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| 7 | The Double Income No Kids TrapThis hypothetical guy is just an idiot. You skewed it so that the woman was the cause for all of his misfortunes or at the very least right behind him to nudge him into trouble after trouble. Steve put himself in an untenable and precarious situation irrespective of having a great or bad wife. If he wanted to have mobility he shouldn't of bought a 500K house in a shaky market. He should take into consideration most anybody (male or female) would be hesitant about leaving friends and family behin… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/14 07:40 PM |
| 1 | How do you talk to the police?Unless the police are trying to help you, you have nothing to gain and a lot to loose by talking to them and pleading your case in front of them "I'd like to speak with a lawyer." If you're having trouble with the police, that's all you need and should say. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 06:42 AM |
| 0 | Girls suckOr maybe these people just don't want to be friends with you. If you want honesty, then look at yourself as the source of the problem instead of ascribing the problem to women in general. At a certain point, if enough people don't like you, then it's probably something you are responsible for. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/14 03:27 PM |
| -1 | Modesty, how does it work?Not acting like a moron makes people like you... Gee, I wonder why that works. I sincerely hope you're lying about being a surgeon. You're too stupid to be cutting people open. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/14 02:55 PM |
| 0 | How does an alpha command respect from other men?Address the group of people first When he flicks you off just look at him impassively with a straight face, then look at and address the group with a joking-insult, something like, "Does anyone else think this is border-line retarded behavior?". If you can get a few laughs or smirks out of the crowd the guy will get embarrassed. Turn back to the guy and say something like, "I'm sorry, I didn't mean that, I know this is you at your best". If you can burn him in front of people he might just shut … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/14 04:31 PM |
| 37 | Successful Men in LTRs: how did you meet your SO and keep her loyal?Long story short, we were friends for many years and eventually the right combination of factors played out and we started dating. I don't keep her loyal, there isn't some trickery or manipulation I use. She is loyal partly because she is that type of person and partly because I actively try to be more than I was yesterday. The best way someone stays loyal to you is because they think you're a catch. That's the whole deal it's pretty straightforward. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/14 01:19 AM |
| 5 | Girlfriend going on month long tripYou should set boundries more through your behaviour than words. If you nevertheless feel the need to discuss boundaries, give a more positive perspective of your boundaries rather than a fearful one. I can see how I was misleading but my original, "if you cheat on me, then relationship is over. No exceptions" wasn't meant as something you should literally say. I meant it as just the general rule one should have and the essence of this should absolutely be relayed to an SO in a non-fearful way. … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/14 09:21 PM |
| 80 | Girlfriend going on month long tripWow, some terrible advice on here. Don't break up with her, that's stupid--as you pointed out it's only a month. Here's the fact of the matter though, you can't really do anything about what she will or will not do over there. Your best move is to not lay down any boundary other then what should be already established, "if you cheat on me, then relationship is over. No exceptions". If you skype her too often or get pouty and angry with her then all that will do is make her think you are a desper… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/14 05:13 PM |
| 1 | The fear of rejection: how do I overcome itA quick addendum: Meditation would increase mylenation or white matter in the brain. Of course, the neurons or grey matter would create different dendritic spines and correspondingly different and stronger synaptic connections for the area of the brain being utilized. So although it is accurate that things are changing with the grey matter, the real increase of a substance is the increase of white matter. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/14 02:03 PM |
| 2 | The fear of rejection: how do I overcome itOperate with the knowledge you're going to fail a lot at the start. If you change your mentality of success from, "I talked to this person and it went well" to simply, "I said a thing to this person" then it's alot easier to succede and this will help boost up your self esteem, confidence and social skills. This might be something as simple as smiling to a person walking towards you on the sidewalk or chatting to a cashier. Eventually, as you continue you're going to naturally become more extrov… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/14 05:49 AM |
| 12 | Beta lives with college girlfriend, AF ensues with a surprise twistMost people don't like you. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/14 04:45 AM |
| 2 | Will there ever be a girl that I can truly share my uncertainties or lack of confidence with? Without consequence?I guess you could say that. I know people use the term "frame" around here but I think that if you start to buy into the idea that "you need to maintain frame", then you're starting to cut yourself off as seeing the situation as something dynamic which requires you to act in a dynamic way in tandem. I don't think anyone who is truly good at something sees what they're doing as something static like "maintaing frame" implies. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/14 05:47 AM |
| 3 | Will there ever be a girl that I can truly share my uncertainties or lack of confidence with? Without consequence?Not in the way you are probably thinking about it. No one likes to see a person wallow in uncertainty and lack of confidence--even if that uncertainty is understandable. Whether that person is a friend, relative, SO; doesn't matter, you're selling youself very short in front of them. You can throw out your uncertainties in a detached way in the right setting. For example, if you accomplished something earlier and your SO remarks on your success; you can maintain your succesful composure and conf… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/14 05:24 AM |
| -1 | AWALT: GF that thinks 'porn is disgusting' except for the shemale / anal / pregnant gangbangs in her browser history.More like He's a dick who does what he wants at the expense of another person Contributed to forming a relationship which degraded to the point where he is unable to take what she says at face value If you leave your SO wanting because you can't satisfy them, then they're going to look for someone who can You're too wrapped up in making sure you don't form a pedestal you overcompensate and just end up being a dick. Do dicks get girls? Sure, but so do the ones who have enough confidence they don'… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/14 08:31 PM |
| -2 | AWALT: GF that thinks 'porn is disgusting' except for the shemale / anal / pregnant gangbangs in her browser history.she suffers through anal just to make me happy She left her phone in my car last night and I decided to see what information I could glean from it that's why her clit has no sensitivity whatsoever All I hear is a dude who makes his gf do things she doesn't want, invades her privacy and doesn't know how to get her off. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/14 12:20 AM |
| 0 | Girl Code (s01E07), MTV show where the women tell all RP truth. (watch from 6 min mark for "bad boy" truth)So you don't agree with the situation reversed? "Have sex with a bunch of different women while you're young and can but when you marry someone, marry a woman of high value". Doesn't seem like a terrible thing--to live a life with some experiences and good moments but then realize when actually settling down there are some different qualities to consider beyond the qualities of a fling. I don't think you're upset women are having fun, casual sex. I think you're more upset they're just not having… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/14 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Should you confront people that have wronged you, or just ignore them like they don't exist?positive reinforcement What? Positive reinforcement is when you add a good stimulus to reward behavior you want. Positive punishment is when you add a negative stimulus (e.g. confronting them) to inhibit behavior you don't want. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/14 02:56 PM |
| 62 | Field Report. First date with woman approaching wall. (more confirmation on theories, lessons learned)Sounds like you pouted after she took her glasses back and then you weirdly told her to kiss you. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/14 03:58 AM |
| 3 | I hate youYou sound like a douche and your girlfriend sounds like a weak minded person. You're going to miss a lot of cool things in life. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/14 04:19 AM |
| 2 | "Be the owner, not the dog."These terms "beta" and "alpha" in the TRP community don't hold meaning within an isolated vacuum, but rather they hold a certain, contextual meaning which actively encompasses the TRP philosophy e.g. the way someone here applies/uses "alpha" would most likely have a different meaning than someone who is not at all familiar with TRP applying "alpha"--so although the terms themselves are not unique, the way they are expressed and commonly defined within this community are. The point of this is tha… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/14 02:03 PM |
| 2 | "Be the owner, not the dog."I wouldn't disagree that women typically don't find weak men attractive. What I reject are these terms like "beta" and "alpha". I think they are misrepresentations of what actually is going on. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/14 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Beta= addictedThe reason why I post on here is because I find it recreational to point out stupid bullshit as well as for an indirect effect for other people who are reading this sub. The people who aren't so far gone and moronic that they're going to try to sum up something as complex as neurochemistry and with no good background on the subject, (which I'm willing to gamble you don't have) extrapolate the concepts they don't understand into overly simplified, bullshit. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/14 09:19 PM |
| 0 | To those men who are getting over an Ex. You are a drug addict.I know you're going through a break up but don't become jaded to relationships and women in general. The feeling of love for/from a woman is absolutely no different from a drug Sure, but keep in mind that what you're talking about is chemical, synaptic transmission via neurotransmitters which is the most common form of synaptic transmission (as opposed to gap junctions). So if you want to say that the feelings of love can be equated to simply expression and uptake of Dopamine (which is still a v… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/14 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Beta= addictedNo I understand it, I just think it's a fucked up mentality. People who buy into this mentality took some grains of truth about social dynamics and warped some reasonable conclusions into some crazy, extreme conclusions instead. PS. your big ending, homie, is something every kid who takes psych 101 knows. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/14 08:06 PM |
| 1 | There is a "new masculinity" wherein women & betas re-label traditional markers of male success as "sexist" or "divisive". It's a comforting mechanism by which losers will try to redefine failure as success and success as wrong.Alright... If I was on the fence about you before, I am now convinced you don't articulate your point well. Also, I'm beginning to see you don't do a good job grasping other people's points either. I'm just going to stop this conversation since I can tell we're just going to be talking in parallel to each other. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/14 07:52 PM |
| 3 | There is a "new masculinity" wherein women & betas re-label traditional markers of male success as "sexist" or "divisive". It's a comforting mechanism by which losers will try to redefine failure as success and success as wrong.As far as misinterpreting your initial claim about homosexuality & evolution; your original post was poorly written. And for your next reply stating it wasn't a bad example;well, an example can be bad even if the subject matter of it is "fine". It can be a bad example if it is poorly written since one of the most important qualities of giving an example is to convey information well. As far as hyperbole and me judging you too early; sure, you can make that case. But this is the internet and it's… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/14 03:57 PM |
| 1 | There is a "new masculinity" wherein women & betas re-label traditional markers of male success as "sexist" or "divisive". It's a comforting mechanism by which losers will try to redefine failure as success and success as wrong.As much as I think people who buy into TRP propaganda are brainwashed and jaded individuals, you're helping their argument more than harming it when you say just really dumb things like... do they even science If you're trying to be funny by playing off, "do you even lift" it's just an unfunny joke. One of the evolutionary purposes being to have female warriors and male nurturers. What? Where is this society of gay men that created selective pressures for women to evolve into warriors. I'm sure … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/14 03:17 PM |
| -2 | Beta= addictedYea, fuck that dude for feeling. What an idiot for falling victim to a possibility everyone who tries to have a healthy relationship risks. He should have just jacked you in the face, stole your cigarettes and pissed on you to assert his dominance. That's how a man handles situations. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/14 02:54 PM |
| 1 | "Be the owner, not the dog."Dog psychology doesn't operate this way, that's an oversimplification people make. Human psychology, also doesn't work in an Alpha, Beta way--that's yet another oversimplification people make. I heard about this sub before but never looked at it until now...and Jesus, some of you guys would need a team of therapists to help you your perspectives are that fucked. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/14 02:48 PM |
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