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GigaaChad/r/askTRP16/03/21 04:15 PM
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You should’ve titled this post “oh nose what have I done”....I’ll see myself out But in all seriousness how long ago did you send that text? If she’s as busy as you say then maybe she just hasn’t seen it yet? Sure you could just double text and straight up ask her out but it would probably come across as pretty weak and not get you the outcome you’re looking for You need to get some more girls in the rotation man. You’re focusing way too much on trivial shit from this one girl. Find some other o…
/r/askTRP21/05/21 07:01 PM
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How old are these moms you’re matching with? Not a slight against you but the older they get (late 20s and above), the more they will take whatever they can get. Even if you come across as a dude that’s not a provider you still likely will be able to provide more than she currently is on her own
/r/askTRP19/05/21 08:25 PM
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Yea I’ve never personally dealt with something like this so I may not be the best person to help. Hopefully someone else that’s overcome this before can give you some more concrete advice. I just think you have to somehow separate this idea that you two are in a committed relationship, especially since she’s going in September. Treat it more like a fling. If your brain bonds you too much to this girl, then you’ll definitely be a mess when she leaves
/r/askTRP27/04/21 12:20 AM
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Why do you think you have this mental block? I get it. Wanting to date a single person and have more meaningful sex is fine but you and her aren’t exclusive. In fact she’s expressly given you permission to date other girls. You don’t have to cover anything up or be discrete. She literally knows and is fine with it. Spinning plates is helpful for vetting girls to eventually become that single girl that you want to date, if that’s your thing. It’ll help you see differences (both pros and cons) bet…
/r/askTRP27/04/21 12:03 AM
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From the sounds of it you already kind of understand what you need to do but ultimately for me, I would boil it down to the level of indifference that you show to them. You want to be a challenge/game for them to eventually win and that’s how they compete and start to worship you Back in my blue pill days when I was younger I was living with my LTR in a condo that her parents bought for her (terrible idea). When we broke up I was still in school and didn’t have much money so I moved back to my p…
/r/askTRP25/04/21 05:03 PM
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No worries. Yea I thought about that. Only issue is that the law is so different depending not only where you are in the world but even where you live within a particular country. So it would be difficult to generalize things enough for the amount of diversity in the sub. Like even just in the US alone. There are still 11 states that allow common law marriage (the state considering you technically married to a girl simply if you live together for a period of time). You could get a cohabitation a…
/r/askTRP24/04/21 08:27 PM
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Ultimately it’s going to depend where you live but the main problem that most guys find is that if they only get a “prenup” signed then the other side can argue down the road that it should be invalid because it was only signed by them under duress (ie a situation where you tell her that you’ll only get married if she signs it). This is how the vast majority of them are signed and ergo why a vast majority of them fail. To cancel this issue of undue influence or duress, you need to get an additio…
/r/askTRP24/04/21 07:41 PM
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I’d highly recommend hitting up bookstores. Big ones with a Starbucks or some coffee place attached to it. Every time I go there’s always a rocket or two sitting alone reading by a fireplace in one of the chairs. You see what they are reading, google it and get a synopsis, and then ask them about it/use that you already read it as your opener. It’s stupidly easy
/r/askTRP23/04/21 09:29 PM
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Unreal man. Coming from a lawyer make sure you get her to sign a prenup before you get married and then get a postnup signed a little while after you marry to solidify it. We all know the inherent risk you are signing up for by getting hitched but if you’re going to work your ass off to become a doctor you should at least ensure that she can’t automatically take half by no fault divorcing you. Any money the court would force you to pay under a prenup would go towards taking care of your kids, wh…
/r/askTRP23/04/21 09:16 PM
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Where are you finding these girls? If you’re only using apps or you’re frequenting the same spots and getting the same results (girls either taken or shooting you down) then switch it up
/r/askTRP23/04/21 09:01 PM
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I wouldn’t overthink it man. If you just smashed yesterday and she enjoyed it, she’ll text you. Texting her while she’s out trying to escape with her friends is clingy. You don’t want to come across as clingy. Just chill for the weekend and hit up some of your other plates to get your mind off of her. When she texts you this weekend, on Monday, or whenever she’s back then you ask her how it went.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 09:42 PM
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I get what you’re saying and passing shit tests is key, but look at it this way. You claim you two are exclusive. She meets up with you and tells you that A) a guy hit on her today while she was grocery shopping, or B) a guy hit on her today on a dating app/site she is still using. Both of these might be shit tests, but objectively which one sounds worse in your situation regardless of how you spin it?
/r/askTRP20/04/21 12:20 AM
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A predicament for sure man but not necessarily a bad one. If anything you should be happy she showed you her true colors this early on. It should signal to you that she isn’t someone worth focusing your attention on. There’s other girls out there that’ll have genuine desire for you and wouldn’t dare disrespect you by doing what this one is doing out of fear of losing you
/r/askTRP19/04/21 10:07 PM
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You’re in a catch 22 man. On one hand you’ll come across as Beta if you tell her to delete it. She’ll see that her talking to other dudes causes you to feel threatened and insecure. On the other hand, by just letting this continue without doing anything you also come across as Beta as she is not only still actively looking/presenting herself to other dudes but she’s also telling you about it. Despite what you believe, you are clearly not exclusive. If I were you I would start seeing other girls …
/r/askTRP19/04/21 09:46 PM
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Abundance mindset man. Sounds like you really need it right now. So what if you over shared with the gym girl’s friend and now there’s no way you can get with her? This girl that you barely interacted with is not the be all end all of life. Move on, and find the next one. Believe me, I remember what it’s like to be in my early 20’s and seeing an absolute smoke of a girl and imagining what it would be like to get with her. The feeling was even more intensified if I talked with her and got her num…
/r/askTRP18/04/21 11:13 PM
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Has she given you the talk yet? Just continue as normal until then but then when she does bring it up just be upfront and tell her that you enjoy spending time with her but don’t want to be exclusive yet. She’s either fine with it or you let her go in order to maintain the lifestyle you want You’ve done it before so you know if you’re a high enough value guy you’ll be surprised with what they’ll let you get away with
/r/askTRP08/04/21 11:32 PM
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It sounds like you’re well on your way. What do you think you’re lacking SMV wise to get you to where you want to be? BDE is essential for top tier women but it’s definitely something that you can cultivate over time based on the other aspects of your life and game. To put it in perspective, I’m not a tall guy by any means (5’9) but I’m decent looking, lift, dress nicely, have interesting stories and can hold a convo with anyone. If I listened to my friends or even women for that matter that sai…
/r/askTRP03/04/21 08:18 PM
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Like the other guy has already said you need to have your pics on point and a lot of the time it won’t even make a difference because they are just on there for the validation. If they are looking, you need to be aggressive in your intentions and never comment on her looks (she gets that in her DMs all day long). If you can treat her as if she were a 6 and internalize in yourself that you’re high SMV enough for her to respond to you she’ll pick up on that energy and act favorably to you Again th…
/r/askTRP03/04/21 07:43 PM
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Shitty situation for sure man. You’d think performing poorly while being super drunk and her knowing about it would be forgiven. And typically by rational thinkers it would, but women don’t think like that. She is entirely driven by her emotions and it sounds like she considered that a dealbreaker. Lucky for you, if you’ve pulled a 9 in the past, there is no reason to believe you can’t do it again. Abundance is key in these situations, it prevents you from overthinking this shit, like you’re doi…
/r/askTRP03/04/21 04:44 AM
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It sounds like a testosterone problem but if you don’t think so, are you JOing too much? Are you watching crazy messed up porn that is distorting your perception of women and what sex should be like to you? Are these chicks that you are banging and getting bored and losing your erection midway through gross? All could contribute to this
/r/askTRP29/03/21 04:48 PM
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Your title says “my LTR” but in the post you say you’ve never been in a serious LTR. So what’s the full situation between you and her? Have you committed to exclusivity with her? Is she a plate you’ve just been seeing/vetting for a long time, have others on the go and you want to eventually be in an LTR with her? Your answers to these might give you and the rest of us more clarity but if this a “serious” thing and your gut is telling you that she is doing things behind your back then you need to…
/r/askTRP28/03/21 08:57 PM
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So to get this straight, your plan is to sleep with a different girl every day for a month, while taking STEM courses at a competitive university, while maintaining this excellent physique of yours, while all relying on zero experience for a 6 year period beforehand? Is this is truly legit, do you really not see any issues with this plan?
/r/askTRP26/03/21 08:53 PM
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Yea she definitely laid eggs in that time, he’s fucked
/r/askTRP26/03/21 08:12 PM
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So here’s your problem going forward with this now. All of these other guys who “took advantage of her” and got in her pants were upfront about it and honest. They made it clear to her what they wanted and rightfully or not she allowed them to take it. You on the other hand were not honest about it. You hid those urges and desires and covered them up with this nice guy “I’m not like the other guys” routine. You’ve become a cuddly teddy bear in her mind and if this teddy bear suddenly tries to ge…
/r/askTRP23/03/21 06:51 PM
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It may have changed throughout the years but I’m pretty sure it still uses the Gale Shapely algorithm. This is same one that ranks tennis players. By beating higher ranked players you get ranked higher than beating lower players and by losing to lower ranked players your ranking drops more than losing to better players. Applying this to apps, high value profiles liking you will definitely raise your stock up (beating better players) but you’ll also drop by liking lower valued profiles (losing to…
/r/askTRP20/03/21 04:23 PM
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Hey man. I can’t talk for the specific situation in the UK in terms of quality and ease not being the same as it was before, but for the apps in general you essentially fucked yourself by swiping right on whales and uggos. The algorithm determined that they are the kind of girls that you are interested in and lowered your standards for you. I know you did it in a state of rage or desperation or something but by going on that crazy right swipe sesh you lowered your SMV in the eyes of the app and …
/r/askTRP20/03/21 03:47 PM
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I don’t understand why you needed to ask her? What would the benefit of that be? Are you worried that she has a bf that could beat you up? She gave you indications that she was interested in you and you ruined her fun little game by shining a spotlight on the fact that she has a relationship
/r/askTRP19/03/21 09:17 PM
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She is single and almost 50. The “I need to be in a relationship/settle down and find a good man” alarm bells in her head are ringing nonstop. She is pulling out all of the tricks to try to rope you in. If you know you’re not interested in that then she will soon too. Enjoy the ride while it lasts but start lining up the next one
/r/askTRP17/03/21 03:56 PM
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Try switching up your routines as well. If you add or change up a few exercises it may help you feel refreshed and trick your muscles a bit to getting more gains
/r/askTRP16/03/21 05:03 PM
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