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Giant-__-Otter/r/askMRP28/09/18 05:56 PM
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Giant-__-Otter/r/askMRP09/04/18 08:54 AM
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Walk away with your head up In that case yes, but if she was going somewhere, you stand your ground and you wait for her to leave.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/21 02:24 PM
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Next time you can try something like "I want to hear/Tell me whose this pussy is this" or whatever makes sense in proper English. Next mix in a little emotion. It's all in SGM.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/21 02:19 PM
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A corollary to the absurdity of women making men jump through hoops to keep the relationship going, and understandably on TRP because we don't recommend marriage, is proposing. If we are the true gatekeepers of the relationship, it should be women who get on one knee and proposing to their bf. But our culture is perverted enough to let us think it must be the other way around. Makes me want to puke when I see a guy on one knee.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/21 06:39 AM
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I finished some high volume sets at lower weights that I wasn’t previously able to complete. Does that mean I’m weaker than before, or stronger? It doesn't make sense that you would complete 25 reps of a lift before and now fail 5 reps at 85% of a 90% training max. Assuming you sleep and diet the same as when you ended 5x5, lower/revise your TMs. Remember one core tenet of the program is to always leave a rep in the tank (I leave 2 on the bench press since I train at home, without a spotter). Do…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/20 08:02 PM
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Use this. Remember to deload after every 5 cycles.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/20 05:47 PM
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I will add read the fuckarounditis article every 3 months to shore up your resolve before the iron messes too much with your body and your mind. Otherwise you're on to a great start.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/20 07:59 AM
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You're not even living together, yet have the talk about having babies. You have said I love you first. Are you having a laugh mate? Go back and read the commandments of Poon, have them branded on your ass. You are filling her frame. She is dictating the terms of the relationship. She should never have been bumped to LTR status. Start opening other women.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/20 10:35 PM
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Pay attention to the Dominant section of SGM/DEVI, seems you need to work on that.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/20 09:30 PM
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Remember that once she is at plate or over status, it's her job to shut that guy down.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 01:16 PM
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I'd do my worse singing Nessun Dorma.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 10:03 AM
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Mate I feel you. I really do. I was in your shoes 2 years ago. Have a look at my post history if it helps. I would say you have 2 priorities right now. Get control of your emotions. If just by testing the waters of her lying you're flipping out, how prepared do you think you will be when giving her or the kids the divorce talk? Or how assertive will you be when convincing others that your business is suffering and may not recover from the recession? Start meditation yesterday. Use your rage in t…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/20 04:36 PM
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to explain the decreasing level of depression A quick review of your text would have fixed that blunder.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/20 12:33 PM
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Well done mate. I went through this a couple years ago. As Blarg wrote, prepare for the ups and downs. But the radical lifestyle change will kick your butt to open your eyes as to how bright your future could be. Need more cash due to the D? You will learn to generate wealth in new ways. Your whole being finds the possibility of living under bridges revolting. Your bed feels lonely and cold? You will go find women worthy of you. More time not babbling to the now ex? More time for hobbies and mee…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/20 07:13 AM
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Cheaters will cheat. No point brooding over this. Going through the Cut the Shit checklist in askMRP will give give you clarity regarding your predicament.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/19 02:03 PM
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I was thinking the whole time why you were trying to save that dumpster fire before reading about option 2. Have you at least spoken to a competent lawyer? Don't assume anything until then. Your kids are going to pick up on their parents being no more than roommates.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/19 04:16 PM
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Good job. To me, leaving 1 or 2 reps in the tank is the overarching axiom of the program, before other concepts like TMs or joker sets. For instance, me having a home gym and not being keen on having my windpipe crushed, I always leave 2 in the tank during heavy benching. No, I started with the standard assistance work, adapted it slowly to my needs. Now I'm set.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/19 03:36 PM
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Regarding 5/3/1, have you been going forward 5, back 3? After one year you should be around cycle #9, not #13. Give your body an effing rest, this is a marathon.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/19 07:01 AM
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Because I'm not a particularly clever guy, I like simple truths. And ever since my mind was bombarded by RP articles, books, posts, etc. I had to reduce those truths to their quintessence. Here's what works for me. Theoretical Axiom of the Red Pill: Sperm is cheap, eggs are expensive. which leads to the solution Practical Axiom of the Red Pill: Be attractive, don't be unattractive. From those two simple things you can derive everything that is needed in terms of sexual strategy.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/19 04:31 PM
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Agreed on alternative grip on the DL. I stay overhand grip until 110kg. 110 till 140 has to be done with alternate grip. Regarding elevating the bar, try to work on ankle mobility first. YouTube Cossack squats. I do them on leg day as part of the pre-workout.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/19 02:06 PM
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Read Hitchens' article "Why women aren't funny? ". Must be still online. That's all you need to know. Matter of fact, read everything from him.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/19 03:43 PM
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Your dick told you she was a great unicorn to preserve your genes, and we should pay attention to what our dick says. Just not at the cost of going through all that shit. Newbies who have those "am I good enough?" moments, remember the mantra: for every unicorn you think you see, there's a guy somewhere on the planet that's tired of fucking her.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/19 06:18 AM
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She thinks MRP offers the promise to fix everything. It only shines a light so the man gets to fix himself. From that misconception the rest of the article becomes moot.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/19 08:45 AM
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The deload week of 5/3/1 BBB makes all the difference for me when it comes to replenish my mental energy.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/19 06:18 AM
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Single, hot or sane. Choose two.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/19 06:39 AM
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Real nerds use LATEX
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/19 11:34 AM
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What stopped you from leaving that particular group when it became not fun? Just mingle with another crowd in the club.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 07:05 AM
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I've added bodyweight cossack squats to my agile 8 warm-up routine on leg days, and with great results.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/19 01:53 PM
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A plate is here to drain your balls. You have (upgraded her to) a girlfriend.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/19 06:51 AM
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Third this. Make sure you do the Agile 8 routine. You could also go as low as 30% of your TM on the squat, increasing 5 percentage points per cycle.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/19 10:03 PM
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I fucking hope so. Not shorting oil futures was a learning experience
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/19 07:17 PM
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Apart from Dr. Troy from Nip/Tuck, difficult to find RP characters on TV.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/19 07:30 AM
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Seems to be a staple of Birtish sitcoms (cf. Sybil Fawlty)
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/19 02:28 PM
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Remember that kids often regress before entering a phase where they leap forwards.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/19 11:53 AM
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By focusing on his mission. Anything outside his frame is ignored or found to be amusing. Your haven't put much work in your mission, which is why she's disgusted at the idea of touching your cock. Speaking of work, what concrete steps have you taken to get one?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/19 09:26 AM
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I may wait for the next crash Or you start now shorting everything. I don't know if a crash is at hand, but if it did, I wouldn't need to wait for the economy to recover.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/19 02:16 PM
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Once she's used to being called a slut, you can start asking her. "You're so wet and defenceless. Do you know what you are?". Make her say it. Even better if she says "a slut". I was face fucking a plate recently and made her say "your slut" after spanking her. A favourite during anal is asking "where's my dick right now?". Remember to mix in some E in it, e.g. choking plus eye contact, spanking plus "that beautiful ass is getting redder by the second"
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/19 02:10 PM
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It's like Tom Hanks in A League of their Own: It's supposed to be hard. If it wasn't hard, everyone would do it. The hard is what makes it great.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/19 01:47 PM
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Her attempt at making you buy them drinks was such a good opportunity to flip the script. Sadly you DEERed. I know Russians are like that, but do you not have a solid frame? You said yourself you felt like you dodged a bullet, what with her being the typical icy Russian queen. Might as well get some shit test practice out of it.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 04:11 PM
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There are examples given in SGM about exactly what u/beta_buxxx is talking. Time to read it again.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/19 01:38 PM
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I introduced a safe word a while back and told her its her job to use it if she is hurt. Two issues here: one technical: you do also have a go-slow word right (e.g. "yellow" if the safe word is "red")? You also need a safe gesture for when she cannot vocalise. another fundamental: her responsibility to use it is only partly true. Of the utmost importance is that you don't put yourselves in a position that she ever has to (think of nuclear deterrence strategies, the red button exists, but really,…
/r/askMRP30/04/19 09:38 AM
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It's like he's doing this MoM thing about losing everything, but instead of it being a thought experiment, it's his way of life.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/19 02:51 PM
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Get HCG and albumin tested too. HCG is a multi-day test so logistics need to be right.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/19 08:03 AM
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Struggling to get bloodwork done in Europe let alone gear/TRT. But I had some chemical success cutting down vitamin D: I have heard some people respond negatively to very high doses and coming down from 8,000 to 4,000UI seems to have seriously improved my mood. ​ Tell me about it. My new endo saw I had 324 TT, so gave me a shitty explanation about not needing to conduct an HCG test. While at the same time not commenting on my albumin that's over the range and my E2 that's way below range. I'm ti…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/19 02:53 PM
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Your math is correct. I bought my home gym (power rack mind you, not just squat rack) in October 2017. Just about amortised in a couple months.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/19 02:37 PM
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Re PUAs: as with everything in TRP, you want to separate the wheat from the chaff. SGM says to be open to any of your bitch's fantasies. Really? Well I love what's in this book, it has made me a much better lover, but the woman that's going to peg me hasn't been born yet.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 08:11 PM
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At 1.88m you could be 90kg, 12% BF and lift heavy. You could be 100kg and still look good. 71kg is hopelessly thin. You're going to have to eat, lift, sleep and repeat. That's all you have to do until you can at least squat your own weight. then maybe move to a different program. ​ Meditation: two sessions a day, start at 2 minutes, and go by 1-second increment per session. You only need your phone's timer. Do that till you reach 2x20 minutes a day. Now, there are different approaches to meditat…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/19 07:22 PM
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So, I am going to assume you are attractive and aren't unattractive. She is passive, you like blowjobs. That's a match made in heaven. Instruct her to lie on her back, head hanging out the bed/sofa/table. Then fuck her face like that. I like to do that especially with girls who aren't great at giving head. Keep going with calling her out on her shit test, she appears to like it. That's rule 1 of SGM: female sexual pleasure is psychological. Read TFA's Creating Your Slut (again).
/r/TheRedPill20/02/19 08:45 AM
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Try the alternate grip for the DL (one overhand, the other underhand), beats having to use straps until you really can't do without. That's the grip I have to use now on my heavy sets.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/19 09:44 PM
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I too have started the thankfulness glass jar thing on 1st of Jan.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/19 04:11 PM
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Alright. Congrats on approaching her, now you know what's what. ​ But you are being an entitled bitch and your hamster is getting the best of you. She doesn't have to work on social skills for your sake, nor did she wonder the whole afternoon about "what if?". You must lead the conversation (edit: and learn to let go when things don't work out well for you). ​ Are you a 4? Then a 7 is too high for you even in a daygame context. If your SMV is 5+, then your game sucks. No point in being bitter. L…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 11:13 AM
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Welcome to the marathon. Lift, game, frame.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/19 02:47 PM
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Got it now.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 08:18 PM
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What kind of gym promotes to brown belt within 2 years?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 06:14 PM
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Iron Maiden's The Trooper never fails to make me feel invincible.
/r/askMRP31/01/19 04:22 PM
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AFAIK it's a golden rule of the program that you never go to failure and keep one or two reps in the tank, barring accidents of course, like slips or horrible form for a reason or another. I wonder how that concept segues with other lifting philosophies, like that RPE program from Canadian Mark Tuchscherer.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/19 07:48 PM
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As long as the lifter knows he is in for the long run, and gives his best when doing AMRAP heavy, Joker, and AMRAP light sets, such a deload is fine.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/19 06:52 PM
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With comments from Wendler himself
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/19 06:35 PM
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A few other points about upping the Emotion: have sex while having eye contact the whole time. It will add Variety if you are being too dominant all the time. Bonus points if you hold eye contact in a Dominant situation, like during anal sex or as you hold her wrists over her head with one hand. The most important thing being knowing why you look in her eyes, and being congruent with what you say with yours. Immersion must be good between you two for this not to be weird. if you like to thrust v…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/19 12:18 PM
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Also, remember that every 5 completed cycles you should deload to TMs 3 cycles ago. So for cycle #6 you use TMs from cycle #3, cycle #11 from cycle #8 numbers, etc.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/19 09:22 AM
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Jeez those of us who never had to deal with that can not even imagine the mountains you have to climb. Stay strong mate.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/19 09:38 PM
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Well where's your plan for the whole suicide ideation thing?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/19 04:14 PM
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D/s With plates I just apply SGM, going slowly and push further every time. By that time I have figured how freaky they are. Just an example (courtesy of RSD Madison) of how I like to test the waters as I kiss them deeply, thus combining Dominance with Emotion : "what am I going to do with you? I'll just XYZ" you can go more Emotional by following with "and you will love (me for) it", or more Dominant by making her repeat XYZ. It can be done during foreplay or at any time really, just let your l…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/19 04:01 PM
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she said I have to go to the bathroom first Love that moment when they're taking that "OK I've creamed my pants, what do now" bathroom break.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/19 09:03 AM
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Upvote for the content and rhetoric of the post. I chortled. You've diagnosed the situation well. Question is, how much power are you willing to give her to chew on regarding that project.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/18 09:34 AM
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You also have too much ego. Cold approach will keep you humble, make you realise it's no good to step on your own dick. Then as the EC wrote,with experience you build yourself a titanium-framed sense of self-esteem and OI.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/18 09:10 AM
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She has embarrassed you in a public setting. If you knew anything about Bitch Management, you would know how to demote her smh.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/18 09:21 AM
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Welcome to the club mate, the grass is greener, the sex is DEVI and on your terms. I can only recommend Tom Torero for daygame. He is the most RP PUA I can think of. Take care of your frame, he'll whet your game.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/18 07:49 PM
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Research self discipline methods No Excuses by Brian Tracy. Give it a go.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/18 04:52 PM
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I agree. With your new frame, thots will fill the container effortlessly. Last week, I gave a plate sheet-rending, screaming orgasms. She told me she was bleeding afterwards, literally like in a chapter of SGM. Guess whence I took my sex tips. Make sure the wife knows the end of the maze, give her the 6 months. If it ends in a divorce it will be hard, it sure broke my heart thinking of my kids but it is for the best if you've thought it through.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/18 04:26 PM
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|Change DL stance to more sumo Any reason for that? Hip width means more leverage. Maybe open your toes and knees out more. As for to-do lists in exchange for sex, you should laugh in her face as if you had no fucks to give.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/18 04:09 PM
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F is too harsh and a part of you knows it. I like your honesty, but some positive feedback loop would be great in your life. No one is immune to that, but I think you're good at not BSing yourself. How's your social life, particularly friends? As for goal setting, read up again on SMART goals and internalise the ideas behind them.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/18 03:55 PM
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Kudos for that. Maybe add the Krypteia variation if you feel like it.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/18 03:57 PM
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How a triathlete get so fat he is 30% is beyond my comprehension. Your physical goal needs adjusting. I am super low-T, but I had managed to squat my body weight on SL 5x5 within 10 weeks of having started. And I just had the empty bar on day 1. Granted it was during a bulk, but you can squat 95kg much earlier than June, medical issues notwithstanding.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/18 04:16 PM
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And Flatland, since he strikes me as nerdy.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/18 03:24 PM
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I was going so heavy(for me) After months of a strength program you lift too little. What's your estimated BF%? Are you eating enough? How's sleeping? Got your T checked? How's your morning wood?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/18 03:21 PM
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Have another plate that I have not crossed a line with. If you're not fucking her she's not a plate.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/18 03:07 PM
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“you don’t pay attention to me bla bla bla” is a comfort test, especially said with feelz instead of snarkiness. Your reactivity in answering takes you two steps back. You said you didn't want desire to be negociated, yet you stay fixated on the cookies vs. boobs after the fact. Your timing's shite, you aren't congruent with what you want and she senses it. Another step backward. Let it go mate, you remind me of those people whose weaker frame couldn't find a good rebuttal when challenged by som…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/18 02:45 PM
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Does he get enough exercise during the day? Hardcore cry-it-out method might really create attachment problems. Have you tried the Ferber method? You also want to pay attention to everything that happens pre-bedtime. Do you guys have a routine? Is he not too stimulated (sounds, lights, etc.)? Can you think of positive things to say to him as you put him to bed? Would staying for some time next to the bed for 15 to 30 minutes to allow for a smooth transition be acceptable to you? Do you have a pl…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/18 09:44 AM
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Nice post, but even then it downplays what chivalry was really about: first and foremost being a (Christian) believer. Vassalage, generosity and honour were also important. Courty love had little to do with chivalry, except in literature. Thinking of it as a European counterpart to Confucianism probably forms a more honest image of reality.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/18 09:44 AM
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Can you two make an inventory of shit that can be sold? We have made hundreds of euros this calendar year selling useless shit, or children's clothes that did not fit anymore. Go minimalistic.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/18 08:59 AM
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Do you have a plan to reduce that debt? Because it seeps into every other area of your life, removes fun, kills Immersion for you and your wife, etc.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/18 07:38 AM
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I usually go with "We are definitely not having sex", delivered slowly and with a piercing eye contact.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/18 07:34 AM
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But please explain as this stuff is still beginner stage for me. Hi red. So am I. The way I see it, it reduces to a battle of frames. If she is a bit of a brat, looking for funishment, and you want to indulge her (i.e. it's in your frame to do it) because you find it amusing and/or you will not suffer from this professionally, all the power to you, make her squirm on that chair, give her a good spanking afterwards, etc. If you, however, find her behaviour unacceptable, in the earnest sense of th…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/18 08:36 AM
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Pook = Socratic method * RP. Love that stuff.
/r/askMRP09/11/18 01:54 PM
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Do you have fun in your life? It doesn't seems like you do. He told her no and to go to a corner but she did not care. What can i tell him to improve his authority or respect? With my boy I have explained and enacted those situations. First you put up your hands and shout down the other kid. If that fails, return the favour. Tit for tat. Regardless of age, gender or size of the offender. And to hell with school's regulations. My children will not be bullied. I got into a frame to give her the at…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/18 11:59 AM
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Careful of her topping from the bottom. I like to make them stand next to a wall, hands tied behind their back. I place a coin on the wall, that they have to press down on with their nose. OK maybe not appropriate for a 30 minutes call.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/18 09:34 AM
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Hell I'm low T and I haven't cried in 10 years, well before my children were born...
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/18 08:38 AM
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Yes the real tl;dr is to not ignore red flags. The time and thoughts you invested in that girl man! Also, why is she living with you after a month? Are you graduating HBs that quickly?
/r/TheRedPill31/10/18 11:32 AM
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The woman of that Purple Pill man hasn't transcended her hypergamous nature, she's just out of options currently.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/18 10:29 AM
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"You heavens,[...] let not women's weapons, water drops / Stain my man's cheeks!" - King Lear
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/18 07:31 AM
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How is your meditation (not) going? You can kill multiple birds with this one stone.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/18 09:17 AM
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I didn't gain much from reading Roosh tbh. If you're already red-pilled most of it will be obvious. I recommend Tom Torero's YT channel. I haven't seen anything that beats it from an RP daygame point of view. RSD stuff is flash game, not great when you start.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/18 08:04 AM
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It's a great start. If you don't forget to have fun and spread it around you'll do just fine.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/18 07:26 AM
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Plating Gaming FTFY
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/18 11:45 AM
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Yep, I like Tom Torero's approach when kissing fails on a first date: "It's my job to try, and yours to resist. Just so you know, I'm going to try again". Second sentence is optional. Then you go cold in speech, body language, etc. Try to re-escalate after 5-10 min, or when it feels good.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/18 11:43 AM
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No problem, those are in the assets column
/r/askMRP01/10/18 11:16 AM
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I'll show the results to another doc and plead my case, if unsuccessful I'll find another way.
/r/askMRP29/09/18 05:05 AM
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No such thing as a men's clinic where I live (Western Europe).
/r/askMRP29/09/18 05:03 AM
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I would gladly pay double that as well, but there's no such thing as men's clinics in Western Europe.
/r/askMRP29/09/18 05:01 AM
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I sleep just fine, but fatigue is there anyway. I don't need the motivation to get back in the gym, I just need to discipline myself. I was doing just fine, test notwithstanding, from November till May. Maybe a change of training program will help.
/r/askMRP29/09/18 04:57 AM
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Thanks for the suggestions, reading Beyond 531 is overdue anyway. I do indeed have to get out of fuckarounditis and rebound.
/r/askMRP29/09/18 04:49 AM
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Title should be changed to "Don't bite off more than you can chew." or even better, just "ABC", that acronym is positive and drives you to act. But it's part of the learning process to fail before you develop that hunter instinct.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 07:39 AM
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I increase my meditation time by two seconds per day. Slow and steady wins the race. Still married on paper. Without getting into further details, it takes a lot of time where I am located. She leaves my home in a couple months. I'll post something in the spring, when hitting one year of being "pragmatically" single.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/18 07:09 AM
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More incentive for me to not get angry. How's your meditation regimen going? Back in the days, before I even heard of MRP or we had kids, my (now STBX-)wife used to throw tantrums like that. My frame at that time was: next time she brings it up, don't argue, don't get angry, just do absolutely nothing in the house for one week, then two weeks, if she hasn't picked the slack. My plate would stay on the table, no vacuuming the floor, no taking the trash out, no cooking, etc. That course of action …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/18 08:38 AM
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I really enjoy your storytelling. I can just picture "who wants ice cream?!" and her face, kids screaming their heads off. You're good at resetting, and owned your frame with those events.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/18 07:27 AM
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I like to use Tom Torero's "Yeah, I'm not gonna be your sugar daddy or your gay friend.", although I do it face-to-face.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/18 12:31 PM
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Got an epiphany about #1 on Friday. I gamed a smoke show in a coffee shop. If she wasn't 32 years old, she'd be an HB10. Looks and dresses like a high-class escort. Interesting banter. My physical escalation had to be calibrated down because of cultural reasons. Don't want the fish going off the hook. My inner game was "FFS, just give me something to hang on, there's got to be a flaw". I had to consciously think about fractionating and being aloof (thanks Tom Torero and RSD Madison) to not const…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 07:42 AM
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Try James Marshall's line while your body language is detached "So what do you want to know about me?". Or you stay silent, keep eye contact and communicate through your body "Well, it's your turn". Girls pick up on that, they have better social intelligence than us. Everything needs to be tested infield. On Saturday straight up told a 23 year old (I'm 38) "you're so boring", she loved it and the banter was great afterwards. Edit: as u/antariusz said, your primary goal should be an instadate. Do…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 07:39 AM
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It's not one of your questions, but cut it out with the first-date-bathroom-fclose she experienced. Don't read much into it, don't compare your date to that one in the past and was different for a myriad of factors, perhaps with a guy of higher SMV, another context (was she a bit drunk, in the middle of ovulation week, getting out of a relationship), etc. Get it out of your head. Focus on how your game is, and how you can improve it. As to the bitch thing, I think you realised after discussing w…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 10:08 AM
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Considering his height, weight and lift numbers, it should be really good.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/18 08:48 AM
1

But I feel boundaries need to explicitly set, with repercussions if crossed. It happens to me sometimes, though less and less. I'm going to give RSDMadison's king frame a try. Just a lingo clarification: did you fuck your instadate? Then she's a plate, otherwise, a set or a target.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/18 09:33 AM
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Got to up the D and the V man, you've just read SGM. You should know what makes her orgasm. Leave her in a puddle, then, as one member says (Vasily I think): "now, I'm gonna take what's mine."
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/18 09:20 AM
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moreover that I want her to exercise too prescriptive. You being in sales, you should be able to make her swallow the pill by herself. Refresh your memory about the Socratic method.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/18 09:02 AM
1

As they say in the triathlon community: Train hard and lose weight. When people are concerned about your BF, keep on going. When they are horrified about it, keep on going. You'll know you're ready when they're staging an intervention.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/18 08:03 AM
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Agreed. Both BF goals were unreasonable for different reasons (Q2 goal too strict, Q3 goal is a low-bar). you can shoot for sub 17-18% at the end of Q3.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/18 07:20 AM
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Do you need to have a stronger frame than your dad's? Drop your ego and pick your battles man. If he's an effective leader, there's not much you can do about it. Don't be your 13 year old self, call him out on his BS, but don't lose sight of your goal (house renovation in this case) and enjoy your time with him. The frame battle in your marriage, however, is worthy though. You are two different persons who live in the same house for a significant portion of their time.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/18 01:53 PM
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Does the redpill have morality? Is it a tool? A process? An experiment? To me, it's a virtual locker room where men exchange notes to better critical aspects of their lives, become more attractive and less unattractive.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/18 01:37 PM
2

How do you get a 10 year old to do that? Do you know how we say, for weight loss, "the first week you stop drinking any calorie, then the second you stay away from the cookie jar, the next yet you put down the bag of crisps" etc.? You can apply this to your son if you want him to own his shit. This week for my 6 year-old it has to do with him sorting out his dirty clothes before the shower. I trained my 2 year-old months ago to take her plates, bowls, and mugs back to the kitchen when she's fini…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/18 01:22 PM
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While you should not thank her for sex, you can find (cocky) ways to praise her performance. She might have issues not letting her inner slut out for you on a consistent basis yet (cf. TFA's Creating your slut). I grew up in a rough neighbourhood, and have kind of an edge from that. Always situationally-aware, low trust of people, etc. I have become more aware of and empathetic to other people lately Yeah I feel ya, same here.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/18 09:03 AM
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She sounds like she could benefit from reading WISNIFG or some kind of assertiveness training. Of course I understand she wants to vent in the moment and does not expect you to fix it, but...
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/18 01:01 PM
2

squat form, getting my ass to the floor and all that No. What SL and SS roughly mean by squat form is: the bar path stays over mid-foot, and break parallel with your thighs before going up. A2G squats is another movement altogether.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/18 12:54 PM
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OYS #6 last one 15 May Deflated Crap week. Flakes from a both a yes-girl and a maybe-girl, to which of course I reacted in the only possible way: let it affect me. Complete OI meltdown. Which led me to not once, but twice losing frame with my kids on the weekend. The whole scream-at-the-top-of-the-lungs, "you are only a child, I am your father and you will do as you're told!" kind of crazy. Lifted only twice, meditation every other day, gained 3 lb as I thought bread at 11pm and hydrating almost…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/18 09:02 AM
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Isn’t that the idea? Read sidebar and seek advice? Oh come on now. I agree that comments, sometimes akin to punches in the mouth, can help us get us out of the tunnel vision. However wouldn't it be a great thing if by writing those, we can self-reflect on the recent past, prepare for the future? That is one of the ways to live by CH's words: XII. Maximize your strengths, minimize your weaknesses
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 07:30 AM
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Provided he can also express his vision to her after some time of owning his shit, you know, to let the hamster get out of the maze.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 07:20 AM
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LP You mean SL? Now that you point it out, indeed if/when TRT changes my body physiology it'll make more sense to grind on a program that increases by 5 lb every time. If I don't get TRT, then the 5/3/1 variation will take care of my hypertrophy goals for the upper body.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 07:09 AM
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Done, done and done. Kids notwithstanding, it'll be an uncomplicated divorce. No violence, physical or otherwise, no great disparity in income, we'll live in the same school district. The judge will like that. I just need to check with lawyer if I can protect my FU money, perhaps put the lion's share in a trust for the kids or something, since she's bad with money.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/18 07:32 AM
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Interesting. Props for the link Reach.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/18 07:28 AM
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If you are learning guitar on your own, I recommend having a look at Justin Guitar (google for his website or YT channel).
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/18 02:29 PM
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I'll give it a try at the beginning. Indeed I've always done decline planks. I'll figure out a way to do weighted planks when I can hold 1 min consistently.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/18 07:00 AM
1

OYS #5 last one 27 Mar Vision Look like a beast naked. Join the 500kg/340 Wilks club. Work in data analysis/ML within 5 years. An Oak to my kids, a guide to lead them to an awesome life. Fitness: D Age: 38 Height: 186cm (6'1") Weight: 83kg (183lb) BF: 15,4% (calipers, 3-fold) SL 3x5: SQ 83kg, BP 55kg, DL 115kg, OHP 40kg, ROW 62,5kg (170 Wilks). Oscillating between 170 and 180 Wilks points, so I'm staying the same kind of strong, that's explained by the 500 kcal deficit. If I get TRT, I might try…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/18 01:18 PM
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Yep. Deadhangs are great. Add shoulder shrugs for variety if it's getting boring.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 12:04 PM
1

How to practice eye contact? Baby steps. Focus on eye contact when spoken to. It's normal to be looking elsewhere when you are the one doing the talking. Learn to focus on one eye, then the other, unless you want to be perceived as creepy. For sexy eye contact, go for one eye, then the other, then look at her lips. Do that triangle scan, but needless to say, organically. Imagine the things you'd do to her while gazing at her.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/18 01:06 PM
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Most likely an issue with those scales. What is important is consistency: same scales, in the same position in the (bath)room, every time.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/18 07:05 AM
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wife doesn't really FEEL this unless she sees it happen The rope is just starting to tug. Keep on keeping on. We're quite similar: weight, height, lifting experience. But although I'm 5 years younger than you, I log 83kg on SQ, 115kg on DL, 53kg on BP (and I've just deloaded on all 3). So what am I missing here? How is your recovery? Your T-levels?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/18 11:11 AM
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The "having fun while still alive" part.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/18 10:18 AM
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I, on the other hand, am another kind of idiot. I almost solely approach HB8s and over. So I get about 1-2 sets per hour, almost always get the number but they seem more likely to flake.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 07:28 AM
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That could work on an alpha woman if the context and tone is right. Otherwise, you could point to a street artist or any dude in the street and tell her surely you can pick it up from him.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 08:39 AM
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To shore up the idea that baby steps are ok when an omega finds himself suddenly in the SMP. you have 2 kids. Proof that you've had sex at least twice in your life. Truer words were never uttered.
/r/askMRP10/04/18 09:44 AM
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got tired of the RP lingo. Right now I use "my wife" interchangeably with "STBX" or "lying PoS".
/r/askMRP10/04/18 09:41 AM
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I realise a link to my latest long OYS would have provided better context.
/r/askMRP10/04/18 09:40 AM
1

Yep, my n-count is 1, so I have to build from the underground up.
/r/askMRP10/04/18 09:37 AM
1

Thanks Coach for the reply. I've addressed exactly that in a recent OYS. Went from empty bar (70 Wilks points) in November to 180 points now. I do acknowledge there is a long road ahead, but no natty is deadlifting 2,5x his own weight within 5 months either (if he does, he can thank his high T levels). I'm seeing an endocrinologist in 2 weeks for a more complete blood panel. Edit: I will be the first to admit that low T means low-value man. That fucking hormone (lack thereof really) is partly re…
/r/askMRP10/04/18 09:36 AM
1

Thanks all for the kind words. Just want to hit the ground running through this ordeal. Step 1 in upping my game: the five-second rule. I will open when I see an HB, no matter how embarrassing the situation, even an HB9 in a crowded bus. No n/k/f-closes in my sights, just open a set.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/18 08:31 AM
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OYS #4 Well, I am an actual cuck. Uncovered her affair as she was spilling her story to her friend on WhatsApp. I haven't revealed anything yet since I haven't seen a lawyer (have an appointment next week). Then she will get to sleep on the couch. I am devastated for the kids, it will be tough on them for a while, but we will make it work. It was just my turn. The mission remains unchanged. Past the initial emotional turmoil of the day of discovery, I sleep actually really well (thanks RP). I've…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/18 01:05 PM
1

Man I miss those pike push-ups, I tell you.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/18 09:50 AM
0

No kids? Not truly in love with your wife? Enough with BSing yourself man. Read up on the sunken cost fallacy, and take your life in the direction you really want it to go. Learn being good at cooking and keeping finances, it's on you! Use your monk time to develop game and frame. PS: if you look ripped for summer, who cares if you go the bodyweight route?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/18 07:30 AM
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I followed In my opinion that's your mistake here. You could have left the hamster do its work. It's good that she got it, but not pursuing her would have built better motivational foundations. You'll have to be on point on leading.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/18 09:08 AM
1

"Good! I've recently thought about shaving them altogether. Saves the trip to the barber."
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/18 03:02 PM
3

OYS #3, last one 19 Dec Vision Look like a beast naked. Join the 500kg club. Work in data analysis/ML within 5-7 years. An Oak to my kids, a guide to lead them to an awesome life. A companion (or more) at my arm who embodies the saying "A lady in the streets, a freak in the sheets". Fitness: D Age: 38 Height: 186cm (6'1") Weight: 89kg (196lb) BF: 19% (Navy) SL 3x5: SQ 90kg, BP 60kg, DL 115kg, OHP 42.5kg, ROW 45kg (170 Wilks). Lowered volume to only three sets, to accomodate the cut. I am startin…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/18 11:02 AM
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Sheesh... Another book we don't have to read. Biology wins every time. Thank you for the post!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/18 08:58 AM
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She came blazing out of the bedroom, grabs him by the scruff of the neck, knocking him down and screaming. Kid is a little freaked out, but whatever. He deserved it.[...]She didn’t do anything to him other than hold him by the neck and yell at him. How is this not a boundary-crossing red flag for your wife and yourself? FFS he´s not a kitten, he is your child. The whole thing reeks of weak frame and is a recipe to lower your son's self-esteem. I get it, they test our frames, that's how they grow…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/18 02:28 PM
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JDRoedell and Jack10, for lazybones.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/18 10:00 AM
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Those times she regrets marrying you. Pay attention to how she says it, don't focus on the what. She practically gives you the hint she wants you in her frame. Are you going to play the game? Is there a door she can take if she's not haaaappy? The widower thing though, depending on her non-verbal communication at the time, is probably a comfort test. Then you might want to show that you want to be married. Be careful what you say because you might get it one day. Dread is not something she can l…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/18 03:26 PM
1

Similar. Stomach vacuums however are touted as an exercise you can do sitting, standing, cycling, etc. With this exercise you can better isolate the TA muscles.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/18 11:42 AM
1

Even more effective is to learn to train your transverse abdominis. It holds your internal organs in, so it could help. Locate it, imagine you are trying to push your belly button towards your spine, then towards your feet. You train your pelvis floor at the same time, so it's a win-win. I lift, then stretch, then do those 10x10 s and it segues well into meditation, because I've been laying there all relaxed for a while.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/18 09:04 AM
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Tell me you are sitting at the table for dinner, even if you don't eat. Same thing for breakfast, unless you have to be on your way somewhere. It is a very important routine for kids.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/18 08:43 AM
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Be an example to your family, through your acts and ethics. Individually there is only so much you can do. Societies evolve with time. Opinions are malleable. I don't believe in the catastrophist scenarios evoked here and there about a MGTOW epidemic and sex robots. If history has shown anything, it's that humans can only accept so much subjugation. They sometimes forge their own fetters, but, as much as third-wave feminists would like to deny it, they have highly-complex brains, perspective, an…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/18 09:31 AM
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I swear reading your proposal I thought, OK, but it'd better use a blockchain. And guess what...
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/18 09:01 AM
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I'll chime in with my allegorical version of Reach180's analogy. His is solid advice, and I thank him for sharing it with us. I view my frame as an outdoor space. My life is a railroad track. I am the locomotive/engineer. Kids are in tow no matter what. If I had my own business, perhaps that would also be an integral part of that core. Wagons (friends, wife, family, etc.) are attached, if they want, to share my ride to Awesomeland. I put more coal all the time (never let your foot off the gas). …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/17 11:41 AM
1

e.g. step one for me was deleting that 90 GB hidden folder on the night that I swallowed the red pill.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/17 11:19 AM
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OYS #2, last one 3 weeks ago Vision Still to be fleshed out. Fitness Height: 186 cm (6'1") Weight: 89 kg (196 lb) BF: not measured SL 5x5: SQ 72.5 kg, BP 45 kg, DL 85 kg, OHP 37.5 kg, ROW 55 kg (130 Wilks, 300 to go yay). Linear progression on the big lifts, I am going to DL my own weight this week so that's an amusing little milestone. The hard work hasn't started yet thought, I am aware of that. I've missed reps on the other two lifts, especially OHP. Just one failed rep on rows. It's probably…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/17 09:58 AM
1

Thanks, I've liked your past OYS since I started lurking. You are right, of course, without my ego-led sample bias that would be closer to the 75th percentile (I have for instance no made to measure item of clothing). AWALT of course, and I could be rationalising, but I don't think she got more than flirting. But the bomb is dropped so I will remain vigilant. I have not seen a guide on MRP about opsec, do you have any pointers? Frankly, passive dread/IOIs is my best ally in this matter. I get to…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/17 02:47 PM
1

even though I bring immense value to them Can you quantify it? Are they paying so little below the regional average? Answering those questions will prop up your advantage in negotiating.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/17 09:21 AM
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Agreed. I told him "Doc, I have two healthy kids, I'm done, I don't care how small my balls become."AFAIK the only two options where I live is a urologist (like him) or an endocrinologist. In any case I should get my levels tested again. In January though.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/17 07:48 AM
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OYS #1 TL;DR: omega improving, my wife can get on board if she so desires. Vision Still to be fleshed out. Background I'm 37. Together 12 years, married 3, two kids (son 5, daughter 2). Dead bedroom but unlike most here, it was due to me. Basically after puberty, sex drive went down, seldom recovered. Thought I was simply asexual and like a dumbass did not know there was such a thing called testosterone. We had once a bout of 18 months without successful sex. On average it was 4 times a year. Sh…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/17 08:47 AM
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