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| – | Hearing her laugh is the hardest part....Sound familiar. She is fucking someone else, or has a man she wants to fuck. Take some solace in the fact that affairs have a 2% chance of a long term (+5 years) relationship. Given this there is a 98% chance she’ll be back. By that point you’ll have hit the gym, leveled up in your career, realized you save a shit ton of money, built a tight-knit group of male friends, and been living life solely for yourself. With all that in mind, no wonder she’ll be back. However, after she through your life … | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/10/24 08:42 AM |
| 3 | Our son had cancer, we are over now.There’s a lot of tough stories in this forum, this one is particularly rough. The comment about ‘he’ll never be able to have his own family, we’re it for him’ certainly grabbed me. It hurt to read- and while my read of the scenario may be off, two things came to mind 1) it sounds like you have other kids. I may not have any of my own, but I do have nieces and soon a nephew. Maybe he’ll get to be the super uncle 2) Perhaps he’ll be able to adopt. I could be totally wrong that this is also off the… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/24 10:16 PM |
| 4 | It’s not what you thinkPretty much exactly a kg (2.2pounds) per week every week, for a year? I’m not a fan of organized religion, but I’m a huge fan of finding inner-strength and discipline. Whatever inspired this change, keep going! | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/24 09:38 AM |
| 1 | If you could save it...would you?Agreed. This is the red flag for me. You mention she’s focused on the here and now, and you’ve got a plan. 99% of the time that’s how it is. Accept that this is a biological difference and it gets easier. Let’s be very clear however. You are the source of your depression and alcoholism. Take ownership of this, no one is responsible for your thoughts, feelings, or actions but you. You can’t fix anyone but yourself. Fix that and she may come around. I’d look into married red pill on Reddit. The di… | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/08/24 11:01 AM |
| 1 | How is your online dating experience after separation?Bumble>Tinder (including for hookups). Buy the lifetime premium (it’s $300 or you can spend like $7.99/week). I’m 35 and in London, UK for reference. Curious if anyone else finds tinder better in major cities western cities? I’ve only matched with hookers on tinder (not what I’m looking for). Had several okay to great flings through bumble, two hottest girls were on hinge, though didn’t close deal (probably would now- it takes practice!). Figuring things out is likely one of four things 1) hooku… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/24 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Struggling with STBXW’s glow-upYou can’t control your stbxw. You can control you. There are four things you can do to glow up rapidly 1) improve your fitness 2) up level your fashion slowly (no point buying new clothes when you’re droppping 10-20% body weight and the first 10% will be gone in 2 months. Pick your ideal target and do the math of how far out you are. 3) New haircut (if you don’t have a good one- spend a bit on money). Drop 5-10% of weight first, you’ll credit the hair cut. 4) Do not cry in front of your wife or … | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/07/24 05:08 PM |
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