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What am i missing from the sidebar.. I've read it, i've read almost all of it twice! I'm trying my best to learn, But failing sometimes is part of it and seeking help is a way to learn also.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 10:18 PM
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That is my next move, But I'm taking things slowly. Saw you added more But i have read the sidebar, I'm still learning this, since 8 days ago i just came out LTR, But that is no excuse for me i know . But why is it so wrong for saying i was sorry for her for how they treated her ?
/r/askTRP18/11/17 04:33 PM
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Yes, 9 months. other guys find her hot but i find her annoying as hell. that annoying that i wouldn't even fuck her. The reason is she wants a partner, she isn't looking for random sex, but yet she is so stupid that one man 34 showed her interest, took her out, HAD her pay for her meal, called her a bitch on the first date, yet she fucked him and then apparently started to annoy him and he left. She was shocked that he left and started to put the drama shit on me but i ignored it.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 04:08 PM
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there are many threads of conversation that allow a move in less than ten minutes. Can you hit me up with a link? i didn't find anything.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 06:14 PM
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I’m saving this! 10/10
/r/askTRP17/11/17 12:03 AM
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That's a red flag, Next.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 04:58 PM
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touching, neck kissing, dirty talking.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 04:35 PM
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Depends, Alone with them? But i'm gonna say she's liking the attention from them and soon it will lead up to cheating. But i'm new so don't mind me, still learning.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 04:32 PM
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Trickle truth right? Still learning if i would have pressed her then slowly i would find more and more right?
/r/askTRP09/11/17 10:52 PM
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NC it is, But bad news are i’ll be bumping in to her from time to time, we live close.. but i’ll still walk the road of unknown rather than take her back.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 10:49 PM
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Carole montgomery? If so i’m listening to it now thank you.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 10:48 PM
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This is what shocked me so much why she did it in the first place knowing i was too weak to leave thats shitty! But this is something is myself to blame for not figuring this out earlier.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 10:47 PM
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Thanks man, Wish you the best! And about blaming somewhere in the comments i said that i was also responsible for this due not putting boundaries,,being weak and loosing frame, I created this mess on my self almost, This wouldn’t have gone this bad if i would have sticked up for myself. But it’s a mistake i’ll learn from
/r/askTRP09/11/17 10:45 PM
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I understand what your saying, But looking at the list the cons are higher than pro. i'm still wired i know but time and being busy will help me putting thoughts away. I can do this have faith in me! I kept myself busy today, also tried to plan the day tomorrow and friday, I'm actually meeting a female friend that i haven't seen for 4 years on Friday.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 09:12 PM
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That's something i forgot to do, Glad you told me to do that, maybe she'll try contact through them too.. she actually has send 7 texts messages from unknown number which i blocked.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 09:09 PM
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Both done, but our mutual friend is not to be trusted too much. Since she could talk about me to my ex.. Or something. But i explained the situation and everything she understood.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 09:07 PM
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Thank you, I will never go back to her, I'm not ready for relationship and i never was., I'm a wreck right now and honestly been for long time. I need to focus on myself and get myself together first.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 09:06 PM
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Thank you, Now it's time for fresh start to build myself up. learn to have boundaries and a lot more!
/r/askTRP08/11/17 09:05 PM
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I see that's actually very smart, thank you!
/r/askTRP08/11/17 09:04 PM
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Crying works wonders, That's why i had to leave otherwise it would have worked on me. By the meaning "mean" it's just something that i felt, now hopefully with time "mean" turns to normal boundary.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 09:00 PM
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Yes i hope so, It's pretty obvious that she was up to something, soon my head will open up and it will be How was i so blind?
/r/askTRP08/11/17 08:57 PM
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Haha when i read Chad me i thought of This Sounds like your doing great right now! When inviting them to movie only it sounds more like you´ll end up in friendzone? I'm pretty new to this or is this an trick?
/r/askTRP08/11/17 05:08 PM
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Fuck man, my guts didn't say anything to me, the love i'm used to is being treated like this from my mother. So it was/is the only love i know..
/r/askTRP08/11/17 05:02 PM
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Thank you, If the guys weren't so honest in the other post, I would have not ended it. the sidebar helped also, Making a list of Pros and Cons helped way more, I saw it clearly how bad the relationship was.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 05:00 PM
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What do you mean ruin me?
/r/askTRP08/11/17 04:58 PM
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I feel sorry for you man, I don't know the feeling of being cheated on is. But i can imagine that mine was doing it. I'm pretty lucky it's Wednesday since, It's the day new people can come and listen and share stories about their childhood life and get help. (12 steps)
/r/askTRP08/11/17 04:57 PM
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I made a list over the night of Pros and Cons, And i still read my old post to remind myself why i ended it. I won't fail, I can't. Because this relationship was destructive and toxic.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 04:51 PM
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Thank you, how did you do after you found TRP? I ended mine just before work to help myself focusing on something else so i wouldn't fall back on calling her or texting.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 04:48 PM
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I wish i found it sooner, The guys here are helpful and honest i like it. I stayed for too long though. Thanx and i wish you the best too.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 04:46 PM
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It’s the only kind of love you’ve known so you were naturally attracted to your ex. This actually brought tears to my eyes. When reading this it makes a lot of sense why i stayed with her for so long, She mirrors my own mother, the love i know from her is being treated like shit, being called names, threatened and emotional abused. That wasn't love and i really don't even know the feeling of being loved by someone. Yes it came as i was questioning everything but i wasn't. it was the other way ar…
/r/askTRP08/11/17 04:46 PM
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Thank you, It shocked me that she did know that she was treating me like shit. It was my own fault for not putting boundaries or be a man enough. I felt mean about doing this, But it was for my own good. I know i wasn't mean but her crying made me feel mean and a bad person.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 04:38 PM
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Yeah the reason i did this before work was to help keep my mind of her. Now that i'm done working and home i'm now thinking about her, But what helps me not to think about going back to her is to have the other thread and a note which i wrote the pros and cons of being with her in front of me. Time will heal, I have a problems that myself need to work on right now, I didn't realize it that she wasn't the only problem i was a problem to being to weak to set boundaries to step up for myself. Now i…
/r/askTRP08/11/17 04:36 PM
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Thank you very much, The people here in my other thread burned this in my head, that a complete stranger could say all this that they did in the other thread was shocking, They aren't our friends or anything and if they can see this was bad, everybody can but people are often too afraid to step up and say it. She won't ever change i know that, Her words don't mean anything it's her action that does. Somewhere early 2017 she lost the attraction to me, maybe because i was weak (still am obviously)…
/r/askTRP08/11/17 04:33 PM
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I'm also pretty sure she was, But i was living in denial because she wasn't that type of girl. I still actually am in denial, but now this is over and it's time for a fresh start.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 04:30 PM
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I'm trying my best, The reason i did this before work was to get my mind of thinking Was this the right thing to do? I can be honest and say i'm tempted, But it's just gonna end up the same as always. Sidebar has been read or at least most of it, Will finish it soon.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 04:29 PM
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that's what other people say too, I just haven't caught her yet. But now i don't need too, Now i just need my balls back and end this.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 09:35 PM
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Hard to face the truth, But yes she is a liar, cheater? well compared how she is and acts. after reading some of the sidebar, yes a cheater too.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 09:34 PM
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I think's boundaries is too late now, She won't look at me the same, I'd rather leave i think. She won't change. But i can change and i'm ready for it. I'll look at submitted posts by both of them, since they both are pretty respectful here and share knowledge.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 09:33 PM
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Yes i did, But i'm gonna use this account. I'm gonna admit i'm weak, I'm a PUSSY. I got NO spine. Well she many times tells me not to do something or go somewhere and i´ll say That's not something you can control and i'll go there and do it. But that's rare, This happens almost always when it comes to clubbing or where it involves girls.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 09:31 PM
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Thank you very much for this, I guess i can admit to myself i'm weak not nice, though i´m also nice but also too weak. I need to get myself together and start focusing on myself more, Leave her and start from the beginning.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 09:26 PM
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I got a lot of shit to fix, Which i'm working on right now, I´m in the middle of reading the sidebar. Yes she did. Just wants to branch swing meaning meeting other guy or something right ?
/r/askTRP07/11/17 09:25 PM
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