Glad-Investigator515 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	"Pick-up artists"	Conversation	Glad-Investigator515	/r/seduction	30/01/25 04:48 AM

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1	Does it help being arrogant / having a superiority complex? It works but it's a cheap fix and you're not gonna do it (for long) if you have morals as a person. But yes, in short, if you're a people pleaser and you start acting like a cocky dickhead then women will be much more attracted to you, it's weird but it works. You want to work up to a level where you project confidence without acting like a POS though. Speaking from experience btw, i went throught this phase when i was 17-18 and started gaining a lot of confidence due to changing my lifestyle. W…	/r/seduction	08/02/25 10:41 PM
1	Her Story Made Me Rethink Everything About Dating Honestly it's one in a million where that's actually the case. You never wanna be the first good boyfriend, she seems nice and genuine now and you probably had a lot of fun with her. But if you actually start a relationship you're gonna find out why she's always been with toxic guys and that's going to be anything but a pleasant experience for you my friend. She's gorgeous as well which is most likely clouding your judgement even more. By the way i'm saying this as a guy who could have written o…	/r/seduction	08/02/25 07:03 PM
0	"Pick-up artists" If you actually read the whole thing i'm not just relying on looks, there's loads of guys that go to the gym every day and get no play but it'll get you closer. Take a look at yourself, in every facet of your life and see what needs fixing, if you go the gym and follow that by gaming for 6 hours that's not really an improvement, start properly living life, go on some adventures, travel, buy a fucking motorcycle or something just be more interesting (this shouldn't even relate to girls, people ju…	/r/seduction	30/01/25 11:19 AM
0	"Pick-up artists" If it helps to clarify, i'd only advocate for flirting with someone that's working if you get the sense that she finds you attractive or you go there often and have talked to her before, not the type of stuff where guys will misinterpret a waitress doing her job as her wanting to have sex with them and going overboard. Same goes with work, you're on normal colleaugue terms until certain topics are brought up and you notice that she'd be open to the idea of sleeping with you, i'm not saying it's …	/r/seduction	30/01/25 10:43 AM
-1	"Pick-up artists" I'll concede that it comes off that way and i could have said it nicer. I have however struggled with most of the stuff that the guys here struggled with and tried to get girls but was mostly unsuccesful doing so, i'm speaking from personal experience and what worked for me. My point is that you must first fix all the obvious flaws in your life which will make you more qualified to date and attract beautiful women and as a result of that you won't have to solely resort to a lot of the advice or …	/r/seduction	30/01/25 08:23 AM
1	"Pick-up artists" Then we agree for the most part. And yeah i'm saying if you have the time (or the need) to go up to random women and get rejected a bunch of times in hopes of getting laid then you have more important stuff to do. And also that stuff is more important than learning the ins and outs of "game" because a lot of that will just come naturally if you fix certain facets of your life. If you have righteous confidence you don't really need to learn a lot of this stuff (holding frame, push-pull etc etc) i…	/r/seduction	30/01/25 07:19 AM
0	"Pick-up artists" It's not a contradiction. My advice is that you should get your shit in order as a man and then you won't have to really worry about approaching women and doing all this PUA stuff, most of it is cope. There's like 2 scenarios. 1). Get in shape, travel, do interesting stuff, get your life in order. > go to bar with friends > women look at you because you look good > talk to one of them, have sex. 2). You are fat and ugly > go to fucking sephora to "cold approach" > get rejected, everyone looks at…	/r/seduction	30/01/25 06:54 AM
2	"Pick-up artists" Yeah exactly! Thanks for saying that 👏 And porn is a huge issue as well. I know i typed a whole essay out just now but what i'm really trying to get across is "fix your life, fix your health, do interesting stuff and girls will be attracted to you in general". Hence why you don't need to set this goal of going up to x amount of strangers every day until you get laid, there's so much more productive stuff to do other than that.	/r/seduction	30/01/25 06:32 AM
-2	"Pick-up artists" No yeah i fully understand, to be honest i sorta used to be like that as well when i was young so i can sympathize with the guys who are awkward and lonely but you know what helped immensely? Starting MMA/doing MMA fights which got me in way better shape and gave me confidence and starting to work in sales which taught me a lot about persuasion and human psychology. I got over that stuff pretty quick and became very social because i fixed the core issues in my life. My issue with this whole PUA …	/r/seduction	30/01/25 06:18 AM
0	"Pick-up artists" It's not a numbers game if you're just good at talking to women and have women in your social circle, i'd say it's a numbers game if you get rejected a lot. And listen i'm not gonna pretend like i've never shot my shot at girls out in public (at a cafe, bar or club) and ended up hooking up with them but not to the extent where i went out purely with the intention of "i have to do 10 approaches today or otherwise i'll be a loser" And it has nothing to do with being scared, i've just never really …	/r/seduction	30/01/25 05:56 AM
3	Most promiscuous city you've been to? Can confirm. I went there for 10 days and the only con about that vacation was me trying (and failing) to get a refund for the remaining 9 days i booked at the hotel cause i was already sleeping at a girl's house.	/r/seduction	30/01/25 05:17 AM
1	Froze trying to approach women today I'd generally advise against just going out and talking to girls at random, sure you can do it every once in a while if it's genuine and spontaneous. But if you have that much anxiety then why not just start by women you'll have to talk to anyway and just try to have a little conversation, the barista at the coffee shop, the girl behind the cash register at the supermarket, the girl behind the counter at the gym etc etc. Just practise, make a joke, give them a compliment and just get used to doi…	/r/seduction	30/01/25 04:54 AM