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| 1 | to the pros here, You go to a house party you barely know anyone and in the distance in kitchen there's a girl all by herself.Yeah, while having a crazy icebreaker is great, and will help, starting boring and simple is a perfect substitute if you aren’t feeling inspired. | /r/seduction | 03/02/26 02:24 PM |
| 1 | How Do You Flirt and Build Sexual Tension?It makes a world of difference, actually. The best system I’ve had is just to do it by increments. You start with someone super super light, look at the reaction and back off fairly quickly, but not instantaneously. You need to back off whether or not it’s appreciated. If it seemed to have gone by ok, you go for something super light, then light, then medium, then a little more daring. If she seemed hesitant or unreceptive, you back up, wait, and you stay at the same level or go back one notch. … | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 08:22 AM |
| 1 | got 300 likes on a Thailand dating app with women aged 18-24. 0 Likes on Tinder in Europe. im in my 30's.Somehow less expensive than when « they don’t » | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 01:08 PM |
| 5 | If a guy goes in for a kiss on a first date and she turns her head…I don’t know. I’ve had it happened twice and had the situation change later on. In my case it was because I was super shy and came at it unconfidently, and corrected that later on. But it’s definitely a “not today” kind of situation, and it’s often due to poorly setting up expectations, not setting the mood beforehand and trying to skip through the hoops too quickly. | /r/seduction | 16/08/25 09:41 PM |
| 1 | If a Girl Looks at You for Even a Split Second, Do ThisI mean they are, but it’s easy to roll with them if you aren’t taking them too seriously | /r/seduction | 22/04/25 01:07 PM |
| 0 | If a Girl Looks at You for Even a Split Second, Do ThisFuck, I guess I am AI and almost everyone I know is AI. We do live in a simulation | /r/seduction | 22/04/25 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Talking to multiple girls is the best way.I don’t know who « we » is supposed to be, but I’m certainly not texting anybody all day. I struggle freeing up an afternoon a week to meet up is what I’m saying. I’m already completely booked at 1-2 dates a week. | /r/seduction | 26/03/25 03:51 PM |
| 17 | Talking to multiple girls is the best way.What do you guys do in your lives to have this much free time? I struggle being available for one already. Two would mean I’d have to drop hobbies. I’d have to stop working altogether to go as high as 6-8, jeeeezus | /r/seduction | 23/03/25 08:06 PM |
| 3 | is it true that very few guys, men, are naturals with "game" seduction, attraction? did most men need a mentor or help, guidance on this?No one is a natural. « Naturals » are just people that have been doing it for a long time and had their phase where they messed up when they were kids. | /r/seduction | 22/03/25 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps are still hard even for someone with hundreds of matchesYeah, that’s kind of how I play it. | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps are still hard even for someone with hundreds of matchesI’m kind of in the same boat, as in dating has taken a backseat up until bow, but I don’t struggle with women. What’s the general timeline to offer a date, considering I can only reply once or twice in the evenings ? | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Dating apps are still hard even for someone with hundreds of matchesMy strategy depends on the profile : - for « serious » profiles (literary person, shy looking, introverted) is : talk in increasing volume over three days, then schedule something relating to the interests you gathered during the conversation on the fifth or sixth day. - for « active » profiles : flirt straight out the bat, but keep it honest, and then depending on vibe, offer something within the day or the following day. | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 11:00 AM |
| 3 | Huge mistake! Wrote her a poem and told her about it. (Cringe)The only problem I’m seeing is that you went from off to on in a millisecond. Writing the poem wasn’t really the mistake. Some would absolutely dig that. But that’s something you bring in much later on after having established that kind of vibe in the first place. Also, after having established whether or not that would be the kind of thing she would be into. Only thing you can do is own up to it, not apologize, and move on. | /r/seduction | 30/04/24 09:14 AM |
| 15 | examples you do that show you're not a "nice guy"It’s mostly about not contorting your values in accordance with hers. If she senses you are changing your opinions live to fit with her own, it ain’t gonna work. | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 12:32 PM |
| 27 | My girlfriend is very very sexy and she knows how to turn me on, but sometimes I think she holds that as a power over meEeeeh That becomes toxic quite quickly in my experience. He just needs to not take the bait every single time. | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 12:11 PM |
| 5 | How to talk with women?Like any other bro, but if you were zesty. | /r/seduction | 11/03/24 12:15 AM |
| 8 | Why do women say they don't like players yet they feel attracted to guys with options and a lot of experience in bed?It is in the sense that from experience, a lot of women will say what is socially acceptable whatever it is they truly think. Does vary with the woman though. | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 08:11 PM |
| 7 | 13 Ways To Make Her Want You« l am the source ! » | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 11:18 AM |
| 58 | How to break the touching barrier with a girl without looking like a pervert?It’s mostly about how you interpret it. If you are confident about it, you aren’t going to come off as a creep. If you let the whole thing overwhelm you and start half assing it then it’s going to get awkward. | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 11:14 PM |
| 47 | What things do women go through with dating?Pretty spot on analysis. | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 09:23 PM |
| 3 | How can I reclaim the situation when a woman uses her sexuality to tease me.There are plenty of ways to address that.Depending on your relationship with these people, and how you are generally perceived by people (this is giving me virgin/little brother vibes) you can go for a "nice tits" or you know, anything that isn't sheer embarrassment. Keep it playful you know. Matching the energy is a pretty good strategy. | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 04:49 PM |
| 2 | What is your opinion on fresh and fit\Kevin samuel's take on cheating?My definition is really simple. Cheating ain’t about sleeping around, it’s about saying you won’t, and then doing it. Exercising options means the other is aware of the arrangement, which sometimes happen (some high status men in Arab countries pull it off), but that ain’t what FF are describing. Edit for clarity: aware as in both individuals have intellectualised the arrangement. Not aware as in the woman knows he’s cheating but is pretending she doesn’t. | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 01:24 PM |
| 1 | I think I finally understand relationships with women.They do in retirement homes. | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 09:31 AM |
| 32 | I think I finally understand relationships with women.« It’s all grown children? » cocks gun « Always has been » | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 09:30 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Nice to hear that problem was solved. | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 02:38 PM |
| 9 | [deleted by user]Double return solves that. | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 12:07 AM |
| 18 | Turn down sex and watch her go crazy"I was my own worse enemy". Always were (pulls out gun) | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 04:56 PM |
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