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It’s interesting how a generation in between changes perspectives and I think that’s great. You think that women couldn’t have credit cards is an interesting factoid where I see it as real damage that happened to my mother who’s incredibly financially astute being treated at best like dumb child that couldn’t handle finances and at worst as chattel to be owned by men. You yourself said words and meaning have weight and just flippantly acted like that sexism was just an interesting fact. Can you …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:59 PM
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I don’t think the movie did say anything about the system being rigged against women, rather it just shone a light on the struggles women go through and how things like toys can help us process those feelings and even advance our opinions. People act like women being discriminated against was ages ago. It wasn’t. My mom couldn’t have her own credit card or bank account when she left college. It wasn’t that long ago, and something the movie mentioned was that Barbie went to space before women cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:30 PM
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Sitting in your discomfort isn’t about being in timeout, it’s reflecting on someone else’s point of view that may be contrary to your own. The fact that you used that analogy makes me think you’re younger. Your view of the world may grow and change over time, mine certainly has. I’m a member of a lot of privileged groups and I’ve had my view on the world challenged many times by media, books, tv, movies etc. This particular movie does a good job of taking how a lot of women feel and making it li…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 11:31 AM
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How old is your sister?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 10:33 AM
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It’s a movie. A movie about Barbie’s. Sit in your discomfort so you can understand how women currently feel. No one’s actually doing anything to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:36 AM
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It’s just the inverse, that’s all. How your feeling about the end of that movie is how a lot of women feel in this world. Sit in your discomfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:43 AM
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They had just turned all the Barbies into beer delivering robots and were obsessed with horses, you need to prove yourselves a bit. The Barbie’s may have gotten to the point of gender consciousness, but had the kens?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 08:26 PM
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I would say the same, but reflective. The point is just to force us to see the reality through an exaggerated movie
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 07:16 PM
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I didn’t say it was good, but it IS a reflection of what happened to women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:15 PM
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And that’s exactly what happened to women, we had to work our way up. The Barbie’s didn’t say no you’ll never be on the Supreme Court, they said work your way up and we’ll see
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:05 AM
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The real truth is we’re putting a lot of meaning behind all of it, but the opening Barbie land is just a reflection of the toys Mattel has made. There’s no Supreme Court kens because they never made any. That’s also why Kens job is “beach” because that’s the only backstory Mattel bothered with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:58 AM
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I mean the reality is Matel hasn’t made any Ken Supreme Court justice toys. They just made a fictional world with all of the toys Matel has made. Kind of like Mama Mia was created using the songs by Abba.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:39 AM
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My interpretation was that Barbieland was a mirror image of the world when Barbie’s were created 1959. There were no Supreme Court justices that were female of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:57 PM
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Did you watch it? It touches on a ton of the topics discussed here. They also have an identical moment in the matrix where Barbie picks the blue pill (high heel) or red pill (Birkenstock) it’s just that the Barbie world is essentially a mirror image of standard world of days past.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:52 PM
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Really I think barbieland was more an interpretation of when women started to be allowed to be judges in the court system. They weren’t suddenly on the Supreme Court, they gave them lower positions and said be happy with that and maybe one day you could be on the Supreme Court. So in that way I’m sure men would be in the Supreme Court eventually, just like women were eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:45 AM
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Nailed it, forearms are way more attractive than biceps to me. Forearms, shoulders and hands, oh man, hands are an entire class of their own. If you look at erotic media for women, hands are front and center, the Mr Darcy hand shake, daemons hands in HOD etc
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:18 AM
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That’s absolutely true though, historically. My grandma collected dolls, which was creepy to stay in that room 😬 but yes the older ones were all baby dolls
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:30 AM
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There have been 115 justices and 6 have been women, so the kens can have that many, 5%…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:29 AM
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Exactly, the whole point was that the opposite isn’t some amazing place. They needed balance
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 02:25 AM
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They don’t though, the kens have a place in government and a more equitable say.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 02:25 AM
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Did you see the movie? Because barbieland wasn’t utopia. They thought it was because they were basically brainwashed. The whole movie was about achieving balance. In the end Kens got more power and homes to make barbieland more equal for the kens.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 02:21 AM
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I’ve dated both shorter and taller. My husband is the same height as me. You’ve never had someone say not to wear heels or anything like that? I used to get that a lot. Even if guys were taller they’d make comments because they wanted to be significantly taller. I’m also pretty broad and muscular, it might be different if you’re tall and slight, not sure but that’s been my experience that my height was at best neutral.
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 04:11 PM
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My husband and I have talked about that before, he worked without a lot of guys who’s wives did give them a hard time. Their hours were insane though, corporate tax accountants, so they’d work 7am until midnight some times. I never gave my husband a hard time which he appreciated but I did say you’re going to need to get a hotel or something. You can’t work that long and drive an hour home. In hindsight I kind of wish we’d talked about him changing careers though. The stress contributed to autoi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:51 PM
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Sure but the lens through which you view some of our evolutionary desires has changes because society is so different than it was when we were evolving.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:46 PM
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That’s not been my experience as a tall girl. But I’m also not slight, I’m naturally pretty muscular. I’ve had so many men tell me, you’re pretty, too bad you’re so tall 😕 I don’t even think I’m that tall
/r/AllPillDebate12/07/23 09:42 PM
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Here’s what I think the reality is. A lot of men are looking for hook ups, a lot of women are looking for relationships. On average, Men will lower their standards to get a hookup, women will lower their standards to get a relationship. So if you’re an average or below average guy, hookup culture is not for you. Also if you’re an average or below average women it’s harder to get a relationship. Men here think you’re the only ones that suffer these mismatched wants and feel outside looking in. Wo…
/r/AllPillDebate12/07/23 09:38 PM
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I don’t think women care as much about hair color as men. I’ve never cared at all personally. I really like beards other than that, I don’t really care.
/r/AllPillDebate12/07/23 09:32 PM
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I mean the bottom surgery specifically. But also overall I feel like I know a lot more passing FTM than MTF, but not everyone’s goal is to pass anyway. I do think though if we’re talking here specifically about ease of getting partners it would be easier for a MTF trans person to have the same sex life as a cis woman. It’s more complicated for FTM because the bottom surgery just doesn’t give you what cismen have
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 01:06 PM
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I don’t know I think it could be because it’s harder to pass as a FTM and the surgery available doesn’t come very close to replicating having a penis whereas a MTF you wouldn’t know if it’s done well.
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 01:31 AM
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Ya because you seem like such a great guy 😳
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 01:23 AM
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Where’s the women believe 80% of men are below average stat from?
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 08:44 PM
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Pumping their muffins 😂😂😂 that’s funny. You have examples of young boy bands that are honestly targeting to girls liking. There have been a lot more male actors that are plus sized than women until recently though. A lot of sitcoms for a longtime had a dad that was plus sized and mom that was fit. There are hardly any plus sized male models though, so it’s kind of mixed bag.
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 08:42 PM
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Exactly, I think the plus size model debate is so silly. It’s not a beauty standard, it’s marketing.
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 08:38 PM
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That statistic is literally from the Stone Age
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 05:23 PM
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Right that’s one variable older men date younger women, when you get older you’ll date younger women probably. Also it was a survey and it’s been suggested women think they’re in a relationship when the men reported they were not which made it look like more men were single. Plus using that single stat ignores the fact that once men decide to marry, average age is 29, that next demographic has single men 30 plus plummeting. Here’s a more detailed explanation https://ifstudies.org/blog/theres-no-…
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 11:32 AM
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That’s one of the reasons they what you a few inches shorter, so you’d be shorter in heels
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:56 PM
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I’m sure there are short guy women, but I agree few and far between. I will add that while I don’t think it’s as much a detriment to dating as being a short guy, being a tall women also has challenges. Back when I was a dating I had a bunch of guys say, too bad you’re so tall 😕 I’m not even that tall 5’8”, but even if the guy was my height or a couple inches taller they wanted to be significantly taller. It probably wouldn’t have slowed me down if I was looking for a ONS, which I don’t know beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:32 PM
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I think we probably have similar amounts of emotions, but men are taught to repress them. As for the phalluses 😂😂😂😂 That’s just funny.
/r/AllPillDebate08/07/23 08:12 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:17 PM
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Yes it is lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:03 PM
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They’ve done studies, this isn’t heresay. I’m not saying women don’t gossip, they do. Men do too and just as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:03 PM
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It’s a partnership
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:17 AM
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I’m from a liberal major city 😂 People have such antiquated ideas. I’m not religious or conservative. I just like making things. There are a lot of women like me.
/r/AllPillDebate08/07/23 11:16 AM
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Well they were comparing it to a lower level entry position, that can be true but there’s no way to go up. I made a lot in retail though, I was a manager at Trader Joe’s, and made 85 a year which for retail felt great, plus retirement, health and dental insurance, paid time off. Hours sucked though and it was hard work bringing in trucks and breaking down pallets. The regular crew at Trader Joe’s tops out at $24 an hour so better than the salary in that article. My husband who started his career…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:16 AM
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No ear piercing? That rules out 80-90% of women 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:02 AM
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For me that’s true, honestly my preference is for bulkier rather than leaner so bigger broader. I often think guys look the best after a bulk before they cut. Not taking it too far though, the huge gym guys I don’t find appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:59 AM
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For me that’s true, honestly my preference is for bulkier rather than leaner so bigger broader. I often think guys look the best after a bulk before they cut. Not taking it too far though, the huge gym guys I don’t find appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:58 AM
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Ehhhh, maybe the pay gap between blue collar jobs requiring training like plumbing electrical etc is getting closer, not a janitor though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:40 AM
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It is, forearms are definitely hot for straight women…. But I’ve never looked for a subreddit about it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:28 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:25 AM
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He may have forced her to raise his children. If a woman gave up her career and is raising children and isn’t happy, I think that would just be irreconcilable differences. I do think I’m this scenario there may be a period of time of alimony until maybe education can be finished or something along those lines, but forever seems obscene and frankly I’m very liberal so I find it odd some people think it should be forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:24 AM
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I guess the question is are these all deal breakers? And what are you bringing to the table. Overall this seems reasonable-ish to me. When I was looking for a husband I fit most of this except I like cats and would consider myself a feminist, possibly different political views, but I feel like I know a lot of women that would fit this. And most of those women did get married somewhat quickly so maybe they’re harder to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:15 AM
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I wonder sometimes if women being raised to be chaste affects their sexuality down the line. Men are sort of encouraged along the way, being a ladies man is a good thing, etc. I’m not necessarily saying women should sleep around, but there are soooo many negative messages about sex for women and then we’re supposed to flip a switch and be super sexual in relationships. It took me a bit to stop being so nervous around sex when I met my husband. But, I’ve always been very into men just didn’t know…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:34 PM
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Yes, us married people still date each other. It’s nice to plan something special for each other on occasion. We absolutely do say to each other let’s go on a date, or I might even ask can you take me out on a date… You have to keep the romance alive, you don’t just get married and that’s it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:27 PM
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Yes, us married people still date each other. It’s nice to plan something special for each other on occasion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:19 PM
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Took me a second to understand what it meant, so tight it would make a waterproof seal 😵 no no no, what’s hot about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:31 PM
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If you’ve never met anyone in real life who thinks knits or bakes you’re hanging out with the wrong crowd. A ton of women bake, a lot! I have videos on TikTok with millions of views. I’m sure you know women that bake to some extent. I don’t think the exact hobbies matter per se, although overlap is nice because it makes it easy to do things together. I do think hobbies make people more interesting and are more fun on dates, that probably doesn’t matter for hook up culture but for dating hobbies …
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 09:29 PM
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Sure but they’re observing a large sample size and isolating variables, they’re not just reporting on their own experiences. And it’s certainly not one scientist making all the observations. In a situation like that you have multiple people making observations to remove as much personal bias as possible. Back to gossip, I think a lot of things men gossip about you don’t consider gossip but are. Men tend to share their success more frequently, like a friend increased their PR lifting for example …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:28 PM
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The thing about intelligence is you have to get to know them first to find out if they’re intelligent or not. So no, I wouldn’t see someone doing a stimming behavior and assume they’re intelligent or not because you can’t really know that about someone without more information. Earlier on I described people I was in school with etc that I had a crush on because they were intelligent. I didn’t have a crush on them day one, well unless they answered a question in a way displaying they were obvious…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:18 PM
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Oh just support,😂😂😂 I read that as support your comment. That’s it though, just support?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:01 PM
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Sure I’ll comb through your comment and quote you. First though, what do you think women contribute to a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:55 PM
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That’s really not the best research 😂 I mean it’s fair to share what you’ve seen and feel differently, but research is actual research with a big enough sample size remove outliers, bias etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:54 PM
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See I don’t feel that way. The actions you’re describing don’t make me think you’re less intelligent. Some people are assholes, well a lot of people honestly, and I’m sorry people have spoken to you and made you feel bad about yourself. My husband I’m pretty sure is autistic, although he doesn’t want to look into it and I don’t really care it doesn’t change anything. He stims a lot but just at home and hides it even from me. He grew up being told to hide it and was able to for the most part. I g…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:44 PM
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There’s actually a group here on Reddit of sapiosexuals. They say to lean into your niche right? Maybe that’s your niche. Instead of fighting it, lean into it, that is if you’re single.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:38 PM
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I don’t think you could actually conduct a study separating out those variables because there’s so much correlation between them. I would argue it’s because they’re intrinsically part of one whole overlapping idea, intelligence. People who have high IQ’s tend to be quick witted because it’s easier for them to quickly link things together because they’re smart etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:35 PM
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I just think you’re splitting up intelligence into little categories because you can’t wrap your brain around people being drawn to intelligence. Like saying no it’s not that you like Eurocentric beauty standards, you like fair skin, and a petite nose etc when it’s the same thing. Is it because you feel like you don’t have some of those characteristics? You’re obviously a smart guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:33 PM
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There’s a bunch google gossip men vs women. A lot of articles with studies and google scholar makes it easy if you want to read the actual scientific data.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:31 PM
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If those traits are so bound to intelligence then that’s part of intelligence. That’s like separating out a bunch of physical characteristics that most people find attractive. And after a bit more googling, there are people like me who feel most drawn to intelligence. We’re a bit rare, 1-8% of the population, but we exist. Just like you hear people saying they knew they were gay at a young age etc. That’s how I’ve felt since I can remember about intelligent men. I’ve always felt this pull and dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:29 PM
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Oh hey look at that! This conversation inspired some quick googling and there’s even a term for people sexually attracted to intelligence, Sapiosexual or Sapiophile. See look, we exist!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:23 PM
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Sure I like all of those things but how is that separated out from intelligence and which of these are you saying autistic people tend not to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:16 PM
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What correlative traits?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:07 PM
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I worked in STEM, I’ve met a lot of autistic people. That’s not it. I’m not sure what traits you’re speaking about since you’re just talking around the issue and coming up with alternative ideas other than what I’ve told you. Maybe you’re talking about income, but I was 6 the first time I had a crush on the smartest kid in class so that’s not it. There are people who are sexually attracted to peeing on each other, you really don’t believe there are women sexually attracted to intelligence?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:06 PM
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I’ve dated men that are autistic, you’re making assumptions. You didn’t ask. How do you know I’m not autistic? You didn’t ask. You’re making assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:02 PM
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Are you serious? Or kidding? I can’t tell 🫣
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 05:55 PM
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I promise you I do, that’s probably the hottest sentence I’ve seen on Reddit 😂 Look everybody had a kink I guess. Ever since I was a little girl I had a crush on the smartest guy in class, wide variety of looks body types etc, one common variable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:46 PM
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I’m a millennial and have a bit of a TikTok (50k) following actually 😂 There are tons of knitters. And how about baking? Remember that whole sourdough trend in the pandemic, what do you call that? To counterbalance your Sporting goods example, how about craft stores? They don’t count? Craftstores make about 14 billion a year in the US. I see about even numbers in REI these days too. Women have loads of hobbies. You all have just decided our hobbies are lame and make fun of them. It’s kind of how…
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 05:39 PM
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I mean that’s a good example because he didn’t seem to have trouble dating, plus you fired this at the wrong woman because my husband happens to have a degenerative neurological disorder, so ya agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:33 PM
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What female hobbies are gossip oriented? Studies have found women do gossip more, but more neutral gossip, like who’s going where on vacation etc. Men actually engage in negative gossip more frequently than women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:31 PM
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Agreed, see this a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:29 PM
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They’ve done studies on this, women actually engage in negative gossip less than men. Men tend to hide their negative gossip behind things like just my opinion, just venting, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:29 PM
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A man for sure wrote that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:23 PM
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I mean virgin men probably shouldn’t be giving sex advice, but without the link to the post you’re not giving us much context.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:19 PM
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An unfortunately large number of women have experienced SA, but not everyone, not most even, it’s 1 in 4 I believe. There’s also varying degrees, someone tried to carry me off at a party but it didn’t happen and I had an old man I worked for that I caught masturbating staring at me while I was planting flowers when I was working at his greenhouse, I was 15. I honestly don’t know if I count in that number. I been touched against my will, but I’ve had some close encounters. I feel like I know a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:17 PM
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I have plenty of times, threats etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:08 PM
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I don’t know if I’d say it’s imperative, I didn’t demand it, but I do know a lot about my husband’s previous live life. When we met I was a virgin and he wasn’t so I was just self conscious for one thing. Also I was nervous about STDs and thought of course it’d be my luck to get one on the first go.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:03 PM
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Like all things, it depends on the woman. Intelligence is my number one turn on. I’ve had crushes and dated a lot of men that some wouldn’t say are conventionally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:00 PM
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It’s not a red flag but maybe too strong for most people
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:52 PM
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Don’t worry about trying too hard with the color of the flower. A dozen red roses would maybe be overdoing it on a first date. I grow flowers so I have a bit of knowledge here, good single flowers, sunflower, lily (not calla lily but anything else), peony, a rose, this time of year sunflowers are usually easy to come by
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:42 PM
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Women have hobbies, why do all of you think we don’t? A lot of men make fun of our hobbies maybe some women don’t talk about them with men for that reason. I’ve had totally unrelated conversations on Reddit and to attempt to win an argument a guy stalked my profile and said go back to knitting, because I’m suppose to be embarrassed I guess. The only women I know without hobbies are ones with young children, the time required raising them just doesn’t leave time for hobbies. That’s not a personal…
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 01:29 PM
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I think the trust statistic is particularly interesting. Since there is a strength imbalance between the sexes a lot of women are afraid of men to some degree and so when we’re picking a partner someone we can trust to be safe with is a big part of who we select. I don’t think men have this same hang up so it does make sense to me then that autistic men would have a harder time dating if it’s true that statistic is true.
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 01:10 PM
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I read a bunch of your comments, I didn’t see you mentioning much other than being meek essentially. So here’s your chance, what to women bring to a relationship in your view?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 11:13 AM
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That’s young men, you didn’t say that. A lot of men wait until 30s to get married which is why there’s a bit of a gap, but the pew research data has been shown to have some underlying variables that skewed the results.
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 11:11 AM
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Ancient history and languages very cool, what’s vidya? Haven’t heard of that before. I have had loads of different hobbies over the years, but my current favorites are knitting, baking, gardening, sewing, motorcycling, backpacking, reading, canning, flute and banjo, and I just started weaving a few weeks ago. I find the world endlessly interesting and I really like making things with my hands so I’ve had lots of hobbies where I’m making something. I sort of rotate through because I just don’t ha…
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 11:04 AM
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Is this a men’s space? It says all in the description? 🧐
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 03:47 AM
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Seriously? Have you not been cared for by a woman maybe? I’m confused by what people want in this group. It sort of seems like you want a return to traditional values but then you shit all over a woman’s role in that partnership. That is NOT a way to convince women to trust you. There are a lot of things women in traditional relationships provide, for one thing literally creating life, is that not enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:42 AM
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I’ve only had sex with one person, my husband.
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 02:50 AM
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I don’t know I get pretty cranky when I’m tired. I’d talk to him now and tell him how you feel, if he listens and possibly apologizes or something like that then it doesn’t sound too serious to me
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/23 01:33 AM
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Yup, after a couple dates I knew, together 16 years now
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/23 01:31 AM
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Personally I feel like if it’s someone you’re considering marrying, you should be able to talk openly and honestly. That’s different than pressure, but you should be able to be vulnerable about your goals and wishes. I moved in with my husband quickly when we were dating and neither of us were in a great place with our careers. We talked a lot on out our goals for marriage. He really wanted to finish college first and be settled in a career before engagement which was reasonable, but he had to g…
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/23 01:29 AM
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I’m actually fantastic for sex that’s true. If that’s all you’re looking for from women though, you’ll never get it. Let’s try again, what are your hobbies?
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 12:05 AM
-1

Still a low blow and lazy argument and I’m not surprised you got a lazy argument back 🤷‍♀️
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 12:03 AM
1

What’s delusional here? It’s a video of her life. I know a lot of women that struggled dating in their 20s and met someone in their 30s
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 11:50 PM
0

You’re crazy, she’s way above a 5
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 11:49 PM
1

So you hate women I guess? Cool flex. I have dozens of hobbies, frankly too many. You can’t generalize that all women have no hobbies that’s just ridiculous. But let’s give this a try. What are your hobbies?
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 11:44 PM
-2

I was on your side at first, but you kinda lose your right to whine about what she said when you called her “fucking retarded” in your second message. 😬
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 11:42 PM
-1

We don’t think about you all as much as you think. And I’d also like to know how you think we dress for each part of our menstrual cycle?
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 11:25 PM
1

I just don’t believe that, most of the women I know are in committed relationships
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 11:17 PM
1

Ah ok, in my country US there are more women than men, but globally more men. I looked it up and it was even before the one child policy in China and Indios also has a lot more men. The UN expects this to level out in 2050 and go back to 50/50 globally, most countries do have more women than men though.
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 11:12 PM
1

Ah ok, I’m my country US there are more men than women, but globally more men. I looked it up and it was even before the one child policy in China and Indios also has a lot more men. The UN expects this to level out in 2050 and go back to 50/50 globally, most countries do have more women than men though.
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 11:12 PM
1

Ah ok, I’m my country US there are more men than women, but globally more men. I looked it up and it was even before the one child policy in China and Indios also has a lot more men. The UN expects this to level out in 2050 and go back to 50/50 globally, most countries do have more women than men though.
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 11:12 PM
1

Don’t we have more women than men as is
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 10:04 PM
1

That pew research stat has been disproven, there’s a narrower 10% gap. That’s not much really considering most men get married a bit older by choice
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 10:02 PM
2

That’s actually not true, research has found men and women all hunted and they see this in indigenous tribes around the world currently.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:37 AM
1

I think it would be a yellow flag, it wouldn’t be an automatic no, but you also learn a lot dating about communication what you want etc. I would be concerned that the relationship wouldn’t last and at 24 I was thinking about marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:30 AM
0

Nope, never
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:28 AM
0

We’re not crying wolf a lot of us get really negative messages about our bodies as well. Here’s the thing you are comparing apples and oranges. Sure I guess most woman could walk into a bar and find a man to sleep with, but while some women enjoy ONS, most don’t. The goal for most women is to find a relationship which is harder than just sleeping around. See you’re taking a male motivation and tacking it into woman and saying why are they complaining? And the simple answer is because that’s not …
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 09:07 PM
0

You’re misinterpreting the statistic, 63% of men 18-29 are single, it plummets in the next age group to 25%. Men get married when they’re a bit older than women. Overall in all adults it’s about the same percentage which makes sense
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 09:03 PM
2

It depends, there’s no set advice for everyone. My husband and I were together for 5 years before we got married. Met at 21, it was important to him to finish school first and he went back to college about 6 months after we met. We’ve been married 11 years now. We talked about marriage early though so we had a plan all along. It wasn’t as if we never talked about it.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/23 06:16 PM
1

It would help, this won’t help.
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 03:49 PM
1

I’m sure being alone is very hard, I’m not trying diminish that. I do think that these communities are dangerous. The black pill stuff is a perfect example, being associated with these people will not help you draw a mate. It will make you bitter and worse off. Get out of these communities, go find things you enjoy and be open and I truly believe you’ll find someone.
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 02:03 PM
0

When you blame all your problems on women that’s unattractive. I’ve only been here a few days and I saw comment saying that, it was taken down, still that’s the people commenting here. I absolutely can sense abusive men, which is why I’m not in a relationship with one.
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 01:43 PM
1

Ok, so what’s the problem?
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 01:41 PM
-1

These forums are the only place I’ve seen men talking about imprisoning women for their pleasure when they’re under 18 and virgins so ya that’s scary and gross. A lot of the attitudes here are just hatred towards women and you all crying about not being able to attract one. Of course you can’t attract one, we can feel your bitter hatred a mile away. The attitudes here are wildly unattractive.
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 01:27 PM
0

That’s illogical, use your brain. You’re saying any men that are with women hurt their partners and the only reason incels aren’t is because they can’t get near women? That’s such a weird take, it doesn’t make sense
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 01:10 PM
1

20% of men having half of the sex is a wildly different stat than only 10% of men having sex, you get that right?
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 01:08 PM
1

That logic is whoa, crazy frankly. You’re assuming all the men having children are abusing their partners. Why? Where are you getting that from? Are you 12?
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 01:03 PM
1

I don’t understand all of your thinking and I’m really trying. It sounds like your down talking normal guys, “normie providers”, but you all also say only 10% of men are getting laid and women only like looks and they’re only sleeping with the top. It can’t be both right? Which is it? What’s the issue here?
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 11:44 AM
-1

You’re misinterpreting this data, but lucky for us I have a background in research so I can help out. 32% of men are single, that’s not most and it’s close to the percentage of women at 28% (and this difference is accounted for because women live longer so there are a lot more single women in the 65plus category) The 63% of single men you see is young men ages 18-29, that’s because the average age for men to marry is older than women. So you’ll see the percentage of single men plummets in the ne…
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 03:54 AM
0

That’s gotta be it, I mean I guess it’s just a bunch of guys alone in their basements saying this trash. It’s sad because if they could be objective maybe they could change some things and actually get laid, but no they want to think it’s everyone else’s fault and everyone is in a bad place like them. The reality is, we’re not.
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 01:30 AM
1

My reading comprehension? 😂 That’s hysterical actually, especially since in that rambling post your grammar is incorrect for the majority of it. Sure though if that makes you feel better keep thinking everyone is wrong and inferior and you aren’t the problem, let’s see how that works out for you…
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 01:28 AM
-1

Men mostly aren’t sleeping with hookers, they’re in relationships. I’m not saying there isn’t a group of men having a hard time, I believe that. But thinking only 10% of men are sleeping with women is sooo sooo off base. It’s trying to make it feel normal that you’re having a hard time and I understand that compulsion, that’s very human. It’s not the norm though, it doesn’t mean you’re a bad person or anything, it’s just your reality unfortunately.
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 01:25 AM
-4

Sounds like true love, enjoy
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 06:56 PM
1

I think you missed the point of the show. The entire thing is about how terrible and vile extreme religious regimes are. No woman is watching that and thinking sign me up! Plus in that system a lot of men miss out too, the top men or commanders literally hoard all the women and children. It’s what you all complain about now and think is happening. I’m not sure how you could watch that and think, wow this looks swell, sign me up! 🫣
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 06:42 PM
-1

This forum is scary, but the good news is I don’t think many of these guys are procreating so I suppose evolution will have the last say after all.
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 06:34 PM
-8

You really think only the top 10% of men and who knows how you define that, are the only ones having sex? Is that how you all feel better about yourselves?
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 06:33 PM
0

Right because that’s going to work so well for you 🙄 Let me take a guess, you’re single? Or dead bedroom perhaps? Well my emotionally available man gets to fuck me however he pleases and I love every minute of it.
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 06:32 PM
0

I didn’t see a point to the post or I would have responded to it, just a bunch of drivel
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 02:27 PM
1

That’s not what you said though is it 🧐
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 01:56 PM
8

Michael Phelps lifted weights. Most top athletes do of all sports to build the right muscles for their sport. He’s definitely so lean from burning so many calories that’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:44 PM
4

I mean he’s an Olympian of course he does other training. But to put up a photo of the greatest swimmer of all time and maybe greatest athlete of all time and say all women think men should look like this is silly. No we don’t. I’m sure as hell not the greatest athlete of all time why would I expect my partner to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:19 PM
1

False been with my husband 16 years, made me cum 3 times last night. If you invest in learning your partner’s desires and they orgasm over and over, they won’t lose interest, I promise.
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 01:08 PM
1

I can definitely see this in past generations. I do see a much better job today with how my friends who are mothers speak to their sons. It seems like they spend a lot more time talking about emotions then I heard when I was growing up.
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 11:07 AM
2

Casual sex doesn’t appeal to me at all. In my experience sex is great when you can be vulnerable and open and I just couldn’t do that with someone I didn’t know.
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 11:02 AM
1

You need people to talk to about your going through in life. That helps you process and cope. For example my husband has a degenerative autoimmune disease, it was a very tough time when he was diagnosed both physically and emotionally. I helped him and he as his full time caregiver, but he would have benefited if he had a group of friends to help and lift him up as well. I was really his only support system for a while and as much as I tried to help it seemed like he needed more. Plus there were…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 11:00 AM
0

Huh? I was saying we care about personalities. My husband is 5 8 and he doesn’t have a chiseled jaw line, but I do love his beard. I thought he was cute when I saw his photo online but that doesn’t keep you together for 16 years. Intelligence is hugely important to me, and with that he has a quick wit that makes spending time together fun and entertaining.
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 10:56 AM
1

Not at all, everyone has preferences of course, but I have friends who almost only date south Asian men.
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 02:09 AM
0

The pink cat hats have nothing to do with promiscuity. It’s because trump said he’d grab women by the pussy. They aren’t wearing those hats to draw attention to their sexuality. Is that what you thought? 😂
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 02:07 AM
0

Yes we do
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 02:04 AM
3

I’ll tell you the truth. What status do I have to gain here? It’s anonymous. I’ve never had a one night stand. I’ve been with one person, my husband. We didn’t wait until marriage, I just wanted to wait until I loved someone and felt safe with them. We’ve had great sex and bad sex, because well it’s been 16 years now. It took about 5 years for us to really get in sync sexually, not that it was bad before, but I didn’t orgasm at first. I think a lot of that is because I was in my head and overthi…
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 02:00 AM
1

No, we can build success together as partners. You think I picked my husband because he was successful? We were 21 how successful could we possibly be? We were both motivated and willing to work as a team.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:52 AM
1

You all are so focused on height because it’s something you can’t change. It’s easier to blame your lot in life on something that’s out of your hands. My husband and i are both 5 8, my dad is 4 inches shorter than my mom. I know plenty of married men under 6 feet, most of them honestly because not that many guys are over 6 feet
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 01:41 AM
-1

Finished product? What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:15 AM
0

Oh no, more talking about emotions please. We’re talking about largely picking up after you, putting your things away, that sort of thing. Also emotional outbursts instead of talking about something when it starts bothering you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:14 AM
1

Replacing a tires is probably easier than using that stuff because you need some soapy water usually to find the hole which you probably don’t have on hand in an emergency, plus it only works for small leaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:50 PM
2

It’s crazy easy, jack up car, unscrew lugnuts, switch tires, screw on lugnuts, lower car
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:46 PM
1

Hmm, I haven’t felt it with any man, just men I’m actively dating or now just my husband, but yes I agree not the same. Friendships are important though. I do think having an active interesting life in general is probably attractive to both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:20 PM
2

I’m just saying every relationship I’ve seen looks more like what the women report and so I’m inclined to believe that’s accurate. Plus, there’s other studies that support the claim that women do more housework then men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:17 PM
1

I agree with you it’s definitely not the same hugging a friend. Sure, it’s fills a different social void, but not the same. I do think the comment you’re replying to saying men don’t need an emotional connection is false for most men, those warm and fuzzies you’re talking about are part of the emotional connection, that’s not pure sexual energy. I will say though, my husband doesn’t have a big social circle and it’s put strain on our marriage at times. I don’t have a huge circle but I have frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:11 PM
7

I feel like the guys here do not understand that. Women today are looking for a partner, not a project or a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:05 PM
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It’s very true, we both do. He just sent me a picture of lipstick that I left on his thigh last night. Look we’ve had tough periods, it’s 16 years, getting close to half my life, but you can absolutely be in love for a lifetime. I do believe keeping intimacy going in a marriage is important, and we’ve had periods of illness, depression, etc when that part was difficult. You keep working and you find each other again. Through all that sure there’s transactional stuff I guess like I frankly hate d…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:00 PM
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It’s really sad you feel this way and I hope you find love one day. My husband and I have been together for 16 years, still absolutely in love. I still feel light headed when he touches me, we are best friends, we’re there for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:49 PM
3

Mhm what? You don’t think changing a flat is easy? 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:43 PM
3

Ya even before I had a farm I was very handy. I’ve always liked doing things with my hands whether that’s carpentry or knitting
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:42 PM
4

Just an example I gave about my dad. All of the men in my life friends and family overestimate or flat out refuse to do housework. I can think of one that does about half, but he also “babysits” his own kids so there’s that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:41 PM
3

Even if you’d never done it before, any gender, YouTube. And it’s so easy, hardest thing is getting the lug nuts off if they’ve frozen up, which I have had happen once, but basically it’s just jack up car, unscrew lugnuts, take off wheel, put on wheel, screw on lugnuts, lower car. Easy peasy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 12:52 PM
7

Are you married or living with a partner? If so how is the workload split up? If not how about your parents or your friends? Who does what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 12:27 PM
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I think maybe they’re lying to themselves and or don’t realize how much work it is running a home. Most couples don’t sit down and talk about the workload, it’s just assumed that women take care of it. I think a lot of men also think mowing the lawn once a week evens things out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 12:25 PM
3

I absolutely believe women on this one, because I am one and literally every man I know does less housework and some would say it’s even. My dad probably would say it’s even, it’s not. Now he does put his dishes in the dishwasher my mom emptied, but that’s about it. He’s pretty tidy and puts his things away, but doesn’t do any laundry, no actual cleaning like the bathrooms, floors, windows etc, and they have someone that mows, he does a bit of cooking but my mom does most and he occasionally goe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:57 AM
4

Not in my experience, but I’m 37. I lost my virginity at 21 to my husband who I married a few years after.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:37 AM
4

Do you really know any households where men do equal or more housework? I don’t. Not one. I know plenty of women that can change a tire 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:34 AM
3

All of my friends have changed flats at some point, I think it’s hysterical men here keep claiming it as some super macho thing women can’t possibly do. It’s incredibly easy. If that’s the big macho task to assert dominance over women, it’s kind of funny honestly 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:31 AM
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People keep bringing up changing a flat as example. Do people really believe women can’t change a flat? It’s not that hard. Every one of my friends has changed a flat at some point. Personally I’m very handy, much more so than most men I know, but I run a farm so I get I’m not the norm, but it’s tiring this idea that poor little women never do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:26 AM
1

I care about looks but probably not in the way you think. I’ve found something I find very attractive with all of the men I’ve dated but they’re different. I wasn’t looking for a certain type if that makes sense. I’m wildly attracted to intelligence, if you’re the smartest person in the room that easily overrides other preferences for me. I’m married, my husband is the smartest man I’ve ever dated, very quick witted which is hot, wide broad hands which drive me wild, the cutest dimples, a perfec…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 12:27 AM
1

I disagree, I’ve dated a wide variety of men with different physical attributes. My main thing I’m attracted to is intelligence. I’ve been that way as long as I can remember. I always had a crush on the smartest boy in class and usually we were competing for that top spot in class and that’s what I liked. This meant I had crushes and dated tall guys, short, different skin tones, thin, big, all the things really. My husband and I are the same height, I don’t care at all, didn’t even realize peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:25 PM
1

Right because no women have been raped and murdered 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:15 PM
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