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| 2 | Where did I go wrong? What can I do so this doesn't happen in the future?There is little you can do, so don't take this as a reason to stop doing what you are doing. Just keep going. This is about the most brutal way you can learn outcome independence. She changed her mind. She honestly sounds bat shit crazy to me. Use this as an opportunity to learn how to not give a fuck about things that are completely out of your control. | /r/seduction | 21/06/16 11:38 PM |
| 3 | Stop Being A "Nice Guy", Damn It."Please hold my drink" and "please hold my drink while I go flirt with that hot guy" are two completely different requests and therefore require completely different courses of action. | /r/seduction | 21/06/16 11:23 PM |
| 1 | What are the best places/methods to approach 18-27 girls for a 50+ years old guy ?The older you get, the more you need to focus on common interests because you no longer have basics like, age, looks. and social life to relate to by default. Questions to ask yourself: 1) What am I after? Girlfriend? Quick lay? Fuck buddy? 2) What am I genuinely into that young women would be genuinely into? If you can't answer those questions then you aren't ready anyway. If you can answer those questions, then start narrowing it down to common interests where people could potentially meet: I … | /r/seduction | 29/01/16 10:47 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Went to a club lone-wolf styleHe is in a wheelchair. You are laughing at a bro in a wheelchair, bro. | /r/seduction | 23/12/15 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Girl continues to show interest but keeps flaking. How many flakes before you call it quits?This is a perfect situation to tell her that you don't work well with flakes and that it probably isn't going to work out. Say it's been fun and be nice, but be serious. She'll either apologize or get pissed. Both are good. She keeps rescheduling (which is a good thing) but there is certainly a point where self-respect trumps all. If you put the shit on the line then you show self-respect while also polarizing her. Make her choose, in or out, so you can quite wasting time. I've ended up with a f… | /r/seduction | 22/12/15 03:48 AM |
| 0 | Got a 2nd date locked up. But its not for another 3 weeks. How do I keep in touch during this time?Simple texts during the actual holidays (in the evening when she's bored and stuck with family) is a good way to spark quick convo and make YOU the fun alternative to holiday monotony. But keep in mind on some nights she'll be out with friends she hasn't seen all year, which is what you should be doing too. Don't come across as needy. Come across as thoughtful and reserve your texts for the right time. But if you're going for a girlfriend then don't worry about it much. If she's into you then it… | /r/seduction | 22/12/15 03:31 AM |
| 2 | How to be all of these things without being an assholeLike a pendulum what is first back and forth soon meets in the middle | /r/seduction | 22/12/15 01:48 AM |
| 1 | "Different kind" of girls. Do you game different girls differently, or basically all girls are the same?Would you like it if a girl said your pants made her wet? | /r/seduction | 22/12/15 01:37 AM |
| 0 | I thought I was the only one who felt this kind of anxiety around women, then I saw this film...Yeah this video is sweet but I can't believe a PUA had anything to do with it. Total horse shit. | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 03:37 PM |
| 1 | I thought I was the only one who felt this kind of anxiety around women, then I saw this film...Wait...a girl sitting alone NOT staring at a cell phone? Never happen. | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 03:36 PM |
| 4 | Would you date yourself if you were a girl?Beards are not gaining popularity. They are on the brink of unfashionable actually. Like everything in fashion, plan for their demise. | /r/seduction | 04/12/15 05:32 PM |
| 1 | There's a lot of people against texting here, but when would you say it's okay to have a text conversation and not just logistical?She's into you and it doesn't matter what you do as long as you follow basic guidelines like "don't be an asshole" and "don't text her constantly and bang her mom". | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 10:47 PM |
| 1 | How do you show interest to a girl on Facebook and want to meet them without seeming to desperate?Don't game on facebook. | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Abrupt termination of texting?Chicks in general are constantly flooded with texts all day, not to mention being hit on in person and online. It's just different for them. Bottom line is that there could be a thousand reasons why they stop texting and they are all completely out of your control. I once had a chick do this and respond to my question 8 months later. I had completely forgotten about her by then, obviously. Be outcome independent and forget about it rather than trying to improve your game. | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 08:05 PM |
| 7 | What has been YOUR most memorable experience cold approaching?The time I took a quick shot at day game against a mega hotty and literally couldn't talk correctly because I was so physically nervous. I just studdered out some nonsense line and we both started laughing out of disbelief. I basically went fourth wall on her and actively ended the scene, then went home and died a little. Hilarious! 10/10 would do again | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 07:58 PM |
| 1 | The question of ´does she like me?´You're taking it too literally. This is not the same as "no means yes" or some other BS. It's about initiation. Different concepts apply post initiation. | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 07:45 PM |
| 2 | The question of ´does she like me?´This concept is about laying the foundation for your actions, not about lying to yourself for confidence or anything like that. I think you are confusing it with "fake it 'til you make it" mentality, which is about setting a stage for artificial confidence with the goal of eventually achieving legitimate confidence. | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 07:42 PM |
| 1 | For Those in a BindReally needed this. Glad I logged into seddit today. Thank you | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 07:37 PM |
| 1 | How to gently suggest you're not looking for a steady relationship?Stop being a bitch and just tell them what you want. "I'm down to go out but I'm not looking for anything serious right now." How hard is that? | /r/seduction | 25/11/15 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Asking a girl out IRL / over text?If you have the option, in person is always the way to go. If nothing else pick up the phone and call her. There are probably better reasons why, but for me it's easier to tell if she's going to flake or not in person. Body language, etc. I will know if she truly wants to go out versus just "being nice". Hearing their voice on the phone accomplishes the next best thing. I also just think it comes across as more spontaneous and ballsy, which is good. Play it like you just met her and just said "f… | /r/seduction | 25/11/15 08:58 PM |
| 3 | Losing faith in women, or, the trouble with successEven as I'm approaching, I already know they're going to be awful, boring people If there is a way to "win" seduction, I think you did it. You are officially above the rim on this one. Now go focus on the women you truly want. You can't be stopped. | /r/seduction | 25/11/15 08:46 PM |
| 6 | Should guys always be starting the conversationsNo, but it's still a huge sign to move on from my experience. I can think of three circumstances in which she wouldn't be sparking conversation (asking you questions) and only one of them is justifiable: She is self-centered. Most attractive chicks unfortunately are. She might be interested in you, but not enough to put in any effort to get to know you. Good luck with that. She just isn't interested in you on any level. No big deal. She's an introvert and is comfortable with not talking. Rare, b… | /r/seduction | 12/10/15 09:15 PM |
| -1 | What if my ideal date is cuddling and movie watching?You want a cuddle date, but without romance involved. THAT'S NOT A DATE! What you want is a cat, not a man. Why are you going on dates with dudes you aren't attracted to? Hrrr drrr WTF | /r/seduction | 12/10/15 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Is it even possible to rival the social life, social opportunities, and opportunities with the opposite sex that a college stud gets when you're an adult male?Absolutely. You just have to like doing (and be capable of doing) the same things chicks like to do, like outdoor sports, boating, dancing, art openings, wine tours, festivals, and shit like that. The tricky part is that women get all their shit paid for at events like that, so we get the additional financial challenge of actually having to pay our own way. My remedy is to make things like that my job as often as possible, so I basically meet chicks at work. | /r/seduction | 12/10/15 08:35 PM |
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