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In a traditional home, women would carry the mental load of managing a house / kids etc, this is still acknowledged today. Men carry the emotional weight of the relationship. There is an expectation to take on your partners problems without complaint, to set aside your emotions for your partner, to perform all the time and be emotionally available all the time etc On top of the emotional weight there is the expectation to provide, to lead and to be the safe space for the family. It isn’t acknowl…
/r/MensRights15/05/25 10:22 AM
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Thank you sir ! They are out there man, I know I got really really lucky so it will probably seem easy for me to say. But keep putting that work in on yourself so that when the right lady comes along you will be ready !
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:37 AM
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My wife and I waited ( ie we ate both religious). We met in uni and dated almost 7 years before getting married. It was VERY difficult, but we stuck to the task. Now that we married, I can confidently say it was the best decision we made for our relationship. Instead of taking the easy way out (sex), we learnt how to communicate respectfully and appropriately during disagreements, and we learnt to figure problems out all the way through instead of a quick method of making up. Sex creates marriag…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:21 AM
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Everybody has their own tastes 🙌🏽 and we are entitled to them ! I think the main issue guys have with a masculine woman is the constant arguing and attitude that comes along with it. It’s a headache. As well as the fact that guys just generally aren’t romantically attracted to masculine qualities. Like a good comedian once said, “ that’s my favourite thing about women, that she’s not a dude “. To your points specifically though, being strong isn’t the gym is great ! Being able to squat heavy doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:28 AM
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I think from what I’ve seen, it’s mostly that these ladies tend to expect the same treatment as the ladies who covet and respect their body at a higher standard. Men are allowed to have standards, and if most men have a preference for their partner to have a low body count they shouldn’t be shamed for it. However some ladies think they can just behave however they like and have no consequences. It’s not a “ phase “, it’s your character, and unfortunately sleeping around is a sign of poor charact…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:46 AM
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Not being open to other peoples perspectives on life / never thinks they are in the wrong. Treating less fortunate individuals poorly or treating service staff poorly. Not being able to communicate about real life issues and events. Social media and reality TV should not be the baseline of your knowledge. Not having basic adult life skills. Every adult should be able to cook, clean up after yourself and look after the space around you. ( yes I am a male big surprise 😂 I do have some slight OCD a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:45 AM
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Very simple solution for both genders. CHOOSE WISELY. Problem solved
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:33 AM
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Like most things in life, it’s unhealthy on the extreme end. I think there are definitely good aspects of it like encouraging self improvement and accountability, but assuming that women are just manipulative individuals and are only good for certain things is immensely unhealthy for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:29 AM
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In my experience, approaching life in that manner doesn’t result in success for men. I’m not saying it’s bad, but the reality is it doesn’t produce results, and men live in a results / performance based reality
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 07:24 PM
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It’s very rarely platonic in my experience. If somebody would engage in sex with their friend then it’s not platonic unfortunately. Which means it’s a bit disrespectful to your partner. Always exceptions though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 09:52 AM
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My lady has been with me from when I had nothing. When I had nothing to give her in terms of materialistic things. And what a lovely lady she is, very beautiful and accomplished. I am truly lucky and can say there are ladies out there who will love you for who you are as a person, not what you can give them. And in return for her loving me while having nothing, I would truly lay my life down for her if need be and will go to any lengths to give her what she deserves
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:18 PM
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Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:14 PM
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All those lads do are moan and complain. Not much constructive conversation going on there in my brief visit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 05:24 AM
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How else would you know what to look for ? Before I met my fiancé there were certain things I wouldn’t negotiate on in terms of what I want in a partner ( realistic of course ). I knew after a few months this was the lady I was going to marry because she displayed all the things I was looking for. But had I not thought about it beforehand this would not have been as clear
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:39 PM
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Unfortunately if this is the perspective you take then you don’t have much ground to stand on and complain about relationship dynamics. Because unfortunately until you can think long term about a relationship with a goal in mind with a positive mindset, then any relationship you have now or in the future won’t bear much fruit consistently. All the best 🙌🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:31 PM
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Thank you so much ! I really appreciate that 🙌🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:59 AM
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I completely understand there are bad apples. I have been dating my fiancé for 6 years. Didn’t have sex once. We still have a ton of intimacy and our relationship from a mental and emotional standpoint is rock solid. However when we met each other we asked the right questions from the start and didn’t give up on each other. And I can safely say it’s been so worth it. And when she is my wife both of us will each have a body count of 1. I will be solely here and she will be solely mine. And that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:10 AM
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Well how’s about waiting till you are engaged ? Or even better married ?? I am a male and I’ve waited, currently engaged. It’s not that difficult, just need to have some discipline
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:56 AM
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It’s speaks to the respect you have for your one day husband ( should that be what you want ) as well as yourself. Unfortunately sleeping around is just poor behaviour that shows a lack of respect for yourself and your future spouse. Further to this men are allowed to have preferences just like women have their absolute laundry list of requirements. If this is the majority preference then it is what it is, same as how women want 6ft+ etc. I apologise if this response is a bit blunt but I think I…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:01 AM
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I am waiting for marriage, am currently engaged to my lady of 6 years 🙌🏽 I chose to wait for religious reasons, but there are many benefits to waiting that exclude any religious substance. Biggest one is our relationship is immensely strong from a mental and emotional standpoint. We learnt communication and our minds / emotions before we learn our bodies. We learnt to persevere through conflict without a sexual bond holding us together. We learnt to just enjoy each other’s company, we have no is…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:21 PM
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Multiple reasons for this. First and foremost men don’t have the natural instincts that women have when it comes to parenting and nurturing. And women don’t have the same natural instincts as men when it comes to protection and provision. Natural order and logic kind of prevails here. Secondly in modern dating, the lady providing for the family and her man is a one way street to absolute disaster. The man will receive no respect from his lady and resentment will grow on both sides. There will al…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:23 PM
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A doormat sounds quite boring, definitely not what men want. Everybody is entitled to their own individuality and opinions, but no man wants nagging and complaints all the time. And I always find it immensely funny when men tell women their PREFERENCES, the women immediately get an attitude. I am allowed to have preferences just like you. If you don’t like it that’s unfortunate. I’m just telling you the truth of what most men would prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:17 PM
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All very sound observations Typically these career driven ladies have to adopt very masculine traits to succeed in the workplace and climb the corporate ladder, inevitably these masculine traits come back home and will create conflict. A hard working man wants to come home to peace and his loving wife, that’s most men’s preference. Last thing we want is to come home to constant disagreements / criticism / overly questioning, and typically these career driven masculine ladies create this kind of …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 10:57 AM
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It’s not about contributing the bare minimum, I by no means agree with that. But expecting a romance movie like performance from a man on a long term consistent basis is immensely unrealistic. And not a lot of ladies seems to realise this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:49 PM
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I’m glad to hear that ! This will however make you part of the exception rather than the rule 🤷🏽‍♂️ at least in my experience it does !
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 09:21 AM
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I must slightly disagree with you here. I definitely agree that pornography is damaging, that is not negotiable and I would encourage anybody not to engage with it. However romance novels / movies are immensely damaging as well, it’s just more acceptable from a societal standpoint. It places an immense amount of pressure on men to be PERFECT 24/7. No human has the capacity to be 100% understanding / patient / extensively romantic at all times. I can personally say in my experience that this genr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 09:08 AM
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Something thoughtful. It really doesn’t need to be big. If she bought me a cup of coffee or we watched a movie I like etc. Not about the price tag, it’s about showing that you are observant of your partner and know what gestures they appreciate
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:02 PM
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As a South African, I must admit the violence against women here is astounding, South Africa is actually known as the rape capital of the world unfortunately. As sad as that is, I don’t think it justifies the usual media manipulation and the fact that these false allegation occurrences are very rarely reported, if at all. And there certainly wouldn’t be a thought of any sort of punishment for this kind of action due to the backlash from the general society
/r/MensRights25/11/22 03:55 PM
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I am for everyone having the right to choose. Should people want to be promiscuous they are allowed to make that choice. I think where we have fallen short as a society is the “ take responsibility for your actions “ part. Should people casually sleep around a lot, you are inadvertently treating yourself like a casual sexual partner. Which in turn doesn’t lead to a lot of self respect. If you can’t respect yourself, you can’t expect others to respect you, especially in a romantic sense. AKA cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:10 PM
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Where is all this accountability for women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 09:08 AM
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But then the general female populace expects the men to join in on all their hundreds of causes and perceived problems ? E.g. pay disparity in sports. Perpetually see females associated with the sport saying men must watch and that we are discriminating etc. Could easily just say what you said ? why don’t the women just go watch them, then the revenue generated increases, leads to higher pay ? But that isn’t the case, both sides need to cooperate to solve these issues, and by not acknowledging t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:56 AM
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Personally, I think both men and women should place more emphasis on maintaining a low body count. If you view some sexual encounters as casual, you are inadvertently viewing yourself as a casual sexual partner, it’s not a sign of high respect for yourself. The normalising of promiscuity has destroyed the dating market and romantic dynamics. As much as sex is a need for majority of the human population, I am certain we are capable of more discipline than we are currently portraying, life cannot …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:33 AM
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Gentlemen, I see a trend of despair and scepticism, and I think based on what I’ve seen it’s warranted to a degree. I want to say there is still hope lads. I am coming up on 6 years with my lady, we recently got engaged. She is my best friend and an absolute joy in my life. She is graceful, lady like, immensely intelligent, a virgin ( we are both waiting for marriage )stunningly beautiful and really has such a genuine heart, a woman straight out of my dreams to be honest. There are some amazing …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:06 AM
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“ A key that can open many locks is a master key … A lock opened by many keys is a poor lock …”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:12 AM
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