Gilaridon Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Every woman should have high standards. Thats never a bad thing. Women having high standards isn't the issue. The issue is women will have high standards then expect men to accept them as they are and will act like a man having standards is an issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 03:19 AM
7	Despite what women tell you they are the biggest enforcers of stereotypical masculinity I've noticed over the years that when it comes to challenging masculine norms my biggest obstacles were women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/25 08:03 PM
10	Mainstream feminism is a hate movement - if you identify as a feminist and don't hate men, you are the fringe. I challenge you: Find me a single notable feminist who condemns feminist man-hating I feel what you're going for but this isn't going to go well. And its not going to go well because despite the specific examples you point out you're going to get a whole bunch of "Not all feminists are like that". Yes I know the irony here. You're going to get people who would agree with "not all men" being similar to a box of shit turning around and using the same "not all..." defense to defend feminists. Frankly I think you have a valid question because feminists constantly ask for men to con…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 04:17 PM
2	Men of reddit would you have a problem if your girlfriend was a Cuckquean? Deal Breaker. I don't like the idea of getting off on humiliation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/24 09:38 PM
1	CMV: The friend zone goal post keeps moving That's what friend zone has always meant. A person (usually a woman) that nefariously keeps the relationship a certain way for their own benefit with little to no care of how it affects the other person (usually a guy). Thus is why guys in the friendzone talk about wonen who will hype them as being the perfect partner knowing full well that guy has tried to be that partner for her to turn his down. Yet at the same time she keeps expecting to be treated like a girlfriend in nearly every way excep…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 08:26 PM
7	The most recent season of “The Bachelorette” is a perfect example of why “women should just pick better men” is terrible advice I've dealt with too many people who use the "Well I've never seen/heard...." as a way to dismiss.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 08:13 PM
10	The most recent season of “The Bachelorette” is a perfect example of why “women should just pick better men” is terrible advice I've also never seen a man cat call a woman so I guess that proves wonen don't experience it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 08:05 PM
14	The most recent season of “The Bachelorette” is a perfect example of why “women should just pick better men” is terrible advice " Why does this situation end up being the woman’s fault??" For the same reason when a man chooses a woman that tears him apart and does him dirty just to be told if he was dumb enough to pick her it's his own fault.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 07:57 PM
–	If you could make the opposite gender accept one thing as FACT, what would it be? Yes which I find it so ironically that feminkstsbare so quick to say that they or women are not s monolith when casting men as a monolith is almost a pillar of feminism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 05:51 PM
–	If you could make the opposite gender accept one thing as FACT, what would it be? Or women for that matter. We've seen time and again that they will defend a rich privileged white woman than they will defend any man of any walk of life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 12:14 PM
2	If you could make the opposite gender accept one thing as FACT, what would it be? For a lot of today's men it didn't just reinforce that stereotype, it started the stereotype. There's a lot of guys out here who don't care when women speak up about their grievances precisely because they have been berated by women who try to silence men speaking up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 02:25 AM
11	If you could make the opposite gender accept one thing as FACT, what would it be? That crying, "Who made the system?" when hearing men speak up about men's issues and experiences doesn't actually do anything relevant or productive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 10:05 PM
–	Dating is hardest for straight men Me personally I think trying to figure out who has it the hardest is pointless because ultimately it's a worthless metric. Other than using it to downplay or dismiss someone else's experiences what good does it do to argue over who has it worse? Even here in these comments people are simply going, "Nuh uh (insert other group) has it harder!!!'. Not to mention the ones that invoke patriarchy in order to mitigate away what men experience (quite literally trying to punish the son for the sins of th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 07:27 PM
1	Women grossly exaggerate the prevalence of drink spiking Total side note on that analogy. My only issue with that analogy isn't with the analogy itself but with how so many people selectively use it. When women replace "M&M" with men its defended and considered justified. But when "M&M" is replaced with just about any other walk of life its considered a bad thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 05:57 PM
7	Do you think the world would be better for women with no men in it? It comes down to this. A lot of women: "Men are useless trash." Same lot of women when something bad happens to them: "Why don't men fix/prevent (bad thing).!" We're apprently useless until we can be held responsible for or blamed for something. (And I'll go ahead and say the quiet part out loud. Yes I know "not all women or feminists are loke that. That's why I said "lot of women". But if that was your reaction to reading that keepnthat same energy next time you wanna get mad at the use of "not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/24 12:23 AM
–	The notion of a "female intuition" that can "sniff out desperation or misogyny" is completely idiotic and delusional. I got a question. Why does it seem that women's intuition only kicks in in situations where the woman in question isn't responsible/accountable for any bad behavior? For example her intuition can somehow pick on her man cheating but can't pick up on her man finding out that she is cheating. Her intuition picks up that he is lying to her about something but it doesn't kick in to let her know she is wrong to lie to him about something. Simply put the more responsibility/accountability a woman has …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 04:46 PM
1	I think many men, it seems won’t object to being objectified and relegated to fuckzone/booty calls by women. But they would take offense at being the placeholder bf/spouse… how would you feel if a woman tells you she finds you attractive for a fling, but not HV enough for a relationship/marriage? Not gonna lie I'm kinds thinking, as a guy, bring fuck zone material is a stepping stone to becoming husband material. Not a necessary stepping stone for all men but a useful one that gives guys room to learn and grow	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 04:42 PM
1	It is great to be born a man. For you sure the pros outweigh the cons but that's gonna vary from man to man. Me personally being born male has been a trial and tribulation. If asked if I'd rather be born a woman, I don't know because there is no across the board objective answer as to which is "easier" or "better".	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 04:39 PM
6	Most of what Andrew Tate says is spilled between the lines by women on this sub I'm firmly convinced a part of the hate people have for Tate is precisely for what you point out. Tate talked about legit things that need to he addressed. And before you reply to this no I'm not defending the likes of Tate and no saying the fact that he had some valid points justified the horrible parts of how he thinks. I am saying people used those horrible parts as a cover/excuse to shut down the legit things he was saying. It's like when a politician starts making moves against the establis…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/24 03:43 PM
1	People tend to misunderstand female body positivity on this sub. I mean we could go back and forth on thus but thankfully i don't need yoir acknowledgment to confirm what I've experienced. Have a good one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 02:24 PM
3	People tend to misunderstand female body positivity on this sub. It's really not false. I'm sure for image and PR reason you want to believe it's false but it's not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 11:59 AM
2	People tend to misunderstand female body positivity on this sub. So quick to tell pther people what they experienced. Yes there was excluding going on. If you have to deny the experiences of others to keep the focus on yourself then don't act surprised when the people you turn away tell their stories later.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 11:59 AM
6	People tend to misunderstand female body positivity on this sub. Men use “loose” vagina jokes anytime a woman exists. Meaning its not that one side is reacting and the other side is using it out of nowhere. It is for everyone, but you have to do your part and not expect women to do the work for you. Who said anything about expecting women to do it for me? I know I didn't it but it doesn't surprise me you'd say this because its almost a knee jerk defense. If a movement says all are welcome regardless of gender but then starts excluding people by gender that ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 06:37 AM
8	People tend to misunderstand female body positivity on this sub. No its not false.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 05:58 AM
9	People tend to misunderstand female body positivity on this sub. Or when that artist made that nude statue of Trump and intentionally made the penis small. I don't recall any body positivity activists being critical of it. In fact I saw body positivity activists going out of the way to justify and defend it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 05:56 AM
11	People tend to misunderstand female body positivity on this sub. Let's not do this. Women use small penis jokes when a guy says something that's not even remotely related to body shaming. So if men want to take advantage of that movement, they have to start pushing back against the body shaming of men just as aggressively as the women in the body positivity movement do. The issue is women claim that body positivity is for everyone. However I have the lived experience that says its not. They can do their thing but I pretty much go burned out trying to work wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 05:55 AM
–	If you could pick your child’s gender, given what you know of the world, which would you go for? Okay bitter woman. Do you feel better now that you gotten your little snappy insult in?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/24 05:33 PM
3	If you could pick your child’s gender, given what you know of the world, which would you go for? I'd pick boy but almost entirely because that's the path that I lived and know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/24 01:13 PM
3	Question For Men, Which Of These Women Would You Rather Get Into A Relationship With? Mary's religion is a turn off. Susan's 25% bad attitude is a turn off. Jessica not being able to meet only once a month is a turn off. May is the winner	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/24 02:51 AM
2	Men say they are criticized for having high standards but it seems they are criticized for having low standards as well? Oh it happens whether we have high or low standards. If they are high we're discriminatory towards the women who don't meet them. Or were gay because some women are so full of themselves they conclude the ONLY reason a guy doesn't want them is because he isn't into women at all If they are low then we'll "fuck anything". Some women just want to complain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 02:03 AM
–	Women harp endlessly about entitlement and men feeling “owed” but in reality most people expect to be able get someone similar to them in all areas and framing this as “entitlement” is a deflection from the real issue Especially when women will turn around and have similar attitudes. For some reason women "know their worth" but men are "entitled" for having the exact same or equivalent standards on something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/24 09:54 PM
4	What is your most arbitrary “deal-breaker” when contemplating a serious relationship w/someone? Can he at least counter offer by bringing in another TV so each of you have one?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/24 09:49 PM
6	Men, why won't you commit? My question is why isn't when women choose not to commit it's framed as empowering and freeing but when men choose not to commit its seen as insecure and immature?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 02:42 PM
1	Study finds feminists don't hate men I keep hearing that, and then when I ask what exactly feminists did that contradicts what they said, suddenly these men don't have a clue. Oh off the top of my head. Feminists: "Men need to do their own work and not expect us to do it for them." Also Feminists upon men doing their own work outsode of feminism: "You need to ally yourselves with feminists. We're the only ones that care about and support men." Feminists: "Feminists are the only ones supporting male victims." Also feminists when mal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/24 08:54 PM
–	How Should Women Hold Themselves Accountable? A woman can have 5 past relationships, will swear that all 5 guys were the problem, and people will support her. But if a guy had similar experiences with 5 women people would trip over themselves to say that he is the problem. If a woman were to hold herself accountable she would at least question what kind of guys she pursues. A woman can blatantly put on her dating profile that her guy must be certain height, certain income, etc.....and it's said she is stating her preferences. If a guy just …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/24 05:29 PM
6	Study finds feminists don't hate men For real. This is on par with, "The (city name) police department has investigated the claims of excessive force lobbied against officers of (same city name) police department and found no evidence of such activity."	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/24 07:36 AM
–	Study finds feminists don't hate men Because those results don't match the real experiences men have had with feminists. I bet studies would also show that men don't hate women but would that stop the claim that men hate women? How about asking people why feminists hate men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/24 11:57 PM
1	Why is the role that makeup plays in women’s privilege downplayed so much? Because other characteristics and identities men have are often downplayed when talking about male privilege. And by that u mean no matter other factors about a man's life are affecting his life he is still told he has male privilege. Same with women. She may be using cosmetics but she still benefits from female privilege.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/24 08:06 AM
5	A more comprehensive post on why women handle being alone better than men, and why we need to find solutions to that. Simple. Stop tearing down and attacking men's spaces so we can combat the loneliness. Unfortunately such spaces are often labeled as hateful simply because it's a spaces that caters to men as if that's inherently bad. And overall there needs to be room for men to explore learn and grow without ideologues and "activists" chomping at the bit to attack men for every little thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 11:29 PM
–	Women accept being alone better than men The difference is that the very same systems that support women attack men and try to shame us and tear us apart. That's why the process of being comfortable with oneself has been a harder path for men. Thunk about it like this when a woman says she doesn't need a man people will literally cheer for her yet those same people will call a man a loser for deciding he doesn't need a woman. And the people who do this are seen as right and correct.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 05:31 PM
-1	Why do men get so much hate from women nowadays when lesbians have the highest rates of divorce & domestic violence and their relationships don’t last? Because it's become entirely too easy and acceptable to just blame men for everything. To the point that even when men aren't involved women just use a not so secret code word ("patriarchy"). This is also why I've seen (thankfully rarely) abusive lesbuans described as "acting like men" solely on the grounds that they were abusive and violent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/24 10:27 AM
2	Why do progressives/feminists rarely object to grooming standards for men? People who do that don't want equality they want revenge. Plain and simple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 10:16 PM
1	I noticed something interesting. At least to me. I've noticed many subreddits pertaining to cheating consist of women mostly. Lucky you. I've seen this in plenty of spaces before. He'll someone even downvoted that comment I made above. I guess I hurt someone's feelings.....	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/24 11:55 PM
2	Most of the time when a woman cock blocks her friend at the bar, it is out of jealousy not to “save her” as most women will try to claim Wouldn't be the first time a woman used the "safety of women" to defend/justify straight up heinous behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/24 11:46 PM
3	What does "insecure" even means? A lot of women define insecure as "When men call me out on my double standards". My own wife carried this double standard for a long time where she was free to comment on men and women out in public but would literally give me the silent treatment if I so much as looked at a woman. Even literally once saying, "Its okay for me to comment on her boobs because its different." Me personally I've always been fine with her making those kinds of comments the only thing that bothered me is that she woul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/24 02:30 AM
0	I noticed something interesting. At least to me. I've noticed many subreddits pertaining to cheating consist of women mostly. It absolutely is an excuse. Case in point. Men who develop emotional affairs with the women they cheat with still don't get anywhere near the sympathy that woman who develop emotional affairs with the men they cheat with get. When a man develops an emotional bond with a woman to fill a void in his main relationship he is still largely seen as being in the wrong and there won't be as many people asking the wife, "Well were you fulfilling his emotional needs? Did you make him feel safe and secure …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/24 02:25 AM
-1	Women justify their biases against men all the time, but men are condemned for doing the same These comments are going jist as I thought they would. They are going in the form of, "Women concerns matter, men's concerns dont." All too often people won't just stand women's concerns on their own they outright try to disprove men's concerns, often while demanding that men understand women's concerns. They are literally telling men their concerns don't matter because women have it worse and as such men should only consider women's concerns. It's wild that they don't see the problem of dismiss…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/24 04:38 PM
22	Men are seen as more creepy doing the same actions as women. Let's debate To me that's a real problem. A woman can do stuff like that and somehow people do the absolute most to downplay her behavior. There's been cases of straight up domestic violence where the guy had photos of being beaten to a pulp and people still say "but women really can't hurt men" or "the worst a woman can do is hurt a guy's feelings".	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/24 07:37 AM
–	What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted? Women throw around "if he wanted to he would" more often as a way to avoid their own responsibility/accountability than to point out what a guy is not doing. It's more of a weapon than an observation. Notice how it's never "if she wanted to she would"? Women that tell themselves they know men better than we know ourselves are basically taking their opinions and perspectives on men and passing them off as facts but are conveniently leaving out men's experiences. It's real easy to sir back and thi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 12:47 PM
3	We’re constantly talking about guys jacking off to porn but what about guys jacking off to girls they know? Hell for a lot of men, "Married mom" would be incetive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 11:27 PM
1	Guys and watching porn I see a good number of people saying "I doubt the people who are against porn are the same saying OF is okay." I don't think OP is setting the comparison of "people who are against porn" and "people who are okay with OF". Seems like they are moreso comparing, "people who are against men watching porn" and "people who are okay with women making porn". And to a small extent I think I agree. There's no shortage of woman that are bothered by men liking social media posts of women in bikinis (or dres…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/24 02:17 PM
–	If a man wouldn’t want the women in his life being in porn, then his feelings about porn are pretty anti-porn. This makes more sense than a lot of women are willing to admit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/24 02:07 PM
6	So I went to Ask Feminists… It wasn’t that bad I find it extremely funny that they think LWMA is misogynistic. Consider you're talking about people who may not say the literal words but firmly believe in the old saying, "You're either a feminist or a bigot."	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/02/24 01:14 PM
2	So I went to Ask Feminists… It wasn’t that bad I had to be extremely patient and generous, often unreasonably so, just to have them sincerely consider what I’m saying and my point of view and had to deal with the usual misandry but Ig I’m saying that obviously it’s still insanely flawed but not hopeless? And that's the problem. You have to patient and generous in a way that a lot of them will outright refuse to reciprocate. You literally have have to put with comments and behavior from that they they would call sexism and misogyny if said/do…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/02/24 01:13 PM
7	My explanation of the manosphere popularity Manosphere, MRM, Pick Up Artists, Alt Right, etc...... The reason they have been able to gain as much traction as they have all comes down one simple thing. They offer disillusioned men something that most other sides/factions/spaces don't offer. A place where men can speak their pains and experiences without getting mercilessly attacked. And before you jump in swearing that your space doesn't do that remember that's what YOU think, not an objective examination of how others experience your spac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/24 05:25 AM
4	She isn’t “withholding” sex from you. She simply doesn’t feel like having sex. Absolutely. Women will accuse a man of cheating or even being gay if he doesn't want to have sex with her. Hell the first time I had sex I was nervous and had trouble keeping it up. Me: "Well this is my first time." Her: "I think that's bullshit. I think you might be gay." Yeah she chose to believe I might be gay over being nervous because it was my literal first time having sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/24 05:18 AM
1	Fear of men..or fear of consequences? Yes I have noticed this as well. There are women who will in one breath talk about how much of a threat men are to women and how horrible we are but in the next have 0 problem attacking a man unprovoked. If men are so dangerous why are you attacking one without cause? (And for all that is holy before you try to bring up some hypothetical that starts with a woman being attacked by a man in an effort to alter or ignore the context of what I said go reread this and see the segments "unprovoked." an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/24 04:45 AM
1	Women safe places on reddit are fucking bullshit and only cause a bigger divide between men and women. They sure did. And the funny part is they probably think they "won".	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/24 02:28 PM
1	Women safe places on reddit are fucking bullshit and only cause a bigger divide between men and women. I'm not even sure what your damn point is but with the way you ended it about crying it's clear you just wanna argue. In summation I've already wasted too much time with you and that stops here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/24 01:37 AM
1	Why do women require bottomless trust from men but don’t give an ounce to us? It seems to me that for viral posts like this women keep finding a way to take less and less responsibility for their own actions. Congratulations you just answered yourself. Most of those posts are centered around making women out to be victims that can't be held responsible for anything. There was a recent viral post on Reddit that I’ll link here where a man essentially is complaining that he found his wife’s “go bag” and was deeply hurt by it and considering divorce as a result. He was met …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/24 08:15 PM
1	Women safe places on reddit are fucking bullshit and only cause a bigger divide between men and women. So I've noticed something. There's a lot of people asking, "Well why are you looking in those spaces when they are not for you?" The problem I have is no one seems to ask that when women complain about men's spaces. The difference seems to be people want women to have spaces to shit on men but are dead set against men having spaces to shit on women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/24 08:00 PM
1	Women safe places on reddit are fucking bullshit and only cause a bigger divide between men and women. More specifically when men build equivalent spaces the very people who want female only spaces will claim they are misogynistic because women aren't being included. I've noticed that about only male spaces women approve of are those that either propagate feminism above all else (even to the detriment of men) or those where concern for women is the center of the conversation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/24 07:52 PM
0	Women safe places on reddit are fucking bullshit and only cause a bigger divide between men and women. The difference I see is people rightly point out how horrible and hateful those spaces are while defending horrible female only spaces. And the overall difference in treatment. To my knowledge none of the female spaces mentioned above have been banned or were on the brink of being banned.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/24 07:48 PM
2	Do women mature faster? Are they forced to grow up more quickly? Does this justify a dating age gap? I don't think it does because despite this so many excuses are given for women making bad choices. Take advantage of an under age kid? Not her fault it's that her husband wasn't satisfying her she was abused in the past. Commit a horrible act of violence? It's not that she chose to be violent It's that she was being abused. Does she have unreasonable expectations? No men just fail to meet her standards. Why does she keep getting into bad relationships? It's not that she makes bad choices she jus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/24 11:54 PM
1	What is the actual reason why men get shamed for having preferences? Simply put some women are jealous that they don't match that preference. Now at almost 500 comments I'm sure there's plenty of women saying something to the effect of, "It's not that he has preferences its that he goes on and on about them and won't shut about them". And while that does happen it doesn't happen as often as women think. Especially considering how gleefully women love to go on about what they prefer. I think a huge element is plain and simple jealousy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 06:12 PM
16	Why do people have such a problem with male refugees “well only men thought themselves capable.” "Are you sure all men agree with that or are you just taking the fact that men in power made the decision therefore all men must agree?" “so it’s their fault anyways.” Ask them to explain how random man on the street that got drafted is as fault. More than likely a person who says stuff like that believes that men are a monolith.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/12/23 03:55 AM