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| 5 | Women, what do you think are the advantages and disadvantages of men? Would it be easier if you were a man?Exactly the same way I feel. I wouldn't have been sexually abused by my oldest brother as he was wonderful to my little brother and my mindset, interests and communication style has always been more masculine. Luckily I haven't experienced hostility from other women in my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 01:31 AM |
| 1 | The real pill that explains modern dating in the WestMost western women are not marrying for just money that was my point. Does travelling out of western countries actually work long term for these men? Western women who are marrying just for money or status are just as likely to ditch men for something better of course. But western women who are dating for money or status would have higher money and status requirements that developing nations. Men who feel the need to travel out of country are doing so for some reason right? Seemingly because the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 11:23 PM |
| 0 | The real pill that explains modern dating in the WestSo when it comes to passport bros, do those relationships work out long term? I am constantly seeing passport bros complaining online about how the woman they were seeing ditched them and it's not worth it. Women who are only interested in your money will be more likely to ditch you for someone with more money or a better situation right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 11:09 PM |
| 0 | The real pill that explains modern dating in the WestIt's odd i keep seeing on here that men date down but I much more often see a woman with a man that is several steps down from her in terms of attraction. Typically couples are pretty well matched, but I very very rarely see an attractive man with a much less attractive woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 11:06 PM |
| 4 | debate on percentage of women cheating vs menMy personal experience is exactly the opposite. I can't think of one woman I know that has cheated and I can think of plenty of men I know that have. I know men who have been cheated on but I personally don't know any women who have cheated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 04:05 AM |
| 7 | Telling struggling men to be gay is not a valid solution.The pickiness comes after swiping on everyone. Plenty of times I've matched with a guy and then he unmatched when he actually looked at my profile. Most men don't find most women attractive, average men have their own preferences and standards as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 11:02 PM |
| 5 | Telling struggling men to be gay is not a valid solution.So one explanation for the high number of matches is a lot of men on dating sites will swipe on everyone to see what matches they get and then sort through them after. They are casting as wide a net as possible not even looking at the profiles until later. Women are already outnumbered on dating apps and sites as well, they are bound to get more likes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 09:47 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a womanSoft yes, I agree? I'm not sure what standards you're talking about? I agree that people try to find the best partner they can get that matches their desired characteristics including being reasonably attractive. Attractiveness is just one piece of the puzzle. If the more attractive partner didn't have a compatible personality there couldn't be a long term relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 02:19 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a womanBut it still both boils down to niether can get the more attractive partner long term. I see the difference I suppose in that women can "sleep up" more easily than men, but the motivation and the result is the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 02:07 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a womanI don't totally disagree with you, I figured people like this were a very small minority, I feel like most will sooner rather than later do some self reflection? I also don't really think that the degree women are sleeping up is as high as implied at least on average. Even in casual dating the attractiveness difference is gonna be moderate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 02:03 AM |
| 10 | CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a womanIf relationship dynamics were this simple then yes, but choosing a long term partner is more than that, hence why most people end up with someone of similar attractiveness. I guess I just don't see mens and women's goals as much different. Both are trying to get the best they can, but looks are not the only thing to consider for long term relationships and matter much more in hook ups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 01:46 AM |
| 7 | CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a womanI think most people in general would rather be with someone they think is attractive right? But both genders settle, it's not unique. As for what people can get in the long term is extremely subjective. Ive seen some mismatched pairs but typically people seem to be getting with other of comparable attractiveness. That being said I will agree it is more difficult for men to get women's attention especially on dating apps. The numbers are just not in men's favor, given that they out number women a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 11:49 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a womanThe bar for hookups is always gonna be lower that when you are looking for a long term relationship. Men and women also both settle, it's not a uniquely one gender or the other thing. I'm confused by your comment, same with Men but opposite. I'm sure most Men want to have sex with someone they find very attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 11:41 PM |
| 16 | CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a womanThose two things do not equate. Desiring sex from someone physically attractive does not mean they desire committment from that person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 11:07 PM |
| 19 | CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a womanWhy are you assuming women want commitment from random hook ups? Don't women just want to get laid sometimes too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 11:03 PM |
| 2 | The idea that straight dating is disadvantageous to women is not only false, but also extremely biased.Bingo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 05:07 AM |
| – | "Believe Women" is a conspiracy to profit from destroying men and feminist establishment is party to it.The believe women ideology is a response to the incredibly low rate of actual justice seen in our court system for sexual assault and rape. Only 2% of rapists see any jail or prison time and are often given a slap on the wrist if they even get convicted. I agree you should be innocent until proven guilty but the justice system is obviously failing assault victims, myself included. In the Harvey weinstein case over 100 women came forward and his conviction was still over turned. That seems absolu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Can men and women be "just" friends" How do you feel about your SO having friends of the opposite sex? Friends with ex's? Friends with former FWBs?Im a woman and one of my best friends is a guy. We've been great friends since freshman year of high school over 15 years. My partner is great friends with a woman he has known for over a decade. I would not typically recommend staying friends with exes or fwb, but to each their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/24 04:52 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: Are men and women not so much different?Thank you! Excellent explanation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 09:55 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Are men and women not so much different?I've found no supporting literature that rationality is inversely correlated with estrogen. Care to share a peer reviewed study supporting this stance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 09:53 PM |
| – | Could you be happy in a marriage where your spouse isn't your best friend?Yeah I love my partner but I still have a best friend. He checks all my boxes and I spend the majority of my time with him but I still like having a best friend that's not him. I've had the same best friend since I was 6. She's my sister now, my family absorbed her into the collective since we've been friends for so long. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 09:28 PM |
| 3 | CMV: The requirement that your spouse be your best friend is genderedThis is a good take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 08:27 PM |
| 5 | Men complaining in a free market where nature chooses will only fall on deaf earsThat is not a biological reaction it is entirely a cultural thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 09:11 AM |
| 5 | Men complaining in a free market where nature chooses will only fall on deaf earsThis is just about sex. It's not about finding a suitable mate or life partner. Clout and fame don't get automatically mean you'll get a healthy loving relationship, which is what most people seem to want. As a feminine presenting person I can attest that accessing sex with people is way easy for me than a masculine presenting person. Sex is just one portion of a relationship though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 09:09 AM |
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