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Is that the definition of value? Sure, a hvw should be marry material. I dont think high body count is completely incompatible with being high value. Its like judging someone for being a convict. Although I can agree statistically speaking women with more body counts are more likely to be unfaithful. I wouldnt say a hvw is a youthful good looking girl either just because those traits are often valued in women. I dont think tradional women are inherentely valuable. In my opinion, a hvw should be …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:52 PM
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Yes, I think positive reinforcement is very important. Never thought of that really
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:33 PM
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Theres likely other confounding variables to explain why desire drops in LTR and marriages. Its obvious the honeymoon phase is the most sexual active period, because its everything so new. After awhile it becomes repetitive. Thats human nature, everyone loves to play with new toys and new games. There is an intrinsic satisfying feel about everything that is new. Old or things taken for granted are boring. If Im not sexually desired I will not commit to a relationship. I dont want someone to have…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:34 PM
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I have nothing against unattractive people, Im not perfect either. People make the most out of the cards theyre dealt. Still I admit most of the time I have a big indifference towards unattractive women most of the times. I try to be nice to everyone and It shouldnt be different just because some people look worse (although pretty privilege exists). However, Ive noticed I have much less patience towards unattractive women specially when they start bitching about their insecurities. Most of these…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:41 PM
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Oh yeah my mistake
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:08 AM
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I get that but thats unrealistic for LTR. Your partner likely wont be excited around you all the time, its just not feasible. Your point is very valid, I just think you mightve overexagerated. Also, I think this energy can be built and worked on. The passion doesnt last forever. From my experience if you dont put effort on keeping the flame bright it will dim and eventually end.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:53 AM
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Thats trashy af :(
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:30 AM
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We werent incompatible, just too young I guess. I was her first and she gave me vibes that she wanted to explore her options and not settle. She thought she could find a better guy for sure. I dont wish her bad things but i hope life gives her a reality check. Maybe Im just a romantic fool then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:05 PM
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Okay, fair. But why people all over the internet try to indocrinate young people heads by saying things like if she broke up she had another lined up, no women is going about her life with no male attention whatsoever (hence the metaphor being alone at home), etc. My friends say that as well. Im trying so hard not to believe this but its hard. Its poisoning my mind and my relationships. In my first relationship the girl was garbage and she left me for someone a one or two weeks after. My last th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:36 PM
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I just want to had that not everyone bothers to try to fix their relationship issues. It takes a whole lot of effort, communication and maturity to do so and some people either lack the skills or dont really care the effort
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:17 PM
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Thats a good point. I guess that makes you a very communicative partner
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:15 PM
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Are you a women? That opinion comes up as very strong. Ive seen it all over the internet. Its something I honestly do not want to believe. Do women cant really go without male attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:13 PM
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Are you a women? That opinion comes up as very strong. Ive seen it all over the internet. Its something I honestly do not want to believe. Do women cant really go without male attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:13 PM
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Feeling miserable and meh are two very different things
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:09 PM
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Absolutely no worries, thank you for being so open about it. Im glad it helped talking to someone in the other side. Well your experience was far different from mine for sure. I'm getting older now and I have to think about splicing my genetic material with someone . .. The next person I date , really I need to be a good choice. To have plenty of time to relax, have fun and make memories before kids(my biological clock) it's terrifying to make a mistake on that. I'll literally be tied to them fo…
/r/ExRedPill14/03/23 01:08 PM
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This post and your comment come off as if you expect people to just stay in relationships that they don't want to be in unless they can find some reason that you think is good enoug By no means. Im the first one to say everyone has the right to exit a relationship for any reason they choose fit. Its pretty much my post anyway. My point here is that I feel women are much more defensive when it comes these reasons. Wanting to be alone isnt the reason you want to break up. You want to break up beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:55 AM
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For the time being these experiences are deterring me from putting myself out there. Im not in a rush tho. Im a bit resentful towards women my age, not that I hate them or anything. I dont want that to pass onto someone who doesnt deserve that but Im finding it hard to shake off this feeling. Sneakyness is truly a human trait which is very incentivized in the modern world. Theres too much information around, its easy to manipulate people be that in relationships, friendships, business, etc. Mind…
/r/ExRedPill14/03/23 01:43 AM
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I didnt go for particular types of women. My first gf and my last were very different. Ill admit my first gf was a bitch, she cheated and has been dicked down by multiple guys I know ever since. My last one was a sweet innocent girl until she wasnt. Took me a lot of time to realize that, and I gave her the benefit of doubt way to many times. I feel like she is a good person. Unless she changed. Im not really into what happened with him and those camgirls, as far as I know its business. Its a com…
/r/ExRedPill14/03/23 01:11 AM
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Ahh yess, finally a woman deemed worthy! 🙂
/r/ExRedPill14/03/23 01:00 AM
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Define making you miserable. And meh. Honestly, I dont agree. Unless that person is making you miserable which you should 100% leave, the other person isnt responsible for your happiness, you are. Of course feeling butterflies again is much better than keeping a boring life with someone "meh" or uninteresting. Its a classic case of the grass is greaner on the other side. Thats a big expectation your partner should make you feel on top of the world every day. People have the right to feel stresse…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:58 AM
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Thanks for sharing your story, thats what Im looking for honestly. Everyone is different. I think sometimes you need to go through stuff to learn it and I think your phase was something you shouldnt feel bad for, its a learning experience. You will make better decisions from now on. I completely agree with everything you say. I think you are a nice person which understandably went through a rough patch, you did the best you could knowing the things you did. I hope you can find peace of mind and …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:51 AM
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Very different. Men are much more physical and direct. You see that all the time in a lot of different ocasions. Women on the other hand are much more manipulative in general. You see that in some women dominated environments, its much more a psychological warfare, lying, bad mouthing someone, etc. Thats why I feel women in general are much more deceptive than men. And sometimes Id rather feel physical pain than to go through some manipulation or psychological warfare (lying, omiting stuff, tell…
/r/ExRedPill14/03/23 12:45 AM
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Very reasonable!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:35 PM
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Maybe because your standards increase as you improve?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:06 PM
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I think there are some cool women, others not so much. I enjoy to hang out with a few girls, go for drinks, go clubbing, etc. But I think women can be pretty evil if you let them. Im kind of afraid of getting vulnerable around them
/r/ExRedPill13/03/23 10:46 PM
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Why do you hate men so bad? Yes, its a false generalization falacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:15 PM
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You gotta be kidding. Youre trying so hard to prove your point you come up with studies about mating animals. Following that logic men should be polyamorous by nature because usually one male animal fucks the maximum females available to him. Do you know someone with a healthy sexual relationship seeking sex outside the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:10 PM
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Fair answer but its still pretty easier for a girl to pull a guy her league than vice versa. Btw if she puts in the effort to get on with better guys I would call it promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:30 AM
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Do you dislike that about yourself too? Are you doing yhe change for whom? To please you or them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:28 AM
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We get it you get laid a lot. But a fat or ugly chick can get laid equal or more than you with the same hassle. Thats just how it is, its much easier as a woman to get sex than a guy et ceteris paribus. I know some a male friend who have a decent record with the ladies. You still have to be groomed, charismatic, dress nice. Ive seen ladies black out drunk, falling in the dirt, pissing on the street and still getting laid the same night. My point is there are promiscuous guys and gals, but its so…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 12:36 AM
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Agree with the first paragraph. But I think you are coping in the second. You dont have to prove anything to anyone yet I think you are looking for the validation of those men. Why is it that important to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 12:26 AM
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That's absolutely not true. Just because men have a harder time getting laid doesn't mean they will jump on the first girl, specially if they are in a relationship. Most men like variety, it's empowering. I think this is the most acceptable reason for why men in relationships cheat aside from dead bedrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:45 PM
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I will never cheat. I'd rather end my relationship first. How can some people see cheating so lightheartedly? I've gone out clubbing with some friends, one was flirting with some girls and other made out with one. He asked me if i knew her name the day after. Both in relationships. That makes me throw up. They are not good people, makes me wonder if they are actually my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:39 PM
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That's way over the top. If men are getting sex in their relationship there's absolutely no reason to seek it from other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:34 PM
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Ive had someone who was on the same level as me in every way. We would share interest for the same topics, we would laugh at stupid dark humor, study together and compete grades. It was very wholesome, I genuinely enjoyed her company a lot. Turns out she had feelings for me. While we clicked I just didnt feel any attraction whatsoever. You can be compatible with someone but if there is no sexual attraction its meaningless. I couldnt date someone just because she was the best person in the world.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:01 PM
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What the. Age and gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:18 PM
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What is the alternative?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 10:47 PM
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We do not celebrate this behavior. I wasnt like that before and Im sure most of guys werent either. The fact 1cm bicep or height makes up for 1cm heart is brutal. The fact dating apps numbers are so skewed are brutal for men. The stupid preference 80% go to 20% men. The fact men are much more likely to get dumped because realistically women have many more options than men. The fact women tend to move rather quicker from a breakup.How many men struggle with mental issues because of self image or …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 10:18 PM
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Fillers and shit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:43 PM
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So either get rich or die tryin? I think there is a lot that you can do to improve youe appearance as long as you have money. Fix teeth, hair implants, dress well, get fit, get frequent haircuts, minor surgeries, good cologne and exubering confidence and class. Havd you seen Tom Ford? The man is pure class, and he isnt a model. He is well groomed and classy af. True gentleman. It all adds up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:58 PM
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Yet this is a topic I barely discuss with my friends. I think one good way to deal with this is to search meaning in other stuff, like hobbies and friendships but it feels like by disregarding sexual life Im missing out and getting behind the curve. Idk its way too complicated, a relationship was just fine for me but it didnt work
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:40 PM
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Why is this so fucking relatable lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:13 AM
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And I respect that opinion. Look, Ive tried to have sex once after my LTR but didnt feel right because there was no love. Thats when I realized to me sex was very attached to being in love. But its not true. Fundamentally sex and love are two different things
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 11:44 AM
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I think you might be confused. Sex isnt the same as love
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 08:15 PM
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Thats facts. I was never vain, my grooming as a bit meh, I just started getting frequent haircuts about 1y or so ago (which made quite a bit difference) and then stopped there. I had a skincare from my ex but dropped it out of lazyness as well, I didnt shave or trim that often, etc. I dress like a 10yo, always going for the comfy, jeans and t shirt, etc. I washed my hair with water and a random shampoo, my hair is curly so the curls were never good. I thought it was really gay to do self care fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 05:02 PM
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Man, thats seems the typical redneck description on the internet lol. Jokes aside, I think you have your own thing going on, seems like a niche lifestyle a bit far from you know the regular city life. That sounds like an interesting life you have there tho. Thanks for replying and letting me know your story. Im intrigued why havent you married? We have quite an age gap as well, I would like to settle down some day. Dating till 40 or 50s sounds like a huge pain in the ass
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:50 PM
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I dont agree with your opinion. Sex is part of a balanced lifestyle. You can live without it sure, but are you happy? Im guessing most people arent. Is it an healthy lifestyle if you are just meeting your essential needs? You can call it casual sex, I can understand that. But how does it destroy women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:32 PM
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Nah, I asked myself that question after my ex broke up with me. My life is pretty dull. I used to work, go to the gym and be with her. I dont have any hobbies, interests, I dont have an active social life anymote besides clubbing on the weekends. Its such a senseless life. Do you have any ideas? How is yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 12:30 PM
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Hahah, that seems easy enough. Idk it just returning to the dating scenes everyone says top 20% get 80% of the girls bla bla bla. That seems to hold true at least on the dating apps, so the same woman can eat from the same guy without even realizing or caring tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 12:27 PM
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Ahhh fuck, Im neither of those things. I think looks may be my best and Im not even that good looking. How do you improve lifestyle and personality? Can you improve lifestyle without having to spend lots of money?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 11:44 AM
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Jesus late 30s?? Thats way too late
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 11:42 AM
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How would u describe yourself then?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 11:41 AM
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That sounded a bit judgemental. I just got out of a relationship, it hurt me a lot. I dont want to get so vulnerable again so soon, I also want to focus myself for now. Why is it gross?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 11:40 AM
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Thats fair, I was too at some point. I dont really enjoy the hookup thingy but I just got out of a LTR, Im hurt af and have some trust issues. I also want to pursue my career and feel free to do whatever makes me happy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 11:36 AM
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Thanks for sharing your experience. I would say rn Im pretty average. Ive an athletic build, average face, bad fashion sense, not a lot of disposable income, socially i have a lot of friends but they are mainly male (from sports and dudes stuff) but ive been out of the picture for so long, im not that interesting, i dont travel nor have hobbies. Im trying to fix some things, I hope to find a new job soon and learn the guitar. Improve my style when I have the money, already researching on it! How…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 11:34 AM
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Hahah i cant believe i shared one of my biggest insecurities online! What you said makes a lot of sense, we were both inexperienced, she probably didnt even knew her body that well or how to communicate. Still the feeling of not being able to reciprocate the pleasure to the person you love most is so disheartening and frustrating. I dont want to feel like that ever again! You are so sweet, you seem lovely too! Thank you for your replies, happy wishes :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 11:26 AM
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Why isnt sex part of an healthy lifestyle? Sex is such a weird topic. Sex is part of everyones life either you are sexually active or not. We are sexual individuals so. Its not really casual sex, more sex without relationship thing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 11:03 AM
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Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 10:59 AM
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Jesus... thats brutal. Im not willing to shag a girl Im not attracted to. Whats the point anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 10:58 AM
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I really appreciate the fact you are so upfront and share your personal experiences with me. One of my biggest insecurities is the fact that I never made my ltr ex gf cum. That hits me so deep I cant express the words. Thats the type of shit that keeps you up at night. An older woman would make a lot of sense but there are a couple of problems. Im 24 but I look young, I use to attract 19-21 girls. Im very naive, I dont have a lot of life experiences so I think I could be easily worked on, that m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:32 AM
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Thats precisely my point. This year I came to a realization lifes way tougher in a lot of aspects than I realized. Tough pills to swallow
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:21 AM
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I mean yeah, but I dont want to have sex with a different girl every month. Not quite a hookup, just 2 young fellas who enjoy the same stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 11:47 PM
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Hey, thanks thats a wholesome answer. That makes me a bit less hopeless. But yeah, thats it really, i think sex is part of the process of growing up, I dont want to be left on the side lines just cause Im choosing not to be in a relationship. Anyway this is all new to me, never actually put much thought into it till now. I wanna be a good lover one day I wanna settle down, I need to explore this! Btw you currently have few FWB? Are you polyamorous or that is totally different? Isnt 1 enough? Jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 11:45 PM
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My fashion sense is shit. Does it make that much of a difference? Honestly unless a girl dresses really poorly or trashy I wont notice if she cute. Is it just me??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 11:37 PM
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Are you average looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 11:34 PM
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I mean, I have an hot body. Is it enough? But I have no fashion sense whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 11:34 PM
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I do just fine in clubs, but im not extremely attractive. So being a guy either you commit to a relationship or get no sex? Thats seems rough lol I imagine I will get tired of not having sex and date someone just to fill in the gap jk
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 11:27 PM
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Yeah, fuck buddy. FWB is fine too. Thats the perks of the job, thats cool! I live in a small town, so i really dont want to fuck anyone in my social vicinity. Dating apps is the most striking idea, but that will make me up my looks and photos for sure. I will be working in a different bigger city soon but coworkers doesnt seem a good idea lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 11:24 PM
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I feel where you getting at. But i think thats leading on for most woman. They hope to keep you close if they give you sex, and you just stay for the easy sex. I would never date someone just to have sex with lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 11:20 PM
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True, but i feel like most women feel more vulnerable than men in dating scenes. Girls might think im a player or just want to hook up and use them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 11:16 PM
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