GigiSanfilippo Archive

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3	How are any of you Christian ladies holding onto your faith? So, I've been a Christian since as long as I can remember. I was raised in a typical Southern Baptist Church. My parents also moved us to a different state every year or two for the first 15 years of my life. The silver lining with moving so much is that we were exposed to many churches, many denominations and many different church leaders. Suffice it to say, I've heard many people teach different views on what Christianity is. I've come to the conclusion throughout it all that the Bible shows f…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/02/21 05:51 PM
36	Love is not synonymous w/ never being abandoned or complicit w/ dismissing the needs of those you care about for "cOmPrOmIsE." Words not aligning with actions is manipulation. Failing to hold yourself accountable for engaging in poor behavior and/or actions that impact another person is GASLIGHTING. A LVM's "I'm not perfect" translates to "I want to treat you poorly but not be held accountable for it". Ugh. Disgusting.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/02/21 08:02 PM
6	The misogyny of the Cooling off policy re: Divorce Thank you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/02/21 01:11 AM
8	The misogyny of the Cooling off policy re: Divorce Thank you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/02/21 01:11 AM
47	The misogyny of the Cooling off policy re: Divorce Dealing with this now. Thankfully, the cool off period ends tomorrow and I will be legally free!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/21 06:00 PM
1	Divorce papers came in the mail yesterday! Yay!! Congratulations!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/21 04:11 AM
7	Why therapy is SO important after a break-up Ladies, if you are struggling to afford therapy, here are some resources I've found: if you have health insurance, call the customer service phone number (usually on the back of your insurance card) and ask if they have coaching programs or stress management programs available. Sometimes, your health insurer will have coaching programs available to you, free of charge. This is an often overlooked/underutilized benefit. Also, find out if your employer has an employee assistance program (EAP). You…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/21 04:08 AM
43	I’m sick of being “trapped” into conversations with men Nice for what though? Why allow yourself to be uncomfortable just so the other person doesn't feel that way? As you walk through your journey of life, you're teaching others how to treat you and where your boundaries lie. If they are uncomfortable because you don't respond a certain way, it's their job to fix that for themselves. You were not placed on this earth to be a comfort zone for other adults. Take care of yourself including your own comfort level first. It's ok if others are mad, they'r…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/02/21 12:21 AM
6	FDS 101: Money = Freedom = Power The most valuable money I ever spent was for my education. I graduated about 10 years ago with an associate's degree. Since then, I have regularly contributed to a 401k, maxed out my roth contributions and am about to purchase a second home. The first home has been rented for about the last year and I've lived in an apartment during that time and saved for a down payment for a second home. Short term goals are to live in my second home for now, until I'm ready to go somewhere else. I'll continue…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/02/21 12:01 AM