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Therapy only works if you're kinda stupid, and pliable. You could probably get equal results paying somebody to scream at you to clean your room.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:36 AM
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You speak of evolution as if it has a plan, and ascribe reason to the chaos of culture. Most things can be boiled down to short term self interest. Most slut shaming comes from women looking for marriage because groovy chicks fuck up the market. The bit of shaming that comes from men is usually from psycho dudes that women were avoiding anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:28 PM
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Quite the opposite in my experience. A lot of autistic men might not have access to sex, and think they're asexual as they grow out of the worst of puberty. Where you see the crossover between the two you'll almost always find sexual trauma, or pure cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:52 PM
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Nah, divorce happens before the marriage in most cases, and it's never about a guy being too nice. It's about him being a lonely idiot that will let himself be pressured into indentured servitude out of fear of losing his cookie. Notice that when normie women get tired of a guy, instead of letting him go they try to escalate the relationship with kids, and contracts. That's because they're getting him to invest as much of himself as possible to increase the half that she's already planning to ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:35 AM
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If you're born 5'5" you'd be as tall as a house by the time you grew up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:16 AM
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Why are you worried about birth rates, and marriage though? None of that reflects on dating, only the end goals of the people dating. It's like a Greek saying the USA must be poor because of our lack of olive trees. If you're actually worried about the decline of western civilization, you're not going to change any root causes by criticizing weirdo fringe groups like feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:53 AM
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Speak for yourself, not for men. If your self esteem is dependant on approval from anyone, I wouldn't even call you a man in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:49 AM
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There is no exact number on how few shelters there are for battered men because nobody wants to admit it's next to zero. Almost 20% of them allow pets though according to the charity that wants to get more pets in.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 12:11 AM
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I meant exactly what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:03 PM
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These sound more like a skill issue, sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:01 PM
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I wish you were correct about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:42 PM
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It's almost entirely a matter of looks. Men are not just less attractive to women, unattractive men literally disgust women on a biochemical level. Being clannish, hysterical, and cruel as normies tend to be, that disgust becomes the kind of boogieman fear usually reserved by cops for minorities. They'll say stuff like "most men don't meet the basic requirements", but what they really mean is that they don't see most men as human.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:39 PM
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No, it's pretty much the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:21 PM
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The only music that rivals Christmas carols in its grating quality, and shallow subject matter. You drive a hard bargain, but I'm afraid I'll have to remain punk till I die.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:52 PM
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Maybe my dating life has been too easy, but I'd rather pearl myself with a string of sea urchins than sit through a service. Don't care if she has a grippopotamus that can bite a man in half. I'll stick with my crunchy witchy chicks. At least their autism is the fun kind, and sage smells very pleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:43 PM
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Heinlein pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:19 PM
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People have it backwards. Success makes the asshole, not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:51 PM
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Have you ever been to a church? It's boring as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:31 PM
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I could explain why it's pathetic, but it would be too political.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:44 PM
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I'd cash out as soon as I heard her voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:36 PM
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Dude, we have a few extra million houses more than we have homeless people. We don't have a housing crisis, we have a capitalism crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 08:37 PM
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Equal partnerships are very possible, but not for neurotypicals. If one member of a relationship is normie, they will inevitably ruin everything when their insecurity, and ego collide with their poor communication skills, and need to "win". Reminder, kids; normal, and typical do not imply acceptable, or healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 08:34 PM
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There are no domestic violence shelters for men. You're telling this to a guy who is currently homeless due to an abusive relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 12:45 PM
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lol, misleading stats like this are necessary because nobody would donate money if they knew it was mostly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 12:44 PM
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Statistics on homelessness, and shelter availability are a keystroke away. The fact you're not aware of them only serves the OP's point. Even casual observation should tell you who lives on the street, so your ignorance is willful.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:38 AM
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There are more domestic violence shelters that accept dogs than there are that accept men. Whoever told you women are more at risk of homelessness was blowing smoke.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:46 AM
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The classic I am rubber, you are glue gambit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:39 AM
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You thinking it's a cope is a cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:16 PM
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I am joking, but the best humor comes from a place that hurts because it's true. All these Midwest boys are being mutilated purely because their mom thinks it looks weird. That's all the thought that goes into the decision, and every other argument is an excuse after the fact. I don't think you're to blame for pointing it out. It's actually nice to be heard, so thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:48 AM
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Women report fewer orgasms from casual sex, so you are either poor at risk assessment, liars, or attractive men are lame in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:38 AM
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Men are biologically uglier, and we don't like ugly people. That's really all there is to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:16 AM
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lol, it kinda always sucked knowing that my genitals were trimmed because women find my natural form to be gross. At least I can take comfort in the fact that being cut makes me a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:06 AM
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Distribution? I don't know. That's a tough one. Maybe if we developed a series of flattened stretches of land that we could easily push carts on. Perhaps we could even move those carts with horsepower. Fuck, I give up. It's so complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 09:41 AM
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I'm sure it would go well until the ATF shows up. You realize we've been growing food for tens of thousands of years, right? Grandmas do it in their backyard.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 09:35 AM
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It's not that complex. Plant seed, irrigate, harvest, kill bugs in between. Is the complex part where you need a fucking I phone?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:55 AM
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Yes, and there were no farmers before capitalism. Thanks for clearing that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:27 AM
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Food literally grows out of the ground, retard. It's not complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:42 PM
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How about lobbying for class equity rather than some perverse dream about enslaving your sisters, and mothers?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:34 PM
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When I was in seventh grade they gathered all the boys for an assembly where an army recruiter explicitly told us we had no future because we are poor. Then he promised if we join ROTC we can get a pay bump when we enlist straight out of high school. The system actively works against men receiving higher education because men born at the top fear competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:45 AM
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People in the process of having their opinion changed are less likely to speak up. It's not the kind of thing you measure by casual observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 02:56 AM
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You think there's not enough people?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:45 AM
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It's straight pipeline to living in filing cabinets.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:41 AM
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Of course you assume he wants a baby, so you can bleat your nazi-lite eugenics rhetoric couched in insincere concern for the wellbeing of children.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:03 PM
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Ah, so it's fatalism when you produce crab babies, but moralizing when somebody else simply doesn't want to be shunned. Glad you cleared that up. Was about to entertain the possibility you've worked on yourself enough to have a non-autistic conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:21 PM
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I judge kindness based on how people treat those they're allowed to mistreat. Especially when there's no reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:37 PM
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So it's okay for you to pass on your autistic genes, but op shouldn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:20 PM
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Handmade, or personalized things always win me over. Make a shelf to hold stuff for his hobby, or buy one, and decorate it. Something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:59 PM
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I personally don't care as long as they don't insist on talking to me on a platform I never check.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:53 PM
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After reading a bunch of the comments here I'm starting to get the appeal of traveling. Not for the women, just to be in a place where I cannot understand all the hateful bullshit people are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 11:29 AM
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I'm not one to underestimate the momentum of stupidity, but I'm going kicking, and screaming into your bleak, corporate dystopia.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:34 PM
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Patriarchy is just capitalism rebranding itself to hedge its bets. Nice job internalizing their dream of a one-world government.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:41 AM
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I follow that to an extent, but I question if you actually love yourself. What exactly is the deeper, flawed, and human thing about you that you want them to love? Do you love it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:46 PM
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Don't take this the wrong way, but you sound like you have a crushingly low self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:58 AM
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Worrying about people's motivation too much will only make you unhappy. Do you feel loved?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 11:10 PM
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Personality disorders are hard baked over time. There's a reason they're not diagnosed until adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:39 PM
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It's often part of the reason they get a disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:50 PM
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How is that the app's fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:13 PM
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Why not? There's lots of women that also don't use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:13 PM
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A woman who wants to be a sub? How original.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:04 AM
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I probably wouldn't date at all if it wasn't for apps. Most of those people probably suck at meeting irl, and want to use apps as an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:01 AM
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What's ironic about that? Do you not know what irony is, or completely misunderstand what poly is?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 04:02 PM
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Then I let those feelings go. Where I usually fail is recognizing in the moment that I'm being tested.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:59 PM
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If they're testing me, I'm automatically going to stop caring what they think of me. Problem solves itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:33 AM
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Mind your manners, I have daughters. I don't see any need to address your blind accusations, and insinuations. It is weird though that you are so concerned that I'm somehow paying for sex as though there is no inherent benefit to getting fucked by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:22 AM
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I'm not sure you read right, or maybe I phrased things poorly. Girls used to call me scrub before that song even came out. It got way worse after the song. I already felt bad about being poor, and didn't need it rubbed in like I ever pretended to be anything else. It's not okay to be bullied by anyone, or anything. What hurts who more is too relative to make it a contest. My worst bully is my ex. She was very mean as a kid, and came back as a very charming adult. I still get ear infections from …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 01:03 AM
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That's part of the reason I'm poly. I could never be enough to be everything for anyone, and I cannot expect anyone to be that for me. Monogamy is a very unhealthy kink.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:33 AM
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Gender rolls in general are typically a means to control people with shaming. For many men, the concept of masculinity bullies them out of childhood extremely prematurely. You can shit on men for that all day, but nobody ever bullied me about masculinity harder than women who aspired to never work. You, op, speak truth, but you lose the human forest for the male trees. We all get mistreated. Not just by people, but by the expectations placed on us.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:23 AM
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Gender dynamics in dating can't be very in favor of women if I have plural girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:34 AM
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Many women are not beautiful Strongly disagree, but I don't see us ever reaching a syntheses of opinion on that point. plain, average or ugly woman can go out with messy hair and sloppy clothes and receive even a modicum of courtesy and respect in society and they absolutely will not receive any of those from men, guarantee it. My ex-comet wears homemade dresses that fit like a potato sack, body hair that rivals mine in some places, and openly advertises that she has NPD. She has a rich husband …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:54 PM
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Nah, I'm a middle aged guy who thinks a beautiful woman is beautiful whether she is dressed her best, or wearing a stained, oversized Garfield shirt with twigs in her hair. Put those two women next to each other, and I'm going to hit on the one that laughs at my jokes. I'm kind of an odd cat, but don't think I'm too far off from how many men see it. You don't need to take this as a confrontation. When some chick says she'll date men under 5'10", and dudes rush in to call her a liar, do you think…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:59 PM
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You should advocate for more help for homeless men, not less help for homeless women. Dragging them down doesn't help us.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:20 PM
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Women put more effort in beauty Nobody asked you to?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:18 PM
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Does it count if he sleeping with all of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:13 PM
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I get it, but you're probably more... regular than me. There's a lot of things about me that are best to yada yada yada over until I have a chance to show I'm not a psychopath. An example of my last OkCupid bio: This bio is now being switched to nightmare difficulty. Red flags are on, filters off, all gas, no brakes. The schizoid mask is down, and the void is open for business. Not sure which is more important to start with; my ho'ing, or that I'm insane. Not like quirky, omg so random insane. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:38 PM
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Lol, I'm not pretty enough for shallow women. It's more a matter of reserving myself because I've been told I'm a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:28 PM
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I answered 500 questions and had a profile where I wrote everything and anything about me. Do yall actually put that much effort? I do, but have found that less is more when attracting women. Even the demi, and sapio chicks prefer some mystery.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:24 PM
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Might sound crazy, but celebrity gossip is sensational by design, so it might not be an accurate way to see the world. but as soon as they exit the relationship (either dumping, but usually cheating being the common reason in a lot of cases; not always) end up dating other people, and immediately in less than a year (even a few months in), go on to propose, marry and or have children You watch too many rom coms.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 01:38 PM
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Women just complain more. The study is bunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 12:16 PM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 02:28 AM
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Who cares what happens to capitalism?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 01:50 AM
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It's not rare for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 01:46 AM
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Because almost any guy can comb his hair, and find a woman that will tolerate him enough to be her house simp. Meeting a chick that lusts for you is rare for a lot of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 08:56 PM
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Most of my life I've been a parent. The idea of being at home with my children all day is bliss. They are so sweet, and kind, and fulfilling, and I barely get a taste of it. If some rich lady said I could be a stay at home dad I would eat ass, and ask for tips on how to do it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 11:01 PM
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I wouldn't personally put money on sexless men causing a societal collapse. With that out of the way, OP's argument is based on a too big to fail fallacy. We are very likely heading for a collapse without their help. The anger of the guy maintaining the airplane that carries you safely in defiance of nature who cannot afford to move out of his parent's house, those are the guys you should worry about. He's a real guy, and his gf is very attractive, so I'm not sure how you can say we're very pros…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:44 PM
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it was a coping pill This is really my only point of contention with all that stuff you said. Poly is simply what works best for me. You can call whatever you're doing no pill, but it's a pill by somebody's reckoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:22 PM
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I'm poly pilled, and enjoy the lifestyle. Those aren't the women I'm talking about. The sort I mean is the hot mess emotional vampires who just want to fuck other dudes when they're mad at their boyfriend. They exist. I'm currently waiting on one to get angry at her man again any day now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 01:35 PM
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This dude is not a cuddler.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 12:38 PM
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So if a relationship goes downhill, women are the ones who will on average suggest opening the relationship as a means to address issues more often than men. In other words, monkey branching.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 12:31 PM
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Men want open relationships, but are more sexually repressed by society, so we don't ask often. Being labeled a perv, or a dog is our version of slut shaming. Women tend to bring it up once they're sure their partner has no other options, and they start building a soft harem. It's easy for them to ask because she can simply call him insecure. Just her asking casts so much shade on her partner that he's hobbled right out the gate. One thing I'd advise men who end up in an open relationship becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 12:11 PM
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See what I mean? People down vote me for being what I am. Like it offends them that I exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 05:55 PM
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Hardcore sadomasochism; I'd like a woman to beat the every loving shit out of me until I'm senseless with endorphins. Then to return the favor by treating her like a worthless fuck muppet. Won't ever happen though because women conflate masochism with submissiveness, so they immediately dry up on the rare occasions I share my kink.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 05:24 PM
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What is this concept that men don't want relationships based on in the first place? Most dudes will keep coming back like a stray if you feed him once. What I, and likely a lot of other men, really don't like is the relationship escalator. When a woman is constantly, "so what are we now?", "we did X so we must do Y", just go go go, never content. Those women can never really be happy, and most men don't like that vibe once they've felt its darkness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:59 PM
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I've put off responding to women I'm very interested in because I wanted to write, or paint something. Sometimes for days because other stuff comes up. I loved my passions long before any woman loved me. My hobbies do not care if I'm not good at them. Women will abandon me if I'm not what they need.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:43 PM
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My physical retirements to be able to be attracted to a woman are a short list. Not super fat; chubby is fine, I'm from the Midwest. Not a fan of heavy acne, or herpes sores. Black teeth are a turnoff. I'm a total hypocrite for this one, but noticeably thinning hair is unattractive to me. Otherwise I think most women are pretty. Genuinely. Good thing too because I'm very selective on personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:22 PM
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It takes minutes to post a video of yourself. It's a stress free side hustle for many of the women that use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 06:47 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/NXIVM
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 06:44 PM
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Go polyamorous. Women with high libidos tend to shop around. You might find the lack of pretense refreshing if you're not a jealous person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 06:00 PM
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Criteria was probably the wrong word. More accurately I mean they don't judge men on the same scale. Most days I'm lucky if a chick doesn't literally frown at me, but if I walk into a gay bar it's like running through a corn field. You wouldn't be able to tell from the giga chads on this forum who only bang 11/10 virgins, but regular guys have a rather broad range for what they can be attracted to. The bar can be as low as don't don't be actively weeping pus at the moment, and that's not even al…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:46 AM
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Because gay men, and straight women don't judge men on the same criteria. I don't agree with with all of OP's post, but men do seem to be much more flexible on what we are attracted to. The influence of hormones, and being raised as a boy in formative years tends to give transwomen a more masculine concept of sex. I say this as someone who recognizes them as women in case it matters. One thing I think OP has wrong is transmen having low libidos. Testosterone tends to turn people into aggressive …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:33 PM
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The standard bpd gf knows how to single out lonely men that will be susceptible to their love bombing. Consider how your average man hasn't received a compliment since puberty turned him into a gangly troll, and it's easy to see how guys get caught up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:24 PM
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I'm cool with it, but I wish they'd invite me more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:08 PM
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Checks post history I strongly suspect OP is posting this to humiliate her boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:05 AM
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Most women on the kink scene think those guys are peak masculinity, so imagine my disappointment. The truth is subs are not even a kink. They're just lazy, and don't like to think for themselves, so they enable the worst people to think for them. D/s dynamics are literally a microcosm of everything wrong with humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:11 AM
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I lived fetlife for a while, so let me enlighten you. Men who call themselves dom are the most pathetic species on the planet, and the women who like them have never had an orgasm in their life. They are both sad sacks of boring shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:46 PM
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Scammers prey on confidence more than emotion. That's what the "con" in con artist stands for.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:15 PM
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I'm not sure I follow what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:43 AM
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I have this hyper-liberal lesbian cousin that I cut out of my life over this shit. I humored a lot of dumb opinions from her out of love, but the day she posted a clickbait article saying men are attracted to children I blocked her ass from my plane of existence with no goodbye, or explanation. So here I am watching horseshoe theory at play as men attack women with ideas taken from women that hate men. It's been real.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:35 AM
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Untrue, I'm friends with several women I am not attracted to sexually. In half the cases the feeling is mutual.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:47 PM
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That's what I asked myself reading this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:44 PM
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The Freudian implications of holding women to the same standards philosophers hold god to...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:14 PM
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So it's cool to just shit on the first guy to prove a point?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:12 PM
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You're not totally wrong in your op. If someone isn't naturally agreeable they probably can't learn to be. That seems true. I've seen cases of personality shift, but it's very rare. The two statements I quoted need to be reconciled though. It doesn't track to say being physically unattractive isn't why one is alone only to turn around, and say that all things being the same that person wouldn't be alone if they were attractive. Those things don't jive together well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:04 PM
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Sure, a tall handsome nasty person might get women to sleep with them, or even hook them in to an abusive relationship you’re alone because you are nasty. Not because you’re short, ugly and poor 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:02 PM
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Realistically, do you put on your best for every person you meet? I admire your system stamina if you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:17 AM
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I know this one lady off FB that might argue that women need game. She's crazy smart, very cultured, and the kind of pretty that only talks to men like me online. Her preference is for quiet, brooding men because she is a quiet, brooding woman, but she's consistently been mogged by loud, histrionic women. All her life she's had her mom telling her to act helpless, and live parasitically, and all her life she's watched women like her mom wrap men around their fingers. She refuses to play the game…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:09 AM
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Let's be real; most men are soft, and most women are retarded. The sex bots are going to leave us for each other. They'll probably colonize space just to ghost humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:34 AM
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Yeah, all the time. If you listen to people, and don't judge, they'll often confess about things they feel guilty about. Nobody, man, or woman is good at admitting they're wrong in the heat of the moment though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:55 PM
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Imagine being such a insecure loser you need to drive all the way to incelville where you think they can't tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:14 PM
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Let's just say I've developed a great sense of humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:42 PM
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The place I went they just beat the shit out of anyone who didn't ft in. A surprisingly ineffective method.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:38 PM
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I went to an all boys school. It was just plain boot camp. Can't say it made other dudes easier to get along with.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:56 AM
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Wow, has it really been a whole year?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:52 AM
5

Plath was an emotional masochist that chased suffering deliberately. Not saying you're wrong, just that she is likely to black pill men who learn about her personal life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:02 AM
1

Nah, check the flair. That's polyamorous katamari. It is one of the few communities where women gossiping benefits men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:41 PM
2

I'm an idiot. Was probably drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:39 AM
1

No women responded yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 09:36 PM
1

Because the corporate race to the bottom worked really well for the world. Let's lean in, and get really dark, and scavenge the human fallout for some pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:00 PM
10

There's too much negativity, and lack of personality in general. Every other profile is "no this, no that, don't waste my time, don't be boring." Expression of personality is limited to a list of popular media, or liking sushi. Idk, maybe people in general are a bit lackluster.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:35 PM
2

We are all always alone. Someday we'll happen to be dying too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:44 PM
1

I have partners, but consider myself single enough to answer. Height no personal preference Income capable of feeding, and sheltering oneself. Body type not extremely fat House/no house at least a bedroom with a lock Kids/ no kids uncle Anon brings bribes to buy their mom some alone time I'm a low income factory worker speeding towards forty with a bunch of baby mama drama. Very doubtful a change in my own stats would change my standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:43 PM
2

You sound like the chick version of me as far as being oblivious to flirting that isn't bullhorn obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:20 PM
4

Clearly we ain't, but most of the op is generally true though. Doing difficult things tends to make one a more interesting person. Sometimes you don't even need to be successful at it if failure makes for a fun enough story.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:57 PM
4

Hi, on a laptop.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:07 PM
3

I know you're being sarcastic, but it is unfair that some people are repellent. Ugly people get treated like shit in every sphere of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:03 AM
1

You ain't even wrong, but I'm not wasting A material on this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:01 AM
0

Okay, safe to say he probably had something to do with that infection. You need to set, and enforce boundaries in the future though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:57 AM
1

Infections can happen for a lot of reasons. Jumping to blame your partner is a manipulator's tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:21 AM
1

the most brutal thing, you'll ever here It's already getting there too. Did you know how bad you'd be roasted for the 007 comment? This was in the name of humor, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:17 AM
2

You're asking the wrong guy. What's in style is determined by a panel of people that includes zero straight, cis men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:05 AM
1

Is skinny in what? Tighter jeans? Sure. In my heart? Of course. They leave plenty of room for thick too. Not much room for influencers in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:07 PM
1

Anecdotal I'm afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:03 PM
3

Men read that shit almost as much as women. Soft cover smut is a popular genre in lockup.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:42 PM
1

Sugaring is one of the few ways trickle down theory works as some of the sugar baby's extra income will be spent to maintain a certain look, and to help out broke boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:39 PM
1

People who think they're perfect are usually incapable of loving anything at all, so your ideas look bad in the mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:26 PM
1

Blaming a gender for the manufactured insecurity fostered by our culture is pointless. Just eat the rich, and start over.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 06:32 AM
0

That's a healthy mindset in most circumstances as long as the relationship you want isn't itself unhealthy. More of us dudes need to learn self fulfillment goes beyond masturbation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:32 AM
1

Both concepts can fit on a bumper sticker without further need for explanation, so you know it's trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:22 AM
2

Full disclosure, I'm unqualified to answer. For better, and worse, I'm nothing like average, and neither are the women I fancy. That said, I don't think your average person actually knows their own standards in very concrete terms. You hit the same issue as qualitative utilitarians where measuring overall good is too subjective to apply a hard number to it. Sometimes you think you have a standard, and somebody pulls it down to where you overlook it. Other times your standards will be raised by s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:19 AM
1

You seem to have given it a lot of thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:19 AM
2

There's no rule saying a socialist government needs a dictator. They just tend to spring up that way because the boot of capitalism is heavy, so only the scrappiest can shrug it off, and not be gunned down like some protesting fruit picker.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:52 AM
2

I can see why there would be confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:24 AM
2

Schizoid isn't the same as schizophrenia, it's a personality disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 11:19 PM
4

I think there are more ace, and demi guys than stats may reflect. It's not something a man is inclined to admit. Edit: pop over to r/schizoid, and you'll find hundreds of men with zero interest in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:01 PM
2

What kinds of stuff do you like? Maybe you can parlay your interests into situations where you can meet people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 04:03 PM
7

What do you think holds you back?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:54 PM
1

Stalin, and a bad winter happened combined with constant sabotage by capitalist interests because rich people have a vested interest in making you think you need them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 10:45 AM
1

The USSR did a 100 years of industrialization in 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:39 AM
1

Bodacious pugnacious drama-queen
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 06:30 PM
1

Rich people give us more than we give them. 😆 Good thing you could type that since your mouth was likely occupied.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 06:23 PM
1

Having several girlfriends isn't a revenge fantasy. It's fucking fun, and you get more presents on your birthday. Why would you attach so much negativity to a harmless lifestyle choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 12:22 PM
1

You're basing your opinion of people on their behavior in the artificial construct of capitalism while also seeming to be ignorant of how that construct works. The richest men are the most permissive spenders, and would be homeless if they were born into the real world. There's no foresight, just impulsive parasitism.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 12:14 PM
1

I'd wager half the subscribers are just watching it to feel rage, and make dissection videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 12:08 PM
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Stubborn yeah, but lacking any coherent argument. She's just like, "Muh pussy gold. Ain't no man gone say shit bout me." It's all personal to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 11:41 AM
1

Ah, that bpd in the air is so invigorating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 11:19 AM
1

sex ed professors So literal virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 11:16 AM
4

Check post history; she doesn't have irl friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 11:15 AM
5

I still don't get what you disagree with. It's not a disagreement, it's reflexive defensiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 11:13 AM
3

I'm pulling your card for that last statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 11:12 AM
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I think you got that mixed up with the domestic violence statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:54 AM
9

This is like saying an uber driver is more obsessed with their car than their passengers. Like, duh, but good luck getting five stars with a busted ass Dodge Neon.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:51 AM
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Conclusion; men hide their sadness, and women are never happy. Shocking stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:17 AM
3

You're a regular catcher in the rye keeping those kids from leaping.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:52 AM
1

Defining a ltr as lasting at least a year, three. Maybe four. Two of them were toxic as fuck, so I don't believe counting ltrs tells you much about anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:18 PM
1

There's also freezing, and fawning.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:38 PM
1

I think a slight majority of men will turtle. Maybe a wide majority. Only way to prove it would be immoral though, so idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:45 PM
1

From what I've seen, at least half of men are complete bystanders in any conflict, and a lot of the men who aren't need a very direct threat to themselves to be roused into fighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:03 PM
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That is true, but it sort of backs my point too. You need moral men with a propensity for violence to counter the immoral ones. The violence itself is neutral. Like that debate about whether courage is a virtue. Without possessing all the other virtues, this thing we tend to think of as good can inflict untold suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 11:40 AM
2

Fair answer. A lot of the women I've met with this kink seem to be more vixen/stag than full cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 10:28 AM
2

Knowing he's demi, would it bug you if he happened to find another woman attractive since it would imply some emotional attachment on his end?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:52 AM
1

Used to do cold floor sales at various malls, and shopping centers. Even the smoothest operators are only going to get a few sales per hundred people approached. At one point I was training this new guy. Arrogant, grew up rich, coiffed pretty boy that pulled women out of the air like he was in one of those game show contraptions with the dollars flying everywhere. Yet he was a total wimp when it came to sales because he'd never been told no for anything in his life. Couldn't even get him to try,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:22 AM
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Didn't take long to go full Nazi. Put this piece of shit on a list.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:03 AM
2

Set that fight in a bar, and I give Manny even odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:00 AM
2

Beating the dog shit out of loud, imposing men has gotten me laid a bunch. Sounds like you just had a soft upbringing, and not much life experience outside of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:55 AM
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It's more the imperious demands that prospects dance like jesters. I'm entertaining as fuck, but I'm not wasting that energy on some lump who will not be able to keep up. "Don't be boring" is an automatic left swipe from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:50 AM
1

What is bad about violence? Illegal isn't the same as immoral. The most violent, irrational men in history enforce the law after all. Seems the law is more about monopolizing violence to the benefit of the parasitic ruling class.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:40 AM
1

Violence is amoral, not immoral. There are people that are better off meeting violent ends. Objectively, as in it would improve everyone else's quality of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:36 AM
1

How does your bf's lack of attraction for other women interact with your kink for watching him bang other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:28 AM
15

Imagine posting about your disdain for people from rough upbringings on a daily basis while trying to convince people you are not mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:08 AM
2

I'm 6ft tall. I'd rather fight someone 6'4" than someone 5'8".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 11:19 PM
2

Reach its only an advantage if your opponent is kind enough to not get inside, and render those arms useless. Tall guy has to back peddle to make his range, and that's how amateurs end up on their back.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:02 PM
2

Higher center of gravity, needs more room to punch, long limbs snap easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:59 PM
0

Weigh divisions only exist to sell more title fights. Height isn't an advantage in combat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:22 PM
9

I would vote for anyone promising to nuke that island.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:07 PM
1

I don't know about the extreme long term, but a guy who can make a chick buss is rare enough that women will overlook a lot of traits they find unattractive for the immediate-long-term. Chicks freakin' lilt around like Disney characters on opium after they goosh, and those hormones are additive. The effect is even more pronounced if she's only ever had disappointing sex, and you come out of left field to kick-fuck her like a broken dirt bike until her eyes roll back. She'll let you borrow her ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:31 PM
5

The vast majority of people merely want a secure partnership they feel wanted in, and a home of some sort. Those people meet each other fast, so the dating scene can seem very skewed for those who like people for more than what they give us.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:24 AM
1

I feel like a lot of people here suck at dating. I admire that you've kept such an open mind that it's still only a feeling. My longest relationship was 10 years, and in year seven I would have told you we'd be together forever without hesitation. I believe I put in the work for a successful relationship, but have only recently learned how to recognize who gives that energy back, so ask me again in ten years.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:35 PM
1

Ever hear the phrase "call no man happy until he's dead"? Call no relationship successful until it's over.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:04 PM
3

erotica, which most women don't read Most people in general don't read erotica, but women are very present amongst those who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 03:39 PM
1

I call it sex karamari.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:49 AM
1

There's also a bunch of dudes here who seem to think an incel sit-in will inevitably collapse civilization, so I'd filter the hell out of opinions collected in this sub. The first time I heard the concept of male sexuality as predatory was from a feminist, Paglia, who said it is a culturally inflicted stereotype with no actual basis in biology, or psychology. There’s been evidence of prostitution found back in the BC era. Depends on when you think civilization began. I'd say it is older than mon…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 04:33 PM
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You may argue many things are unproductive, but we still do them for entertainment. I would agree (e.g., youtube, gaming, etc.), but rarely do they leave you feeling as miserable as casual hookups. You've obviously never player Dwarf Fortress You may argue it helps with social skills. I agree, but if that's your goal, it is the least efficient way. There are countless better ways: You can do both ways. Instead of teaching discipline, diligence, perseverance, modesty, kindness, patience, etc, it …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:26 PM
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“But what about the emotional bonds formed during love making?” Considering that adultery isn’t uncommon... This assumes one carries the archaic monogamous mindset that humans are only capable of forming bonds with one mate at a time. If people were more honest going into relationships it wouldn't be such an issue. I've never stopped adoring the shit out of my gf even as grew to love other women as much as her. “You think male sexuality is inherently bad?!” If we listen to a large portion of men…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:02 PM
1

Leftist is not liberal. If the world was neck deep shit, and liberals had the last boat, leftists would learn to tie their shoes without bending over.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:49 PM
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Conflating ideologies is a dangerous way to live because it allows good ideas to be hidden by bad people who want you to associate them with bad ideas. Think of how the fat cats used the media to portray union members as racist warmonger thugs so effectively that it slowly became true. They do the same thing with any ideas, or people that diverge from the corporate status quo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:45 PM
1

If you're out there living as hard as you can, your life will divide itself into chapters whether you like it, or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:38 PM
1

How am I one of the most introverted people in here, but seem to be the only one with an orgy story?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:37 PM
1

I think the actual sexism comes into play when you hear things like, "a real man does X", or "Y isn't ladylike". If you're comfortable, and fulfilled living by a traditional gender role, that's nobody else's business. As long you're not claiming your way is superior, there is nothing to argue about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:29 PM
7

Don't come crying to me Mr Hyde starts calling you Stacy because you didn't learn to look out for sugar free energy drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:58 AM
32

Check the floorboard of their car. What color are the Monster cans?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:00 AM
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you changed terms; "liberal," and, "left," are not the same thing! Came here to say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:32 PM
1

I misread the OP anyways. Whomp Whomp
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:09 PM
3

Never mind, somehow I read the OP as saying polyamory. I'm a retard, disregard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:07 PM
0

a man who wants to sleep around while also expects me to stay faithful That's not polyamory, that's polygamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:17 PM
2

The oxytocin from skin to skin contact is addictive. Never felt a strong need for approval, but it's also neat to have someone know you well enough to know you're kind of a piece of shit, but still want you around.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:56 AM
1

I mean, it is gross as far as edibility, but you can just blast it clean with the shower head first.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:43 PM
1

Protip; if you can't find dental dams, the wrapper of a fruit rollup is a great substitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:35 PM
1

That's not a hetero thing. I go swimming on shark week all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:33 PM
1

38 year old male, and I'm happiest with 3 - 6 times a day. I'm basing this on my activity during the one day a month I don't work. My libido might even be higher if I wasn't perpetually recovering from my job. Not sure if my high sex drive is purely an accident of nature, a side-effect of trauma, or some Pavlovian thing where I've taught myself to associate fucking with love. Probably all three.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:30 PM
28

Strong finish there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:55 PM
1

I mean, if they are Palestinian children, there doesn't seem to be much furor over blowing them up. Even talking about it is enough to get one perma banned from Israel.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:00 PM
1

Gaza is occupied by Israel, so I would be suspicious if they actually took that poll.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:36 AM
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It's cut, and dry to me. They are all scum. CIA is no different than Hamas, just more successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:56 AM
1

Whatever your reasons, that's one less rocket hitting a hospital in Palestine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:56 PM
1

turned down a defense contracting job to work here 👑
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:16 PM
1

I can get that same thrill doing something that isn't actively making the world worse, which based on the adjectives you use to describe your job, you're almost certainly doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:34 PM
2

Arguments of "should" are arbitrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 04:13 PM
3

I don't need capitalism to entertain, or fulfill me, and I doubt it would be up the task anyways. I'd rather work just enough to get by, and spend the rest of my energy on my actual passions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 04:02 PM
1

This topic keeps coming up, so I started making a peer support discord server for men, former men, and people transitioning into men. Basically a safe space for anyone who knows what its like to be amped on testosterone, so it's called the Testosteroom. Unfortunately I have very little time, so if anyone wants to help mod, or just join up to see it on the ground floor, my dms are open.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 01:46 PM
1

Blah blah blah made up stat based on the only woman who slept with you blah blah blah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 01:15 PM
1

Who need luck when you have a personality disorder?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:58 AM
1

I'm a black American and it does not surprise me to so many other black men choose to go down bad roads in life because all their life they've been told that acting different was "soft, pussy, weak, acting white, beta etc There's a weird white version of this. If you are a quiet, male abuse magnet in your teens, you get this thing were everyone acts like you're a future school shooter while also continuing to bully you. The double think there adds such a brainwashy layer to the typical harassmen…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:57 AM
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Had a similar conversation a few days ago. I said something like the prerequisites to being thought of as masculine tend to be a zero sum game with no reward. Your status is raised by stepping on other men, so the pinnacle of success is just being the biggest piece of shit in the world. No thanks, I'll pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 06:16 PM
3

Honestly at some point you're gonna get a dude whose vision is blurry with rage just brain you with a bat Already happened. Thankfully his vision was also blurry with 4 loko.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:11 PM
2

I only date openly poly women. Otherwise I would see your point to an extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:07 PM
3

This is literally why I avoid women that would even consider dating a cop. Not about to take a bullet because some knuckle dragger can't communicate with his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 09:54 AM
1

I'd put myself a closer to flat average if we're talking about curb appeal only. Photofeeler says I'm a 2. Managed to make half the people think I'm arrogant, and the other half think I'm timid with the same picture. That would've been humbling if I'd expected better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 09:48 AM
1

She has a body fit to pose on the cover of a lowrider magazine. Goth is just the lacquer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 08:27 AM
1

If you have to ask, you probably are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 08:25 AM
1

They're all my biological children.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 08:24 AM
9

I'm the fwb in some cases, and you wanna know what I do when she complains about her boyfriend? I stick up for him, and try to explain why he might feel a certain way without dismissing her concerns. I'm a goddamned boyfriend advocate that will never be appreciated by the men I'm trying to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:32 AM
2

Many people do not differentiate between the poly-types, so I wanted to set a good example right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:22 AM
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I aim high, but can genuinely find ugly attractive if I get emotionally attached through text first. My last ex is in the popular category on OkCupid, and is a solid 9 anywhere you send her in the world. Big titty goth chick that can code, make you cookies, and doesn't have issues cumming because of her meds. my current main gf is hard to be objective about because I'm very much in love. Other men worship her though, and will send her $100 just for a boob pic. My on again off again girlfriend is…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:15 AM
3

I think that's why we use the word "machiavellianism" to denote dishonesty, and cruel cunning instead of his actual character traits. It keeps honest people from looking into his work, and getting very pissed off.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:53 PM
1

Polygamous men are not building or repairing enough. They are wasting time by courting their many women. This includes not taking care of the children. Oh, eff you, buddy. My polyamorous self spends 60+ hours a week doing actual labor to keep a stay at home mom for three kids. It's one of the things my girlfriends tend to find attractive about me. They even send me back with little gifts for the kids sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:46 PM
4

Machiavelli was the most honest person of his time. He wasn't a manipulator in the slightest. Dude was just autistic enough to tell the real liars why nobody actually believes them, and people only follow out of fear, or love, never faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:12 PM
2

Nothing is weird about it. I'm just calling her a liar about having them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:57 PM
1

humans have proven time and time again that they're more loyal to thier own pleasure when it's all said and done. Some people can derive pleasure from the sense of moral superiority that comes with depriving yourself. The existence of Catholicism is proof positive of my claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:08 PM
1

It's all cool until you bring up Ava Braun.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:05 PM
16

I stopped believing you when you said you have straight guy friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 02:04 PM
4

The fun part is that these dudes out there giving lame dick are usually the ones women line up for. It's like having a primo burger joint. Huge beef patties, all sorts of exotic specialties, and friendly service. The catch is there is a mcdonald's, and a 5 Guys on each side of you, so people associate hamburgers with some sad, commercialized sack of disappointment that you immediately regret putting in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 08:22 AM
1

That mortality rate though. What happened to that risk seeking behavior that used to have us at 49% of the population?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:00 PM
13

The hell did we manage to pull into the lead?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:51 PM
0

Usually the only real bad guy is the pimp. Which in this case would be the government/capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:49 PM
1

Many feminists would agree with the title, but not how you reached your conclusion. The concept of marriage being prostitution was theirs originally.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:16 PM
1

Most disgusting answer on the thread. Congratulations, you stank up a shit wagon.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 07:27 AM
0

Gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:10 PM
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Not to mention all the torture experiments they did. Even the fucking CIA said it was a perverse, inhumane, and pointless. Consider how trash of an organization you need to be for the CIA to call you sickos.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:34 PM
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You ever work in the service industry? The second most hated person in your life after your boss is the customer. Most psychologists don't even have a boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:31 PM
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🙄 Some of us know how to bullshit about vulnerability. If you found it manly, he likely didn't show you anything he could be hurt by. Like how a killdeer will pretend to be wounded to lure predators away from their nest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:08 PM
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Keep coping.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:00 PM
0

Can we just call it wearing a collared shirt? Glow up is obnoxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:40 PM
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winning Now there's a retarded concept. The fashion industry is pointless consumption for the parasitic, urbanite leisure class. It handily marks out swaths of people I don't want to share words with, and that is its only useful function.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:36 PM
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I'm assuming the purpose is in its function. Based on that, I would guess the purpose of marriage is to stagnate relationships, and give the state means to squeeze men for money by holding their children hostage when it inevitably falls apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:40 PM
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As long as you're not one of those guys paying for parasocial relationships, it's probably made it easier to stand out, and look better than most dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:28 AM
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I'm curious what the numbers mean to you. Is it just internal pride, or is there an online scoreboard?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:06 AM
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You seem to think bi, and gay are the same thing, or you're just swapping them to fit an agenda based argument. You refuted my argument about gossip rags with links to three of the worst publications in recorded history. I'm not sure what to make of this. Maybe you're a genius satirist. Whatever, I legit hope this is never a real problem for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:53 PM
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"We" are talking about what we think is relevant. It seems like you are using weird celebrity gossip to inform your idea of how the world at large interacts. Nobody sane thinks it is brave to abandon your family. If you show me an instance of that happening, I'll be right on your side calling them an asshole. At the same time though, people need some room to change their minds. We have ethical obligations when we form a family, but morality is another story.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:25 PM
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Cool, I figured you got it. I'm not even bi, and I got it, so it's strange how many here don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:03 PM
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Yeah, I work with one. He continues to be a provider for his wife, and kids. I know three lesbians who did the same. I know an unusual amount of lesbians though, so I'm not going to take that to mean it is common.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:10 PM
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Yeah, they never really mean it when they say they want a guy that shares their hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:04 PM
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"History"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:08 AM
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Most honest answer in thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:05 AM
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Translated; she's saying bi people cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:01 AM
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Cool, so you wouldn't look down on a guy with a sexbot. It's just a toy, so there would be no reason for you to feel bad about your boyfriend keeping one in your home.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 08:15 AM
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You think sex toys are not same as porn? How so? I'm curious what your distinction is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:12 AM
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I agree with those women, and I'll try to explain. In general, I'm quite okay with my girlfriend meeting other men, fucking them, falling in love; that's all good. If I learned they were paying someone for fake affection though, it would make me worry about their mental health, and their ability to have a mature relationship. I'd probably feel a little insecure about how they see me too. Even though she is extremely generous to me, I think it would feel degrading to my love if she paid for someb…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:40 PM
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I've noted the opposite in my time. Have only ever seen women police men for watching porn. Even seen women watch porn, and own weapons grade sex toys say that they consider their bf watching porn to be cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:16 PM
2

Why the down votes?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:08 PM
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Why not? I'm happy. I can be happy without this phone too, I just wouldn't be able to stunt about it. My fulfillment comes from things that cannot be taken away, so I see it as sort of superior to financial wealth. Nice things are nice sometimes though, don't get me wrong. I just don't see what's nice about trashy Italian cars though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:36 AM
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A three year old used Aristo. Only clothing on me I didn't steal from a laundromat lost and found are my boots.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:07 AM
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I keep a SAHW, and three kids fed on a factory grind. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:58 AM
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Frugal? Lol this is a perk? Fuck a frugal life. Who wants to live like that? Just make more money instead. You're destroying the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:54 AM
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Bruh, I didn't ask to want to be an artist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:42 AM
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That would depend a lot on your definition of casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 11:24 AM
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Thing is, introverts tend to have their people that they're not introverted with. I've had several partners grossly overestimate how cool I am based on how I am with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:01 AM
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Citation needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:45 AM
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Sounds more like a narcissist than mere insecurity. Can't really fix that type, you can only learn how to spot them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:42 AM
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What looks good on a drawing is different than what looks good real. This exactly. The women men draw on their pillows would look like terrifying muppets in real life. Things get very abstracted once they pass the optic nerve.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:22 AM
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The fashion industry is dominated by gay men who have no idea what straight men find attractive. With the exception of a few outliers, beauty standards do not influence men whatsoever. Caring about such things is feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:17 AM
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He doesn't want that battle because poly is superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:00 AM
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generalizations suck Makes a bunch of generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:57 AM
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Just don't get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:48 AM
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I use the internet to get to know people. That way they have an idea of my character, and what to expect. Once I get an impression they're not the judgemental sort I can be very social in person. In about a week of talking I feel like I'm meeting a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:59 PM
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Dude, I've seen some ugly ass, broke dick losers absolutely destroy the self worth of women who weren't even ugly. Not everyone is graceful. There are men who will cross a desert, and piss in an oasis. OP is wrong to think it's most men, but why would she think differently when that's who targeted her?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:45 PM
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The way you're perceived can affect what opportunities are open to you, and how you're treated. Experience has taught me I'm better off not being perceived at all by people who don't know me somewhat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:28 PM
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I believe you. Too many people are shallow, and thoughtless. https://youtu.be/5owaJ8dRK5k
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 11:01 AM
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Reddit is one option. It can be a little frustrating though when you meet a woman here that seems perfect, and actually likes you, but lives hours away. I blindly started talking to a woman from r4r, and we hit it off great. It was about a month in when she showed what she looks like, and I was floored by how insanely hot she is. It sucks that I'll probably never meet her in person, but knowing that she would want to meet is this huge confidence boost that theoretically makes me more attractive.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 09:30 AM
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Money money money, pillage pillage pillage. I though deeply about your goals. Who cares? You won't get on the spaceship out of here, bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:42 PM
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I agree with much of this, especially the first point about being called a creep. Women I have sex with even call me creepy. That's what leads me to my point of contention. The internet isn't a bane to weirdos, it's a boon. We just forgot to use it as a crutch instead of a wheelchair. Sure, hot rich dudes will still get a billion likes, but they had that advantage irl already. The internet is where you can find people who appreciate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:30 PM
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in the past a powerful man would be the leader of a tribe that had access to plenty of food, directing other man on what to do for the good of the tribe. Rich is only power in the mockery of nature we've belched into being, and they do nothing for the good of the tribe. That's cuck talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 07:53 AM
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A comet just passes through. A traveler that keeps friends in each town. I meet them on dating apps. I know what I like, and I know who likes me, so I often match with the first woman I right swipe. We text a while, and establish a casual sexual relationship within one, or two times meeting. Those will last months to years, and I'll usually juggle at least two at a time. The texting isn't work to me since I write a lot anyways. Overall it's almost all reward for very little true effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 08:55 PM
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So about 9 over the past 18 months, most of them consistent fwb, or poly girlfriends, and one comet. Not sure how that ranks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:47 PM
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Depends a lot on your definition of casual. If you mean sex without promise of marriage, it's sort of easy. If your definition is limited hooking up with a near stranger at a bar, that's near impossible for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:51 PM
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Men who aren't related to you or barely know you will never care if you have a good time. Wait...what? Man, you might wanna rephrase that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:39 PM
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We didn't evolve to make money. Capitalism is a recent aberration in human behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:13 PM
2

The meta game is to list yourself as bisexual to boost your elo.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:21 AM
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Dating apps aren't the problem, Match dot com is the problem. OkCupid back in the day was lit. It was more of a social media site where you didn't have to feel weird sliding into dms because that's what everyone was there for. Swipe culture embittered people. The difference in what a bio looked like in 2010 compared to now is drastic, and disappointing. Edit: Facebook has the best dating app, but the worst people. Feeld is also swipe-free, and active, but buggy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:00 AM
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You already want to talk to me, or you wouldn't offer. I hardly ever dm anyone first though, so ball is in your court, doc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 10:52 PM
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You wouldn't know if you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:26 PM
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Blah blah blah, show me where anyone gets hurt when you're done wringing your hands. I have no time for arbitrary religious arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:16 PM
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That's not conducive to overall happiness. Silly shaming tactics aren't going to change any minds, and only show that you are arguing in bad faith. Refusing to answer is the same as saying you're a virgin, so you're giving bad advice as we've established women are repulsed by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:05 PM
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That's kind of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:07 PM
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That's not exactly toxic, just incompatible with needy people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:05 PM
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🖐
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:50 PM
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I'm somewhat insecure, and always ready to be discarded, so I keep women at arm's length emotionally, and use sex to compensate for feeling unloved. Same time next week, doc?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:08 PM
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You don't have to really lie to lie, guy. Why play it up into something it's not? A date asks about your sex life, you say something vague like, "I've been somewhat chaste", and move on. That "somewhat" is a world of possibility, not really a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:52 AM
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Whether, or not you're a virgin is such a tiny part of someone's personality. You're blowing it out of proportion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:28 AM
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And when you do get a girl alone, she’ll figure out pretty quickly that there’s a lack of sexual experience. It's not rocket science. Be grabby, attack the clit, put swerve on it. A complete retard can do it right the first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:24 AM
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Please, uncle, you're drunk, just watch the game in peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:20 AM
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Watching narcissists meltdown puts a glint in my eye. It never takes much with your kind. It's almost like picking on an exceptionally mean child.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:15 AM
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I wasn't there, so I'd like numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 08:31 AM
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No, lol, In I think women are emotionally stunted. That's why we hide real depth from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:17 AM
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That's a pretty broad brush to paint an extremely disparate group of men. You don't strike me as the nuanced sort, or able to read men well, so let me clue you in on something. Irl women think I'm open, and vulnerable, but I never share my feeling unless they're nerfed to the the point they make no impact. Bet anything you can't actually put your finger on your bf's real vulnerability, and if you tried to stomp on it, you'd find a deep hole under a nice carpet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:46 PM
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Much better, thanks. I just needed to learn some things the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:33 PM
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Been maced, slashed with knives, had part of my ear lopped off with a vodka bottle. Had a beer stein across my face. She used steel toe combat boots to try snuff my head like a cigarette butt while I was sleeping. Almost shot me in the face. Those are just standouts in the daily verbal abuse, cigarette burns, and regular punching. While all that was going down, she also ran a private Facebook group with almost everyone who ever knew me where she would talk about what a piece of shit I am, and ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:29 PM
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This guy had to wave a red flag fit to fly off the back of a lifted f150 for you to see he was crazy, so I think your judgment may be suspect. You calling men who share their experiences trauma dumpers is just a wild overcompensation for your own mistakes. Edit: like, you had access to his Reddit history. No excuses for you here, ma'am.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:12 PM
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You're telling people to choose better? 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:26 PM
2

Whereas with women I would tend to have an assumption that she had an affair of the heart - that her husband is a jackass and she cheated on him with a guy who treated her right. All this makes it very cool when you're guy who gets cheated on, and abused. You get to see how two-faced, hypocritical, and stupid people really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:19 PM
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Citation needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:10 PM
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Men are more consistent? Shocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:02 PM
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Men do not have many sources of external validation. People can crow about self fulfillment all day, but they'd keep it to themselves if they didn't care about being agreed with. Having a partner is often the first time a man will be shown affection since puberty turned him into a morlock.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:34 AM
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I'd recommend asking in the HLcommunity, but they're antagonistic against anyone who doesn't follow their failing formula of pottery class, and chastity. How do you usually initiate? Since I assume it's usually you who does. How often are you rebuffed?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:17 AM
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Whatever helps you sleep at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 12:04 AM
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I have as many partners in a year as the average man has in his life, and I'm rated a 2/10 on photofeeler. I'm not charismatic, wealthy, or exceptionally hung either. Not sure what everyone else is doing wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:47 PM
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I can just be quiet with my girlfriend. There's never any pressure to put on a face as long as I make it clear how much I love her. Which is a lot. The way she trusts me with most of her thoughts is a deeper connection than the way she trusts me with her body. She's one of the most thoughtful people I've ever known too. She's not just nice to me; everyone loves her, and her circle is nice too. There's a lot more I could say, but it would bore you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:14 PM
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Number one reason folk hate autistic people, they don't lie enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:49 PM
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You don't even have to have sex with them first though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:44 PM
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Like most things, it's perception. If other guys think of you as, or call you a chad, you're a chad. You define chad, chad doesn't define you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:28 AM
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Odd. I wonder if there's some correlation between messiness, and what makes a guy attract women to date. Because my tidy friends are mostly unlucky in love. The more I think about it, it's almost exactly inversely proportional with the cleanest of us having the hardest time finding mates.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:32 AM
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It is my experience, yes. Why our experiences are so different has me twisting my beard. Maybe it's a class thing. Do you tend to date men who grew up well off?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 08:39 AM
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Women seem to act like men walk around shedding trash, or something. Where are you meeting these dudes? Cleaning up after myself has never been an issue for me. All my dude friends keep their places neat, or at least organized in cases where they have too little space. Most of them don't have a woman living with them. Meanwhile, a lot of the women I've dated keep their areas sloppy. Not like gross, but obviously behind on everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 04:01 PM
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Implying that you were implying you don't clean your home. People who don't do their dishes eat off paper plates when they run out of tupperware lids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:44 PM
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it means the woman isn’t required to do domestic work. How to say you eat off paper plates without using those words.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 08:26 AM
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I know both sides. Used to gypsy cab streetwalkers because they would get stranded in my lot, and they usually paid well. I don't like johns, or hookers. Johns are automatically trash in my eyes. The majority of them are cheating on somebody, and the rest I'm disappointed in for too many reasons to list. I'm a guy, so I've met enough admitted johns to make a lot of unfavorable correlations. Sex workers are trash for the same reasons any huckster is. The lines of bullshit they will spout to make …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:41 PM
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Are you familiar with the term "new relationship energy"? It usually hits right before, or after sex, and can last months. The person you have that feeling for can do no wrong, and can do a lot of damage during that blind period. Men are particularly susceptible to it because, frankly, we're more sensitive. We have emotional pussies that can make us defensive after they've been pumped and dumped too many times. Not excusing anyone who sets out to lie, I'm just explaining some cases of why men mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:39 PM
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I date women in their late 30s, so yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:41 PM
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Exactly, I read micro expressions like plain English, and know exactly what people want to hear. I choose not to because it feels phony. Better to be based in hell, than cringe in heaven.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 12:36 PM
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You sound like me, and I don't even have a snatch to protect.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:06 AM
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Because people with gassed up egos are so swell.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:49 AM
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Because a lot of us understand pressuring someone to set a definitive course is writing an unspoken contract for a manipulative person to use against them, but they don't know how to express it. It leads to a lot of unga bunga debate where nobody has even agreed what words mean yet, so both sides posture, and fling shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:44 AM
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You talk to a lot of johns?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:16 AM
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try being yourself 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:09 AM
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they don't pick up as well on social cues Keep telling yourself that. People who mask pick up so much more than you even understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:40 AM
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I can't just appreciate my rich inner world without joining a cause?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 11:03 AM
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Being alone is lovely. Those dudes don't know what they're missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:57 AM
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All true, but I'm not sure that not being proactive in dating lowers your chances of being mislead. The guys I've known who truly hated women had no problem approaching them, and playing a relationship shell game.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:43 PM
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Not saying you're wrong, but do you think many women are worried about hurting their chances with the guys on here who complain about body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:25 PM
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I mean, she practically hit me with a heart shaped frying pan, so it's my fault if she never tried that again.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:46 PM
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Could also mean she wanted to try all 36 flavors. If you got the free gift card, you might as well. I know I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:13 PM
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Yes and? You saying guys think "you're good enough for now" is just you saying you feel like you're not good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:27 PM
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If a high body count just means a woman wants/enjoys sex, why would that be a negative? I can see your point if her libido plummets as soon as she meets you, and you should totally walk away from that situation. Excluding that circumstance though, it seems like a win to me. Unless I'm missing something.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:43 AM
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The most toxic women are generally b cluster personality types, and they're very good at bringing everyone to their side no matter how wrong they are. Trying to point out bullies is like trying to save a battered wife. She'll fight you with him. Fuck them all, just live in a way that it's not your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:58 AM
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My bios are epic. Writing is one of my few talents, and I've had more than one partner tell me they'd get hot reading me before ever seeing me, and I don't even write erotica. That said, I get a like a week on a good week. I make the most of it, but the point is is that I could probably be more successful if I tightened my abs a bit, smiled more, and erased all the text.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:40 AM
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"yes, you're good enough for right now". Is this projection, insecurity, or a sweet n' salty combo of the two?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:27 AM
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Mfw when women try to define masculinity. 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:22 AM
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The number of times I've obliviously missed a woman flirting with me. Literally giving me a number, and inviting me to a private photo shoot, and I'm like, "der, I'm not actually a photographer though". Some of us can't be saved.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:18 AM
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That's a big if. I see it more likely that this would be used to shame, and scorn men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:24 AM
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Always love the assumption that sexual preference is magically attuned to evolutionary needs. Like, consider the ego it takes to believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:45 AM
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I don't worry how the rain falls in the desert. That's not were I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:23 AM
2

Being injected with something isn't the same as having it most of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:17 AM
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I'm not sure where the lie is. Yes, in most cases I was dtf before she was, but I assume the women I court aren't naive. The time I put in is giving her time to guess whether I'll keep putting that time in after I've hit it. The ones who wanted it right away made it clear before meeting, the ones who felt the first date was enough made it clear by how they kissed me goodnight. It's so normie for a chick to be liked for her body that getting a guy to like her as a person too is almost a kink.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:38 PM
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I date a lot of readers. I'll leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:24 PM
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That was not the male perspective, if such a thing exists. That was a woman on testosterone having a dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:21 PM
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Saw some thing saying more than half of the people surveyed in the UK think milk comes from wheat. Common knowledge is a lot to ask anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:29 PM
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Water is wet, Santa is fake, women lie about everything. It is known.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:31 PM
1

My idea certainly won't work if I'm the only one who thinks it will. The impulse to dominate is almost always born from resource insecurity, real, or perceived. In a healthy person who has their basic needs met, that capacity manifests as assertiveness instead. Like how that wolf study was binned because it only looked at wolves in harsher conditions than they would face in the wild. Unfortunately we do live in a zoo, so I guess we're fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:51 PM
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Incel for one, but conservative truly offends the sensibilities. The point I wanted to make is you can change the behavior by changing the language. If you see a guy out there doing positive guy stuff like helping old people, or pitching in at home, call that macho. Men seem to want the label no matter what its current definition is, so by controlling the definition you...control men...fuck, actually never mind what I said. That was all crazy talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:05 PM
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Once you start name calling, I don't feel obligated to play by marquis of Queensbury rules, so arguments to tone are on the table. Does that class clarify it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:29 PM
1

I can tell, you totally maintained your composure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:32 PM
1

I'm clinically incapable of getting upset, but appreciate the concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:16 PM
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I wouldn't make an estimate of your intelligence based on one disagreement. You can jump to conclusions, and imply I'm a conservative, or incel, or whatever label you need to dehumanize me all day, but I've no need to seeth. Sorry this has been upsetting, I'll drop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:25 AM
1

Point is you're contributing to the problem by devolving a concept into a base mockery. By all means though, wring your hands instead of grasping the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:54 AM
1

You have a funny definition of evolution. Did you get it from the same dictionary that insisted ain't isn't a word for about a hundred years? Guess if if that's how you want macho to be defined, I'm afraid you're going to have to suck it up when mAcHo harasses you, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:22 AM
1

I'm not conservative, and it wouldn't be a point in an argument if I was, so that's irrelevant. The meaning of words means a lot. Obviously what men are told is macho matters, but you insist on redefining it to be something you don't like. Men aren't going to stop trying to be manly, so how you define manly is extremely important, and you're a part of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:41 AM
1

It's not that ancient. Like, less than a hundred years ago macho meant the exact opposite, and it should be taken back.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:27 AM
3

That's not macho. By definition, macho is a stoic family man. That Johnny Bravo shit is an American aberration of the concept. When I hear things about wanting groups of people to disappear, my danger radar pings. I don't wanna end up on a train because I look scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:02 AM
3

Small push-back; how do you know what those guys in front of the coffee shop think of themselves? It honestly comes off like you are murderously hateful of things you think are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:50 AM
0

Not really, guys are more likely to try get their friend laid if they find out he's a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:01 PM
0

If you need a tour guide during your time here on earth, I'm free.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:58 PM
1

falling behind Pushed out
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:41 PM
1

See that thing you did at the end there. I bet some chick read that, thought it was clever, and percolated a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:22 AM
1

Look at it like this. Being hot is like having an icbm that you can use to devastating effect. Being funny is like staging a military coup. Missile guy can kill whoever he wants, sure, but clever guy is getting all he wants for pennies on the dollar. By all means, spend an appreciable amount of your time, and money to obtain the looks that'll attract the sort of woman who'll abandon you when your beauty fades. I'll continue reminding chicks of their dad with dry humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:11 AM
3

Can't be anyone's friend if you're going to be everyone's friend. Considering what the existentialists witnessed in their lifetimes, I'm surprised they had any hope at all. That makes me more optimistic than depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:49 AM
2

It's not nihilism. Nihilism is the abyss between accepting there is no god, and finding your own meaning. A nihilist is one who failed to make that leap.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:42 AM
1

You've never heard of chuckle sluts?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:03 AM
4

Somehow that's the grossest way I've ever heard it described.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:00 AM
2

You ain't even joking. We will make you the monster we treat you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:19 AM
2

Eh, they just don't know what it's like to swept up by a huge piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:28 PM
2

I don't know for sure. I've dropped a nine for much less, but have let a seven drag me through hell. It might just be that I'm a retard who will usually make the wrong choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:23 PM
1

I would likely be worse off. The guilt would eat at me. She'd probably be pretty happy about it. She still hits me up occasionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:33 PM
1

My opinions of them as people doesn't mean I think they need to be in jail. Merely being alienated by society, and regarded as a joke will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:00 PM
6

I've dated a woman that most would consider ugly. We connected a lot before I saw her, so I didn't truly see the "flaws". I just knew she was not fat, very witty, gave worshipful blowjobs, and loved me. Eventually I figured out that just because she's nice to me doesn't mean she's a nice person though. That made the veil fall, and I couldn't be attracted to her anymore. I think if she were pretty I might have forgiven her poor character though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:46 PM
-1

Even if I wasn't opposed to capitalism, I've yet to meet a sex worker that wasn't a scandalous, sneaky chiseler, and all around scumbag. What's more is they're fucking pushy, and never accept the first no. They'll use every form of manipulation to get in your pocket, even crying. As a former salesman, I respect the craft, but as a former salesman I know salesmen are some of the worst people around.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:26 PM
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I'm concerned by the idea that men would just be chimps if they couldn't throw a nut into a reasonable facsimile of a woman. Why aren't you more concerned with the soulless consumerism driving the leviathan that is actively cutting you off from happiness, so they can charge you for a chance at it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:48 PM
3

Men want relationships, but the surgeon general approved style of relationship is inherently toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:34 PM
1

😠 Why won't you fuck my mom, ma'am?!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:54 PM
1

Do you want my mom's number? All the lesbians in the factory worship her. It's none of my business.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:48 PM
1

I didn't assume it would be a problem. You specifically stated you don't have much respect for sahms. I was just clarifying because you asked other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 07:32 PM
1

lol, I meant wingman in the most facetious way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 07:30 PM
1

Saw your responses to other guys who like their moms. My mom worked in a factory with my dad. Often 12 hour shifts. I was a latchkey kid who mostly raised himself. Doesn't mean my mom wasn't good at being a mom though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 07:28 PM
1

What kind of woman sees a guy with a good mom as a negative?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 07:18 PM
2

Please do. My mom would be a great wingman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:32 PM
4

I used to get in a lot of fights because bigger dudes won't let you avoid it without trying to make you look like a bitch. They have the complex in my opinion. A short man complex is more likely cptsd.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:05 PM
1

Cohabitation can work as long as nobody is dependent on anyone else. Two, or more people that just do the dishes without needing to be told under one roof is a beautiful thing. Good roommates are hard to find though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:56 PM
-1

That's not actually a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:45 PM
-2

I'd drop the gamous too. Marriage is death for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:40 PM
-1

Nor men from women. It's kinda messed up to feel entitled to have that much control over anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:55 PM
-1

The common denominator here isn't fame, or money, or the cheating men having options. It's monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:29 PM
0

If anything gets done in my home, I did it. I'm the only one employed. The only one with a car, and license, so all shopping is on me. All repairs, projects, or big cleaning jobs fall on my shoulders. Managing the bills, running side hustles, setting doctors appointments, me. All my nest mate does is cook dinner a few nights a week, make grocery lists, and pat herself on the back for holding it all together.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:17 PM
1

Yes, but also no. Gonna be a piece of shit, and make a sport analogy. A guy could be lugging a heavy bat, but nobody is ever gonna know if he never brings it to the plate. He could have a phenomenal swing, but somebody has to pitch to him to find out. Unfortunately, there are no talent scouts in dating, so women rely on the famously unreliable bde system to find casual sex. If you look like a slob, nobody will know you're Babe Ruth kinda thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 12:37 PM
9

Recently matched with a woman on OkC, who asked for my fetlife profile. As soon as she saw it, she's like, "I don't fuck male masochists, subs, or bottoms, I've learned my lesson". I told her I've learned my lesson about fucking retards. Now here's the thing, I could've just kept my kink to myself, and she'd just think I'm a dom as I bore her out on her boyfriend's kitchen table. Men aren't just largely barred from exploring kinks without sex workers, we are typecast into a role, and any deviati…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:14 AM
3

This post would sound great from a shiny douchebag with a headset mic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:05 AM
2

You ever dip chocolate in spicy nacho cheese? Sometimes you don't know what you want until you have it. Then you get that taste, and you're hooked for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 09:48 AM
1

Ah, so you're just trying to be condescending. I was looking for a point. That's why I was confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:16 AM
2

I'm confounded why you would try to make this about me. Do you still have an argument if it turns out I have multiple women that share me? If women had this preternatural ability to weigh men's worth like you claim, they wouldn't keep falling for my own shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 02:25 AM
2

More like missionary sadism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:46 PM
1

I just like to see rich people hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:36 AM
1

Is "willing to try" polyamory (this flag is for her protection) Works in mental health, or medical field (god complexes and narcissism) "Faith, family, friends" Travel as a personality Kink as a personality (fetlife hosts the most boring people to ever exist) "Don't waste my time" (thinks she owns time) Draws anime The list is very long, but I'm short on time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:54 AM
4

That argument kinda falls on its face when you watch the average man try that lifestyle for themselves, and end up more alone than ever. Sure, the women banging the dudes who bang multiple chicks are also banging multiple men, but all those men are usually clones of each other. The door is still closed to most men for casual sex no matter how many partners women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:43 AM
3

Somebody told you wrong. Women want to get off as much as men. It just takes them longer to figure that out because they're instinctively attracted to men who can't make them orgasm. If you hit that button for her though, she is liable to be as big a simp for you as any dude on onlyfans.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:03 AM
12

If money, and status are what you consider valuable you can expect your relationships to be dysfunctional in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:07 AM
21

Not trying to be mean, So you're just going to open with a lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:54 PM
6

Useful to whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 02:42 PM
3

😟 He's not far off. Several of my partners have dissed their boyfriends/husbands to me. I started to write down a few examples, and realized that some dude might jack off to it, so I stopped.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:14 PM
1

You'll dislike my answer more than your own conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:05 AM
1

Three words; polyamorous cult leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:50 PM
1

It should be a deal breaker for me, but I've been too tolerant in the past. I'm a very quiet, calm person, so I should hold my partners to the same standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:38 PM
1

She had just broke off with a guy who was bad in bed, but otherwise really cool. He wanted to just be a bootycall relationship. She told him there are guys who can give her better sex, and real friendship. It was mostly joking foreplay because we are both very insecure. She talked about how I am built to to scrape out his jizz, and it was cool
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:29 AM
2

I think women prefer whatever sex gives them orgasms. Relationship sex is statistically better because good dick increases the chances a woman will try to lock it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:35 PM
2

She slipped, and sat on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:29 PM
1

My girlfriend was talking about this as foreplay a while back...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:24 PM
3

I would say so. They're not as good at it as they think.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:04 AM
4

I listen to AM radio, so I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:57 AM
5

I read this in the voice of a southern preacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:49 AM
5

Exactly, correlation doesn't equal causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 01:20 PM
3

Why equate introverted with antisocial, and unpleasant? There's a reason we have three separate words for those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:12 PM
6

Meanness generally comes from insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:32 AM
3

This is church, and it goes for friendships too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:27 AM
33

You're setting yourself for an unhealthy relationship if there needs to be a "the" catch. Both partners should make the other feel lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 09:39 PM
1

Look how a happy bachelor lives. Generally it's very spartan. It's only when we seek the female gaze that we feel compelled to make our nest shiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:03 AM
1

Bullying didn't really bother me. That would require an investment in reality I've never been willing to make. Occasionally the boring repetitiveness was annoying, but it was more a sense of disappointment that they genuinely thought they were clever. Like, that's the bar we're setting? The kid who thinks this dumb thing is funny the five-thousandth time he's heard it is going to be allowed to vote?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:01 AM
1

Crying kink is so common that there's a philia named for it. Edit: 7600+ hits on xvideo alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 09:23 AM
0

Yeah, we drive Mercedes even when you aren't looking because it makes us feel sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:06 AM
8

That's fucked, I'm sorry. Do you ever look at people, and wonder if they tortured somebody as a kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:37 AM
-3

Men get sold that bullshit too. You think men would be buying half the wasteful garbage they do if capitalism didn't necessitate it to impress the capricious demands of women? The fucking planet could be saved if y'all didn't like nice cars.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:02 PM
73

As a teen, women were vicious as fuck. Girls would approach me just to say why they thought I was trash. Maybe it was something about the neighborhood. Or me. I don't know, it hasn't been an issue since.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:41 PM
2

Women are expected to wear makeup and appeal to the male gaze from a young age. Expectations they put on themselves. /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:27 PM
3

We all die alone no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:25 PM
2

Golly, I guess you can take her down to the malt shop for the sock bop, and give her your promise ring at make-out point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:24 PM
7

Because a nuanced worldview might expose a woman to a reflection of their own failure to seize happiness. Easier to just say man bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:20 PM
6

I'd rather not lend credibility to the notion that certain bad traits are inherently masculine by doing the same to femininity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:01 PM
1

Only slightly off topic. We are all undervalued for our contributions. That's why I do not look down on a housewife. My job felt important when I got to be in their shoes. Regular work is painful, and soul crushing, and it really doesn't matter if you're good at it. Keeping a home is nice. It's like a garden you tend. When you are the worker your contributions are invisible to your family because your emotional, and physical labor was spent on somebody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:19 AM
1

Basically I was Mary Poppins except I slept on the couch, and my salary was xanax, and Subway subs. She worked her forty, and I made sure she didn't have to lift a finger after work. Didn't even have to paint her own nails. On top of all the responsibility of raising a kid, I cleaned after nightly parties, and was her chauffeur. If it could've lasted forever, I'd have been quite happy. Never felt taken for granted, but I can understand how I might see it differently if she never said thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:10 PM
1

I prefer no risk. Cohabitation is the meta.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:42 PM
1

Off topic, have you seen how much honey would cost if bees were paid minimum wage?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:28 PM
2

I've been a couch butler for a single mother. Parenting is far more fulfilling than any job I've ever done, and children aren't that messy. They like cleaning if you don't make it a chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:26 PM
2

Nah, sometimes they're just lazy, and see housewife as the easiest job. They ain't even wrong either. Dudes would, and sometimes do, do it themselves because housework is a snap.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:14 PM
2

As opposed to divorce, where most marriages go. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:10 PM
1

Gay dudes exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:03 PM
1

To bash him. Public degradation is a common abuse tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:15 PM
1

If it's a larp, it's a very dedicated one. I've seen lots of relationships like this. She's an angry person who married him because she hates him. Classic romance tale.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:13 PM
3

OP is active in dead bedroom subs, so I'm guessing she's enforcing his inceldom.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:54 PM
2

It's called the seven year itch.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:43 PM
2

True, and that may because I don't fully agree with the original argument. I think it's more accurate to say mothers don't have the tools to raise healthy men. We'd be in much worse shape as a society if mothers subconsciously wanted to destroy their sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:22 PM
2

It really adds gas to the nature nurture argument how one bad childhood can make one guy quiet, and avoidant while that same experience can inspire another guy to leave hookers discarded across the freeway system like piss jugs. I can only remember my mom telling me one thing about women. We were watching Lethal Weapon 2, and it was the scene where Riggs is hitting on some chick at a super market. She keeps trying to shade him, but he harasses her into a date by taking her food. My mom said, "th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:12 PM
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First off, I'm sorry your relationship with your mother was so detrimental. Your situation is what I meant by the "overbearing matriarch". Also didn't intend to imply my examples were a comprehensive list of ways a mother can damage her boy. What you describe is far more common. My own experience was the "man of the house" scenario. Honestly have the best mother in the world, but once dad died, what little childhood hadn't already been stolen was over. Somebody had to be dad for all those younge…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:09 PM
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Hyper specific, but not nearly as uncommon as you'd like. It's the way things have been done a helluva lot longer than we're trying to do them now. The presence of a father is near essential for a boy to have a real childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:19 PM
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It's really only an issue with single mothers, or families with an overbearing matriarch. The most extreme example would be to take a look at the very consistent descriptions of the mothers of serial killers. In my own life I've experienced mothers basically selling their sons to gangs, putting him on a corner with some crack to be a man. Once the father figure is gone, many mothers nominate their eldest boy to take over duties they're not ready for. All the duty, but none of the authority of an…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:52 PM
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I didn't think I'd have anything to add on this thread, but you just reminded me of one that both sexes are going to hate. Women report little satisfaction from casual sex, and they're almost exclusively going for hot guys to have that sex. Therefore, hot guys are trash in bed, and women are terrible judges of men despite thinking they're experts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:42 PM
3

Religion has existed longer than masses.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:30 PM
2

That's some steep tuition. I'd advise these pimps of the pews to stay in shape because their virgin bride still has eyes, and internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:22 PM
10

A guy can respect women, and still want to feel lusted after. A lot of dudes don't seem to get that out of relationships though, and it leaves them feeling settled for. A few have the right amount of luck, smarts, and game to maintain a ltr with a woman that makes him feel desirable; more often a chick treats that dude like a vending machine that doesn't give back change. She's going to put just enough kissy tokens in until he dispenses a relationship, and not a penny more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:12 PM
3

There's no record of who invented religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:16 PM
1

People rise through ranks in church. They still believe a bunch of bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:34 PM
2

That sounds about par for the course. Too much of what's posted there comes off like somebody indulging a humiliation kink. I like the lifestyle, but the community leaves a bad taste in my mouth sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:59 AM
3

There's not much in it for a man. You can have everything marriage entrails without a legal guillotine over your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:47 AM
1

Marriage existed long before nobles.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:44 AM
1

Getting out of shape, and being a clod are choices, but balding just happens. Healthy living can only hold that tide back so long.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:32 AM
4

Marrying a virgin is how you end up on r/enm seven to ten years later, crying that your wife feels like she missed out on exploring, and wants to open the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:16 AM
3

I wouldn't say it's easy, but no, I don't think it would work for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 02:52 PM
2

My ex once threw a grown man by his neck, and whipped him with a wallet chain. Her ex has a big scar from where she had wielded a hot clothing iron by the cord like a flail.(he likely deserved it) I still get persistent infections in my ear from when she tried to shoot me. I think it's wise to avoid anyone who gives any indication they think it could be okay to harm you, man, or woman. It would've saved us both a lot of trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 12:15 PM
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I dunno, it really isn't fair having to argue with somebody who is crying, and I think some women know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 11:05 AM
1

Dangerous women know how to isolated their men. One day you're letting her block women on your social media, the next day she's causally describing how she'd kill you, and get away with it if you ever left her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:41 AM
6

Yep, that was me. My ex would cut my throat in my sleep if I talked to another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:59 PM
3

That is a bit of a relief. Hope I'm doing as well as your parents did.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:27 PM
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I think there's a lot of accuracy in your ruminating. A woman that I don't talk to recently went out of her way to compliment my shirt color. This fucking spasm hit my brain telling me she must want to date. After giving it thought, I realized she goes out of her way to be nice to everybody. That's what man's fragility is imo. The inability to accept kindness without it piercing deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:45 PM
11

My parents were chill by 80s standards, and I still got the buckle end of the belt on occasion. My sisters never got so much as their hair tousled though. Not like I'd want them to be hit, but I couldn't help but notice the double standard. It left me with some unpleasant conclusions. A few women in my life have confirmed how common it was to be aggressively pursued by older men when they were kids. It makes me worry about my daughters. It makes me hate people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:28 PM
2

That they're so transparently full of shit makes it that much more frustrating that so many are taken in by it. Maybe the sort who recognize a leader are as rare as leaders themselves. People seem more content to be simply told what to do rather than judge who's setting a good example to follow. Like, it takes a certain amount of leadership to follow a leader. Otherwise you just end up with a boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 07:36 PM
2

Assholes indeed; I made the comparison because bitcoin bros remind me of mlm huns. The alpha mindset pushed to some of it's most sociopathic conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:56 PM
7

Never too late to start making the little changes that add up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:56 PM
27

Case in point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 04:29 PM
0

The modern idea of an alpha is just a male boss babe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 04:28 PM
95

All I'll say is that very few men have any expectation of anyone giving a shit about them. That's beaten in early, and often.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 04:22 PM
1

There's nothing to manipulate from me. She's only asked for my time, which I already give her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:38 PM
2

...and you call yourself a stoic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:26 PM
1

She actually tried to buzz me in, but I'd already left. When my truck broke down, she bought me a car, so I'm very aware of where I stand in her life. Just because we're unconventional doesn't mean we're not close.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:18 PM
1

Every once in a while I see a perspective here that opens new ideas to me. I've gained two nuggets of insight from this, so I don't feel my time was wasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:55 PM
2

Well, I'm glad I didn't let myself get hot blooded then. I hadn't considered how that could be scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:48 PM
2

She has a warrant, so she's afraid of the cops. It occurs to me that if the guy knew she has a warrant, he might have known she wouldn't be able to report him. How fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:26 PM
2

I can see why you'd be jaded given your history. I would not be right with myself to walk away though, and I don't think you would be either if you were in my shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 12:57 PM
2

Good advice, I have another girlfriend, and she's giving support too. Having another woman to talk to is probably more helpful than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 12:49 PM
1

Yeah, I've been a chump hero before too. She ain't like that though. I'm not sure what I expected. Somebody to just have some magic words I can pass on to make it all okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 12:44 PM
1

If it's any relief, I'm ignoring the advice telling me to ditch her. I know she's not lying, and have nothing to lose by helping her through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 12:32 PM
0

I say "sorta gf" because we have an understanding that she'll stop seeing me when she meets a nice stable guy. She literally cannot cheat on me because I don't care about that sort of thing. It's not uncommon for her to go dark for a few days after she's met someone promising, so that part didn't alarm me right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 12:22 PM
2

It wasn't so random, it's a guy she's been talking to. She has a warrant though, so she's afraid to talk to the police. I should have clarified that in the original post, but I was drinking my feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 12:11 PM
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I don't like cops, and I wanted to call them right away. She blames herself for not locking her door. She won't make a report, or let me at him. How do I best offer support from here?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:12 AM
1

I did. She has a warrant, so she's at risk calling the cops.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:02 AM
0

No you can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 11:14 PM
0

I'd date a mop with lipstick if it could hold a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:29 PM
2

You only learn if they like dancing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 02:53 PM
2

Stay young inside. Bold, adventurous, and true. Anyone telling you to grow up just wants you to be a boring, burger gobbing drone like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 01:30 PM
3

There's really no point in insulting the appearance of somebody you've never seen. My mom says I'm handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 01:25 PM
2

The men who look like shit at thirty are usually the ones who got married at twenty. A decade of getting sent back out for milk as soon as a he gets home from work ages men in dog years. I'm only beating the curve because I don't make facial expressions that cause wrinkles.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 11:36 AM
14

You may as well use astrology as far as what dancing tells you about a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 11:28 AM
1

As a preference, not many. There's enough dudes out there who would walk on glass to have anyone desire them though. Not even all bottom of the barrel dudes either. Any judgement of those dudes doesn't change the fact that my competition is going to stay the same age as I get older. Hopefully my libido crashes, and I still like my hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 09:00 AM
2

Is this Tiger Beat? Who cares what some manufactured celebrity does?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:34 PM
2

Half true; being shit on for no good reason never makes anyone better. When an ugly person pulls off a Susan Boyle it's despite of how they're treated, not in spite of. There's another side of that coin though. Pretty people are more likely to be affable, but also more likely to be boring, or have a dark triad personality. Those traits in an ugly person would've been rooted out, and pushed to the fringe of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:35 PM
1

My observation is that the title of slut has more to do with how people perceive those you sleep with than how many you sleep with. A chick banging a new rich dude every week is just a slay queen. Fuck two dudes in my tax bracket in the same year, and you're a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:32 PM
5

First three sentences, and I forgot the topic. I could only ponder the sort of person who would write that. Surely it's the same sort of person who farts into their cupped hands, and brings it to their face, eyes closed in dreamy contemplation. The sort of person who wipes their shoes before leaving your house.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 12:15 PM
1

Dude nearing forty, and I date in my age group. Relating to people is difficult enough without a generational gap. Not red pilled either, I'm poly pilled. My insecurity lays in the fact that when I'm fifty, fifty year old women will be dating forty year old and younger men. When I'm sixty, sixty year old women will be dating forty year old and younger men. Soon I'll be considered creepy for even trying, and people on Reddit will be aggressively unsympathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:03 AM
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Idk, I feel sympathy. Maybe because I sense I'm close to aging out, and know I'll be joining their ranks soon enough. Mostly because commodification of flesh is gross on its face though. The deadeyed shark women, and crusty crotched degenerates who inhabit that industry sicken me on an atavistic level.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:42 PM
1

outside of money or looks Well, I wasn't going to comment, but since you leveled the playing field. Actually, no, I'm an okay guy, but I'm not writing a bio here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 11:43 AM
1

I find fashion to be a bunch of vainglorious bullshit that almost never enhances, or hides anyone's nature. People who worry about it are boring. I wander through resale shops with my eyes closed like I'm buying a tarot deck looking for stuff a 70 year old black guy who wears newsboy caps probably died in. That's the extent of my effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 11:01 PM
2

Marriage has existed long before it could be recorded who invented it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 10:49 PM
1

You've clearly never driven through a bad neighborhood if you think sex workers are usually out of anyone's "league".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 10:43 PM
1

Let's see how close people can get to embracing eugenics without actually saying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:11 AM
1

Who told you "alpha males" are able to consistently satisfy women in bed? Did a self described alpha male tell you this? If these guys are the one hooking up, and most women don't get off from their encounters, that kinda says that your typical alpha is trash in bed. Probably too selfish, unable to read cues, doesn't care if they feel safe enough to let go. If a chick wants to dance on the ceiling she is better off finding a guy with low self esteem, and big hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:40 AM
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I wasn't sure how to phase it. I meant like a woman who would prefer to be lesbian, but will give a guy a shot when desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:27 PM
1

Gotta disagree. Women don't suddenly take initiative just because they're dating women. Sex and relationships happen because somebody risks rejection, which women are far less likely to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:47 PM
1

r/bpdlovedones
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:44 PM
2

Have you actually talked to a bi chick? They often have more trouble dating women than men do. I'd bet anything that a portion of bi women are lesbians who occasionally date men to feel better about themselves. Dating women is bad for anyone's mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:36 PM
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Nice cock, bro. I don't see how your experience proves the majority of men are a rabble of slovenly bums though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:31 PM
2

Not passed the second line, no. Why, does it get better?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:28 PM
14

It happens; a partner brags about their exploits, but fucks like a Jehovah's witness with you. You can mull over how you're not as good as those past lovers, and beat yourself up. Let yourself be cucked by their past. That is, in fact, what they want you to do. That is why they told you. It keeps you insecure, and small. The proper response to this dynamic is to simply say "I'm sorry you are old, and tired, but I am not. I'm not done exploring, so I'll find someone else to go with me."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:11 PM
25

I'd wager this perception has more to do with the sort of men you're attracted to. The majority of men are perfectly fine at adulting, but they're invisible to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:41 AM
8

I think if either gender was hit with a sort of Liar Liar curse, the species would be extinct within a few generations. The week 1 suicides alone would look like a fucking plague hit to the aliens who found our bones.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:39 AM
1

I'm not people?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:19 AM
2

Simple matter of income disparity. There are less bucks for betas. It's all in The Mass Psychology of Fascism. drunken belch Incels are created intentionally by the ruling class so there will always be a supply of suicide bombers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:33 AM
1

I like having somebody to people-watch with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:54 PM
16

The economy has done more damage to beta bucks than some bloggers could ever hope to, and these newly sentient men you seem to be seeing will forget all that stuff the next time a chick smiles at him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:47 AM
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I'm not sure why you're acting like you've dunked on me. I have no interest in your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:49 AM
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I agree with op about ugly, but not fat. There are a lot of women who are fat, but look hot, and I'm sure there are men like that too. Ugly on the other hand, that's a lot harder to even pin down. It's a base, atavistic sense you get from someone that taints your perception of everything they do. They're considered less intelligent, lower class, potentially dangerous. We reinforce that perception by cutting them off from many opportunities for education, and job placement, and locking them in be…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:59 AM
1

A woman I'm dating right now has a guy that wines n dines her about three times a week. He's got the latest model Camaro, a boat, a fancy address, but he only thinks he has a girlfriend. Between their dates she's bringing me lunch at work, buying all my groceries, and having nasty, acrobatic fuck-a-thons. She dogs him out in the afterglow for being cheesy. It kinda bothered me a little that she's essentially cheating on someone with me, but then I started imagining him crying while we bang, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:14 AM
1

I refuse to live in that reality, and haven't blinked out of existence yet. What I meant to allude to originally is that testing people seems like a bad way to start a relationship. Of course you should wait until you want to, but transferring your distrust in your decision making into distrust of someone you like is unfair. You should own that you made bad choices here and there, and not try to blame some invisible force that stacks the field against you. It's a lesson I need to be reminded of …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:37 AM
1

Why is she in quotes? Is she only ironically she? Whatever though, your unnecessarily abrasive language aside, why would "she" want to be in a ltr with a man who sees her zoot as her only coin?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 01:52 PM
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Why would a man even want a ltr with a woman that thinks her snizz is her only coin? It kind of implies she'll be a lazy partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 01:35 PM
1

Well...technically I was banned for being rude according to them. One lady kept being rude, and calling my lived experience "mansplaining". I countered that she has only ever given herself an orgasm, while I've helped many women have them. They made sure to delete my winning argument before banning. Man, she doesn't even want to know what my first draft was. I thought I was being tame compared to the temperature of the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 09:49 AM
1

No, there likely isn't, and I'm not trying to compare. Merely pointing out that just a slap is underselling it. I mean, I've had to have a piece of my ear sewn back on. She called the police on herself, confessed, and was waiting at home when I got out of the hospital the next morning. It is worse than you say it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 01:05 PM
1

I've seen a woman wield a hot clothes iron by the cord like a medieval flail. The dude is scarred pretty good from it. We just don't report that sort of thing to the police very often.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:35 PM
4

I did just get ghosted by a chick who claimed to love me yesterday. so I'm totally in the mood for a "these hos today" rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:06 AM
1

Good thing I never liked rom coms. Really, as soon as I hit post I had that Keyser Soze moment where a montage of scenes from 80s movies played through my mind. The entire teen movie genre is pretty trash. Guess considering what we know about Hollywood it's surprising anything was wholesome at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:02 AM
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A few months back my fwb was checking her texts that had accumulated while we were playing. Some were from this guy that she thinks is very genuine, and witty, but she's afraid of hurting him because the sexual attraction is one sided. I asked what made him unattractive, and she painted a picture of jean shorts with white New Balance shoes. The next day I'm with another lady, and it came up in conversation. She practically screamed, "there's some good dick inside jorts!" What I gather is that ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:50 PM
3

They aren't the vast majority of people, so that tracks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:23 PM
4

Not so much. Some guys overcome their shit, grow handsome, or accumulate wealth by 35, but just as many get baked like clay into a shape that can't be changed without breaking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:22 PM
3

I'm honestly not sure if you're agreeing, or disagreeing. We both made claims that have no hard data to back them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:14 PM
2

I'm ethically opposed to harem'ing, but if they're all living together cultist style, there can be a lot of labor division. It's a setup suited for rural living where extra hands are worth more than money. Not defending bigamy, just saying there's a reason it occasionally becomes prevalent in some areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:07 PM
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There's really no citation to back that. Rich people aren't into funding research that could make them look bad. All we can really say for sure is rich people are far less likely to be punished for crime in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:14 PM
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Idk, I think the feminists have a point about power dynamics sometimes making consent impossible. Sort of like how a famous person can never be sure if their friends are genuine. I'm a little too sunbaked to get into something heady like that right now. Even the guy in the bushes is often not going to fit the loser stereotype for their class. Case in point that Canadian serial rapist/killer whose name I'm forgetting. He had a girlfriend, side pieces, cronies, was regarded very well, ect. Yet he …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:01 PM
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This concept should be fleshed out into a dystopian romcom. That aside, I'd like to address your implying that your common rapist is some desperate nknh virgin who one day snaps like a Toadies song. That's rarely the case. The men who don't accept no for an answer are usually the ones who haven't been told no much in their life. That's why the more prestigious the college a woman attends, the more likely she is to have trauma responses at the sight of boat shoes in her future.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:57 PM
2

For one, sluts are less likely to hold a ridiculous notion that they're not in charge of their own orgasm. They push back on it instead of acting like a submissive lump who thinks porn is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 10:47 AM
3

This is why I say we need to isolate, and eradicate the libertarian gene in the womb.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 10:20 AM
3

Poly women tend to be more self sufficient, so their partners aren't just piggy banks to fund a cloning venture.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 10:18 AM
3

That sounds more like a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 10:03 AM
2

Jealousy is unbecoming.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:54 AM
1

From where I see it, society shuns both ideas. Only the lunatic fringe (=women who will date me) thinks it's ok to make false accusations, and the same goes for the idea that men are entitled to sex. Maybe I'm missing something subtle, but I've never been told I'm entitled to sex. Can you give me some examples? I mean like stuff expressed in media/art where human thought coagulates. And thank you for your supportive comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 09:48 PM
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I'm aware of the gap. Was recently banned from a sub for even suggesting a piv orgasm is possible. The amount of bitterness that brought up was not amusing. All I can do is continue to try close the gap, and be the change I want to see. And yes, from what I've seen, women that enjoy casual sex want to be talked up a bit, and build trust. Even if the man is attractive. There are of course the "party girls" who will throw it at any dude with enough Ed Hardy trash flash, but those women aren't usua…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:11 PM
1

Bonding makes orgasms easier to achieve for chicks, and they're more likely to want casual sex if they think it's going to make them goosh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:50 PM
2

"Vodka kills my gag reflex" -Lying ho that ruined my upholstery
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:36 PM
1

I was with you right up until you brought up mono-poly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:59 PM
1

I'm thoughtful, and reliable. I go out of my way to learn everything I can about my partners, and enrich their lives. More than one of them has told me that I raised their standards of how they want to be treated both in and out of bed. Yet I'll probably never experience true committed love. I'm just some fun for a time. Not like I feel used, or disrespected. It's just that I thought I deserve a life partner, but I am clearly deluded about my actual worth. I'm not sure how to fix it. Some day in…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:41 PM
2

Three separate women have threatened to makeup accusations against me. One wanted sex, another wanted to not break up, and one did it just to win a petty argument. I gave them what they wanted each time because the threat is as real as a gun to your head. They were all very smug about it too. Not that I would trade places with some chick getting thrown down stairs for refusing some guy. Just trying impress on you that it is much more common than you would imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 11:38 AM
4

Dude, five minutes into me rambling about Macedonian innovation of the hoplite archetype, and you couldn't fit a coffee straw in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:59 AM
1

My fwb is wife material. When she's committed to a guy we are just friends, period. When her man upsets her, and she calls me, we aren't planning a fuck session. We discuss how to get her needs met within the confines of the relationship. It's understandable that someone would feel threatened by their SO having such a close friendship with a sometimes-lover, but it's not going to work out anyways if there's no trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:16 AM
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I just chase approval through people pleasing, and casual sex like a normal person. All that self love stuff is just a scam to sell chicken soup books.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:08 PM
1

Most of the women I date have more money than me, and are fast to offer it if I mention something I'm saving to buy or do, so you're not off the mark. I can't stand feeling indebted though. Thing is, I'm not soliciting for gifts, or help, so if I did want to be a scumbag, I don't think I'd have to make much effort. Anything I can do in that arena, your average woman can do better. I think most chicks are going out of their way to not hustle dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:50 PM
1

My nest-mate had always been chubby, and eventually became fat. Now she's very fat. Everything that made me fall in love is gone. She used to be thoughtful, and kind. Now she screams at everyone, and forgets my birthday every year. She used to be motivated, and artistic. Now she has momentary passions that she abandons after she's spent half my tax return to buy a bunch of shit she'll never use. She used to treat our union like a partnership, but somewhere along the line she got the idea that sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:22 PM
1

My very average ex had much the same treatment. One of her proudest accomplishments was leading some idiot on until he'd burnt through his 10k trust fund payout on gifts and trips, and never slept with him. She literally cackles when she gets to the part where he cries. Like, she's not even fun to be around, but dudes be lonely af out there. It only took a few minutes of interaction with a lonely boomer before the asshole was sneaking over to beg her to go on a Caribbean cruise. I think you're r…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:50 PM
2

A lifetime flagellating myself for my slutty sins? I didn't know religion could be so hot. Where do I sign up?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:39 AM
4

That random Bloodhound Gang reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 01:28 PM
2

My mom is the kindest, hardest working lady in the world. I'm attracted to lazy, scandalous hos.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 05:33 PM
2

I'll take the hunter's eyes feat, and dump wisdom for charisma, he said in a nasally, but snot-plugged whimper.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:47 PM
13

I just got back from dnd, so I'm almost tempted to waste time building myself. All I'll say is income is my dump stat.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 04:22 AM
7

Your perspective is skewed because you're more likely to be around guys who put up with lack of affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 05:07 PM
5

Pssh, I wouldn't walk a block for a hand job.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:56 PM
2

What kind of manchildren are you pursuing ffs?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:43 PM
2

lol, you ain't wrong, and few men are more confident in their martial ability than one that's never been swung at.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:35 PM
0

Are you kink shaming me, bro? Queen of the Hood is like Felony Fights for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 01:06 PM
7

Most men are put probably neutral on the matter since we can already protect ourselves. There's enough guys like you to keep shows like Queen Of The Hood afloat though. Then there's the masochists pining for a violent women to lovingly punch their face in. Yeah, safe to say you're not alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 12:18 PM
7

Let's not even get into the swaths of doms that look like they couldn't survive a pillow fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 02:56 PM
1

Because I'm going to update her wiki after work to make me right. I did get something wrong though, she directed a bunch of episodes, but didn't write enough to get credits. There's some formula where you need to contribute a certain percentage to a script to get credit. She mostly added punch lines, and insults, so not enough to qualify.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 02:36 PM
2

The use of "every" here wouldn't be an absolute, at least not as it's phrased. To say women of every sort is not the same as saying every woman. Like if you were to say "smoking is a habit that people of every sort partake in", you wouldn't be implying that every person smokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 01:43 PM
9

To answer your third question; it's because women with bpd love bomb their targets of affection. Even the so-called alpha male 20%ers will receive very little in the way of encouragement, compliments, or acceptance for their flaws. This leaves many men vulnerable to the tactics women with bpd employ. Maybe vulnerable is the wrong word. More like "in need of" the tactics women with bpd employ.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 11:30 AM
1

Blue = Cool Ranch Conservative
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 11:12 AM
1

No, not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 09:57 AM
1

It's pretty fucked up that she's not credited, but it's not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 12:14 AM
0

Her name real escapes me at the moment, but she played Marci Darci on the show. Yeah, she wrote the mean things Al said to her; funny lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:29 PM
4

No, I just doubt there's a lot of people who bothered to develop an interesting personality. Too many people are boring, tv binging followers that swaddle themselves tropes for that to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 05:38 PM
2

I've met too many people to believe that last bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 04:21 PM
1

They're not that weird as far as teens go. Heck, Al even adopted Seven. Only a person with a heart of gold would take that annoying brat in.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:01 PM
3

It matters. Used to know this guy, Frank, lucky piece of shit had this thing that looked like it should be stacking lumber at an Indian construction site. That ungodly log was his entire personality, but he only had to pull it out at a party, and at least one woman would want to see if she even could. He's in prison for sticking a potato in a chick's butt, so thankfully we aren't competing with him anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 09:28 AM
1

I'm too tired to check, but I'd wager you're correct. Should've followed my first spelling, but my capitalist phone insists it's not a word.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 08:18 AM
5

If you have a big dick, and know where it's welcome to be shown, it's not that unbelievable. Especially if you get plugged into a kink community, which has a lot of overlap with the poly one. And if you're a decent lay too, you're liable to be traded around polycules like a free agent. Plus, I'm assuming he did this over the course of a decade, or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:54 PM
0

It isn't, but his actions don't reflect his words.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:54 PM
-5

He didn't cheat even when it was thrown in his lap. For all his talk, his actions were generally noble.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:30 PM
-6

He had a healthy sexual appetite, and worked every day to keep a stay at home mom who kept the house clean? For a show mostly written by a feminist lesbian, Al didn't seem so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 11:49 AM
2

No, but being hyperbolic doesn't help. It's fine enough to simply call it a crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 11:41 AM
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Your classicism is showing. Al was loyal to his wife who still lusted for him well after the seven year expiration date of most marriages. The children had nicer things than the parents, and never got hit, or even threatened. Sorry if poor people doing their best isn't up to your white glove standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 11:32 AM
9

Ok, I'm not the only one picking up the gay overtones in this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 11:22 AM
8

Then they should exercise, not give up their means of defense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:24 AM
1

My ex would always demand make-up sex after she hit me to "make sure I forgave her". It was beyond degrading, but I would give in. The sooner it was over, the sooner I could get on with my life. I don't know what that would be labeled; I consented, but with the expectation that it wouldn't be safe to sleep if I said no.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:11 AM
1

Wow, the life this lady led. More interesting than Forrest Gump by a long shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 09:56 AM
4

I'm pretty sure heart disease is still a bigger issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 09:21 AM
13

Your argument is self defeating. You literally just gave an example of overwhelming military might being ineffective while trying to claim there's no hope against overwhelming military might.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 09:06 AM
13

"Hypothetical"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 09:04 AM
2

My hometown's chief export is undue confidence. I knew several guys like this. One dude looked like he had his herpes applied with a blunderbuss, and at one point he had four women pregnant. Two of them were sisters, and the other two were mother, and daughter. All 7s to 9s. Do not doubt the depths of trash I've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 08:21 PM
1

Background and upbringing being a culture that executes heretics, and blasphemers. When aggravated death is a possible outcome, consent isn't even a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 08:12 PM
7

You talk about religious coercion like it's good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 03:37 PM
2

The idea that only the top 20% of men can play the field. I know some hit up, toothless, scandalous pieces of broke shit with mediocre dick game that can effortlessly have beautiful women paying their bills, and buying their weed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 02:13 PM
0

...and you're just going to go with that flow?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 11:42 AM
1

I like where this is going...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 11:30 AM
3

Rejection can be painful, so it's totally understandable that someone would want distance from the source of their hurt. If you're going to be mad at somebody for looking after themselves then you are the fake friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 10:36 AM
5

That's not how many people see the scale. Your typical Joe and Jane Sixpack believe 7 is average, and everything below that is just varying degrees of ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 10:16 AM
1

It's very helpful to be witty if you're not exactly killing it in other areas. You have to be legit funny though. Because better looking guys can make chicks giggle with weak material. Just look at Dane Cook. Never told a joke in his life, but women flocked to his shows. You'll have to be more clever than the Dane Cooks by a long shot to stand out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:48 PM
8

It is annoying that afluenza can be used to excuse a crime, but not as an excuse to redistribute wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 06:41 PM
2

I can't think of a specific link, but there's lots material out there on touch starvation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 06:21 PM
1

Never had trouble getting sex while homeless. Poverty, crime, and hunger can be a powerful bonding experiences. It's easier to get reliable wifi if you have an address though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:58 PM
4

Just fuckin' with you, man. On a serious note though, not everyone can just fire one off in the toilet without the consequential wave of depression that can hit when you're not getting that cuddly oxytocin bump along with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:38 PM
1

Weird brag.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 01:27 PM
7

Sounds like a pretty narcissistic, and shallow endeavor.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 01:17 PM
1

This thread is just an invitation for people to trash men with stereotypes they picked up from TV.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 01:12 PM
1

What can you tell somebody that's been kicked around? Man, or woman, the sound advice you give will be mostly sound. If you give a shit about someone, all you can do is be around, and respect them until they learn how to respect themselves. You can't tell them much though. I mean, if you're asking what works.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 11:56 AM
1

You have a strange perception of what's been proven here. Institutionalization is therapy. RTCs where kids are starved, and raped are therapy too. You're being dishonest, and trying to justify institutional abuse of minors.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:57 PM
1

The black clothes thing was around 10, and the place I was sent to has been shut down repeatedly for how violent it is. It's still there, for all those rules are worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 01:37 PM
0

It's called in-patient therapy, so I'm not conflating anything. One time I was put in because I wore too much black clothing. People like you are why there's no accountability in the industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 01:25 PM
0

You brought up schizophrenia, guy, so I'm not sure why you think you made a point. I was institutionalized several times beginning when I was 8, so I'm also not sure why you extrapolated that I was an adult at the time. All your arguments are strawmen. You're too emotionally invested in this to argue in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 12:37 PM
0

The first one. You get tranq'ed, and locked in the quiet room for a saying boredom is an emotion a few times, and maybe you too would walk away with an extreme reluctance to share feelings with anyone. Even yourself. As for being untreatable, you'll find very few schizoids who want to change. Most will tell you the world is sick, and apathy is the sanest response to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 09:56 AM
3

I've got years under my belt, and all I got from it was an untreatable personality disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 07:05 PM
1

Ok, go fuck your dad then?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:40 PM
4

Psychology introduces useful concepts, but they've been co-opted by people who are only concerned with expanding their power at the expense of everyone else. Therapy itself is a useless, predatory business whose few benefits could be gained from a free peer support group.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:38 PM
1

No, lol, I'm not even 100% if I've ever personally been lied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 04:28 PM
1

Having fun with your friends isn't a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:43 PM
1

The trouble is relying on dishonest people to self report honestly. The numbers couldn't be any less accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:31 PM
3

Hmm, it's almost as if marriage never benefited men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:27 PM
1

Somebody has been reading The Mass Psychology Of Fascism.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 09:10 AM
0

Can you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:32 PM
2

They're just intense. That can be good, or bad. The ones who work on themselves often end up better off than normies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:22 AM
7

Your last sentence might be the most ignorant shit I'll see today.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:22 AM
7

Counting abusers doesn't prove abusers are common.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:19 AM
2

Maybe I misread your tone. I'm not not saying it's extremely common for diagnosis to happen in prison, but it is the place a man is most likely to encounter a psychologist. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4825675/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 12:17 AM
3

Ok, boomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:26 PM
6

Most men with personality disorders are diagnosed in prison, so I guess we already have a registry.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:16 PM
1

Borderline personality disorder
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:14 PM
9

Most of them don't get that bad, and half the ones who do only take it out on themselves. Better to just teach men to establish, and enforce healthy boundaries. To have enough respect for themselves to walk away early if those boundaries are disrespected. Much better than demonizing, and avoiding people born into bad lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:13 PM
1

Yes, the reason was because he was a dyed in the wool, diagnosable from space, utter psycho. I really don't have the stomach to sift through his youtube uploads, but there's at least one where he mentions a chick who came on to him, and how she wasn't good enough for him. There's also some interviews with people who knew him that say much the same. Nothing short of being the center of a personality cult would have made him happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 08:14 PM
1

Elliot Rodgers had women pursue him aplenty. Obviously because of his looks; don't even try to tell me he charmed anyone. He was simply a psychopath though, and would have eventually found a way to give himself permission to hurt people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:25 PM
1

I'll just leave this here. https://youtu.be/pC4p1Vy_Rd4
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 11:56 PM
2

Guys who care about body count tend to only worry about the number of cocks their partner has had. To be honest, 15 doesn't sound like a lot to me either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 11:50 PM
1

Contributing to our decaying consumption culture by slaving for money changers will never bring you fulfillment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 11:05 PM
1

5 is a lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 10:52 PM
2

Please refrain from targeting me in posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 03:46 PM
1

Serious relationships can mean serious breakups. You're just giving somebody leverage. I can love somebody perfectly well without giving them a gun to my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 06:56 PM
1

Men's megalomania is apparent, not latent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 03:17 PM
2

With women, I try to keep them talking about themselves. They don't really care what a man is feeling outside of how it relates to her, so it's best not to volunteer emotions, or inner dialogue except to occasionally show empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 03:16 PM
1

Where is the incentive to share? This is more about waman's latent megalomania, and their instinct to root out wrongthink.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 11:08 AM
0

Are you saying women are trash?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 11:05 AM
5

I think the line is if your mattress is on a bed frame. Not including if that frame folds into a couch. If you're getting laid on twin mattress with no boxspring, you're probably the bad boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 09:44 PM
6

Incorrect, I took a grant from the state on the promise I was pursuing a degree in law enforcement, and spent it all on liberal arts courses, and bottom shelf vodka. Had six bench warrants at the time, and spent most of my time in a library. There's more nuance to bad than you seem to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 03:21 PM
1

And look how that policy has turned out. All those battered children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:58 AM
-1

If women had a strength advantage they'd be more violent than men. Child abuse statistics seem to back that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 08:34 PM
1

It's fine. We all get along today.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 07:33 PM
2

I can say we were definitely raised differently. I'd get belted, and made to run wind sprints until I puked for fuck-ups that would get my sisters a stern talking to. Sure, it may have theoretically made me tougher, and definitely gave me enough pain to be genuinely funny. On the other hand, my sisters were supported through college, and have well paid careers, and I'm blue collar trash that'll end up eating dry cat food in my retirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 02:39 PM
8

Can you provide some proof that either, A. lots of partners emotionally damages women, and/or B. it can't have the same effect on men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:47 PM
3

How are you single?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 04:36 PM
8

That's a very colonizer attitude there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 01:23 PM
2

Glad you found something that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:41 PM
8

Dude here; physically, and sexually abused by my babysitter too. Never felt ok admitting it most of my life. It flipped a switch in me, and left me with an insane libido that has been a constant source of shame as I was raised to see male sexuality as inherently predatory. So much so that I tell myself "at least it wasn't a man" as I drink myself to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:30 PM
1

That must be great.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:37 AM
1

It might not be what OP meant, but when I say I hate dating, I'm not saying I hate spending (non-sexual) time with my special lady friend. It's everything else that goes with it. The trying to talk over the din of a bar/restaurant. Holding in farts for hours at a time. Marching out your life's story that you're tired of telling. It's an icky, uncomfortable tax on companionship, and there's nothing inherently immoral about not wanting to pay it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:27 PM
2

I'm not trashy, I just came from trash. There's no need to be so judgmental.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:26 PM
2

Totally more smarter to be a capitalist. That will show those corporate dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:03 PM
0

I've noticed this, and it seems to correlate with the level of commitment. Like, the higher up the relationship escalator a couple is, the more likely a chick is to publicly neg her man. Almost like marking their territory by making it look undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:20 PM
2

This all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:34 PM
4

I can't speak for the rest of my fellow freaks, but enjoying bdsm has never made vanilla sex seem boring. Both require the same basic ingredients to be any good.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:12 PM
1

Lsd is a pretty lucid high even when visuals kick in. Nothing like it's portrayed on tv. You're always aware that you're tripping, unless you're one of those unlucky people who can't even smoke weed without psychosis. It's more about doing something you don't want to that could turn it into a shitty experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:24 PM
1

You never stand in the same river twice. You could get the same changes with a good book. Same as how a McMac triggers the same response in the brain as a hit of crack cocaine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:37 PM
1

You don't actually want to know the answer to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:31 PM
1

That's not really how lsd works, but don't let anyone pressure you into trying something you don't want. That's how bad trips happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:25 PM
1

Had a chick show up with a marriage certificate, and that was the most normal part of the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:22 PM
2

"Should" isn't even a factor in my thinking here. I will be judged, and them is the breaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:56 PM
6

Humankind will remain fat, and ugly because fat ugly women have no problem reproducing. Your creepy eugenics theory is as flawed as all the ones that came before it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 07:05 PM
1

Why would I waste my talent for getting my date lathered up before I meet her?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:32 PM
2

Yeah, a woman can be better, but either one is fairly reliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:34 PM
1

I've seen a bear ride a bike too. Shit was cray.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:55 AM
1

Do you have any idea how much fucking goes on in nursing homes? Put your ear to any given door, and you'll hear what sounds like somebody running in corduroy pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:46 AM
3

Hard to sneak up on someone with prosthetic legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:43 AM
3

Gay dudes are great wingmen if you're a decent guy. They'll vet you for their straight girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:40 AM
1

You call that low ball? Oh, sweet summer child, let me tell you about a little thing called the thirteenth step...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:37 AM
1

"Any" was an important qualifier. You know how when a certain type of guy hits on a chick, gets turned down, and immediately rationalizes that she must be a gay? That's what it sounds like when you say any man not interested in you must be low T.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:05 AM
2

That sounds like a huge cope for explaining why any particular man isn't into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:45 PM
3

You are not a man, and cannot confer masculinity. Some men simply aren't interested in you regardless of their hormone levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:33 PM
1

You're assuming a guy you're banging is the same around all women. Some dudes just have a type that brings that out in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:31 PM
1

Doesn't really matter if women find him attractive since women don't approach. Often the line between a 25 year old virgin, and a slay king is number of attempts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:11 PM
5

Took me seven years of driving across the damn state to get custody of my kid from a woman that hadn't seen him in five years. Seven years of missing work, and tens of thousands of miles of wear on my vehicle. That's a undue burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:54 AM
2

I've been married ten years, and have several committed relationships besides that. Can't really say I'm RP though. Some of it scans, but it's also fatalistic, lacking much nuance, and marks you as a pariah for even entertaining. People regularly get mad at me for even participating in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:56 PM
1

This sounds like a better deal for men if they just marry their homies though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:21 AM
2

I think the women in question work really hard to convince themselves they're attracted in the beginning if everything else is ideal, and options seem limited. Most people can't lie to themselves longer than they absolutely need to though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:12 AM
1

Why would anyone care to watch it anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:04 AM
2

Nugget porn is a genre.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:01 AM
1

Good for you, dude. You achieved a lot on your own. I hope you go even further with a bit of help.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:37 AM
1

You'd get it from a psychiatrist. These intense feelings of persecution from such subtle things are something you'll want to relate to a professional. I really don't like shrinks, but I think they're your best bet. You're at the age where certain mental illnesses become apparent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:30 PM
2

Fuck the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:37 PM
0

Citation?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:16 PM
1

You need lithium, man, and I say that out of concern for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:31 AM
3

My first real relationship was with a pro who described herself as a cock aficionado. She effortlessly ran the entire crazy bitch playbook on me like an NBA team showed up at an elementary school for a pickup game. Her defense was impregnable, her offense was impetuous; I never had a chance. Still finch when women make sudden movements.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:18 PM
0

Don't nag. It's really that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:31 AM
1

Easy enough, she never shuts up about them. We have a sort of one way don't ask/don't tell policy where she can come to me with, or about anything, but I have to keep almost everything to myself. Like, if she learned I took a date to mcdonald's, she'd never set foot in one again, and would have an emotional breakdown every time we passed one on the road. Can't even send her music links because she's afraid I might have found it from another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:30 PM
3

No way, my wife is aware of all my girlfriends, and they're all aware of her, and each other. It wouldn't be hard to catch me anyways when my Facebook friends are almost exclusively women I'm sleeping with. Lying is something I find difficult to forgive in others, so I try my best to not be a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:16 PM
0

Giving a shit about my family, and being a total slut are not mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 12:33 PM
2

I like a chick who can tell a story. She doesn't have to be a great orator, but she needs to know the difference between molesting my brain with a 20 minute bird walking diatribe about an inconclusive argument two of her friends had, and something actually worth hearing. It shows they have a sense of novelty that they can notice the interesting things. A partner was telling me story about her childhood the other day. She hit from point to point with attention only to the details that mattered, o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:38 PM
2

That moment when you called young women dating older men prostitutes was my favorite.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:26 PM
1

I brush, and floss, but prefer patchouli to bathing. The type of women I'm into like it, so I have no reason to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:06 PM
1

The 60s were a low point in hygiene, so you're probably not far off.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:59 PM
1

Can't even imagine what you'd think that worldview is, guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:50 PM
1

Behind every conquering man is a naggy wife who wants a summer home in somebody else's county.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:29 AM
6

I'm a socialist. Just don't see the honor in carpet bombing Syria into submission to get oil to Israel a little faster. Something tells me past wars weren't any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:26 PM
5

Guess you're right. Women have been voting to go to war longer than men have been able to opt out of fighting. I was trying to be generous though because it's not a contest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:57 PM
1

Volunteer militaries are pretty new too, so I'd say we're square. Hard thing to qualitatively measure though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:47 PM
16

Voting in general is kind of a blip in history.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:23 PM
1

No to both. I don't need anyone to get over anything, and the last thing I'll have trouble getting over is a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:08 PM
1

You should never assume, but if a guy drives hours to taxi you, you should play the odds that he likes you a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:18 AM
2

The great recline of civilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:13 PM
3

The meta game is having your relationships, and not caring if she fucks other dudes. Hedonism pill makes all these arguments seem silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:05 PM
8

I think I've proven that wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:50 PM
2

There's better stuff laying around your house/yard. Old cell phone cords, flat hairbrushes, nettle stems, wooden clothes pins. The world is your playground.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 02:59 PM
3

Masochism isn't the same as being a sub/slave/bottom. If I can't find a chick to punch me, I can masobate with a box cutter, or lighter. A sub needs a dom; they have no solitary alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 02:46 PM
2

It's ok. I'm still just heated over this fresh ass mint green couch they destroyed. Had it less then an hour before this fucking goon dumps spaghetti on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:30 PM
2

No homo, but you're possibly too attractive for women to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:23 PM
2

Hell is doing the math on when they'll move out, and you can have nice things again. I'll be in my 50's before I'll be able to have real furniture.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:03 AM
3

Nothing like the curated snippets of people who are paid to be rich to make you appreciate your own life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:59 AM
2

She's not bad, but if she were alive today she'd be writing cheesy romcoms. Pride and Prejudice was a paperback smut novel without a money shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:45 AM
1

Tried that. She'd only hit me when drunk, and there was no after care
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:53 AM
-1

Citation requested.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:18 PM
3

That's an interesting antonym to the virgin/whore complex. Never heard that before.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:55 PM
3

Dude, you do not need to be anywhere near the top 5% to be ethically non-monogamous. Like, I'm a total loser, and all the women I'm sleeping with are aware of each other. Some of them are friends on social media. It takes a little longer to find the right ones, but at least you don't have to stress over keeping up a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:52 PM
1

I like to be hurt. It's not uncommon, but it's hard to find a woman who both likes me, and is also willing to mutilate me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:25 PM
3

More than one woman has used a bait n switch on me by claiming to be compatible with my kink only to claim they thought I was larp'ing, and that they are not at all ok with participating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:46 PM
1

Ok, I follow you now. Yes, too many people look to a single thing to be their entire personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:36 PM
2

Grinding civilization to a halt would actually be good for the planet though...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:06 PM
1

"Poly and partnered" is the first thing in my bio. It's not a brag. I just don't want to spend energy on some chick who's not ok with my lifestyle. Besides, I don't trust most women to receive that news gracefully, so it's better to give them their reason to left swipe right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:12 PM
1

Not loving your partners is a direct contradiction to poly. That would just be nonmonogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:34 PM
2

You kinda have to advertise it if you're dating though. It's considered one of the most unethical things you can do in poly; to not bring it up before the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:42 PM
4

All that stuff is designed to make someone insecure, and dependent on your approval. Somebody with multiple partners is not going to be very vulnerable. Sure, you might be able to put her off her game in the moment, but she's going to go over it with her other partner/s later, and realize you're an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:31 PM
1

Margaret Thatcher
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:07 PM
1

No, we've never outgrown that for even a moment. Efforts to convince you otherwise are to the benefit of those holding the stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:06 PM
1

Most of us use face razors because all the alternates are pink. I personally swallow my pride, and use the shick intuition. You don't have the issue of bulging veins to work around. You hit one of those guys, and you're done. That's your whole day there trying to stop your dick from bleeding.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:20 PM
6

Inaccurate, and it's a more difficult area to shave.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:40 PM
1

Who said they wouldn't be? What's your contention now?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:01 AM
1

I said they didn't train? Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:36 AM
1

You're conflating ideal with common.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:33 PM
3

Let me rephrase it as a blanket attack on all women then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:25 PM
10

All too many are juicing though. I pity them like those poor women injecting food poisoning into their face.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:17 PM
2

Have you been holding onto that gem since 1994?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:15 PM
3

They were also averaging around 5ft6in. Have you seen a 5ft6in statue that wasn't just a bust relief? Maybe statues of gods, and emperors aren't the most accurate thing in the world, but I wouldn't expect you to get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:13 PM
10

Yeah, I don't recall creatine shakes, and deadlifts being a part of the training regime of Caesar's legions, but maybe that was lost in the translation from Latin. Extreme bodybuilding is like circumcision. Deforming, and lessening yourself to conform to the warped feminine perception of masculinity. Making yourself into a caricature.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:52 PM
1

You're literally trying to do it right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:28 PM
2

Is that a question, or a prompt to extrapolate your argument for myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:26 PM
2

The primary use of crying for women is emotional extortion, so seeing a man do it sets off alarms. It's like how liars always feel they're being lied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:13 PM
6

I once pretended to cry on the phone with a chick I wanted to dump me. Something really bad had happened to me, so it was a reasonable time to cry, but I'm also dead inside, and physically can't without massive amounts of booze. It worked swimmingly. She acted all concerned, said she'll call me in the morning, and I never heard from her again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:06 PM
6

Who wrote pretty much every romcom, love song, and power ballad in existence? When women sing about love, it's usually about revenge, or the unworthiness of a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:53 PM
5

Way to prove the op.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:43 PM
30

Exactly, it's like comparing a kennel club dog to a wolf, and thinking you've improved the species. Improved it for what? To be hypoallergenic, and trained to fetch for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:42 PM
7

Missed the part where the hookers weren't women in either case.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:38 PM
1

That is the question, but I can't say we've done a bang up job with it either. Most of my ideas on how to fix it range from offending people's sense of "fairness", to draconian moral policing, so I'm the wrong one to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:38 PM
1

Creeping hatred of all capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:59 AM
1

I did the opposite flip. The fact I've reversed my view is why I largely keep it to myself outside of specific internet arguments where my ability to hurt feelings is minimal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:13 PM
1

I think sex workers, and johns are sad, empty people, and their practices damage the mental health of everyone involved. Even if it wasn't so unhealthy, the commodification of flesh is repellent on an instinctive level, like, fucking ew. This view hasn't ingratiated me with anyone except fds posters who already hate me for having a "harem".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:07 AM
2

That's one way to tell me you don't know many lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:43 PM
1

First usage was by feminists AcKsHuAlLy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:38 PM
3

The mindfuck is that you've been in charge of your orgasm the entire time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:13 PM
1

I didn't look at your history. Your history is wafting off you like smoke from a house fire. You have this free floating anger about oddly specific, theoretical behavior of men, and you're surprised I guessed it's about your ex? Maybe it's because I have a narcissistic psycho ex too, and like recognizes like. Whatever the case, I do agree that hardcore porn messes with the minds of people who consume it. Sorry you've ever felt some pressure to live up to it. I think your anger here is misplaced …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 11:06 PM
0

Nobody is asking you to be louder. I don't even have to look at your post history to know this is about your ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:20 PM
0

Pretty sure you'll find more people willing to believe pro wrestling is real than porn. Strike that, you'll probably find the exact same amount. Something informs that porn though. It wasn't made in a vacuum. It's attempting to mimic something that exists, so sometimes it's going to look like it's life imitating art when it's the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 07:10 PM
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Ok, good to hear. Your unprovoked, abrasive defensiveness, and weird insistence that any woman who doesn't act like you is faking gave me the impression you've spent your life fucking through a blanket. Glad that's not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:43 PM
1

A simple "fuck off" is faster. My energy is valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:23 PM
1

Here's the thing... My kink involves being dressed as a clown while you try to hit me with a cricket bat. I'm kind of expecting laughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:57 PM
1

I'm not surprised that a sub with so many incels, and spinsters would be sexually conservative. The smug ignorance of the posters with an axe to grind is disappointing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:55 PM
1

Yeah, they also make up most of the armed forces, and every other dangerous occupation. Almost nobody who makes this argument in the context of prostitution is saying it out the front of their face though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:46 PM
1

You say that now, and then there's that day you get lactated on by a guy on risperdal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:15 PM
1

Not all kinks are power play. That's a retarded take.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:03 PM
-1

Kinda feeling sad for you atm.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:53 PM
1

Poor people get the shitty jobs? I'm on the anti-pros side of the argument, but I've always found this argument kinda hypocritical unless you're in favor of an equitable, socialist society.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:49 PM
1

Lack of discernment is my friend. Dudes just need to learn to be happy with feeling special enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:33 PM
2

Speak for yourself; I'm extremely picky. My bios are haunted hayrides through a series of red flags that ensure I only match with women I can be myself around.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:16 PM
0

You will raise some very successful, very unhappy children.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:32 PM
2

I can't imagine a world where anyone would argue that they should do those things. Still doesn't change your own actions though. You should examine why you're a sneaky liar just like he needs to examine why he's an angry child.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:50 PM
3

Two out of five insults landed, but I don't take it personally outside of some retarded sense of empathy I get for the weak. Escapism is escapism. Whether you're role-playing with friends on WoW, or watching porn all day. The impulse is to pretend you're anywhere, or anyone else as much as possible. Maybe I'm just having a hard time understanding why it makes you angry instead of sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:49 PM
2

I snorted
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:35 PM
3

You're describing something really similar to somebody with depression. You should have left much earlier because you probably made it worse. Not saying it's your job to help. You're a caustic, self centered person though, and shouldn't be around vulnerable, or impressionable people for extended periods.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:32 PM
6

Can't imagine why he preferred to be alone when everyone around him was a disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:13 PM
5

I sell plasma to afford gas to work 70+ hours a week to build a vehicle that gets 12 miles to a gallon. Most of society isn't doing fine. Has nothing to do with pussy. We're sooooo fucked, and it will burn.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:15 AM
0

Nah, not if they bedded you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:44 AM
0

Few men would be foolish enough to share insecurity with someone like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:39 AM
3

They're not even convincing liars in most cases. People are just kinda dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:28 PM
3

The reason there are so many spurious stats for one gender has more to do with who gets the grants.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:06 PM
1

Sociopaths tend to have lower than average IQs. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:50 PM
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No, Scar was democratically elected by a herd of bison.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:42 AM
1

Define "you guys" please.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:41 AM
1

I'm sorry if I gave the impression that I had made up my mind that you're a homophobe despite clearly saying I hadn't. Your correction has been noted; it's body shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:50 PM
1

You wouldn't think as much based on the zeitgeist in the poly, and ENM subs. Dudes are treated like predators for age gaps like that. Something about power dynamics that nobody can elaborate on. Not saying they're wrong, but everyone just gets mad when you ask them to explain things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:29 PM
3

I'll jump in for anyone who doesn't have it coming. Has nothing to do with checks, and balances about who owes who what. It's about setting the standard for the world you want to live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:05 PM
5

Well, I mean, she texts me that she loves me every morning. Are you saying she's playing me? That I'm being used? Oh, dammit, why do I keep falling for these lying women? Just telling me what I want to hear to get in my pants. I'm a fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:05 PM
3

Implying I don't already think I'm better than everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:58 PM
1

There's no need for harsh language, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:56 PM
3

I'm banned from most polite subs already, so you're stuck with my rambling drivel.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:48 PM
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This is kind of how I pictured John Mcafee's last days.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:36 PM
16

Statistically, both paths lead to prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:30 PM
13

I'll humor you; what is even one thing it says about me?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:27 PM
0

"Sure, I'll do that", he said with all the sincerity of a promise to listen to a mix tape.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:25 PM
21

Trying to determine if this is homophobia, or body shaming. I'll get back to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:09 PM
2

Oh, I clearly am. The layer of slime on you is all too apparent. My predator sense is telling me you're a skinner very loudly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:07 PM
1

Are you having a stroke?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:03 PM
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I wasn't trying to be mean, and I've never even been on that sub. Sorry you're apparently having a bad day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:02 PM
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Mufasta from the Lion King.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:48 PM
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Lol, you can save him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:45 PM
0

That completely explains your willingness to believe wild bullshit as long as delivered from some vague place of of authority. You really should lead with your religion, so reasonable people know better than to engage with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:44 PM
2

Is that a sentence?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:40 PM
2

God isn't watching, and "no you" isn't an intelligent, or thoughtful response.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:39 PM
2

Population of millions...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:36 PM
1

It's not just women who have that. Paperdollspenpals.com is basically my version of Jdate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:31 PM
1

It's really telling that you seem to conflate teenagers with attractive. Have you considered chemically castrating yourself before you become a problem for society at large?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:26 PM
2

Imagine thinking you're progressive while championing a guy who still thinks blackface is funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:14 PM
2

It's not a movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:11 PM
2

Are you? Black pill is sexual nihilism. You couldn't have chosen a worse example of a group likely to hold authoritarian views.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:10 PM
1

In whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:38 AM
2

Your username does not check out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:27 AM
1

I have a platonic chick friend. We bond over us both being anxiety ridden sluts that can't tell between sex, and love, but don't actually sleep with each other. Probably will eventually. It's been explicitly agreed on that the option is open, in fact. It's nice to have a friend in the meantime.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:04 PM
2

Most of my high school experience was in reform academy, so the only girls I saw were college kids going for criminal psychology degrees. Needless to say there wasn't much flirting going on. We weren't even allowed to sleep with our shirt unbuttoned, so yeah...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 01:28 PM
1

I think it's more that a guy's regular banter becomes game to the women who are attracted to him. The vast majority of people find me abrasive, weird, and cold, but the few women who like me say I drench their socks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 07:11 PM
1

Yeah, that link better have some pretty convincing data because that doesn't sound right at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 06:20 PM
1

Lot of people make for a lot of outliers. Doubt I'm rare in any case.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 01:15 PM
2

That professor is operating under the assumption that everyone takes away the same message from their conditioning. My masculinity is probably what some would consider toxic, and my closest friend at the moment is a chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:36 PM
1

I had an ex that felt she was in competition with any woman near me. Not sure if any of them were even attracted to me, or if it was all in her mind. Anyways, I'm pretty sure she cheated on me...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 06:21 PM
1

You have an odd definition of "friend".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:38 AM
1

All the divorcees I date would disagree. Most people would rather start over than only be happy on weekends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:35 AM
1

There's a lot of hypocrisy in the online poly community in regards to men with several women. It's not so toxic in real life though. At least it hasn't been for me. The only person outside of Reddit that's hated on me for having a "harem" was a monogamous bossbabe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:30 AM
1

"Beta traits...might help if she genuinely suspects you of being an antisocial nutjob." I think you've explained to me why I'm successful despite being a bit of a simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 12:48 PM
0

Outskirts of metro Detroit area. Beauty is about as plentiful, and low value as dick. Not sure why we make a big deal of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 10:47 AM
0

You don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:45 PM
5

It helps a lot as a straight man on Bumble to be picky. Only swipe right on women that you want to know more about. That way you're ready to turn that "hey" into a real connection. It helps to tactically swipe. If you get a match, stop swiping, and extend the timer. This gives her more time to say "hey", and makes it clear you didn't like her accidentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:43 PM
1

The exploitation coats both sides of the toast. Spend a few days as a guy on dating apps, and you'll be astounded at the amount of, and deception levels of prostitutes. They'll give you the whole pickup experience; pretending to find you interesting, laughing at your jokes. Once they send you that Kik, or Snap tag though, you get hit with the sales pitch. Standard price is two $25 Steam cards, your dignity as a man, and some Durex condoms. The brand loyalty these pros have for durex is a phenome…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:05 PM
1

Cool, but I see women like that at Walmart every day. It's nothing special just because she isn't wearing pajamas.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:00 PM
1

Super models are a bad example. They're not especially attractive, and they're mostly employed by gay men that see them as ambulatory coat racks, and marketed towards women as beautiful because their reptile features, and junky physique is unobtainable for most. No straight man is paying mind to that world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:24 PM
2

See women's temperance movement
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:45 PM
1

I oppose prostitution on the basis that it is capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:49 PM
2

My gut going into an open relationship reflected the op, but my experience hasn't. I'm far from a "top man". Photofeeler has me as well below average in the looks department. My job is shitty, and I'm the breadwinner for a family of five, so I'm always broke. Hair is falling out, under six feet tall, no style, no big ambitions, all kinds of red flags in my past, and an extremely noticeable personality disorder. By conventional wisdom, I should be home all night checking an empty inbox while my w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:39 PM
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