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This is wildly pathological, my dude. I'm 5'8 according to my last medical checkup. My entire life and, if I'm honest, the entire life of most men that height that I know is wildly different from what you describe. I trained in a few martial arts during my life and, while I have never truly been Billy Badass about it, I have been in a handful of real self-defense situations. If you think a 6ft tall man with no training (most people vastly over-estimate their ability to fight) can beat someone wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:47 PM
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I find this sub fascinating as my lived experience in some ways proves the red pill stuff and in others doesn't. I'm not jaded by life and remain extremely optimistic about my personal future but I do like to keep my eye on this as it has grown into a morbid area of study for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:57 PM
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I think a reality of the world today especially is that more men realize they *can* peak in their 30s. There are a lot more open strategies men can learn to focus on in order to improve in a really remarkable way or several ways during that period of their lives. I'd say this is even more true because more men are single and unmarried in their late 20s/early 30s and so they have more motivation to do so. My personal story is one of a man whose life was good in his 20s and is now great in his mid…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:56 PM
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Being in a band, even a shitty local band, is more effective at getting you laid than any red-pill dating advice. This goes more if you're a DJ of literally any kind. I've seen outright ugly dudes skyrocket their body count by being in a mediocre cover band. As long as your audience is majority female, you're in like Flynn. Practicing guitar pays off more in dating than the gym does. (Although you should be healthy and get in shape for your health and because it does add to things in all aspects…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:28 AM
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I guess my biggest red flag would be being in my mid-30s and still the subculturally-inclined musician. Get past that, I'm a colossal nerd with fringe interests. Get past *that* and you realize that not only do I not want kids but I actively walk around the world with an abundance mindset brought on by continued positive experiences and that gets in people's craws at time. I have never and will never be the sort to bring home to the family and that sits well with me but I could see how that'd ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:24 AM
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Speaking for myself, I was very successful in dating and getting laid in highschool and college (mostly because I was a musician and in a subculture that gave me a woman-rich environment that favored creative types). After college I did okay but from age 28-30 I had a period where I got very little success in dating. Currently, at 34, I'm doing very well for myself since I am not only back to doing music but I am in the process of getting in very good shape and making more money due to self-empl…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 07:50 PM
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Honestly, I find the discourse interesting. My personal experience hasn't proven a significant number of the ideas presented (short guys can't get laid or get into relationships with women they desire for example) genuinely untrue but I have found some things (women in dating will violently resent you for showing too much emotion under non-optimal circumstances) true. My lived experience is a mixture of things and these discourses give me additional context for the world as I scroll at work. I s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:37 AM
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I guess you'd call me purple-pilled so here's my belief from each. Blue: Honestly, being shorter than average (5'7) is not this massive death sentence. I've been fairly lucky in love my whole life despite being short and stocky and have dated people I find attractive who, judging by their behavior, found me viscerally attractive too. Red: Infidelity is massively more common than people are okay admitting. I've slept with girls who were in relationships and married, sometimes more than once, who …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:49 PM
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I can't speak to being autistic or whatever. Im sure it is a profound hindrance. That said, I can speak to height. I'm 5'7 and, loathe though I am to admit it, I think this is the height that is the bare minimum for dudes in some ways. While I have other things going for me (musician, etc), I also admit that I favor boots that give me an inch and a half of height when out and I tend to know how to dress to not look short. Even with all of this, though, I have often had girlfriends comment on how…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 09:38 AM
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Honestly, I feel I exceeded my potential as it stands on paper pretty consistently. My dating history seems more blessed than it should have been for someone who has some of the drawbacks I do according to some of the more blackpilled people out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 07:16 AM
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No golddigger worth her salt is fucking around a medium-sized city bar band. Fangirls, yeah. Fangirls are an ever-regenerating legion that gets new members every year as women get old enough to go to said bars. It's a numbers game that actually works in a dude's favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 12:19 PM
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I mean yeah, I'm aware. That was the whole point. It's worked for me too. I just say that and similar things as counter examples to especially blackpilled people who think if you're below 6ft it's over, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 09:43 AM
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Try telling that to every genuinely ugly frontman for local bands I've ever known who, despite being a fucking goblin inside and out, managed to bat way out of his league AND cheat on his girlfriends with equivalently attractive women. Not defending it but, bruh, clout allows you to be very shallow, especially in the face of the very naive or those with low self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 07:48 AM
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Pre-covid when I was in a band my options were relatively abundant and decent. Currently I ended up chatting up two women on social media in groups catering to various nerd interests of mine. They both happen to be in my city and I've hung out with each within the last week. I suppose that means I currently have two options.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 10:00 AM
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5'7 guy here, also. At 33 years old, I've found that it isn't nearly the death sentence people make it out to be. You're gonna make it, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 08:33 AM
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My father for many reasons. He taught me how to be strong in myself and how to talk to girls. Also, after he divorced my mother in his early 50s, he managed to land a 25 year old wife who, years later, proves she isn't a gold digger by having her own money. It was actually that phenomenon that led me to researching redpill stuff and, while I don't agree with it all, I have to say I saw it play out. The other influence was an older musician who mentored me not only in guitar stuff but also how to…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 08:47 AM
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She's got to be able to do a backflip. That's minimum. Two is ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 08:28 AM
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I think people overestimate the effort that takes. If you're already an accomplished musician and you're not putting all your effort behind one band to "make it," it isnt unheard of to be in several bands at once. Passion projects, cover bands that make money, wedding gigs, etc. Further, consider the titanic effort people put into "looksmaxing" and compare it to using pre-existing skills in a targeted way towards a specific end.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 10:33 AM
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I've known ugly musicians who got laid constantly. That's about it. I'm not hideous but I'm not amazing looking (and I'm shorter than average) but any time I've been in a band that plays shows regularly with an audience with lots of women in it, I never wanted for attractive casual partners. This goes even more for DJs than musicians, believe it or not. Hell, I know a few music bros who are all relatively goofy looking and intentionally formed a band that plays funky covers of popular songs. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 06:48 AM
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At the moment I'm happy being single. I was in a relationship until mid-summer and the entire end of it had me deeply relieved that I got to be able to back out of the life she and I were building. I didn't want it in my heart. I'm too much of a Peter Pan weirdo at this point to realistically entertain the idea of a long-term thing. I still have some casual fun but I'm more interested in getting in another band and playing gigs post-covid fuckery or setting up a table top night than spending the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 06:33 AM
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I don't see this as so unbelievable. Personal anecdote time: I've known plenty of people who eschewed genuine life-advancement possibilities in order to play in the same local bands and keep reliably fucking new crops of groupies year in, year out. They all admitted that it wasn't going to last forever but it would allow them to maximize both their personal sense of self-satisfied glory and their sexual success rate. If you ask me this seems like people genuinely choosing a version of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 08:51 AM
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For sure. For sure. I've also seen this. There's definitely a marked hierarchy and specific nerd-based strategy one must adhere to in order to slag out women with nerdy interests. Most of the long-term relationships I've had have come from this pool as those ladies tend to be into the same dumb shit I like. It's a veritable clutch move if one can pull it off. The big problem from what I've seen comes from the sad nerd dude stereotype who fails to seduce the actually cute chick at the D&D table b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 09:07 PM
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I'm in my early 30s and my friends are essentially split between musicians, some martial artists (although that's not really a community I'm a part of any longer due to losing interest in it) and nerds. This will only cover my male friends as my female friends probably have more nuanced situations that are more difficult to pin down and I'm feeling lazy. Musicians always get laid. Period. This is common knowledge. I know this is anecdotal but as long as I was in a band (especially bands with a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 08:49 PM
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I've always had the cheat code of being in bands and, even though that is less of a cool draw to women my own age, it remains interesting to women in their early 20s. Covid hasn't exactly helped situations and before it I was actually in a two year relationship that fell apart due to me not wanting to have children. Being subculturally-inclined doesn't help my prospects with women who are more serious in their 30s about things but, once again, it seems to help me with younger women. I'm 5'7 and,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 11:52 AM
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I'm sure being busy and keeping a schedule is the key to withstanding long periods of isolation. I've also found that regularly working out gives a person a sense of purpose even during the darkest times. Even if it's just a body weight workout routine three times a week or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 06:24 AM
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I'm not sure who does it better between the sexes but I think that it takes a specific personality to do well. I'm pretty good at it for a few months at a time but I eventually get a social itch. Some people, though, are born lighthouse keepers and hermits if you know what I mean. Those people truly don't need anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 06:21 AM
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Gonna agree with the height thing here. I'm 5'7 and it doesn't seem to impact me negatively to the degree that being two inches shorter genuinely appears to with people I've known who were 5'5. I always half-jokingly said that this was the height at which the Napoleon complex begins.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:29 AM
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One of my best friends does this regularly. He punches above his weight AND uses the fallout for more material.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 08:07 AM
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Literally be in a band, any band, that plays music that appeals to a primarily female audience. This is doubly helpful if you have a female vocalist so you don't have to compete with a frontman. Get gigs. Play gigs. Suddenly have options you never had before. I'm not necessarily ugly but I am short (5'7) and I've never made an amazing amount of money. Additionally, if you are sub culturally inclined and you are in a band it becomes easier as those women have to deal with less-than-stellar exampl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:59 AM
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Entirely unbased. Hentai is art.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:53 AM
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I always find this sort of talk perplexing. I'm a 5'7, underemployed stocky bastard with a mohawk and more hobbies than sense and yet I've always done well with women. I'll concede that because I'm a musician that definitely helps but my dude... worrying about the guy who is better than you constantly is the way to madness. Being exceptional isn't really that difficult, as others have said. Barring some profound social or rare physical disorder hangups, a person can get in shape, learn hobbies t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 08:36 AM
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The why is simple. A person wants the best they can get. Some people suck at synthesizing happiness and will resent themselves and their partners for being less than they wanted. As a fairly average-looking dude who has dated above my league consistently, I do it because I am lucky enough to be able to based on my hobbies and lifestyle. Getting something better than you deserve is the goal in all walks of life, I should think. Few things beat the feeling of knowing you got away with it, you know…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 05:25 AM
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I'd say that it's underrated if you have a mindset that suits it. The less traditionally conservative your goals, the better able you are to enjoy the bachelor life, I think. Speaking from my own experience, the fact that I don't ever want children and feel genuinely fulfilled by my hobbies and passions makes this the ideal move for me. I'd be lying if I said I believed myself to be the norm. I think most men really don't want it long term but many are going to be forced to adapt to it as best t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 05:20 AM
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I'm kind of bummed in some ways that thick has become a beauty standard because I used to be one of the only people actively and outwardly into it growing up, at least in my area. It made getting with such people very easy since I hardly had any competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 06:35 AM
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Guy here. I disqualify this person immediately. I never wanted to have kids and I don't see that changing in the future. I am largely self-interested and I don't want the burden of having to care for children, mine or another person's, on any level. At most I might have a casual fling sort of relationship with a person like this but nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 06:33 AM
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I suspect the idea that women give awful dating advice comes from the fact that they don't give men the tricks of the trade to seal the deal. Any man who asks for their advice has some deficit in his approach or whatever that prevents him from the success that he wants. He asks women in his life and sometimes I honestly believe they try. The problem is they are ill-equipped to answer the question. Unless they're a lesbian who routinely fucks women and dates them, they don't know how to seduce an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 11:13 AM
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These are insights gleaned from being a fringe-of-society, artsy nerd dude who plays guitar in bands and is a month shy of 30 years old. Red: -Women typically are more concerned with excitement and adventure than long-term practicality. Being dangerous, mysterious or magnificent wins over stable any day as regards getting laid. -That said, you can be replaced by some dude more exciting. -Being in shape is obviously important. Appearance matters. Making up for your flaws (like how I am short) is …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 12:23 PM
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I think people focus too much on the place and not enough on what they represent or control in the place. The best place to pick up women, say, is one in which you have cultivated social power of some kind. Examples in my life: Anywhere I am playing a gig The place where I study kali escrima but only after I got good enough at it not to be an obvious amateur (i still kind of suck at it compared to most of the others there). Or a park where I can actively practice the weapons forms because a long…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 10:36 AM
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I agree with this. Could you elaborate on the idea of the Big Five?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 10:32 AM
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As someone who very heartily embraces the Enjoy the Decline mindset, I have to disagree. I am not going to say that it is truly ideal for everyone and I admit that some people I know who also subscribe to it do so as a last resort. That said, it's always been how I intended to live my life even before I read Clarey's book and put that name to it. The idea of having kids and sacrificing my time spent on them and providing for them has always been anathema to me. The skills I hone matter. The song…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 10:30 AM
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That can get frustrating, for sure. I tend to laugh at that more than anything, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 08:57 PM
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I can see where you're coming from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 08:57 PM
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Yes. I was practicing my technique.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 05:52 AM
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I'm one of those people who thinks a healthy bit of self-love is important to good emotional health. When I see people taking selfies I'm not bothered. Male or female, I don't give them shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 05:51 AM
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For me being very intelligent can make up for not being super good looking. Also I can overlook a weird looking face for a glorious body. Mostly it's the intellectual thing for me though. I had a huge thing for this one woman who could out-math me hard when I was super into math (I've since lost a lot of what I knew because I've neglected it in the past five years). She was super plain looking but damn if I didn't want to fuck her and hopefully glean some of her genius via my dicking. Also, bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 06:03 AM
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I really think it depends on the disability. I'd date someone with a speech disorder. I've actually dated a woman with a minor nervous system disorder that made her profoundly clumsy. I'd be lying if I said I'd date someone who was confined to a wheel chair. I just don't believe I could do it myself. Same with serious mental illness. I couldn't handle it. I think a lot of it for me boils down to whether or not that person allows their issue to control them and make them helpless or if they manag…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 05:58 AM
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455! Curse my bisexual musician lifestyle. Would have been higher if I had any body modifications. This list reminds me a lot of /pol/. I got a good laugh out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 06:54 AM
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That's awesome that it works well for you. It's great that you train your body that way! Clearly my opinion won't hold true of everyone. It is, after all, my edgy belief and those seem to be the ones most quickly refuted. That said, I do still put a lot of stock in it and my heart really believes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 12:41 PM
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In all fairness, I'd date and fuck Batman, too. Just making that perfectly clear. I suspect that some, not all but some, of the characters accused of being Mary Sues are just ones that threaten the reader somehow. I know plenty of fantasy/sci-fi dorks who get mad at female characters like that because they are made to feel bad because they exist and are women and not men. It's a deep rabbit hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 10:04 AM
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I admit that I have a weakness for this here. I'm a long time nerd and attempt to create nerdy media. This sort of female character has always been something I dug the hell out of all my life. I wouldn't call myself a Beta dude but I do admit that the fiction I like and the fiction I try my hand at creating has some examples of epic ladies I wish were real. That's really the crux of it though. It's also why harem anime is so popular. I think another factor is that people wish they were real AND …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 05:25 AM
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I feel like if someone is fixated on something being fair or just they're deluding themselves. Nothing is even. Some people get the shit end of everything and some people are profoundly fortunate. Maybe if you believe in a reincarnation cycle spiritually you can speak to things being just because at some point everyone will experience every sort of life. Beyond this, however, you need only make the best use of what you have that you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 12:45 PM
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I have friends of many ethnic backgrounds and have, myself, dated pretty much every ethnic background I can think of over the course of my life. It doesn't seem to be a big deal in my area. You get people who are interested in the exotic appeal because it's all different but after a while you settle into the knowledge that people are people and ethnic extraction isn't so big a deal, I think. Perhaps I live in a kinder area for that, though. We have a shit-ton of colleges and people come from the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 12:42 PM
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I like your solutions and suggestion that he gets into martial arts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 12:37 PM
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Beyond my typical suggestion that he learn to play guitar and sit in with a band (which gets a large percentage of otherwise unlayable men laid), I'd say he ought to accept some limitations. I'd also suggest he practices a martial art of some kind to gain some level of self confidence. If he is truly that small he won't turn into a badass but it will give him something to be proud of. An issue I take, though, is that anybody, in any thing, imagines that idealizing goals equates to people actuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 12:35 PM
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It has slightly. I'm less blue than red as time goes by. Some red pill stuff about beta bux proves right with people I know time and again and it discourages me because I hate seeing friends of mine used for resources and told that their partner "just isn't a sexual person anymore" and things of that nature when I know for a fact some of them are or were because when I fucked them years back it was magnificent. I can't help but see anyone who is married as someone who lost the game and isn't get…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 11:41 AM
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Fairly short white dude with long, curly hair and a beard who dresses in goth shit most of the time. I've been subculturally inclined most of my life and I do get odd looks sometimes but nothing outlandish. I actually get more positive feedback than not. People touch my hair a lot or complement my clothing choices. Sometimes being short (5'7) makes me go unnoticed but it's not the worst thing ever. The only time in recent memory I even got shit for anything was when I was doing a fairly poor job…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 11:25 AM
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I'm all about the never getting married, never having kids mindset. That said, pretty much everything about the way I live my life isn't good for society if a bunch of people did it. That said, I don't blame people for not walking into the potential life ruination that is marriage or even traditional courtship. Vasectomy makes more sense and is cheaper than the constant dread of getting a woman pregnant and having your life ruined. Just dating someone long term but never marrying them or even mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 07:28 AM
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As a dude who has always been short and stocky, I feel like otter mode was always beyond my body's capacity. Add to that the fact that I like bread and beer and even though I am an active martial arts enthusiast who sometimes does weight training and you get a body that has a decent shape to it but isn't exactly cut by any means. That said, I've never had trouble getting laid by women I find very attractive. I think TRP overestimates physique a lot. But maybe I'm just some crazy outlier and the …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 07:21 AM
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I agree. I try to distance myself from the baseline shit-tier me as much as possible every day. That said, there's always a kernel of that in you forever and that frailty is inescapable in that we are all human. It is that aspect of us that demands the most love because it deserves it the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 04:43 PM
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I kind of agree. In my case it was that a lot of what I was already interested in (music and martial arts) was attractive on its own. On top of that the fact that I'm into the alternative looking ladies more than normal women gave me a smaller scene where I had fewer dudes to compete with who were as fit as I was growing up. Women outnumbered men especially when I was younger by a significant ratio. Eventually an older musician took me under his wing and explained how to just do what I was alrea…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 07:52 AM
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It's the fantasy love of being cherished and accepted for who you are on your basest, shittiest level and still having faith and devotion from that person. I think that's what a lot of men want. I think it's a bit foolish because I know myself on that level and I am just... garbage. Much like any other human. People can only suffer your weakness so long before you become a burden more than a blessing. I look at it a lot like wishing I'd win the lottery or get super powers. It'd be epic. It'd be …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 07:28 AM
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I'm here because, while I agree with a lot of red pill things, many aspects of my life run counter to it. While I agree with red pill stuff a lot, I still have some blue pill yearnings. This debate is my favorite train wreck lately as I try and make sense of the world and where it's going. I'm actually pretty damn happy with my life and where it's going. I'm here because it fascinates me. None of my ideals or opinions have been changed really. The only thing I have become more sure of is that a …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 07:19 AM
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I'm all about the Enjoy the decline mentality of getting an easy bullshit job (overnight janitor part time in my case), living a minimalistic life and focusing only on what makes you happy. Obviously some things cost money so you will have to manage to acquire some funds (two pronged approach of a side business. I give guitar lessons to supplement my income) but that's doable. Any life that makes you tired and miserable is never worth it unless it's working towards some magnificent goal. Like if…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 04:43 AM
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I don't know if most red pill people would react poorly but the most extreme such belief I hold is that men benefit greatly from learning combat arts, specifically intentionally lethal ones, on a psychological level. I feel like it fills a gap in us society leaves untended and that other ways of handling it indirectly are poor substitutes for learning how to off people. This is why I do kali escrima and go to the gun range regularly. I've done martial arts and weapons training on and off all my …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 05:43 AM
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Came here to laugh at that reply. Kek'd hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 05:39 AM
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For me specifically? No. The problem is that those few that are actually who I want to be with long term aren't really into me for long term prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 04:40 AM
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Sure. I'd rather be able to meet someone who was my ideal lover and didn't want me to change from my admittedly odd and inconvenient (for anyone else) lifestyle. I'd love that. The problem is that I don't expect people to really be 100% cool with me or how I conduct my affairs, my minimalist lifestyle, my artistic goals and be someone for whom I don't need to settle. I just don't feel like it's in the cards. I accept this and take solace in the fact that I'll probably still get laid regularly fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 06:52 PM
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It surely is. Odd though it may be, it seems like the best solution for me specifically given my priorities in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 04:40 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 07:12 PM
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I suppose one answer might be the preponderance of Internet culture before physical culture. This didn't hold true of me so much but most of my friends also grew up on 4chan and forums and the like and most of our social interaction with our in-person friends (almost said meatspace friends) was D&D. I really think the reasons I am not socially awkward was because I was in bands too and because I had a strong father figure growing up. I think feminist shit is a lot to blame for it but I also feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 09:08 AM
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I see Beta-Bux happening all the time to friends of mine in my direct age group (late twenties) and definitely with my friends up to five years older than me. I would need three hands to count the number of women who were regulars in the music scene where I am who slept with all the awesome musician types and settle down with stable Beta types. I don't think it ever went away. Is it for me? No. In my heart I see it as losing out both because I think marriage is a foolish idea and because I don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 08:59 AM
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That seems foolish to do since I gain nothing from my friends being nice to look at outside of me wanting to fuck them more the more attractive they are. Also, ugly people play D&D better as a general rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 07:05 AM
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I really only factor looks into sex and relationships. Some of my best friends are below average looking men and women but they're bright as fuck and talented.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 05:45 AM
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I'm not a fully red pill dude but my two cents is this... you seem like someone who would make a good friend, an excellent conversationalist and someone whose intellect is worthy of respect. But if you're not about fucking a relationship is really hard to fathom because most people (surely not all) are about having sex. A large portion of what I agree with about the red pill is how it focuses on a strategy by which men can gain the sex or relationships they want. I certainly don't agree with all…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 07:35 AM
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No. I don't forsee myself settling down for a number of lifestyle reasons but this would only be increased if I could remain as I am now but even better indefinitely. Also, being a huge fan of science fiction and fantasy literature involving immortality, I have already run the scenario many times in my head about how it would be a bad idea to settle down and watch someone you love die. Even if you have Queen make the soundtrack to your life this is still bad. Supposing I am not immortal and will…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 07:28 AM
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I'd say people become more conservative as they age in general because they become wiser and because new, radical shit happens that older people just can't be hip to. I've seen an SJW call an old dude who protested wars and chained himself to trees a shitlord because he didn't really have a grasp on transgender issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 07:25 AM
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Laughed aloud at this. Well played.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 07:23 AM
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I've fucked an outright racist woman before but I'd ever date one. Actual racism, not the Tumblr "POC can do nothing wrong and white people must suffer always" racism, bothers the shit out of me. I've fucked black women who hated white people. I've fucked white women who hated black people. Even though the sex was good I still viewed them as several rungs down the ladder of human worth for both having such overt hate in them for no fucking reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 07:22 AM
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I used to work with a guy who had worked the third shift since age 18, way way before the internet was a thing. He lived with his mother and fit pretty much every stereotype of the mama's boy. He grew older and older in this very small world where all he knew was work, the drive to and from, his controlling mother and his only hobby which was collecting patches from various organizations around my city and quilting. He died of an epilepsy related health issue when he was 55. He died a virgin by …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 04:43 AM
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I grew up on 4chan so it was used as the all-purpose designated term for human. It often follows your interest. Guitar-fag being an example. It never bothered me to use it because it doesn't connect with me an homosexual stuff. When I hear it i laugh and remember my glorious days on the chans. I say it more often than I should around my shitlord friends. As a bi dude I never felt fucked up about using it. I'm also a shitlord and I don't care much about social justice concerns so... yeah. I don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/16 06:08 AM
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I'd say it's not only rare but hard-won since feelings are not constant in the world. You are going to have low times as well as high times. You need to mutually work through the low times. I'm not one for marriage myself because of the risks. I know no long term married couples who are happy but I know three long term unmarried couples who are what I'd call truly happy because they actively choose to be with eachother day in, day out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 05:47 AM
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People are going to treat you like you're special for being a musician and for generally not caring about whether social interaction goes well or poorly. This attitude will get you far with a certain kind of person. It's going to be golden for about ten more years but after that it's going to start to slowly deteriorate and you're going to be seen less as someone unique and esoteric in his skillset and more like someone that just never quite fits with everyone else. It will suck and it will eat …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 08:20 AM
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It bothers me too. That's why I list my pill distribution thusly in my flair. I don't hold anything to Universal truth because that sort of absolutist thinking is damaging. It's safe in some cases to go with what the majority probably thinks and feels. While I know one drop dead gorgeous woman who outright prefers men who are short and chubby, it is a better numbers game to play if you're fit and whatnot. I've been told I was a liar or didn't know what I wanted by women, straight men and gay men…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 08:03 AM
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I don't think it can be escaped but it sure as fuck can be used to your advantage. Don't care about wealth? Live minimalistic and enjoy the things you want. Don't care about certain social trends? Find a counter culture you lime and max out in it and reap the rewards. Don't like lifting weights? Find a sport or a martial art you love and do that. Perform to better yourself for yourself towards your own ends, with realistic expectations, and you will thrive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 07:49 AM
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I don't disagree. I just accept it while most people actively bemoan it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 10:21 AM
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That worry isn't one I've had for years but, admittedly, in my early 20s it was hugely on my mind because I fall into the category of "well endowed but not massive" and I always wanted more for myself. It is a common worry for a lot of men when they're younger because it's something that can fuck you over that you can not change. When you're younger and more likely to validate yourself based on relationships factors like that can really mess with your mind. Oddly me being short has never fucked …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 09:31 AM
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Sure it can. But women grow up knowing that as truth and dudes don't really have that experience so much. Truth told, it's nice knowing the relative safety of being just a normal, dominant dude without the rest. Even though it comes with its own set of worries (will she cheat on me? Am I the biggest she's had? Etc) I remember it being less complicated than things are now for me. I'd still go as far as to say that girl on girl sex is not only more forgiven and forgiving than a guy getting fucked …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 08:44 AM
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What I think is interesting about this topic is how most women who bring it up like to brush it off as if it were so simple as just opening or exploring your sexuality. I'm bisexual and I've obviously been on the taking end in anal before. It's never as simple as that. There are psychological factors at play. Will my partner view me differently after? If so, how much and to what end? Will people eventually discover that I do this at a time where it's entirely inconvenient for that to happen and …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 07:20 AM
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I'm short (5'7") and I have no intention of making a lot of money (unless one of the creative things i do pays off in a big way) or living a conventionally productive life. Ever. I'm good with money but minimalism makes me an eventually disappointing SO. If I do splurge on something it won't be dates with you. It'll be guns or weapons for me. Doesn't hold me back as much as one might think, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 08:11 AM
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For Men: Yes. Very yes. I like women to look like they're fresh out of some cyberpunk dystopia. Yes. See answer for 1. I don't like it when women go too heavy into drugs or drinking. Some is fine but when it goes too far it's a risk for everyone involved. I'm not so keen on this as it would negatively impact me at some point later on. Yes but to a point. I'm very fond of women who know what they want, can debate well and aren't easily cowed by the world. However, if someone tried to force their …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 12:32 PM
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From what I've seen they tend to be bothered by it, yes. One of my close friends is autistic and the tragic part about him is that he really believes he hides it well and won't hear anyone's attempts to explain to him that he doesn't. Funny walk, talks too loud and too long on obscure topics, etc. He is an incredible artist and a loyal friend so he's awesome to have around but his success with women is abysmal at best. I've asked several of them why and those that are more blunt but unaware of h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 10:48 AM
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My knee-jerk reaction is to say that I wouldn't go that far and that marriage really is a risky prospect and a raw deal. Maybe it's just the circles I run in but I and many of my performer-type friends have slept with married women who were bored and needed to "spice up their lives." Sometimes we knew, most often we didn't until after. People are profoundly impacted by their own experiences. Even before finding the redpill, manosphere, whatever, I had a huge distrust of the idea of marriage from…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 10:30 AM
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Those are cool, too. Wouldn't kick one out of bed for that, necessarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 10:19 AM
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Bi dude here. I have a similar sliding scale of attraction but it might be a little less kind for dudes. Plenty of guys fit the "would pound face down ass up" like many women though because they have one or two solid features. I'm also a lot less forgiving of overweight dudes since fat can at least go to women's curves in best case scenarios. For men you can be thicker but you need to be fit to some degree to be attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 07:56 AM
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That might have been part of it. Every time I hear a rant like that from a gay dude I imagine it has a lot of factors behind it. I will say, though, that if a gay man evidences serious respect for a woman she's certainly earned it because he has no desire for her on a physical level and only sees her in the most objective of terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 11:45 PM
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I've got a few... At first I didn't realize it seems to be a trend in my experience (and that of others near me) until a few years of being around gay men on a fairly regular basis. At first I assumed it was just a few gay dudes who, for whatever reason, were mad at individual women. One experience that comes to mind first was actually a time when a guy was trying to win me over and his immediate competition was a woman. Now he and I are hanging out with other people, the majority of whom are ga…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 01:34 PM
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Bi dude here. With the exception of the fact that gay men give bi dudes lots of shit, I found that the limited experience I've had with those relationships has been very different than my experience with straight ones. There seems to be a lot of ire thrown your way if you're "straight acting" or you don't dig on the top/bottom dynamic that people seem to love. If you're with a guy who is more masculine and you outclass him in some area (martial artist, bigger dick, et) of masculinity he can get …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 07:53 AM
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Musician in a local scene that's fairly girl-heavy or any rave DJ I know could tell you otherwise. Those equate to D or C list celebrities at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 07:47 AM
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Drummers get laid a lot in my experience. Any performer does. It's all about selling it after the gig. An easy way to manage it is have one of the more visible members of the band play your middle man in getting you access to dat sweet... sweet... groupie fun. Condoms though. Always.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 10:46 AM
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Can confirm this^
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 08:11 AM
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Regardless of where they came from, these are the new truths and until they change they are obstacles. Look at them only as obstacles to be overcome. Also, I've said it a thousand times... learn guitar and join and band and you will get laid provided it's a type of music with a fairly high female listener base.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 07:48 AM
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One can always opt out of the game any time. I've done it from time to time myself to recover my sanity and sense of worth. The game is unfair but one can always find workarounds to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 07:39 AM
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I don't disagree. But when the landscape changes we must either adapt new tactics or suffer. Environmental factors are never fair and are often cruel. As someone who has a mixture of harsh truths and pining dreams that fly in the face of them dancing around in his heart, vying for control, I struggle with this a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 07:38 AM
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I think the problem is less that men aren't "allowed" to complain but, rather, that they just don't accept the fact that the world is unfair. You can rant to your boys about women but those boys will get tired if all you do is bitch and never work to fix it. I think that's the key. The danger comes with an echo chamber where people can stay and bitch endlessly and get comfort from misery loving company. The dating landscape is fucked up, for sure. But applying yourself to fix it is really infini…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 05:49 AM
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I'd say the RMV increases with resources and the persona that adds the promise of stability. Using me as an example. My history shows my SMV being high and remaining high into my late twenties. However, my RMV has only gone down since I'm the outlier musician type and I don't really promise any long term prospects since my lifestyle isn't a wealthy one. My brother, by contrast, had lower SMV than I growing up because he isn't a performer of any kind and, while much taller than I am, is very awkw…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 05:47 AM
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As a relatively short dude (5'6 or so) I still have to laugh at how this is seen as such a death sentence for dudes. Maybe I'm the outlier of outliers but I never had a huge issue because of my height. I grant that no woman ever prefers it to a taller dude but it's just one of many factors. Women like taller dudes. Men might like better hourglass figures and longer legs. Such is life. It shocks me that this is considered news.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 07:18 AM
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I was under the impression that you could only be cuckolded in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 07:13 AM
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I can agree on this point. I'm primarily red in that I feel the strategies work well and some of what they say about women is true more often than not but I've met enough exceptions to the rule, at least I feel they were, to show me that a lot of the hardliners of Red Pill philosophy sacrifice love for safety. I don't necessarily blame them. I've been lucky in that I've had very little pain from women due to their actions and always happened to be the one who cared less in relationships but the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 07:12 AM
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I have a handful of female friends too but I don't believe I hang with them any more than my male friends. I'm lucky in that I love my hobbies enough that I can happily pass most days with them. Guitar is always there for me, after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 08:52 AM
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I know the feel, friend. I suppose guys like us will just have to get used to it as time rolls on by. It's sad but I feel like it's pretty inevitable for people. I have a small clutch of friends who live awesome lives but each year the number dwindles in what feels like a war of attrition.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 08:15 AM
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You and I do seem similar in many ways. Musician types and the like.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 07:12 AM
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Does anybody else picture Lobo when they read about the "Wild Alpha?"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 07:39 AM
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Seems like some shit a certain type of woman does anyway. They're just poking fun at it. If anyone does these things to you, or if you fall for some of the more obvious ones, just dust yourself off and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 07:34 AM
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This ^
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 07:31 AM
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As a man who follows the "do cool shit and live an adventurous life" route, I definitely agree that flexible jobs are essential to this. I also often see my peers who do go out and have awesome journeys being seen as a bit strange the older they get. I am starting to find this to be true in my late twenties. A lot of my friends are starting families, getting married and the like and I'm off doing my thing and I'm starting to wonder how long it'll be before I become less and less relatable to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 07:30 AM
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Purple leaning red. 27. Male. Four times a week if I have my way about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 07:36 AM
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If I were to have a son I would not name him Chad because it sounds like the name someone who grew up going to a country club would have. Short for Chadwick. I do know a guy named Chad and he is very far from the Chad many seek to be and of whom many live in fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 07:35 AM
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Fellow bisexual here. The only thing I will feel you on is that I've sometimes run into grief from dudes I wanted to pal around with on account of my sexuality. I'm not one to just shout it from the mountain tops because it's largely not ever relevant to what I'm talking about but I've had shit for it. The thing is that this aspect of me is just one of many things I get shit for. It's one of many things anyone will get shit for and, truly, I feel like bisexuals tend to make more of a big deal ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 07:33 AM
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Purple but leaning slightly red and the booty is law.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 08:14 AM
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Join a band that has a largely female audience is a surefire way in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/16 11:43 AM
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27 here. It's still fun but the older I become the more focused I become on my passions and pursuits and, equally important, the more realistic I become knowing that my life of the minimalist art-adventure musician guy won't be attractive in the long term for more than ten years in the future. Instead of giving me the "Oh shit! Better fuck as many hot girls as possible" thing I have the "been there. Did that. If it comes it comes" outlook on it now. I also admit to having a lot of success early …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/15 08:04 AM
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I'm also a bit annoyed at constantly seeing that here and especially when I use sights like 4chan and 8chan. I imagine it's a lot like faggot used to be in that in evoked a kind of visceral response in the people using it. I imagine cuck is the same for people now. I was never bothered by the words themselves as much as the laziness they imply. (Except in the marked exception of OP being a faggot, of course. That is internet truth forever)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 05:32 AM
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Ah, okay. That's good.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 09:06 AM
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Oops. You're right. I didn't read as closely as I should have. I'm a dick. Sorry about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 07:52 AM
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Fairly rough but I also tend to sleep with people who are enthusiasts for more aggressive sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 07:49 AM
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I've heard this argument a lot and I've never seen it hold true for me. I like weird and excessive amounts of porn and I never had it negatively impact any aspect of my sex life. Maybe for some small section of the population it fucks them up but not me or anyone of the people I know well. I've seen some people on the internet talk about how it gives them unrealistic expectations of what women are capable of in bed but I would counter that they just don't end up with women who can fuck well at a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 07:33 AM
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Am I the only one that can't truly rate based on face alone? Body is more important to me than face but maybe that makes me a rarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 07:16 AM
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I've met women who later saw me play a gig that same day. They were incredibly interested after the gig where before they were mostly just indifferent. I don't know if I'd call that hypergamy so much but I would say it was hypergamy when a groupie jumped from me to someone worse looking who was in a more successful band but that only happened once. Can't really get mad because... groupies gonna groupie. I've also stolen one girl from her boyfriend (I did not know she was dating anyone) after giv…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 07:14 AM
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I believe it's a thing to a degree but I think people fail to realize that the ideal goal of most women is a man with the ideal characteristics of both. I've noticed that as I approach 30, I see no shortage of sexual partners for my weird, musician self but I don't see near as much desire to date me and "make it last against the odds" or whatever because I'm just not relationship material. I don't make enough money, live an enjoy the decline lifestyle and don't care to change it. This does not a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 08:23 AM
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Nice to see someone get my name sake. I liked it a lot myself but I did find it a bit prone to wandering plot sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 06:32 AM
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I mean... sure I'd fuck a lot of famous people I find attractive or whatever but it wouldn't change my life that much. I've often said that I love my hobbies more than I love chasing women but I think a lot of this response to that question is because of what I do. Stay with me a minute and consider that performers of most kinds know a soft version of this. Surely it's not anyone the world over but you experience from the first half-successful performance the ability to have your selection from …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 05:20 AM
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Doesn't include random dickhead at college party with an acoustic guitar near the top of the pyramid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 05:11 AM
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I lived in Tokyo for a bit and the few people I met who embraced this lifestyle, tended to say it was both because the Japanese economy doesn't make life fun for a man at all, married or not, outside of college and the only way to have your own life is not to play the game at all and because Japanese women don't find them masculine enough. While I certainly had my easy share of exotic foreigner gets laid easy sex, I never heard Japanese women shit talk their dudes. As for fixing it... I don't kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 05:04 AM
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As a child free person, granted a rather young one (27), I can say the only animosity I ever get because of it is from people who had kids unintended and subsequently had their lives ruined because of it. They fucked up and are jealous of my carefree lifestyle. Anyone I know who planned, saved for and had kids the smart way is more of "you do you, man."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 06:42 AM
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Goth girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 07:23 AM
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Learn to play an instrument and get in the kind of band that has a large percentage of female fans attending shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 07:21 AM
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I think most of the MGTOW folks who actually live life on their own terms are the kind who either were doing it before all this and are naturally inclined towards such lifestyles or are those who found the little push they needed online and went away from it better aware of things but not falling to dogma.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 07:05 AM
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I live a minimalistic lifestyle and play guitar live for people. I work part time (32 hours a week) and give guitar lessons and have a shit ton of money saved up so I could have two years of life with no income at all. My lifestyle handles itself as far as getting laid and shit (musician plus fit equals sex despite me being short so imagine what it could do for you) and I have loads of time for my hobbies. Not an ideal lifestyle for landing serious relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 10:13 AM
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Nah. I'd stay with the sixes and just focus on the other shit in my life. No one is hot enough, to me at least, to deal with all that shit long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 10:07 AM
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That's true. You got me there. All things being honest I'm a very bad Catholic on a shit ton of levels and I work daily to deal with that and find my best path. I'm by no means immune to the hamstering thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 08:20 AM
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Hard to get mad about it when it made my life so easy but... yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 10:02 AM
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Not trying to change your view but I did go to a Catholic University and I've noticed those girls are of a certain mind about sin: Go big or go home. Since a lot of them espoused the view to me that all sins are equally bad, they might as well go for broke since it'll be the topic of Sunday's confession anyway. I made sure to enjoy the fuck out of that situation. While I am by no means an atheist, I am also by no means Christian enough to turn down that bounty of earthly delights.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 07:32 AM
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I am apprehensive about the idea of polyamory not for myself but for most men I know. I've been in such a relationship once and I was fine because I was in a band at the time and could actually pull more lovers than my girlfriend could and the two of us engaged in group sex more often than anything else. My talent getting me laid and my marked lack of likelihood to go head over heels for anyone makes me pretty emotionally able to do this. That said, I know a handful of my male friends who just c…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 08:32 AM
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I'm a musician, I play D&D and other such games, I'm an amateur martial artist (i.e. I don't pretend to be Billy Badass), I shoot guns sometimes and I read a lot about a lot. Also, I watch anime and practice meditation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/15 08:19 AM
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I have to agree with a lot of what you just said. I'm in the all-black wearing musician/artist crowd and I do well there but the farther I stray from that element I find my success begins to wane. Too much of my persona fits that and, while that suits me for my own sake because I like it, I have noticed it can be limiting too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/15 09:13 AM
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As others have said, it's reactionary. A lot of men are bitter about not getting what they want. I came to know about MGTOW after a friend asked if it was how I lived since I live a minimal lifestyle, generally live as I please and never really had conventional adult-type goals and hated the idea of marriage and kids as an affront to my freedom. The thing is, I never had bad luck with women. I just approached them differently than most. There was no scorn. I understood things to be as they were …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 10:15 AM
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I'm personally not concerned at all about the decline. I'm of an "enjoy the decline" mindset to begin with. I live a fairly minimal lifestyle, get laid as a result of playing guitar with bands, have a job that pays me enough to live comfortably and save at the same time should something happen. I'm not living paycheck to paycheck like most people I know and I can comfortably focus my life on me. I think what makes me so able to do this is that I've always been a fairly selfish person. I'm no edg…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 07:21 AM
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Musician here. Can confirm about the performance thing in general, be it DJing or playing guitar. Do it for a group and for that night you're amplified a hundred fold. Seeing pictures or footage of it has a diminished but still tangible effect of women, in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 09:06 AM
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That's harsh, friend. I can't imagine how bad that sucks. I imagine it's sort of equivalent to a friend of mine who is 5 foot tall. I may be short but I have seven inches on him. He's a thirty year old Virgin and mocked constantly for it in honestly cruel ways. People can be awful and I'm legitimately sorry you had to deal with mockery over something you can't change. To those people I guess I'd advocate searching for meaning in life outside of sex if it really is that difficult to acquire. Ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 08:55 PM
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Also, why haven't you bitched at the other guy talking about his phallic dimensions? Why only me? Bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 08:48 AM
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Better a brag thread than a self pity thread. If you don't have a big dick, that sucks. Any shortcoming sucks. I'm short and I don't let the fact that this is a tangible obstacle in my dating life fuck me up. That's something that's apparent right out of the gate. Not so for dick size. Life is 10% your circumstances and 90% how you handle them. Dealt a shit hand? That blows but you still need to play it on some level.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 07:27 AM
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I have to wonder exactly how accurate the measurements women give of past lovers are. I'm fairly well endowed (7inches and 5.5 girth) and I've had partners swear I have a ten inch dick. I think part of it might be because I'm short and the illusion of greater size is there but... I think it's a bit unlikely that a lot of women out right measured the dicks of their partners, especially in the case of one night stands, for confirmation. Further, the rarity of someone beyond eight inches in size is…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 07:01 AM
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I'm all about not settling, dude. Truly I am. But you do realize these godlike women you're talking about also poop and don't require silver bullets to kill, right? Humans, even the best of humans, are still people. They still got poop in em.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 09:05 AM
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I've gotten epic advice from a lesbian I'm friends with in my city. She's a more masculine looking one and she is a fucking warrior when it comes to seducing women. Her track record alone and her honesty about things made her an excellent mentor for that sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/15 08:00 AM
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I don't know how people do it, honestly. I work part-time at a normal job and the rest doing music-related stuff (guitar lessons, wedding gigs in the summer, etc) and I make a decent living for myself but it rarely goes over 45 hours weekly all-told. When I know of people who work sixty fucking hours and still have time to do shit it blows my mind. Then again, a big part of my life is practicing musical instruments (takes time but is a thing I love) and pursuing my other hobbies. I just don't ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 04:23 AM
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I don't seem to be living in a typical situation. Many of my friends who pursued normal things in college, STEM jobs and the like, report that they hardly get laid as much as they once did because they simply need to work a lot in order to further their positions at their jobs. One only has so much time, after all, and if most of it is spent working very little of it is left over for chasing sex. I think the fact that you actively have to go looking for women as opposed to being put in a place w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 12:45 AM
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Fellow guitarist, here. I agree with you and am glad you exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 12:11 AM
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People have already made a bunch of good points here so I will not repeat them but I'll instead bring up something I discussed recently with a coworker. I work a relatively low-tier night shift job with a bunch of older, retired guys. I'm 27 so the age gap is significant. I'm often asked why I'm not married and how I'm not impossibly lonely all the time. I try to explain that the internet is a thing, my guitars are a thing and the money I save by living a minimalistic lifestyle and having under …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 07:07 AM
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I guess I do. I'm not complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 12:30 AM
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I'm all in favor of it, personally. I describe myself as red-pilled more than blue, I suppose, so my opinion fits here. I'm an artistic, degenerate type and the libertine sexuality you find with a lot of women in music and art scenes is perfect for me to continue to get laid on a regular basis despite not sharing their political views. It's like a cornucopia of different sexual choices on a regular basis and it shows no sign of drying up in the face of things like me not having a good job so lon…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 11:11 AM
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Currently enjoying the decline, here. I agree with everything you said about that mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 10:47 AM
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I don't want to get married because I resent the feeling of being stuck in any life situation. Maybe I'm paranoid but I always try and have an escape route. If I date someone and they become a pathetic version of themselves I'd want to be able to leave because I can't be weighed down. I've always felt like one of the biggest wastes of time people put themselves through is staying in relationships that are beyond saving. Getting married seems to me to be just begging for this sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 01:15 PM
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5'6" dude here. I've only run across very minor problems due to my height and have a thing for women taller than me that I often have satisfied. I do also play guitar which seems to be a cheat-code for life. I swear to fuck, most of my guitar students have been dudes who ask "what do I need to play to get laid?" It's finger picked melodies on an acoustic guitar, if you were wondering.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/15 06:17 AM
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It's really not for me. I'm an artist and a weirdo and, frankly, the cost of a vasectomy is a lot less than the cost of raising a child that, to properly father, I may have to give up my dreams for. I think I'm just too selfish to be a good parent and so I'd rather take any and every step I can, short of abstaining from sex (because fuck that, right?) to minimize the risk of having a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/14 12:51 PM
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Bisexual man here. I have no such double standards, myself. One bisexual male friend of mine does, though, in that he is less forgiving of the men he is with in general in terms not only of partner counts but also sexual history and income stream. He is unusual in this regard from what I've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 02:17 PM
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I can only speak from my experience. I fall into the category of shorter dude (5'6) who has a thing for taller women. It definitely puts me at a disadvantage but it's not an insurmountable one with dating. It'd be foolish to ignore that height is a factor. It could be for multiple reasons but what I think the problem is is that men in general view it as a death sentence if they are shorter than 5'7. All I feel that it really means is that you need to do something to make up for it. Whether it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 01:50 PM
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