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Never played games but I did my best to attention whore whenever a single guy in uni was looking in my general direction. Didn't ask for numbers or bake cakes, just chatted with everyone and waited for guys to be interested in me first.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:32 AM
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I like to be able breastfeed my child in public and not get fined or jailed for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:23 AM
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women who proudly proclaim that they do not and will not cook Notice how they didn't say they "can not cook". "Do not" and "will not" aren't the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:17 AM
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You could ask this same question of women. Why aren't women into other women in a culture where women are worshipped and men are portrayed as the villains? Surely women would choose to date women, who give more orgasms than men, are less likely to murder a spouse than men, are less likely to rape than men, and are more likely to do their share of childcare and domestic duties compared to men. So despite all this, how can women be attracted to men? Because it's not a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 12:17 AM
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The biggest problem for women is spending time on the wrong men. And I've never done that. First I had to improve how I looked. The pedophiles had already stopped approaching me by the time I was 18 and as a plain nerd I wasn't getting much attention from the guys I was open to dating. I started using makeup and learned to do my hair. I had always done some form of sports so I didn't have to lose weight. The second point of improvement was being more social. I did homework with my peers and went…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 09:38 AM
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Put a ring on it quick before he gets away.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:26 PM
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A man who wants to fuck and is confident will also approach you Of course. then pump/dump. No he won't and none ever have. The shy guy who's afraid to make you uncomfortable is not going to approach regardless of how much he likes you. If he is that shy then I'm not interested. The filter is working as intended. I will only date a man who is confident enough to say what he thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 05:03 PM
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And plenty of women will say yes so that she can use him for free food, drinks, and a free emotional pincushion. I don't date women so not my problem. I'm not saying it's always gonna go right, but it'll have a higher success rate finding good men than dolling yourself up and waiting for a man to decide that your personal space is worth less than his chance at a score. You don't date men so your opinion is unfounded and irrelevant. My success rate was fantastic just picking from the guys who app…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:15 PM
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Wrong. Many men would say yes for the chance of getting easy sex even though they couldn't be bothered to ask the same woman out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:07 PM
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Because then I wouldn't know which guys are the ones who like me enough to ask me out and I wouldn't have an easy way to find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:00 AM
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Yeah I agree with that. Kind of tiring to get juvenile responses about how my views don't match what some 19 year old incel expects from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:40 PM
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Is question two about n count? Because I have definitely had more than 3 sexual experiences with the same man, but only with him. 9/15
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:30 PM
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That would cut like 2/3 of the user base lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:24 PM
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Does one partner have the right to tell another partner that they cannot have social media? Can they tell you who you can hang out with and when. A partner can say anything but the other partner can ultimately do what they want or choose to comply. If you don't like what happens, leave. When you have a disagreement they make you sleep on the couch to punish you. Is this part of a healthy relationship or a serious red flag? A person can sleep anywhere they want but they can't force another person…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:22 PM
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"A lot" of men? No way. A minority, sure. Most men would happily take the money because that's all they care about but cleaning, cooking, childcare and loss of free time is where they fail to fulfil the bargain.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:51 PM
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No wonder you are taken then lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:46 PM
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I don't disagree with mainstream dating advice the red pill sphere has adopted and claimed as its own invention. Examples: be healthy, exercise, dress nice and talk to people. I disagree with and dislike most of the core ideas such as alpha/beta, briffaults law, dark triad being attractive, the friend zone and orbiters being something women do to men rather than the opposite, manipulation tactics (dread or power games) being a good foundation for a relationship, using coersion and pestering to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:18 PM
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The people who actually need help are mildly apologetic and don't usually smile ear to ear because they are in some kind of trouble. The ones with bullshit questions tend to look happy and confident like salespeople. It's so easy to tell. I'm not interested in what the latter group has to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:01 AM
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I'm not interested in your opinion on what is attractive in a man and I wasn't talking to you in the first place. I was complimenting another guy who isn't you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:55 PM
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Someone who believes "chores are a man's job" could be unemployed for all I care. They are still higher on the ladder than all these disgusting red pill men and incels who uphold untrue and offensive stereotypes about women and bring nothing of value to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:41 PM
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Steven Crowder was openly misogynistic towards his wife, there is video evidence of it and he got slapped with a divorce because his wife decided she will not tolerate it anymore. It is likely he didn't tell her her to "watch it" on their first date and hid those tendencies in the beginning. Too bad for him that divorce is a one yes situation and he can't trap women like pokemons. Byeeee So it does have an impact, at least in the longevity of men's relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:27 PM
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Oh wow in just one comment chain you became more attractive than all the other guys on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:08 PM
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Stick with facts, not your feelings. The average couple has more sex than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:56 AM
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Facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:13 AM
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Let me get this straight... A guy was sexually harassed and bullied for his dick but instead of booking a doctor and getting it cut he chose to keep himself intact and deal with the harassment in the best way he could. And your take on it is to not allow your son the same autonomy and to make the choice about his body for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:24 PM
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It really is barbaric and I can't fathom how anyone could let someone, especially their partner, decide that their newborn baby's genitals are getting cut with a knife. Over my dead body.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:47 PM
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It's not the only filter. The other guy would get filtered if she's not having sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:52 PM
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Hmm, no counter so I guess we can agree on something. Being at risk for sexual assault, rape and forced pregnancy by the people amongst whom you're supposed to find your long term partner, is far worse than not being complimented and spoken to out of the blue, but I acknowledge that women do get talked at more often. To think that as a whole women's position in dating is more privileged is ludicrous and a product of male solipsism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:28 PM
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It's sweet that you think you could ruin my night. Lol. I've already gotten the special treatment so you can save your effort and try to fool someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:18 PM
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Having requirements to continue seeing someone is not the same as demanding someone to fulfill those requirements. No one is insisting or demanding to be paid for, and it's fine to decline. Equality is women contributing equally in an actual relationship. A first date is not a relationship. A second date is not a relationship. Equality doesn't mean men are owed further dates if a woman doesn't consider him worth pursuing a relationship with. All else is not equal because men and women are not lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:14 PM
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Women definitely don't want to marry someone who would be just as interested in a tree as they would be in her. Talking to men first seems like the absolute worst way to find a guy who likes her specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:02 PM
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It's not a demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:55 PM
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I fully encourage every man to consider (or make) himself more worthy and be more discerning of which women they date, like you said. That desperation is the actual problem and root cause of why they throw money at everything that moves. Men need to solve that for themselves instead of asking women to drop their standards, drop their pants and date exactly when, how and who men dictate they should date.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:51 PM
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I will always pay the bill if I go out with a woman I deem worthy. Exactly. And that's an easy way for a woman to see if the man finds her worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:33 PM
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No one is forced to anything. If men don't want to pay then they can choose not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:25 PM
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There is no problem to solve. If you don't want to pay then don't. If you think surprising someone with a gift (which paying for a date is essentially) is a unfair, imbalanced and a burden, then don't surprise anyone with a gift. Stay away from people who do like that and stop acting like you're entitled to have a relationship on your terms with people who want something different.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:13 PM
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Like the other reply said, some men "have lots of options and getting dates and sex is easy for them". So women can pick right by not having sex right away. The men with lots of options who want to have the time of their lives with multiple women will quickly move onto a different woman because it's easy for them, and the the woman seeking a LTR is still available to go on dates with men who are actually interested in her specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:59 AM
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1) They have entered the age group where most relationship minded people are already in relationships and the leftovers are not in relationships because they don't want to be. 2) The men who don't want relationships will reach out to many more women than the men who focus on their love interest. If those casual seeking men contact more women, that means each woman is also disproportionally contacted by casual seeking men. 3) Those women aren't looking in the right dating market. They either don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:25 PM
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Only once. And I think I had his number too because we were acquainted, but he didn't show any interest so I didn't contact him. That was not a first impression though. I've never wanted anyone's number whom I hadn't spoken to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:09 PM
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So now we're blaming orthodox jews, huh. You said: "I think a woman's only option for preserving their freedom is to be nice to men out of fear of men retaliating against them whenever they get the chance." Are you one of the men who want to retaliate against women who are not nice to you? Are the men you know like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:46 AM
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They get upset when women wear a ring too. Source: I'm a woman with a ring. They lash out when "he's not here is he?" doesn't get them the result they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:38 AM
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And yes, more murders are committed by men, but also, also you’re encountering far more men than bears. I accounted for that. Men murder more per capita than bears do. The context matters with men too. Men passing me on the street and minding their business are usually not a threat (except some odd cases like those men punching women in the head for fun). Men who approach YOU in the woods, while you are alone and not in reach of the law, clearly want something from you and know they have you cor…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:32 AM
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If a man asks you on a date, go on it even if you're not attracted to him. Ouch, my husband would not like this one. What does your wife tell these men to avoid the handmaidens tale? A lot of guys get upset hearing the "I have a boyfriend/fiance/husband" line.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:12 AM
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Taliban don't operate in America. If you want to make a threat just say it with your chest and reference the people you believe will actually harm western women. Are you one of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:08 AM
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Bears aren't as dangerous as you think. I did the math and at least in my country (one of the safest in the world btw), a man is more likely to murder someone compared to a bear. And this is taking into account the number of bears and men. That's only murder too and not counting the men who kidnap, rape and torture women (something bears don't do). I guess the whole point of bear vs man discourse isn't to autistically debate the correct answer, but to question why the hell men are so dangerous t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:16 AM
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Welcome to adulthood, where saying sorry doesn't erase the consequences of your choices. Try again next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:50 PM
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We don't want to reproduce in these conditions. Like we don't want to have kids even if we're married at this point, these men running this shit don't care they'll watch you bleed out either way. This here. I wouldn't have kids with anyone including my husband if the populace decided together that I had no right to live saving reproductive healthcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 10:02 PM
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I don't live in that backward country so I'll keep having sex with my husband knowing I can always get life saving reproductive healthcare (it's affordable too). And it's nice to know my husband and I wouldn't have to raise a rapist's baby for 18 years or have a rape baby pregnancy+postpartum take up a year of my fertile time, risk my health and diminish our chances of having a child of our own which we actually want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:43 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:18 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:13 PM
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Look up the details you asked her to look up and explain it to yourself. Wtf is that kind of question.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:07 AM
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Poor impulse control is the excuse they use, but it doesn't explain why those people don't punch and slap and choke customer service people, their boss or anyone else they get frustrated with. Why don't they get irrationally angry at anyone else? Because they have slowly pushed the boundaries of their spouse and figured they are a safe punching bag and there will be no consequences. The violent ones also aren't violent on the first date; miraculously they have enough "impulse control" when the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:30 AM
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Because you can hemorrhage and die within 30 minutes. Educate yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:19 AM
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And then don't have sex with the monogamous partner once you're done having children?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:14 AM
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Abstinence isn't safe either since it's not always your choice to not have intercourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:12 AM
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hits me (without causing me permanent physical damage) In real life women don't have the privilege to assume that violence from their partner won't result in permanent damage. Even a slap on the cheek can cause injury. Men don't know their own strength. I don't want to have permanent nerve pain because a man decided to yank my neck or brain damage from being pushed into a wall. at least she wouldn't be communicating to me that she really wants someone else more than me Being hit sends a message …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:34 PM
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My suggestion is not to focus on what men want. Women who want commitment can wait until they get it before having sex. If it fails with a guy, he doesn't get sex, she doesn't get commitment. No one is hurt. If the guy commits and the sex ends up not being great, both get what they want at first and then both get hurt. So it's equal. Women won't mind that he has a past relationship and men will think it's less bad she had a boyfriend vs a ONS. If a woman doesn't wait and has sex right away, she …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 05:38 PM
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the women in my area wouldn’t even be interested if I did openly flirt with them and the women in my area are interested in completely different things than me. If this is your reality then you have exactly 4 options. - change your mind about LDRs and make it work - change your interests to match what women are interested in - keep looking for a needle in a haystack - give up and blame women for not changing their mind/interests I would recommend LDRs personally, it was very effective for me. My…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:08 PM
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Hence it's a waste of time to talk to someone who doesn't want a talk and instead wants something they aren't interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:58 AM
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You want a girlfriend, not a talk. Be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:53 AM
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I just explained it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:50 AM
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They don't want to meet you or be your girlfriend. You want to waste their time, that's the harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:49 AM
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You can start by not acting angry when you get rejected like those violent men do 2 seconds before their hands make contact. Don't mimic those men if you don't want to be mistaken for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:46 AM
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What have you done to stop these men? Or are you content to blame and criticise the weaker side who don't pose a threat to you? Bark at someone bigger than you before giving a talk about cowardice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:40 AM
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They assumed correctly that you were going to shoot your shot, and blocked you. You're not just trying to make friends. Why are you mad they were right about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:39 AM
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I work in healthcare and today a spoke to a customer who had been thrown into a wall head first by a man she wanted nothing to do with. She was suffering from speech issues, headaches, possible tia/ministrokes and anxiety. The guy got a fine. Maybe men shouldn't kill and maim women who are brave, if you want there to be more brave women. What have you done to stop these men? Or are you content to blame and criticise the weaker side who don't pose a threat to you? Bark at someone bigger than you …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:22 AM
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Lying about contraception or STDs would be sexual violence or abuse. It should all be illegal. Lying about anything else is not abuse. The trans stuff, well, if you have the lights on and are sober you can easily tell just by looking at it and/or putting a finger in. Choosing not to check who and what you're having sex with is on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 12:27 AM
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Men are allowed to be single and stay single. I don't have an opinion on that because I don't tend to think about what single men do with their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 12:17 AM
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I agree. If women wanted to, they could easily find a relationship. They just don't want to. The ones complaining about situationships and casual sex purposefully seek out those things and accept being treated like that, when they could just put a stop to it and focus on the worthy options.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:19 AM
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Are you referring to splitting the bill? I'm also European and I know most people pay their own order, but I like romantic gestures from men and that's one of the main factors that make me develop feelings for a guy. Otherwise they just feel like friends. It doesn't have to be food, but if he's picking a restaurant for a first date location, I mean... that's what he's choosing to impress me with. The lukewarm guys who were hesitant about me didn't seem worth the hassle. I matched their energy by…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:28 AM
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I'm not, and not really interested in the outcome she had. Women get together with all kinds of men (sometimes to their own detriment) and it doesn't affect what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 12:57 AM
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while he owns his own business, he lives with his parents Nope to that. He's in his mid 30s and it was time to grow up a decade ago. they split the bill, the restaurant was a mid tier American BBQ restaurant Restaurant choice is fine but he is showing me a future where I don't get romantic gifts from him. No flowers, no meal, nothing? Men give their best effort when they are still trying to win you over. If this is his best then no thanks. sex on the first date was bad, only he orgasmed There wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 08:14 PM
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All the people I've met who run their own company are workaholics and do insane hours. Having business associates but no friends is so unappealing I don't have space for all the lube I'd need to be able to have sex with him. Let me guess, his hobbies are golf and sailing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:03 PM
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3 sexual partners is easily within the normal range for a modern woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:51 PM
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They also wouldn't agree to a gender flipped trad marriage where the woman is the boss and the man serves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:38 PM
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runs his own company. He has a network of business associates but not friends. Nope. has a solid friend group of both men and women similarly successful. They are always making plans and traveling together. Yes. Depends on how often "always traveling" is though. A couple of times a year is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:22 PM
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High IQ women need to WISE UP and understand their standards are sky high. The curse of the high IQ is that we are <1% of the population. If you value IQ in a partner you better lower your other standards, because the probability of finding a match is vanishingly small as you apply more filters to an already tiny pool of people. I can agree with this. None of the (mostly high IQ) guys in my class seemed like they had a romantic/flirty bone in their body so I realised I can't limit myself to a sm…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 09:46 PM
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Intelligent people attract each other, similarly to social class. If a woman is intelligent she would naturally be surrounding herself with other intelligent individuals through family, work, classes, hobbies etc. That's what she's used to. And when you're used to that it's painfully awkward to be around stupid people. It's a barrier of entry but not attractive in itself so being in the 99th percentile doesn't do anything unless you're attractive in other ways. Not only are there fewer highly in…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:04 PM
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Even if the person who prefers a virgin is not a virgin themselves? Yes. Attraction cannot be negotiated, so being attracted to someone can't be hypocritical. It's involuntary. Traditional relationships kind of blur the lines because both sexes have expectations of the other that they are not willing to fulfil themselves. But the reason they have those expectations is because they serve a purpose: to have predetermined roles and a shared responsibility of running the family. Men want a nurturing…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:26 PM
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Hypocrisy relates to conduct and beliefs. If you believe being a virgin is a moral stardard other people should aspire to, but you don't think it's virtuous for yourself to be a virgin, thats hypocrisy. If you're just more attracted to virgins than not-virgins, it's not hypocrisy. Attraction isn't a choice. You aren't judging them while making excuses for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:08 PM
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I have never asked what he got for other women because I don't care. I'm happy with what I'm getting now and if I wasn't happy I would break up with him even if he never gave previous women anything. I'm not desperate enough to celebrate shit treatment even if there is a woman who got it worse. In turn, you make all the effort for him in terms of cooking for him, cleaning for him but you get only a bare fraction of what others got for free. And I don't cook and clean for men, I'm not a maid. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:32 PM
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Women are blamed for lowering birth rates, but men would make the same choice if they were women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:48 PM
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The more desirable one is to the opposite sex (aka how many options they have), the less they have to worry about meeting the standards they set for the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:36 PM
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Also why would these women even come here? Do expect them to come here to find suitable husbands? Like passport bros just reverse? Highly unlikely they have any interest in doing that, considering more than 80% of the US is fat and their own countrymen are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:17 AM
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The calendar method is unreliable if a woman uses only a time based app to calculate the probable timing of ovulation. However, if she determines her ovulation date with urine tests and measuring basal body temperature it is almost impossible to get pregnant 2 days past ovulation. I've been regular for years and still, just one time, my ovulation was 7 days late.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:32 PM
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The offensive part is that you're free. Flaunt it, and it will trigger certain kinds of men every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:03 PM
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Men were taught to do these things so that they could support a family and take care of others. Must be nice to be male. You never even have to consider what freedoms and safety nets money affords you because you didn't have to see the previous genererations of men be financially (and otherwise) abused with no options to leave. It never even crosses men's minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:56 PM
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The back pedaling on this sub is comical when it comes to women avoiding men. "Women should learn to not put themselves in dangerous situations." "Then women shouldn't have any male acquaintances or friends since they are statistically some of the most likely to commit SA." "No, I didn't mean that."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:09 PM
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Not sharing a hotel room with your coworker and not having a dinner with them without other coworkers being present is extremely normal and I would conduct myself that way as a woman too. The one on one meetings with the door open is a bit overkill though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 03:54 PM
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Not having to work if you don't like working is literally the only benefit of being trad. If a woman still works she is literally becoming a nanny servant for nothing while the man gets to have hobbies and prioritize his goals. If it's so nice, men should become tradwives who also work. The woman can make the decisions, control his money and relax after a day at work while he looks after the kids he is also homeschooling.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:12 AM
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You did say it though. You said women should learn their lessons. The lesson being that having male friends and trusting them has lead to many women becoming sexual assault victims. If you think women need to change their behavior then the conclusion is they should not trust men or be friends with them. Straight women don't sexually victimize other straight women so there is no lesson to be learned there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:00 AM
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People do know other options are available, and they disregard them for a reason. If a trad life was the best option for the majority of women, they would already be living it. Instead they find employment so they can avoid that life. I guess most men offer less security and fulfillment to women than jobs do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:57 AM
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The ballerina farm egg apron incident is a perfect example of why women would rather be single than a tradwife. Unappreciated after everything she's sacrificed. That poor woman gave up ballet to be with him and couldn't get one barn to be converted to a ballet studio, because anything that's just for her would be a waste to her husband. Even if the guy is a millionaire, he will make a woman give up her dreams and disregard her wishes for the rest of her life while she has no money of her own to …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:45 AM
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So the lesson is men shouldn't be trusted and women should not befriend them, since that's the situation where women have commonly been victimized.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:04 AM
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I don't sleep with men I'm going on dates with. I only have sex with someone who is either my boyfriend or my husband. How did I navigate dating? I told men who tried to suggest sex "no thank you" without further explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:59 PM
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You are saying women should learn to assume even male friends are dangerous and can't be trusted, or else women are naive idiots. Many women agree which is why they would choose the bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:46 PM
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Precisely why women choose the bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:07 PM
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If a man got wasted, stoned and wandered around in a bad neighborhood and got his phone stolen, I'd be like...well, maybe next time he should just be more aware of his surroundings. If a man got wasted and stoned with his friends, passed out on the couch and got his phone stolen, then what? Don't have friends next time? Don't be born with a phone next time?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:09 PM
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The guy who walks to the urinal next to yours even though there is plenty of space, then looks at your cock and looks you in the eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:27 PM
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I've gone from having a high libido to a medium libido since I was in my early 20s to now mid 30s. My husband has gone from a med-high to med-low libido during the same time. The biggest issue was when his libido dropped first, and that was resolved around 5 years later when mine did too. My highest libido is before ovulation or in the evening, his highest is after abstaining for a few days or in the morning. Neither of us can be bothered if we're tired. Variables: about 10kg of weight gained fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 06:29 PM
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Yeah, in that example she was disabled and unable to pay her bills. Unable to leave. That's when the "bad boys" red pillers idolize so much will finally show their bad side. If they actually believed women love abusers they would walk the talk and slap some sense into a girl on the first date. That should get her horny and obsessed with him, according to them. Yet no red piller does that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 08:04 PM
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for all intents and purposes it's extremely cliche and performative almost to a point of ridiculous stereotype and cringe superficial acting Romantic does not mean this, for sure. You could, for example, imagine doing something nice for a woman just because you like seeing her happy. Then instead of doing that, break up with whichever woman you feel you'd have to perform cringe acts for, and find a woman you actually want to see smile and laugh. It will come naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 05:55 PM
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Why is it more common for them to murder on the last day of the relationship instead of the first? Why don't they punch women in the face on the first date and instead wait until they are years into the relationship? Your claim was that men openly advertise their bad qualities, which is false. Men hide it for a long time. And why do they hide it? Because women wouldn't date a man who punched her in the face on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 05:43 PM
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Bad boys wear their shittiness on their sleeve Women are the most likely to get killed by their romantic partner when they try to leave him. Not on the first date, not in the honeymoon phase and not during the ups and downs. When they are about to dump him. That is not bad men being openly shitty, that is them literally hiding their murderous tendencies until the very end of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:56 PM
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Plenty of Men already approach women anyway so they don't feel they need to approach back. Why change the status quo when their future partners are more likely to come to her than vice versa? It's this one. Also, the quality of men is better when you weed out the ones who aren't interested. If he wanted to, he would. Men aren't going to try woo and arrange romantic dates with a long term female partner they never gave a fuck about in the beginning, or give her thoughtful gifts if they get upset …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:29 PM
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PPD women are usually asked if virginity is a problem for them personally. When have PPD women claimed to represent every woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:08 PM
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Shaming? You can be ashamed about it if you want, I don't mind. The only points of view that have value are from those who have had success to back it up. Teeny tiny insults won't change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:57 PM
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You create these narratives about evil greedy women just to feel like it's not you who is at fault for failing to find good partners. Lets remember I'm married and have a fulfilling sex life, and you are fighting imaginary women in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:30 PM
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Just me wondering how many mediocre romantic films with an alpha fucks beta bucks plot were actually written by women. They always seem like a male interpretation of what a woman's romantic life is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:16 AM
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The most annoying thing about that is not the money, it's that the stuff runs out and when I want it it's not in the cupboard/fridge. I can buy 3 bottles of juice extract and when I go to have a glass none of them are there because he fucking drank it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:10 AM
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How many of those romantic films were written by women though?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:02 AM
0

It's cute that you think married women had the choice to not have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 08:58 AM
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What does what you've heard have to do with my makeup habits?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 08:00 AM
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And that is why I would never go out with a total stranger who doesn't even know why I'm there with him. It would be a waste of my time and effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 07:57 AM
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Makeup is not for me. I'm not looking at my own face. It signals to other people that you're putting in effort to look good, just like nice clothing. And if a man won't signal effort back to me, I will also stop putting in effort and consider him not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:00 PM
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Mascara goes off in 6-12 months after opening and I don't wear it unless it's a special occasion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:00 PM
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Him suggesting that is one way to kill my infatuation immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:54 AM
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This. Me doing the dishes never got my husband horny but it did get him clean dishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:43 AM
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Is there anything a man can do right? I mean, the guy is up front about it. What should he do, hide it or spring it on you way later? He could date women who are also in therapy (which there are plenty of) and leave me alone, because I would like a healthy partner. That would be the right thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:41 AM
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Great, the extent of his experience would be close to mine then. I don't care when he tells because that's his business.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:34 AM
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A 35 year old who asks me out romantically and won't gift me something that's worth less than $5 when the mascara I put on just for him costs more than that? Then what is he doing on a date with me? Clearly he doesn't think I'm his dream wife. It's cool, we can be friends for now. But he should be aware that when I'm single I act single with whomever I please and will match the energy I am shown. There are plenty of other dudes who would treat me better than he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:56 PM
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You'd have an easier time getting a broke dude to spend his last money on you, as counterintuitive as that sounds. Hah, that's my husband. He spent most of his money on a ticket to come see me for the first time and then ran out of cash in two days lmao. I loved every moment of those 6 weeks he spent here that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:44 PM
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Alliance for Hippocratic Medicine tried to get the medication that is used to remove dead fetuses to be pulled from the market. Many anti-abortion fanatics don't care that their uneducated activism could end up killing even women with wanted pregnancies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:57 PM
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Yeah, should we limit that to only athletes as well? If you want to choose one city out of thousands and a cherry picked age group that support your narrative, of course you'll get results that support your narrative. That's called bias. It doesn't prove anything except a desire to ignore reality. Those US states with the smallest amount of obesity have the same rate of obesity (20%-25%) as the fattest EU countries. The European average obesity rate across all EU countries (17%) is smaller than …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 06:45 PM
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That's what people say to make themselves feel better, but you can't pin that on boomers. Young Americans are just as fat as older people. "Among adults ages 20 and over, there are no significant differences in prevalence of obesity by sex or age group" https://www.niddk.nih.gov/health-information/health-statistics/overweight-obesity
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 10:03 AM
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A collar, no tie, rolled up sleeves, some nice flattering jeans.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 10:42 PM
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If they felt comfortable enough to brag to me about being a homewrecker, there would be such a fundamental difference in character between me and this so called friend that I couldn't keep associating with them. I would be annoyed I didn't see it sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 08:24 PM
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A stranger asking me out is really asking me to get dressed up, pay for travel and other expenses and spend my time on him instead of something I enjoy, and I have no way of knowing if it's going to be a waste of time. So if he is asking me out, what is he going to say when we are on a date that he can't say there and then? Let's speed it up by having a conversation right away and maybe I can find out if he is worth investing in. That could change my mind, as long as I'm not in a hurry. Things I…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:07 PM
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We chatted online and spoke on the phone for like two months before seeing each other on camera so I have first hand experience that it's definitely possible to develop feelings without appearance playing a part in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 10:40 AM
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You're allowed to have any standards. Just don't blame anyone for not meeting them, because your standards are not their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:00 PM
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Hypothetically, I wouldn't care. I know I'm not a 10/10 and that I take awful photos. As long as he's attracted to me now that's enough. He's also named a few things about my personality that got him interested initially and that's more important to me than the fact that he finds me hot. I used to get annoyed by guys who approached me based on nothing more than how I looked. It felt shallow and dehumanizing and I didn't have any respect for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 10:15 AM
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Women, do you tend to give men who ask you out a chance? You never who they really are until you at least go out with once. I gave pretty much every guy a chance when I felt ready to date and have sex. All they had to do was come and talk to me, make me enjoy the conversation and escalate appropriately. I was open to everyone and flirted with them anywhere. No need to go on a date - let's talk here and now. I did that until one guy liked me enough to ask me to be his girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:08 AM
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The point is that you couldn't live in a world where you didn't try to save them. If you don't feel that way then you'd obviously just let them die. You don't get a trophy either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 01:15 AM
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After healing, I would hope to find love again. I would hope my husband did the same if I passed away. Life is too long and lonely otherwise. The dead are ashes and their feelings and wants no longer exist so those who are still alive should make choices based on what is best for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 01:12 AM
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If there's no one in the world I'd rather have sex with than my man and we both liked it but he was still competing with ghosts of the past, it is solely his insecurity ruining a good thing. But he's allowed to be insecure and break up. It's not an offense to me when a man has personal problems and isn't able to just be happy in a good relationship. The question was whether I'd be offended and I already answered that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:37 PM
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His insecurities or standards are not an offense to me, so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:09 AM
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Same lol I'll make sure he's dressed in nice clothes I bought and flaunt him to everyone I know, and we can go on romantic holidays on my dime.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:46 AM
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Handsome and faithful obviously. I can make my own money but I can't be attracted if he is not attractive to me, that's called a friend, and I won't be with a cheater because I might as well be single at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:28 AM
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I only watch gay porn, male solo porn and straight porn, so I'm curious to know the reasoning as well. But why on earth would you ask this from the red pill? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:27 PM
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I'm sex positive and don't think people get used up for having sex. Men who buy sex, on the other hand, would not be morally compatible with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:03 AM
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It annoys me every time I'm reminded of it and see how easy men have it. It's been like this ever since my brother turned 14 and gained muscles just by playing video games and all I got was a heavy ass and tits that get in the way. My husband gets visibly pumped muscles after gym and I get nothing. My back was sore for 10 months and getting progressively worse until I figured out it was caused by carrying a mere 25kg up and down the stairs on a regular basis. Now it's healing but I can no longer…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:50 AM
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Women want men to flirt with them, treat them, and give them the attention they received in their twenties for an entire lifetime; it's just too big of an ask. I don't get this part. Why is it too big of an ask? I would want my husband to do all this for my whole life. It doesn't take a lot of effort to flirt with and give attention to someone you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:41 AM
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What would it take for you to be a stay at home dad? Or to enable a sahd? It would just have to work. I would have to earn enough money to make it happen. My husband would have to take responsibility for anything related to kids and the household. I wouldn't want to receive phone calls from teachers, get them ready for school or manage groceries, cook, clean and do laundry. If I still had to do all that despite working full time and him being home then the kiddos would be going to daycare and he…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:56 PM
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Men should have their own accounts too. I insisted on having separate accounts and made a bank appointment for my husband (boyfriend at the time) when he moved to my country, and told him that if we break up I will pay for his flight back no matter what if he for some reason can't afford it. I've also told him how to apply for various benefits and I've taken up the majority of household costs so that he can save more money. Anyone who doesn't support their spouse having financial security of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:13 PM
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So if the husband dies, out the options you provided in your OP, it is the wife/mother woman who will have no safety net because no one will want her around anymore. Whereas the never married woman will always have her single friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:50 PM
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I would be a mother and wife in a hypothetical world where it was guaranteed that a husband would love me until death, not die before me, not cheat, never be unemployed, never be abusive, never withhold money, never stop showing his love for me, be a good father, earn enough to support me and the kids at all times, never get seriously ill and advocate for my causes with his money and connections. Since the universe can't give that quarantee, I'd rather be a never married, successful and free wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 11:31 AM
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Both, but if I had to pick, stability and comfort. My marriage right now is very warm, fun and nice and I doubt we would still be together if we kept doing drugs, drinking, fucking in club bathrooms, trying out kinks, arguing and having crazy makeup sex. It was very exciting at the time, but he is no longer like that and neither am I. I guess a change in priorities is a part of growing up and maturing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 11:11 AM
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If she will for some reason break up with her current partner in 8 years, she should obviously see into the future and break up now, so that she can give her youth to the number slip guy and that way he won't be a nice guy who finishes last. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:37 PM
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Not by the time the electricity will turn off, then water pumps will turn off, then no more water, no more fridges, no more food in your store. Stop acting like women are "about" to do something that somehow they never do. And if women stopped working, men would immediately have elderly parents to take care of without functioning elderly homes, their children to take care of due to no daycare and no schools, no running hospitals and not even social services who could step in. Stop acting like me…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:15 PM
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Not every man is busy maintaining the infrastructure. Ah, so they act entitled to society's critical infrastructure despite not maintaining it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:01 PM
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I guess I don't feel like that would make me too vulnerable. I'm still going to achieve everything I want in life even if my skin sags and I gain weight. And I won't need to rely on a man even if I have kids. I think I felt like I was ready to have kids when I knew I could make it on my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 10:11 AM
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In reality, women wouldn't last a month without men. Power and water and food would stop within days and they wouldn't survive. Men wouldn't last more than a generation without women sure, but that's many years. An entire generation of men would be wiped out overnight if women stopped caring for male infants and children. The men could not do it since they would be busy upkeeping infrastructure. Women not interested in having children is just showing their entitlement to society's resources with…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:48 AM
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At the end of the day, a man is only going to care about you if he wants to care. And that's why I waited for men to approach and for one of them to ask for exclusivity and commitment. Also why I've always been ready to walk away from a marriage if my husband stopped showing me he cares. It's men's decision to care, so no point in begging for it or staying with one who doesn't. As for the rest of your post, women do support men who have their own me too stories and men having equality at work. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:41 AM
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Whatever kinds of women peak athletes are willing to date are probably highly desired by men. It means men like women who exhibit narcissistic and attention seeking behavior and post their kids online. I don't really think about these women because I don't know any, I am not one of them and have no desire to become like them to get the kind of man they got.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:20 AM
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The right to travel, the right to medical privacy, the right to healthcare when miscarrying, the right to terminate an ectopic pregnancy, the right to terminate a molar pregnancy with a heartbeat, the right to terminate a nonviable fetus that will never live and will damage her body as it grows, the right to treat a septic uterus with abortion pills before it turns into full sepsis. Women have already died or been put in mortal danger because these rights were taken away. So much for pro life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 11:38 PM
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Scandinavian countries are places where people tend to lose their virginity at relatively young ages. For example, people who live in Denmark, Sweden, Norway, and Finland are believed to lose their virginity as young as 16 years of age. In Iceland, which is not far from Scandinavian countries, it is believed that children there lose their virginity at about 15 years of age. This seems accurate. Nordic countries are sex positive, have a good amount of sex education, access to contraceptives for m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:13 AM
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Exclusivity, love and commitment. I don't have sex without those.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:05 PM
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What he has told me he likes about me: body, naivety, intelligence, excitement, beauty, being easily influenced, sex, openness to try things, cuddles, my company, doing fun things with him, laughing at his jokes, that I'm someone he's proud to call his wife and show off What I belive he likes about me based on what I've observed: loyalty, lack of past partners, similar life goals, similar hobbies and interests, caring nature, empathy, being supportive of his hobbies/friends/outings, constant hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:48 AM
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No, there are women who literally beg the gods to find a man who can stay employed and off drugs and not hit her. If you are only seeing women with extreme salary requirements way out of your reach, you are looking in a place that's not in your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 10:16 PM
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To have a chance with her. There are plenty of worse women available who don't require that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 09:59 PM
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I wonder if the girlies here would recommend a paternity test in this situation. Yes, because 2 weeks is the time frame from conception to a positive pregnancy test, she was abroad during that time, the pregnancy was unplanned and she seems to be after money in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:01 PM
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The "some reason" being that a woman's actual existing child has been kidnapped at the hospital and she wants it back like any loving parent would.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:38 AM
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A man who only asks for a paternity test cares about the paternity of the child. Yes, he only cares about paternity and doesn't care about his wife with whom he planned and celebrated this pregnancy. Otherwise he would do the test in secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:35 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:52 PM
1

Even if the woman doesn't partake in casual sex he still has boyfriend dick lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:39 AM
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Trust can't be rebuilt because if he thought I could lie to him, cheat on him and abuse his trust for the next 18 years, he is guaranteed to think so lowly of me that he is going to want to test the next child too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 10:14 AM
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Trying hard is strength. Buying a Bugatti and duping women into believing you are a big deal is not. I think men sometimes fall into the trap of showing off markers of power rather than focusing on actually being powerful in different ways that are accessible to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:39 AM
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It's all things together. Money is oftentimes a byproduct of having some form of power. If you gave a million bucks to a homeless guy and he bought himself a flat, a car and some new clothes, it's not going to change all the aspects that made him homeless in the first place. And as soon as women figure it out they're gone. Now that I think about it, OP may have achieved some kind of power to get where he is now through his own merits, which would naturally attract women. But he is upset about wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:26 AM
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Women can, it's just not attractive to men unless it's one of the few things that makes her attractive as a partner (learning how to cook or something like that). Men say all the time how they are not interested in a woman's career and can't fuck her degree. I also mentioned a while ago how I was getting into rock climbing and a few men chimed in that they don't find female climbers attractive (I assume it's to do with the muscles). While women sometimes have to choose between self improvement a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:16 AM
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Influence on people, charisma, social class, job, wealth, physical strength, being known/famous, being high in a status hierarchy where you can give commands to other people, having freedom, not being restricted and controlled by outside influences, getting past obstacles, building things, discipline, being strong-willed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:06 AM
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I don't know, powerful men are almost never poor in the modern world. Maybe extreme charisma and other types of success could get a man the respect of other men. Money has been in the equation in almost all romantic media made for women I've consumed. It's men who get upset that it's a part of what makes women attracted to a man. Probably shouldn't be the only thing he has going for himself though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:49 AM
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I've never seem that happen unless it was deserved. Too pushy, rude, embarrassing her first, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:19 PM
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If a woman thought of her husband as unsexy, what would change if she had never had sex with anyone else? She would still not find him sexy. It's got nothing to do with past partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:17 PM
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Can't get pregnant Can focus on self improvement and that part in itself is attractive for the opposite sex Not in danger if they reject a member of the opposite sex Not in danger if they agree to go on a date Won't be judged later for getting involved with someone More time to date around
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:55 PM
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he knows that things that make a woman's heart instinctively and uncontrollably skip a beat for reasons of evolution, do not include virtual tokens stored on his bank's server farm. What makes it skip is attention from a powerful and strong man. I guess for this dude the only way he could obtain a modicum of power was through money and without it he'd still be a loser. The part about "getting onto his feet" and "needing approval" just about confirms it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:44 PM
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one person has to go sleep somewhere uncomfortable and cold. I never thought about it this way and it's because our couch is so comfy that sometimes we prefer it to the bed. I use the couch when it seems like my husband is finally getting some long peaceful sleep and I don't want to wake him up. Or if he is snoring loudly I'll move to the couch in the middle of the night. Sometimes it's also fun to stay up on my phone/watch tv like a degenerate and fall asleep with the lights on. My husband pref…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:24 PM
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Yeah. And I'm not sure how a grown man would know whether 14 year olds are sexually active unless he himself is illegally engaging with said girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:04 PM
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How... would you come across that information?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:05 AM
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But those who do should not be shamed for having them in old age. This may be an unpopular opinion but I agree. No one who is willing to raise a child in their own household should be shamed for wanting or having kids (assuming they aren't abusive etc). Not with these birth rates. We are past the point where society can afford to be judgemental towards parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:16 PM
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How should I know why they assume that? I don't know these people or what OP usually talks to them about. Asexuality, chastity, closeted homosexuality or other reasons he may have to not want to interact with attractive people are pretty uncommon so obviously those are not the default assumptions with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:56 PM
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Then I guess they are under the misconception that you want to interact with women you find attractive. If you clarify to them that you don't, they will realise you are not helpless and are in fact just not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:51 PM
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When a man is close enough to have grabbed you by the hair and arm and is strong enough to stop you from using your hand to aim (as men obviously are), having a gun on you would be more dangerous than not having it. They are not bound to the user, the attacker can just take it. Unless women are allowed to aim and shoot men who are only creeping closer and looking suspicious on the street? I doubt that though. I would buy a Rape-aXe if they were made available. 🍆✂️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:46 PM
0

Do you whine about being single or sexless to your female friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:35 PM
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This. My friends used to laugh at my crushes and I would tell them "you... you... and you... have a terrible taste in men and don't know what you're missing 😘"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:30 PM
1

That seems disrespectful. My husband and I have joked about celebrity hall passes but only to each other and never publicly. And not in such a direct manner where one says "I would leave him/her".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:33 AM
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Yeah that's what I meant to say. There is too many variables. I'd guess most women have zero tolerance for cheating but the people who do tolerate it are more likely to be women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:00 PM
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It's highly dependent on the individual woman, the surrounding culture and the state of the relationship she is in.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:50 PM
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Women tend to be more forgiving of one-time occurrences and it makes sense from a biological standpoint. If a male partner fathers a bastard child it's not nearly as catastrophic for female reproduction compared to how a female partner getting pregnant by another man is for male reproduction. It doesn't make it okay, but it explains why women would rather not know or are more willing to try marriage counseling.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:34 PM
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My real life husband and the relationship we currently have? No I wouldn't. I have no reason to distrust him at this point in life and hurting someone I love would hurt me too. A hypothetical man and a worse relationship? Yeah probably. I would have a great urge to do the test if I was dissatisfied, because it could confirm if the relationship is even worth the struggle. I also don't believe in thought crimes and it would have to be actual cheating with another active participant for me to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:20 PM
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All the limp wristed incels are surely left wing and not misogynist Trump supporters lmao /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:05 PM
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Except when the woman you are supposed to love the most does it, then you can dismiss her contribution as "playing house" and as something not worth compensating for.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:21 AM
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It would be illegal for you to leave an infant by itself for 8 hours a day so you'd have to pay someone regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:02 AM
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I guess you are one of those who are unhappy in their marriage lol. So which one earns more?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:39 AM
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But for men, who has one option at any given time Don't commit to one option until you are sure there aren't any major red flags. Shit test to see if she will act like one your toxic ex girlfriends. Dump a girlfriend who begins to show toxic behaviours. Every day you are with someone incompatible you lose opportunities to find someone better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:02 PM
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How did I dismiss men's issues by answering a question directed to both men and women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:56 PM
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I thought the average blue piller would take the guys home and later complain online how they slept with a dozen guys and got nothing out of it except bad memories.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:15 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:58 AM
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Yup. If you go dancing alone on the dance floor as a young and thin woman you are soon in a circle of guys dancing at you and you can just lightly touch one of them to invite him to dance with you. Admittedly I don't know how it works for older people. Maybe I'd have to go on dates if I ever get dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:23 AM
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Back when I was single and craved physical touch I would go to a crowded club and just make out with some guy for a while. Then I'd go home without him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:09 AM
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A lot of people saying middle east, but why haven't they moved there yet? Surely an educated western man would have no problems migrating there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:57 PM
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I would date in Europe, where there are plenty of conventionally attractive women and dating feels reciprocal. Asian countries are not good places to live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:18 AM
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Lack of developed organs is what kills the fetus. It's no different than end-of-life care where life sustaining actions (such as feeding) are not being performed anymore and the person is allowed to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:58 PM
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They don't in most abortions. The medication blocks certain hormones and interrupts the processes that sustain a pregnancy, and then causes the uterus to contract. It doesn't poison the fetus. The parts that would later become the placenta detach and the fetus can no longer take what it needs from the woman's bloodstream. Once all of the tissue detaches from the uterus everything comes out. This process separates the woman and the pregnancy-related tissue from each other and the fetus dies of na…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:51 PM
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The reason why these men think it's not a big deal to ask for a paternity test is because they have baby mamas girlfriends many casual or failed relationships one night stands hypothetical spouses surprise pregnancies side chicks abusive relationships and do not have a long happy marriage where they decided to start trying for a baby and were able to track her cycle together, and shared the excitement of finally getting a positive pregnancy test. They are projecting their own experiences (or lac…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:52 PM
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Do women do that after years together and after planning a wanted pregnancy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:23 AM
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Sounds like a reason to have standard testing in France and nowhere else. Men should pay for their own test and perform it secretly if they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:21 AM
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My friends don't air their dirty laundry with me so I have no idea if they are being abused or abusing their men. I think they don't talk to me about their private relationship matters because they don't need my opinion to navigate their life. Women who do want their friend's opinion don't usually stay friends for long if those opinions clash with her own constantly. There was one girl in the past who didn't like her bf spending time with his kid every other weekend. I told her: the kid will sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:57 AM
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Compromise. Discuss whether adjusting the amount of time spent on gaming would be a good idea, but dont drop it completely. Communication. Reveal the issues underlying the woman's objection against gaming. For example let her know that games arent more important than her but as a man you need time to cool off and enjoy his free time. These are good ideas for a first response. Obedience. Do what the woman says. Stop playing games and spend all that free time paying attention to your woman, planni…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:43 AM
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This. You pull the cord or turn off the internet or hide the controller, I'm gone. I'm not about to spend the rest of my lifetime with a second dad who wants to control me just because he thinks he can.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:29 AM
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I can call it that because "being attracted to" someone doesn't require interacting with them. I hope that clears it up for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:49 PM
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I wouldn't say too much pride. More of a healthy respect for your worth and your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:33 PM
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Of course I'm not fine with having a partner who is attracted to his family members. That's a pretty normal boundary. But it's weird how obsessed you are with it. Is it your personal experience? Or personal desires...?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:18 PM
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Interact verb act in such a way as to have an effect on each other. "all the stages in the process interact" communicate or be involved directly. "the user interacts directly with the library" It is in fact you who is wrong. Words have definitions. You are not communicating with, being directly involved or having an effect on film actors when you are watching a film.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:13 PM
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I don't disagree with mainstream dating advice the red pill sphere has adopted and claimed as its own invention. Examples: be healthy, exercise, dress nice and talk to people. I disagree with most of the core ideas such as alpha/beta, briffaults law, dark triad being attractive, the friend zone and orbiters being something women do to men rather than the opposite, manipulation tactics (dread or power games) being a good foundation for a relationship, using coersion and pestering to sleep with wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:07 PM
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People can believe whatever they want but it doesn't change the definitions of words. I'm not surprised you are not familiar with the concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:38 PM
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Masturbating to an image, recording or a drawing doesn't make you "connected" to that piece of media, which is the definition you provided. Paying someone creates a customer-seller-relationship and could be considered cheating if it's also a sexual relationship. For example, paying for a porn movie at the counter in a sex shop wouldn't be cheating but having flirtatious conversations with an only fans model and buying her content would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:15 PM
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You can't have a sexual relationship with an image, a recording or a drawing. They are not people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:01 PM
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I disagree. Cheating, at the minimum, requires some form of interaction with another person. Otherwise anything could be considered cheating which dilutes a term that is commonly understood as stepping outside of a monogamous relationship. Dildos and recordings don't violate monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:50 AM
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Adam
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:58 AM
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No. The red pill explains the phenomenon with hypergamy (low status women seeking higher status men), whereas I showed that the status of loser women is poorly understood and isn't as low as people think.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:38 AM
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I think my own chances would have been pretty abysmal if I was only using dating apps back when I was single. My photos are *terrible*. It doesn't matter if I take them or someone else takes them, I look fucking weird every time. It's like a curse. Other people have commented on it too: "Why can't you just be normal in photos?" Whereas in real life, men have found me attractive and told me as much. That's why I sincerely believe men should try meeting women in person because there are probably a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:59 PM
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Back then, I absolutely wanted to have a relationship. I wanted to be loved. Nobody wanted to love me. They barely even knew I existed at all. There are many women who are like I was. You just don't see them. The key thing is, even female losers want the man to approach them or show that he is interested. And male losers are not usually doing that for any women because they lack the confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 09:52 AM
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Regarding housework, you are right that there are mentally ill women who can't keep their living space clean. My wording could have been clearer. I was thinking of it more in terms of how women handling housework relates to the man. The latter type (old, disagreeable, always busy) is more likely to yap about how he isn't doing enough and to make it his problem. The first type (young, low self esteem, always home) is generally not going to seek conflict and she might even like cooking as a hobby …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 09:30 AM
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I'm not a loser but I can guess why that doesn't generally happen. Those outcast women aren't actually at the level of male losers. Think about what men value in their potential girlfriends. virginity: a female loser is likely a virgin youth: female losers are usually young because many of them learn to be social when they find a job or friends low self esteem: men like it when women aren't arrogant or "uppity" and look for validation from their man by pleasing him no male friends or ex's: men d…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 07:47 AM
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Why just don't spin a plate and get a free food, free gift and free sex from several guys? There is no reason to. I can get orgasms by myself without risking STDs. I can buy my own food and enjoy it without having to get dressed and act pleasant for a stranger. I'd take free gifts but no guy has ever offered that. They always want something in return, like my time, my body or my emotional investment. Anyone who thinks women can just get free stuff is welcome to send me some, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:34 PM
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The man isn’t just paying for the meal, he’s paying for her time. Because to her, her time is much more valuable than his. I would want a man to pay on a first date. Not because I'd want traditional roles (I don't) but because it's symbolic. It's not about how I view him, it's about how he views me. It tells me he finds my time valuable, that he wants to impress me and that he feels lucky to be with me on the date. If a man considers me intrinsically valuable from the get go, he'll likely think …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:38 PM
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From what I understand, my friend does not want kids because she grew up in a dysfunctional family and does not believe she is capable of being a good mother. Don't people always say "don't have kids if you can't take care of them"? Well that's what she's doing, not having kids. She also doesn't want someone to cut her genitals with a knife or have them tear, and the complications that follow, or to have scars and loose skin on her abdomen. There are many practices which dehumanize a pregnant wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:39 PM
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Then again... all these girl boss types will lay on the floor and eat shit for a boss, and then walk around all proud of it, but refuse to do laundry for their husband who works longer hours and makes double what they do.... Lmao. My boss is respectful and nice and pays me a good amount to be a part of his business. If you have to eat shit for a living you need a new job. My husband works the same hours as me when he is employed and therefore has time to do his own laundry.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 09:33 AM
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I've lived with someone who has an intact penis for more than a decade and he has never had visible buildup of dirt on it because he's a normal person who takes showers. The same thing women do to avoid any hygiene problems. You've been lied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 09:18 AM
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You just described my husband as the good guy. He can have sex almost every time he wants and can use the front door, back door and mouth door according to his wishes. I say almost every time because there was that one time recently when he was in the mood but I was pacing around all day trying not to vomit (and failing) during a rare giga hangover. Why exactly should he become a gangster? It doesn't seem like it would benefit him in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:49 PM
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Does that mean all the men who are not providing orgasms to their wives are cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:54 PM
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Smiling is so important.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:15 PM
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I think male infant genital mutilation is a vile and inhumane practice that needs to stop worldwide, and I feel sorry for men who were forced to go through that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:09 PM
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The blue pill is about disagreeing with or disbelieving red pill theories. https://np.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2q582c/a_comprehensive_guide_to_the_red_pill/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:00 PM
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Yes, the low quality men would indeed drop out of the gene pool. And seeing how dating and sex aren't required to produce children but a female body is, the women can always choose to have kids but the same cannot be said for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:54 PM
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Instead of blaming others, they should either look for less attractive options or become happy with being used by these men if they can't bear lowering their standards. You only presented these two options and skipped the obvious choice. Women should just not have sex if it doesn't benefit them. There is no need to have sex with unattractive men or to be used by attractive men, when both can be avoided.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:48 AM
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He should tell her if they have a relationship where they tell each other those kinds of things, or not tell her if they don't have that kind of relationship. The same applies to any kind of suspicions, like going through a partner's phone or getting STD tests.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:02 AM
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I would give her my order once she's ready to take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:50 AM
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Yes, I very much feel lust for him and want to have sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:51 PM
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Almost everyone else understood the point of my comment so it could just be a reader issue if it seems like that to you. If my husband left me for something out of my control despite me being good to him in many ways other men can only dream their wives were, of course I would choose to be happy without him. I deserve nothing less. And going by how irate the idea makes some men here feel, there is no better comeback to a betrayal like that than moving on and seeing what fun life has to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:37 PM
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I wouldn't attack someone for wanting a divorce. Said situation often involves the guy also abandoning his children to relive his free youth with the homewrecker and that's the part I condemn.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:31 PM
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I am the higher earning partner actually 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:46 PM
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I honestly don't think women are taught the consequences of their actions anymore. What actions am I taking in this hypothetical situation? Did you miss the point of the thread which is men dumping their wives for younger women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:39 PM
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She found her DIY-Chad Lmao Good for her though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:28 AM
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Who's we? Me and you? Let's not get ahead of ourselves, you don't qualify for a first date let alone a second.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:23 AM
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Because I love him, he treats me well and I don't want to lose him. If he wanted to divorce me then that wouldn't be my choice anymore, would it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:07 AM
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So the reason why the sex life was lacking was not because she communicated, but because you found her unsexy even prior to that. Why even date someone you don't find sexy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:28 AM
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Plus she gets to play nanny for his kids for free lmao. Would could resist that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:27 AM
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If my husband divorced me after 40, it would mean he has sole responsibility of the kids every other week and I don't have to run family errands during that time. I could do what I want all week. My house would stay clean on its own because I don't make messes. I could spend time on my hobbies and try out what having sex with other men feels like. I would be heartbroken but I wouldn't complain about my quality of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 07:19 AM
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I think I would rather have the kids. Because you can't choose how healthy your kids will be but with that outcome I would have at least tried to have the life I want. You don't always get a happy ending and that's the risk you take if you want a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:09 PM
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Edit: Ok I meant how you feel when a guy who you’re close with but not in a relationship with does these romantic things. I ended up dating the one I had mutual feelings for. Second guy knew I was dating guy #1 and still wanted to confess his feelings. I didn't want to continue that friendship. In general I don't think I would ever want to be friends with a guy if he has one sided feelings for me, but I also wouldn't want him to keep it secret. The bandaid needs to be ripped off and whatever hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:01 PM
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I think it does exist. Not full on telepathy but the ability to read someone's emotions off their face or interpret their body language. If I'm sitting on a guy and leaning on him to get a reaction out of him but he is scared shitless or maybe just a bit confused about why I'm doing that, it's true that he's probably not a player. A player might crack an innuendo or rest his hand on me to tease me back. But doesn't that also make me a player if I'm trying to make that happen? Players should prob…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 08:13 AM
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Being an asshole is not the same as being powerful, and women wanting provision, protection and commitment from a powerful man is not the same as wanting "bad men", but it wouldn't be the first time the manosphere misunderstood women. Women wouldn't be dumping assholes and abusers left and right if that were true. They do, however, dump men who cease to be powerful or stop providing, protecting or committing. It's also why bitter incels, who self report liking when bad things happen to others, f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:42 PM
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I agree 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:45 PM
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And why do men really want to do those things? Because of the power fantasy of domination and conquest. The fantasy is not just about the sex for women, it's about having the power to make a powerful man serve her every need. To inspire him to give her gifts, to protect her from bad guys, to commit to her. According to what I've read about the 50 shades books, all of those things seem to be included in the plot. The same theme is repeated across romance and smut genres in writing, film and telev…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:35 PM
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Why do men play violent video games filled with imaginary danger when they can just play with their dog irl?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:25 PM
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Oh yeah the "support circle" of single guys thing made me chuckle. More like vultures who look forward to her future divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:58 PM
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Do you have a link to a treatment guideline or a drug's summary of product characteristics, or are you just making uninformed guesses?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:45 PM
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keeping a hidden bank account that regularly she funds from the family income. I disagree on this point. You have to be a total idiot to agree to be a SAHM for a man who doesn't support you openly having your own bank account where you receive a portion of the family income / your own income. If you need to hide your money, he's not the one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:34 PM
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I got butterflies when I was around someone I met in my first year of uni. I tried to chat with him in parties, joined a group activity he did and even sat on his lap but he never responded in a way that could've been interpreted as interest. Yikes... Don't remeber who I told tbh, maybe a couple of friends? Since he never flirted or talked to me much I just gave up and stopped caring. I later found out the guy was actually interested in me. 🤦🏼‍♀️ The next guy was more of a big crush in the sense…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:34 PM
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Hormone replacement therapy for women is used for menopausal women and contains the same hormones as birth control pills. Sexually active women of reproductive age are more commonly prescribed birth control, because they don't need alleviation for menopausal symptoms and because they benefit more from a regimen that prevents pregnancy. Either way, those hormones for women do not treat a low libido like you claimed, they cause it. If you know of a medication that is indicated for the treatment of…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:34 PM
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That information absolutely is useful to women who are trying to judge how cautious they should be with regards to men. One third? That's vastly different from 1 in 100. It means that in practice, leaving their drink unattended or passing out on someone's couch is a bad idea around a significant amount of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:39 AM
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HRT (hormonal birth control) reduces libido in women. It is a real side effect written on the sheet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:51 AM
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so many women lead men on with promises of sex, and even sex early on to dry out later usually after commitment. Which is a bit.... manipulative no? It can be manipulative but what's more common imo is that the couple use condoms early on, and when they commit to each other they get tested and she goes on hormonal birth control instead. Goodbye horniness... Every couple I know (including my own) where the woman is not on birth control or any medication, she has a higher libido or they are roughl…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:39 PM
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Right, in more than 50% of cases. That's because of women's natural cycle but also because women are more likely to use hormone replacement therapies (birth control) and antidepressants which both cause libido suppressing side effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 06:18 PM
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I agree in theory but the low libido partner fails at it in 99% of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:34 PM
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Which sex is known for nagging? Women. Why is she nagging? Because he ignored everything she said with a pleasant tone 20 years ago and she adjusted her tone until it got results.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:50 AM
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This topic is about what is/isn't wife material to the majority of men seeking marriage. Only a minority of men want to get married but not have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:36 AM
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Not wanting kids Being fat or having an ugly face Spending way too much money on unimportant things relative to savings/income Being asexual, not liking the topic of sex, not wanting to try anything new in bed, lacking passion STIs, lots of past partners, existing kids, cheating in the past Conflict seeking behavior Being unintelligent (it's palpable when you talk to a person and quite exhausting) Being more successful relative to the man Disabilities Substance abuse Criminal record All in all I…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:11 AM
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I hope you realise getting illegally discriminated and fired for your gender is not the same as your coworker simply asking you to hang out after work and backing off if you don't like it. Did you at least sue them? Normal men capable of subtlety who don't hate women should absolutely try their luck at work in the right situation. I've been flirted with several times at work and it never led to anything bad for either party. One of them is actually my current boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:44 PM
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no one really knows what the "vibe" is, some women laugh at your jokes without meaning they're attracted, some women are touchy freely without it conveying attraction, couple this with the advice that you should not bring up sexually charged comments or jokes in order not to make her 'uncomfortable' and you're already coming off as a friend rather than a potential romance prospect. it makes it double bind where yes you have avoided a potential act of 'sexualising' her, but also made it look like…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:00 PM
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I have gone to detail with my female friends about our men, but there was always this unspoken rule that we shouldn't talk about anything that portrays them in a bad light or that they wouldn't want people to know about. I kind of assumed that was the acceptable way to gossip about partners but I guess some women might cross the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:23 PM
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That is by definition not personal. Personal adjective 1. belonging to or affecting a particular person rather than anyone else. If someone dislikes yellow cars, that relates to every car that is yellow, it's not about one particular car. It's like if a man approaches a man, and the latter tells the former "sorry, I'm not into men", that is not an attack. He is expressing what kind of people he is categorically not attracted to. Sometimes it doesn't even relate to attractiveness. There are certa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:03 PM
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I wasn't even talking to you or about you and you're already pissed because of something you believe about me. 🙄 A prime example of a man projecting his own insecurities onto women as if those were women's thoughts, getting emotional by himself and then directing that anger towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:15 AM
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I just got ID'd at the store and I'm 15 years past the age limit. The wall is a lie. 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:21 AM
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As for your statement that most regular men (i.e. the ones you pass on the street) are not predators, I think all women would agree, but what percentage of men do you think are genuine predators? 2%? 5%? 10%? Agreed that most are not, but it's a scary thought that some of them are. Rapists also do their grocery shopping, go to the dentist and go to the gym. I wonder how many of them I've just passed by or spoken to some hours before they meet up with a tinder date and slip something in her drink…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:47 AM
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It's not a value judgement. If I don't like yellow cars, I'm not going to buy your yellow car from you. It doesn't mean the car is shit. It could be a really great car by measurable metrics, and someone who cares about those metrics is going to be a better match than a person who really dislikes yellow cars. And you can keep painting it different colors but you will never find a color that is liked by 100% of people. There will always be someone who will reject you because of personal preference…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:47 PM
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"Assaulted by someone you know" can mean coworkers, friends of friends, neighbours, classmates, an ex from 5 years ago, a tinder date you didn't want to see again, a customer at your work, the priest, a family friend or anyone else you've introduced yourself to. It doesn't only mean close male friends and family members. With family members it doesn't even matter what you do because they would likely assault you before you are of age to isolate yourself from them, and it's really just down to lu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:35 PM
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When the money is payment for sex and not a gift. The gift giver doesn't decide he gets sex in return, and the gift receiver doesn't have to return the gift if she doesn't want to have sex by the end of the night for whatever reason. But if both have agreed to the transaction, it becomes prostitution and the payment has to be returned to the payer if the prostitute changes her mind about providing the service that was agreed upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:32 PM
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Well in real life they don't just prance around in a sexy uniform, they kill and torture civilians and stay separated from their girlfriends/families for months at a time. So I wouldn't really suggest being that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:13 AM
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It will ruin other shows for you. He's so hot...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:23 AM
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I just watched Crash Landing on You, a story about a sexy, gentle and powerful military man who risks his status in his country to harbor an enemy woman and help her to safety. One of the best series in the genre. And I married a hot nice man who left his country to be with me. So... I date the same kind of men I fantasize about. You're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:33 AM
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it's fun to have men pining for you and not be invested in your options because there's always a better man right around the corner Well that part was indeed fun but it did not require me to sleep with every man that was pining for me. What is fun about risking STDs just to sleep with multiple people who do not know what I like? Women can also just window shop for a while and pick the best one to have fun with for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:38 PM
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Which women should all men do that with? 100% of women including their future wives? 20% of the hottest women, leaving the uglier ones chaste for marriage? Prostitutes? The mentally ill fatties no one would want to marry later anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:45 AM
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Good athletes win medals. Not all good athletes win medals.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:03 PM
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The title should be "every woman whom men notice is a gold digger"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:18 PM
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Untrue, because there are unemployed broke men who get girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:34 AM
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Oh my god you wrote that? 😂 I need to start looking through people's profiles before I comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:19 PM
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Because a lifetime with me is how a man can get love, companionship, children, intimacy, a better quality of life and someone to share expenses with. Men who felt like that was even a question did not get to make the choice because I made it for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:40 PM
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Caring about nothing isn't attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:06 PM
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What were the ages of these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:16 AM
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Then they should have known better. It's very horrible treatment to pretend to like someone and then ghosting them after they give you what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:05 AM
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Little schoolgirls or college women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:04 AM
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Already got picked. Stay mad 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:18 AM
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Already got a degree and no man had a say in it. Sorry 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:40 AM
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Mankind has had to work for their food and shelter since the dawn of time. Even animals have to work to build their nests and to get food. No one can live without working unless someone else works twice as hard for their benefit. And honestly? I don't feel like sitting on my ass for 8 hours and chatting with people while I handle their business is as bad as raising/growing/gathering/hunting my food plus all the associated manual labour.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:44 PM
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Thank fuck I don't live in a country where fathers get to decide what education their daughters can pursue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:18 PM
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Their entire social circle. If they don't have one, they should expand it. I made a more detailed post about what my husband did under automod. He did not study at a university.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 10:54 PM
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Flirt with women and see how they respond. Escalate with the ones who seem to like it. Don't go full autist. As for how to find women, I'll tell you what worked for my husband. Be interested in people. He will make time for coworkers, old friends, hobby groups, events, parties. Someone will introduce him to someone new, and he'll get to know that person too. He'll also reach out to people he spoke to more than a year ago. Because of all that his social circle is at least 10 times bigger than min…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 10:49 PM
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To get an education, yes. Otherwise no.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 10:48 PM
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Yes. University/college is the best time to socialise with peers. At work is ok too, if you know how to flirt and back off when it's not mutual. Any place where one would also find new friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 10:32 PM
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If it's legal she can consent and if she can consent it's not morally wrong to have casual sex with her. Assuming there was no grooming or drugging happening of course. Grooming in this case would be abusing her naivety to convince her they are a real couple with a future. You can scam grown adults but doing it to someone young who doesn't know better and who spent the last 18 years having to trust adults, is not right. It's a bad character trait to have no compassion for young people and I don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:27 PM
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Actually I didn't ask. But I'm glad they don't blame women. It's just unfortunate when someone misses out on a chance at having a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:57 PM
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Cool. I didn't need the nice guys to do any of that. But I started dating another guy who did. The nice guys can't blame that on me not being open their advances or me pretending not to see them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:51 PM
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In my experience these nice guys don't touch, don't flirt, don't compliment, don't act chivalrous, don't text, don't invite the girl anywhere alone and don't make up excuses to spend time with her. How are women supposed to read their mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:38 PM
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Men have no real world experience of having not only their looks but their whole self be objectified. No one has ever assumed how they feel, what they are capable of and what they are thinking, or expected things from them based on the looks they were born with. And the ones who have experienced that usually don't like it. See: men who are annoyed of being expected to pay for dinner and being reduced to a wallet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:11 PM
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Blah blah mansplaining. Do you understand what an "ick" is? I'm acquainted with a guy who was a virgin until he got a gf in his 30s and he would have been the best boyfriend candidate in my entire social circle if I wasn't already happily married. The ick would be a result of me finding out he has spent money on sex workers. Gross. The down votes tell me some guys are taking this personally. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 11:51 AM
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No, nice respectable virgin men who have trouble getting dates are fine. Men who buy sex are categorically not nice or worthy of respect. They are porn brained incels who are willing to do vile things. You know how there are women who work 2-3 jobs just to make a living and still live in poverty? And then there are women who lick toilet bowls for money. Men who buy sex are like toilet lickers. It's nasty and desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 10:10 AM
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Men who have bought services from sex workers. Ewwwwwwwww what a loser and potentially a pdf, a rapist and an STI carrier.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:44 AM
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I guess it depends on how often they guy sees her. In my case we were in the same first year study group and saw basically every day for 8 hours plus parties in the evening. I was already getting and giving signals to other classmates after 2 weeks, and at the one month mark I assumed we were just friends. But if you see once a week or less often, it probably takes longer for attraction to build both ways. I think cold approaches do not work on every woman and most would want at least a conversa…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 08:46 PM
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Yeah 3 months is way too long to not show a drop of interest. I had that happen to me and I was like... dude, I've been talking to another guy for 2 months and I'm his girlfriend now. Too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:25 PM
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Men have expressed that they would be unhappy to find out another guy has been able to sleep with the woman they are dating by putting in less effort than himself. So with that logic, women are doing it right if they start out with sky high expectations and only lower them over time if they can't find someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:47 AM
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The definition of racism seems to have evolved over time. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:24 PM
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Absolutely. The feelings of ethnic, religious and gender minorities are all less important to me than my safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:16 PM
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Is the sex going to be good to those women and/or allow them to orgasm if your dick goes soft for 5 minutes in the middle of it? They might just not want to bother continuing to let a random guy finish if their own enjoyment is gone. Relationships are different and it's not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:24 PM
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No, because I already know dating apps suck and men shouldn't be using them so much that they make 80% of the user base at any given time. Anyone who limits their dating pool to the dregs on tinder shouldn't complain when all they find is the bottom of the barrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 05:36 PM
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Exactly. Women are incentivized to behave in certain ways on the dating market. To not give a job a chance in case it's not a good fit, since any previous jobs will look bad in a resume. To lie about their work experience. To require benefits from an employer before agreeing to work there. To get a payout from the employer when the contract ends, because the next one will always pay less. Unemployment is pretty stress free.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:13 AM
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Yeah, they don't quit their job, they just quietly go work somewhere else and don't show up to work until their ass gets fired. Or they don't take the job in the first place and just do freelance work here and there. Neither strategy is advantageous to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:41 AM
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Straight dating is disadvantageous for women because a woman's value decreases with every guy she dates/fucks and a man's value increases with every woman he dates/fucks. It's like applying to new jobs and getting worse pay each time you get hired on top of there being a chance that your new boss is a dick. Makes you kind of reluctant to look for a better job.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:48 PM
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He shames women because he hates them and he exploits women because he hates them. It's consistent. His talks on how women should act are meant for other men who hate women, not for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:50 PM
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