Gh0stFight Archive

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4	Did you any of you guys benefit from therapy post divorce? A good therapist can work wonders. At the very least it's someone you can info dump everything that's troubling you so you don't unintentionally burnout friends and family like I did at one point during my divorce.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/12/24 10:03 PM
10	My wife is leaving me I remember this feeling. I remember wanting advice that would help me feel okay again. This is going to take time to accept and move on. And like others have said, you have to focus on yourself. If you're not in therapy please consider going. It will help having an outside perspective on your experience. And you will have someone you can process everything with so you're not dumping everything on friends and family. They are a great support system, but if you're experience is like mine people wi…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/10/24 09:49 PM
5	Weight loss after being blindsided Separation started in January and I immediately lost 30 lbs. in less than 2 months. I’ve lost 10 more since then and have maintained my current weight. Down to a 32 waist which hasn’t been a thing since HS. I could probably keep dropping weight but finalizing the divorce has wrecked my energy lately. I can tell it drives her nuts because my health and weight were an issue throughout the marriage. And while I’m losing weight she gained 20 lbs. Our kids have begged us to have family time and they …	/r/Divorce_Men	10/08/24 01:28 AM