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you don't believe in game then?
/r/seduction21/01/20 07:56 PM
2

he's a 'coach' lol. In other words, he's making up stories so that he can sell you shit lol
/r/seduction21/01/20 07:49 PM
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interesting thread. Very few real replies. Do people not actually run game on here?
/r/seduction21/01/20 07:44 PM
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lol, this
/r/seduction29/12/19 08:52 PM
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game without physical attraction looks like this: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/d93cif/fr_multiple_approaches_putting_game_to_the_test/ https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ct0j2r/fr/
/r/seduction29/12/19 07:55 PM
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I've read and tested most stuff. You obviously have an agenda to promote your coaching/youtube channel (although you don't even have infields/proof) so obviously we should take what you say with a gigantic pinch of salt. No offence. Any one of us can claim to be a Cassanova, tbh ps - the other guy you upvoted simply stole that whole post from ANOTHER 'pua blogger' (yareally) who also had zero proof of his amazing womanising jedi mind tricks lol
/r/seduction29/12/19 07:52 PM
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it's not a lost concept. Everyone is aware of mysterymethod (which the other guy is talking about) People are still trying it: (and of course failing, UNLESS shes thinks you're hot lol) https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/d93cif/fr_multiple_approaches_putting_game_to_the_test/ https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ct0j2r/fr/
/r/seduction29/12/19 05:39 PM
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I'm not really sure what your question is tbh, but I do think that coaches maybe do mislead us a fair bit. It's business after all. In my experience, the idea that you can actually 'seduce' a girl (make a girl attracted to you who wasn't remotely attracted to you when you opened her) with various things like negs, disqualifiers, self amusement etc, isn't really the case. Coaches themselves get rejected a tonne and I think that, just like any other human, they are simply playing the numbers game …
/r/seduction29/12/19 02:20 PM
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I've had some success, but as we are told when it comes to 'game', it's really a massive numbers game. Our job, since we can't MAKE girls attracted too us and stuff no matter how good our 'game', is to find girls who are attracted to us. And who are receptive/friendly to cold approach. There are obviously tonne of them out there, even here in my part of the world. But it's still a very very low percentage of girls. So you just have to approach in volume.
/r/seduction27/12/19 04:20 PM
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This is how I feel, tbh. I live in the UK. And NOT in London where it's full of tourists who are approachable. UK people here find it odd to be opened by a stranger, and put up a huge guard. Saying 'hi' makes them look at you with a mix of fear and confusion lol. Then you try to get a convo going, make some assumptions etc, and they don't really talk back and try hard to eject. Most sets are what I call 'insta rejections' or sets where i'm just unable to reach the 'hook point' because they never…
/r/seduction27/12/19 10:02 AM
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probably just getting off on the validation. They know you like them now. And they figure if they keep you around and dangle the carrot a little, you will keep giving her that sweet validation, telling her she's hot etc, that she craves
/r/seduction26/12/19 08:10 PM
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I think it's when she's actively contributing to the convo. Asking you things. Maybe helping to fill in any brief silences. You get the impression that she'd probably rather you stay than left. It's the hardest part of the interaction for me and it seems to rely 100% on her being a very SOCIAL, CONFIDENT girl who is PHYSICALLY ATTRACTED to me and isn't weirded out by a stranger talking to her So I might open 15 girls in a night and I can only reach the 'hook' point with 1 or 2 I've tried all kin…
/r/seduction26/12/19 03:38 PM
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I really want a nose job and a hair transplant tbh!!
/r/seduction26/12/19 02:40 PM
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Are they doing anything different to you? Maybe you just happen to have been cursed with handsome friends lol When I was younger, I had like 5 really good looking friends who girls opened and tried to bang without them doing anything, and it messed up my brain lol
/r/seduction25/12/19 11:01 PM
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9 approaches 8 numbers? Why do you need help from anyone here exactly lol?
/r/seduction25/12/19 10:58 PM
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was done gymming but said ugh just gonna do some last triceps exercises and she said she was doing the same so I sug I gave a cute young French girl my number a little while back and she actually texted me first, but yeah, in general, it's not a clever move! I only done it because I didn't have my phone on me
/r/seduction25/12/19 04:33 PM
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I've never seen any actionable advice on seddit about 'seduction' (eg - things to say too a girl who isn't attracted to make her attracted) so i'm not sure you'll get much help here, tbh lol. Either it's not actually possible (unless she's attracted to you already) or seddit isn't quite advanced enough. Probably the former It's more 'what you say doesn't matter'. Get hobbies. love yourself.
/r/seduction25/12/19 09:47 AM
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how would you open the 2 girls in the pic?
/r/seduction25/12/19 09:21 AM
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how would you open the 2 girls in the pic?
/r/seduction25/12/19 09:21 AM
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If anything, guys care LESS about looks than girls do, lol I must admit, most days on 'seddit' I read something along the lines of 'girls don't care about looks' and I think to myself 'My experience with both going out with a handsome wingman, and from working with girls tells me not only do they care about looks, I sometimes think they care more than we do!!!' haha
/r/seduction24/12/19 08:51 PM
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too handsome to be a 'PUA' tbh lol My handsome wingman could blow all youtube PUA's out of the water and he's never heard of game
/r/seduction24/12/19 08:48 PM
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It might be an excuse but it's kind of irrelevant as if the bf doesn't exist, It's just her way of saying 'you're not my type, go away' lol. So you just need to move on as you aren't gonna be able to get her anyway
/r/seduction21/08/19 02:31 PM
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Good stuff!! Don't worry about the handsome dude. You can't compete with dudes who have instant attraction lol. Just a numbers game. Keep going!
/r/seduction06/08/19 01:14 PM
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co-signed
/r/seduction02/08/19 10:16 PM
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co-signed
/r/seduction02/08/19 10:16 PM
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lmao - Only about 2000 times!!! :)
/r/seduction02/08/19 07:18 PM
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It doesn’t matter what books you read if you aren’t implementing them He says ''but none of the advice seem to work well in real life'' - sounds like he is implementing it.
/r/seduction02/08/19 06:54 PM
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if you'd have asked a few months back, i''d have juiced you up, but I've given a few ebooks to people on here and each time I don't even get as much as a 'thanks' so that game is up. Ungrateful swines Paypal me $20 and you can have it
/r/seduction02/08/19 02:24 PM
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Always have a couple million bucks in the bank, too.
/r/seduction01/08/19 01:35 PM
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If she is sexually attracted to you/your looks, getting laid is kinda easy, tbh. If she's not physically attracted, then it's gonna be impossible I feel sorry for the dude in your story, lol. It wasn't until I started hanging out with some tall handsome marines that I met whilst travelling that I realised how the other half live!! haha Probably banged about 100 girls each in the 6 months I knew them! I daren't even think what their overall lay count is!! haaha - Probably well over 500
/r/seduction01/08/19 01:12 PM
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Personally, never tbh, lol I can't imagine ever not being attracted too a hot 18 year old! More than I would a hot 35 year old for example. I don't think i'm alone (most popular porn is teen porn - hot 18 year olds getting banged, and it's mainly watched by men much older than 18 lol!) but most guys won't admit it though I think the reason lots of older men kid themselves that some 18 year old cheereleader isn't hot is because they know it's hella difficult to bang some hot 18 year ol when you'r…
/r/seduction31/07/19 04:31 PM
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Probably effective for some, but you better be handsome as fuck for one. And then have at least a few thousands followers with sick picks etc
/r/seduction31/07/19 01:01 PM
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Not really advice, but it's quite different. In general, approaching a random 6 in the UK is a bit like trying to talk to a 10 in LA. Hard to get a reply back. Talking too a brick wall etc Slightly different reasons, though. In LA, they'll be unreceptive more to do with how amazing they think they are compared to you. IN the UK there IS an element of that aswell, but the bigger reason is due to the fact that talking to random people just isn't really done here like it is in the US. Girls only re…
/r/seduction31/07/19 12:42 PM
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They do with handsome guys (guys they are physically attracted too) My wing gets approached and hit on a tonne due to his looks.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 04:08 PM
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There is no amount of game that will get you a girl who is not attracted to you This is the important bit and the bit that needs to be said. However, i'd actually say that most of the time, some 'game' is still needed even if she IS attracted to you (exception being that she is SUPER attracted to you and thinks you're like her 10/10 and she's horny, in which case, she'll basically do all of the work for you). But I've seen guys lose lays/girls that were clearly into them many times through bad '…
/r/seduction13/06/19 08:38 AM
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I believe that there is a clear looks threshold. She needs to think you are decent looking to have a shot at a cold approach working. And from that point, 'game' can amplify existing attraction (it can never 'create' attraction) The amount of game you need depends on how hot she thinks you are. She thinks you're kinda good looking but you act like an autist? You probably will get rejected. She thinks you are a 10/10 and she's never seen someone as handsome but you act like an autist? You'll prob…
/r/seduction13/06/19 08:24 AM
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Bingo!!!
/r/seduction13/06/19 08:22 AM
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'inner game' won't help you if you're not her type though lol. But then , I guess nothing will really. That's why even the pro's have to approach a fair bit until they find a receptive girl who is into them
/r/seduction13/06/19 07:45 AM
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lmao. It's been about 5 years!! hahaa
/r/seduction12/06/19 05:50 PM
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Of course, if you're ugly, you'll just need to work more than others. This was demonstrated by social science decades ago. What do you mean by this? You mean compensating with a SUPER ripped body or whatever if you are ugly? (so that she doesn't inst-reject you) So, if you get rejected 150 our of 150, sure there's something wrong that goes way beyond game or look. I'm honestly not sure about this. I mean, in truth, i'd EXPECT a normal/ugly guy to get rejected by beautiful girls almost non stop. …
/r/seduction12/06/19 05:42 PM
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What makes someone shit at fucking? Just not having a massive dick? Or maybe cumming in like 2 mins?
/r/seduction25/05/19 02:36 PM
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Super interesting. IN regards to the lack of faith element though, Playing Devils advocate here, is it possible that there's no smoke without fire?? Is it possible that, thanks to tinder and social media etc, girls are simply way WAY more superficial than they were back in Mystery's day?? They care about looks as much as we do now?? And Maybe they're less receptive/more hostile to cold approach and less social (in person) thanks to technology etc? I think there must be a reason that so many more…
/r/seduction24/05/19 10:23 PM
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ask /u/wia20xx
/r/seduction24/05/19 09:57 AM
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yes. We're in agreement (which is why your 1st reply confused me lol)
/r/askTRP23/05/19 07:16 AM
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lol
/r/askTRP23/05/19 07:13 AM
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well yes, that's basically my experience as well. I was just interested in the consensus here because, as I said, I keep running across posters on seddit (but who mainly post here) who basically same 'looks mean nothing at all to girls, it's all about game and getting at her emotions and you can get every girl. If you fail, it was bad game'' But as someone who has a male model looking wingman and VERY little 'game' and who gets laid with very hot girls any night he wants, i'm kind of jaded lol
/r/askTRP22/05/19 09:48 PM
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I certainly 'go' for what I want, but as you've seen from the other replies, it's largely out of your control. You can't force someone to be attracted. If you're not her type, you're not her type Like, I personally approach every stunner I see. I don't wait for IOI's. Although I know within about 2 seconds whether I have a shot or not, tbh lol Are you saying that you are against the consensus of the replies in this thread btw?
/r/askTRP22/05/19 02:10 PM
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As per his OP, he's read that
/r/askTRP22/05/19 01:40 PM
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I've hung out with a friend (who's a DJ and obviously gets pussy cause of that), and saw what how he was texting some girls. Also a girl-friend of mine (yes, I'm friendzoned by her don't know how I did it, but I don't care about her) she was showing me these text that the dude who was banging her (and whom she was madly in love with) was sending her, and I was just blown away by the shit he was coming up with, and she was just eating it all up. What sort of stuff was he saying? that's why I love…
/r/askTRP22/05/19 12:46 PM
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Where's all the 'seduction' experts? Shouldn't you be telling him what to say to MAKE the girl want him?? Or have you all conceded that the 'she's either into you or she's not!' guys are right? lol
/r/seduction26/04/19 08:40 PM
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nah, looks are very important for both sexes. Equally so, tbh. More so for young people. I think if you are trying to bang some 60 year old though, she'll cut you a hell of a lot of slack on the looks department. And also, fame etc is super powerful, but not like most of us are gonna be celebs.
/r/seduction26/04/19 08:22 PM
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Quite interesting, actually. When I first started cold approaching and getting some lays, I think I weirded out girls that were more 'social circle girls' a few times, tbh! Like, girls that I had met a few times through friends and decided I wanted to 'game' and i'd try to force various things like cold reads and negs and push pull etc etc, but it just doesn't seem to work the same in a social circle in my experience. Really hard for me to explain, tbh, but I found myself saying things that in m…
/r/seduction26/04/19 08:16 PM
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Yeah, unsurprisingly, this thread didn't take off at all. Definitely confirms my thoughts in my opening post, tbh. Almost nobody at all believes in 'game'/seduction. Maybe they're right too. I don't know, lol This person claims to be able to bang literally any girl he wants, though. 100% hit rate. Impossible to get rejected due to his amazing game. Imagine having that super-power!! Wake up. Spot a 10/10 teen. Approach her knowing that you 100% will bang her later that day! amazing. Shame he didn…
/r/seduction19/04/19 10:44 AM
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lol
/r/seduction18/04/19 07:39 PM
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very nice!
/r/seduction11/04/19 08:01 AM
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I don't think you can actually brainwash someone into finding you attractive. The guy who uses the PUA line and gets the girl gets her in spite of his line (or technique) and not because of it. There's lots of marketing and BS in my mind when it come to 'game'. I really don't think it's much of a 'skill' at all. She's either into you or she's not. If she is, then just not completely messing up and being sure to not be a pussy and show some intent is enough. If she's not into you, it doesn't matt…
/r/seduction25/03/19 03:48 PM
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Honestly man, you'd be surprised. His 'game' is average at very best! He basically just isn't weird. (I've seen handsome guys lose attraction for being weird and stuff) If you can call that 'game' then I guess he has it. I've never seen him open a girl. Girls tend to open him. He just has a super normal conversation. No 'game' tactics. Just questions which we are told not to use and stuff. Interview mode etc. And at some point, she will be giving him huge IOI's and touching him etc, and then he'…
/r/seduction23/03/19 03:53 PM
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Is it illegal where you are then? Man, here in the UK you can bang a 16 year old girl even if you are 100 lol. Some of the age gaps i've had would make people hate me on this sub lol (since it's mainly americans with different views about this stuff, it seems. Someone on reddit called me a pedo a while ago lol) Anyway, Is she into you?
/r/seduction23/03/19 03:49 PM
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What’s his secret i'm not gonna lie, he is VERY handsome facially!
/r/seduction23/03/19 03:47 PM
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It's likely that you aren't doing anything 'wrong', although we obviously can't say for certain without seeing you infield. If she is into your looks, it's kinda hard to not get something out of it. Even a kiss. And if you are 100% NOT her physical type, the best game in the world won't do a damn thing. Don't believe the hype. Having 'game' isn't some super power where you can force people to be attracted to you lol So, 20 rejections is nothing, tbh. I know it feels like a lot, but I'd say in a …
/r/seduction23/03/19 01:16 PM
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lol. Anyway, I'd say you don't lose much by asking, but then, I think a lot of the time she won't be honest with you. I do the same 'debrief' when I bang girls from one night stands on nights out, although I don't tend to learn much. It's usually ''I liked the way you look'' and I can be pretty sure that the girls who rejected me thought I was ugly lol I guess dates are a bit different though, since you've presumably already met her 'looks threshold' since she agreed to go on a date with you. As…
/r/seduction23/03/19 01:02 PM
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The most successful guy I know is short (Maybe 5ft 7 MAX!) although, i'm not gonna lie, he is VERY handsome facially! But yeah, girls completely throw themselves at him. It's nuts! It used to make me suicidal with jealousy (we've been best friends since we were kids), but now that i've become numb too it, I almost find it funny now. It's like a lynx advert or something, the way the girls fight over him when they see him lol
/r/seduction23/03/19 10:52 AM
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lol :) - it's not a lot of steps, though. The main thing is the facebook which takes about 3 mins to create. I simply don't want a stranger who i'm trying to hook up with to know everything about me, my friends, my details etc. And lying about my age isn't even a ''step' as I do that on cold approach, too!
/r/seduction23/03/19 08:51 AM
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probably lol. But it's better than being fucked over like the OP imo.
/r/seduction23/03/19 08:50 AM
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lol. 16 is legal here even if you are 100 years old so it's all good
/r/seduction23/03/19 08:47 AM
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I usually maintain the lie about my age (because I meet with young girls so don't wanna scare them off with my real age). I'm only looking for sex on tinder! Not a wife lol. I Confess that my last name isn't actually 'Black' IF it comes up (it never does). And I live in the UK. It's small. Both my fake address/area and my real address (town) are very close so it's a complete non issue. It's just to add an extra layer of anonymity to avoid situations like in the OP
/r/seduction23/03/19 08:45 AM
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Not sure what you mean? By fake facebook, I mean my profile pic is real, but the rest of it is just a shell. False info (wrong full name, fake age). No friends etc. I also have a 'real' facebook account obviously, but not linked to my tinder. Similar with my insta. Just a few pics but nothing that can be linked to the real me other than my face pic. Also slightly fake location. Basically, it wouldn't be easy for someone to be able to work out who I actually am, who my friends are etc, from the i…
/r/seduction22/03/19 07:02 PM
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I use fake EVERYTHING when it comes to tinder etc. (fake age, fake name and lication, linked to a fake facebook and a fake instragram etc).
/r/seduction22/03/19 12:06 PM
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I think it's about showing intent toward girls that are into you. But you can't 'make' them into you. As Mark Manson said, 'game is played on the maybe and the yes girls'. If she's a 'not girl' (because she thinks you're ugly or whatever) then move on.
/r/seduction22/03/19 12:03 PM
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80% chance it's a hint and she's into you
/r/seduction17/03/19 10:17 PM
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They're not usually that bad, even when they feel bad. Like, the whole idea of a girl slapping you and throwing their drink over you for approaching them never really happens Off the top of my head, one of the worst ones was on the dancefloor. Quite a lot of open space and a girl starts dancing super close to me, almost grinding her ass on me. Considering there's so much room on the dancefloor, I took this as an IOI and kind of turned towards her and smiled and tried to dance with her. She looke…
/r/seduction17/03/19 09:04 PM
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just what girls write when they have nothing else to say, basically. Or they can't be bothered to write a proper reply.
/r/seduction17/03/19 02:16 PM
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how are you defining the natural 'way of game'? Sorry to sound stupid, but i'm not sure what 'it' is, in your case. What are you doing that someone else isn't? You say you don't use any tricks etc. But you say 'it' works ok for you. You walk up too a girl. She's not into your looks. How do you get her without using tricks/'game'?
/r/seduction15/03/19 11:33 PM
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what is 'it'? You mean 'approaching girls' ''works'' for you? If they are receptive, you're probably better looking than you think. Or are you saying you do certain 'tricks' that make them attracted to you? If so, what are they? give examples lol
/r/seduction14/03/19 11:02 PM
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With cold approach, I honestly think they are SUPER important. If you are not her type at all, then 'game' (showing confidence, teasing bla bla, whatever your definition is) won't make her sexually attracted, tbh. Similarly, if she is SUPER into your looks, then you can get away with doing a hell of a lot 'wrong'. It's all a sliding scale, though
/r/seduction14/03/19 11:00 PM
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but then tomorrow there will be a thread about someone being 'aloof' or maybe about how he hasn't spoke too his crush yet, and then he'll post about how the girl is now banging his friend and the replies will be ''Show your intent!! Be a man. Never be aloof. Read Mark Manson!!!!' etc What i'm saying is, i'm happy for the OP, but it likely wasn't the method! (people always backwards rationalise everything). She simply thought he was hot! (he says he's an 'above average' 6ft 1 dude. He might think…
/r/seduction12/03/19 06:18 PM
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Good stuff. I don't know about Singapore but it sounds like culturally, cold approach is gonna be hard. People from US etc (where strangers are super friendly too each other) likely won't be able to relate and will tell you that you done something 'wrong' Even here in the UK it's nothing at all like teh US in my experience (i've spent a lot of time there as have family there, but I live in the UK). Over here, a hostile reaction (and an instant rejection) too a cold approach just seems completely…
/r/seduction12/03/19 10:34 AM
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Because getting harsh rejections never stops being fun
/r/seduction08/03/19 06:04 PM
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when you say 'learn' day game, are you just really saying 'appraoch girsl in the day time'? I mean, what's to 'learn'? He walks up too a girl in the day, says hi, has a short chat and asks her out, and if he's her type she'll say 'ok', otherwise she won't.
/r/seduction08/03/19 10:49 AM
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I often hear this but I honestly never notice it. Both when I was in a relationship (which was ages ago in fairness so maybe my memorie's hazy) but moreso, I go 'gaming' every few nights with dudes who are in serious relationships and i'm VERY observant and I don't noticed them getting loads of IOI's or anything. Guys who are 'magnets' and who I always see getting IOI's are just the handsome guys, and they get them whether they are in a relationship or not
/r/seduction07/03/19 08:14 AM
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How good looking is your friend compared to you? I've been in a similar situation before and it is rough tbh. I remember not being able to sleep for a few nights lol IN my case, I DID make a move on the girl though (and she rejected me. I knew she would as she'd given me no IOI's), but then when she met my very handsome friend, she basically threw herself at him (LOTS of massive IOI's within seconds, thus he knew he could make the move without fear of rejection). Felt bad lol
/r/seduction06/03/19 05:30 PM
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You could be right, but he probably didn't make a move because he knew that it would end in a rejection. I think we all just 'know' when someone likes us sexually, tbh. I certainly do. I bet his friend only showed intent because she was giving HIM IOI's and dropping hints first etc. i.e - She made it super easy for him because she liked him, and she would have done the same to the OP if he was her type, too
/r/seduction06/03/19 05:28 PM
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my thoughts are definitely that early in the convo, you definitely don't want silences. In my experience, she'll use this to get away from you 100% of the time unless she is super attracted to your good looks. Most PUA's seem to agree that at the beginning of the convo 'it's on you!'. 90/10 rule and all that. She simply won't care to try to fill in the silence. She'd rather walk away (unless you're very handsome) Later on in the convo though, assuming she's into you, silence can be good and buil…
/r/seduction06/03/19 12:35 PM
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In his defense, most of what i've read here (and elsewhere such as rooshv forum) seems to imply that the 'attraction' part IS out of your control (you're either her type or you aren't) and I find it hard to believe that someone can 'seduce' a girl who isn't attracted to you tbh.
/r/seduction06/03/19 08:21 AM
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You mean cold approach? I think i'm on 14 SNL's
/r/seduction06/03/19 08:10 AM
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