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Social IssuesGingerAphrodite/r/MensRights21/09/18 02:52 AM
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I'll admit that it is primarily American, my bad. And again. You asked a question, I answered. Kind of like how I will continue answering your petty private messages where you called me a crybaby :-)
/r/MGTOW214/01/19 02:04 AM
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Dude is used as a gender-neutral term almost all over the world and I made an educated guess based on your post history about your gender. Also I'm not some social justice Warrior so if you're trying to take a dig at me by saying that it's not really going to work. Also, you posed a question and I responded to it so in a way, you literally asked for it my opinion and thereby my essay. Sorry I care more about this subreddit than you seem to :-) have a great night
/r/MGTOW214/01/19 01:34 AM
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Look dude, I fully support men going their own way. And not in the bullshit misandrist way of saying "yes please by all means leave women alone". I believe that if men have found that having women in their lives has become toxic to them then they absolutely should cut that out of their life, in the same way I believe a woman should cut men out of her life if she feels they are toxic to her. I think it's great that there's a community forming to provide a support network for guys who would rather…
/r/MGTOW214/01/19 01:17 AM
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Comedy can still be negative and hateful. I wouldn't get this tattoo, but I see how somebody who's made a lot of mistakes in their lives might want to. And when the comments are along the lines of I can smell the rot all the way here Old seamen and yeast infection. Kys useless cumsock And Waste of a decent body That's pretty negative and hateful. Not to mention if this is men going their own way why do y'all need to waste time and energy bashing on women and what they choose to do with their bod…
/r/MGTOW214/01/19 01:06 AM
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"r/mgtow2 is for thoughtful, genuine, open discussion about MGTOW and independent male life. Unlike the original r/mgtow we are not overrun with hatred and negativity, and we do not ban everyone who questions us." Well then...
/r/MGTOW214/01/19 12:47 AM
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And if I was male, my testicles would have cringed and shriveled up inside my body the moment I heard his "grab her by the pussy" quote
/r/MensRights13/01/19 06:01 PM
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I've seen plenty of women use the "take this outside" move on other women and men. I'm a woman and was once asked if I wanted to take it outside by another woman... While we were outside under an awning...
/r/PussyPassDenied05/01/19 03:45 AM
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From another commenter: This video lacks context. He cheated on her. In the full video he is drunk and won’t let her leave, blocks her from getting in the car, etc. when she reiterated that she’s leaving and it’s over, he knocks her out. Context is important. The video cuts out early too. He hits her like three more times until she’s unconscious. Then an onlooker comes and tries to stop it and he just picks his girlfriend up and drops her on the asphalt. Then picks her up again and drags her to …
/r/PussyPassDenied05/01/19 03:25 AM
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Learn the difference between putting words in someones mouth and explaining interpretation
/r/MensRights05/12/18 10:01 PM
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This somehow made my uterus recoil. I think I cringed that hard at sharing a gender with this person.
/r/MensRights05/12/18 09:04 AM
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That's how it went only according to the Feminist history writing (which can be found in school books and elsewhere, too). How and why the countries in the west became democratized and governments started to give people, not just women, rights and liberties, is another story, the true one. To me this statement read as if you were saying "Sure feminists say they fought for an earned women's rights but the truth is far from that" as if they played no role in earning those rights and that society j…
/r/MensRights22/11/18 12:57 PM
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Okay see this is the kind of toxic attitude I see brewing around here a lot. It's one thing to disagree with the feminist movement and especially what it's become, but to imply that the feminist movement has historically done nothing and had no societal or cultural or legal impact negates the efforts of the women who did fight for my right to vote etc. I'm not saying they are the sole cause, but their efforts should not be trivialize or ignored either as if they had no impact whatsoever.
/r/MensRights21/11/18 09:07 PM
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I'm also taking the piss
/r/MensRights21/11/18 02:41 PM
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The imagery was absolutely hilarious and also immediately made me think of this.
/r/MensRights21/11/18 03:50 AM
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I'm using my magical gender powers to force my ovaries into my labia to create testes as I type. Getting my fallopian tubes cut a week ago has made them far more mobile.
/r/MensRights21/11/18 03:44 AM
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But if I man up then I will be transgender. And it's hard to stop being a vagina when you have when I suppose. Also, how does one be a vagina? Is there something inherently wrong with not being manly? Because you're encouraging men to not be vaginas (whatever that means) which would suggest there's something negative or wrong with being a vagina or not being manly. What about trans men who still have vaginas? Are they held to the same expectation of Manliness? The only proper way to be manly is …
/r/MensRights21/11/18 02:46 AM
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Yeah, when somebody automatically assumes that I have ulterior motives, or responds very defensively to me, I try to remember that they may just be jaded in the same way I have been against other groups in the past. My husband dealt with a lot of issues from the courts in regards to custody over his kids when they were younger and I saw how jaded and angry it has made him so I try to remember that the person responding could have a similar experience and be coming from a place of pain. I just wi…
/r/MensRights21/11/18 02:10 AM
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As someone who has used the "true feminist" line and often stated that I usually use feminist as a place holder for egalitarian to avoid explaining egalitarianism, I'm gonna stop doing that. I'm still not comfortable with the "us vs them" and "feminism vs mens rights" mentality and the "fuck feminism" mentality that I see here so often. That's probably because as a female I have/do benefit from feminism; and I'm not talking about modern manhating feminism, buy my actual rights (owning property, …
/r/MensRights21/11/18 01:26 AM
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You do realize that using the word vagina to insult someone as weak or less than is sexist as fuck right? Your comment implies that if a man isn't macho or masculine or releases stress in a more scientifically female preferred way (ie talking/crying) that he is a vagina/feminine and that that is inherently a bad or negative thing. Before you get your pitchfork out, I agree with your point that we should start talking about, learning about, and encouraging men to practice coping methods that work…
/r/MensRights20/11/18 06:19 PM
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I call myself a feminist. I also called myself a men's rights activist. That's because most people don't understand the term egalitarian and I get tired of explaining myself. There's nothing wrong with identifying as a feminist, but there's something wrong with being a shitty person.
/r/MensRights12/11/18 03:12 PM
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Yeah that's demonstratably untrue, at least historically speaking. Part of the KKK rules includes: VI. Racial "To maintain forever white supremacy." "To maintain forever the God- given supremacy of the white race." Every Klansman has unqualifiedly affirmed that he will "faithfully strive for the eternal maintenance of white supremacy." And this is considered a major offense (all from the same site) 5 Unworthy racial or Klan conduct: "Being responsible for the polluting of Caucasian blood through…
/r/MensRights07/11/18 05:08 AM
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Good job ignoring the next sentence. You are absolutely correct that if the genders were reversed men would face more of a backlash than women. Not all feminists agree with starting initiatives that further in equality in their favor. Not all members of a social group or movement agree with everything that group/movement does. It's really not that hard to understand.
/r/MensRights06/11/18 10:15 PM
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Clearly, the feminist movement received backlash for having a woman like that as their keynote speaker. You are absolutely correct that if the genders were reversed men would face more of a backlash than women. (Also political party issues are a lot different from social issues. If any political party had a criminal as a speaker they would likely face a backlash.) I think it's wrong that one party or group would have more of a backlash than another for the same actions. Double standards abound i…
/r/MensRights06/11/18 09:12 PM
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I absolutely agree, but if you do that from outside of the movement you're going to be treated as opposition and somebody who's simply trying to damage the movement as opposed to reform or change it. If you do it from within the movement it's going to be more effective. And trying to reform a movement still means you support it just not exactly the way it is. I support feminism but I don't support man-hating or extreme feminist perspectives. I still consider myself to be a part of the feminist m…
/r/MensRights06/11/18 06:49 PM
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Okay, I have a question then. How do you change the image of a movement if you don't get involved and encourage that movement to change to what you want it to be? It's easy to sit here and bitch about what the feminist movement and the leaders of feminism are saying. I don't like a lot of what they're saying (probably because I see myself as more egalitarian). But if nobody with a more moderate or different opinion ever gets involved in that movement and nobody who disagrees ever starts identify…
/r/MensRights06/11/18 05:41 PM
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I decided to do a little research because I hadn't known that. It is worth noting she was considered to have a secondary role in the crime in a group of 6. I do not say that to mitigate her guilt, I only point it out because your comment implies she acted alone and was solely responsible for her crime and that it was gender motivated. The truth is she committed that heinous act with 2 other women and three men. Although it has been suggested that the victims sexuality was a motivating factor, th…
/r/MensRights06/11/18 05:31 PM
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Wait, are you saying that it is foolish to suggest that not everybody supports the extremist ideals that are associated with their much larger social group/movement?
/r/MensRights06/11/18 02:00 PM
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Well this is kind of ridiculous. A person's view on societal problems is as personal and individual as their views on politics or religion. Nist because somebody identifies as supporting/being part of a group doesn't mean they blindly agree with everything that group stands for. The term feminist tells you just as much about what somebody believes as calling them a Democrat, a republican, a Christian, or just about any other large group term. Every large group has subgroups. Just because somebod…
/r/MensRights06/11/18 01:35 PM
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He might want to look up recording laws in his State just to be safe and make sure he can't get in trouble for recording the class without other people's consent/knowledge.
/r/MensRights17/10/18 04:36 PM
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Neither is a bad or invalid opinion/option. Mockery and bullying is mean and therefore considered bad. Instead of coming across as an equal/supportive idea/opinion it comes across more like: OP: I'm replacing a person with a sex toy. Commenter: Im RePlAcInG a pErSoN wItH A SeX ToY!1!1!!
/r/MensRights12/10/18 03:18 PM
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Fair enought. I didn't mean to imply women aren't part of the problem because I've definitely seen my fair share of women pulling this shit. Its right up the line with "I want a sensitive man.... Men who cry are lil bitches."
/r/MensRights26/09/18 12:55 AM
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Ok. I'll do this your way. Really? You preface your "question" with a wall of text defining the "correctness" of your position. If you expect people to answer your genuinely honest questions maybe you shouldn't start by telling them how right your stance is. A wall of text explaining my experiences and understanding of the phrase toxic masculinity. Why is your understanding/definition more "right" or "correct" than mine? I never argued I was more correct, I explained the only context through whi…
/r/MensRights25/09/18 09:39 PM
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I'm really loving all the defensiveness against somebody who's legitimately asking questions and trying to understand your perspective. Yes all I have to go on are my personal experiences. Sorry for not having every experience in the world. I can only tell you what I've seen and ask what you seen that makes your opinion so different than mine which is what I tried to do. God forbid we try to have a reasonable conversation between the genders on a subReddit that's supposed to be dedicated to enco…
/r/MensRights25/09/18 07:48 PM
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I've only heard of toxic masculinity in reference to things like "men shouldn't cry", or other concepts that imply that "real men" have to bury their emotions, be "tough", drink beer and work on cars, "real men aren't stay at home dads/ are the primary providers of their family", "real men don't dance/paint/write/ become nurses or teachers" etc. My understanding has always been that theres nothing wrong with encouraging men to take these roles, but that toxic masculinity comes when boys are sham…
/r/MensRights25/09/18 07:38 PM
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I have a long comment that I was going to post that better clarifies what I was trying to get across but I don't know if it will be met with people just knee jerk reacting or if people would actually bother reading it.
/r/MensRights22/09/18 03:50 PM
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I was trying to figure out a good way to word that general idea. I've never taken "teach men not to rape" as literal. I've always taken it as "we need to teach a clearer understanding of consent" and that the focus was on teaching men because a) there are statistically more male rapists (I'm not trying to negate female rapists or male victims) and b) from a female's perspective there certainly seems to be bigger issues with the way men are taught about consent (by society as a whole. Ie the perv…
/r/MensRights21/09/18 06:59 PM
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Glad to help :-)
/r/MensRights21/09/18 11:01 AM
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Here's a breakdown of funding by the National Cancer Institute
/r/MensRights21/09/18 07:11 AM
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I appreciate your due diligence and that makes it 10 times better
/r/MensRights21/09/18 05:04 AM
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I would probably take 2 separate weeks and use the remaining 14 days to get long weekends, because we like back country camping. This is why my husband and i have been considering moving to Montana and living off the land or up to Canada. ETA: Americans have plenty of opportunities to spend our money. We do it by living paycheck to paycheck because of our subpar minimum wage.
/r/MensRights18/09/18 12:31 PM
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Oh you sweet summer child. The U.S. has no mandatory annual leave. And we're supposed to be a "developed nation". Here's the stats for annual leave by country: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_minimum_annual_leave_by_country
/r/MensRights18/09/18 12:25 PM
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Gods that would be wonderful... and I'm just talking about the minimum annual leave LOL.
/r/MensRights18/09/18 12:22 PM
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My husband works nights and sleeps half the day so he barely gets to see our son except on weekends. I wish he'd had more time before going back to work.
/r/MensRights18/09/18 12:54 AM
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It's nice that they offer that much and that your company works with them to allow a little more if they're ok with taking the pay hit.
/r/MensRights18/09/18 12:53 AM
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Nope, U.S.
/r/MensRights18/09/18 12:52 AM
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That's so messed up. Its like how people get fired for using family medical leave act here in the US, but the companies just list some other reason for firing them.
/r/MensRights18/09/18 12:51 AM
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"Maternity leave and pay were originally designed to protect the health of mothers and children by providing adequate medical and nursing care in childbirth, to lessen the financial burden of childbearing and ensure a reasonable period free from excessive labour." -http://www.striking-women.org/module/workplace-issues-past-and-present/maternity-and-paternity-leave-and-pay Maternity leave waa literally created to give women adequate time to heal from child birth without risk of being fired. Women…
/r/MensRights18/09/18 12:44 AM
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I think the separate subs came as a result of an Us vs Them mentality and has only worked to encourage that mentality. It should have been more of a separate but equal thing but then again I guess history tells us everything we need to know about separate but equal ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/MensRights17/09/18 08:06 PM
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Yay! Thanks :-)
/r/MensRights17/09/18 07:50 PM
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Fellow female here. This shit drives me insane. There's no reason that a father can't supplement with a variety of formulas or that the mother cannot pump and send milk with the child. Millions of women send pumped breast milk with their child to the babysitter and to the in-laws and to relatives houses for overnight visits. Why the hell can't they do it for the father of the child if breastfeeding is that important to them? Breastfeeding is absolutely not an excuse to stop a father from seeing …
/r/MensRights17/09/18 07:48 PM
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I don't think there is a problem with having subreddits specifically for men's issues and for women's issues. I think the problem comes in when men aren't allowed to comment on women's issues and women aren't allowed to comment on men's issues. Men and women face very different issues in society and their day-to-day lives and it's completely reasonable to give those issues their own spaces, but the conversation shouldn't be limited to the gender affected by those problems. People need to realize…
/r/MensRights17/09/18 07:38 PM
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I asked on your post because this seems like a somewhat relevant place to ask my question. It was directed more towards the user base in general than you specifically. And I would think that r/feminism wouldn't have any reason to bash or ostracize men but I see a lot of complaints about it and I see a lot of hypocrisy from self-proclaimed feminists in general ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/MensRights17/09/18 07:32 PM
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Relevant question from a female here: how welcome are females on this subreddit? I just found this subreddit and I consider myself a feminist in the sense that I believe men and women should be equal. I usually call myself an egalitarian because I don't like the negative associations that come with feminism and I am very outspoken about the unfairness I see towards men in society in fact I'm pretty sure I complain about it more than my husband usually does. I'd really like to follow along with a…
/r/MensRights17/09/18 07:27 PM
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It really bothers me that most men don't get maternity leave. My husband was lucky to get a week off when our son was born and he only got that because they were training a back up driver. Most of the time off came before our son was born too. Now he gets "1 week of approved time off" each year but it's unpaid and impossible to actually take because they never have a back up driver available. Men and women should both have a sizable amount of time off to bond with their new child. Yes woman migh…
/r/MensRights17/09/18 07:23 PM
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