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| 3 | For guys that *really* care about body count, do you ask?Most guys are smart enough not to ask, especially if they do care about it. Ignorance is bliss. The only guy who has ever actually asked me is a fwb who gets off on my high n count. He told me it makes him feel pretty superior that I keep cranking through the bodies but I keep coming back for more from him. Guys I’m seriously dating never ask. A couple have baulked from some suggestion that I’m somewhat sexually open. Both later admitted they were insecure about the size of their D or their perf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Women of Reddit, what is your actual body count vs. the body count you tell the men you're with when they ask?29, then a 14 year entirely monogamous marriage, then 48 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 08:03 PM |
| 7 | My bf (32M) questions me (25F) on everything and its driving me crazyHe sounds exactly like my ex husband. They’ll either make a real, consistent effort to change when you express how much this bothers you, or they won’t. I waited for change for 14 years, I’d kindly suggest you don’t wait that long. This guy is no Captain, he’s an insecure narc. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/02/23 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Statistically, what is worse: an abusive father or no father?Much love. It is such a very hard spot to be in and it is so difficult to make the leap or know when it’s the right time to do so x | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/02/23 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Statistically, what is worse: an abusive father or no father?Anecdotally from personal experience, I left my abusive ex two years ago after struggling for five years with the fears of what a split family would do to my kids. In hindsight doing it when the abuse became apparent would have been much, much better on their psyche, even though the abuse was only ever directed at me that dynamic was so so toxic for them to bear witness to. The kids are so much more settled and easy. They bicker less amongst themselves and they’re less anxious & hypervigilant. T… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/02/23 08:43 PM |
| 12 | Men which want a relationship should instead look for sexThey don’t vet properly. Or, more likely, they’re not taking responsibility for their own part in the act. If I’m feeling underwhelmed by a guy’s skill level I just take the lead, problem solved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 10:04 AM |
| 5 | Men which want a relationship should instead look for sexIt really isn’t hard as a female to find good sex. Or vet for whether it will be good sex before actually having the sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 09:46 AM |
| 1 | How many sexual partners have you had within the past 5 years?Penis In Vagina (although I haven’t counted the ones that were only anal). For differing reasons, but I’d consider them all decent sexual encounters that earnt their notch as such | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 10:25 PM |
| 1 | How many sexual partners have you had within the past 5 years?Of what exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 10:06 PM |
| 1 | How many sexual partners have you had within the past 5 years?4 were without PIV | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 03:01 PM |
| 1 | people who have high n-count, do you find it difficult to maintain ltr relationships?No. 37F. Multiple LTR, never cheated. I make hay while the sun shines. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 12:00 PM |
| 5 | Ladies - The More Times You Had Sex With A Casual Hook Up, Did You Start Developing Feelings?Yeah, I only want to screw guys I actually like more than once. I can compartmentalise up to a point but it’s generally got a very short lifespan. Easier if I’m not seeing them frequently, say only once or twice a month. But fucking someone you’re getting into who then ends it to start actually seeing someone else is the pits and it’s just not worth hanging in for that to happen no matter how great a lay they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 09:19 PM |
| 2 | What is your opinion on what he's saying? Discussion. Thanks!Real women actually desire to be with a “beast” as much as real men actually desire to be with a porn actress. The desire is in the titillation, not the object. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 12:39 PM |
| 2 | What is your opinion on what he's saying? Discussion. Thanks!Fantasies aren’t reality. That’s why they’re fantasies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 12:31 PM |
| 3 | Monkey Branching: The Best Mating Strategy For MenI have ended things with guys after discovering how hideous their exes were. No woman wants a guy that’d rather scrape the bottom of the barrel than be alone/sexless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 10:30 PM |
| 1 | When women say "height/looks/size/income doesn't matter" are we men just speaking a different language?So the problem then is that too large a proportion of women are trash, not that women worth wanting have unrealistic standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 07:35 AM |
| 1 | When women say "height/looks/size/income doesn't matter" are we men just speaking a different language?So why does that matter though? The women unsuccessfully chasing hung rich chads are not worth having. Men should be pleased that these women have got these unrealistic standards, it’s the trash taking itself out so decent men don’t have to waste their time with them. Are men really that desperate that they’d rather have dregs than nothing at all? Because one of the things that makes a woman worth having worth having is that she’d rather be alone than stuck with some scuzzbucket for the rest of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 05:35 AM |
| 1 | When women say "height/looks/size/income doesn't matter" are we men just speaking a different language?But that’s exactly my point. Where men see “quality” actual quality women see “not worth having” precisely because your so-called quality woman cares about that shit whereas women that are worth having care about different, more meaningful things and physical attraction is just the starting point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 01:09 AM |
| 3 | When women say "height/looks/size/income doesn't matter" are we men just speaking a different language?I think when women here think of “women” they think of “women worth having” and that those women are the ones who look at the package of male traits in a more holistic way and take account of compensatory factors. On the other hand, women view the type of women who do judge and choose men solely on height/looks/dick size/income as “not worth having” and therefore why would a man even be bothered about not being able to get a woman who’s gonna judge you for having a micropenis no matter what othe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 12:07 PM |
| 3 | If the theory of 80/20 rule is true (which it seems to show on online dating) what explains the mismatch in attractiveness partnership irl?I think most men completely underestimate how much most women are insecure about their level of attractiveness. Partially a cultural thing, partially a biological thing, partially the result of too much negging from PUAs. If you have pretty privilege, you know it. If you don’t, it’s not easy to figure out if you’re a 4 or a 7 by any other means than what the SMV is of the men that are interested in you for a relationship, and that’s never the 8+ gigachads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 07:45 AM |
| 1 | If you expect men to pay on the first date, then you don't get to complain about the wage gap.Ewwww | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason ?Dude for real, I have a pretty high n count for a girl and still hands down the best sex I’ve ever had was with a guy with a micropenis. Emphasis on the hands down. Work to your strengths, forget about your weaknesses. | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 10:40 AM |
| 6 | Q4A At what body fat percentage is a woman's dating life hindered?My weight has fluctuated a lot but I didn’t really notice any tapering down of male interest until I hit 36%. I think this is more to do with how I carry it, as at this point my waist, face and upper arms start to fill out, so my shape kinda disappears. Before that it’s largely just going to my legs, butt and boobs so I really just look extra curvy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 11:06 PM |
| 3 | Does sex equal attraction?She’s more attracted to Dylan. Mark is nothing, just a living dildo, and a mental distraction during time not spent with Dylan (so as not to overwhelm him with her presence), and a reminder that she’s still attractive if Dylan rejects her. With Dylan, she sees husband material. She wants him to see that she’s of value, so she has to play the Madonna to him. She wants him to invest in her, not because she’s trying to get a meal ticket, but because people care more about things they invest in. She… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 11:30 AM |
| 7 | Does sex equal attraction?A n00b who is open to learning and improving has always been far more fun than an experienced guy who’s not open to trying new things because he thinks he already knows his shit in my experience. I’d take enthusiasm over experience any day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 11:13 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women are more shallow than men by virtue of having a much higher looks threshold and placing more emphasis on things men have no control overIt definitely can be, it’s a measure for populations after all, not individuals. I’m swole AF, and so my BMI puts me as overweight, though I’m clearly not. But that’s not the case for most people who are over the normal range, unless they’re carrying dense/broad genetics they’re generally just fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 11:40 AM |
| 11 | CMV: Women are more shallow than men by virtue of having a much higher looks threshold and placing more emphasis on things men have no control overI totally get your point, and I think you get mine - when the average woman is an unhealthy one it’s pretty damning on current society, but it also means that men are wrong when they assess averagely attractive healthy weight women as average, because their normal weight range immediately places them as above average regardless of their facial features or body composition. In my country, the average female BMI is 28.1. Women in a healthy weight range definitely stand out as above average in that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 05:26 AM |
| 58 | CMV: Women are more shallow than men by virtue of having a much higher looks threshold and placing more emphasis on things men have no control overThe average BMI for a woman is in the overweight range. Not wanting an overweight woman = seeking above average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 01:44 AM |
| 0 | Are younger man/ older woman relationships a potential answer to the imbalanced SMP/ RMP that men here rail against?Roflmao at the idea I’m struggling for male attention in my late thirties. Sorry sweetheart, not in the slightest I generally date 26-30, the young uns with an pinch of maturity are keen as for someone with their head screwed on both LTR and otherwise, and from my perspective most guys post 30 are just the leftover dregs for good reason or too fucked up by their previous relationships to be worth the time de-baggaging | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 11:20 AM |
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