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Fully agree, after marrying my loved one and ending cheated and betrayed and having to raise alone our son and all the mess after the divorce (won btw), I promised my self I'll never remarry again, women are unpredictable nowadays and not gonna give anyone this power over my life anymore
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/26 04:04 PM
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Don't be too harsh on yourself, often if not always they end up cheating, because they are "unhappy", so they start some emotional affair then end up cheating fully, which of course they cannot admit
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/26 03:58 PM
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Same here, I'll never remarry again.. Btw they all (women) change after they got all they wanted from you, simply they don't care about your needs, few smart ones know how to keep a man happy
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/26 03:15 PM
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So sorry man, but she has another dude she wants to move with, I actually find her stupid she gave you an advantage to file for divorce first and take some advantage from the offensive she will try with your kids and assets... And do not go with her to the cruise, would be so depressing to pretend the happy family thing while you know she moved over, and trust me once a woman is not in love anymore with you there's nothing you can do to have it back, maybe in some years once she realizes she fuc…
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/26 02:10 PM
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Exactly, the controlling accusations and work trips became frequent and all of a sudden I felt she was distant and cold... I think she confessed, well technically it was me getting words out of her mouth and getting the point while she only said "it happened only once" and "his wife knows about me"... I'm intelligent enough to understand this is bs and probably this was out of desperation to try to make me appreciate her more for being honest (she wasn't really) to give her a chance so she could…
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/25 10:51 PM
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Feel both sad and little because it's 11 years, but also liberated because once you cheat you take responsibility for destroying the marriage and damaging our kid's wellbeing, and I cannot forgive that! There was no point in continuing a marriage with someone who confessed to have had sex with another man "only once", I am too old and intelligent to accept this kind of bs and disrespect. Funny thing she tried crying last days to beg me to not sign the final signature, but it was too late for me!…
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/25 10:34 PM
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Don't know what to say, I understand you don't want to hurt the kids, but you also have a right to be happy and have someone respecting you
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/25 10:23 PM
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Thank you, yeah the workplaces are one of the worst places for cheating, but I never did it, so it takes lots of decisions to do it, I mean nobody can force you to cheat if you don't want to, so it's bs cheaters say
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/25 10:21 PM
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I suspected it since early 2023 since all of a sudden she became more social and wanted to hang out more with colleagues and initially I thought ok she might be stressed with our routines, our kid was like 2 at that time, initially I don't complain but the thing that made me become suspicious is that basically at the same time she became cold distant complaining making jokes about being open marriage, about marriage being heavy, AND she never ever invited me with colleagues so I became suspiciou…
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/25 10:20 PM
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Sorry man, 21 years it's a lot, but I don't think it's a good idea to give her any chances...she seems unsure about her actions, and she cheated... I always say that there's 4 billion women out there and you want to go back to a cheater you treated you like s....it, one needs to process such a decision and complain and be angry and all, but let her go and focus on kids on hobbies etc... She will betray and humiliate you again and you're gonna be angry at your self if you go on wasting time with …
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/25 10:11 PM
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Thank you brother, I agree with you, therapy is useless, we did 2 sessions last year in her country with her female chosen therapist (men and wife are both European but from different countries) , and decided to quit when I realized I was accused of "non communicating" and "mental aggression" while I was the one who was begging my wife to sit down and talk about our issues or have a coffee or moments on our own and she was bitching on me all time, yes I find therapy just a waste of time and mone…
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/25 06:52 PM
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I agree 100% with you!!! I have warned her since we met at university in 2014 that I will forgive her anything except cheating and violence, and the moment I knew she was sleeping with someone else I kept my word!! Men have to understand, especially if you have kids, that any kind of acceptance of serious disrespect will leave a mark on their kids' future relationship as well
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/25 03:53 PM
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Hi, sounds like a complicated situation but if I was you I would kick her out of the home and only let her stay occasionally for sleeping over to see her kids, it's her right, but I couldn't be under the same roof with a cheater, the moment I had proofs mine was cheating I went straight to the lawyer and initiated divorce! Do not accept her manipulation
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/25 02:11 PM
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Go back home and act cool until you get a strategy to get the best out of this divorce...you'll thank yourself later
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/25 09:37 PM
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Time to leave buddy, not worth a marriage like that
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/25 08:53 PM
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Hi, yes of course once it’s done it’s done and she knows my personality…funny thing is she suggested we stay friends and spend holidays together🤦‍♂️ I never liked her colleagues and got quite suspicious since the start in early 2023 when all of a sudden she informed me “she needs new friends” but I kept my mouth shot for a couple of months, then when I asked to be invited at least once, she always had some ridiculous excuses and got suspicious.. Her colleagues are all some more or less failed ma…
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/25 04:18 PM
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Yes, of course, but I’ll do anything in my power to let my son see his mother and I have agreed to her seeing him or taking him(only if it’s in Europe or a safe civilized country) during summer so she could spend time with him, I don’t want to hurt my son with reveling on her, it’s not fair! The crazy thing is my wife wants our son as a main parent from age 12, and I said yes lying to her face so could obtain the signature for the lawyers, but never ever I will let my son go back with her in 8 y…
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/25 08:40 PM
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Hi, thank you for your message…I am trying to understand your point and I agree with the fact I wasn’t perfect and I contributed myself to all this mess, I initiated lots of arguments, a couple of times I yelled at my wife, I said stupid things I am not proud of and I apologized for them several times, trying to always do my part in improving/maturing and being a better husband and person for my wife… BUT my wife has been followed around for 11 years basically and obtained the marvelous family a…
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/25 08:31 PM
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Sorry, I meant like someone who has an incredible courage to say or do things and never admit her actions or faults or take whatever responsibility
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/25 09:26 PM
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…forgot to say she had the guts few weeks ago to say it’s my fault our marriage is not continuing because I was “possessive” and “controlling” (of course in 2023 when all of a sudden she was so into exiting with colleagues and NEVER ONCE invited me, I should have been happy to let her go out more🤦‍♂️) …AND recently she said “you don’t have to end it like this”, after I go ask her but do we have a chance at working it out, I mean did you consider my 3 requests (see above), basically saying it’s o…
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/25 08:56 PM
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I understand you, time to stay strong and focus on your future, women can be like this meaning they get all of a sudden bored and cheat because they're always unhappy such as small spoiled kids, there's nothing to do but starting fresh your NEW life
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/25 05:43 PM
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Time to leave her buddy...now at worst you'll have to pay child support, later on as married and divorced (yes, with someone like her you will end up divorced or as à forever simp) you will pay 1/2 of your assets and child support and alimony
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/25 07:54 PM
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