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| 5 | I don’t understand how people meet women in college.I'm a guy. And yea, there's a section on bumble just for meeting local friends. I'm not gay, but it sounded very gay to me when someone suggested I try it. I mean you're swiping on potential dudes. I put it off for a whole month before finally giving it a try. Glad I finally tried it though. | /r/seduction | 23/02/19 02:09 PM |
| 2 | I don’t understand how people meet women in college.I spend a lot of time at the gym. My most frequent spot besides work and home. Nice to have some good gym partners to spot you, motivate you, bullshit in the sauna with, give that double eyebrow raise to when a smokeshow walks past | /r/seduction | 23/02/19 01:43 AM |
| 32 | I don’t understand how people meet women in college.I used to think this as well. Moved to a new city and went right to work full time. Was trapped in social isolation. After 3 years, I decided to stop sucking at having a social life and started doing something about it. Started meeting guys on bumble. The "BFF" section. Plenty dudes just like you on there. Sounds extremely cringeworthy, for me at least, I don't even like typing it lol, but I met up with a cool dude at a bar, talked about life, chicks, etc, then we both met up with a third bumble… | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 09:45 PM |
| 3 | How do I talk to girls?ah, that's it! Thanks for sharing. People should google it and have a read | /r/seduction | 26/03/18 07:25 PM |
| 2 | How do I talk to girls?Just say you're trying to see your form, don't go for a PR. Try not to make any grunts or seem like you're straining lol. Also, pro-tip I accidently left out, make sure there are thumbnails of shirtless mirror pics on your camera roll that are visible when she's about to start recording, or have them easily prone to an accidental swipe | /r/seduction | 26/03/18 07:20 PM |
| 2 | How do I talk to girls?I mean that is a favor. You'll definitely get her attention | /r/seduction | 26/03/18 07:16 PM |
| 51 | How do I talk to girls?The best way to start conversation with girls (or anyone really) is to ask them for a favor. It's been proven that asking for a favor (something small, nothing crazy) makes you more appealing to another person, even though it sounds backwards. So how do you apply this at the gym? As another guy said, ask for a spot. One of my favorites is asking a girl to record you doing a set. Maybe she'll ask you to record her? While she's recording, in a humerous manner, tell her to put her number in your ph… | /r/seduction | 26/03/18 11:22 AM |
| 35 | I’m deleting tinder, instagram, bumble etc off my phone for good and learning how to actually socialize with peopleDamn, just described my whole life | /r/seduction | 10/03/18 06:33 PM |
| 35 | Approached a girl at the gym and she said she's in high schoolI know a girl that's in highschool and is 19, she's about to graduate. Could've been the same scenario. Instead of going " oh fuck!" And walking away, you should've at least got the details lol | /r/seduction | 01/03/18 05:19 PM |
| 1 | How doomed are you if you don't meet your SO in high school or college, especially due to the long work hours in the real world?I barely talked to girls in high school and college. I downloaded some popular free dating apps some time after and met plenty girls since then. I feel the opposite of "doomed." I feel like I could have a different girl weekly if I didn't have a gf, while in HS and college I was wondering if I'd ever have a gf. | /r/seduction | 22/02/18 09:08 PM |
| 1 | So I plan on kissing this girl tonight, here's how I'm gonna do itWell in that case, yes, kiss her, but don't rely on the hand warmer fantasy because of the reason above lol, and make it good | /r/seduction | 17/02/18 02:14 PM |
| 1 | So I plan on kissing this girl tonight, here's how I'm gonna do itIdk man, it might work, but this just sounds like some 6th grade romance, or something you'd see on a hallmark card. I think you're over thinking it, just get her back to your place and have some drinks. The kind of romance you described would get you a kiss under the mistletoe on an ABC family movie, but I doubt it will lead to the hot, sweaty, adult sex you're both actually hoping for. Besides, your whole plan would be ruined if she brings gloves. | /r/seduction | 17/02/18 02:05 PM |
| 8 | How should I approach this situation?This is typically done at the YMCA | /r/seduction | 13/02/18 02:20 PM |
| 4 | How should I approach this situation?Get her number, meet up for a game of HORSE. Remove a piece of clothing for each letter the opponent scores. My personal strategy is to let the girl score on me, so she eventually sees my cock and gets piping hot. It may be tempting to score on her so you can peek at her naked, but trust me, it's hard to progress from this and it usually pays dividends to be the loser here. | /r/seduction | 13/02/18 02:10 PM |
| 2 | What does a typical day with your girlfriend or fwb look like?Man I wish my dog would wake up 4 hours after me | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 11:18 AM |
| 2 | When is too soon to date exclusively?There's probably no definitive answer and it all depends on the case and the people. That's just what I did, but I hear about some guys saying "I met a great girl last week and today I just made her my girlfriend" which sounds crazy to me, but maybe for that it was completely normal. If it were me, I'd keep girls that I'm not too sure about on rotation (either because of looks or lifestyle), but if I came across a really good one, I'm going to try to give priority to make sure that's the one I k… | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 11:17 AM |
| 1 | When is too soon to date exclusively?Me and my gf didn't put a title on it until after 2 months, but we were exclusive since the day we met. | /r/seduction | 02/02/18 06:26 PM |
| 13 | What does a typical day with your girlfriend or fwb look like?Wake up 4 hours before her, go to gym, read, she wakes up and disturbs the reading, hang around on couch and cuddle or something, maybe go to the pool (she usually doesn't come), shower (w/o her), we eat, lay around some more, I leave to go read again, she will find a way to disturb that again, maybe watch a movie, I fall asleep watching the movie. Repeat the next day and then go back to work for the week. | /r/seduction | 02/02/18 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Girl Stops Make Out - What Did I Do Wrong?Yeah this happened to me a few times. I cut my losses and move on. If I'm on tinder, and we get alone and don't fuck, or (even worse) I'm rejected a kiss lol, I don't think I've ever seen one of them again. I can't get rejected an advance and go chill with that same girl again.. what are we supposed to do? It's like you said, you just hung out for the rest of the time and kissed her goodbye. It's ruined. The chix you wanna be with are the ones that are dying to fuck you | /r/seduction | 25/01/18 11:50 PM |
| 17 | What does a guy who is not "boring" do?All I do is go to the gym and read books, yet, I still fucks. It's not about what you do or don't do, like or dont like, just go talk to girls man. Let me put it this way: if a girl was boring as shit, and literally sat with you on a couch saying "I don't really like to do anything" but was smiling at you and took off her bra, would you refuse to fuck? All you gotta do is flirt with them my dude. Especially if you're just looking to hookup, too easy! You can create any image you want to secure t… | /r/seduction | 24/01/18 12:49 AM |
| 3 | Don't know if this is considered a cold approach, but holy shit I just talked to the first girl ever on the streetYeah my window seat and LTR was more important than a potentially escalating convo with some broad on a plane. I'm just saying that this chick was willing to talk to anything, probably even a printed cutout of a face | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 02:19 PM |
| 17 | Don't know if this is considered a cold approach, but holy shit I just talked to the first girl ever on the streetWasn't a loss, she was like a 7 at best, and I'm in a LTR. Just demonstrating what chix are capable of | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 01:02 PM |
| 129 | Don't know if this is considered a cold approach, but holy shit I just talked to the first girl ever on the streetI was just on a plane and there was a decent looking chick sitting in the Isle seat, so I asked if the window seat next to her was taken. She starts talking to me about everything while the plane is boarding, asking where I live, where I work, etc. From an outsiders perspective, it definitely looked like we were flirting. Then an old lady asks if the seat between us is taken. I figured the girl would say "let me move over" to be closer to me so we can continue talking. Instead she says "no, go r… | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Impossible for me to grow facial hair and I look babyface to the max. Any possible medical reasons for this? What should I do?Same here. I first had to start trimming chest hair this year, when just last year it was negligible, fuzz pretty much, completely non existent a couple years ago | /r/seduction | 14/01/18 04:58 AM |
| 2 | Is it bad if I'm 20 years old and I have decided to give up with going for girls?If you haven't fucked before, just fucking anything will turn on a sense that you've never had before to obtain new lays. Your body will realize it's missing something, and try to find it again, probably crave it. I'm sure a heroin addict had no idea where to find heroin 5 years before he started using, but now his brain depends on him being able to find it | /r/seduction | 14/01/18 04:54 AM |
| 2 | Impossible for me to grow facial hair and I look babyface to the max. Any possible medical reasons for this? What should I do?When I was 19-20, I couldn't grow shit. I'm talking bare, maybe a shit-stasche. Now I'm 23 and I'd say I'm about halfway to a full thick beard, maybe 75%. But it still makes the appearance of a decent beard when it's short. I suspect it will be full in a couple years at this rate. Just give it time my friend. | /r/seduction | 14/01/18 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Logistics after getting her back to your place, what's your move?She will probably move closer to you, but you have a better chance if you do it yourself. Just continually touch her more and more. Use alcohol if you can in the beginning, it makes the whole process stupid easy | /r/seduction | 14/01/18 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Logistics after getting her back to your place, what's your move?Forgot to mention the details. This was my default move that worked nearly every time. The twin bed was actually perfect because it forced tight cuddling, while buzzed, just start getting closer and closer to her, as in like making more of your body touch hers while the movie goes on. Your face will start touching, and then you kinda just go for it. At that rate, I can't even forsee a situation where you two don't end up making out, and only if she's prude will this not lead to sex | /r/seduction | 13/01/18 11:43 PM |
| 7 | Logistics after getting her back to your place, what's your move?Man, this was my exact situation when I was in the army. Now that I think of it, if I used to pull this off, anything should be possible. I used to live in cramped barracks, that were similar to a dorm room, and all that was in there was two twin beds, one for you and one for your roommate, and a fridge, microwave, and desk. I used to reel chicks I met online into this barracks (which had a 10:00 curfew by the way) and get them drunk on 4 loko, while watching movies that I pirated on my laptop. … | /r/seduction | 13/01/18 11:37 PM |
| 9 | girl is really into me but I don't know how to take the next step as an awkward virginLol when I read the "compliment the fuck out of her" I imagined the scene in superbad where (I can't remember the character names) the dude shows up to the party and the girl he's into is drunk af, and instead of fucking her, he kept his clothes on and kept calling her beautiful or wonderful or whatever the hell he was saying. Then she pukes on him. Please tell me you're not this guy | /r/seduction | 13/01/18 11:19 PM |
| 3 | Is it dangerous?Oral can definitely lead to many different STDs. Don't even accept a BJ if you haven't seen the girl's test results. Condom play only. I work at a clinic that tests for and treats STDs, the most common ones I see are gonorrhea and chlamydia, but every now and then we get someone test positive for HIV. For the most part, unless they've had symptoms, they're all surprised, and thought they were clean, and have no idea how long they've had the disease for. Many don't even know who they got it from. | /r/seduction | 13/01/18 06:48 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with rejection when you have very little experienceDude, get a clean shave, or use a guard to grind that messy facial hair to a stubble, especially that stasche. Go to a men's barber shop and ask for a low skin fade, scizzor cut the top. Just this could easily bump you up into a whole different realm of chix you have access to. The 5'7 part is harder to work with, but definitely not impossible. The good thing is, shorter guys look massive fast when they start putting on muscle, so if you don't already, hit the gym hard a few times a week. At 5'7… | /r/seduction | 12/01/18 12:34 AM |
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