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Question For WomenGh0sttttttt/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 11:47 PM
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It’s not even just fitness though. Good grooming and basic fashion sense goes a long way… I saw a guy wearing a dress shirt with basketball shorts???? Like how is that supposed to be a good combo lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 11:33 AM
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I think expectations only really occur once a exclusive relationship is formed? Like I would expect anyone from just a casual date but if im in a relationship with someone I would like to talk when hanging out but not for too long because I just dont have energy for an all day conversation lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 01:15 AM
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Fun time talking with???? I would want a fun time playing games or doing some sort of thing together like Legos but just to sit around and talk? That sounds boring to do alone but while doing activities conversation should naturally arise
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 01:09 AM
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I feel the same way!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 01:02 AM
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For me someone who is quiet and also Introverted but passionate about the relationship would be good enough. Going out and long mushy phone calls gets exhausting. I think my love langauge just involves hanging out quietly lmao. Hopefully I can meet someone like this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 01:00 AM
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Non talkative but passionate would be great because im quite introverted and not clingy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 12:54 AM
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*Introverted, like me *able to do basic chores and take care of themselves(cook/clean, not asking for a chef but asking for a man that has basic kitchen literacy) *willing to learn about my culture *also wants to become homeowners *honest, doesn't cheat *same sense of humor *my height or taller (im 5'2 so shouldn't be terribly hard to beat😭) *emotionally mature, able to properly express emotions and communicate about needs and wants *shared bedroom interest ;) *wants to have a family (no more th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 03:38 PM
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I'm very young so maybe my opinion will change in the future but I would say no unless they were widowed, I would like to avoid all baby momma drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 03:32 PM
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It wouldn't bother me. I think its good to be a father and stick around. I dont believe in sharing finances in relationships (unless emergency) so I'm okay with separate bank accounts. Tbh you halfway described my dream relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:00 AM
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I mean I think the best thing would be to only pursue marriage if you absolutely don't see yourself leaving the relationship. My fear was divorce and infidelity. I wish people took marriage more seriously... Edit:just realized you asked what men can do in the early stages of a relationship at 3-6 months. I think the best thing to do during that time is to just get to know your partner and make them feel safe physically and emotionally. Hope that helps!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 09:16 PM
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I fear having a good relationship then getting married and having kids just to be cheated on. There is a huge stigma around single mothers and im terrified of becoming one. So I guess I fear infidelity, and divorce. I've never had a separate parent thing growing up but almost all my friends had divorced parents and it just seems like extra work to co parent in separate homes. Tbh if I had to get a divorce I would want some sort of agreement to still live in a (large) home together so it feels mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 08:44 PM
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I haven't dealt with any violence but I did get stalked once, got cornered at school once, but mostly they just say mean/creepy things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 06:47 AM
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Yes!exactly that. But I have no idea why it became known as the dad bod
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 03:12 AM
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Absolutely agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 02:40 AM
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Ew no beer belly. Its more of an average body type not super muscley but not boney skinny. Example would be the first guy with sunglasses and floral swimtrunks below https://www.nydailynews.com/life-style/women-lusting-dudes-dad-bod-article-1.2214449?outputType=amp
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 02:03 AM
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Nope I like average muscle and dad body types
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 02:00 AM
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I think the best thing is go for shorter women. I have a friend who is 4'8 and her boyfriend is 5'3, they're super cute. Personally, I just want a guy who is might height or a bit taller he doesn't need to be a giant 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 01:41 AM
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I definitely agree that most of the guys who do treat women badly are good with getting women in bed but bad at the whole long term relationship. I do think the blame for that is 50/50 like women should do their best to properly vet a guy, but there are also sneaky men who try to act like the nice guy to lure you into the bedroom just to end up being a dick too. Also what would be the traditional values you'd want in a relationship with a woman? And yes women are a protected class but I think it…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 12:33 AM
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Oh I've always known that, because I grew up military and ended up in neighborhoods that were mixed with a little bit of everything so it was easy to explore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 09:12 PM
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Yeah I figured this whole sub praises a virgin woman 😩 my n count is 3 and this sub makes me feel like I did something wrong :/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 09:06 PM
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I dont think everyone wants to limit themselves to dating within their own race so why should we? Instead people should get over the negative stereotypes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 09:05 PM
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Id marry him on spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 09:04 PM
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What is considered a high N count in this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 09:03 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 09:02 PM
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I mean black people have emotions too. We want stable long term relationships not everyone is about sex all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 09:01 PM
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I mean I think a lot of women wouldn't mind a traditional relationship as long as its not forced and they're not being treated as subhuman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 09:00 PM
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Even then most people like black men for appearance and sex barely for legitimate long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 08:59 PM
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Wtf. Blacks are not doing better in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 08:54 PM
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Aside from what other commenter have said, I think its nice women take care of their appearance and actually care how they look. Shouldnt men also want to look nice?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 05:58 AM
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Agreed. I kinda wish it was that transparent but at the same time I dont know if that would change anything for me in a positive way. I think I would end up avoiding everyone with a double digit N count 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:06 AM
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It sounds like a peaceful way of life but I think I wouldn't fit in their community they seem conservative and don't regularly use technology and I absolutely love video games😩😭
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:03 AM
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No like literally there's not many indigenous people in my state 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 01:59 AM
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I've always found indigenous people attractive, unfortunately there isn't many in my area :(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:20 AM
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Wait... men play dumb so we do more cooking?😩😭 its genius! I regret cooking so many meals for my ex now
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 02:28 AM
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I like it because its average. Im personally not into boney skinny people but I also dont like morbidly obese with mobility issues. Plus most guys with dad bods are a bit muscular once you see them flex which I like because I'm not into the body builder type either. It just checks all my boxes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 11:57 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 12:56 AM
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Tbh I dont think I could even remember 700 people 😩 my brain would forget names at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 12:02 AM
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Woah thats like sleeping with 59 different people a month 😩 Also I think 30by 30 is pretty cool
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 11:59 PM
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Lying in any circumstance is usually a red flag anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 11:51 PM
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Like genuinely asked out? No. But guys telling me im attractive and wanting sex from me, all the time. Most of my Romantic relationships I've been the first to make the move.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 10:01 PM
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Eh I like men that are comfortable with themselves and willing ot have fun doing things even if its feminine. For example guys who won't wear pink because it's gay or something. I like men that don't iverthink their masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 03:12 AM
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Everyone has a different taste. My best friends boyfriend is really ugly to me and my ex boyfriend was attractive to me but she thinks he's ugly. Beauty is subjective. Let people just be happy and love who they want
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 04:32 PM
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I definitely like creative jobs but those typically don't pay well or are hard to get into so I guess I'll pick anything in the mental health or education field because it's what I like too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 04:33 AM
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basic cooking skills ( i get if everyone can't season but not burning or undercooking food isn't hard) know how to do their own laundry and clean good hygiene good sense of style ( idk if that counts as a physical thing) empathy cultural awareness/or willing to learn
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 04:30 AM
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