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Have a think about why she might be 'giving up.' Is she lacking meaning in her life perhaps due to having your mother to depend on?
/r/RedPillWives02/08/21 10:32 PM
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It's just as true for men as for women. No woman wants her man to cheat and no man wants his partner to cheat. There's also no need for it. If you feel you need to cheat, you're not doing your partner a favour by not doing it 'openly': leave the committed relationship you're in if you want to pursue others sexually or romantically. There is no need for deceit.
/r/RedPillWives02/08/21 02:41 PM
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Partnership is also supposed to be about love and commitment, cheating hurts like hell and we shouldn't hurt others. I feel like this element isn't being taken into account here.
/r/RedPillWives02/08/21 12:32 PM
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Number one thing above all else: make an effort to stay an active presence in her life even if it's hard, if she moves away for college, if she's a difficult teen, if you disagree on politics. Knowing your father cares no matter what is so crucial Edited to say this isn't really answering your question, apologies, but I'll leave it here anyway as I feel so strongly about it
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/21 09:43 PM
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I'd recommend exploring what sides of it you'd most enjoy, as well as the practical stuff. Meal prep? Baking? Gardening? Try and arrange your life to include things that are constructive but also make you really happy x
/r/RedPillWives18/06/21 06:48 AM
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I appreciated this account, thank you x
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/21 02:53 PM
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I'll be brief here. This issue is his issue to deal with, not yours. If he wanted a flawlessly hairless wife he should have waited to marry until he found one--which he never will. Don't take this onto yourself. You can't spend half your life shaving, he needs to get over it and appreciate you or you need to consider divorce. Don't let him make you feel small for having body hair, just like no one should be able to make you feel small for having two ears and a belly button x
/r/RedPillWives06/06/21 08:56 AM
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It sounds like OP is less jealous that he’s giving money to people but more that he has already given strangers more in gifts than he has to her over the course of their relationship, which I feel for you OP. It’s not easy to discuss that kind of feeling
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/21 11:49 PM
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You could focus on things that will improve your family’s lives as a side effect like exploring your own spirituality and interests. When you are happy and fulfilled your family will have a good role model of human worth and how to look after themselves
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/21 08:46 AM
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I had this problem before my current boyfriend. He makes me feel comfortable being whatever I want to be, silly, goofy, singy, serious, excited. It might be finding a person who will let you heal and BE without fear. But that transition into caring less about what others say also came after I went through the trauma of my ex (him and his family, I did nothing but try to fit in and mAke myself small) dumped me suddenly. It was like a switch went in my brain and I stopped giving a shit. Life is a …
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/21 11:53 PM
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If you reread the OP, her job is already causing her stress and damaging her mental health unfortunately
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/21 02:06 PM
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That’s fine while your relationship is fine but if something goes wrong marriage is a good legal protection, especially if one partner is financially reliant on another
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/21 02:05 PM
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🤷‍♀️ he set the tone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 10:50 PM
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Surely that’s a sign that he respects you less than his ex? He sounds resentful and resent is the death of a relationship
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/21 08:47 PM
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Well you’re not!
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/21 08:43 PM
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Honestly I was all for everyone’s comments and advice until you said he stops seeing you as human when you’re struggling or unkempt. You should take a serious look at that and wonder if he can really look after you
/r/RedPillWives26/01/21 08:28 PM
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Ask him what he would make if he was in your position? Get him to understand the impossible position you’re in. It’s his body - it’s not your responsibility to psychically know what his body needs! You’re clearly working your socks off. He needs to put in 30 minutes of effort to write a list of acceptable foods and you can work with the list. If he complains that the food is too plain, simply tell him to add anything he deems is safe for the list.
/r/RedPillWives09/01/21 12:24 AM
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It can only get worse as it goes on, no matter how scared you are of ending it. Don’t be afraid to call the police if he threatens you when you do x
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/21 09:36 AM
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That doesn’t sound like a pipe dream to me, that sounds sensible and sustainable xx
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/20 10:47 PM
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I can’t give you much advice about respecting your husband but it really sounds like you’re heading down a road of stress and feeling trapped. Why don’t you sit down with him and brainstorm a solution where you both live the kind of life you want? Even if it sounds impractical or impossible, just talking about what you want can bring you closer to what you want. For example, when I finish uni we might give up our house and travel. I’ll be the breadwinner for the first time and we’ll go on advent…
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/20 07:39 PM
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He wasn’t being respectful of you, he wouldn’t have behaved that way if you were a man after all. If you have a gut feeling it’s usually correct. Even if you got a frilly pink flag and said ‘yoo hoo!’ someone would have a problem. You’re doing your job and being professional in an environment where that can be hard, rest easy x
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/20 01:35 PM
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My mum was so proud of me for doing this. I was treated like nothing in the end. I cried for an hour then got over him (after a 5 year relationship), made a whole new life. The only way I haven’t yet moved on is that I keep checking if something shitty has happened to him yet that would teach him a lesson ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 09:28 PM
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