GhostofTomJoadRATM Archive

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1	If you don’t go to clubs/bars you can’t say you want to get women/being introverted is a choice When you understand that behind every diatribe about why women should be making the first move and hitting on men openly, is basically fear, you will also understand why men say they don’t like bars and clubs. One word: FEAR.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 03:23 AM
0	The idea that most men who struggle in the modern sexual marketplace are socially inept is a blue pill caricature They are not socially inept. They are just too needy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 03:21 AM
1	There’s nothing wrong with living for love. Ironically, this attitude is what’s causing your lack of success with the ladies. It will take way too long to explain it to you in a post, so I will leave you with this thought. Why don’t men respect “sluts”? It’s because there is the perception that the “slut” will run around and offer sex to anybody for nothing. That cheapens her, makes her easy and not someone worthy of respect. At least that’s the most common reaction such behavior would elicit. Now, understand that your own behavior is the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 03:20 AM
1	There’s nothing wrong with living for love. It’s not a question of right or wrong. It’s a question of the mentality that you describe being the actual cause of your lack of attractiveness to women. I have honestly never met a man or a woman, who truly believed they needed love to be happy who actually successfully found love in their lives. They all ended up miserable and alone. How ironic. And the people who just enjoyed their lives with or without a partner, somehow ended up finding someone they are happy with. None of the guys I grew u…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 03:13 AM
0	The idea that most men who struggle in the modern sexual marketplace are socially inept is a blue pill caricature Going through such lengths to find any evidence for why you can’t get laid, instead of using that time to try and get laid is the ultimate self cuck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 11:51 AM
1	When to show my intentions? I immediately start telling women how difficult it is to be constantly treated like a sex object and that you can never just have a friendly conversation without a woman trying to twist it into something else. The then to them and say something along the lines of “you seem kind of different from the other girls, I hope you and I can be friends.”	/r/seduction	07/07/26 12:24 AM
2	What one thing improved your success the most ? What helped me the most is doing the opposite of the typical advice of constantly hitting on women and trying to get them to like you. I began focusing on who I am, what I wanted in terms of a relationship, a woman, how I wanted to be treated. I stopped thinking in terms of “how do I get her interested” and started thinking of “wonder if I would be interested in her”. I stopped chasing women and started letting them chase me. I started making it harder and more challenging for them to get with m…	/r/seduction	07/07/26 12:20 AM
4	New York City vs Los Angeles (is NYC still worth the hype?) You can’t afford NYC	/r/seduction	07/07/26 12:13 AM
0	Do I need to approach dating differently if I am only looking for casual relationships compared to long term? Yes. On the surface it won’t look too different, but it will be. Your criteria for vetting women has to be very different. If you want to get laid casually, probably don’t go to the library to try and lick up girls. Go where they are, usually at well lit, trendy nightclubs and cocktail lounges. Go out late at night about 30-60 mins before closing. You want to vet and screen women for being adventurous, fun, sexual, etc. And be honest upfront that you are not looking for anything serious, but you…	/r/seduction	06/07/26 01:59 PM
–	Dating market is almost completely analagous to the Job market Right! No man fucks who hasn’t fucked before. Totally makes sense!	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 08:06 AM
2	How do you pick up 10s and 9s that guys constantly hit on? Let them approach you. You do that by ignoring them and having a “I can take it or leave it” attitude towards them.	/r/seduction	06/07/26 04:24 AM
1	How do I create attraction with someone who everyone hits on from my hometown? You need to erase the concept of “creating attraction”. This is literally the worst thing to come out of pickup.	/r/seduction	06/07/26 04:23 AM
1	What is the best strategy for picking up hot girls as not so tall guy? The same way that tall guys do! By believing you are way too hot for them and you are doing them a favor for even glancing in their general direction.	/r/seduction	06/07/26 04:22 AM
1	What is masculinity? Over the years I’ve simplified it to “a man who is in charge and others look up to for guidance”.	/r/seduction	06/07/26 04:21 AM
1	How do you deal with hostile women who use not being attracted to you as an insult? The fact that you continue to hangout with someone who is so clearly disrespectful towards you tells me everything I need to know about you and that girl. And she will keep shitting all over you because you obviously have zero balls.	/r/seduction	06/07/26 04:18 AM
–	Dating market is almost completely analagous to the Job market So what was the point of your assumption that men are the employees and women the employers?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 04:17 AM
–	Dating market is almost completely analagous to the Job market I know you don’t understand what the rest of my comment is about, because you have bought into the idea that men are the pursuers, period. End of story. It is just not true. Women are out there to get men. The same way that employers are out there to get top employees. Use whatever fucking analogy you want. I don’t care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 04:11 AM
–	Dating market is almost completely analagous to the Job market Not only are sex and relationships not required for basic survival, but the less you need women and their sex, the more they seem to throw it at you. The same way that the less I want to find another job, the more recruiters are trying to entice you come work for their employers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 03:45 AM
–	Dating market is almost completely analagous to the Job market Right. No man in history of the universe has ever lost his virginity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 03:42 AM
–	Dating market is almost completely analagous to the Job market Well, yes, the dating game can be analogous to the job hunting game. A lot of the same dynamics are at play. Where you go wrong is in your assumption that women are inherently analogous to employers and men to the job seekers. While this might actually be the case in the majority of the cases, men assuming the role of the job seeker is what’s actually causing all of their probelems with dating. See, whenever you interact with a woman, you can be in only one of two roles. You are either the pursu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 03:41 AM
14	Men are not a monolith, but women are (according to the Greater Male Variability Hypothesis). 🔵BP constantly conflates the experiences and capabilities of High value vs. Low value men None of the men are getting laid, but somehow all the women are getting laid…with the only 5 Chads in the entire universe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 03:33 AM
-1	Going Out Alone as a Guy in a New City Is Brutal lol don’t be salty	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 03:30 AM
1	Men shouldn’t have to be hypermasculine providers in order to get into relationships. It’s funny how desperate men project onto all of male kind. The only men who “love” women unconditionally or have zero standards or will shackle up with anyone, are the hones who are desperate and lack self esteem. Think about what being willing to take scraps says about the person! And the most ironic thing is, if men actually picked up their standards and started vetting women more ruthlessly, their love and sex loves would actually improve dramatically, because the more discerning you are as …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 07:37 PM
1	Going Out Alone as a Guy in a New City Is Brutal Interestingly, all this worrying is caused by you thinking about what women are thinking. I didn’t know men could read minds. The reality is, the weirdness is caused by you in your own head because you believe you are weird and that you are doing something weird. I’ve gone out by myself plenty of times and met women, alone and in groups. As a matter of fact, that’s how I met my wife.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 07:32 PM
2	Sex is not a thing, like gold or land or peanuts. Yeah, but have you seen these Thai women shooting ping pong balls out of their hoohas?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 07:30 PM
1	Unpopular opinion: I think asking for a live-in relationship before marriage is a red flag—for me Yeah no. You don’t really see the real person until you’ve lived together for some time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 07:25 PM
1	Passport Broing should be illegal and/or heavily regulated Won’t someone think of all the prostitutas!	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 07:35 PM
1	r/Bumble proves men do, in fact, have options If I had no options and was lonely and single, complaining about having no options, being lonely and single would be the last thing I’d do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 07:34 PM
-2	Men shouldn’t have to be hypermasculine providers in order to get into relationships. Masculinity and being a provider and actually on the extreme opposite of the spectrum. The provider is about the least sexy thing you can be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 07:33 PM
1	Debate: women are allowed to distrust men, men are not allowed to distrust women (repost as I dodn't partipate within three hours) If you are so easily influenced by strangers on the internet, who seem to live rent free in your own head, then you stand no chances if you were in an actual relationship with a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 07:32 PM
1	You can't LOGIC your way into a women's heart. For men here - autistic analysis of every single detail is one of the reason for failure in dating. I mean most of the posters here are admitted kissless, handholdless virgins, so yes. Many of them have never had actual conversations with women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 07:31 PM
2	Asking men to support feminism is peak audacity: Feminists in Australia lobbied to have suicidal men insta-flagged as potential woman abusers when they reach out to authorities for help The police should have asked: “Does this person have a female partner who is constantly nagging him and finding fault with everything he does? Yes! We are sending the SWAT TEAM!”	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 01:49 PM