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| 1 | Blue-piller watches his little cupcake turn into a big cupcake, side of hamster [x-post /r/confession]I've learned that when women grow secure in a relationship, their motivation to take care of their appearance falls off. Just as important, it's not what a man says that gives them this security, it's what he does. Talking gets you nowhere; you've got to leave her until she starts taking action. If you stay in the relationship, you're rewarding bad behavior. She has to understand that her good behavior (taking care of her appearance), is rewarded by you staying with her; bad behavior (neglecting… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/13 06:08 PM |
| 1 | How women think, from a fake psychic experience [first post]Wow, this post is a great demonstration of the vast difference between what women say ("Is he looking for a relationship or just...?"), and what they feel ("Women were never scared about this part, always interested in this kind of guy", "One minute later they wanted to be with this guy only interested on a dirty..", "with her on the first date and steal their... She is happy with the idea"). I guess if a man can uncover enough evidence like this, he will learn to disregard everything women say,… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/13 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Why promiscuity devalues women and not men. Analysis of the double standard.I think a lot of men have a built-in meter that measures value in women; maybe its learned. If supply is scarce, value is high; like women on the frontier in the 1800s. If supply is plentiful, value is low; like Florida on Spring Break. A man with a good supply of feminine attention begins to desire higher quality, and variety. A man with little or no feminine attention is satisfied with lower quality. Pick-up & seduction coaches are trying to guide their rookie "players" from low-experience/low… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/13 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Don't let her change you. She doesn't know what she wants.In my experience, you will not please a woman by obeying or compromising with her. That's because a woman doesn't get security from what a man does for her, she gets it from what she does for him. Ideally, a man needs to keep a woman partly insecure in order to maintain her attraction for him; and, he needs to give her some security by letting her please him. In a "provider" role, the man furnishes the opportunity for her to please him, which in turn, gives her security. By continuing to enjoy h… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/13 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Girls are constantly examining your frame. "You seem safe."In my opinion, the road block is the woman's feelings: "She said this always makes her uncomfortable...". A lot of success with women boils down to managing their feelings. Somewhere in the man-o-sphere I remember viewing a description of the push-pull nature of flirting, and how a man can cycle a woman's feelings between high & low levels of security & comfort in the relationship in order to grow & maintain her attraction. My understanding of the cycle is: 1.) she feels that she is not good eno… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/13 04:51 PM |
| 16 | Always felt something was wrong.Yea, finding out the truth afterward is painful, but at the same time, at least you know its true because it fits your own experience with women. Like captshady, I recently viewed pick-up and red pill blogs for the first time. Unlike the advice I got from relationship "professionals", the red pill helped me untangled the cause and effect laws that are at work in marriages & LTRs. At first, the red pill helped me accept that: (1) women are not like men, (2) it is not a partnership of equals, and … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/13 02:53 PM |
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