GetDatAdvice Archive

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2	Regrets? Thank you for the encouragement. I have been pursuing divorce on and off for 3 years, and I’ve always been curious about the possibility of regret.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/04/21 12:58 AM
5	Self filing for divorce I believe some folks think they’ll get screwed over if they don’t have a lawyer involved. It makes sense, divorce is a complicated process. Maybe see if your wife is willing to pick a mediator (not a lawyer) that you can see? Tell your wife that any money that goes to a lawyer won’t go to her in alimony, and that lawyers will intentionally take much longer to make more money. A mediator will make things easier, much cheaper, and faster.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/02/21 06:27 PM
3	Self filing for divorce I don’t have any experience, but I have done some research. I’ve heard/read that mediators are the best option if you and your spouse are able to agree on terms. I believe your county should have designated mediators. You can meet with your spouse and the mediator, set expectations, figure out asset distribution, and get help with paperwork. As far as splitting up assets, try to make a list of everything that will need to be distributed. You can group things together like “half the silverware” o…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/02/21 06:19 PM