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| 8 | Don’t want anyone.Same issue dude ….its tough to open your heart again after these crazy’s 🤪 have torn it up. I am seeing a beautiful woman that seems to really like me, she has a career, financially stable, physically fit and in many ways thinks similar to how men think about relationships. I should be hook line and sinker right? But after 22 years of marriage, it’s not easy to let the guard down after all I’ve been told things like this before only to find it not so. Good luck take it day by day and try to reco… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/05/24 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Just Like That, 26 Years.It’s about you now. I have a similar issue . Except my ex drinks 1.5 bottles of wine a day. On top of that a shot here or there chasing down an adderall and Wellbutrin and who knows what else kind of medications. 22 years later I’ve had enough of her bullshit. I have no issues with medication to help you get back on your feet or out of a depressed state. It only stands to reason that these drugs on top of alcohol is going change or keep your mind in a fucked up place overtime. Especially with no… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/03/24 10:35 AM |
| 4 | Going thought a divorceTime is the answer ….its a head war until it’s not. Pray, cry and get it out of your system. Most of all stay as sober as possible. Vent here with men who understand what you’re feeling. It’s not the answer I wanted to hear either. But this is the way. Stay strong | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 10:06 AM |
| 12 | I'm allowed to use refried beans againI can finally jam music throughout the house ….so many stupid rules or her dislikes ….made our house boring ….now I’m jamming music all through the house and patio…I love it | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/02/24 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Time to go?Maybe she should try hormone replacements. Maybe Get the juices flowing again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/02/24 06:39 PM |
| 1 | She wants everythingStay strong …don’t let her bully you and take advantage of your emotional state. Get an attorney, there are set formulas already in place for this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/02/24 01:44 PM |
| 2 | CounselingAdd some Wellbutrin and adderall to this equation oh and don’t forget the bottle to bottle and half of wine per day to her regiment. Her therapist sees nothing wrong with this cocktail says if she is prescribed the meds then it’s being monitored by her doctor….i must be the crazy one here. This will just end well for her, no one seems to care not even her friends. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/02/24 01:30 PM |
| 2 | CounselingYou are so fucking correct …it’s sickening | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/02/24 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Got cheated on, feel like a simp.Exactly | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/24 02:13 PM |
| 5 | Ruminating, almost non-stopGood post dude | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/24 10:45 AM |
| 7 | Ruminating, almost non-stopI feel ya …same thing brewing for me here. Time will heal us…it’s a fight until then, all I can do is stay strong and keep working on me. It’s cliche and I’m tired of hearing it but people say get a hobby keep your mind busy…not easy when she pops into your mind regardless of what you’re doing. It’s a struggle but time will heal and my faith in god will guide me on the right path. Good luck….stay strong 💪 | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/24 10:43 AM |
| 1 | It’s been a month here is an updateStay strong …you got this! | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/02/24 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Wife ask to split day after my dad diedCondolences on your dad. Stay strong, don’t make too many moves while your emotions are running high. Take care of your mom. Get an attorney, you’ll more than likely gonna need one. Even if she somewhat sane now, she probably won’t be as the process continues. Good luck | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/02/24 11:04 AM |
| 12 | What do young women care about these days? I guess having a baby together wasn’t enough. Being a father to her son wasn’t enough. Moving across the country for her wasn’t enough. Buying her gifts wasn’t enough. Getting married wasn’t enough. Buying a family home wasn’t enough.They feed each other bullshit…and crazily they believe it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/02/24 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Hard time getting good sleepI feel ya…stay strong | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/01/24 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Feeling pretty lowThis! Well said | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/24 11:10 AM |
| 7 | Walked away from my wife and her daughterCall your folks, you need some family around you if that’s possible. People are evil, many here on this sub feel your pain …..really ….know that we do… stay strong, keep the faith and keep moving forward. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/12/23 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Am I wrong for losing interest based on this?Run away | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/12/23 01:33 AM |
| 5 | Do you Wonder if She Thinks of You?More like “embrace the suck” | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/12/23 08:43 PM |
| 5 | Post Divorce final updateThat’s is a fucking beautiful thing right there…great story …good for you. I agree on the selection of a new companion. I’ve been fortunate to date and be with many woman after my separation. It has been eye opening for me as well. Be selective, get what is right for you! Being selfish isn’t always a bad thing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/12/23 12:02 PM |
| 9 | I'm not strong enough for thisDon’t start drinking ….it only makes it worst ….hides the pain only for a short time. Read some books ….hit the gym. Call a friend that will help you and listen….good luck man …time is what you need, it will get better | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/12/23 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Legal separation questionCheck that you say you have an agreement or legally separation agreement? Either way seeing an attorney is the way to go. Good luck | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/12/23 10:41 AM |
| 3 | Legal separation questionBest advice go see an attorney. With no agreement in place, you’ll need a professional help to navigate this properly | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/12/23 10:40 AM |
| 2 | Cancer sucks, Divorce is worsePraying for you. do you have a relative that can help you thru this? Not only financially but also help you navigate the legal process? To start open your own account that she can not access. Pay only the bills that are require for YOU to live on. You need someone around you to help protect you while you’re dealing with your sickness. It angers me that this woman is kicking you while you are down. Good luck, man | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/11/23 09:01 AM |
| 19 | I f*cked up. I just want my family backBrother get some help….thats a beautiful woman you’ve described, and you fucked up …that’s right….I get it we’ve been there I’m 61 and here I am …a survivor…you do the same. Vent here ….get a friend you can get with face to face that doesn’t judge and lets you cry….most of all stop the drinking it’s a killer on so many levels….amongst the millions (a guess) its also killed my marriage. Hang in there brother…it will get better one day… | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/11/23 09:23 PM |
| 2 | 3.5 years post separationThat’s a beautiful thing | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/11/23 04:33 PM |
| 2 | It gets easier, right?What he said …do that …make yourself better | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/11/23 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Just need to talkBeing separated doesn’t help. Read another op on that “ why woman won’t date separated men” I’m separated but still get dates although there have been many attractive woman that backed out once they knew I was separated. Ive given my best sales pitch as to why I’m different…it doesn’t help or maybe I’m not hitting the right buttons not sure…If your marriage is over it is like a jail sentence for a year. Having said that: just list what you’re looking for in a woman. I’m in charlotte nc, there se… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/11/23 04:59 PM |
| 7 | Just need to talkDude I’m 60 years old and I thought no way anyone will date me at this age. That hasn’t been the case. Get on the date apps…for us older guys it’s a new world. Good luck | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/11/23 03:00 PM |
| 6 | Just need to talkI thought about the same shit. I’ve dated…ran thru 10 or 12 woman on the dating apps in 4 months Each time I hit it…I was lost afterwards …thinking what the fuck am I doing? After a while …..It takes time, you have to unload and vent…be sad and let the pain flow out of you. I have set backs but I’m resolved now to move on. Woman will steal your soul if you let them…refuse to allow that shit to happen to you. Live your best life. Pray to god for relief and Go find some honey to make you forget ab… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/11/23 02:11 PM |
| 8 | Just need to talkGo ahead and vent dude, there are a lot of good guys in this sub that pretty good advice…let it flow | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/11/23 01:54 PM |
| 2 | I just got divorcedI feel you….keep venting here. It helps | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/11/23 08:59 AM |
| 1 | I still miss her...Keep your dignity my man and throw the cheating bitch out or at least make her life hell too. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/11/23 11:25 AM |
| 1 | I still miss her...Listen to this….we can’t get time back….don’t waste it…. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/11/23 11:21 AM |
| 1 | I still miss her...I feel you. I know this feeling also. It’s good to get it out and tell somebody. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/11/23 11:14 AM |
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