store makeup before they bust out the good shit, but all the other looks based stuff is the same with men You could also maybe say women are more willing to be very uncomfortable, but we live in the world of yoga pants nowadays so thats more because they want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 05:11 PM
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We all do what we need to do to survive, we meet our needs, agree with people who reminds us of ourselves, disagree with people who threaten us, try to avoid depression, emptiness, existential dread, we seek meaning, happiness, connection and pleasure You should only be feeling emotions in a way that better your life, that is what theyre there for, obviously thats a unrealistic goal, but its important to value this. If thats not how it is for you, than work to make it that way. You gotta ask you…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 05:01 PM
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Attractive male traits stem from confidence, confidence stems from success and superiority Can we all be winners in life? I know people think so when they give everyone trophies, but thats not how it works If you reread your post, you even say it yourself, for women its pretty much just make yourself look sexy. For men its more complicated, they cant just focus on one area Think about if a guy said to himself, im gonna wear makeup like the girls, natural looks so I have perfect skin and shape my…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 03:16 PM
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Well im not the type to label myself like that, my enigma is far too complex and intricate for one word to describe, but sure, lets make it easy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 02:28 PM
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It means that you have to focus on the individual, rather than just throwing everyone under the bus
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 02:27 PM
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Men are fine with all those women, we just dont like women who wont commit to who they are, you dont get to flip flop between all the ideologies, perceptions, movements, etc to only get the positives and avoid all the negatives Why would anyone want to be a muslim when they could be a cis white chad? You can do whatever you want, and I can judge you however I want. Shaming is when you are trying to encourage someone to not be what they are, thats the goal. I dont care what people do, but im not …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 05:40 AM
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Well personally I dont like attention lol, ive always been more of a daydreamer so early on I associated attention with people distracting me from my thoughts which are usually way more enjoyable than their dumb ass, my mom scolding me for something I did, my teacher asking me to answer some question because they could tell I was off in la la land instead of paying attention, most of the attention I received as a child was annoying in some way Im sure I missed plenty of shit that you saw due to …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 04:50 AM
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Are you sure you are blue pill? Since when can one woman represent all women? My girlfriend likes when strangers at clubs grope her Does that mean all women like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 04:36 AM
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They assume that they will be more successfull with relationships, opportunities and sex than the guys who REFUSE to adhere to their rules You know how theres this idea thta women think that men "deserve sex because you dont rape people, deserve a girlfriend for being a decent person, YOU DONT GET REWARDS FOR BEING DECENT" That isnt actually what all those men feel or think. They just feel that if there is a terrible guy who breaks all their rules and is just something that they claim they hate,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 04:31 AM
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Weak assholes still get away with it if they are goood looking, narcissists are as weak as you get. But their outbursts of anger can be attractive, even though its based around immense insecurity to the point that they need to 100% lie to themselves about who they actually are Women love them, but only for a few months We do love us some bitches :D
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 04:18 AM
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but the big distinction is that unlike TRP I don't believe you have to look down on or manipulate women to find a girlfriend. Do you actually think TRP beleives that? They are just willing to do it, that doesnt mean that they think its the only way lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 04:15 AM
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You cant feel desire for a man unless you "get to know him"? The second you see someone you make like 50 or 60 judgements about who they are and what their personality is like simply based on their appearance. Women are good to go just based off that all the time, especially if they are lonely and want to feel strongly towards someone so badly that they actually do
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 04:12 AM
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Blue pill dating advice: Be confident Political advice: Be president Career advice: Be famous rapper Why dont some of you blue pillers see how useless that is? Be aware of what women want If you mean by listening to what they think they want, youre in for a bad time. Thats why trp says only judge behavior, not words What being yourself means: You should not fake character traits or interests to attract a girl. Don't pretend to be super into some band just because your date told you she likes the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 03:57 AM
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Im willing to wise up, how bout you tell me how, what am I a perfect example of?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 02:07 AM
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im sure she would now. Who knows about the future? Well if im doing it now than why does the future matter? you said They're unable to have intimate relationships or connect with anyone. If im unable than im unable, so that doesnt make sense. Making a empathetic connection doesnt guarentee anything long term, things arent that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 12:03 AM
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They're unable to have intimate relationships or connect with anyone. I think my girl would disagree with you :P
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 11:31 PM
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What medium have you been using to observe those guys and confirm that their application was in a useful way(rather than a way to shift blame or complain to internet strangers) while still resulting in a downward shift in their personal lives? They cause harm to themselves? Does it come in HD, because I would love to watch :P Are you sure that you arent just seeing what you want to see? Because I dont see how it would be possible to really draw any conclusions of certainty, there isnt any way to…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 04:04 PM
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I bet your boyfriend would tell you otherwise, dont be so hard on yourself. Being naturally intelligent or independant puts you ahead of the curve, its more than enough to be proud of, and im sure theres other shit that you refuse to give yourself credit for But feel how you wanna feel, sometimes being overly critical is by design, it works for TRP, so im sure it works for you too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 02:30 PM
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I can see that you are very smart, analytical and logical. But I feel like you dont understand what im saying because we all have a different lens to view the world, so ill give you a little metaphor Imagine that you have a child, he or she loves to play outside and you would never rob that enjoyment from your child. However, the area that you live in is known to occasionly have venomous snakes, its possible that your child could come into contact with this snake, but it isnt really avoidable, l…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 01:39 PM
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Well most intelligent, independant women are the way they are because that is how they define themselves, its where they get their self esteem and their drive in life, so they seek it out in others because they put so much emphasis on it Im not saying you arent intelligent or independant, but I think its best to define yourself best on what you value and seek out. Being intelligent or independant is probably just who you naturally happen to be, rather than an idea that you chase, encourage and p…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 01:24 PM
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Intelligent, independant women seek out men who could provide for them if needed, but wont let the man do so because they dont want to rely on another human being and give them power in that way, it may also interfere with their own personal goals. This is one of the main reasons why narcissism is more attractive than it ever has been, how can I show you that I can not only provide for myself, but also you? By putting twice the amount of effort into myself. TRP only fails on those women if the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 01:09 PM
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TRP doesnt change that, different users say different things because they are different people and had different needs and a different perception of it TRP is not a philosophy, it is meant to be flexible so that it can be useful. You know how feminism started saying "all women can have their own brand of feminism" well that is how TRP has always been. The difference is that feminism did that for unified support from women, TRP does it so that you dont try to use it literally, it has no scripts o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 11:38 AM
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Well its tailored towards the individual, so having some one size fits all universal definition for words that are based around societal values wouldnt be as useful, as people change with time so do the definitions. Giving the words a single definition would make them less useful, its better to have a general idea that people agree on but nothing specific Remember, TRP is not designed to be critiqued first or anything like that lol, making it more generic just so people could make better argumen…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 01:09 AM
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You cant prove it no, but if you are attempting to prove something in order to justify its validity in the eyes of others or your own than you are not following what TRP is meant to be Sure, but when I do that im not really arguing in good faith. So its meaningless other than trying to predict arguments and word things in a specific way to avoid obvious flaws that you are aware your position has. So it is really just to pass time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 09:49 PM
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If its just for fun, than you dont actually care, right? Theres no way that you could fall into a belief that would be detrimental to you? What specificly are you trying to do while having fun? Just challenge yourself? Devils advocate? Troll? Because those things dont mean that you actually "care" about proving TRP wrong or right
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 09:27 PM
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Im not opposed to changing my view, but it would need to be through challenging functional truth vs objective truth, proving credibility in the first place, showing merit to the things ive dismissed like politics etc But it has to match the tone I use, because otherwise I can just dismiss it with the thought process displayed in the op. the easiest way to change my view would just be to simplify it even more than I have
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 08:55 PM
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I dont give a fuck about authority, I said it, done
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 08:47 PM
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I think this thread is dumb, but theres no point for you to post in this sub if you arent willing to speak in the same format that everyone else is conforming too, if we dont do that than it would be impossible to go in depth. Even if there isnt a exact definition, most people have the general idea in agreement, just not the specific details You dont need to accept the terms in your personal life, but theres no point posting if you arent willing to use them as a conversation/debate tool At the v…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 07:37 PM
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Beta is typically close to average in looks with potential deviation in either direction, charm, confidence, wit(maybe not all 4 of these things, but atleast 2) and they are non confrontational with mostly security/comfort traits omega is below average and openly submissive, they bend to others and offer incentives in order to try to gain favor, self deprecating The jump from high beta to alpha typically involves atleast 1 of these in extreme abundance, high narcissism, potential for violence/th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 07:15 PM
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well thats what typically happens when you dont have a dad, I dont see why it would be strange
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 07:13 PM
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fuck buddy and fwb are not the same thing one started as a friend and you started fucking, the other is the opposite, so its not a real friend, more of a convenient acquaintance you know, if were rubbing our genitals on each other we should atleast get to know each other a little
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 05:41 PM
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I try to do it the amicable way, bitches just hate that, so I ghost eventually but not right off the bat im not talking about dating either, im talking about fuck buddies who have a secret plan to wrap you around their finger
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 05:09 PM
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Im not a woman, but I think its more the fact that they are pale and tend to have a lot of freckles, pale and ginger hair just dont mix well imo, the paler your skin the darker your hair needs to be imo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 03:38 PM
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depends on the severity of the age range, 5 years wont do much to your looks but can easily put men and women at the point in which their brains are equally developed, which is where I think this stereotype comes from, couples in their early 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 03:01 PM
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What about people who are childfree? What should they be doing? I dont think the other blue pillers even agree with you dude, you seem really close minded about peoples lifestyle choices Honestly your opinions are the kind that I would assume would make you a tradcon MRP. If you were actually a woman pretending to be a BP dude I wouldnt be surprised at all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 12:36 PM
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Or they just arent ready for commitment.... You need to stop thinking that everyone needs to live their life exactly like you do, you arent the default human being lol. Every guy is looking for sex, obviously not every guy is low value If you knew how hard it can be to get rid of a chick you would understand, that shit gets messy unless you are willing to be straight up heartless, and even that shit is just gonna have her lusting after you hard as fuck begging you to come back for at least a mon…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 12:33 PM
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They dismiss bad behavior in the sense that they tolerate it, but that doesnt mean they wont punish you for it. Not exactly the same thing Its a fun game if you ask me, although when I do it its not mean spirited like the way the op intended it to be. I think thats probably just a misunderstanding
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 12:26 PM
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People still have plenty of faith/beliefs, but its in things like conspiracy theories, it plays the same role as religion would have in that persons life Any increased hedonism came from availability and increased social acceptance Your religious friends believe in purity and all that other stuff because they were taught to, it wasnt a choice for them, the rest of us were taught to idiolize celebrities, fame and wealth above all else
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 02:17 PM
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You must have a wonderful twang to your voice :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/17 07:27 PM
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Which means that you not only have to inform them why they are rapists, but they need to agree with you that your definition of rape is infact rape At the end of the day, thats the point, I know in some peoples minds they just get to make all the rules, but thats not really how it is. So at the end of the day it only matters if its a law, if its not considered rape by the law than its not even worth thinking about. Do you think these "rapists" are willing to drink the feminist kool aid? If they …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/17 02:06 PM
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They do it just incase another male tries to pay for you, they might not be trying to fuck you, but they are still competitive with other men, even if the other man is a hypothetical guy they dont even know, if you were to hypothetically fuck one of us you can bet your ass its gonna be me motherfucker. Thats the mindset, admiration is important even when its imaginary We would flex on our own shadow if we needed too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/17 12:05 AM
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So its more about timing than anything else is what you are saying, its not that they are random dudes, because one of those random dudes could be your boyfriend one day, in which case it would become ok You know the reason people do this is because there is a common line of thinking along the lines of "if you want someone to be your friend, treat them like they already are". Its not bad advice, but its not a one size fits all tool either, but some guys make good use of that technique early in l…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 11:58 PM
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They got T H I C C delusions with that black dick compensation
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 09:57 PM
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I agree with you, you can most definitely critique it in that sense. Terpers even are willing to accept that but it always ends the same way Someone links drnerdlove, which is targetted at women, and terpers are like "well...if thats the best you got..were gonna stick with this" We see the criticism, but its based on some other hypothetical immoral dude on the other side of the planet, so no one cares. There have been a couple different times when a blooper tried to make a alternative rp, but it…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 09:53 PM
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What's the point of calling your sexual strategy "amoral" if you don't accept the fact that some may actually use it in a way many people (or even yourself) would find morally repugnant? IDK what you would expect the alternative to be? Its amoral because you cant control other people, I dont feel guilty based on what other people do, whether its based on TRP or whether its based on race/gender/etc Blue pillers and liberals often have this obsession with the surface, the way things look seem more…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 09:41 PM
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I cant stand snapchat filters, like yeha I get it your nose is ugly and a dog snout is an improvement but fuck can we not Dont even get me started on the sparkly eyes and shiny faces Can we just be regular human beings, I never knew the lines for being a furry would become so thin, you can basically tell how low a girls self esteem is by the ratio of regular pics to snapchat pics
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 09:28 PM
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Its a way for them to avoid certain people messaging them and ask other girls for tips to get certain guys to not message them. Its just a way for them to easily define their echo chamber, since the red pill has such a bad rep with liberals Its like on OKC how liberal girls often put stuff like Dont message me if you: Are a cop Voted for trump Have a picture of you holding a fish Support cops
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 08:16 PM
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The point of his post was to question the implied presumption of the original poster that men’s prioritization of sex has anything to do with feeling a sense of achievement. Clearly, it’s not about achievement, it’s about enjoyment. Ah, well thats where the confusion is, I agree with the OP. I think someday when VR sex comes out and stuff like that men will still care about actual women. It will be a status symbol, and they may fuck sexbots or something too but they will not give up on actual wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 08:12 PM
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I think its just a way for them to filter out feminist men, in that sense it works well for what they want. They want naturals and they want feminist men to stay as far away from them as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 07:44 PM
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MRP is a complete shitshow honestly, I dont think TRP even considers MRP as a part of it, its like feminists and TERFS They just dont get shit on because the incels are so distracting and whiny that no one has energy left for the MRP idiots
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 07:43 PM
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Well the original post I replied to was basically implying that you can enjoy your life without achieving anything, if thats not what they were saying than I dont see the point of their post in the first place, the only reason for replying in the way that they did was to say "I can be happy without having any difficulty/adversity/achievement" I was pointing out that they feel that way because of the contrast that exists in their life
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 07:37 PM
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Manipulation is based around COGNITIVE EMPATHY, you actually need to understand and know someone to manipulate them, manipulation and lies are not the same thing People with high cognitive empathy lead people in conversations, so the act of manipulating someone isnt based on anything other than informing someone of something under a false pretense. But they are being manipulative even if they dont take anything, because they could manipulate you since they know you in a empathetic way Manipulati…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 02:30 PM
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I dont think thats true lol, personally I would prefer that because I would get moral highground while cold approaching women, I could pull victim for getting rejected and use it to benefit myself in certain situations. I would also get to play the sympathy card. If you get rejected than you got rejected, I might as well finesse the situation to make the most of it, which would be easiest if women told the truth It would also put me into situations where I could probably get away with some shit,…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 01:17 AM
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I agree, except when "free time" becomes all your time. Accomplishments are important for everyone, but you dont know it till you live without them. Sex/intimacy is obviously pleasurable, you took it from another male in a competitive sense, you are developing an empathetic connection and it gives validation. My brother doesnt even know the day of the week, sometimes he doesnt know what month it is. If you get a court order to the rubber room or in some outpatient program than trust me, free tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 01:07 AM
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Thats not the point, jesus christ. The point is that men want to hear the truth, at no point did I say you have to actually do it or anything along those lines. The previous poster said that men dont actually want the truth I really feel like people purposefully misconstrue my posts
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 12:40 AM
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Do those things give you a feeling of accomplishment? Theres a difference, some things that make you happy only do so because it is time away from work, stress, etc If you ever lost your job and spent a bunch of time waiting to get a new one than you would realize how important accomplishments are, that free time starts making you feel worthless if you have too much, counting the days waiting for emails putting your future on hold, straight up dreadfull
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 12:05 AM
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If we are in a famine, yes. Its a recource that others dont have
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 12:01 AM
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Maybe they dont actually know what they want, but trust me, that pear shaped guy is thinking in his head if society treated me like a woman I would have developed an eating disorder and wouldnt look like a pear, fucking lying ass hoes Im not saying that is actually how his life would have gone down in that alternate reality where women never lie, but its enough to genuinely believe that he wants women to tell the truth You cant control others, so I agree with trp, its best to just bring out your…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 11:59 PM
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Men do want that lol, but they dont want it the way you talk about it They want it 100% from birth to the day they die, not selective truth when it will hurt them but sugar coated lies in other ways that hurts them. So if the truth isnt gonna help them, than they dont want it to hurt them either Men just want women to either commit to sugar coating life or to telling the truth, but not a mixture of both that benefits the woman. At the end of the day, fuck it, its obviously better to just not lis…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 11:50 PM
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Terps are arrogant, smug people. Which means that we have trouble being happy with a woman until we are happy with ourselves, but we still want sexual relationships and we still want someone to stroke our ego. We see ourslves as a "work in progress" which means that we arent as willing to commit to a woman because all of our commitment is being used on ourselves. Committing to a woman at the moment is fine, sure, but mentally we wont put any eggs into that basket because it may feel like we are …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 07:52 PM
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Well, my point is that people arent asking women out on dates for the purpose of going on a date. Terpers arent like T swift There could be multiple reasons to ask a woman out on a date, with TRP the most accurate assumption would be to find a girl to fuck in their free time. This study shows the percentage of women who agreed to go on a date, it doesnt even say if they followed through with those plans, it doesnt say how the date went, it doesnt have a way to indicate how much the woman was wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 07:36 PM
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Very good post, I have been trying to tell one of my friends something similiar to your 3rd bulletin, you cant expect everything to look ideal and to also feel ideal, sometimes the best thing for you wont look the most appealing on paper. The best looking relationships arent based around people, they are based around goals, ideas, concepts and those people are just trying to fit you into their plans. That shit doesnt last and people often times are reluctant to seek out a genuine connection that…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 07:09 PM
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The study would be more objective if they made everyone ask people out on dates, if you are willing to walk up and ask people out on a date than you are realistically in a better mental state than other people, physically prepared for the act of doing so(meaning a base confidence in your looks and presentation) and you are in a position that you think you are at a spoint in which you will succeed I know I never would have asked a random girl out to do anything with me until I felt like I had imp…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 06:50 PM
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People arent trying to be happy, they are acting out of jealousy/envy. Happiness comes later. People always try to meet their needs/standards before they even think about happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 02:33 PM
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I think your view of a lot of those guys isnt the most accurate, they are competing with other men, nothing more. Tons of people on TRP originally wnated to just get with a girl who hadnt been through a slut phase, but in todays world thats not very realistic, so if women want sexual freedom than we will give it to them. Its really not that complex, its just about having options, making the decisions and having admiration from your peers. Its the same reason why you would want a promotion at wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 03:40 AM
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They have parades and riots full of em every year Baltimore blacks, neo nazis, gay people, its all just beta uprising
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 03:17 AM
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TRP only reinforces it if you do, its not the cause, it just doesnt go against it either. But TRP is useful even if you arent seeking external validation, because even if you dont seek it the rest of the world does, recources go beyond validation. Manipulation, intimacy and empathy are all heavily related, so I would say it isnt just external
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/17 12:16 AM
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Prostitutes dont impact men positively on the social heirarchy, its not even neutral either, they negatively impact you They only appease you sexually from a mechanical POV, you lose out on every other aspect I know this thread is based around hating on validation, but being competitive is natural and it doesnt automatically mean you cant gain fullfillment through internal means as well. Its not black and white
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/17 12:10 AM
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TRP doesnt teach that lol, people naturally seek validation
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/17 12:08 AM
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Are you sure? What if it was more than just meaningless sex? Like he wnated to bring her into your home? You had to be roommates or something? If its just sex than thats just a hypothetical because in the real world you can never guarantee that, the uncertainty is the thing that makes it a big deal, so many potential ways to fuck everything up
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 11:36 PM
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The solution is to become more empathetic This is exactly what people are doing when they manipulate you, they are giving you what you want. You cant gain empathy without gaining the ability to manipulate. Its best that you develop both, not just one treat people (women included) as complete human beings with desires and insecurities, and to listen to what they have to say I agree, a lot of women complain about a lack of lust in their relationships, you should listen and give them what they want…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 11:28 PM
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I never said they were forced, they are just going with the eb and flow of society, playing with the hand theyve been dealt, just like the rest of us. Some people are privileged and have no moral resisitance while gaining success in the social or capital heirarchy, others not so lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 11:19 PM
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If you feel for them than you understand them, and you understand that they may partake in douchebag or dishonest behavior but you know that they arent doing it because they want to, they are doing what is asked of them by society. You know that they are put into a situation with no clear solution, and that we are all self serving
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 09:42 PM
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I think that many regular women dont realize how heavily they push narcissism, despite the complaint that they dont like it, their behavior oftentimes says the opposite Even feminism tends to push narcissism onto men sometimes, not big mainstream ideas but a lot of the empowering stuff like "modesty/being humble is a social construct" type posts or the way they use their ideas in conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 08:13 PM
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but I do care about the problems many men face with their sexual life. Also, it doesn't help when the people who have these problems, start devising "solutions" and worldviews that are degrading to women, and which advocate dishonesty, douchebaggery, and sexual harassment. Are you saying that you understand that is why they do that and it sucks that they have been put into that type of situation? Or are you saying that you only feel sympathy towards the men who are more like martyrs, the incels …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 08:12 PM
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The beauty of science is that we dont actually care, we see numbers and a bunch of smart people agree and we all blindly agree Its just another form of religion, but atleast the christians read the bible Im not saying its wrong or anything, but you put too much weight on the way that our society makes use of it. Science is often used in the most deceptive ways possible, take a look at the fda/big pharma/food
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 06:50 PM
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I dont think that incels of the past really accepted their fate, but without the internet they werent reminded of their fate too often, so it just didnt bother them as much It is entitlement, correct, but its the result of competition, so I wouldnt say its abnormal or wrong in that sense, it makes perfect sense and its the reaction that we should expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 06:39 PM
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It doesnt really matter, who cares if its "women are bad" vs "immoral people are bad" vs "people who pretend they are goood are bad" Its the same shit, "people who arent me or like me are bad" We all do what we need to do to push our own personal narrative and will find reasoning however we need too. But I guess its for the best, the more that other people worry about this shit the easier it is for me to take advantage of them, so have at it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 03:45 PM
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I agree, its all different shades of the samne color, we all are
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 03:26 PM
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My best friend is actually a woman, so you would think I would agree with you, but... Women have a tendency to be sycophants, sure they want you to be happy, but its more that they want to correct your mood rather than caring about your actual problems. Thats a barrier that cant be broken through for most people Me and my best friend work because she likes being treated as a guy, she doesnt just want a smile and a nice comment, she wants me to threaten to slit her throat if she doesnt get her sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 12:56 AM
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They hunt for brains and earning potential, rather than just education, its just a better way of looking for the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 12:40 AM
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I dont think this is always the case, a lot of times people are conditioned to seek out the unemotional connection When I was a kid I didnt actually know what my face looked like until a very late age, it always gave me a "strange" feeling so I avoided pictures and mirrors. A ton of shit in my childhood and early teens were based around this but it led to me recognizing all touch as unfamiliar, kind of like how rape victims sometimes recognize all touch as familiar. Anyway later on I had a prefe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 02:30 PM
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I think that dread game is one of those things that should have finesse and should be subtle, the examples TRP uses are blunt and extreme so that even a social retard couldnt fuck it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 10:08 PM
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Lust is based around discomfort, mystery, narcissism and good physical looks. It just so happens that you cant really keep that around UNLESS you are in a hot and cold chaotic toxic relationship. Which means that there wont be any trust You cant have all 3 at the same time, its the reaosn dread game works, because you bring back the lust and you lose trust, than the hot and cold gives stronger feelings of love because of the excitement Thats why guys from MRP try to cycle between trust and lust …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 09:04 PM
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Incels are putting way too much thought on the looks, weinstein and trump might be ugly, but they dont have the incel mentality, so I dont see why anyone would compare them. As crazy and fucked up as it sounds, its insulting to trump and weinstein
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 08:58 PM
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these types of threads are such a buzzkill go look at danny devito, be more like him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 08:55 PM
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We live in a power culture, it just nso happens that some people are powerful enough that they can get away with almost anything. Why people single out rape like it has some specific difference doesnt make sense to me, a true rape culture would apply to anyone, even if it was publicly known Im sure theres like some rich dudes out thnere drinking babies blood or some other weird shit, being rich and powerful has its perks, but its nothing specific
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 01:13 AM
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Men are in a position in which most of them have to do things that they simply dont want to do, we cant just sit back and wait for someone to drop a sexy girl who we click with into our laps, we need to go out and do shit But in the beggining its a chance, and guys dont like spending money before they know if the chance will pay off, we would rather pay later once we know that we actually enjoy that person. Some women give off this vibe that they are more interested in putting on makeup, some cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/17 08:02 PM
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A lot of times in life we do things because we want something to be true so badly that we are willing to risk it even if it doesnt look the way we want it to, men get married because of the idea of what a marriage can be, even when they are shown a bunch of failed marriages. Its optimism in a situation where they know they wont find happiness with any other view, pessimism and realism are just luxuries, not everyone can pull that off Its why so many guys think they like manic gamer girls, they s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/17 07:12 PM
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Red pill doesnt discourage communication lol, it just discourages doing it in a feminine way. You communicate through rules, body language, confident display of feelings that you have a resolution for if needed, boundaries, etc The red pill is against allowing a woman to convince you to force out your feelings which will ultimately sound whiny and that information wont actually be helpful, this is pointless and only hurts men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/17 12:37 AM
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If they went from sad->angry->satisfied/egotistical/arrogant/confident than what is the situation that sends them back to anger? I just cant really imagine what would do that, I mean you could be angry at a specific chick sure but thats personal, not general
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/17 12:29 AM
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It just sounds like hes uncertain about her, I bet she has some red flags that worry him. You cant say hes stringing her along without his side of the story Especially if he thinks shes trying to use or incentivize him, I get turned away by so many women because they are trying to do shit for me, buy shit for me, put me into some dynamic that I dont actually want so from my POV I am doing them a favor but they act like they are doing me a favor. They always have this super needy feel. Notice she…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/17 12:14 AM
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Reread, she doesnt know where he works or what his name is when you ask her, she doesnt snitch, even with close friends and family. Obviously she knows that shit, she knows that its sensitive information and doesnt let her feelings or entitlement get in the way of their business, she knows the importance of disinformation. I know this is gonna sound sexist, but most women cant pull that off, its not that they cant but they need to be treated correctly to understand how the dynamic works
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 08:05 PM
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The same way you would view antipsychotics or other medicine, that person is different than you so they need something different, you dont need to understand anything beyond that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 04:52 PM
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Our president is donald trump, im not saying thats a good thing, but I am saying that is clearly a valuable position Im not saying I value selfish behavior, im saying SOCIETY values selfish behavior and I am willing to do what I need to do in the current system to fullfill my biological, competitive drive You are so busy trying to blame people or small fringe groups, they are just giving the world what it wants, you are looking to change the world from the wrong positions, if you dont like the e…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 04:14 PM
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Yes its the same idea, but trp has selfish goals so it doesnt have a negative impact(unless they change their goals to intimacy rather than sex, which is still better than their starting point since they are more capable of empathy after they have gotten what they wanted) It would have a negative impact on women in the sense that if you just want flings than you would be avoiding the men who are best for flings, and if you are looking for actual relationships than you would mischaracterize all m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 04:11 PM
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The thing about feminism is it becomes very beneficial for men at the very top who are socially adept and good looking without being rich or who are rich through an artistic medium. It enhances their positives while trying to remove the importance of the things they lack All while displaying the image of a good person If those people lost their strengths than they wouldnt feel the same, because it would be detrimental to their success All the most socialist/communist people I know are people who…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 02:09 PM
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You are just avoiding the question, "you can go online" is not an answer, even drnerdlove(which is the blue pill go to answer) is catered towards women, not men Self improvement is not about being a good person, its about being a valuable person in our society, being good or bad is up to you, self improvement is amoral
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 01:56 PM
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When they become comfortable they settle back into a lot of their good behavior (which is what women actually want, the narc asshole to slowly start caring more and more)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 11:57 AM
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Which part of feminism teaches men social skills and how to be sexually successfull? I dont even understand how you could come up with your post lol They don't want fairness. They want domination over women, and they're willing to become evil people to make that happen. You are so concerned with women, trp is far less about women than you think, its about the viewer and what they want. Which part of feminism rewards me? Im not even against feminism, at all. But im not gonna sacrifice my own desi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 11:56 AM
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If they are going out of their way to believe something than they know its not really true, you think TRP convinces men to hate women, men convince THEMSELVES to stereotype others and complicate themselves because thats how you feel less empathy If hatred is real you cant use it because of the bias involved. The desire is primary, the emotion reinforces the desire Its just like how when people try to have an amicable breakup, but one of the people wants to hate the other one, they are talking in…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 11:52 AM
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If you adapt to be dark triad, than you just look like one, you are actually bettering the world by reproducing because you may take opportunities away from actual dark triads, those women are safer even You know how women love self absorbed men, for 3-4 months, than hate them, well obviously that gives you an edge if you arent an actual narc, because you arent really as self absorbed at your oringally portrayed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 03:30 AM
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Ok, give them a format that puts as much emphasis on their needs as the woman they are interacting does herself. So they arent more selfish than her, but they arent pandering to her in anyway either and their time/recources are just as precious
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 03:28 AM
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Why did men seek out TRP? Was it because women seek out natural dark triads? See how that works? Im not saying women are evil, im saying they think evil is sexy and men are just willing to give them what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 03:24 AM
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TRP does that too, but thats secondary, it also has actual content that is meant to be of use in their personal life. The hate also has a dual use, random entertainment and to ingrain ideas like AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 03:23 AM
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I neg people all the time, typically they neg me back and we have a good time. My empathetic connections tend to be with jaded, apathetic girls who love to hate, I know some people got thin skin nowadays with all these PC people, but thats their issue. You just gotta get a feel for their personality first, like I said, some dudes throw it out as a hail mary when the woman isnt participating much. How on earth do you know who does or doesnt want to have sex with me tho, lmao. Big assumption on yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 03:17 AM
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BP tend to say things like dont seek out relationships, dont seek out women, dont seek out casual sex, just look for friends and be a good person, be empathetic This advice is tailored towards the people who would have to deal with the guy, not the actual guy. Its basically just saying "be complacent and dont expect anything from anyone" BPers on PPD give much redder advice, but on the actual blue pill sub you do get shit that looks pretty similiar to fuck off and eventually one of your female f…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 03:11 AM
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I agree, its better to use manipulation to learn about the woman, understand her, give her what she wants, then fuck her Im not about tricking people
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 03:01 AM
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The point of negging is just to set you apart from the nice guys, to show that you have balls, and when you actually do it than you just proved it, the idea that it lowers womens self esteem so they want to fuck you is a myth made up by women. It is direct and by doing it it actually becomes true, so I wouldnt call that deceitful manipulation. Women arent attracted to people who arent brave enough to insult them, it isnt always well received but thats because sometimes guys just throw it out the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 02:57 AM
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RP tactics look like everyday behavior and they are only really used in isolation for people who are new, I never do any of that stuff, the ideas are in my head so im sure that I still benefit from it but its laced between a bunch of random behavior and conversations without any real thought People dont actually try to do that shit after a while, they are just aware of it so when those things happen naturally you benefit without trying or actually doing anything Its like black truths, we all do …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 02:50 AM
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Ok, give them the non psychopathic format to get what they want, as long as it makes sense and maintains their needs as the number one priority I dont see why they wouldnt be willing to use it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 02:46 AM
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This isnt a good argument because you are aiming it at TRP like it is the cause of that mindset. Remember, most red pillers were blue pill originally, so your statement should be aimed more at women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 02:45 AM
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I think its more likely to make you paranoid to the point that you would label a guy RP who has never even heard of it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 11:07 PM
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Do women care more about avoiding real sociopaths or red pillers, real narcissists or red pillers? Reading actual posts from actual people isnt going to be anywhere near as helpful as some psych article telling you how to avoid bad men, but it will give you a much easier way to unleash emotion pent up in your personal life onto random strangers who you deem worthy of such hate
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 08:37 PM
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Such an unempathetic view for a blue piller dont you think? You need to see the world from all angles, not just your own shitbag drug dealer and his infantilized girlfriend in what is CLEARLY an unhealthy relationship. God knows where you got this from, I dont remember saying any of that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 07:50 PM
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black people
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 07:47 PM
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If you were a drug dealer, how would you treat your girl to make sure she doesnt talk? No venting or anything, no information My drug dealers girlfriend is solid as a rock, she doesnt know his real name, where he works, ANYTHING. Obviously she knows that shit, but she knows how things need to be, she understands her role and her responsibilities Do you think you could accomplish this without treating someone like a child? Im not saying you couldnt, but I highly doubt it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 07:45 PM
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We cant all be winners TRP is encouraged by societies with abundant promiscious sex and when women make their decisions based solely on a first impression Its a weird place to be in, like you might know that as a woman you like self centered men who only talk about themselves and put extra work into their appearance, you are more comfortable because they lead the conversation because they are only talking and thinking of themselves, so theres no way they are pretending to be interested in the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 07:37 PM
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Because women on reddit are obsessed with trp, its an outlet for them to binge of hate to avoid thinking about random personal shit, it keeps them entertained, not in the healthiest way but whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 07:29 PM
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You dont mind getting doxxed because you arent controversial at all, people dont care But just because someone is controversial it doesnt mean they are wrong and it doesnt mean their lives should be destroyed because some random people disagree with them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 07:27 PM
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Your reply to his comment is a good representation of why you have a black pill flair Hes not taking the op seriously, and you shouldnt be taking him seriously either
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 07:20 PM
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Its a spectrum of traits that everyone has that (believe it or not) has a connection to the ability to connect with others, if you want egocentric people with poor social skills to experience empathy than you also require them to learn things that would also allow them to manipulate others if they choose Thats why TRP says its amoral, you become capable of greater empathy and greater manipulation at the same time, the way you use it is up to you TBP has this idea that people should better themse…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 06:14 PM
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Only if the wannabe sociopath actually tries to be a violent criminal, that doesnt apply to the red pill at all, they just want girls to find them attractive The whole psychopathy angle people put onto TRP isnt really deserved
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 04:39 PM
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I actually have a friend who is a hot headed psychopath(which is less common apparently), diagnosed with conduct disorder when he killed his sister and mom when he was 13 and spent a lot of time in the rubber room At the end of the day, these people fail when they are impulsive, a wannabe sociopath isnt automatically worse, its all about having control over your emotions. Its not like red pillers are going around killing animals for fun, its kind of a huge jump to make which makes this entire po…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 04:32 PM
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The root problem was the inability to meet their needs, so what you should be trying to do is provide a alternative way to meet their needs when it comes to intimacy and sexual success Your ideas come from a position of already having your needs met, so you need to view the world from a red pillers eyes, not your own
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 04:25 PM
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We become better people for people who better us, I am useful to people who are useful to me This is the way of the world my friend, if we were on a deserted island we would eat you first
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 04:21 PM
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If you expand your vocabulary and diction to sound more poetic to attract women, are you manipulating them? If you work out to look sexier so women are more attracted to you, are you manipulating them? If you flaunt your previous success with women to show how sought after you are, are you manipulating them? You can use manipulation in a way that is actually real, if you pay attention to TRP it isnt saying shit like "dress like a doctor and try to pick up chicks so they think youre rich". Manipu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 04:17 PM
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A lot of their "lmr" stuff does sound a bit rapey. LMR is the idea that you are like a really popular restaurant, if you pass up right now than thats fine, but the waiting list is long and you may not even get another chance to dine here At the end of the day its still the womans decision, she has all the power, she just doesnt have unlimited time to make her decision. To imply that there is anything wrong with that is to say that your time is more valuable than others, which is the way people p…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 04:08 PM
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You put value on people not being capable of manipulation and emotional abuse, rather than putting value on the ability to do it and choosing not to. Anyone who betters their social skills will become more manipulative, but that doesnt mean that they use it to seize anything, personally im just manipulative in the sense that I talk in a way that allows me to get to know people better than they know themselves. Its a good way to form an empathetic connection, but it also puts you into a position …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 03:59 PM
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Settling into the crowd hurts asians more than any other race, thats why white people say they all look alike, just because you havent seen someone else do it doesnt make it a bad idea, just food for thought
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 12:01 AM
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It doesnt have to be brown, make it whatever you want. The fact that you think that being 37 matters in some context like that seems bad imo, dont take yourself so seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/17 08:23 PM
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I mean when their hair is so short that it sticks up and looks like straw, like their actual hair is shit, not the style You gotta dye it like ash brown or something with tapered sides, copy some random kpop person
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/17 11:35 AM
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To start, I believe that a vast, vast majority of what we do in our lives as animals revolves around fear. Insecurity and seeking security can be thought of as the basis for most of our actions. So close, but wrong Needs come first, insecurity and fear are not the same thing, you can have a fear of dying alone but its not the same as fear that kicks you into fight or flight. The idea of dying alone might make you unhappy, depressed and lose motivation but even if it leads you to delusional ideas…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/17 01:09 AM
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I think if you are asian in the usa you just gotta make sure you dont have that "shitty asian people hair" Thats the first step
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/17 01:03 AM
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I would get a bunch of body mods and get a goth bitch with a heroin addiction
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/17 12:58 AM
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Also because in the past nationality was much more important in the moral context than now, which adds a competitive edge while still being good "good morality" has been neutered compared to what is used to be, the easier our lives become the less attractive morality is because its pushed further into complacency and virtue signalling rather than actually choosing to be moral after you have proven you are capable of immorality
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 03:59 PM
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Its only trash if everyone does it, so the problem is the awareness that it is beneficial, which is becoming more and more known WHen I was young cops were only hated by edgy teens and criminals, understandable. So many people hate them now, we only look for negativity, because people are so depressed nowadays they go out of their way to binge on hatred so they have less time to hate themselves. People need to chill the fuck out if you ask me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 03:45 PM
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Ive never met one of these people, unless you mean the girl who never leaves the house, so she is either fresh faced or puts on her makeup to take a trip to the corner store for newports and sour patch kids, I like them, they always know who sells the cheapest oxys
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 03:40 PM
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In the beggining people are anxious, nervous and come off as their worse self In order to gain confidence they need to meet their needs, in order to meet their needs they use a facade that is more appealing, as they gain success and confidence they become more genuine because they care less and less. They avoid relationships until they get to the point in which they are themselves, because starting a relationship under a false pretense is a terrible relationship idea, but its totally fine for ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/17 06:39 PM
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I dont disagree with you at all, but I think when people are in their early 20s they are at a important time in their development and bad experiences can halt future progress. Its best not to try to force things, which tends to be the norm, I think this can create a lot of bias in men that leads them to be less introspective in the future because they sink into that "men dont have feelings or never share your feelings with a woman" mentality In my earlier relationships I feel like the girls tend…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/17 06:27 PM
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Would you ever tell a man that he doesnt have to feel a certain way? Maybe you dont do this, but its pretty common for women to push men to explain feelings that they dont understand, the men never say that they dont understand their feelings because there is always some vague theory in their head(that will be totally wrong) Maybe im doing a bad job explaining, but I feel like everything I have said is pretty much the norm Woman: whats wrong? Man: Nothing, im fine This question gets asked over a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/17 04:53 PM
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I assumed you were a woman, so I said "have you ever told someone" "someone tells you something is ok" is the mans pov The man convinces himself that she is right because he doesnt know himself well enough and society tells us that women are better at this If you dont have a grasp on your feelings, its easy to just agree with the other person when they are trying to comfort you. They are probably coming from a self sacrificial POV, so they perceive the issue is based on how they view you, rather…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/17 03:59 PM
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What I mean is that if someone tells you something is ok, so you continue the behavior that caused the feeling, those words dont change how you feel, but you may convince yourself that they are right because it is in your best interest and seems easier That feeling came from the way you feel about yourself, the woman thinks it came from the way you thought she viewed you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/17 02:39 PM
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If thats what you think than I didnt do a very good job describing what I meant Women can make you feel worthless when they carry your weight, you dont deserve them, sometimes they talk you into this situation because from their POV they are being nice and dont mind. I had to learn not to let women let me use them, which took some time because when I was young my feelings were all like uncertainty, strange, unknown, empty, which would manifest into anger if I let them sit for too long. Once they…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/17 12:03 PM
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You have never told someone something like "its ok, you dont have to feel bad, i dont mind"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/17 12:00 PM
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I dont have any beliefs, only theories, thats why im here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/17 11:58 AM
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People like to be criticized when it makes them better at what they want to do, the other shit is a waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/17 01:40 AM
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They most likely just dont have men complaining to them all the time A better question would be do gay guys say those things about their dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/17 01:35 AM
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Often times men allow women to tlak them into positions in which they feel worthless, but the woman says "its ok" so the guy allows himself to just pile all that shit up because he isnt totally aware of his feelings and where they are coming from. She said "its ok", so she must be right, right? This tends to lead to some type of outburst in some childish need for masculinity type of way, the woman will say some shit about his fragile masculinity or ego. He knows she right, so he feels guilty, gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/17 01:16 AM
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Frat guys tend to bring the worst out of each other, when they go onto regular day to day life after they graduate they tend to settle down
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 10:05 PM
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Masculine communication is when you establish rules to avoid negative emotion in the future, feminine communication is when you dont and end up with feelings that you cant resolve from the past. This requires the man to get to a point where he understands his emotion, which does not come from a woman badgering him to tell her shit that he hasnt even learned yet, and he definitely wont be able to articulate it into a coherent sentence until he gets a good grasp on it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 10:02 PM
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Women push men to change in a way that isnt natural, rather than letting them develop on their own Its kind of a big deal in your early 20s when the womans brain is more developed than the mans I think forcing the guy to try to change prematurely can kind of ruin him, because it is bound to fail and will teach him not to try to change since it failed at that time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 09:56 PM
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or just because it's useful for them to believe this applies to every person on the planet its not really a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 06:32 PM
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Plenty of guys do this, its even common advice to not marry the dimepiece, look at any rich, famous male, im sure hes fucked plenty of coffee shop baristas and strippers Kendrick was a rich, famous rapper who was still dating his high school sweetheart, I cant think of a female equivalent. Im not throwing shade, I really dont care, this information is to make decisions, not to judge. Its important to understand how people think, even when it offends that person
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 09:04 AM
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Women want to be sexually liberated, because in their minds the men would stay the same(idk why they would assume this) When they realized that this gives high smv men the freedom to go through a "hookup phase" much easier(the internet helps too) it made things look a lot less appealing because it takes those guys off the market They would much rather wait and hope that certain men arent in the hookup phase for too long or try to manipulate one of them into a relationship. Rather than settle wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/17 06:12 PM
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MGTOW and MRA people post in TRP a lot, so it got the image that TRP cares about society and changing it. TRP is only really a personal thing, its based on competition. Not as bad as the incel infestation tho, so people dont talk about it as much
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/17 06:07 PM
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If you read a scientific study with data, would you apply morality to it? Or would you apply morality to the people who use the data? Its about perception, thats why I said TRP is nuanced Think about AWALT, everyone knows its not actually AWALT, but they present it like that so its more concrete, so you are capable of behaving as if it were true, but the choice is still up to you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/17 05:54 PM
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I think that TRP has a very unique aspect, but it shouldnt be seen as an idea like "lift", its more nuanced. It has a couple features that work well, it is motivated, not only through positive self improvement, but it also has the vitriol and malice to tear others down in order to justify certain views if needed. It presents itself as information, to be seen like a scientific study, not for the purpose of objectivism, but to make it just raw data. So it leaves the morality up to you, use it how …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/17 04:20 PM
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High mach is little finger
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/17 08:45 AM
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Your view of the world is so biased and emotional, you really dont understand anyone, including yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/17 08:40 AM
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they prefer basketball american now, lets keep it pc
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/17 08:31 AM
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You need to not think of yourself as some type of default Just because you think something doesnt mean everyone else does, and it doesnt make them wrong if they disagree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/17 08:27 AM
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Naturals are not aware, they are natural, they are not using any knowledge to their advantage
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 02:35 PM
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A LOT of men DO expect a woman to mommy them. I know society took a wrong turn somewhere. I think if we treated men and women the same and stopped trying to cram them into gender roles then we would see healthier balanced people. You can't change how fucked up things are until you stop this gender divide. Women and men and not that different and treating them like two separate species is what screws us up. 100% true, from a societal pov, TRP is not about society, it is about personal goals. I th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 02:30 PM
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If a woman enjoys disgust, fear, anger and repulsion its still rape even when she asks for it. Ok thnx, ill tell my girl to go get the rape kit so I can go to prison
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 02:28 PM
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The problem with TRP is that some red pillers dont understand it, another problem is that almost all blue pillers dont understand it. Dread game Dread game is meant to only be the idea that I am not ride or die and im aware of my worth, if you cant keep up than I will stray, this just means that you show progresss rather than complacency(which is the male default when it comes to the idea of relationships/marriage) Women are the most responsible teenager. This applies well because in todays soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 12:25 PM
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Or do you enjoy it when your partner has feelings of disgust, fear, anger, and repulsion towards you? This is part of the kink, maybe not for you. Yeah its rape, rape fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 10:09 AM
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I would say that those are mostly just edgelords, maybe a couple incels tossed in
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 10:07 AM
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This is a pretty good point, Trp is more about daily interactions than it is about anything specific sexually If op were to use this same line of thinking with women, it would be like when trp says like "women secretly want you to rape them" Which is one of the most extreme red pill ideas(that isnt really supported at all on PPD last time I checked), so its funny seeing a Bper saying the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/17 08:02 PM
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People who are mostly facade are uncomfortable or low self esteem with some sort of attachment issue Narc are full facade
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/17 05:07 PM
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Some do sure, but not everyone. I tend to notice the people like me often dont have a defined sense of self, they need more needs in life and to feel a lot of thrill and excitement in order to avoid feelings of existential dread because their day to day is so monotonous and unfullfilling. Its pretty much the exact opposite of finding meaning in life, but for the same purpose that someone would search for meaning in their life. A lot of people just have kids or try to chase their dreams instead B…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/17 04:57 PM
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I got self control in the sense that I stay away from things, im very extreme in the sense that I can follow a schedule perfectly without much effort, but without one I become very hedonisitic and tend to behave like the people im around So my self control is based on who I choose to surround myself with On one hand I like that day to day grind working out drinking juice smoothies with algae and setting a bunch of little goals. I also like bath salts cocaine and crazy chicks. Ive never been good…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/17 04:47 PM
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WHen I was a kid me and my friends convinced the weak link to sodomize his dog(we were just fucking with him...than he actually did it), I also knew a "peanut butter girl" Someones fantasy is someone elses reality wasn't even about weird sex acts just sex at all The more society advances sexuality wise the more deplorable the whore must be, that version you reference is from religious virginity pov
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/17 04:07 PM
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I dont think its about your offspring, for me personally its like this. I dont have self control, lets say I fuck some chick and pass her off to some other guy at a hotel party and he fucks her raw or somehthing Fuck we had one hell of a night, you are tons of fun, crazy and sexy as fuck. But my wife is gonna need way more self control than you got, because I dont have any Its like how friends circles always have the "weak link", they are your friend sure, you enjoy them, maybe they are sexy and…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/17 02:55 PM
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I dont think the op describes M/W complex very well, its the idea that you wanna do dirty shit, but you would judge your wife if you did it to her. You want to maintain your view of her but still have a desire to engage in things that you arent proud of. The purpose of the whore is caused from perversion that is socially unacceptable Like if I think its sexy when the girl lets the horse fuck her because of some type of degredation or humiliation/exploitation thing, but I dont think I could look …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/17 02:43 PM
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The funny thing about this type of thinking is that if you take it to the next level it also applies to the distorted view society displays of the value of empathy and morality. The best way to debunk their beliefs is simply opening the very few sources that they offer and to show them that they literally can't read and that they are literally incapable of understanding things correctly because they only hear what they want to hear. This applies to all groups, including blue pill We are all push…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/17 01:35 PM
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I feel like this is one of the main things that create the distinction, the idea that because something works for you, that it works for others. If you just default assume that your advice is good without context, than you most likely havent thought about it enough to apply it to people who arent like you But im not gonna say for sure, because I havent seen what your types of advice are, how specific they are, and the purpose/motivation behind them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/17 01:24 PM
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I think that a lot of "douchey" behavior is based around personal bias, perceived value, first impression and physical looks Like whenever I see those oakley glasses that look like cyclops from x men I get this douche feeling, but they are just fucking sunglasses. The idea of a douche is just the way we dismiss people without having a concrete reason
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/17 01:18 PM
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Because of men's fragile ego and the lack of ability to cope with dating marrying a woman who makes more money than them. Rich, famous men are willing to fuck/date regular girls because of 3 reasons. The abundance of sexy regular women compared to rich sexy women, the value that those women put on money since they dont have it, and because if they already have money and live in a society that tells them that they should spend money on women than what is the point of the woman having something th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/17 12:50 PM
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Than why dont rich, famous women fuck/date extremely good looking guys who are working class? If they had the same standards than rich, famous people would mirror each other
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/17 12:09 PM
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This is flat out wrong or im just confused by what you are trying to say If you are always trying to be as dominant as possible than you are being 100% fake, forced and will be annoying, petty and straight up insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/17 01:26 PM
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Well if you arent religious and you arent hedonistic than I assume you believe when we die our existence ceases to exist, ya? Or are you into some abstract spirituality?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/17 01:07 PM
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For now on im keeping the bicycle helmet and socks on
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/17 05:47 AM
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I know exactly what you mean, she perceives it like were writing the next chapter in our relationship. Im like huh, no bitch im writing your name on the wall of a bathroom stall, its almost as dirty as you are
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/17 05:30 AM
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Have you reached that point in your life where you no longer enjoy buying things for yourself in excess? And your pleasure shifts so you get more out of buying gifts for other people? A lot of people dont see that shit coming, life has a couple moments like that where you just realize "fuck the old people werent as dumb as I thought". And im only 27, so im sure theres more coming my way
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/17 05:16 AM
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Are you religious?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/17 05:13 AM
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When I do this I go into a state of panic about how I dont want to be tied to this chick for the rest of my life followed by mania and fantasies me of pushing her down a flight of stairs
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/17 05:09 AM
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he has a pregnency fetish and doesnt realize that not everyone has that kink just a guess
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/17 05:06 AM
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SHit thats the best sex ive ever had, the thing where you know its not safe and you rub the tip of your dick on her pussy so long that she actually brings up the idea of fucking raw, you dont even need to say a word. Than the moment you cum you sink into a panic attack that lasts the rest of the night in between a couple other sessions(because you might as well make the most of this night while youre at it) filled with this emotion of "HOW THE FUCK DID I LET YOU ALLOW ME TO FUCK YOU RAW? FUCK YO…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/17 04:58 AM
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What exactly do you mean by "mental disease" because honestly this doesnt really sound too accurate to me I mean the drug abuse I agree with, but I feel like most of those people have this weird balance of self destruction while also making their physical a major priority. Imo they tend to be more attractive than average I may or may not be referring to myself :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/17 04:52 AM
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The reason he thinks his point of view is "realistic" is because many men perceive marriage as a point where they get to relax and just settle into mindless self indulgence. Complacency, no more competition with men, live vicariously through offspring, etc etc And if that is your plan, than his way of thinking isnt really wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/17 04:44 AM
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I think they meant "attract" in the sense of men towards trp, not women to rp men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 10:02 PM
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DO these donkies have delicious coke boogers leaking from their noses? That sweet booger sugar?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 02:18 PM
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I didnt mean to say I was a narc, just that I am a cat that will fit into anything
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 02:16 PM
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People who are not rewarded for it do not do it People who are rewarded for it do it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 01:35 PM
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I do this too, but its more of a ~you are making me uncomfortable and I cant help but settle into whatever you are saying because id rather not have to be creative with this facade~
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 01:31 PM
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Still sounds schizophrenic tho
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 01:28 PM
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I actually just realized this, but now that I think of it there are so many gay males/black women who only write "intersectional" but not "intersectional feminist" on their profiles Im sure some of them are just shitting on white feminism but i bet some of them are seperating intersectionality from feminism in general
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 01:21 PM
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If you do a bunch of coke you get used to those girls
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 01:19 PM
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But real life isn't an RPG and does not require nearly the amount of ridiculous strategizing and made-up vocabulary words that TRP seems to believe it does. You are saying you dont need to do that, so you want other to behave like you do, because you know that some people do benefit from that style of thinking, and you cant stand the idea of someone outclassing you in a way that is not natural or desirable to you. Instead of adapting to things that arent 100% natural to you(like terpers all forc…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 02:05 AM
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True, as long as its just mocking, a lot of them tend to go off the rails and start demanding that everyone be more like them If it is truly mocking, than they accept TRP for what it is, that is not always the case
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 02:02 AM
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Being a pushover comes from the lack of creating situations that contain violence, they lack the experience, they dont know the rush that comes from adrenaline + violence +pain, they dont understand how easy and fearless it is They are watching movies in which the hero is challenged by a villian, most guys never get that villian or if they do its a bully who outclasses them so much that they donjt develop the ability to be violent and brave when its acceptable and morally ok You are thinking too…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 01:50 AM
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you cant quit your job when youve already been fired
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/17 10:25 PM
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The point is that women actually like negging, in the context of a situation where you have a back and forth and already know each other, not right out of the blue. You are both engaged and playful, both trying to take the upperhand, if you can be witty with the correct body language than it doesnt matter if you were technically insulting her, in fact it makes it way better. If you arent willing to insult a woman than a huge demographic of women flat out wont be attracted to you, ever The situat…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/17 03:30 PM
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You gotta understand that in some cases it will contradict, especially back in the early days of ppd Ex: BP: Just be yourself RP: Im a pathological liar BP: Dont lie wtf! Be the best version of yourself! RP: But thats who I am?? Okay so I should strive to be even better at lying right?? You cant say "be yourself" and make a bunch of rules about what I am or am not allowed to be
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/17 02:09 PM
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To me BP means dumfounded authenticity, the idea that "good" people behave without alterior motives, or the idea that anyone who behaves with them is inherently immoral and should not do anything at anyone elses expense It also involves the idea of experiencing atleast average levels of empathy at all times, even when it does not make sense in the context
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/17 02:03 PM
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Honesty is attractive when its combined with confidence about things that people assume you shouldnt be comfortable admitting I dont think honesty from a insecure or neutral position comes off as a positive, its the delivery, not the honesty Honesty is a sign of being DGAF
/r/seduction06/10/17 09:22 PM
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We just need to rape 1 in 5 men with strapons, equality To deal with rape pregnancy equality we will give some of them tape worms for 9 months, than earth worms for the next 18 years
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 06:27 AM
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I could drive down the highway to a spot where everything is standstill, the cars cant move. Than I just start killing everyone with my boys, we kill all these motherfuckers Our message? Your car wont save you, dont give me those fucking looks like you are safe just because you are in your car, dont fucking honk at me, dont yell shit at me from the safety of your car when we both know you would never say shit to my face you pussy. You think we are equals just because your in the safety of your c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 06:20 AM
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Physical dominance is a concept, taking someones life is the gold standard Just because we have developed as a species to use tools, doesnt mean it takes away the mentality Dont you think holding a gun to someones head would instill a feeling of dominance in a man? I think the main reasons for mass shootings are loss of status and the fact that men are more likely to look for blame outside of themselves for that loss of status. I agree that some incel situations can warp the mind and lead to hei…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 05:40 AM
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'i feel so bad i want to kill myself' to 'i want to kill myself and everyone else too'. Like because you're in pain, everyone else must feel pain Although he most likely felt that way deep down, im sure he never had those actual thoughts in his head or was aware of them, or if he did they were probably disconnected from any idea or reasoning Its easier to understand when you recognize that none of us really understand ourselves, if you think you do, than you got a lot of shit to uncover about yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 05:33 AM
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This guy isnt mentally ill, there are plenty of ideologies that make perfect logical sense that can compel people to commit devastating acts He has a certain view of the world that has most likely been defined by isolation, meaning no one is challenging his views because he keeps them to himself Actual mentally ill people always manage to make things about themselves, the aliens anal probed me, the government is coming for me, bigfoot is my dad Im sure in this guys mind he thinks hes helping the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 05:18 AM
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The male patterns of thought are totally based around the position that they are in and the position of the other men and how those things effect internal rewards, internal conflicts,external rewards and external conflicts I know its easy to think that women wouldnt commit those acts, but you gotta think about it from a longer timespan, a few women at first would do it, they would benefit from it, define a status quo, set standards, create ideologies etc. Their submissive behavior would no longe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 05:11 AM
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Its dumb when people call this guy a psychopath, theres a reason he had a clean record. Because it takes a lifetime of twisting ideologies and self sabotage to get to the final destination that is a view in which you commit an act that justifies your self hatred without breaking the delusion that you are ultimately committing the act that is making the world a better place Obviously that is a very delicate balance to confidently believe, it could take a lifetime of isolated thoughts and beliefs,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 03:46 AM
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but still had all their thoughts and ideas from being a woman, they would still act like men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 03:39 AM
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Its dumb when people call this guy a psychopath, theres a reason he had a clean record. Because it takes a lifetime of twisting ideologies and self sabotage to get to the final destination that is a view in which you commit an act that justifies your self hatred without breaking the delusion that you are ultimately committing the act that is making the world a better place Obviously that is a very delicate balance to confidently believe, it could take a lifetime of isolated thoughts and beliefs,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 03:26 AM
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The thing is that there are more guns than people, you cant really get rid of them, so if you try to take them away than you will most likely take more of them from innocent people but the criminals would still have theirs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 03:19 AM
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Women dont have the incentive to commit violent crimes because they arent biologically tailored to it, it wouldnt make sense for them to do so If women suddenly had physical dominance and hormones to match a lot of them would suddenly start acting physically violent
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 03:16 AM
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its not a fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 02:13 PM
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Kill her pets, then show her how progressive you are by cooking them into a nice stew for her Being delicious is the greatest honor her pet could have
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 08:19 AM
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I think the reason that it is perceived as contempt is the way women treat those men as strangers. Avoiding eye contact, behaving as if that person isnt actually there, I understand that unwanted advances are unpleasant, but some men most definitely experience dehumanization from women when they go out into the world even when those men had zero intent of any interaction in the first place. It really feels like those people actually wish you didnt exist, if they could live in a place without peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/17 03:11 AM
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They understand the caricature of TRP, but it was never accurate to begin with, so it doesnt really matter
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/17 02:45 AM
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There is a huge difference between not having feelings and just recognizing that they are your feelings and they are solely your responsibility to deal with and have no obligation to share if you dont want
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/17 08:49 AM
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I think its more of a fear that they will fall into codependance that involves the woman having more power, I know its true for me, I have zero desire to give up my freedom
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/17 08:45 AM
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Obviously I would be against other people doing it if it hurts my own personal agenda, same with blue pillers Im not trying to be in good morals or anything, were all the same
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 01:48 AM
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Truth is a tool, the only reason we want to know it is because we think it gives us an edge, there is no real objective truth. Its not really lying, just overly generalizing or stereotyping for personal gain Everyone is aware of it. Everyone can benefit from a healthy dose of delusion, especially when its inner delusion that people cannot see from the outside world Blue pillers do it too, they just do it to alleviate white guilt or to feel like they are a good person
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 11:51 AM
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You dont need to think this far ahead, if I dont like it than I dont like it. Nothing more needs to be said
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 11:41 AM
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Its the surge of mra mgtow and incels
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 11:40 AM
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I'm just sick of TRPs using the divorce stat to claim all women are hypergamous sluts. This is the most important sentence you posted, once this is read the rest of the post can be dismissed TRP isnt here for objective truth, they are here to facilitate the mindset that they think will lead to the desires they value. If you wanna tlak objective truth you should talk specifically to the mgtow and MRA
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 11:33 AM
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Would you say that being insulting and judging people but keeping it to yourself is the balance you are referring to? Like people watching? I have tons of relationships with people that involve us making fun of others In fact that is exactly what all blue pillers do when they post on this sub But back to the point I was trying to make, how would listening to someone with a positive headspace who is in a completely different life situation with different values and desires make for good advice? I…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 01:08 AM
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How would you combat their self deprecating pity party? You think positivity would be more motivational than revenge fantasy? I used to go on progresspics a lot, a very common thing I saw was that many of the most dramatic changes said something like "my gf broke up with me so I got jacked" or "my bf cheated on me, look at me now #winning". This is why many red pillers criticize blue pill advice, it just has no motivation behind it and tends to involve hoping something falls into your mediocre l…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 12:43 AM
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Yeah, some people think that delusional hatred is a core part of trp Its more that if you are that type of guy you might as well take advantage of it, but if you are capable to grow and be more analytical rather than cynical than thats the move At the end of the day not everyone is going to succeed in the same way, we have different interal reward systems. Its like how BPers often benefit from alleviating guilt so that dictates a lot of their behavior, but if you have a different internal reward…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/17 10:22 PM
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Im curious why you think that makes sense? That is like saying buddhist values translate into success in capitalism
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/17 10:13 PM
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You are referring to incels and random dudes on facebook, im pretty sure most of the terpers on this sub know very well that you dont have to be a dickhead or a huge jerk, just playful, bold and confident Teach yourself to love and cherish yourself and find true value in your own life and existence. Therapy can help with this, work on self validation, create a daily affirmation for yourself and practice it, and listen to your inner voice, identify your self loathing thoughts, and fight against t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/17 10:03 PM
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False confidence on young immature women will turn into real confidence very quickly if you have success I also wouldnt consider that "tricking", its just part of life and we all do it in some area
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/17 09:46 PM
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I agree with you But most people who say the same thing lump it in with things like fragile ego, competitiveness, possesiveness and narcissism, those women dont realize that some of the traits they like are a direct result of the traits they dislike, it is all intertwined. This isnt build a bear workshop, every personality change effects all the persons other traits I think if women could see the men they are imagining they would realize that they dont actually like those guys. I think they woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 08:31 PM
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Those are definitely bullshit, I would like to know how they define "fan" because im sure there is a reason they didnt use "viewer" or "player"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 09:58 AM
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This is the truth, its like how for a while marvel comic books was gender bending tons of characters into women and hiring more female writers/artists Sales went down, women were not buying comic books any more than they previously had Its all about the money
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 09:53 AM
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The fact that hes not a manager is what makes it ok, he has no power, they are just opinions Its just thought policing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 09:48 AM
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Nerdiness is pretty mainstream nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 09:43 AM
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Its the difference of valuing experience vs recources
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 02:57 AM
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Addiction problems dont make you low value unless you dont make enough money to supply your addiction These people tend to have much better stories and are obviously more adventerous and exciting than the average person, my favorite women are functioning addicts with no stds who glorify old world white noir stuff rather than modern day urban culture Have I ever told you the time I convinced my friend to sodomize his dog?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/17 11:26 PM
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In one situation you are choosing to drive a vehicle, in the other you are choosing to have sex with someone When people tlak about drunk sex they arent saying you are passed out, just drunk
/r/MensRights21/09/17 09:56 PM
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I dont see Johnny depp as feminine at all. I mean I understand that he looks vain and kind of high maintenance in a way. But I would just describe him as odd
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 01:32 PM
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Maybe not everyone thinks this way, but I feel like hate speech is directed towards the group they are actually tlaking about TRP is more like ranting about shit they dont like with other men, women coming in and reading those things wasnt really intended
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 11:27 PM
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cocaine + steroids + lots of time interacting with women + the women reaffirm your theories + more general life experience This personally worked very well for me I dont know where you got this "smooth over night" idea, actually you could be smooth over night if you happened to do a couple lines, but you wouldnt really be smooth, just aggresively straight forward and all the women with traumatic pasts will be drawn to you if you also happen to be good looking You are thinking too much, its a com…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 11:18 PM
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Would you say that the over reaction hurts them or its just annoying from your point of view as a denizen of reddit? Because obviously the latter doesnt matter This argument only matters if the over reaction actually hurts them in one of the things that they themselves value, which means it hurts them in one of the 4 categories men care about, pussy, glory, money or respect. It has to hurt them overall, so if you lose the respect of 1 woman but gain the respect of 10 men thats a net gain
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 01:10 AM
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What would it look like if a man respected women? I always respect women as long as it isnt detrimental to myself, the same applies to everything else in life If you focus too much on a subreddit than you arent getting a good representation of a terper because that is a place they use for mental changes. Im sure in person they respect people The point of "truth" is to have an advantage in life, its the only reason people seek it out, theres no objective truth. Sometimes the truth that benefits y…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 11:50 PM
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By bad do you mean prioritizes oneself? Or bad in the sense that if they were high value than they take advantage of being high value? Seems pretty normal if you ask me, I think TRP gets extra hate for the realism and display of their desires
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 11:43 PM
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They weren't speaking of morality at the time, early ppd had dumb arguments on both sides but the blue pillers were either really naive or misleading
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 08:13 PM
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sluts must get a lot of seizures
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/17 08:59 PM
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We werent dating, just fuckbuddies I opnely told her many times it was just sex, she just hears what she wants to hear. I even told her that I dont have much empathy and have never had any long lasting romantic attachment in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/17 02:36 AM
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We werent dating, just a lonely girl I met on the internet Though I did agree I wouldnt fuck anyone else, I guess that could be considered a red flag but I feel like thats normal for sexual based relationships also Another thing is she likes to bring up the fact that she has a brother who died at a young age in an accident. She will be like crying about how its the anniversery of his death or whatever, but he cant have 2 death anniverseries in the same year. But obviously it took some time for h…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/17 02:24 AM
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Shes pretty crazy, everytime I fucked her she went through every emotion every night, from crying to sucking my dick to laughing with joy over and over again. I have a bad habit of being too much of a blank slate, I allow women to give me a personality and they get attached to that, I reply to them but dont really give them anything personal about me, not much anyway. So when I try to cut her off(she was a fuckbuddy for 6 or 7 months) she started being really dramatic, saying she might be pregna…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/17 02:13 AM
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Its more that they think the abusive psycho wont aim his psychotic, rage fueled impulses towards them, that he only aims that towards the person who means to harm his woman, his posession Womans view of male mental illness has a very dramatic dichotomy, they pedestal the antisocial and see the asocial as worth less than they are
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/17 01:21 AM
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They are defining rape like this "I couldnt stop him from fucking me even if I wanted too" so it doesnt matter what they want because they are perceiving him as uncontrollable A lot of hollywood movies portray this style of rape
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/17 12:11 AM
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Well if the comparison is them vs their fantasy than yeah I would say they are pretty prudish If you have a rape fantasy than doing rape roleplay is prudish in comparison to the real thing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/17 12:08 AM
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Its pretty creepy when she calls the cops on you when you try to break it off though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/17 12:03 AM
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You are one of the worst posters on this sub, I cant imagine how emotional this place must make you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 06:52 AM
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BP is PC, RP is not
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 06:45 AM
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Which would still be BP I remmeber the early days of PPD when blue pillers would argue that absolutely every personality type was better than RP, including doormats, you bloops are just way more red than you used to be
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 06:02 AM
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Sure they can, in certain situations. Its not very likely if they are directly involved, because it would be at their expense. Cognitive empathy requires you to take yourself out of priority, which doesnt make sense in many situations. Its not all about understanding, I can understand people just fine and still feel little empathy for them simply because my propensity for hate is far greater and easily achieved than my propensity for attachment. If theres evan a hint of manipulative behavior on …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 08:13 PM
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I meant the men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 04:56 PM
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You have to inspire him
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 11:08 AM
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You might not be throwing out biology, but many people who share this belief do The truth is this, biology cant be pc, it is inherently racist and sexist. We could use biology to create a social structure that uses genders and races to their full potential(simply by providing information, not forcing people to do things) but the PC police would rather silence biology and pretend were all the same Obviously biology can lead to biological determinism and eugenics, which is why the pc police are 10…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 11:00 AM
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Most people who are lacking in empathy are people who isolated themselves too much, resulting in them being much less likely to form attachments to people. This is the way their personality is, they were destined to behave like this since a young age It has nothing to do with a fear of what they dont understand, its more about the possibility of being abandoned. People who get ignored as a infant develop in one of 2 ways, either they become super clingy, dramatic, and overly defensive and desper…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 10:52 AM
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I would say most blues prob have a better starting point which is why they are more successful But I thihnk if the question was more like "if you were given a black pill incel friend to be your padawan and its your job to make him successful with women, who would do it better? Red or blue?" Than I think red would win, they are much better at tapping into the most motivational emotions and wont fill your mind with feminist propaganda
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 02:44 AM
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Ebonics and emojis should only be used ironically, everyone else can go kill themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 10:15 PM
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They arent as used to texting, they are more accepting of me when I ignore them, resulting in less future texts I have met girls who would randomly send me messages of just emojis, like they are bored and have nothing to say, I cant deal with these types of people anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 10:01 PM
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My problem with the trans community is that they think it should be a crime to not call them waht they identify as. I will be nice and call you what you want, but if you act like a cunt im gonna treat you like one. Also I expect to get some brownie points for calling you what you identify as, because if you dont physically look that way than it actually takes mental work for me to remember that shit I dont like the liberals who are like "uh its calle dbeing a decent human being" but than they ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 08:14 PM
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Whats a yellow flag? I like non social women, they isolate themselves, less work for me and they dont text as much
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 08:10 PM
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They arent always doing it on purpose. Its the same as your parents, they would probably pick some ugly, boring person for you to date, they prefer safety over excitement Obviously a friend isnt gonna be as bad as your parents when picking your SO, but they will lowball you when it comes to the hedonistic choice I have met some girls my mom wanted me to meet and they were dreadfully boring, bring me the stripper who loves oxys and tried to kill herself a couple times
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 08:06 PM
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If a man displayed none of the traits on that list than women wouldnt like him, so it doesnt really matter, women seek out abusive relationships because they are fun I have openly used the word toxic to describe myself to women before, people dont care Give women what they want imo, because if you dont than some other guy will
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 08:01 PM
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It works great for me, but I openly tell people that I lie to their faces, usually they are like "oh me too", it amkes things more exciting I lie plenty, but I always keep my promises. I just dont happen to make those very often I have never had a negative response when saying this to a woman, in fact there is normally overwhelming agreement on their part And if you lie to yourself guess what? Others can lie to you, so easily. This is flat out wrong, and just because you lie doesnt mean you lie …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 07:30 PM
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Im currently being stalked by a girl who works at a pizza place, when I went to get my carryout the lady was like "OH youre germanego, weve heard all about you!" and was told their manager goes to the same gym as me, I dont even know what she looks like How on earth she obtained my full name just from seeing me at the gym is beyond me, but it makes for a good story I also dont understand how she could really talk about me to her coworkers when she doesnt actually know me, what is there to say? E…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 01:49 AM
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They do it all the time, but the victim card doesnt work as well for men in this case We are perceived to be less emotional by society, that makes our actions seen as more manipulative. Women can just start crying and plenty of people just give them a pass and feel sympathy I guess its no surprise though, the victim card doesnt work as well for men in any situation at all
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 06:19 PM
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They want to avoid encouraging people to change because they know theres a chance that the person will become radicalized an d may become more successful than them Its like if I asked a blooper "do you want nazis to reform and become good people?" they would prob say yes But if they saw a former nazi thrive than they would be fuming with rage and call that persons employer or some shit "did you know so and so USED TO BE A NAZI? They should be fired", people are petty like that and its one of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 03:57 AM
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This is stupid, heres why If im "being myself" than im lying and manipulating people because thats just what I do, thats who I am How could you argue against that? I openly tell people im a liar just to make things more exciting, half my social media stuff is complete lies, I got a good education in disinformation If I told the truth than I wouldnt be true to myself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 03:53 AM
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His point is that if every approach expects sex, making every approach crappy, than why is it only pointed out in specific situations I mean the answer its obvious, we shame things we dont like and accept what we do like. The more important question is are the people who are doing the shaming actually delusional? Or are they just saying what they think will lead to the behavior they approve of? People always say shit like niceguys fail because they have a transactional mindset, they see women as…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 11:34 PM
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The blue pill definition that PPD posters use is not the same as the actual ~blue pill only~ subredditers, that lot are like radbloops or some shit. On the actual blue pill sub theres a lot more of those "agender gray gender genderfluid theres zero difference between men and women biologists deserve to be fired you will refer to me as zeta" type people Theres a lot of niceguys amongst the feminist population Theres also plenty of former niceguys who read trp, but idk how someone could maintain a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 08:40 PM
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The important thing to note about Jim is that he doesnt take himself seriously and is funny at the same time. I also think that pam sees Jim as out of her league in a way, her ex was fat and her character screamed insecurity
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 08:34 PM
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Who even wants kim anyway, shego is better in every way
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 08:31 PM
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His definition is pretty normal if you are in high school or college, we need to know his age
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 12:21 AM
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For me high emotion requires a lack of impulse control, which requires a situation in which you can express your impulsive emotion in very specific ways. Its not just about having the emotion, but a way to release it in a way that benefits both individuals Some women like to be hit, like to be raped, they want to be a victim, they want a gun in their mouth, whatever the specifics are it doesnt matter. People just need to match up Obviously the most emotional relationships can end very badly, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 01:21 AM
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I mean "rape" as a game, its like "i give you consent for an unknown time in the future, regardless of what I say at the time", no safe word, no outs, no rules. But its still conditioning me to be ok with regular rape, I just dont want to go to prison, I would be totally capable of it without feeling guilt. In fact real rape is just looking sexier and sexier everyday It involves some acting on her part, she flails her arms around like an idiot, fighting is the foreplay. It also involves some ris…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 12:08 AM
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Im not even tlaking about niceguys or feminist men, im talking about everyone Its like how I like rape because women trained me to, I like being called daddy because women hammered it into my head with their pussies. The first time a guy hears that shit he instantly thinks of his own dad, you know how hard it is to cum with your dad in your head? You gotta start all over again and hope this bitch keeps her mouth shut. Fetishes can be a lot like STDs in that way How would it push society towards …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 09:15 PM
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The delusional aspect + depression is most likely the genetic part
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 12:46 AM
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Psychology has advanced well beyond the limitations behavioral psychology That doesnt mean that behavioral psychology doesnt work anymore Women aren't here to "train" you to do anything If they want to influence behavior than they would, if they dont want the world to change thats ok too, I dont care either way, the current world benefits me We do not exist for your benefit The things that happen to exist in a way that are also beneficial to me(as a white male) are the keystones of society. They…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 12:41 AM
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Eh, i mean lets say some guy is toxic Well he prob gets some decent smokeshows, maybe a dimepiece if hes attractive enough. Yeah he might end up in prison, he might be unhappy What do women get from toxic masculinity? Treated like a mom? Raped? Beaten? Murdered? Seems worse for the women For some reason there is this feminist idea that men dislike toxic masculinity, in reality it is "empowering" for many guys
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 11:10 PM
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If they arent creative or aggressive those guys lose their appeal. Nice, normal and feminine? I havent met one of those guys who does well Dont think of feminine as the guys who stick out, the guys who "peacock". If you are comparing men with style to men without style than its not a fair comparison even if they are feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 11:04 PM
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You get internal rewards for those values though, its not altriusm or anything, some of us dont get external OR internal rewards for those types of things. In fact for me its the complete opposite "I like that yall consider me the bad guy" -Vinnie Paz I grew up on wayy too much noir, gore and black sabbath Its no wonder ramsay bolton is my favorite character
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 10:59 PM
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You are thinking in a small minded way, its important for society to "lead" its citizens to the behavior that benefits society, you want the best options to be the first instinct and thought that comes into mind Its the reason we have laws, we want your first thought to be "I dont want to go to prison, so I wont do that" We are all just animals, feminism is supposed to train men to behave in a way that they deem productive to society. How do you trian dogs? Well you give them a treat when they a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 10:48 PM
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Im not pro abortion, I dont care at all what others do. Im just anti stupidity. Mentall illness and substance abuse runs rampant in both sides of my family, im violent, impulsive and selfish. It should be illegal to carry my child. I just so happen to be 6'2'' with facial features shaped by nordic genetics and years of trenbolone use while still having a full head of hair
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 02:55 AM
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opening up is attractive as long as you're in control of your emotions. I have experienced the opposite, a lack of control + threat of violence or leaving/distance has always had the best results for me. Its hard to get me angry because I dont care about much, but when I do it can be overwhelming The hate sex afterwards is pretty good too, and it typically ends with distance/isolation, win win if you ask me Typically when I open up it involves the fact that I hate being touched(you are only allo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 11:15 PM
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They should have their own identifier so theres no confusion Theres a difference between syaing "I support gay marriage" and "Im gonna be in a gay marriage"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 03:20 AM
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Yes, anything that creates distance or privacy is going to qualify as dread game For example, I have "secret" social media accounts that I dont share with people that live near me, I always tell people I dont use social media at all. Sometimes people see my phone and they are like "woah why do you have tinder, fb, tumblr, okc, IG etc etc". this always freaks girls out, because thats a private part of my life that they dont have access too. They go full on stalker mode but every username I have i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 02:21 PM
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Its beneficial for everyone, are you against all the other programs like welfare or food stamps?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 02:02 AM
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Or the government could pay a % of the child support and in turn the man loses all rights to the child, forcing a man to pay for a child he doesnt want makes no sense. This way the man has an out, and the child still gets the finanacial support it needs. Everyone wins since a man who doesnt want to be a father will undoubtedly be a bad father Personally I would just slip a couple of those abortion pills into the girls drink or move away, how is that good for the woman or the baby? A bit unrelate…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 01:53 AM
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Women are interesting to me if they have strong emotions(anger is good, emo/sad is bad but better than nothing), anti PC, complex, distinct opinions, huge bonus if they have a good vocab I notice im attracted to women who are a bit egotistical, like they have catch phrases for themselves and shit that they always repeat, as if they are unique in that way. Or they made odd comparisons to themselves I used to have a notebook filled to the brim with one liners, whether it be philosophical or based …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 04:47 AM
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Yes, but to get to that point usually involves getting her to like you enough to sleep with you, right? Most people fuck before they know anything about each other. They know maybe your major, your job, your favorite tv show, thats it. Right, because the best way to be successful is to begin by revealing your entire strategy/plan to the person who might take advantage of you. If you arent gonna do that than you cant go on to expect the other person to read your mind. And I would disagree, most p…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 07:22 AM
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I dont mean that it makes up for any problems that exist, just that its beneficial All I know is that in my own personal life humans are disposable based on my imagination of how easily it is to replace them. Like you say, you are holding onto your new boyfriend because you perceive him to be a unicorn, thats just your imagination
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 06:35 AM
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Anal, LSD, certain foods, GAME OF THRONES, first time moving in with a SO, etc WHen you have all your firsts with someone, you cant actually imagine your life without them, but if you had different firsts with different dudes than it means less. Like you said, there are tons of firsts, some of them ar emuch better than others. You want the most important firsts and for her to have as few reference points possible Firsts have nothing to do with marriage I actually know a girl who has been in a LT…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 06:08 AM
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Idk dude, hugh hefner has been doing it his entire life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 06:04 AM
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Dating a girl to fuck her isnt really manipulation or bullshitting lmao, it basically just means you guys hang out and fuck a lot, thats it Though I prefer to just fuck her and not commit in anyway, but you act like when people hook up or start dating that they have some contract or in depth conversation about relationships. That has never happened to me. The most complex detail ive ever agreed to is "this is your pussy right? THIS IS MY DICK RIGHT? ONLY MINE?" The reality is that we all have an…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 06:00 AM
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The more experiences/firsts you share the more important you are together, the less disposable you are to each other This is assuming that a persons is more experienced in life base don age, because that is the best indicator
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 05:51 AM
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I think it depends heavily on the childs age, if they are old enough than you are more like an aunt. The distance between you and the children in the eyes of the father(priority wise) will be much greater than if they were your bio children Personally im against raising someone eles kids unless its like a widow situation AND the child is still very young
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 05:48 AM
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What if its not from a widow but from a woman who you will have to interact with Because thats much more realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 05:46 AM
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Women can age like wine too, it just relies on a doctors office and a good chunk of cash
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 09:51 PM
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TRP praises stoicism because you cant learn psychopathy(atleast not in our society when you are already an adult male), so its the best alternative Personally im not very empathetic just from spending periods of my life in severe social isolation, but obviously its not worth doing that solely for a lack of empathy. Its better to just aim for stoicism/dgaf
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 09:48 PM
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The people who stay the most "in love" are actually the bipolar, ups and downs, dread game types of relationships Healthy relationships arent based around love, they are based around trust, reliability, etc. They dont have as high emotions as a toxic relationship will have but they also dont ahve the low points and codependancy(not as much anyway) True love(the romanticized version) easily transitions into violence, obsession, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 02:04 PM
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How would society genuinely push individual happiness if you can still observe people who have more than you I cant see that happening, thougth I am very competitive and am trying to be the best in any given room at any given time, so maybe other people would agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 09:32 PM
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I think the easiest way to define it is just to say "did she fuck me back? did she ride me? did she grab my dick and aim it?" Anything like that invalidates a rape claim IMO, you cant take sexual initiative AND say you got raped Obviously fucking a lifeless corpse is rape, I dont think any terpers are making that point though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 09:20 PM
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Honestly I think most of the times when this happens(at least to me) we got drunk together in one of our apartments ALONE Like what the fuck else did you think we were planning on doing after we got drunk and the sex scene came on during game of thrones? All these drunk rape fantasy stories are always so biased, its always like some shit like "I got drunk, he carried me from the bar to his place and fucked my lifeless corpse" Thats like .1% of drunk sex
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 09:18 PM
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i took 2 blotters which is 400 ug i think, obviously its impossible to know the real dose with drugs but thats what it shoulda been I had some visuals, but not too much Ive had much better experiences with mushrooms
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 04:46 AM
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I understand why they think that, I just dont beleive that they are actually behaving differently from anyone else Its just words imo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 03:25 AM
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The prize is getting whatever it is that you desire, the specifics of your desires are not important It could be the seven kingdoms and the iron throne, it could be the queen, it could be gold, doesnt matter. If you win, you win
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 03:12 AM
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It gets more complicated when she shows resistance to something specific, like when you dont have a condom on, shes not on bc, and you know you gotta rubber up. She tells you that you will need to rubber up when you are both still clothed, but you are making out, grinding, get undressed etc, rubbing your dick on the surface of her pussy, maybe you poke the head slightly into her pussy. She shows ZERO reisistance, but earlier she did before you started, when she was still level headed. You shove …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 03:05 AM
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Ill tell tyrone how you feel, surely he will be excited
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 02:58 AM
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I must have gotten shit lsd in my life because I cant imagine being raped on it, in fact I get annoyed because I can feel all the fucking blood in my brain swirling around and its annoying as fuck. It would be much more likely that I would just stab a motherfucker it makes me so on edge
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 02:53 AM
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To be fair, there are some real crazies over at TBP, I mean most blue pillers wouldnt even like you because posting in purple pill is considered "validating red pill beliefs"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 02:49 AM
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it's not picking the best you can get, it's about finding the right match for you Its about picking the best you can get out of the select people who are compatible with you, I mean why would someone pick the worst person they are compatible with? I would also like to point out that a lot of people value others based on traits that we use as competition, like how funny they are, how smart they are, how attractive they are, how successful they are, etc If it wasnt a competition with prizes none o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 02:46 AM
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Compatibility is partly based on value, so clearly if there is value involved than there must be winners and losers, right? We all want to get the better end of the deal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 02:43 AM
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I dont think women deny that they contribute to toxic masculinity, but they also dont seem like they are willing to change any of their own behavior, they just expect it to go away on its own
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 08:55 PM
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It can be if you are like me, does your sex life bleed into your regular life? Like are you and your guy hostile towards each other because of leftover emotion from the sex? For me inflicting pain and having pain inflicted is a substitute for the rest of my lacking emotions. The point is that if your sex life bleeds into your regular emotions for no reason than that shit is toxic as fuck, personally toxic up and down relationships are the only ones that are very captivating for me Feminisms vers…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 08:51 PM
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His point is that it goes like this Toxic masculinity/masculinity(depends on the woman which is higher) > Unmasculine For feminism to work it needs to be like this for the vast majority of the population Masculine > unmasculine > toxic masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 08:47 PM
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They are doing both of those things at the same time By painting women in the way they wish to see them, it frees them to partake in behavior that they may not have previously used. They are taking responsibility, just in a way that women do not like and do not benefit from
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 05:11 PM
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I think it depends how you define friend vs acquaintance My only real friend is a woman, in the sense that she knows everything about me But after her my life is dominated by like 90% men, thats in terms of spending time together. In fact I spend way more time with my male friends than with her, I just message her more than anyone else and far more intimately Its all about the paramaters people use to define these things. Another important thing is age, at some point in life most people are only…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 03:08 AM
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The hypocrisy exists in those memes that basically say like "NEVER TALK TO A GIRL AT HER JOB @allmen" Basically guys want to be in the middle ground, like just verbally admit you are shallow so we can treat you like you are shallow and we will agree with all these rules. Women dont do that because they want both sides of benefits without any of the negatives. We dont like double talk I think most men are ok with that type of stuff women want, we just dont want you to be playing little good girl …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 08:39 PM
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Theres that video of the girl getting "catcalled" which was basically just men of color sayiing "hello" or "good day" to them on the side of the street It had a lot of support from bloopers/feminists/sjws, im sure you could find the word oppressive in the comment section Famous anti feminist youtuber made a video about this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zo2dTzRdypY
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 08:24 PM
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Men: Khal Drogo with guns Women: Dorian gray with Heterochromia iridum
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 06:43 PM
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Its basically like saying "I prove that im not RP value by making fun of RP value" Its like how feminist guys who love my little pony post on the nice guys sub as proof that they arent nice guys, look at me making fun of these people please dont lump me in with them im different I respeekt woomenz Because otherwise we would probably just assume that about them based on their appearance https://youtu.be/N2qw8sgEdRw Watch this video, a lot of feminist guys have clear ulterior motives, one of the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 06:24 PM
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He made that reply based on the OPs general persona, not really anything specific to the content of this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 03:34 PM
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It means when it goes to an extreme or far enough that it causes a negative, an example could be bottling up your feelings because you think people will think less of you Anything other than "masculinity in moderation" is toxic masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 05:48 PM
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It has nothing to do with that, notice its not a reply to him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 05:45 PM
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I think its because the ratio of missionary:doggystyle was different in those days When doggystyle goes up in popularity so does the value of ass
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 08:39 AM
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Can you give me your definition of toxic masculinity? My definition of toxic masculinity doesnt matter because im not a feminist. Its the specific feminists personal definition that needs to align with their behavior And im tlaking about people, not 50 shades. I have a fuckbuddy with a rape fetish and we dont ahve z safe word because thats a turn off. As you can imagine shes not a feminist. Because if she was it would go against her anti rape/consent beliefs. You cant preach about the importance…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 11:52 PM
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When you murder people in video games it doesnt incentivize people to murder others IRL. Maybe im the only one with this belief, but I have always seen feminism as a responsibility. Like you are representing what you want to see in the world, and how others react to your behavior is important for the decisions that you personally make Feminists are supposed to live their lives for future women over themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 09:02 PM
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For some reason I doubt that hes chad tier, from what I can see on this sub and other subs like the nice guys sub there are a lot of average guys who just want to feel dominance over someone. So they go for the lowest common denominator, its the only comparison that really makes them look good
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 08:58 PM
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I think its hypocritical if the guy is like "naturally" rough Like if you are a feminist it should be more like roleplay with safewords, the more realistic it is the more hypocritical imo. It should involve verbal consent and step by step shit I think a better way to put it is that you arent supposed to be attracted to toxic masculinity as a feminist, the more of those traits that a guy displays the less your attractiuon should be. Otherwise feminism makes no sense and just comes off as double t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 08:51 PM
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Pointing out that something is a social construct doesnt automatically mean it should change typically when people point out a social construct they are doing it just so the world changes in order to cater to them, if that new found world doesnt cater to me but the current one does why on earth would I be onboard? Thats why many liberals try to take the moral highground, pretending its not about bettering their own lives at the expense of others. Im a liberal, but I dont pretend to be doing shit…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 03:44 AM
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You say trashy bros, I say hipster greasers, tomato tomato At the end of the day if you can get people to bust a gut, it doesnt really matter
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 11:03 AM
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Thats perfectly fine, its important to know what you want or need
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 02:08 AM
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But if he just started telling you without asking if you wanted to hear about other women than it is also very likely that he is just open about that type of stuff Most men are pretty ambiguous anyway, guys are either super detailed if the chick is crazy or subtle if shes not Depends on the subculture and career, I think the women who get the most privacy are NOT the SAHMs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 01:59 AM
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Thats because you are probably super closed off about that stuff, some of us openly talk about this shit with everyone Think about it like this, if your husband has told you about other chicks, than hye has also told his friends about you This one time I ate this chicks ass because it was the newest craze, but she had bad pussy, so bad that she would gag on my dick whenever she tasted her own pussy. She would always stop me from eating her monkey, but the thing is I am pretty good at eating nast…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 01:55 AM
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you gotta get on that well water
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 12:08 AM
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IDK if you have ever seen the show called "its always sunny in philly" but Dennis is WAY closer to a stereotypical RPer imo. And im not even talking about the D.E.N.N.I.S system, more the attitude and style of the character himself
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 12:04 AM
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my alpha archetype is alcoholic, motorcycle stuntmen
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 12:02 AM
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Does anyone else remember that girl who made posts asking how to get a boyfriend, saying that she is asexual but would be willing to have sex a little after 5+ years of dating BUT that she regularly flicked the bean. IIRC she wanted to focus on her career, had extremely high smv but didnt want to date a fellow asexual, she just wanted a guy who was willing to wait I wish I could remmeber what sub that was from, I think it mighta been from seduction but I dont remember The fact that asexuals play…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 03:16 AM
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If people didnt care what they thought than they wouldn't need to oppose their views, hell they wouldn't even take the time to read their views
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 06:18 AM
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A lot of bpers would say that too, its not a red pill thing Im on board with the no children thing, but I also beleive that a lot of these people are lying to themselves if they are imagining a singular LTR all the way into old age without children. Its much more likely to involve many lonely periods with various partners Especially really old age, its gonna suck, personally I never want to be a really old person so it doesnt matter to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 02:10 AM
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Its like the whole punch a nazi thing Like yeah if someone commits a crime they should be punished but if you can justify violence towards someone based on their personal beliefs than you are worse than they are The worst thing is the people sitting behind their computers cheering on violence towards everyone who disagrees with their worldview. Those are the same people who are scared to allow others to have a voice Those people always say if you are willing to tlak to those people than you vali…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 12:30 AM
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I dont rip bark off trees anymore because I may get a splinter, its impossible to be a good person because we are so aware of the world around us "Societal good" is a thing, but its just to control people, so who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 12:23 AM
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Thats my point, you cant tell an orbiter to just be friends, thats not how it works. You can only tell them to appear like a friend, which is what people do. You cant just cross out thoughts and feelings from your mind with a permanant marker, you can only tell people what to do. When women or feminists give men advice sometime sit feels like they are levitating above us, they think they are elevating mankinds conciousness or something, creating new series of thought patterns and shit. No, you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 09:07 PM
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Why not
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 05:53 PM
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it allows the man to begin to fall in love with her, and he'll tend to have less defenses up too because of seeing it as friends instead of courting. Maybe im the strange one, but this does not apply to me. I got my work facade, my friend facade, etc Your post also implies that the man sees it as genuine friendship, I dont just transition from genuine friendship to having romantic feelings. If the attraction isnt there from the start it never will be This just sounds like settling to me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 05:51 PM
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I dont disagree with the concept of being friends to expand your social circle, that obviously works But I think most times people reccomend that advice its in a situation where you ar ebeing friends with the specific girl that you desire, in which case I think its bad advice. Also it feels more like advice for men who dont have many options, like be happy with what you get, not ambitious enough to be plan A if you ask me. But the OP said they were tlaking to black pill incel people, so I guess …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 05:43 PM
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They think it leads to pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 07:45 AM
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I changed my wording to interdependance, my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 07:39 PM
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Codependance isnt a negative, its got both positives and negatives It's just a compromise, maybe I should call it interdependancy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 07:25 PM
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true
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 07:24 PM
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Dread just means that you feel anxiety about losing that person, that they would be difficult to replace and have admirable traits. Ive never been goal oriented in relationships like you are, so idk about that. Im not thinking too far in the fujture in relationships. Casual relationships are just about passing the time really, or giving yourself a situation so you dont act impulsive in the rest of your life
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 07:11 PM
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No, people have sex with people they dont like all the time What you describe as love sounds more like comfort to me(rather than compatability, dread and admiration), im most comfortable by myself
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 06:39 PM
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I think possesion is okay as long as it goes both ways Relationships are a contract in which you sign your freedom away in order to gain the benefits of codependance
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 06:34 PM
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They are just dormant and depressed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 06:22 PM
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Youre right, but I think OPs point wasnt that we should receive empathy, but that BP men should recognize that and be more red pill. He wants to know if they can see the imbalance than what is keeping them thinking the way that they do Personally I think BP men rely on a sexual strategy that involves getting female respect, which doesnt actually work but if you are good looking enough and have low enough standards anything will work. All men thrive off money, pussy, respect and glory. But the wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 06:19 PM
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This is a really good point I hadnt thought of, the best players are probably the biggest losers from a smv standpoint and also prob have lower self esteem than the average or low skill players
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 04:49 PM
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I think youre wrong, simply based on the fact that it has worked for me in the past lol I dont know if I would call it "strength" but you can open up in a way that isnt "weak" I have told girls about how when I was a kid I abandoned my mom because I was worried she would abandon me first, I went off to live with relatives and had no real emotional connection to either of my parents Its weird because my example is more like "heres me sharing the weakness that explains why I ignore you and dont te…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 03:53 PM
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Because theres no point in having these high standards that you ultimately dont care about, we just dont think a lot of things are that important I think its better to focus on a small smount of traits than to try to focus on everything
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 03:43 PM
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IMO the BP one is alseid or whatever his name is, Erik is RP with sookie AND pam. Sookie is special just because of her addictive qualities, but hes most definitely rp with pam. 100% of the vampires saw her as a possesion/drug because of her smell in the show, which is why I think the bp relationships she had were with the non vampire characters As for the shapeshifter guy whose name escapes me im not 100% sure, but I would say thats bp too I havent read the books though, did erik have a relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 01:13 AM
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This could also be true, im not a women, im just commenting on the male part, i never claimed to know both
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 03:28 PM
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I wouldnt say I have heard a woman actually say it, but the popularity of that marilyn monroe meme is a good indicator imo Men dont think about whether or not a woman deserves them because they arent really thinking from your pov like that, they are just thinking do I want her or do I not want her edit: dman someone beat me to it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 11:06 AM
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Children are an extension of the mother, like a third arm. I know this feeling all too well. Mothers are more possesive over their children than dudes are over chicks they've fucked(NO I HAVE NO SOURCE IM JUST BEING DRAMATIC BUT ALSO MAYBE ACCURATE)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/17 11:24 PM
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I never said it was impossible, but it wouldnt be the one they wanted, the girl they remember from high school who still has her own pedestal all to herself even with other women removed You really think when guys post like that they are referring to virgins? OR a specific girl they used to know who happened to be a virgin at the time When I said vanilla I didnt mean sexually, just that she isnt captivating in a crush type of way
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 06:40 PM
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You can't see virginity, you see "cute" rather than "slut", "conservative" rather than "promiscious" but that has nothing to do with virginity. If a girl is a virgin at the age range that most posters on this sub are at than she is prob ugly, would the fact that she is a virgin suddenly make her even a little higher smv? No. Its just a good girl image that guys like, a cute, quirky girl who you wish was a virgin so that she will feel a way about you that she never felt before eliminating any par…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 06:13 PM
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Those women aren't trusted because they twist what they are saying into something that directly benefits them too. Which wouldnt be a problem if the solution or whatever they are saying actually made sense from a male POV of fulfillment and happiness. Typically those women come from a position where they expect you to be somewhat of a societal martyr https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vUyvRVtrpBs In order for you to care about me, you need to recognize my needs, otherwise its just an empty statemen…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 06:00 PM
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The top tier women are the sexiest ones, not virgins I know that some RPers are tradcons, but thats a tradcon thing not a RP thing. I know it can get confusing with these forums filled with a combination of tradcons, incels, mgtow, RPers and other shit too, but its not all the same
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 04:39 PM
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The down side is you treat women like shit. You can expect women to be slutty without treating them like shit, I mean they might feel like you are treating them like shit from their perspective, but that could easily just be from their own entitlement. Ill give you an example, lets take 2 people that have a casual sexual relationship and treat each other exactly the same. One of these people could easily develop the view that the other sees them as disposable and is just using them. But that is …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/17 06:51 PM
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Is there a downside to expecting women to be slutty? If you come to terms with it I think its the best view to have Remember, you need to assume shit about people. I understand that everyone wants others thoughts and behavior custom fit to them and their personality but that just isnt realistic, we need to stereotype and generalize in life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/17 04:59 PM
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hangry
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 04:22 PM
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I have just noticed that feminist subreddits have really embraced mens lib. Over time they have started to just directly link mens lib to the posts that they dont want any part of. I notice that there are some genuine feminist male posters, they post shit about the same things the women typically do, whether it be sexual abuse, bullying, whatever. A lot of the time some of these posts feel like they are looking for sympathy, acknowleding that they are also a victim, just like the feminists who a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 05:30 PM
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To test theories and see what others think of them, to see if others have compelling ideas, to learn I have a new theory im currently thinking about right now, I call it: Mens lib, the island of misfit feminist males.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 05:18 PM
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When men talk about it on this sub they are more referring to value, rather than morality. But yeah what you say is also true
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 03:14 PM
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They never gave me dmt in school, I consider that or some other psychedelic a req when people tlak about 'soul searching'
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/17 09:07 PM
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What I'm saying is that a mentally healthy person is supposed to be able to accept that good and bad can coexist in the same person. The same person can be both selfish and amoral AND be a victim and a good moral person. More importantly, the same group of people can be both of these things, because obviously, you can't have half the population be a monolith. Im gonna say some shit that no one likes but we all know its true I dont know you, I dont know random posters on the internet, I dont know…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/17 02:04 AM
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Out of curiousity, are you male or female? I could write some more, but I feel like if you watch this video it will be the easiest way to describe myself and all other males(in the age range and no offspring situation) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vUyvRVtrpBs I know this is kinda reinforcing your point, but it might help you to better understand males in that situation at the same time As for the beggining part about TRP, I think that was from someone elses post and I got confused, not sure, …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/17 01:55 AM
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TRP did not create slut shaming or anything like that, all that stuff feminists are fighting against is regular shit and has nothing to do specifically with trp What im trying to say is that when women try to get 2 upsides and zero downsides for different paths of life men recognize that. Those women ruin it for everyone Each individual can choose if they are going to be moral or amoral and what's their moral code going to be. And if you choose the immoral path you need to play that role, not tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/17 12:34 AM
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Lol, I didnt care enough to ask the specifics. She seemed to like me enough to not give a fuck about random satanic tattoos/darkart, so im not sure how religous she was compared to the rest of her family
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 11:31 PM
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Lol, im a man. It makes it so that the women who are most attracted to me are actually the ones who I do find to be boring, unfortunately. Visible anxiety can be a real ladyboner killer sometimes But I have dated a variety of women in the past, from a white tumblr feminist to a black religous girl
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 11:27 PM
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I feel like it makes it so that the highs are higher but the lowes are also lower, I understand many people dont like that, but the most captivating people make me feel this way. I wouldnt say that I do it to prevent myself from bheing bored, just that I tend to not care about the outcome if im not feeling that way, which can tend to be boring sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 11:22 PM
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I know exactly how you feel, im also infj, if I care than I will most definitely have something to worry about or paranoia. It keeps me from being bored in a very odd way. I have a personality disorder tho, so this may not exactly be a good thing lol Its an important part of a new or newish relationship or a relationship that has had current changes(like moving in together or somehting) imo, if I dont feel that way than I find a reaosn to stray
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 10:28 PM
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dun feel liek reedin sory m8
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 09:02 PM
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I dont see the point of trolling with the word troll in your name, and going so far as to include links in your post too
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 08:56 PM
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I'm not referring to you specifically, but to popular feminist arguments that I have seen with many upvotes or reblogs. I genuinely agree with this statement. As I often say, if there was zero stigma and zero risk in having sex with random people, women wouldn't have to worry about their N count or about getting pregnant, and so they could easily lose a N on some loser, or give a loser a try. It's because N count matters and sex is risky that you have to be selective of your Ns. I beleive that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 08:10 PM
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Even if the patriarchy went away those expectations wouldnt go away, feminists arent trying to get rid of the shit that they like. This is one of those deceitful things like when feminists say "why do you slut shame? dont you like pussy?" implying everyone will gte more pussy if they stop slut shaming. We all see that lie a mile away(im against slut shaming, but this is still a feminist lie) Feminists can say all they want, your real values and opinions show when you open your legs. This applies…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 06:26 PM
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This seems like a very incorrect idea of what TRP is, it never tells you to be anything specific, it doesnt define your hobbies or personality. It doesnt tell you to play mind games, if anything it tells you to be direct and crash through a womans mind games(whether or not they happen to exist in that instance). I mean sure it tells you to lift, but people act like thats some big defining thing, its not. TRP isn't giving you a script or anything, its just general ideas we expose ourselves to and…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 06:02 PM
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People will always be more supportive of women in these situations Because other men want to fuck them and women will be sympathetic because they have probably been in a situation that is similar and as a male it is easy for them to project things onto you that other men have done or said. You should be more focused on getting your way than trying to make things fair
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 01:53 PM
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I don't see how this applies to anything in the OP No one even used the word love other than you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 01:45 PM
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Its not that they don't understand that, its that we are taught to believe that you are better than us(no one thinks you're perfect)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 01:37 PM
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Its more important to make people feel like they are being treated uniquely than to actually do it I would say treating people uniquely can easily transition into that thing where you are making things about them too much, not safe advice to give
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 11:48 PM
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Its weird, I think one of the main reasons is from relationships. I have been asked to send dick pics and full body nudes many times from women. But it was always a situation in which we already fucked a couple times. I think those girls just ask because by this time your phone is filled with random ass shots they sent you or tease photos and they want you to send them something too, I don't think they actually want to see the picture as much as they want to know you are willing to send them Its…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 05:43 PM
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I've only met like a few attractive guys in my life I don't understand how this is possible
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 05:24 PM
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I don't like booth babes or MFC cosplayers either if that's what you mean, but obviously there are plenty of women who actually like the fandoms that they partake in
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/17 01:16 AM
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Are you one of those guys that thinks women don't like video games?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/17 01:11 AM
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I wouldn't say those are red flags at all, just that the assumption that this girl is different is the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/17 12:33 AM
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I nknow a zooey too, she got a job at this badass video game developer company(just a receptionist or soemthing, but trust me the perks this place has are fucking badass) just for being a odd colored hair girl with vidya game tattoos who is willing to cosplay at work Like every time I see her she has some new gift that her male coworkers gave her, she has so many little trinkets, figures, artwork or just random cool shit. I'm jelly as fuck Her apartments decorations are like 75% shit orbiters ga…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/17 07:31 PM
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Its the reasoning behind the desire to have casual sex, a fear of intimacy and need for independence could be an example but there are many others Its very easy to avoid commitment and also easy to convince yourself not to do it, im rly gud at it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/17 04:51 PM
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we all have trust issues with the aux
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/17 11:17 PM
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BP isn't an exact thing when it comes to sexual strategy or anything, but you can loosely define them based on what they oppose BP most definitely goes along with the whole PC/feminism crowd
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/17 09:21 PM
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There are progressive RPers, it just requires a very high level of smv before that benefits you. So most people don't reach that point
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/17 02:21 PM
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Its the point of the sub Also my views actually make sense, if your views make sense give me some examples, explain it to me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 09:50 PM
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IDk why that couldn't make sense, a bunch of varying people interpreting information in different ways and each taking away different pieces of information and ignoring other aspects The problem is that people consider these whiners and incels on trp sub to be RP, yeah those guys are prob pretty similar. But all the others are gonna have much more diversity between them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 08:53 PM
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I'm not the one who defined all terpers are aggressive, meathead dickheads, just letting you know most of these dudes are probably pretty normal In fact i bet there are tons of artsy/hipster terpers. Shit I might even be one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 08:42 PM
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I think most would say that the middle ground would still be rp territory, rp doesn't mean you have to be a dickhead, you just cant give out any pussy passes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 08:28 PM
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RP -> BP would be getting what you want from women by doing the things that are the opposite of what TRP tells you to do There are plenty of women who are pleasant, loyal, honest and not greedy. The bigger question is did they fuck you and do those women make up the majority?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 08:25 PM
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You can never compare the masculinities of two different men. You can say that all you want, but everyone does it. And typically most people agree with one another on whether or not that person would be referred to as masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 07:15 PM
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Do you think its possible for everyone to be equally masculine? Because your definition makes that a possibility We don't define people by their opinions of themselves, if you need an example just think about nice guys If your way of thinking was true, we would all be 10/10 smv Its all relative
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 04:38 PM
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That's not a contradiction, think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 11:45 AM
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You shouldn't be seeking the approval of others, but if no one sees you as masculine than you aren't If it was individualistic than it wouldn't matter at all, we would never talk about it if what you say was true
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 06:39 PM
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This is one of those posts that is true but not really helpful at all Its stupid for an individual male to say to himself "im just gonna wait for the world to change", if believing conspiratorial bullshit and weird social theories lands you results than its the only thing that makes sense. People don't realize how much personal success actually helps the mind Leave all that other bullshit for the feminists to fix
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 06:20 PM
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Unless you are defining masculinity by being viewed as masculine, which is how most people use the word Its not independent of others, if you are the only person who thinks you are masculine than you are just delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 04:51 PM
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+1 for maynard But some people aren't seen for a reason, maybe its not that I should open my eyes, maybe its that they aren't worth seeing?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 02:55 PM
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The lack of money holds men back in many ways, including the kind of women they can reasonably date. People don't want this unless they get to the ~harem of gold digging hoes~ level of abundance, idk why beta bucks would seem more appealing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 01:03 AM
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When they say matriarchy I don't think they meant the amazonian immortality wonderwoman kind lol, you would still have to deal with men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 09:17 PM
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I fucking love Patrice so much that I was willing to listen to dozens of opie and anthony(I despise these fuckers) videos just to hear his sweet voice
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 06:58 PM
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It didn't just expose it though, narcissists have more exposure with other narcissists which most definitely increases it. On a personal level my narcissism game is on fucking point thanks to social media. I would still be a narcissist without it, but with social media i'm fucking great at it Or maybe i'm not a narcissist at all and just have a good representation of what constitutes status on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 06:47 PM
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The opposite of this would be unreasonable. Feeling like you can't back out of something. There's a middle ground, that post makes it seem like the woman has much more freedom than the man(which makes sense based on availability of women in the hookup world, but obv thats not preferable if you are a man) There has been a pretty huge surge of poly women on hookup sites(that ive seen anecdotally), they aren't really poly tho, at least not in the sense of their partners freedom in comparison to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 04:43 PM
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but they were able to express their interest in her without being excessively forward and sexual I don't really like the way this sounds, it sounds like a situation in which the woman proved she can date the man if she wants but also back out of the arrangement anytime she wants. I would imagine there were some power moves made on her part Personally I think talking like that is trashy, so it doesn't matter much to me anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 02:21 PM
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Have you seen the video of those jetpacks they fly around in dubai? They are pretty sick
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 02:13 PM
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This is a situation in which you are comparing women with rich men, terpers are comparing women with themselves For your post to make sense you need to point out why you think eliminating that structure would fix the problems from the terpers POV. Terpers are envious of the way that women get to live. Why would eliminating the rich bring about a change that would obscure the gender roles in a way that would benefit all men? I agree with you that this is a problem, but I don't see how it ties int…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 02:11 PM
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Are you sure? It seems pretty obvious to me. Are you sure you aren't confusing V taper with the adonis belt?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 07:03 PM
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