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less parents cock blocking Currently 24. Can't tell you how many times I couldn't get laid because my parents were home and her parents were home all the time and we had strict curfews. I lost my virginity late at night in the back of her mom's SUV in a park because it was fucking impossible to do it anywhere else. Wouldn't be surprised if a lot of other people my age suffered from having parents who were ALWAYS home.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 11:27 PM
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I never said anything about it being wrong to fuck around lmao, just that if you do fuck around and eventually decide to settle down (which happens all the time), you should be honest about your past.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:52 AM
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Boomers were born from 45-65, but now it's internet slang for anyone who isn't Gen Z.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:48 AM
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I'm 5'9, never had a girl specifically bash me for my height from looking at me, but I've definitely had girls think I'm taller than that because "you're taller than so-and-so and he told me he's 5'11", so I would imagine 5'9 wouldn't get very good reception online, since so many dudes just straight up lie about their height.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:44 AM
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Lmao for sure. It's super fucking annoying. When I was younger before I had much experience with men, a girl asked me if I had AIDS because I had sucked dick a couple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:37 AM
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I agree, lies should be consistent, if you don't plan to repeat cheat just don't say a word, for the sake of the relationship, but there's always that chance that someone knows something (especially about past experiences), and it could slip. A lot of stories on /r/R_A are something like "yeah, I never told him I fucked 80 dudes in college and my friend told him and he dumped me" or "I never told her I lost my virginity to a prostitute but my buddy let it slip and she left me."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:33 AM
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Also bi, I personally feel like I have to jump through a lot more hoops with women, but I think this is because I inherently understand how men's minds work better, AND because gay/bi men tend to be more promiscuous in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:28 AM
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Yup. Been there done that. It's not hard. Shit, I dated a girl three years and I didn't like her THAT much.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 09:45 PM
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I feel like rule number one of dating is "if they'll cheat WITH you, they'll cheat ON you" lmao. Don't try and turn a ho into a housewife.
/r/MGTOW03/04/20 08:32 PM
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I went to college with a girl who accused at LEAST three guys of rape. Guys still slept with her all the time lmao, she would go to parties, get kinda drunk, and just throw herself at dudes until one bit. Guys are dumb as fuck, everyone on campus knew that she was a serial accuser (I should add, campus police had evidence proving she lied every time, didn't do shit about her), and dude's still fucked her weekly.
/r/MGTOW29/03/20 06:08 PM
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It's just like how at a bar, if they think for even a second you're underage and have a fake ID, they won't serve you, because it's 100% ON THEM if they serve someone underage. If you think for even a SECOND that they might not be 18, don't take them home, don't sleep with them, don't even talk to them. It's not worth the fucking risk.
/r/MGTOW29/03/20 06:05 PM
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Funnily enough, I've noticed really tall guys get away with lifts. I've seen guys 6'3"+ wearing boots with MASSIVE soles, probably adding an extra 3-4" and no one gives them shit lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 06:02 PM
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I'm in grad school, most of my classmates use some sort of macbook. I have a desktop for home and a shitty chromebook to take notes in class if I want. We're having online classes now, and last night I had to have a video chat, a paper, a google doc, a powerpoint, AND a group chat all open at the same time. I have two monitors and it was a struggle. I don't know how all these people survive with their shitty, one-monitor setups.
/r/MGTOW27/03/20 05:15 PM
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When I was younger, I honestly wanted to just meet one girl that I really liked, have her like me back, and then work on that relationship for the rest of my life. Have a family, etc. I got burned over and over and over again in high school and college, and now I'm in my early 20's and I literally just want to hook up. I don't even want to pretend that I want to date, I just want to fuck as many girls as possible. I think I'm seriously fucking jaded from several years of nothing but bad experien…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 11:36 AM
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Yeah, I think it all comes down to what you really want out of life. If you really want to settle down, get married and start a family, you should probably get started pretty early because if you wait, all the other high-quality partners with the same ideals will be taken. If you really wanna just fuck as many people as possible, you obviously shouldn't be doing LTR's, let alone getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 03:16 PM
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You're a half inch taller than me and I've never felt like I couldn't get women because of my height. I always thought the height thing was more about guys 5'8" or lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 08:08 PM
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I don't know anyone who has had the surgery, but I have a friend who's like 5'6" and wears boots and lifts when he goes out, ends up about 5'10". He's told me the difference is night and day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 08:07 PM
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You can sleep with your friends too. I've done it, and I know plenty of guys who have done it. It can get messy but if you already hang out with promiscuous people it's probably not that big of a deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 08:02 PM
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This is true and a lot of guys ignore it because they don't have friends. Almost all of my casual sexual encounters were with friends or friends of friends. I can think of one time I hooked up with a girl I didn't really know, and even that doesn't count because I had heard she had a crush on me (this was in high school), but we didn't really share any friends. Female friends will 100% hook you up if they think you're worth hooking their friends up with. It also helps if you roll in an already p…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 08:01 PM
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You mean to tell me that people who enjoy fucking as many people as possible for as long as possible have trouble transitioning to a committed relationship? Color me shocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 07:54 PM
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I feel like expecting a dude to pay for the first date is like, the classic "I'm a big fucking gold digger" red flag, with a secondary "I expect you to treat me like it's the 50's when it's convenient and like it's 2020 when it's convenient" red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 07:52 PM
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Women who get THAT butthurt over men not paying for the whole date are low-end gold diggers. It's pretty fucking pathetic not to split dates 50/50 assuming you're both working adults. If I took out a 21 year old college senior or some shit, yeah sure I'll pay, whatever. If you're a working adult human being and you expect me to pay for everything, I'm 100% not taking you seriously as a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 07:50 PM
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I wouldn't have kids after 40 at all if it doesn't happen by then. Not a big fan of the idea of being an old dad, it would be hard to put my partner through that at an older age (and I don't want to get with someone half my age just for the fertility bonus), etc. I'd rather not have kids than allow my kids to have a sub-par life that I could have done something about. I know there's never going to be a "perfect time" or a "perfect situation" to have kids, but I'd like to minimize any risk of fuc…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 03:40 AM
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Dude, major flashbacks to my last relationship lmao. "Yeah, we live together, sleep in the same bed sometimes, we've seen each other naked, and I get pissed when he has a girlfriend or goes on dates, but like, it's totally all innocent, and you're an asshole for insinuating that maybe my behavior isn't appropriate for a woman in a committed relationship, scumbag."
/r/MGTOW18/02/20 03:36 AM
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I'm really bothered by how you're not even replying to what he's actually saying lmao. He's saying SOME women like aggressive sex. You're saying that he's saying ALL women like aggressive sex, and that the reality is that NO women like aggressive sex, I think? He's being by far the more charitable person here lmao. It's way more likely that women aren't a monolith and there are as many sexual preferences as there are women than this idea that all men who do porn sex must absolutely never meet wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 12:58 AM
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Although I was always more about short term flings than strictly one night stands. Same. One night stands are way too much effort for how little you get out of it. I like to have a few (2-4) short term things going on. You don't rack up the monster N-count some guys want, but the work/payout ratio is very nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 10:25 PM
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My dad was 31 when I was born. My best friend's dad was 45 when he was born. He thinks about his dad's mortality a LOT. He's specifically told me he wishes he'd been born 10 years earlier so he could spend more time with his parents (they aren't particularly healthy and they're bumping 70). I plan to be finished having kids (if that happens) by 40 so I don't have to do that to my kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 10:22 PM
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Is it weird to want to get into the party scene post-college? It seems like most of my friends had a really fun time drinking and partying and fucking through college, and settled down a lot once they had jobs. I was busying busting my ass through college and didn't make time for fun. Now I'm mid-20's and have a stable job and have time and money abound, but I get kinda nervous about trying to go and party with college kids. Is there like a niche for late-bloomer dudes with FOMO lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 10:17 PM
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Sex is epic, but she's not fun to look at. I dated a girl for a long time like that, and honestly over time her face kinda put me off. Incredible body, but she was so goofy looking lmao. I didn't break up with her over it (I'm not THAT shallow), but it didn't help her chances any.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 10:53 PM
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It's pretty fucked up. It's one thing to say you're not interested in a woman because of her past. It's an entirely different thing to place a judgement on her character for it. If you're calling someone "used goods", it's very clear what your opinion of them is. It's not good, and it reflects poorly on you as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 03:17 AM
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This is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 03:09 PM
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Well then you understand I can't really take you seriously, right? Your own personal sample size is completely insignificant in the grand scheme of things. Not trying to be a dick, but anecdotal evidence isn't evidence of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 02:55 PM
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Are there any statistics/studies to back this up? Genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 02:13 PM
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Not uncommon, especially in rural areas. Sometimes it works out, but it's usually not a great idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 01:31 AM
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I know exactly one girl who had sex at 12, and she wasn't exactly the most mentally healthy. Girl had serious fucking issues. Most of the early starts I knew started at 14. 12 is some serious shit lmao. All my friends started between 16-20.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 03:19 PM
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Sex at 12 is a tiny proportion of people. Consensual sex at 12 is even smaller. 3 per year isn't rare but isn't common either, especially at a young age. One a week is incredibly rare, even in college when people are at their most promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 06:08 AM
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Age is a super important factor. 15 guys at 30? Not that many. 15 guys at 18? Kinda weird. Definitely not normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 09:52 PM
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This is 100% true. Easy going chill girls are boring as fuck. I want some excitement out of a relationship. I dont want an abuser but I want a strong personality. Girls who roll over and dont wanna offend get on my fucking nerves. Have an opinion, have something to say, be interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 09:45 PM
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Yeah, sure. For me I think it's more of a trust thing than anything. It's saying "I trust you enough to cum in you even though it would be really easy for you to sneakily stop taking the pill and trap me with a baby", which I think is a BIG step for a lot of guys. We're kind of raised to not trust that shit and always wear a condom no matter what. I was anyway. So I suppose if I'm cumming in a girl, it's a sign I REALLY like her. Not sure it works that way for other dudes though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 08:30 PM
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It's important to note though that being a good looking 40 year old guy doesn't mean you can get ANY young woman, or even a big proportion of them. But they're always THERE, and the number of good looking, single, 40 year old dudes willing to date a 20 year old seriously is pretty small, so it probably seems a lot easier than when you were 20 and competing with an enormous number of men for sexual attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 05:40 PM
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I wouldn't say it's so much of a PREFERENCE as it is an OPTION. You can find dozens and dozens of men talking about how as they got older, women their age and a significant amount younger stayed interested. I've heard 35 year old guys say it's easier to date than when they were 22 because their dating pool at 35 is ages 20-40, and when they were 22 it was more like 18-22. Women say the same shit but it's flipped, as they get older, younger guys aren't as interested. A 35 year old woman has the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 05:37 PM
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"be nice" isn't even always necessary. I kinda like girls that are mean sometimes. Not all the time though, then it gets super old super fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 04:56 PM
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Because it's about 50000 times harder to "just lose weight" than any healthy person realizes. It's like being addicted to crack, except it's literally impossible to go cold Turkey because its required to survive, and people all around you are saying "it's just one hit three times a day and no more, it's not hard bro just do it. Man up"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 02:12 PM
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Yeah, I generally have a "dont ask, dont tell" policy when it comes to past sexual partners. Nothing good comes from knowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 02:07 PM
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I like girls that dont want to admit they like you, but pretty clearly do
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 02:05 PM
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My type is actually "so fucking confident that you can tell it's actually a coverup for deep-seated insecurity" So yeah, confidence like that is very attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 02:03 PM
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Yeah, I'm not super into outgoing, posts nudes online types, my type is more "anti social insecure bitch who wants to fight all the time." But its not like the outgoing girls would be into me anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 02:02 PM
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For every black girl that only dates white guys, there are 10 white girls that only date black guys. I think race is important, but black is pretty high up the food chain. I feel much worse for Asian and Indian guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 02:00 PM
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Very true. I hope I dont sound like I'm criticizing her for the way she felt. 100% just a compatibility issue. No hard feelings there on my part.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 10:17 PM
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I can't know for certain, and I'm no expert, but as a guy who works really hard at his job and hobbies, it seems to REALLY bother the women that I date that I don't set aside more time "for them." When I was in college I worked extremely hard at my school work and my major (it was very skills-based, and required a lot of practice time to be any good). She was in the same major and was happy to skim by, but I was driven to be very good. It drove her crazy that I wanted to spend most of my time wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 07:02 PM
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Most people seriously underestimate what a REAL 9 looks like. 9's are like, jaw-droppingly hot, and 10's are legit 9's that fit your personal perfect type. The chances of you seeing a 9 walking around on the street outside of a major metropolitan area are basically none.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 06:59 PM
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Yeah, there's a HUGE difference between "attractive for someone in their 40's" and "attractive in the grand scheme of things." This goes for men AND women. Don't buy into the red pill propaganda that men look hot until they're 60. It's just not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 06:57 PM
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All the truly hugely biggly fat chicks I've hooked up with had extremely small boobs. The biggest-chested girl I've been with weighted like 120 at 5'7". Just had fucking gigantic boobs for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 06:50 PM
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It's literally impossible to be THAT skinny and "eat an insane amount of food." One my best friends is that size and complains about how he can't gain any weight. He eats a chicken cutlet and a small bowl of spaghetti every day at 6pm. That's literally all he eats all day, but since he eats fast food once a week he thinks he eats like a fatass. I'M a REAL fatass and I know what it takes lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 06:48 PM
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2 because I'm obese. If I lost the weight and cleaned up I think I have the potential to be a 5-6 but holy fuck I'm such a lazy loser. Good personality though because if you're fat and wanna get laid you have to be charming. N-count of 4 tells me I'm doing okay in that regard, although it would be easy mode if I looked better.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 06:46 PM
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At that point I think I would just say "okay cool, I'm gonna get ripped and fuck whoever I want. Have fun trying to find dudes who want your old-ass pussy."
/r/MGTOW31/01/20 06:34 PM
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Dude needs to spend six months getting in good shape and go find a girlfriend.
/r/MGTOW31/01/20 06:33 PM
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I try to respect all women, but it doesn't mean I'm going to marry any of them. If I do ever get married it will be because someone who meets my standards shows up. If that never happens, that's fine. But I'm not going to hate all women if none of them meet my standards.
/r/MGTOW31/01/20 06:30 PM
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9's tend to have standards. Most of the really skanky slutty girls I know are around 4-6 on a 10 point scale. They usually have really low self esteem and sleep around because it makes them feel validated. Hotties are already validated constantly and don't feel the need to hoe around to get it (although there are exceptions).
/r/MGTOW31/01/20 06:29 PM
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I've read that the reason a lot of amateur porn has a lot of dudes with big dicks is because guys with average dicks have seen enough porn that they're ashamed of being average. That's also why dudes with big dicks get laid more, because they're confident enough to put it out there. If you have an average dick that you perceive as small you probably have hangups related to letting girls see your junk, so you won't try as much.
/r/MGTOW31/01/20 06:27 PM
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Bruh. I'm honestly not as extreme as the "no hymen no diamond" dudes, and having had a past sex life isn't a dealbreaker for me. But holy. fucking. shit. 126 is an ENORMOUS amount of dudes. If you're a guy and you're legit cool with dating a girl who's fucked 126 dudes (and let them all cum in her apparently), like, good fucking luck to you, but that makes be wanna actually barf. I think my cutoff might be 10? Maybe? I literally can't even imagine the lifestyle you have to live to have sex with …
/r/MGTOW31/01/20 06:24 PM
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Meanwhile there was no problem when they were 18 and fucking a 35 year old married guy.
/r/MGTOW31/01/20 06:18 PM
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I hadn't been there in a while, but their quarantine is pretty shocking to me because last time I was there it was a pretty decent self-help sub focused on not allowing your love life to effect your self esteem. Checked it out today and it was pretty fucked lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 06:15 PM
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What an odd sub to remove. I never really got super toxic vibes from them like I did TRP or a number of subs that aren't quarantined. There were just REALLY into not dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 06:13 PM
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No, but I can ABSOLUTELY see a girl's parents calling the police because she has pictures of a guy on her phone and "obviously he sent those without her consent" or some shit and he gets plugged up for producing child porn. I knew a lot of girls growing up with absolute nazi fucking parents when it came to sex and sex-related stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:25 AM
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Yeah, there were a lot of creepy dudes that collected nudes of girls we went to high school with. Girl would send pictures to a guy they liked and that dude would spread them around to friends. I had a friend of mine show me his several-hundred picture folder on his phone that was nothing but nudes pictures of girls we went to high school with. That shit is seriously fucked up. If I have daughters I plan to tell them to seriously watch it with that shit. It's fine to show someone you like your b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:24 AM
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A 14 year old is in SUCH a different place developmentally from an 18 year old. I feel like 16 is a good age of consent age. I feel really weird about anyone younger than that having sex with anyone older than that. If two 14 year olds wanna go at it, whatever, but your brain is developing so quickly in your teenage years you see MASSIVE differences in maturity level year to year at that age, let alone between 14 and 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:22 AM
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My parents had me so fucking afraid to do anything at all that I didn't drink a drop until college. I smoked some weed in high school but I literally turned down sex in high school several times because I was afraid of what would happen if my parents found out. Then I got older and they talked about how boring I was as a kid and how they'd hoped I would be more rebellious lmao. Like, hello! I acted the way you raised me to act you dinguses.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:20 AM
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Yeah 21 and 14 are completely different universes as far as brain development and personal growth are concerned. I think in my state it's a max of three years, so a 17yo could get with a 20yo. I think that's probably okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:17 AM
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Average 15 year old? Shit, probably. Average 25 year old? I don't think so. When you're going through puberty and are absolutely stuffed full of raging hormones, there's no telling what you'll do. I knew a lot of guys growing up that did some fucked up shit and a lot of girls who had fucked up shit happen to them because of horny teenage boys. I like to think the vast majority grows out of it by their 20's but obviously shit still happens too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:16 AM
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It's more like if she's easy enough that I hit it before I've developed respect for her, respect probably isn't going to happen. It takes a LOT for me to "lose respect" for someone, but it's also something that takes time to build. I'm not into easy girls personally so if they put out pretty quick I'm not gonna develop that respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:14 AM
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I like extremely smart, aggressive, jealous women. I want to be in a fight all the time. I want her to check my phone constantly and bug me about who I'm out with. I want her to want to own me, even if she realistically can't. I want to have someone I can push against and have them push me back. Passive women are really fucking boring. Passionate women are extremely sexy and interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:12 AM
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Lmao it's true! Passive women really don't do it for me, and I'm REALLY not into naggy annoying women, so all that's left are the psychos.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 09:30 PM
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This, plus the rare people who actually are mentally healthy are fucking boring. If a girl isn't regularly starting fist fights with me I'm not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:47 PM
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If you're mentally healthy your SMV is low. Crazy girls are hot and exciting. I'm not interested in some lame chick who actually has her shit together. What a fucking snoozefest. All the dudes who want their pure virgin wife who cooks dinner and sucks their dick once a year is missing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:45 PM
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I've never understood why ANYONE is lauded outside of what they're actually good at. Just because someone is good at, music, for example, doesn't mean you should listen to ANYTHING that comes out of their mouth that isn't about music. The shit that drives me crazy is how people will listen to celebrity political opinions, like just because they're famous for being good at something means everything out of their mouth is gold. It's so fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:09 PM
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Jokes on you, I'm ONLY into crazy chicks. If they like kpop that's a good sign for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:05 PM
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I had to look her up. I think I actually agree with you on that one, but it's REALLY hard to compare a celebrity with access to the world's best plastic surgeons and dentists and whatever-the-fuck-else who can dump enormous amounts of cash into looking good AND has perfect genetics to the average population. It's always easy to toss out 1 in a hundred million examples to prove a point, but it doesn't match up with the norm. It's like dudes who use George Clooney or Brad Pitt as examples of why "…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 07:55 PM
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Personally, I don't think it's ever come up on a date, but it's something that's come up eventually with every girl I've dated. If I were a few months into dating a girl and she told me she'd been with a couple dozen guys, I would definitely need some process time at least. It's not like I can control it either, something about finding out a girl I'm with has been with a ton of dudes causes me to feel gross. And I'm the kind of guy who feels very comfortable talking about our past sex lives, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 06:41 PM
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Ah, okay. I thought it could also mean very slim without the bone structure required for the ) (
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 06:37 PM
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The trick is to have healthy views of what marriage is, and marry someone who also has healthy views of what marriage is. Most TRP guys have a totally fucked up concept of marriage, like if your wife isn't a super submissive willing sex slave who cooks all your meals rears your children singlehandedly and never argues with you she's a shit wife. And then they're shocked when they get dumped lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 06:32 PM
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I think it's overlooked how incredibly fucking hard it is to fix habits you were literally raised from birth with. If your parents are fat fucks and don't teach you how not to be a fat fuck, chances are you're going to be a fat fuck. I see a lot of people that were fit when they were young that got fat and then fit again talking about how it was challenging but not impossible to fix their eating habits, but it's a TOTALLY different ball game if you were overweight your entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 06:30 PM
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Sure, I think I can agree with that. I feel like I see very few couples where the woman is more than 5 years older. I can't remember the exact statistics but most relationships have the man being older by a pretty serious margin.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 06:28 PM
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| | is perfectly okay if you're still cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 06:25 PM
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I agree. If you're not a certain level of attractiveness, it's like I don't even see you (but honestly my standards aren't THAT high I think). Then it comes down to: are you mean enough to me. But I like bitchy girls, soooo...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 06:24 PM
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I hear this point a LOT, and I feel like a lot of cherry picking goes into it. Your average 40 year old dude is NOT good looking. Sure, there are guys who look very good for a 40 year old dude, but even then it's not like they still look 25. Guys are kinda lucky in the respect that there are a lot of women who are into older guys, so it's POSSIBLE to date good looking 25 year olds if you're a 40 year old guy who kept his shit together, but let's not pretend like that's the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 06:19 PM
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Not that there's more than a handful of guys here who can make me think they'd know a real female orgasm from a calf cramp if it queefed them in the side of the head anyway. This is true. I read an outstanding number of comments here and in other subs that scream "I've never had a girlfriend in my entire life", and they expect to be listened to lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 05:58 PM
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Personally, I think everyone hits A wall, but some people hit it harder than others. I can't think of a single 35 year old who looks BETTER than they did at 25 (unless they lost a ton of weight or something), but there are still some extremely attractive 35 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 05:57 PM
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You can totally find someone at any age, but you can totally fuck around and miss out on your potential. If you're an 8 at 20 but you don't settle down until you're 30 and maybe you drank a little too much and tanned a little too much and you're now a 5, there's a solid chance you missed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 05:54 PM
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It varies so much. I'm in my early 20's and I know girls I went to high school with that were cute back then that look AWFUL now. I know women in their 30's who look good (although looking good for a 35 year old is totally different than looking good for a 20 year old). All you can do is take the best care of yourself you can. Heavy tanning, dyeing/bleaching hair too much, extremely heavy makeup regularly, heavy drinking, etc can all make you age very quickly. I know people (men and women) who a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 05:52 PM
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they want a girl who's cute, fucks them semi-regularly, and makes dinner As a guy, that honestly sounds incredibly fucking boring. Why the fuck would "makes food" be a serious criteria for a partner? Any guy who honestly thinks that way is stupid in the extreme. I want a mean chick who will fight with me. I like girls who aren't afraid to call me on my shit and won't lose their shit when I call them on theirs. Do most guys really like boring-ass passive girls? No wonder no one enjoys marriage if…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 03:35 PM
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I mean, I haven't yet. I hope for the day that actually happens because I'm a beta boy hopeless romantic at heart. But for now, sex has nothing to do with my "connection" to a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 05:14 PM
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There's a fine line between RP as a self improvement guide, and RP as a get laid by any means necessary guide. Some of the means are horrible and really hurt people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 05:09 PM
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My friends that are hot and sleep around a bit have pretty low opinions of women, mostly as a result of the shit that comes out of their mouths. It's all RP shit lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 05:07 PM
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The real life "alphas" I know do something similar to "spinning plates", to borrow the Red Pill terminology. They usually have a handful of girls they see regularly, and might have a favorite, but generally aren't super committed to any of them. Not that "alpha" doesn't necessarily mean "any good looking guy", because I know some really attractive guys that have lower n-counts than I do and settled down very early.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 04:50 PM
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Yeah, there's a reason so many sports have weight categories. It's extremely difficult to overcome even a small size difference between similarly-skilled people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 06:38 PM
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One of my favorite people on the planet is this little old lady who's married to a piano player I do gigs with sometimes. She's in her 90's and living in London during the Blitz. I've never met a tougher woman in my entire life. She puts every "strong, tough man" to shame. People who live through something like that are a different breed. Everytime I see some dumb "alpha male" who's really a coddled boomer with a PhD, I think about her and how dumb they are. Whenever I see a "strong, independent…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 06:33 PM
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I think you're avoiding the point a little bit. It's not specifically about band dudes, it's about interesting people. You're hung up on the specific example and missing the point. Unless you're trying to say everyone who has a hobby is bad because there are girls and drugs and you don't want them out late, which is fine I guess, but I don't know many guys into women that think that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:57 PM
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100% If you think you need someone to bounce off of or lead the conversation to be interesting, you're entitled, and that's a turnoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:54 PM
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Yeah, just being interesting adds like 3 points to the hotness score in my opinion. I'll take an average looking girl with cool hobbies that's good at conversation over a hottie who can't carry a conversation and whose hobbies consist of eating and texting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:53 PM
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Most of the hottest guys I know in my personal life met a girl they liked and settled down early. My best friend is very tall and attractive, he's been with the same girl since we were in high school (in grad school now) and they're engaged. I had an EXTREMELY good looking friend in college that had dated one girl in high school into college, they broke up, he had one hook up, decided he didn't like hooking up, met a girl and now they're married. Dude could have gotten almost limitless pussy. Ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:48 PM
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That's a personal issue though. On average, guy with job vs guy with job + interesting hobby (like a band), the guy with the cool hobby wins, right? Even if it's not a band.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:45 PM
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As a 23 year old fat guy who is slowly working on bettering himself in a number of ways, is the "30 year old dudes can date 22 year old girls" thing true? Obviously assuming you have your shit together, I mean. I hear that all the time, but I don't really see much of it in my personal life. I think around 30 would be a good time to settle down for me, but I want to have a healthy family, and obviously that starts getting harder for women as they get older, and more of the "best" women are taken …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:35 PM
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You shouldn't assume of course, but I think it could make sense to use that to vet guys (and I'm a dude). If a guy is fucking other girls, hes probably not THAT into you, you know? Why waste your time unless hes attracted to you enough to not fuck around on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 03:27 PM
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Expecting guys to stick around just because you put out is bad policy anyway. I hooked up with a girl in high school a few times. We only ever fooled around/had sex. Never went on a date. Never met each others friends. 100% a casual relationship. She was devastated when we stopped seeing each other. Couldn't understand that maybe just fucking a guy isnt enough to keep him interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 03:22 PM
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Yeah, I personally find it extremely difficult to maintain interest in a relationship after awhile. Shit just gets fucking boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 11:37 AM
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Yup. It's also important to realize that promiscuous people tend to group up socially, so if you meet one girl with a huge n count, her friends probably all have huge n counts. If you meet a girl saving it for marriage, it's likely her friends are doing the same. If you meet a fuckboy who gets around, his friends are probably the same way. Sometimes you have to stop associating with a group of people if you want something different from your love life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 11:21 AM
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It shouldn't make you feel like shit because it's pretty much bukkshit. Typical adults do whatever the fuck they want. I'm a normal, red blooded Male, but all my experiences with hookups and girls I dated that put out really fast were pretty much disasters, and relationships where we waited awhile tend to go better (for me, ymmv), so I usually wait for awhile specifically because it weeds out some of the crazies. You can weed out another batch of crazies by also avoiding the "saving it for marri…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 11:18 AM
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Its really simple, if you only date guys who wont commit, you're looking in the wrong places. The vast majority of women I know that genuinely wanted to settle down were able to by the age of 30. If they couldn't, it's because they were seriously hung up on shitty guys, not because the Male gender is inherently flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 11:10 AM
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My favorite thing about this comment is how it applies to everyone. Wanna fuck around and then settle down? Cool. Dont wanna date girls who fucked around then settled down? Cool. You're the one who has to live with the life you build, so decide what your preferences and standards are and stick to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 11:07 AM
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The number of women with 10+ n counts is relatively small, less than 20%. The number of women with 0-1 is around 25%. If all the women you see/date have massive n counts, you're probably running in the wrong social circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 11:05 AM
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I agree. The way I see it, 18 is the age of consent for a reason. If you genuinely think an 18 year old isn't mature enough to decide who they date, then maybe you should think about raising the age of consent. Since that's stupid and isn't going to happen, maybe we should relax when the occasional large age gap shows up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 01:37 AM
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I feel like most of the people I know who have long engagements like that end up breaking up. The people I know that go from engaged to married within a year or two seem to stick it out longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 04:36 PM
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If you had sex once a month, but a new person each month, you will have a high N count in a few years but not a lot of sex. This is how you occasionally run into an extremely slutty man/woman who happens to be completely awful in bed. I wondered how that happened for a long time before I realized sometimes 30 partners means only 30 sexual encounters.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 04:07 PM
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I'm 5'9 and dudes my height claim 6' and get away with it I try and be honest but you can probably bullshit 3", especially if you wear boots.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/12/19 10:23 PM
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I'm also a big time grower. When it's really hot sometimes I'll have a decent bulge but most of the time it looks small.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 12:58 AM
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I think "big" to someone very petite like that will be different than a guys idea of what "big" is. And you cant trust the numbers anyone gives out because if /r/bigdickproblems has taught me anything, it's that literally no one knows what an average dick looks like anymore. Most of the dudes in there are like "yeah I'm 8 inches but never knew I was big until my 30s" or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 12:56 AM
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